Ashley King and Sophie Lovett run the international side of Pearl, the AI company that reads dental radiographs — and they turn up as a self-confessed package deal. 

The chat starts with what the tech actually does (a second opinion for clinicians, and a way to help patients finally see what’s going on in their own mouths), but it doesn’t stay there for long. Payman, Ashley and Sophie get into US versus UK dentistry, the state of the NHS, why trust beats price every time, and how AI is creeping into everyday work. 

Then it gets personal: women and AI, the awkwardness of asking for a pay rise, what happens when a woman out-earns her partner, and whether having children is selfless or selfish. Honest, funny and occasionally controversial — this one wanders well beyond the X-ray.

 

In This Episode

00:00:50 – Life at a start-up
00:02:20 – Life on the road
00:04:35 – Distributors or your own office
00:06:05 – What Pearl does
00:09:30 – Accuracy and limits
00:10:45 – A controversial take
00:12:45 – AI and the future
00:18:35 – A cottage industry
00:21:20 – US vs UK dentistry
00:24:40 – NHS vs private
00:30:20 – Getting set up
00:34:00 – The price
00:35:40 – Why trust is everything
00:37:45 – The word “sell”
00:40:35 – Living in London
00:46:50 – The worst of America
00:51:50 – Politics
00:56:05 – AI in their own work
01:00:50 – Women and AI
01:02:30 – The pay rise problem
01:05:20 – The gender pay gap
01:08:25 – Femininity as power
01:11:00 – Relationships and self-reliance
01:13:55 – Children
01:16:30 – Out-earning a partner
01:25:10 – “I’m just a hygienist”
01:26:30 – Business influences
01:33:50 – Biggest business mistakes
01:38:40 – Competitors and USP
01:45:40 – Guilty pleasures
01:49:05 – Fantasy dinner party
01:54:00 – Ministry of Sound

About Ashley King & Sophie Lovett

Ashley King leads international partnerships at Pearl, having started out in dental back in 2018 at VOCO; she’s from North Carolina and now calls London home. Sophie Lovett heads up Pearl’s international market development and, despite only three years in dentistry, talks the clinical language like a native. The two are best friends as much as colleagues — which is exactly why they turned up to record together.

Payman Langroudi: Dental educational events need a shake up? I’m really happy to announce that we’ll be doing [00:00:05] a new event in June called The Minimalist Conference at Ministry of Sound, [00:00:10] where we’re going to have 30 speakers and two parties. It starts at 2:00 [00:00:15] and finishes at 2:00 as well on the 13th of June, which is Saturday. [00:00:20] Check out the Instagram page at minimalist dot join [00:00:25] us.

[VOICE]: This [00:00:30] is Dental Leaders. The [00:00:35] podcast where you get to go one on one with emerging leaders in dentistry. Your [00:00:40] hosts Payman Langroudi [00:00:45] and Prav Solanki.

Payman Langroudi: It gives me great pleasure to welcome [00:00:50] Ashley King and Sophie Lovitt onto the podcast from Pearl AI. [00:00:55] Um, nice to have you. Finally, both of you. Would you both do [00:01:00] at Pearl? What’s your job title and what’s yours?

Ashley King: Do you want. Job title [00:01:05] or what we actually do? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Go on. Both.

Ashley King: Well, I mean, this is the I [00:01:10] would say probably everyone. Everyone says this about working [00:01:15] at Start-ups that you wear a million hats. Yeah. So I lead partnerships internationally, [00:01:20] but it’s so much more than that. I would say beyond that, a lot of go to market [00:01:25] strategy. For example, right now I just came back from Australia. We’re kicking off [00:01:30] there. We’ve been there for a couple of years, but now we’re really focusing on it. So looking for hire, getting new [00:01:35] partners out there with integrations, etc.. Sophie. Sophie, I feel like your role has changed [00:01:40] a million times at Pearl, but nonetheless, you’re very valuable.

Sophie Lovett: Who am I today? Um, yeah, [00:01:45] actually, Australia’s great, isn’t it? We kind of went into all markets and we’ve stripped it back. [00:01:50] And I know you’re working across every single time zone at the moment. And so I’ve just changed. [00:01:55] My roles just changed. I’m now doing the international market development. [00:02:00] I’m leading the team there. So this is exciting, but it doesn’t [00:02:05] mean that I’m not doing any of the old things I was doing. As Ashley said, we’re we’re [00:02:10] a Start-Up within a Start-Up. So we’re doing a lot. We’re doing the sales, we’re doing the go to market. We’re doing [00:02:15] the partnerships, but we have a fantastic team behind us.

Payman Langroudi: So [00:02:20] both of you on a plane a lot.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. I’d say Ashley’s got more air miles than [00:02:25] me. Yeah.

Ashley King: I, when I, when I was flying back actually yesterday from, we were at [00:02:30] a wedding in Greece for one of our partners that we work with. And it was fantastic. [00:02:35] But I, I was thinking, how many hours have I been on a plane in the last month and I calculated [00:02:40] it’s over 100. Wow. Yeah. Which is insane.

Sophie Lovett: You did something quite smart, didn’t [00:02:45] you? You went to the to Australia and then the US, and then you’ve ended up back in the middle. So [00:02:50] it’s almost like you’ve outdone the jet lag.

Ashley King: Yeah. I don’t even my body doesn’t know what time [00:02:55] it is. Sometimes I wake up in the hotel room and I’m like, where? Where am I?

Payman Langroudi: When you go somewhere, do you do you [00:03:00] strictly keep it as work or do you like.

Ashley King: No, no.

Payman Langroudi: I give it a couple of days either side or.

Ashley King: I try to [00:03:05] write. I don’t I think I don’t want to look back at this time and regret having to [00:03:10] go to all these pretty cool places and not do things beyond that. Another really great thing, [00:03:15] and Sophie and I have done a lot of work travel together because we work on some of the same things, partners [00:03:20] specifically, and you really get embedded into the culture [00:03:25] when you’re going to see someone that works in a different country, like Norway is a great example. [00:03:30] Um, I knew nothing about Norway and I feel like I’ve really, truly started to understand [00:03:35] like how Norwegians think about certain things, their culture, their differences between, [00:03:40] you know, other, even Nordic countries.

Payman Langroudi: Norwegians are.

Ashley King: Cool. They’re cool. Yeah. And like they show [00:03:45] you around, you have a like guaranteed tour guide when you’re going for work. People love to show. [00:03:50]

Payman Langroudi: You, right? It’s different to real tourism, like to normal tourism because it’s a bit [00:03:55] the difference between like getting an Airbnb and a hotel.

Ashley King: This is it. Yeah, that’s exactly right.

Payman Langroudi: You sort of feel more [00:04:00] part of it.

Ashley King: Yeah. I’m like, I know, I know, I’m down with the Norwegians, you know, like I know what their vibe is. [00:04:05]

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, but they don’t let everybody in. That’s the thing, you know, every country’s different, especially in the Nordics. They’re [00:04:10] so different even between Norway and Finland and Sweden. And, uh, there’s definitely [00:04:15] a feeling when you’re not quite in. And then when you’re in, it’s such a good feeling. And yeah. [00:04:20]

Ashley King: I think the ticket there is, at least in Norway, it was going to karaoke. Uh, that [00:04:25] seems to be my ticket with partners is like, let’s do a karaoke night and just [00:04:30] maybe take a few tequila shots.

Payman Langroudi: What makes the decision as to whether you work with a distributor [00:04:35] or whether you set up an office and it’s like a company owned office?

Ashley King: Yeah. Um, I mean, how do you decide [00:04:40] we’re running so lean? And also we don’t, like I said, we don’t know the culture [00:04:45] of even dentists and what they’re looking for. Germany, great example. They’re very [00:04:50] scared of AI in that country. So we don’t speak the language. So right now internationally, [00:04:55] our default is distributor.

Payman Langroudi: But not here, for instance, not here. So [00:05:00] why is that? I mean, how did that work out?

Ashley King: Oh man. I mean what would you say Sophie?

Sophie Lovett: Because we’re [00:05:05] here. We’ve got we’ve got a team here. Um, and you know, it’s English [00:05:10] speaking. And so this was just a place where we could kind of have a natural [00:05:15] hub. But we’ve realised with that some of the nuances of the different countries that it’s really, really tricky. [00:05:20] Like you said, we thought we could just go to Germany and kind of replicate the strategy. Um, but [00:05:25] what works is just not one size fits all. And for example, our Netherlands dealer, we, [00:05:30] I don’t even know how we got in with him, but he is fantastic. Um, [00:05:35] but we, we just kind of have the strategy down here. We work really well with distributors [00:05:40] and suppliers here, but.

Ashley King: I think also time zones, like simply for the fact that [00:05:45] our, our main office is in LA. So working with Finland, for example. [00:05:50] It’s like a ten hour time difference. It’s kind of impossible to be successful doing that.

Payman Langroudi: So [00:05:55] I had I had Officer Tan, who’s the founder, episode 203 about [00:06:00] must have been two and a half years ago. Yeah. And anyone who wants to know how Pearl came [00:06:05] about needs to listen to that episode. But let’s just summarise what what is [00:06:10] the product? It’s an AI enhanced radiograph interpreter. [00:06:15] Is that correct?

Sophie Lovett: I mean you couldn’t have said it better. Yeah. [00:06:20] Essentially what it’s doing is it is looking at radiographs. And it’s using [00:06:25] millions and millions of pieces of data and data points to be able to interpret greyscale, [00:06:30] to look at all sorts of variables and have a look at different pathologies. So [00:06:35] in a matter of seconds, you take the radiograph and the AI is going to appear. So we’re looking at not [00:06:40] just caries. We’re looking at bone loss. We’re looking at periapical radiolucency [00:06:45] and we’re looking at nerves. We’re looking at all sorts of different things. We’re We’re looking at being able to compare it over time as well. [00:06:50] But it’s here to help enhance the clinician. Right. [00:06:55] So, um, it’s like spell check. You know, it’s there as a support mechanism, [00:07:00] but where the human eye is limited to, I think 50 shades [00:07:05] of grey. Um, this can see hundreds, thousands. So it’s [00:07:10] really there as a second opinion, an assistant tool for reading those radiographs. [00:07:15]

Payman Langroudi: But a communication tool too. Right. I mean, I don’t know. I haven’t practised [00:07:20] for a few years now, but you that sort of blank face of a patient when you show them an [00:07:25] X-ray.

Sophie Lovett: Right.

Payman Langroudi: And people pretend to understand what you’re saying, but it’s very difficult. Yeah. [00:07:30] Very difficult to see what’s going on. So would you say it’s more of a communication tool [00:07:35] or more of a diagnostic tool or both or what? What’s the story?

Ashley King: I would say it’s more patient [00:07:40] education. Yeah. And I think dentists forget that [00:07:45] non-clinical people, when they look at an X-ray, we have no clue what [00:07:50] is going on. Yeah, and I’m guilty of this even in my life, talking about AI with my friends, I’m [00:07:55] like, oh, well, okay, I thought this was, you know, beginner level knowledge. [00:08:00] And then I talked to my friends about certain AI tools that I’m using. And they’re just like, minds [00:08:05] are blown. So I think it’s very easy to forget when you’re deep into a field [00:08:10] that actually this is like, I don’t know, rocket science to [00:08:15] people, essentially.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: So my friend came home once and she [00:08:20] said to me, because she’s my old housemate, she said, my dentist has given me a filling. [00:08:25] I said, your dentist hasn’t given you a filling. You know, you’re not flossing. Uh, [00:08:30] uh, you know, you’re not maybe brushing the right amount of time, not using a fluoridated toothpaste. [00:08:35] You’ve kind of given yourself a filling. I then showed her the AI, not her own [00:08:40] radiograph, but just kind of an example. And it was that real eureka moment. There’s [00:08:45] a fantastic dentist in the north. Doctor Kunal Rai from Meliora Dental, and he posted something [00:08:50] yesterday on Instagram of an area of decay that hadn’t quite gone [00:08:55] past the enamel yet. So it was showing up on pearl as this yellow [00:09:00] blob. And then he put up a post saying the patient didn’t accept [00:09:05] treatment. Um, so he was looking at early preventative treatments. And now this area of decay had progressed [00:09:10] past the enamel into the dentine and beyond. So now the patient is [00:09:15] accepting treatment. But last year they hadn’t seen that the pearl, they hadn’t seen the colours. They hadn’t seen the tooth part segmentation. [00:09:20] So they just didn’t get it. So they didn’t work early enough to do something that would [00:09:25] have helped preserve the lifespan of that tooth.

Payman Langroudi: And then what about what are the [00:09:30] problems with it? I mean, false positives. False negatives.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I mean what’s [00:09:35] the rate of that? Have you got a rate of of errors that it makes.

Ashley King: It’s dependent on the image quality of course. [00:09:40] Yeah. So it’s hard to quantify that, but I mean, anyone that uses [00:09:45] AI knows that it doesn’t always get it right. Sure. So I say it’s like your GPS or [00:09:50] sorry, you call it satnav here. Um, it tells you where it thinks [00:09:55] you should go, but you’re still the one driving the car, which is why it’s called second opinion.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. [00:10:00] Um, so we have some of the most fantastic minds at Pearl. [00:10:05] So we’ve got a computer vision team. They’ve just improved our caries model by [00:10:10] 13%. So when we’re looking at provided [00:10:15] the quality of the image is acceptable, we’re looking at about 9,394% [00:10:20] accuracy. But then within that with, as I said, we’ve just improved that by another [00:10:25] 13%. And so we’ve got some fantastic minds working on it. But the reason that it’s [00:10:30] not here to replace is because it’s not perfect.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: That’s, you [00:10:35] know, it’s always going to have to work alongside a clinician and equally, you know, do you want a here is your [00:10:40] report from a computer? No. It has to still be delivered by the clinician. I like [00:10:45] the fact it’s not perfect because if you ask me, this is controversial. I’m going to say it.

Ashley King: I [00:10:50] like.

Sophie Lovett: It. I hope, I hope no one’s listening. I personally wouldn’t let [00:10:55] students have it straight out of university. I’m sorry.

Ashley King: That’s contrarian.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. [00:11:00] Because I think people really need to cut their teeth on being able to read radiographs as well [00:11:05] and being critical of the AI. The reason that we [00:11:10] have approvals and we have certifications is because it has been proven [00:11:15] that when you work with the AI, the clinicians, the clinician, and, you know, [00:11:20] together they work better than if it was just one or separately. But I do really [00:11:25] think it’s important that we don’t just fully rely on something. Um, yeah. [00:11:30] So that’s, that’s, that’s my controversial opinion.

Ashley King: I, I will, I agree with you [00:11:35] to a certain level. So I think that it’s a good, It shouldn’t be the default. So for [00:11:40] example, now in university, everyone’s writing their essays, right? With ChatGPT or whatever [00:11:45] their LLM is. And personally, I wrote some very [00:11:50] long, robust research papers in uni. And I think that it taught me a lot. [00:11:55] So but I wish that I had ChatGPT to do two things. [00:12:00] One, like spell check and just maybe give some suggestions, but two, to do [00:12:05] the sources because that was the worst. But I think if I was a clinician that was just entering [00:12:10] the field, I would use it after I looked at it first, essentially as like you said, a spell check. [00:12:15]

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. And actually, I find that most clinicians are quite competitive anyway, which is great. You know, what [00:12:20] do you got to do. Get four A’s at a level now to become a dentist? Three. Three. Yeah. [00:12:25] Um so you know, they’re pretty good anyway and they’re quite competitive. So where [00:12:30] it takes ten 20s anyway for the AI to overlay, a lot of clinicians are [00:12:35] kind of competing with themselves. And then, you know, it comes through and it’s, oh, gosh, you know. Yeah, yeah, [00:12:40] it’s a.

Ashley King: Good way to think about.

Sophie Lovett: It. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, it’s a funny thing. Yeah. Because [00:12:45] what will happen to society because of AI is the [00:12:50] first time you can’t tell in 3 or 4 years time what life is going to be like.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, really. [00:12:55] But what about the industrial revolution? I mean, we.

Ashley King: Would have the internet when it came out. We didn’t know Uber [00:13:00] would exist.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah. But the rate of it is really quite crazy. My daughter says she wants to be a dentist [00:13:05] and she’s 16. And I’m saying by the time she becomes a dentist eight [00:13:10] years time, surely a robot’s going to be doing it, you know?

Ashley King: I think so, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Man, what does [00:13:15] it take? It takes it takes a brain. The brain’s already better than ours. Yeah. It takes AIS. [00:13:20] It gets X-ray vision thing going on. And then. Are you telling me they can’t make hands better than these? [00:13:25] They’ll make hands that can rotate. 360 hands come out of their hands. You know what I mean?

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, but you still got, you [00:13:30] know, where you look at that in surgery, where you’ve got people doing remote surgery, even from different [00:13:35] countries. Yeah. Yeah. You know, those robot arms are so much better than the, you know, the human shaking [00:13:40] hand. But again, I just see our relationship with [00:13:45] AI, with technology improving at the moment. We’re just we’re in the dating [00:13:50] zone with, with this sort of tech. And we don’t know whether they want to go steady with [00:13:55] us or whether they just want to carry on. You know, it is we’re all a bit unsure, but I [00:14:00] think that as we progress, we’ll find our relationship sweet spot with AI. If we don’t, that’s [00:14:05] a human problem. But do you know what’s making AI humans?

Ashley King: So I think the pendulum [00:14:10] is actually going to swing in terms of.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, you’re right.

Ashley King: People are going.

Payman Langroudi: To be in person. [00:14:15] Stuff will be, this is it. So we’re doing this event at Ministry of Sound, whatever. Yeah. But in [00:14:20] the same way as now, the pendulum swung like people want vinyl records.

Ashley King: Yeah, exactly. [00:14:25]

Payman Langroudi: It’s a it’s a niche thing. Yeah. So as a niche thing, yeah, I hear you.

Ashley King: I [00:14:30] don’t think that I don’t think it’s niche to want real human interaction. I think that’s just [00:14:35] how we biologically are. So I even think about going to a restaurant, right? [00:14:40] Uh, if there were robots serving versus, you know, [00:14:45] and sorry, you know, serving is once again another UK term, as we say in the US, robot waitresses [00:14:50] versus, you know, real waitresses. I’m going to choose the one with the real, even [00:14:55] if the robot ones are more efficient because I want to be around people. [00:15:00]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: People buy from people. People buy from.

Payman Langroudi: People. I wouldn’t be surprised if my kids [00:15:05] married a robot.

Sophie Lovett: Well, that’s probably, well.

Ashley King: Not parenting male loneliness [00:15:10] epidemic. So maybe if you have any.

Payman Langroudi: Because like you look at you look at your discovery.

Sophie Lovett: I hope [00:15:15] you’re very proud.

Payman Langroudi: Listen, you look at your discover page. You look at your discover page. That goddamn thing knows you [00:15:20] better than you know yourself. Yeah, but so, so.

Ashley King: Scary thought if.

Payman Langroudi: The robot, if the robot [00:15:25] knows you better than you know yourself, like knows exactly what you want, and then you put some pair of glasses on and it looks like [00:15:30] whatever you want it to look like.

Sophie Lovett: And would you marry yourself.

Payman Langroudi: If [00:15:35] the programming is perfect? Yeah. Then then why wouldn’t you? You [00:15:40] know, in a way, it’s a bit sad to say.

Sophie Lovett: But I just think it’s the same.

Payman Langroudi: As my children. My grandchildren. [00:15:45]

Sophie Lovett: Maybe your grandchildren will be. And we’re all very proud of them. And what [00:15:50] a great ceremony. And I hope it’s not too expensive for you. But, I mean, you could say, [00:15:55] you know, why didn’t the people who invented the wheel fall in love with the wheel? You know, we all fall in love with [00:16:00] some people do. But, you know, it’s just people are intrinsically [00:16:05] linked to people when we all saw each other.

Payman Langroudi: Have you enabled voice on ChatGPT [00:16:10] or Gemini? You can have a two hour conversation with.

Ashley King: Oh yeah, I mean, I do sometimes. [00:16:15]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Me too. Yeah.

Ashley King: Absolutely. I did before this podcast.

Payman Langroudi: You’ve never done that.

Sophie Lovett: So I, [00:16:20] I always talk to it. Yeah. But I listened to an AI podcast [00:16:25] to see if I could listen to it. And it sounds so real, but it’s [00:16:30] so not. There’s just something about human.

Payman Langroudi: I know it’s very early days.

Ashley King: I [00:16:35] think there’s something like esoteric spiritual that you.

Sophie Lovett: Can’t.

Ashley King: Explain [00:16:40] when it comes to human connection. I don’t think.

Payman Langroudi: Are we going to get to God, though? It’s [00:16:45] a bit early in the podcast.

Sophie Lovett: Payman always finds [00:16:50] God.

Ashley King: I mean, you know, there’s something bigger than us. We don’t know everything. [00:16:55] We don’t know why we’re here. So I think there may be unexplainable neurobiological. [00:17:00] They might be explainable as well. But you’re right.

Payman Langroudi: You’re right, you’re right. We don’t know everything. That’s for sure. That’s for sure. [00:17:05]

Sophie Lovett: Can I just touch on that? Payman. Do you think there’s something bigger, bigger than us? Do you think there’s a [00:17:10] sort of higher.

Payman Langroudi: Higher energy? Whatever.

Ashley King: Oh, yeah. We had this conversation in a cab in. [00:17:15]

Sophie Lovett: This.

Ashley King: Conversation after the dentist.

Payman Langroudi: Show me. Every time we meet, we talk, [00:17:20] we talk about. We talk about God. Um, yeah. Listen.

Sophie Lovett: We [00:17:25] love.

Payman Langroudi: Listen, listen, listen. There is. There’s definitely something else other than this. This. Yeah, there’s [00:17:30] something else. But I think it’s more like, you know, doors of perception kind of thing. Yeah. That, you know, we [00:17:35] can right now perceive some stuff. We can’t see all the radio waves [00:17:40] and UV rays going on. So those things are here, but we can’t see them.

Ashley King: So the [00:17:45] 3D reality.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

Ashley King: So what we see.

Payman Langroudi: But but the question of is there good and bad. [00:17:50] That’s where I sort of fall over. Yeah. Is there good and evil?

Sophie Lovett: I think we got really existential. [00:17:55] And I think this is probably you know, it takes us back to why do clinicians want [00:18:00] to use Perl? And I think you can use AI, or you can use Perl, or you can use whatever [00:18:05] for good or evil. You know, you can totally sit back and do nothing and [00:18:10] you can, you know, have something that’s a support. But actually everything works better when you have a good [00:18:15] relationship with it. Um, if I look at the best clinicians, I [00:18:20] know they are using every thing to give everything they possibly can for the patients [00:18:25] to give them the best consent journey, the best treatment planning. And if something [00:18:30] goes wrong, then they’ve done all that they possibly can. Things go wrong. Things go wrong all the time.

Payman Langroudi: Interesting [00:18:35] listening to you. You’re talking and you’re using sort of Dental vocab. Like it’s like [00:18:40] second nature to you. But you’ve only been in dentistry for how long?

Sophie Lovett: Nearly three [00:18:45] years, isn’t it? I mean, I went to my first dental event when I was 18, so.

Payman Langroudi: It feels like you’ve [00:18:50] been in dentistry much longer than that, which is like, I guess a, you know, testament, right. But I [00:18:55] want to ask you, how long have you been in dentistry?

Ashley King: I started in dental [00:19:00] in 2018, so about eight years.

Payman Langroudi: But 2018.

Ashley King: I’ve, I’ve had a few pivots [00:19:05] along the way. I will say Sophie, clinically, she has far more [00:19:10] knowledge than me, but I think I think it’s because she’s just been extremely curious.

Payman Langroudi: But you went with Pearl [00:19:15] 2018. There was no Pearl.

Ashley King: No, I wasn’t I was with my now boss, Erica, [00:19:20] and we were at Voco, which is. I’m sure you’re familiar. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, [00:19:25] so I want to ask. I mean, dentists think we’re so different, you know, to [00:19:30] everyone else. We think it’s a very like nishi. Interesting. It’s different to everything else. What [00:19:35] is it about dentistry that surprised you the most?

Sophie Lovett: I think [00:19:40] especially when we look at the comparison between the US and the UK, the UK [00:19:45] dental market is so small. Everybody knows everybody. [00:19:50]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, it’s a cottage industry, right?

Sophie Lovett: It is. But it’s it’s tiny. And I think [00:19:55] that’s really exciting because you can work with people you actually really enjoy working with. And [00:20:00] I mean, when I’m at dinner and the dental chat gets [00:20:05] going, I honestly, my dad is just bored to tears with it when I’m with my father, my [00:20:10] poor father.

Payman Langroudi: But because both your brothers.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, I have four brothers. [00:20:15]

Ashley King: And now I come to the family dinner sometimes.

Sophie Lovett: Ashley’s family.

Ashley King: And he’s like, please [00:20:20] don’t invite her. Don’t talk about dentistry.

Sophie Lovett: I was like, oh my goodness me, [00:20:25] what a boring conversation. It’s so exciting. And but it’s because [00:20:30] I think if you look at, um medical and GP [00:20:35] practices and hospital and stuff, I don’t think they’ve got so much choice about what they can do on a day to [00:20:40] day basis. Whereas I think principal dentists and groups, etc. [00:20:45] have a lot more access to technologies, to changes [00:20:50] in a way that’s almost unprecedented. You know.

Payman Langroudi: That’s why he targeted dentistry, [00:20:55] really, because hospitals are, you know, the decision making process is so difficult. Yeah. And [00:21:00] you’re right, GPS are very slow to adopt stuff.

Ashley King: There’s so much more bureaucracy in healthcare and monopolies [00:21:05] and.

Payman Langroudi: Dentists like toys.

Ashley King: Yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: The kind of there’s a lot of dentists [00:21:10] who are early adopters on toys. Yeah. But but you know, what are the reflections about dentists? [00:21:15] What you know, what, what is it about dentists that you sort of didn’t expect.

Ashley King: I [00:21:20] mean, I have a really interesting lens, I think, because I came from the US [00:21:25] and then to here, it’s it’s night and.

Payman Langroudi: Day difference between American and UK. So American is [00:21:30] much more commercial.

Ashley King: It is. And I mean, they go through more schooling. They spend a [00:21:35] lot more money on schooling coming out of, you know, with 250 [00:21:40] K in debt. And then but they’re guaranteed to make a lot more money. Right. [00:21:45] Um, some pulling the standard is 500. Probably, I don’t know. I would have to [00:21:50] look, but you know, millionaires essentially. And I think the reason people go [00:21:55] into dentistry is maybe a little bit different because it is more of [00:22:00] a lucrative career. I know that it’s lucrative here as well. But [00:22:05] in terms of your upside financially, um, it’s [00:22:10] more money focussed. Yeah. So if I’m being honest.

Payman Langroudi: Versus let me tell you an example, we do a composite [00:22:15] course here.

Ashley King: Right?

Payman Langroudi: We do the exact same composite course in Chicago with same teacher, [00:22:20] same content. Yeah. In Chicago we charge twice as much as we charge here. [00:22:25] Um, the every single dentist who comes to the class ends up [00:22:30] buying product. Every single one. Here we’d have to charge half as much. [00:22:35] And, you know, you get you sell a better stuff here and there, but it’s not like there’s not that [00:22:40] that sort of go getter ness from the dentist. Yeah. Um, so I’d [00:22:45] expect like selling Perl much easier in America than here. Is that correct or. No.

Speaker 5: I would say. [00:22:50]

Sophie Lovett: I think people are pretty open to it in the UK.

Ashley King: I think the [00:22:55] value translates in both.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Ashley King: Because it’s not solely about just [00:23:00] direct ROI. While that’s a big piece of it. It [00:23:05] also is about building patient trust and your day to day right. And offloading your workload. [00:23:10] This is a problem that exists in both territories. You know, dentists are running a [00:23:15] business. They didn’t go to dental school to run a business. They went to dental school [00:23:20] to learn how to provide great patient care. And that’s a problem that exists across every [00:23:25] single global market.

Sophie Lovett: You know what? I think you’ve.

Payman Langroudi: Have you sold to American dentists? [00:23:30]

Sophie Lovett: Yes. It’s the easiest thing in the world. Yeah. I just put up the price. No. [00:23:35] Yeah. It’s I don’t know, it’s more.

Ashley King: Expensive in the US.

Sophie Lovett: I think. I think it’s just [00:23:40] because of the British accent. Hello. Would you like to buy something? You know, it could be. Yeah. It’s, [00:23:45] you know, so I, I don’t actually know how easy or hard it is to sell that, but [00:23:50] my experience is it’s fairly easy. But what was.

Ashley King: It Jackie like? Went to a show in [00:23:55] the US and.

Sophie Lovett: He made.

Ashley King: The most sales.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Ashley King: Americans love, you know, an English [00:24:00] accent, which.

Sophie Lovett: Is novelty factor. But I think in the UK where we do really well is you’ve [00:24:05] got people who purchase from us exactly as Ashley said, for the the return, [00:24:10] because it’s a product that very easily brings a return, but actually on the other side, [00:24:15] you have the clinicians who use it because they’re super moral, because [00:24:20] they want to give their patients all of the communication. They don’t ask [00:24:25] about any return on investment. They just want everything that is available for them.

Payman Langroudi: The latest thing.

Sophie Lovett: They [00:24:30] want the latest thing, but they want something that is, yeah, it’s all about the patients for some of them. So that’s [00:24:35] why we have we don’t really have an issue at all with when we speak with UK clinicians.

Ashley King: I would say what [00:24:40] this has happened to me a few times here in the UK when I’ve spoken to clinicians [00:24:45] is they’re doing a lot of NHS dentistry and this is [00:24:50] bad, but there have been a few dentists that have said to me, oh, I don’t want your tool [00:24:55] because, you know, we surface up to 30% more detections. And that means I’m going [00:25:00] to have to provide more treatment to my NHS.

Payman Langroudi: Patients supervised neglect kind of idea. [00:25:05]

Ashley King: Because if I see it on the now, I actually have to address it. So that’s [00:25:10] bad. But there are some dentists that think that way. Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: But the [00:25:15] thing is, though, again, there’s that moral thing of, okay, you may not be able to treat as much, but you’re [00:25:20] seeing far more. So you just have to be a bit more discerning about who you are treating. So it’s not a case of, [00:25:25] you know, I’m blindly not looking. It’s just they just have to treat the most important things. But [00:25:30] that’s, you know, that’s the problem that I see personally, um, [00:25:35] when I’m looking at England, Scotland and Wales as well, the devolved governments and how [00:25:40] different dentistry is and how it’s run in terms of the NHS. And I just don’t see how [00:25:45] it’s sustainable, particularly within England and Wales. And that’s one of the most eye opening things [00:25:50] about working in dental is the difference between private and NHS. I like [00:25:55] the Scottish system as a comparison to the.

Payman Langroudi: Which is a cheaper [00:26:00] item.

Sophie Lovett: It’s a fee per item, you know, it’s not perfect, but if you look at the comparison, if you look at the kind [00:26:05] of general happiness of Scottish clinicians, it seems on par Paul [00:26:10] more elevated. But the crazy thing is, is you’ve got people who know very little [00:26:15] about dentistry, puppeteering, things in the NHS. There was a [00:26:20] talk at the Parliament the other day, and they were talking about giving a few million more pounds to [00:26:25] NHS dentistry, and there was a nice little clap in the room. But a few million pounds is absolutely [00:26:30] nothing in the grand scheme of the NHS. So the biggest eye opening [00:26:35] factor for me is how can we get these people who have done really well at school, [00:26:40] who’ve gone to university for seven years, who are putting their heart and soul into something? How can [00:26:45] we pay them? How can we pay them better? How can we level the playing field between private and NHS? That [00:26:50] for me is the the craziest thing.

Payman Langroudi: Look, I think it’s problematic, right? Because [00:26:55] if we compare to the US for instance, the healthcare. Yeah. [00:27:00] If if your grandma had an issue a medical issue. Yeah. [00:27:05] I’d be very happy to tell my grandma. Go to your local GP. Yeah. For free. [00:27:10] Yeah. And I’d be very happy for her to be referred to a local hospital for free [00:27:15] and be seen. And I think that’s a that’s a good level of care. Yeah. In the US they’ve got this thing about listen, [00:27:20] go find the best doctor in the country. And you know, the best doctor in the country isn’t going to be free. And you know, there’s that [00:27:25] level of agency people want with their healthcare. They want to pick the best guy. Yeah. [00:27:30] So there’s that. But if my grandma had toothache, yeah. I wouldn’t [00:27:35] hand on heart say go find an NHS dentist. I wouldn’t.

Sophie Lovett: You know, wouldn’t you.

Payman Langroudi: Know, because the NHS [00:27:40] hasn’t got time or money to fix that tooth.

Ashley King: It’s the time piece. Absolutely. I’ve [00:27:45] had a discussion with an NHS dentist at the show, and she was telling me how [00:27:50] just she has to move through patients so quickly, and even how second opinion would be great for her, [00:27:55] because then she would have to spend less time looking at X-rays. But I mean, it’s insane how what is expected [00:28:00] of NHS given.

Payman Langroudi: The opposite advice to friends and family. I definitely don’t find an NHS [00:28:05] dentist for this problem, but.

Ashley King: It’s not their fault, right?

Payman Langroudi: It’s his fault, but the system’s fault, [00:28:10] right?

Ashley King: Exactly. And like Sophie, you said, they’re saying, you know, we’ll throw a few million at it. It’s like, well, it’s a fundamentally [00:28:15] broken system, which, by the way, I have many thoughts about our system in the US, insurance wise. Insurance [00:28:20] companies in general are just problematic in creating a lot of issues for us. But here it’s also [00:28:25] fundamentally broken. Don’t don’t throw money at it. Like look at the I.

Sophie Lovett: Mean, if you’re going to throw money [00:28:30] at it, throw more than a tenner as well, right?

Payman Langroudi: But there’s health care inflation as well. I mean, it’s the [00:28:35] crazy thing is here that we’re spending more on health per capita now than ever before. [00:28:40] And yet the NHS is more on its knees than ever before because stuff’s [00:28:45] getting more expensive. Health care is getting more expensive.

Sophie Lovett: Life is just expensive. And you have these specialist dentists [00:28:50] as well, who could be earning 300 plus thousand pounds a year, and they’re having to save. Now [00:28:55] people are having. Yes, it’s a we there’s a lot of issues that need sorting [00:29:00] out. Um, but, you know, essentially Pearl is there to make clinicians [00:29:05] lives easier. And there’s we love it, don’t we, doctor Amanda Bassey [00:29:10] Duke in in Scotland. So she just decided to take it upon herself [00:29:15] to time how much she was saving per visit.

Payman Langroudi: Because of per.

Sophie Lovett: Because of per. Yeah. [00:29:20] And we were saying this to dentists weren’t we. Up and down the country. She’s saving I think it was nine minutes, 33 [00:29:25] seconds or something. And an NHS dentist stopped me and said, you know, I’d [00:29:30] have less than six minutes left of my appointment. You can’t be saying that. You know, that’s the difference between Scotland [00:29:35] and England and saving of nine minutes in some Dental [00:29:40] per what? Per per appointment, per appointment.

Ashley King: In terms of diagnosing [00:29:45] herself and then speaking to.

Sophie Lovett: The nation, isn’t that incredible? So she actually took it upon [00:29:50] herself to time every single visit. She makes me laugh. She she, [00:29:55] if you ask her, why wouldn’t you have Pearl? She is [00:30:00] so fervent about it, you know, why wouldn’t you have it? It’s absolutely fantastic system. She just doesn’t [00:30:05] understand why everybody doesn’t have it. It has been completely transformative for [00:30:10] her. Um, and, but I just thought that was incredible case study. And we have some people who’ve [00:30:15] done case studies for us where it really surfaces things that we wouldn’t even thought about.

Payman Langroudi: So let’s go [00:30:20] through the process. Let’s say I’m a dentist, I decide I want Pearl, I call you Sophie. What happens next? [00:30:25]

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. So we look at what imaging system that you’re using and then we go [00:30:30] based on that. So if you’re I mean, we work with pretty much every single imaging system. So [00:30:35] we would then set you up with it. So it all happens remotely. You don’t need to do anything.

Payman Langroudi: No one visits. [00:30:40]

Sophie Lovett: No no, no, it’s all everything’s remote, you know, it’s a. And then what we would [00:30:45] do is you would just take your radiographs as you normally would, and then we can give you a system. So [00:30:50] it’s a separate web browser. And then you’d be able to access all the AI. So you can [00:30:55] access everything from there. But what we’re trying to do and this is where Ashley has been working, [00:31:00] is we’re trying to improve that workflow. So [00:31:05] we now work with the likes of Dental Vision. So the AI that you have in there, dental vision, AI, [00:31:10] DB, AI that’s pearls technology. So you’re not even having to move the you’re not even [00:31:15] having to change browser clinicians do not like clicking, do they? Actually, yeah, we work with we [00:31:20] work natively. So natively means when we are embedded within an existing system with [00:31:25] the likes of Care Stream and Rumex, I mean, you can talk much more about this actually, because you’ve been working on [00:31:30] those partnerships and getting them up and running.

Ashley King: Yeah. Your point about [00:31:35] clinicians not wanting to change their workflow has been a focus for us. [00:31:40] We want to make lives easier, not harder, obviously. Um, so yeah, I would say most of [00:31:45] the main imaging systems people are using in the UK and globally, like [00:31:50] the top 3 to 5 were integrated and yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Okay, what happens now? [00:31:55] You she’s got, she’s, she downloaded something and she’s got, she’s got the. Is [00:32:00] there training.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. So we, we’ll pull from the server again. So it’s all just streamlined [00:32:05] there for you. So what I would say is so we’ll send out video training. Um, [00:32:10] you can train yourself on the things that you need to know in five [00:32:15] minutes.

Payman Langroudi: Oh really.

Sophie Lovett: And everything that is nice to know in [00:32:20] less than a day. And that is feedback that I’ve had from clinicians who’ve told me that it’s [00:32:25] scary again, actually, I think you mentioned earlier your friends saying about, oh, AI, and [00:32:30] we kind of just assume that people know exactly what we’re talking about. And I do not want to assume [00:32:35] that people will be able to learn in the same way or anything like that, but you [00:32:40] cannot break it. So what it will do is it will just overlay with the AI, you’ll have a list of pathologies, [00:32:45] they will automatically be selected for you. And then we have just this patient presentation [00:32:50] button which is called tooth parts, which is the colour overlay. Um, that is [00:32:55] the one button that I would want to just train on everything else. You can learn yourself edits, printouts, [00:33:00] enhancing the image, um, flipping it, changing it, inverting colour, etc.. [00:33:05]

Payman Langroudi: Let’s say I’m not on Dental. How do I get that that extra into the notes, the pearl [00:33:10] into the notes.

Sophie Lovett: Um, so in terms of your note system, what you can do is you can [00:33:15] just select to save it. So you can just pull it down as a PDF into your notes, so straight [00:33:20] into your notes. But what happens is because it’s a separate web browser, if you’re not in Dental, [00:33:25] for example, um, you can access it all the time. So I know when I first start [00:33:30] showing people it, they think, how do I get into my notes? How do I get back to it? It will all [00:33:35] stay there. One of the nice things about that is that that then makes it fully remote for [00:33:40] you as well. So where clinicians were, you know, using wet film or using, um, server [00:33:45] based products really kind of tied them to the [00:33:50] practice. Now you can access your radiographs from home or in your case, your, your yacht [00:33:55] in the Riviera, and you could do your notes from there, for example.

Payman Langroudi: Then. [00:34:00] Okay. How much does it cost?

Sophie Lovett: It’s £249 [00:34:05] per month plus VAT currently.

Payman Langroudi: Per dentist.

Ashley King: Per.

Sophie Lovett: Clinic, per clinic. [00:34:10]

Payman Langroudi: Or per clinic.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. So we, you know, what is it works out around pound per [00:34:15] patient in some practices.

Payman Langroudi: However many chairs I’ve got.

Ashley King: Up to.

Sophie Lovett: About ten [00:34:20] chairs 10 to.

Ashley King: 15. We’re pretty flexible on it. We have a.

Payman Langroudi: One chair and ten chairs. Same cost.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. [00:34:25] So around 250 to £300 per month is what you’re going to your pitch.

Payman Langroudi: Your [00:34:30] pitch is you’re going to make that up in the in the treatment uptake because patients [00:34:35] will trust you more because is that what you’re saying?

Sophie Lovett: So as Ashley mentioned earlier, we are surfacing about [00:34:40] 3,033% more diseases being detected. So one [00:34:45] you’ve got that. So, you know, sometimes our eyes can be focussed on a specific area. We may have missed something. [00:34:50] Secondly that acceptance of treatment because of the. Aha! I understand [00:34:55] what I’m looking at. It’s far quicker. That’s where Doctor Amanda’s nine [00:35:00] minute, 33 seconds time saving came in. So yeah, quicker treatment acceptance. [00:35:05] If for example the patient isn’t the bill payer as well, we’ll give them something to take home [00:35:10] so that they can show somebody else. Seeing is believing. If I go to the mechanic, don’t [00:35:15] want to fix my car, but I really want to know what I am paying for. Um, [00:35:20] so when we’ve got patients who don’t know what it is because [00:35:25] they can’t feel it, you know, they don’t know what’s going on, you know, the second that you’ve got something that is, is [00:35:30] non-sentient, it doesn’t feel there’s no reason for the AI to be detecting [00:35:35] any more or less. It’s just that it’s a shame, but it’s that, okay, I trust you now. [00:35:40]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I mean, dentistry is a game of trust. 1,000%. Right? Because [00:35:45] most of the time you can’t tell as a patient anything that’s happened. Yeah. In your mouth, which [00:35:50] is hence, you know, people get lovely waiting rooms and stuff like that to try and say, hey, you know, [00:35:55] the other signs that I’m good other than the teeth don’t hurt. Um, [00:36:00] and then just get this wrong sometimes, you know, like the trust point is the [00:36:05] key point. Um, if you know, we have people asking us, oh, if I [00:36:10] drop the price, will I do more whitening? And it’s not.

Sophie Lovett: All [00:36:15] the time.

Payman Langroudi: It’s not a commodity, you know, like commodities work that way. Yeah, yeah. But it’s not a commodity. [00:36:20] It’s the exact opposite of a commodity. It’s like, you know, very personalised care. Yeah. And [00:36:25] the question of, you know, if I’m selling, we’ve got, you know, some guys got cheap whitening for £300 [00:36:30] and now we’ve got expensive whitening for £600, let’s say. Does it mean if I, [00:36:35] if I’m selling 600 will I sell half as much. They really people really believe that. Whereas [00:36:40] actually, if the patient trusts you to 300 they’ll trust you to 3000. [00:36:45] It’s the trust point. That’s the key. And I guess, you know, if I can increase trust with [00:36:50] Pearl. It’s huge. It’s huge. I wouldn’t for you guys. I wouldn’t even go in selling [00:36:55] pounds per second or nine minutes. I know these are things that you’re going to add on. Yeah. [00:37:00] But it’s trust. If I can increase trust from my patients, it’s gigantic.

Ashley King: I think we [00:37:05] forget as well how it does improve trust, because AI in [00:37:10] some instances has become a bit of a dirty word, probably because of fear. Yeah. [00:37:15] But we ran a survey and what was the percentage? 70% of 70 plus percent of patients [00:37:20] said that they trusted their dentists more because they were using AI. Yeah. [00:37:25] And it goes back even to the conversation we were having before about, you know, it’s about person [00:37:30] to person, interpersonal communication, all of these things, relationships. [00:37:35] You can’t replace that. And you have to build it in order to be [00:37:40] truly successful. There’s no AI will never actually replace that, but it can enhance it. [00:37:45]

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. I talk to students a lot of the time and they [00:37:50] I when they’re still at university and when they finish university. [00:37:55] And something I hear so much is my patients aren’t [00:38:00] accepting, I’m not able to sell it. The word sell in dentistry is a real surprising [00:38:05] word that I never expected.

Ashley King: It feels very American.

Sophie Lovett: It’s a real. It’s a. I think it’s a real shame. [00:38:10] Why is it that we’re having to. Or clinicians are having to sell what they know that they’re doing. So [00:38:15] if I walked into the hospital.

Payman Langroudi: You can you can stick another word in it, but it’s selling.

Sophie Lovett: But [00:38:20] you are like, because why are we convincing this patient that they need a root [00:38:25] canal? It shouldn’t be that we’re looking.

Ashley King: You know what, I imagine it feels like I’m not a clinician, but as a [00:38:30] when you go into the supermarket and you don’t buy anything and then you leave and you [00:38:35] are like, I didn’t do anything wrong. But I’m wondering if someone’s assuming that I’m like doing [00:38:40] something wrong. You feel kind of guilty and weird. That’s probably what it feels like when you have a patient walk in. [00:38:45] Maybe that doesn’t have pain and maybe you find, you know, three carries, you’re asking them to [00:38:50] get treatment and you’re like, oh, like you feel this weird feeling. [00:38:55] I imagine that’s what it’d feel like.

Payman Langroudi: As a dentist.

Ashley King: Will you.

Payman Langroudi: Tell me? You’re right, you’re right. And then often [00:39:00] you don’t know when was the last time this person saw a dentist? Yeah. And plus, get three dentists, [00:39:05] get four treatment plans, you know, like that’s it.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: People disagree with each other. Um, [00:39:10] you’ve met my wife? Yeah. She’s a total let’s wait and see type [00:39:15] of dentist. She is excellent. And then you get the other type who’s like early intervention, like get in as quick [00:39:20] as you can before it gets any worse. Yeah. Like, you know, like, let’s crown it while we still [00:39:25] can kind of approach and very the US approach actually.

Ashley King: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: They [00:39:30] might not be wrong. You know, those 3 or 4 different people who have got different decisions [00:39:35] on something, they might all be right.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Yeah. That too. That too.

Sophie Lovett: And then I think that [00:39:40] just wherever we have a vacuum and this happens so much in Covid, we fill that [00:39:45] vacuum with information when we don’t know, and that’s what patients are doing. And I think it’s so important that we [00:39:50] try to remember what it’s like when we knew nothing about dentistry, even [00:39:55] the language, you know, when the language was completely changed since I came into dental, that’s why I’ve got [00:40:00] my little Oxford Book of Clinical Dentistry, because the language I had to learn how to understand it. I’m [00:40:05] going to be completely honest. I didn’t know what a Carie was. I didn’t know what caries were trying [00:40:10] to.

Payman Langroudi: But now it’s so native to you. Like you trot it off. It’s nice.

Sophie Lovett: But then I feel like when I when I’m [00:40:15] speaking with people who are outside of dentistry, I would say decay. So again, I think it’s [00:40:20] with everybody kind of has to remember or we find [00:40:25] ourselves kind of just mixing within Dental. I think when you’re in it a certain amount of time. So then we just forget [00:40:30] the language of bubble. It’s a bubble. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Tell me about you live you live here now? [00:40:35]

Ashley King: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Kind of kind of. Tell me about your reflections on like, London, [00:40:40] living in London. What’s what’s the best and worst thing compared to the US?

Ashley King: Oh man. [00:40:45]

Sophie Lovett: Oh, I like that.

Ashley King: I think London is the best city in the world, which is, [00:40:50] I know, a hot take.

Payman Langroudi: Even all the places you’ve been.

Ashley King: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: Wow.

Ashley King: And [00:40:55] maybe I’m just gaslighting myself because I’m here.

Sophie Lovett: But it is a sunny day today.

Ashley King: It [00:41:00] is also a beautiful day outside. Ask me next January. I’ll tell you how I really feel. But no. Um, [00:41:05] I think, Sophie, I think you said this to me. It’s a hard city to be [00:41:10] truly successful in. It’s almost like New York in the US where, you know, if you’re living [00:41:15] in London, it’s expensive. You have to be a grafter. And I think [00:41:20] there are some very hard working, intelligent people in this city. It’s not hard [00:41:25] to find them and people from all over the world. So I really like that. What [00:41:30] I don’t like about it, I mean, being away from my family, of course.

Payman Langroudi: But [00:41:35] outside of that.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. Come on, give us the scoop. Give us the tea.

Ashley King: There is some.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, [00:41:40] surely service here can’t be as good as it is in the US.

Ashley King: Oh yeah. I mean, that’s true.

Sophie Lovett: I feel [00:41:45] like you quite like that though.

Ashley King: I like it when people.

Sophie Lovett: Are like to.

Ashley King: Me. I’m like yeah. Oh I [00:41:50] have to earn your love. Like bring it on. It’s probably some childhood trauma thing. Yeah, [00:41:55] exactly. Um, it can be a bit much when you go back to the US, but [00:42:00] like you walk in the elevator in five different people walk in and they all say hello to you. You know, especially [00:42:05] where I’m from, North Carolina, everyone’s very friendly, so it’s good in different good and bad in different ways.

Sophie Lovett: No. [00:42:10] Come on, tell us what’s the worst thing?

Ashley King: Uh, okay. You know that I’m, like, hyper critical of the US, [00:42:15] so I hope that anyone listening to this doesn’t think that I’m like, America is so much [00:42:20] better. We’re the best country in the world. Freedom. We’ll talk.

Payman Langroudi: About the worst things about America as.

Ashley King: Well.

Sophie Lovett: For [00:42:25] anyone listening. Ashley’s wearing a t shirt that says back to back World War Champs. Yeah. [00:42:30]

Ashley King: Um, I would say [00:42:35] there’s something so beautiful about the American dream [00:42:40] and the American spirit. Um, which is actually sort of dying in the US at this [00:42:45] moment with the younger generation. But this idea that you can become [00:42:50] whoever you want to.

Payman Langroudi: Be and do. Kind of.

Ashley King: Yeah. And be proud of what you’ve accomplished. [00:42:55] I think it’s a little more toned back here. Like people [00:43:00] are afraid to talk about their successes or even [00:43:05] dream really big and do that out loud. You’ll be judged.

Payman Langroudi: So I [00:43:10] think you’re right. If you if in the UK, if you say, I’ve got an idea, loads of people will tell you why [00:43:15] it’s not possible. Right. And I’ve noticed in America it’s the opposite. I mean, people were [00:43:20] saying why not.

Ashley King: Exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Yeah. That’s, that’s for real.

Sophie Lovett: It’s the complementing as well, like [00:43:25] self complementing. If somebody said that they were the best at something, I’d say actually this person [00:43:30] said that they were the best at something the other day. Whereas I actually think it’s really good to celebrate your [00:43:35] successes. Um, but I think we’re trying to learn that as Brits. [00:43:40] But it’s slow, isn’t it?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, my, my business partner moved to Dubai, so [00:43:45] it’s just so.

Sophie Lovett: They could complement themselves.

Payman Langroudi: Within, within three months of being there. [00:43:50] He’s got people helping him in ways he’s never had here.

Sophie Lovett: Wow.

Ashley King: That’s that’s another really great point. [00:43:55] Every all of my early success in my career, which has brought me here, has been because [00:44:00] people I met, people that wanted to help me. Yeah, yeah. And so, for example, when I started at [00:44:05] Voco, the reason I got that job is because I was in Houston for on [00:44:10] a work trip. I went to a gym that I booked on ClassPass, and this girl in the class started [00:44:15] talking to me who worked at Voco. She ended up getting me hired there. Wow. And it, it [00:44:20] was just because we had a conversation and then we became friends. And I don’t think [00:44:25] we do that as much here. People don’t talk to each other and they’re not looking for friends. Like, we have [00:44:30] golden retriever energy in the US where it’s just.

Payman Langroudi: Like a question on that sometimes in America, I’ve sat [00:44:35] on a plane and the guy sitting next to me straight away. How are you doing? Yeah. And sometimes we have [00:44:40] a nine hour flight and we talk for the whole nine hour flight.

Ashley King: This happened to me the other day, but it can be annoying. [00:44:45]

Payman Langroudi: At the end of that nine hour.

Ashley King: Flight.

Payman Langroudi: I thought, I thought I’ve really connected to someone. You know, like [00:44:50] this is going to be a friend for life or something. Because we spoke for all that time. We got we got to where [00:44:55] we were getting to and he was like, okay, see you later. Bye. Yeah. And if.

Sophie Lovett: I transient.

Payman Langroudi: If I, yeah, [00:45:00] if I’d had a conversation like that in the UK that I’d be like in touch with that person. [00:45:05] Yeah. And it made me realise, yeah, that you guys get into things much more quickly, [00:45:10] but maybe like getting very close takes a long time. Whereas [00:45:15] here you can sometimes sometimes you meet someone and you just straight away, straight away, you know, like that person’s [00:45:20] like someone you’re going to, you’re going to be knowing for a long time and you can get very close quicker, [00:45:25] very close quicker. But you’re right, people don’t talk. People don’t [00:45:30] talk.

Sophie Lovett: Say Ashley’s really quite European in that sense. Ashley herself. Yeah, yeah. [00:45:35] I would hope so. As in you, you. And it’s, um, um, [00:45:40] it’s like your love and respect is earned over [00:45:45] time, and I find that much more valuable in terms of you’re always super polite and warm and everything, but [00:45:50] you’re not, you’re not that kind of golden retriever, which is, uh, hey, hey, hey hey hey. And [00:45:55] then leave it, you know, it’s you really do build those relationships. And, um, [00:46:00] I’m an introvert. I’ll see you was asking me about it. He’s he’s from France, but he lives in LA, [00:46:05] so I’m not going to do the accent because, you know, sort of thinks [00:46:10] a Parisian surfer. Um, but he was saying, you know, how do Ashley and [00:46:15] Sarah create these relationships in Europe? Europeans don’t love Americans [00:46:20] and said, it’s not about loving Americans. It’s about the individual. And actually, [00:46:25] you know, Ashley can speak to anybody.

Payman Langroudi: I think British people do love Americans, though, over here.

Ashley King: More than I [00:46:30] thought.

Payman Langroudi: I was here.

Ashley King: I thought I was going to be a cringe, you know, a person. But it [00:46:35] turns out it’s not too bad.

Sophie Lovett: It’s all these airport. That’s an airport accent that you’ve cultivated. [00:46:40]

Payman Langroudi: I mean, I mean London, everyone’s a foreigner, right? It’s hard to find a Brit in [00:46:45] London. Honestly, what’s the worst thing about being in Benidorm? [00:46:50]

Ashley King: The worst thing.

Payman Langroudi: What’s the worst? What would you say, Sophie.

Sophie Lovett: About living in the UK?

Payman Langroudi: No, us. [00:46:55]

Sophie Lovett: What’s the worst thing about the US? Yeah.

Ashley King: I have an [00:47:00] answer. Go on. Um, like we are all. John [00:47:05] said this to me. John Schwarz, who was 13 for a bit and is a close friend, and he said, [00:47:10] um, Americans are on a lifeboat. That’s how they live their [00:47:15] lives. Like they’re on a lifeboat. So everyone, because think about it, our our [00:47:20] health care is tied to our job.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah.

Ashley King: We’re trying to survive. And [00:47:25] even like, you can’t just walk to the store in the US. You have to get in your car. That car is [00:47:30] costing you $400 a month, and then you have car insurance. It’s just all these extra costs. [00:47:35] And being so capitalism focussed. Yeah, I think people [00:47:40] have lost, I guess, just a little bit of authenticity [00:47:45] and like, it’s almost like touch grass a little, you know, like, but people are trying to survive so they can’t [00:47:50] touch grass. So.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, but wouldn’t you say financially in America, people are slightly better off than here? [00:47:55] No, I don’t think here the system takes more money from them.

Ashley King: Statistically, salary wise, yes. [00:48:00] But when you add up all those extra fees and then just not even being able to walk to the [00:48:05] supermarket, you know, it’s we don’t have and we don’t prioritise relationships. [00:48:10]

Payman Langroudi: And I think what annoys me about America. Yeah. That it’s only about [00:48:15] the money.

Ashley King: That’s right. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And it’s a good thing in a way. Right. Because here there are places it doesn’t matter how much money [00:48:20] you’ve got, you’re not getting in.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, yeah. We’re about snob long term snobbery. And there’s.

Payman Langroudi: There’s [00:48:25] jobs. Yeah. There’s jobs. Yeah. It’s not about like the money. It’s about who [00:48:30] you are, who, you know, like, whereas in the US at least, you know what it’s about. It’s about money. Yeah. So that’s, [00:48:35] that’s a good thing. You can, you can put it down.

Ashley King: More surface level, like easy to expose.

Payman Langroudi: But, but, [00:48:40] but once I was, I was skiing in America and I lost my goggles or something. So [00:48:45] I went to look for some more and I tried a few on. And the service is great isn’t it? They get, [00:48:50] they get giving me them and taking them out. Try them on. And then I came to pay for it and I looked, I couldn’t find [00:48:55] my wallet. Yeah. I said, oh, I’m so sorry. I left my wallet. And the way she turned on me, man, [00:49:00] she turned on me, man. And you know, then you realise it’s only about [00:49:05] the money. Like the bartenders, this amazing guy. As long as you’re ordering more drinks and and giving him tips. Yeah, [00:49:10] the moment you’re not that guy, who’s the other guy?

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. Then you get.

Ashley King: Good.

Speaker 6: Service too. [00:49:15] So it’s like, it’s good.

Sophie Lovett: You know, and this is exactly it’s all about this balance. But I [00:49:20] think you were asking what I personally think is the worst thing about the US. And [00:49:25] I, I mean, I go to the US most years. I love the place, the geography, the people. [00:49:30]

Payman Langroudi: Where’s your favourite.

Sophie Lovett: Place? Charleston in South Carolina. Absolutely love.

Payman Langroudi: It. Her [00:49:35] hometown.

Sophie Lovett: Uh, you’re from North Carolina. Charlotte, right.

Ashley King: But very close to. I grew up going there. [00:49:40] It’s a beautiful.

Sophie Lovett: City. Just stunning.

Ashley King: One of the only cities where we haven’t knocked down all the old buildings [00:49:45] and replace them with, like, cardboard apartment buildings.

Sophie Lovett: So it’s really pretty nice. [00:49:50]

Payman Langroudi: Why have you been there?

Sophie Lovett: I’ve been all over the US. Um, it’s just, I [00:49:55] don’t know, just. I’ve been there twice, actually. Normally don’t go back to the same place, but it’s just somewhere that really drew. [00:50:00] I don’t know, I was drawn to it. They call it the Europe of the South. Um, and [00:50:05] the Europe of America. But one thing that I find really confusing [00:50:10] is the lobby groups. So if if something is bad for you, you know, [00:50:15] I don’t know, antibiotics in pork or um, OxyContin, [00:50:20] um, or guns, you can have these big kind of short [00:50:25] termist groups that will lobby for something that is just [00:50:30] for, you know, to commercially help themselves. I’m not against, you [00:50:35] know, making a buck at all. But I think, you know, you’ve also got to [00:50:40] think about what’s the next generation, how’s this going to impact? And I do think that.

Payman Langroudi: The [00:50:45] politics is more corrupt.

Sophie Lovett: But it’s just intrinsic. You know, that’s not going to change [00:50:50] about now. But yeah.

Ashley King: This is a bigger picture [00:50:55] of what we were talking about with, you know, private versus public health care. Yeah. When [00:51:00] you’re a politician, you’re supposed to be a public servant. It’s the same as if you’re providing health care. We [00:51:05] have privatised these things and made them about money. And that is why, [00:51:10] I mean, it’s kind of all crumbling down in a way if you if you look at it.

Sophie Lovett: But [00:51:15] yeah, you look at Europe though, and you know, I’m bashing this, but I’m also, you know, you look at Europe and the UK and I [00:51:20] don’t think that we’re productive anymore. I think we’ve got a little bit lazy. So there has to be [00:51:25] I think there’s we’ve just become so polarised in terms of this almost Marxist [00:51:30] communist, a super high capital. You know, there’s where is the middle ground [00:51:35] of let’s be able, let’s enable people to make money, but also let’s [00:51:40] be altruistic. And, you know, let’s have a rising tide.

Payman Langroudi: The middle is not holding. You [00:51:45] know, that’s the thing. We’re not in that era of the middle. No, we are in the polarised era. [00:51:50]

Sophie Lovett: When was the era New Labour?

Payman Langroudi: Blair.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Speaker 6: I saw a video about.

Ashley King: This actually on [00:51:55] Instagram today and it was talking about how in Manchester the [00:52:00] there was a seat. I’m sorry, I don’t know much about politics here. I just try to stay out of politics [00:52:05] in general, which is very privileged. But anyway, um they had, they were very concerned that [00:52:10] this Labour seat was going to go to the other side. And then in terms what [00:52:15] ended up happening is it went to the Green Party and their thing was you need to be ultra left [00:52:20] in order to like, even out the right.

Speaker 6: Yeah.

Ashley King: And I think this is why Kamala [00:52:25] lost in the US to Trump because she was almost too centrist.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Although they [00:52:30] put her on a bit late, didn’t they? That was that was the thing.

Ashley King: Well that didn’t that didn’t help. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, but but you know, [00:52:35] this question of like the centre. The middle. Yeah. Um you almost what you’re [00:52:40] saying is you have to be a populist, you have to come out with populism, whether [00:52:45] you’re right wing or left wing.

Sophie Lovett: What do you go back. It’s like moving bees. You can’t just move them a little bit. You’ve got to move them [00:52:50] a lot to get them back to.

Payman Langroudi: You know, like the pendulum swings too far [00:52:55] in both directions.

Sophie Lovett: It’s a shame that we’ve allowed the pendulum to shift. I mean, [00:53:00] I just I’m.

Ashley King: It’s the horseshoe theory. Have you heard of that?

Payman Langroudi: No.

Speaker 6: Go on.

Ashley King: It’s like what [00:53:05] you know, this is the the left. And then you’ve become so right that you’re.

Speaker 6: Actually on the other [00:53:10] side of the horseshoe.

Payman Langroudi: Like a Nazi is closer to the communist than he is.

Ashley King: Yeah, exactly. Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: But one [00:53:15] thing I’ve noticed though, whenever I’m with Ashley, people always ask about politics. Go straight into it. [00:53:20] It’s just kind of the default at the moment.

Payman Langroudi: Of Trump and all.

Sophie Lovett: That.

Ashley King: I feel like I’m on an apology tour for my country. [00:53:25] Like, I’m just like, I’m sorry about. I’m sorry about what my president tweeted on Easter. [00:53:30] Like, I do not ascribe to that. You know what I mean?

Payman Langroudi: You said you’re not political, but how do you feel [00:53:35] about the Republicans like representing the worker nowadays? [00:53:40] I mean, it’s a weird thing, isn’t it? Like we’ve got a similar situation. Like, you [00:53:45] know, Labour were for the workers, conservatives for the for the, you know, the owners call [00:53:50] it. Yeah. But in America, it’s kind of switched around. Whereas, yeah, before [00:53:55] the Democrats were for the workers and the Republicans were for the money people. Now it’s kind of switched [00:54:00] around. The Democrats are more part of the elite now.

Sophie Lovett: And no, I do.

Ashley King: I think it’s actually [00:54:05] if you look at the policies, for example, the tax cuts that Trump did, [00:54:10] it benefited billionaires more than it did the average person. So I [00:54:15] think we I think Republicans, they cosplay as helping [00:54:20] the average person. But if you look at people who switched.

Payman Langroudi: People don’t generally switch. People [00:54:25] generally are either.

Ashley King: I would say I switched.

Payman Langroudi: You.

Ashley King: Switched. I grew up very Christian, conservative. [00:54:30] And, you know, my family was like pretty, [00:54:35] not blue collar, but I mean, my grandpa grandpas were both trained engineers.

Sophie Lovett: And your me. [00:54:40]

Ashley King: Me, me malls were stay at home moms, you know what I mean? So like, we’re from West Virginia, [00:54:45] you know, pretty, pretty Republican. But no, I and I’ve seen even my family, [00:54:50] they’ve become more centrist even. So, yeah, maybe not even [00:54:55] centrist. I think people in the US are like almost looking for like, you’re lucky here. You don’t have [00:55:00] the two party system. We’re stuck with two parties, and a lot of people find they don’t [00:55:05] identify with either. That’s how I would describe myself.

Sophie Lovett: Do you not say that we’ve predominantly had a two party, [00:55:10] certainly in my lifetime these days.

Payman Langroudi: Now it’s looking like more coalitions. I mean, for the next [00:55:15] election you had the Greens like, like Labour’s losing to the Greens on one side and to reform on the other [00:55:20] side, and it probably will end up being some sort of coalition.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Ashley King: This is good though. You [00:55:25] need to have options. We were we weren’t designed as a country to be a two party system. But I think it’s really [00:55:30] messing us up.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: I think Rory Stewart calls for kind of like government jury duty, [00:55:35] doesn’t he? Where it should just be. Everyone does it for a year. And then [00:55:40] back to I.

Payman Langroudi: I think it’s going to be AI in the end. Yeah. Ai.

Sophie Lovett: I don’t understand why. It’s why [00:55:45] things aren’t gone. I feel like our current government, [00:55:50] I just wish they would have put it through AI. You know, some of the I.

Ashley King: Will say, I know we’re [00:55:55] using it in war and it’s made some mistakes.

Payman Langroudi: Of course, of course. [00:56:00]

Ashley King: So I think once again, it’s like using AI on an X-ray. You want to make sure you’re.

Payman Langroudi: How are. [00:56:05]

Ashley King: You using.

Payman Langroudi: Ai in your work outside of Pearl itself being an AI.

Ashley King: System? Oh, man.

Payman Langroudi: Are [00:56:10] you into Claude?

Ashley King: Oh, I am into what I call her Claudia. Because I’m like a man would [00:56:15] never be this helpful. So it’s a woman. Um, but yes. Claude [00:56:20] Cowork, um, I think I was messaging one of my colleagues. I spent £60 [00:56:25] this month so far on extra tokens because I keep running out of usage. [00:56:30] Wow. Um, it’s worth it though. Time is money.

Payman Langroudi: So what are you doing with it?

Ashley King: Okay, so, um, [00:56:35] we’re very fortunate at Pearl, by the way, to be able to be pretty [00:56:40] open with the AI systems we use.

Sophie Lovett: They really encourage it.

Ashley King: So many of my friends who I’m [00:56:45] like, are you using Claude Cowork? Like, I’m like a Claude evangelist, I should get a referral [00:56:50] code or something. But, um, what I do is I connect my gmail, [00:56:55] my notion, my meeting recording notes, my Slack, all of these different [00:57:00] entities that I’m working on into it. And then I use it to.

Payman Langroudi: Run [00:57:05] your whole life.

Ashley King: Run my entire life. Yeah. Like every morning it runs through my emails and tells [00:57:10] me which ones I should respond to automatically types out a draft in my like vocal. [00:57:15] How I would type my voice.

Payman Langroudi: Voice?

Ashley King: Yeah. Um, and this is just, this is surface [00:57:20] level stuff. But if you look at my Instagram algorithm, you were talking about the discover page earlier. It’s all about [00:57:25] clouds. That’s how I learn my scroll time is just flawed.

Sophie Lovett: But it’s we were [00:57:30] talking about this the other day and somebody described you absolutely beautifully, didn’t they? They said your toxic [00:57:35] productivity, um, Ashley is basically productive. So [00:57:40] we were talking about, although you’ve got all these automations, it’s [00:57:45] still not saving you time because you’re actually surfacing other things and newer things. So even [00:57:50] though you are productive in that you’re because you are now so productive, [00:57:55] you’re being asked to do more things. And so.

Ashley King: This is working at a Start-Up and you know.

Sophie Lovett: Exactly, [00:58:00] I think.

Ashley King: The, the, if I was working at an average job, corporate [00:58:05] especially, and, or even being a dentist, like the How I think about AI [00:58:10] for everyone is it’s going to do the stuff that you don’t want to do. [00:58:15] Sending emails. No one likes to check their emails. You know, all these things to allow you to do [00:58:20] actual meaningful work and also to do things like this. Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: Have conversations. [00:58:25]

Ashley King: Conversations with humans.

Payman Langroudi: And what we were talking about yesterday, we had a meeting and, uh, [00:58:30] I was discussing with my partner, there’s a few people in our organisation who’ve taken it on like [00:58:35] fully and a few who haven’t. And you can see the [00:58:40] ones who’ve taken it on are accelerating. Yeah. I mean, beyond anything, I [00:58:45] mean, we’ve got one, one girl who works for us who she’s started. She knows [00:58:50] more about toothpaste than I do, like in a, in a period of three months. Yeah. [00:58:55] We had a meeting with this chemist. Yeah. Like, and I was just [00:59:00] watching her talking to this chemist like three months ago. She had nothing to do with [00:59:05] toothpaste. Yeah. Wow. But she’s the type of person who will just dive into something, isn’t it? Yeah, [00:59:10] yeah, yeah.

Sophie Lovett: I think you have to be curious. And do you know what I, I [00:59:15] feel really lucky that we, I don’t feel that we worry about our [00:59:20] jobs because we’re looking at ways of adopting AI ourselves and working with it and, [00:59:25] you know, finding other other things to do to.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, you mean you mean you’re not going to get replaced by AI?

Sophie Lovett: I [00:59:30] personally well, hopefully.

Payman Langroudi: Not, not yet.

Sophie Lovett: But, you know, there are you were mentioning, you know, it [00:59:35] can do emails and stuff. So I can see it being a huge worry for people. You know, if I was just doing data entry, [00:59:40] for example. Yeah. And things that. But, um, what I would like to stress [00:59:45] though, you know, not just with Pearl AI, but all these other LLMs, the large language [00:59:50] models, other AI’s is that we, we who use [00:59:55] it don’t ostracise others by making it sound too complicated because they, [01:00:00] they, anyone can use it. But I think people feel really, really shy [01:00:05] and nervous about using it because they just haven’t dipped their toe in the water yet. And people are almost creating [01:00:10] language that is a barrier to other people who haven’t yet dipped their toes in the water. [01:00:15]

Payman Langroudi: It’s serving us. It’s we’re serving it.

Sophie Lovett: So then that’s what you’re saying. You know, almost 50% of your [01:00:20] staff are 50% aren’t. You know, it shouldn’t be that way. You know, people should all be trying it. [01:00:25] Um, and, you know, if I could explain how to use it really, [01:00:30] really simply, it is, don’t use it as a way of googling something. You know, [01:00:35] what you put in is what you’ll get out. So you can, if you are super smart and you can do the essays [01:00:40] like you did at university, it will just help enhance that. But you still have to have the smarts to [01:00:45] put in to get the smarts out.

Ashley King: It’s a mirror. Just anything in life is a mirror. Let me tell you where I’m [01:00:50] concerned about. You know, the the people that are and aren’t using AI. I’m [01:00:55] worried about women because there’s a I saw a stat and it was like, [01:01:00] I think 50% less women are using AI tools [01:01:05] than men, right? And let me tell you why.

Sophie Lovett: That’s really interesting.

Ashley King: There’s this whole [01:01:10] one big reason. There’s a whole debate around the ethics of AI. [01:01:15] The amount of energy that it consumes, you know, and this is. Yeah, exactly. People [01:01:20] are also just worried that it’s going to take us away from the human element that we’ve spoken about. Very valid. [01:01:25] Any new technology that happens, we have fears, but I think women [01:01:30] tend to be more empathetic to that. And if you even [01:01:35] look at the jobs that women have, we’re more likely to be nurses, teachers, whatever. Whether that’s socially [01:01:40] programmed or inherent, that’s another topic. But because of that, a lot of [01:01:45] women, because of ethics are not using AI.

Payman Langroudi: They’re [01:01:50] worried about the planet, the environmental planet.

Ashley King: Also, just the fact that, you know, [01:01:55] robots take over, especially.

Payman Langroudi: Women are like slower adopters than men on tech tech. [01:02:00]

Sophie Lovett: I think it’s this boys club again, though, you know, it’s almost like.

Payman Langroudi: Ring.

Sophie Lovett: Fencing. Men are ring fencing. Things to [01:02:05] be like, oh, don’t worry, don’t.

Payman Langroudi: Look at it. Men haven’t done it. They like. Eyes moved so quickly. There’s a man telling you [01:02:10] not to go on.

Sophie Lovett: No, but I think, again, it’s this kind of ostracising by language, but also by, you know, [01:02:15] you know, don’t worry about looking at that. Don’t worry about it.

Ashley King: It was created by men as well. All most LMS are [01:02:20] were trained by men like the programmers were men, probably 80% of them. [01:02:25] And now men are using it and women are like, I’m worried that we’re being left behind and we’re going to regret.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s get [01:02:30] on to the whole women, women in the workplace kind of subject. Yeah. Now let’s talk about [01:02:35] that. Let’s do that outside of AI. Leave AI to one side.

Sophie Lovett: We just talk about how our [01:02:40] team is just formed of the most indomitable women. Yeah we [01:02:45] are.

Payman Langroudi: We’re on purpose or by mistake.

Sophie Lovett: Um, I think it’s [01:02:50] by purpose that we’re all. I really think it.

Ashley King: Might partially be on purpose, even from some of our leaders [01:02:55] who have made hires. Yeah, absolutely. I’ve spoken to a fear about it. He’s like, I the [01:03:00] all the women that I’ve hired, they are the hardest workers. Yeah, they’re they get [01:03:05] things done. They don’t look at things surface level. They look at the entire picture and. [01:03:10]

Payman Langroudi: They say, okay, let me give you an example of what could be holding women back [01:03:15] in the workplace. And actually it’s for me, it’s like a double edged thing because I’ve [01:03:20] noticed not all women, but quite a lot of women. Yeah. Don’t [01:03:25] ever ask for a pay rise. They they wait, they wait. Not, not [01:03:30] you too. Obviously. They.

Sophie Lovett: Actually tell us what you got told [01:03:35] off for us.

Payman Langroudi: Let me give you some of my favourite employees. The [01:03:40] type of person who doesn’t ask.

Ashley King: You’re absolutely right. By the way, one of those essays I wrote.

Sophie Lovett: No [01:03:45] no no.

Payman Langroudi: No no, I’m telling you, they, they suffer by not asking.

Sophie Lovett: Totally because.

Payman Langroudi: There’s other people who [01:03:50] push hard. And in the end, you just don’t want to lose that person. So you give them more. Yeah. [01:03:55] And it’s it’s as I think it’s a female thing. Yeah, that too many women, you [01:04:00] know, maybe. Maybe it’s a man problem being over aggressive. Yeah, but too many [01:04:05] women wait to be asked or wait, you know, they don’t they don’t put their hand up.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. So for [01:04:10] me personally, I feel like everything had to be the right environment for me [01:04:15] to ask it. And I kept thinking about all the things that I was doing wrong that didn’t warrant it. Whereas [01:04:20] I think that sometimes men can just use a lack of critical thinking to go [01:04:25] in there and just be like me, one nasty, almost caveman like.

Payman Langroudi: Almost like a man who doesn’t [01:04:30] deserve it will last. But a woman who does deserve it won’t ask.

Sophie Lovett: And I think that sometimes [01:04:35] women also wait for times. We’re always like, [01:04:40] the diet will start on Monday, or we’re going to ask for it next quarter, or we’re going to ask [01:04:45] it in January when I know somebody else was. And I think that sometimes we almost adhere ourselves [01:04:50] too much to these timelines, whereas men I don’t know whether it’s because they don’t have kind of [01:04:55] lunar cycles are just like, now is fine, now is fine. So, [01:05:00] um, I, yeah, like I said, I, you know, I was joking about it, but Ashley and I have been [01:05:05] through this recently and I’m sorry, but it’s going to happen again in a couple of weeks because we really [01:05:10] want to buck that trend. And I think there are ways in which we can enable women [01:05:15] to do these things, but it does start with ourselves that we have to ask more because when you ask, [01:05:20] you get.

Payman Langroudi: At the same time, I don’t really believe in a gender pay gap.

Sophie Lovett: Um, [01:05:25] tell me more.

Ashley King: Okay, so one of those ten 000 word essays I wrote was [01:05:30] on the gender.

Payman Langroudi: You’ve looked into this.

Sophie Lovett: Um, ding ding ding.

Ashley King: Yeah. So, and [01:05:35] I didn’t write it with ChatGPT. So I actually remember when I wrote this was like ten [01:05:40] years ago, but you’re right in your theory, in terms of your theory of women do not ask [01:05:45] for raises as much as men. And, um, however, while that’s a big piece [01:05:50] and I’ve seen it even with my friends who I speak to, um, that don’t work at Pearl. [01:05:55] They’re they’re just very afraid. We’re we’re less risk averse in general. [01:06:00] That comes with socialisation as well. But if you do look at women [01:06:05] who have been successful and the higher the role of a woman. [01:06:10] So say I’m a CEO, you’re a CEO, the pay gap increases. [01:06:15]

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Sophie Lovett: So there’s not as many female CEOs [01:06:20] in the same industry.

Ashley King: Correct. And so if we’re a CEO in the same industry, [01:06:25] like let’s say you’re working for a competitor, um, you’re [01:06:30] probably making $0.40 on the dollar more than me versus [01:06:35] 20.

Payman Langroudi: But then don’t you think if that was the case, I would only hire women, [01:06:40] wouldn’t I? Because women are cheaper.

Ashley King: Maybe that’s why we have so many.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. But then okay, so you’ve got a woman [01:06:45] sitting in front of you. She’s great, but she’s just got married and she’s 31. [01:06:50]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Ashley King: What do you what’s next.

Sophie Lovett: In your mind? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s going you’re right. It’s [01:06:55] going through my head. It’s going through.

Sophie Lovett: What’s going through your head.

Payman Langroudi: She’s going to have maternity soon.

Sophie Lovett: So why [01:07:00] don’t you just have a whole host of women, you know?

Payman Langroudi: Well [01:07:05] we do. We’ve got more women than men, right?

Sophie Lovett: Um, but so I was being facetious there. Right. [01:07:10] You know, I’m.

Payman Langroudi: Just if I’m honest in that situation, I’m thinking she’s going to be off soon. Maybe [01:07:15] for, for childcare. Yeah. That’s right. Now the reason for the pay gap is the childcare. [01:07:20] Yeah. Like that’s, you know.

Ashley King: Part of it.

Payman Langroudi: If your career gets cut by four years. That’s [01:07:25] absolutely part of it. You’re going to be behind. I think there’s not because you’re a woman. I think it’s twofold.

Ashley King: I [01:07:30] think it’s twofold. So you have we’re less likely to ask. [01:07:35] You have also maternity leave, things like that. Yeah. There is an inherent [01:07:40] bias that we all carry for whether it’s internal misogyny, like racism, [01:07:45] whatever bias we have, stereotypes that we hold, we might not even realise it. And I do think [01:07:50] I’ve experienced this, which I try to just not acknowledge it in my head because I think [01:07:55] your thoughts create your reality. So like, let’s not focus on this, but if I go to [01:08:00] my boss and ask for a raise every couple of months because my title keeps changing, [01:08:05] versus if a man who did the same thing did it, she’s also a woman. She might [01:08:10] not realise it, but it might piss her off that I did it versus him.

Speaker 7: Do you think [01:08:15] I mean.

Ashley King: Do you think people hold inherent biases?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [01:08:20] Well, then should we take it to the other side then? Let’s go. Surely [01:08:25] there’s some advantage to being a woman selling to some man.

Sophie Lovett: I’ll tell you what. I never used to think of any advantages [01:08:30] of being a woman. And now I see it all the time. I really do. I think that, um, [01:08:35] I think the the women are talking, you know, we are grouping together. Now. I [01:08:40] am talking more and more to my friends about, okay, where’s the best savings account? [01:08:45] How are we going to invest? You know? The conversations are really, really shifting. We’re talking [01:08:50] to each other about how, you know, you need to go in that room and ask for a pay rise. I [01:08:55] think the conversations are really shifting and shifting away from just [01:09:00] using the kind of preconceived notions of femininity, [01:09:05] but now using looking at femininity as more power. And [01:09:10] yeah, I think also women have always talked more. [01:09:15] And I think that makes us incredibly lucky. And we’ve got an advantage over men because [01:09:20] you just don’t open up, as you know, and being you know what’s interesting?

Payman Langroudi: I’ve been in some [01:09:25] I mean, maybe a few years ago, some like a boardroom in the US where there’s a woman [01:09:30] executive. Yeah. And she’s being incredibly aggressive and acting like a man. Yeah. [01:09:35] And I think this, this is the shift that we really need to see, that you don’t want to act [01:09:40] like an aggressive man. Yeah. As a woman, that’s that’s the.

Sophie Lovett: Worst shift, haven’t we, from that like, oh, [01:09:45] you’ve got to be a man. And to know we’ve now found our new thing. We’re not giving you [01:09:50] the secret, though, because I.

Ashley King: Think it goes back to have you. Have you [01:09:55] guys seen the Barbie movie? There’s that whole speech that. What is it, Cameron? I forget [01:10:00] her name, but she gives. She’s like, you have to be aggressive, but you can’t be too aggressive. You have to be [01:10:05] beautiful, but you can’t be too beautiful. It’s like all these things where it’s like, you [01:10:10] know, this is the way I think about life in general. We are all dealt a hand of cards. [01:10:15] Play your cards right. Don’t worry about what was dealt to you. It’s in your hand. Play [01:10:20] it like I could sit around and focus on. Does this person have an inherent bias? And is that [01:10:25] why they’re not giving me a raise? But that’s a waste of time. What hand have I been dealt [01:10:30] and how can I play it to the best of my ability? Um, I think I would. I’m [01:10:35] so glad that I’m a woman right now. I look at my mom and my grandma. They did not have the same opportunities as me [01:10:40] and.

Payman Langroudi: The shift then, I mean, you two are earning well, you’re, you know, [01:10:45] powerful businesswomen, right? The shift in society in that you no longer need [01:10:50] a man to look after you. Yeah. Like the, the classical old, like [01:10:55] the way your mom and grandma had to, like, get security from a marriage.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, yeah. I always had. [01:11:00]

Payman Langroudi: To.

Sophie Lovett: Come out to my parents.

Payman Langroudi: To relationships then.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Ashley King: Women expect men to have empathy [01:11:05] now. Oh, really? Basic empathy is required.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Ashley King: I think whereas before, [01:11:10] if you were providing financially, that was enough.

Payman Langroudi: Mhm.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. I almost had to [01:11:15] kind of come out to my parents that I’m not going to get married and have children. And they [01:11:20] were really upset because I’ve got four brothers.

Payman Langroudi: You’re the only girl.

Sophie Lovett: I’m the only girl. And I [01:11:25] said to them, I then kind of framed it in a different way, um, and said, you know, [01:11:30] what do you want for me in general? And they said, we want you to be happy. And I said, this is what makes me happiest. [01:11:35] You know, the, you know, and I’m not a kind of I don’t think I’m doing it in [01:11:40] a masculine way, but I’m Working really, really hard and not saying that [01:11:45] that’s because I’m not with somebody and because I don’t have children, but I just really enjoy [01:11:50] this, this phase of my life. I really, really like it.

Payman Langroudi: But you never know because, I mean, I’ve [01:11:55] heard that so many times. And then the person’s got three kids.

Ashley King: You never know.

Sophie Lovett: I’m too old [01:12:00] for that now anyway.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Ashley King: No you’re not. What was it like? Cameron Diaz [01:12:05] had a baby at, like, 50 or something. Yeah, you never know.

Sophie Lovett: No. Thank you. I appreciate the.

Payman Langroudi: Reflections. I mean, [01:12:10] the difference does that in in dating, in marriage and all that. The [01:12:15] fact that you’re powerful, you’re self-reliant. Has that changed? Has that changed your relationship [01:12:20] with men?

Ashley King: I think for the better.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Ashley King: Yeah. [01:12:25] I would say even just in the last year, I, I recently became single [01:12:30] at the end of last year and I was in a really long relationship before that. So [01:12:35] before and after I went from being pretty like low level, you know, trying to get by [01:12:40] to, you know, succeeding fairly well. I shouldn’t say that to British people. Sorry, we’re not [01:12:45] allowed to say that.

Sophie Lovett: I think I’m doing okay. I think because.

Ashley King: You’re approaching it, you’re [01:12:50] approaching dating when you’re in a circumstance like us is like, it’s just extra. [01:12:55] It’s it’s something to add. I’m a fully formed person. I expect you to be the same. Um, [01:13:00] it’s like I saw this thing and it said one plus one doesn’t equal two in a relationship. It equals 11. [01:13:05] The idea is that you’re both fully formed people. You come together and then the [01:13:10] your output is exponential.

Payman Langroudi: Mhm.

Ashley King: That’s how I see it. So not having like [01:13:15] the scarcity like mentality around it is nice, but then no one has to give you.

Payman Langroudi: Anything like marriage [01:13:20] no longer as important as it was.

Sophie Lovett: I mean, for me, no, I mean, just I really [01:13:25] like my own space. I like coming home. I like looking after myself. I like doing, I it’s all about timing for me. [01:13:30] I want to do what I want to do on my own timing. And I know that that sounds and is [01:13:35] inherently selfish. But the choice for me is I want to do what I want to do [01:13:40] with my time.

Ashley King: I think it’d be selfish if you weren’t building and doing cool things that are ultimately [01:13:45] helping society, but.

Sophie Lovett: You will never know what it’s like to be a parent. And the [01:13:50] the real selflessness that goes into that.

Ashley King: I think I hot take this is contrarian. [01:13:55] Someone said this the other day, actually, it was a few months ago, but he was like, oh yeah, [01:14:00] I’m not I’m not having kids yet. I’m still being selfish. I actually think in a way, having kids [01:14:05] is selfish. And the reason I say that is twofold. Obviously, the fact [01:14:10] that we just already have so many people on this planet, like 8 billion people, that’s insane. [01:14:15] Do we need more people? You know, and we have limited resources on this planet. So [01:14:20] I think that’s a little selfish. But also, I think so many people have [01:14:25] kids because they’re looking for their children to provide them with a purpose. And it’s the default way to do that. It’s a very [01:14:30] easy way to find your purpose. And I think it can be a bit of a lazy way to find your purpose. This [01:14:35] is another thing.

Payman Langroudi: So you don’t want kids. Why are you not sure?

Ashley King: I’m not sure.

Sophie Lovett: I [01:14:40] don’t think either of us have written it off entirely. But at the moment, I think we’re kind of living for the moment. [01:14:45] I. I had this date once, and I didn’t. I don’t [01:14:50] know what happened, but the guy said to me, I have a real fetish of powerful women. I [01:14:55] was like, what? When did that become a thing?

Ashley King: Was this the guy that worked at, like, Jiffy [01:15:00] Lube? Sorry, that’s not like it’s like a.

Sophie Lovett: It was a nice guy, but [01:15:05] it was like, when did this become a fetish? And also, you know, I don’t know why I’m doing to come [01:15:10] across as this kind of powerhouse. It’s strange. It’s almost like.

Payman Langroudi: Did [01:15:15] it put you off?

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, I find it really strange. I found [01:15:20] it quite. Do you think you.

Ashley King: Come off as, like, masculine and powerful when you’re dating?

Sophie Lovett: No, but a bit. Maybe [01:15:25] a bit. Kind of. I if if something if somebody. I don’t like dilly dallying. Right. [01:15:30] So if it comes to the bill and somebody’s dilly dallying, I’ll just pay it.

Ashley King: Oh, yeah. No. Not [01:15:35] me. See, I’m. I’m the opposite in dating than I am at work. Like I’m at work. I’m [01:15:40] masculine. I’m getting shit done. When I’m dating. I’m like a totally different [01:15:45] person.

Payman Langroudi: Well that’s interesting.

Ashley King: Yeah. I step into my feminine energy because [01:15:50] I’m, you know, I’m a woman.

Sophie Lovett: Is that because you think guys like to kind of look [01:15:55] at you feel that they want to look after somebody?

Ashley King: Um, like I [01:16:00] don’t, I don’t necessarily, I don’t know, I think it’s like our masculine [01:16:05] and feminine energy complement each other, obviously. And there are some relationships [01:16:10] where the woman is more masculine, the man is more feminine, and it’s even and personally, [01:16:15] like we’re always, everyone has masculine and feminine energy, even boys. And for [01:16:20] me though, I just like feel most relaxed when I’m in my feminine [01:16:25] more leaning toward my feminine energy. And I want a man to pay and plan. Okay, [01:16:30] then I’m there.

Payman Langroudi: Controversial, controversial question. Then I look at my friend group [01:16:35] here and out of the people I know, there’s maybe four couples [01:16:40] where the woman’s clearly out earning the man. Yeah. And [01:16:45] I used to think, why not? Yeah. I think what’s what’s wrong with that? You know, [01:16:50] completely like egalitarian, sort of progressive kind of view on it. But when I [01:16:55] look at those four relationships, only one of them’s really worked. Yeah. And that one, her [01:17:00] father had 100 million. You know, there was no way this.

Ashley King: What do you think the difference is between [01:17:05] them?

Payman Langroudi: So this is the thing. I think it’s a little bit for a man emasculating. It’s a little bit like for [01:17:10] a man, let’s say you have an argument, a guy and a girl and the woman is [01:17:15] earning more than the man. Yeah. In that argument, if money comes up, which often, [01:17:20] often money is a cause of friction, right? If money comes up in that argument, [01:17:25] a man to be told he’s not earning his keep is a [01:17:30] much bigger insult than for a woman.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. I mean.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, so, so, so it [01:17:35] and a lot of women are aware of the size of that insult to a man. Like for a man, it’s [01:17:40] a big deal not being able to provide.

Ashley King: Why do you think that is?

Payman Langroudi: Because of programming. Yeah. But but yeah, but [01:17:45] also because of maybe the way we are chemically. Right. And like the way you switch in, in your dating [01:17:50] to this feminine thing because you are this feminine thing. Yeah. That’s real. Yeah. Maybe you’re switching at [01:17:55] work to this masculine thing. You know, the real you is the, the date you, you know, for whatever. [01:18:00] I mean, not.

Ashley King: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: And those relationships just aren’t right. You know, if the man is feeling inferior, [01:18:05] if the woman is feeling like she needs.

Payman Langroudi: How do you feel about dating or marrying someone [01:18:10] who earns less than you? And by the way, it’s a huge industry. It’s a huge.

Sophie Lovett: Industry like ambition. [01:18:15] And I like lack of laziness and I like drive. And I think that if you’re striving towards [01:18:20] something, often that yearning towards something is then [01:18:25] shown as earning. So I think it’s about a drive and an and energy.

Payman Langroudi: But not always. [01:18:30]

Sophie Lovett: No, no, no, but it’s not. And you know, you can have people who start businesses. But I just think that, um, I [01:18:35] just really.

Ashley King: Wanted to the you’re worried about the person’s values versus their income.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. [01:18:40] That’s it.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. So let’s say you get together with someone and you earn twice what he [01:18:45] earns, and then you’re buying a house or something and you’re paying twice as much for this house.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. Well, I [01:18:50] pay for everything anyway. And secondly, I’m always going to live alone and not with anyone. So it just doesn’t it just [01:18:55] doesn’t bother me. I didn’t do.

Payman Langroudi: Any rule on this. Do you find it, like, problematic [01:19:00] if you’re dating someone who earns less than you?

Sophie Lovett: I mean, I find it.

Ashley King: It’s probably I [01:19:05] would say that it’s statistically likely that someone would [01:19:10] earn less. I think it’s like 80% of people in the UK, like make less than 60 K [01:19:15] or something or 40 K.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. But statistics.

Ashley King: Are statistically. Yeah. But um, [01:19:20] no, you know what, I think I agree with you, Sophie, that it’s the values that [01:19:25] matter. I want someone that’s a hard worker. But also there’s to me, you can provide [01:19:30] value outside of money and capitalism, right? Like [01:19:35] if you’re doing the little things like making sure we don’t [01:19:40] run out of milk for our tea in the morning, you know, it’s much more [01:19:45] than just a dollar amount.

Sophie Lovett: Tightness is a curse. Tightness is a curse, you know, [01:19:50] but you can.

Payman Langroudi: Overspending is a curse.

Sophie Lovett: Overspending is a curse. But you go to places that are fit [01:19:55] within what you can afford, you know, so it wouldn’t. I think the good thing about women is that we do [01:20:00] not need to be showing off all the time. As soon as a man is earning a certain amount, I actually, this [01:20:05] is the one thing that I really think has changed recently in my mind about why [01:20:10] it’s so good to be a woman is that as soon as a man starts earning more, [01:20:15] he then has to start going to the clubs that show he earns more. He has to send [01:20:20] his kids to private school to, you know, then go to the private dentist or go to the clubs [01:20:25] and have, you know, I’m a member of this. I’m a member of that. I’m wearing the.

Payman Langroudi: Woman to buy a handbag or whatever. [01:20:30]

Sophie Lovett: But they don’t have to, you know, it could be that the woman could just do much more [01:20:35] silent wealth. We don’t have to, you know, our friendship groups tend to stay the same. We actually tend to stay with. [01:20:40] And then.

Payman Langroudi: You’re right in that a man’s value ends up sometimes being how much money he makes, and.

Sophie Lovett: Then.

Payman Langroudi: It can.

Sophie Lovett: Cost [01:20:45] so much more. So actually, when they sometimes when people earn more, it means it unlocks [01:20:50] different opportunities that can be much more costly [01:20:55] where. And also it’s, you know, if other men because as [01:21:00] I said, I’ve got four brothers. If other men don’t see that person spending in line with their new [01:21:05] wealth, that will be questioned, whereas women will say, well done, this is amazing, you know, [01:21:10] and then they’ll start talking about how how they can get there. I have a I had a really interesting [01:21:15] week this week already. I did, um, a specialist [01:21:20] training with two different specialist practice this week. One was all [01:21:25] female specialists and one was all male specialists. I’ve never had that before.

Payman Langroudi: All female [01:21:30] specialists.

Sophie Lovett: All female specialists. And then I like that you weren’t surprised about the all male specialists. Um, [01:21:35] but the difference in the conversation, the women were saying [01:21:40] whenever someone was asking a question, they were saying, oh yeah, I want to know that too. Can you expand on it? And it was kind [01:21:45] of like this group mentality of everyone was supporting each other. So when I did [01:21:50] the male specialist training, I don’t know how it happened like this. They were po faced. [01:21:55] They didn’t say anything. It was the hardest one. And then they just fired these questions and it was almost [01:22:00] like they were.

Ashley King: Like, gotcha questions.

Sophie Lovett: Oh yeah.

Ashley King: Rather than like curiosity.

Sophie Lovett: Competition, competition. [01:22:05] And nobody was saying, oh, I wanted to find that out too. And well done. And then in the corridor, they [01:22:10] all came up to me and they were secretly asking questions and saying how much they loved it. I [01:22:15] thought, what did you say in the South? Oh, bless your hearts. You know, it’s a shame that [01:22:20] they couldn’t do it.

Payman Langroudi: The reason I bring up this earning thing here. It’s huge in dentistry. There’s loads of [01:22:25] women are primary earner dentists that they [01:22:30] are dentists. The husband isn’t. Yeah. And dentists earn a lot. Some of them. Yeah. So there’s loads of [01:22:35] those. And there’s loads of hygienists who are the primary earner in their house. [01:22:40] And so I’d say it’s a bigger issue. I mean there are more not an issue. [01:22:45] But there’s there’s more women who are primary earners in dentistry than there [01:22:50] is out there in society. And as I say, I like [01:22:55] ultra progressive to the end. And yet now when I see these couples [01:23:00] that I’m talking about now, I’m thinking maybe.

Sophie Lovett: Don’t worry though, because the grandkids are getting married to [01:23:05] robots.

Payman Langroudi: So yeah.

Ashley King: That’s a concern. But I [01:23:10] want to weigh in.

Sophie Lovett: Question is mu.

Ashley King: Let me tell you, like all of these all [01:23:15] these conversations we are having, I think they start off [01:23:20] as how is the patriarchy affecting women? Is what we could say, right? Yeah, yeah. Okay. [01:23:25] But one thing we don’t talk about is how it’s affecting men as well. [01:23:30] So you just gave a great example, Sophie. But I also think that [01:23:35] this like, fundamental way that it’s programmed us men and women [01:23:40] hurts us. So in terms of if I’m in a relationship and I’m making more money, [01:23:45] and I’m with a man who, rather than actually being like in his true healthy masculine [01:23:50] is almost too programmed by the patriarchy to overvalue [01:23:55] the dollar amount. Yeah, yeah. Then it’s not going to go well [01:24:00] because his ego is just going to be hurt the entire time. So I think it’s the answer [01:24:05] to me is absolutely, those relationships can work, but you need someone who’s very secure in themselves [01:24:10] and isn’t ascribing to these like, ideals that are coming from these systems. [01:24:15]

Payman Langroudi: Have you been you’ve been to Holland? Yeah, I’ve.

Sophie Lovett: Been to the Netherlands.

Payman Langroudi: In in in Netherlands, you can’t hold a [01:24:20] door open for a woman. It’s a bit rude.

Sophie Lovett: I know we kept walking into.

Ashley King: The door open for everyone, but [01:24:25] for men and women.

Payman Langroudi: As a man, it’s a bit rude, you know, like the after you like it’s it’s not.

Sophie Lovett: On [01:24:30] there that that that saying go Dutch, go Dutch. Exactly.

Ashley King: I held the door open yesterday in [01:24:35] Greece for a man. He was very offended. Is that right? So you got to be careful holding [01:24:40] the door open for people, apparently.

Sophie Lovett: But, you know, so we were in the Netherlands not too long ago at the Netherlands [01:24:45] Dental show.

Payman Langroudi: And I love the Dutch. They are.

Sophie Lovett: Amazing. We love it. They come [01:24:50] up to us and they say we we hate you. We hate the look of you. We don’t like this. And [01:24:55] we think, oh my God, they’re so honest. Yeah. And then they say, and you think, oh gosh, [01:25:00] what’s the point of being here? And then they say, we will buy ten of your products. It’s just [01:25:05] it’s, you know, but yeah, it’s, it’s great. The honesty. We, we like that, don’t we? But [01:25:10] yeah, and what I found even in the Netherlands is a lot of people coming up and saying, [01:25:15] and a lot of hygienists own practices out there, and they say, I’m just a hygienist. [01:25:20] So I was thinking all of this great progression that they have in the Netherlands, [01:25:25] but people are still saying, I’m just a hygienist. I was like.

Payman Langroudi: There’s a there’s [01:25:30] a hierarchy in dentistry. You know, it’s difficult, but it’s real.

Sophie Lovett: But I’m talking about [01:25:35] there were probably about seven people who said that to me. All practice owners hygiene [01:25:40] only. So it’s not. So again, one thing I’ve really, really noticed about dentistry is it’s a pyramid [01:25:45] scheme of this kind of God figure at the top. And then it’s just always this pyramid [01:25:50] scheme. But you know, when you take away the that what is perceived as the head [01:25:55] of the pyramid scheme, i.e. the dentist or the specialist dentist away from it, why should [01:26:00] anybody be just, you know, why is anyone just we’ve got some amazing hygienist therapists, you’ve got Kat [01:26:05] London therapists and stuff. I think perceptions about roles really need to change [01:26:10] as well. And I think, again, that’s a feminine thing, a feminist thing. I think that we need [01:26:15] to start really talking ourselves up and being like, we’re doing a hell of a lot more as therapists and hygienists as some [01:26:20] dentists are. But I just thought that I’m just a was really surprising, particularly [01:26:25] in the Netherlands, where.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a country like that. Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: And, you know, my arm was hurting from having [01:26:30] to open my own doors.

Payman Langroudi: So let’s get to some quick fires. What [01:26:35] would you guys say is your favourite business influence? Like your, your [01:26:40] person in business that you admire the most.

Ashley King: Inside or outside of Pearl? [01:26:45]

Payman Langroudi: Outside of Pearl?

Ashley King: I’m really into Fred Kaufman right now. Who’s [01:26:50] that? He talks about compassionate leadership.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Ashley King: Not many people know [01:26:55] about him. I learned about him from the CEO of LinkedIn, Jeff Weiner. Um, [01:27:00] he has this theory that businesses [01:27:05] fail because they go down two paths, which is I’m [01:27:10] responsible for my portion. You’re responsible for yours. So it’s more of like a democratic. And [01:27:15] then like what we do individually will make the company succeed. So that’s one path. Then there’s like the [01:27:20] more communist path, which is like we all pitch in, but we all know that that model does not [01:27:25] work. Um, his thing is in order to mitigate [01:27:30] silos, but also not be too communistic, you need to have [01:27:35] compassionate leadership, which is undying support and love for the people [01:27:40] that you work with. And so it’s almost like this emotional piece fitting [01:27:45] in with the logic of business. And I just think [01:27:50] it’s beautiful.

Payman Langroudi: It’s interesting though, you said to me, I said to her fear about, um, business [01:27:55] being like a bit of a family, which is kind of what you’re alluding to. And he said, he said, [01:28:00] certainly not pro sports team, not family.

Ashley King: No, I agree with that statement. And [01:28:05] okay, let me let me put it this way. You’re a goalie. What’s your job? [01:28:10]

Payman Langroudi: Uh, Cody.

Ashley King: What’s [01:28:15] your what’s your job on the team? What’s your. Yeah, [01:28:20] but what do you do?

Sophie Lovett: I say he doesn’t like football.

Ashley King: You save goals. I don’t [01:28:25] like football either. But everyone knows what a goalie does, right? And most people’s answer [01:28:30] is block the ball from going into the goal. Right. But no, that’s not their job. Their job is to win. [01:28:35] Yeah, yeah. And so it’s this idea that people can, in a [01:28:40] company, you can become so self-focused if you don’t have support and love for the people [01:28:45] around you, you won’t be actually successful. I don’t the family thing is toxic. [01:28:50] Yeah. Like they say, you can’t fire your family. I think that’s what a fear said. Um, we’re [01:28:55] all working towards one goal together though, and it’s going to be a lot more fun. We’re going to be a lot more [01:29:00] successful if we actually like each other and support each other.

Payman Langroudi: For sure, for sure. And you’re kind of alluding to that famous [01:29:05] story about the janitor at the NASA who’s helping put the guy on the moon or whatever. Yeah. [01:29:10]

Ashley King: Same with the hygienist, right?

Sophie Lovett: Do you know what? I’m gonna be really [01:29:15] boring here, but every day I’m looking at what makes a commercial dental [01:29:20] practice or group run. And I’m not not found [01:29:25] the sweet spot yet because it’s it’s so different. But you can look at people like [01:29:30] Anushka from Dermira Dev Patel. I mean, what Fazeela has done for Coliseum. And then [01:29:35] you can look at something completely different, like Mark Allen’s impact at Bupa. [01:29:40] And I think that I know these aren’t people who’ve written well, maybe they are haven’t necessarily [01:29:45] written books, but they’ve all done something that is completely different. I mean, [01:29:50] dev looks at the US model and he’s got the kind of beauty partners model they’ve they’ve [01:29:55] just bought in Curadon. You’ve got Anushka who is just [01:30:00] I mean.

Payman Langroudi: Extraordinary.

Sophie Lovett: Extraordinary in every sense in terms of how [01:30:05] she procures, how she runs her team. Everything. I mean, I [01:30:10] there must be 70 of her. I don’t know how she how she does it. And then she goes and does a marathon.

Speaker 8: Three [01:30:15] children, three children.

Sophie Lovett: Stunningly beautiful, you know. Yes.

Payman Langroudi: I was thinking [01:30:20] more outside of that.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. But I mean, I’m just looking at it from the commercial perspective as well, because now [01:30:25] nowadays where we’re looking to move, you know, we’re moving much away from the NHS model and [01:30:30] we’re still within an NHS system, how people are making this commercial [01:30:35] entity drive in. Um, you know, we’ve, we’ve went from kind [01:30:40] of like veneers ten, 15 years ago now we’ve got composite [01:30:45] and then it’s clear aligners and stuff. These people are constantly changing but constantly evolving and adapting [01:30:50] to this crazy commercial landscape. Um, and outside of, [01:30:55] outside of dental. Um, my absolute [01:31:00] mentor, um, Jess Clydesdale, who I went to university with [01:31:05] has been instrumental in, um, absolutely everything I’ve done in [01:31:10] terms of what jobs I’ve taken, what I should ask for, who I, who I speak [01:31:15] to about getting a pay rise. Like we bully each other up. Um, and I’m going to be a [01:31:20] complete sycophant here and say that Ashley and I talk every single day about how we can be better [01:31:25] every day. Um, yeah. Like I can look to these books and stuff.

Speaker 8: But man, [01:31:30] you.

Payman Langroudi: It’s obvious you’re enjoying yourself at the same time. It’s obvious you’re very professional. [01:31:35] You know, you’re, you’ve got a goal. You know, it’s not just fun.

Ashley King: It’s like you’re in it to win it. But [01:31:40] we’re.

Payman Langroudi: Also.

Ashley King: We’re best friends. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And but it’s obvious you’re loving it. You know, you’re loving relationship. [01:31:45]

Sophie Lovett: You know what? We’re not always we don’t always. I feel like we don’t say what we want [01:31:50] to hear all the time. Like we say the things that are harder hitting that, you know, when [01:31:55] you love somebody so deeply that you can say things that are going to be constructively critical. [01:32:00] One of the best, best things that’s happened in my life is Ashley King in terms of [01:32:05] I think we’ve just really kind of supported each other up and we don’t [01:32:10] get jealous of each other. We are so excited. I mean, this was just supposed to be you today and [01:32:15] we just could be apart.

Ashley King: We’re a package deal. I there’s stats [01:32:20] that say if you work with your best friend, you’re more productive and you’re more likely to stay at your company. [01:32:25] Makes sense. And then at previous companies, I still talk to my best friend at that last [01:32:30] company. Like one of them, she just had a baby. And we send voice memos, you know, [01:32:35] weekly. And so I think it goes back to we’re spending most of our time at work. Why [01:32:40] not love the people that you work with? And it doesn’t mean that you’re the identity of your relationship [01:32:45] has to revolve completely around work. And it doesn’t mean that they have to [01:32:50] be family, because I think you can use and abuse people if you label them that way. But, [01:32:55] um, there’s just, I mean, we’re spending the time at work. Why not [01:33:00] do the most important thing in life and build relationships that matter.

Sophie Lovett: I think pearls is quite lucky [01:33:05] that it has such a well, it’s, you know, it’s done things. It’s done so many things right, [01:33:10] but it’s got such we’ve got such a good team. We’re about what, 300 now in the company. And but [01:33:15] there’s people who like working together. And because of that, I mean we work more hours than we [01:33:20] would if we didn’t enjoy each other’s company. Yeah. We have the best team here in the UK.

Ashley King: We’ll go to [01:33:25] dinner sometimes and, you know, just end up talking about work the whole time and then we’ll solve a [01:33:30] huge problem. But you know, you think about Paul Graham, who he he’s over Y Combinator. [01:33:35] He’s been a bunch of the early start-ups tech start-ups. He says don’t [01:33:40] start a company without a co-founder.

Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah. His big thing.

Ashley King: Yeah. It’s [01:33:45] super important. So you need to have your people and Sophie’s mine.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What [01:33:50] about if I say, what’s your biggest mistake you’ve made in business? [01:33:55]

Ashley King: Um, for me, I would say trying [01:34:00] too hard.

Payman Langroudi: Trying to sell something [01:34:05] to someone who doesn’t want to buy it.

Speaker 8: Yeah.

Ashley King: Or just, you know, you work with a partner, it’s not working [01:34:10] or you’re trying to go into a territory. The territory is a good example.

Sophie Lovett: I think it’s [01:34:15] a mistake. I love, you know, we’re.

Ashley King: Still working on it. We haven’t given up. But like we just don’t [01:34:20] have the right people or things in place right now to be successful there. Yeah. And it’s like sunk cost fallacy [01:34:25] almost. But I look back at all of the amazing things [01:34:30] that have happened to me and my successes, and a lot of them did not involve an [01:34:35] enormous amount of effort of trying to make it work.

Payman Langroudi: You’re right.

Ashley King: It’s I believe.

Sophie Lovett: It was something that [01:34:40] just fit like it’s.

Ashley King: Alignment. Yeah, yeah. So I think, and, and when you’re trying [01:34:45] too hard, you’re not having fun.

Speaker 8: Yeah. You’re right.

Sophie Lovett: You know, something Ashley does is she’ll [01:34:50] tell you what she’s great at. And then you look at what she’s great at. My biggest mistake in [01:34:55] business and life was I used to not speak very nicely about myself, so I would go [01:35:00] in maybe for a 1 to 1 with a manager and I would say, I’m so sorry I haven’t done this yet. I’m [01:35:05] so, you know, apologising, you know, maybe not to that extent, but directing people towards my [01:35:10] flaws.

Speaker 8: Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: And again, I think that this is where I’m trying to change that. Maybe it’s a masculine thing [01:35:15] where you go in and you say, I have done this, I’m doing amazingly. How you know I’m [01:35:20] indispensable.

Payman Langroudi: It’s kind of a self-confidence issue, I guess.

Sophie Lovett: And it’s totally changed in [01:35:25] the last few years. Um, it has completely transformed. And now I just feel so confident [01:35:30] about going in and saying, here’s what I’m doing. You need me. But for a long time, that wasn’t [01:35:35] the case. Or in my perception was that. But perception is reality, as you always say.

Ashley King: I [01:35:40] think that you made a good point about it being a confidence thing, because what [01:35:45] Sophie is, is very authentic. But if if you’re being authentic [01:35:50] and you don’t actually like yourself, yeah, you know, authenticity is great, [01:35:55] but make sure you like yourself first.

Sophie Lovett: But we have. We collectively [01:36:00] we have been. Some of our biggest mistakes are that we have ground [01:36:05] ourselves to the bone. Right. And we have worked so hard. And then every now and then we just need to stop and say, what’s it [01:36:10] for? Okay. You live life once. We also need to go. Have a lovely time.

Ashley King: Yeah. Go [01:36:15] on.

Sophie Lovett: Holiday. Yeah. And I think both, every time we reset and do something that’s away from work, [01:36:20] we come back with just a better mentality, a way of going [01:36:25] about things. And, you know, it’s not just about being in this bubble.

Payman Langroudi: I also think it’s [01:36:30] important to have those times during the week, you know, times where you’re not full on. [01:36:35] Yeah. Times, time. I think it’s important to have time where you’re not expected [01:36:40] to do anything. Yeah.

Ashley King: Are you talking about. I [01:36:45] think of this in two ways. Like personal selfish time has nothing to do [01:36:50] with work or anyone else. It’s like pursuing.

Payman Langroudi: What I’m saying. It’s good for work. It’s good for.

Ashley King: You. So you’re talking. So the second [01:36:55] way I was going to say is, and this is what two women who are very successful at our [01:37:00] company have told me, they said you need at least 90 minutes a week, preferably [01:37:05] a day to strategize. Yeah. You’re not doing anything. So I’ve [01:37:10] tried to like bake that into my schedule.

Sophie Lovett: And what, like strategizing about your life outside of work? [01:37:15]

Ashley King: No. At work? Yeah. Like if you’re in meetings.

Payman Langroudi: When I was when I was an associate dentist, I [01:37:20] mean, as a practice principle, like it’s a different story, but an associate dentist, I went from [01:37:25] 5 to 4 days, and on the fifth day I thought I’d be [01:37:30] enlightened. Yeah. Yeah. There would be no enlightened if I was working five days a week.

Sophie Lovett: Is that what you called it? [01:37:35] Enlightened? Was it an enlightening moment for you on that fifth day? Sounds [01:37:40] quite biblical.

Payman Langroudi: But honestly, I wouldn’t have. I really wouldn’t have. Because on that [01:37:45] fifth day, I was reading self-development books. 26 year old kid. I was reading self-development books [01:37:50] and I was thinking about what to do and all of that. Um, and, but now [01:37:55] that I reckon 90 minutes a day is actually right. Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: One of our core values [01:38:00] at Pearl is be an owner. Mhm. And yeah, that really feeds [01:38:05] into that. And I think they genuinely do not micromanage. They allow us to do [01:38:10] our thing, you know, provided that you’re doing something that is for the cause. And it’s allowed [01:38:15] us, as you said earlier, doing this, doing things that have really got Pearl’s name out there. I [01:38:20] mean.

Payman Langroudi: Now you’ve done a good job, you’ve done a good job.

Sophie Lovett: I think we’ve done an excellent job. Yeah. [01:38:25] I mean, who knew about Pearl wasn’t here before 2020, [01:38:30] 2019. And now, you know, if you haven’t got [01:38:35] it, you know about it. This is based on a few people in the UK team.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:38:40] think maybe now’s a good time to talk about your competitor.

Sophie Lovett: Go on then.

Payman Langroudi: Go [01:38:45] on.

Sophie Lovett: We don’t see them.

Ashley King: We have we have several competitors. Yeah we have a which one are you talking about. [01:38:50]

Payman Langroudi: So what’s your USP? As as you know, in this in this category, in this space, compared to [01:38:55] competitors USP, I mean, um, let’s just go with Overjet for the sake of the argument.

Sophie Lovett: I [01:39:00] like this question. Right. So we have been put on this land on this UK territory. [01:39:05] Yeah. To learn and listen, the reason that we have partners in the Netherlands [01:39:10] looking for some in Australia, in the Nordics is because Pearl knows [01:39:15] that dentistry is different in every single different territory. What really sets us apart [01:39:20] is the product here is not the same as it is in the US. It’s different. We have [01:39:25] gathered information that’s allowed us to be super compliant [01:39:30] in the different territories. Some of them, some of our, our, um, competitor [01:39:35] products. They’re not patient facing because they’ve not got the compliance because they don’t know where to look. [01:39:40] So I think one of the things is the robustness of the data that’s trained the product. And [01:39:45] that’s not just we’ve just looked at people in the US, The product has been trained on [01:39:50] radiographs from all over the world. Okay, we’ve listened to what is needed. We’ve [01:39:55] got rid of what’s extraneous and what’s not required for the UK or other territories. [01:40:00] And we’re here. We have clinicians in the UK who work for Pearl who [01:40:05] understand UK dentistry. Again, our partners have clinicians in [01:40:10] the Netherlands and the Nordics who understand UK dentistry territory dentistry. That [01:40:15] is for me, the biggest differentiator. And first and foremost, [01:40:20] we’re actually within the products themselves. So we understand the workflow as well. We do not sit [01:40:25] in our rooms all day. We go out, we go into.

Payman Langroudi: The positioning of Pearl compared [01:40:30] to other competitors.

Ashley King: So I think like right now, Sophie gave a good picture as [01:40:35] to why we’re different in this moment. Fundamentally, [01:40:40] as an organisation. My big I’m [01:40:45] like an evangelist on culture. It’s really annoying and it sounds really cheesy, [01:40:50] but culture eats strategy for breakfast.

Sophie Lovett: Mhm.

Ashley King: The [01:40:55] people at Pearl and our mission and vision is what differentiates [01:41:00] us from our partner or our competitors. I also ascribe [01:41:05] to. I’m reading 0 to 1 right now by Peter Thiel. Say what you may about him. He’s [01:41:10] a genius.

Payman Langroudi: The book.

Ashley King: Yeah. Yeah. Good book. And his thing is, competition is for losers, right? We [01:41:15] created a product where really no one had had created a 2D detection. [01:41:20] We have a few competitors now, but where we’re moving and the movements [01:41:25] that we’re making, you can see in the US to add on workflow efficiency [01:41:30] products, etc.. And we plan on doing this globally as well, [01:41:35] catered to the specific markets. It goes back to what our ethos [01:41:40] is, which is allowing dentists to provide the best patient care and get back to dentistry. [01:41:45] Um, and I think because we have this fundamental [01:41:50] altruistic in a way, like we want to make dentistry, we’re elevating [01:41:55] the standard of dentistry, right? This is our why. And that that’s going to be out any [01:42:00] competitor where that’s not clear.

Payman Langroudi: So look, I mean, if you had $1 billion [01:42:05] exit before. Yeah. So he knows what he’s doing. Yeah. But what is he doing. [01:42:10] I mean, how is it that the culture is so like you’re on the other side of the world? How do they get their culture [01:42:15] over to you?

Ashley King: I think I mean, you said it, he he could have probably just retired [01:42:20] if he wanted to. He’s doing it for the love of the game. And he’s doing it because he wants to impact an industry.

Payman Langroudi: Like [01:42:25] if you were advising me, I want to get culture through to my team.

Sophie Lovett: He came here, right?

Payman Langroudi: There’s only 40 of them. [01:42:30]

Sophie Lovett: He comes to see us. This is the thing. You know, he has a real presence.

Ashley King: Number one for sure.

Payman Langroudi: Really? [01:42:35]

Sophie Lovett: He really is a presence. Yeah. It’s his baby. And you’ve got to remember, he is the son of a dentist.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [01:42:40] yeah, yeah.

Sophie Lovett: And, uh, the his co-founder, Doctor Carl Stanley.

Ashley King: I think it’s really [01:42:45] basic. It’s like it goes back to the Simon Sinek start with why like all this, what’s your [01:42:50] why? But the way that you actually execute on it is [01:42:55] showing up. And you have to tell your team what it is and [01:43:00] keep saying it over and over. Repetition, get them bought in. Also, I’m like so much more excited to go to work [01:43:05] and say, I’m, I’m fundamentally changing dentistry than I’m glad I’m, I’m adding shareholder value. [01:43:10] Like no one wakes up in the morning wanting to do that.

Payman Langroudi: Of course.

Sophie Lovett: I think he, you know, I think he likes the people he works with as well. [01:43:15] You know, he wants to have this. He’s a cool guy. He’s an amazing product. He’s an absolute [01:43:20] genius, isn’t he? Yeah. But this weekend he was whatsapping me. You know, he it feels really [01:43:25] personal. And again, it feels like that we’re passing that on [01:43:30] to our users as well. We work with people we like to work with, but we also [01:43:35] provide value with this product. That’s excellent. I think you kind of have to have both. You [01:43:40] know, the reason that people buy something sometimes is like, oh yeah, it’s a great product. But actually [01:43:45] I really like who I’m working with. These guys know what they’re doing. We know what we’re doing, and [01:43:50] I think we really listen as well. And that’s what affair does. He still runs all the company calls [01:43:55] us. And you know, if he wants to chime in [01:44:00] and say something, he will. It’s really personal.

Ashley King: It’s authentic. It just goes. And [01:44:05] you know, you’re talking about the 3D reality and what we can see. But they say authenticity [01:44:10] has like the highest vibration and like wavelength. That’s what the spiritual world says. [01:44:15] And I think that that is what it’s authenticity. Yeah. We’re [01:44:20] all here. And you trust me, you’re not going to work at Pearl if you don’t believe in the mission and vision, because you’re going [01:44:25] to work really hard for something you don’t care about, right? We’re all here because we love the [01:44:30] mission we have. And like, we love the game. So. And that comes from [01:44:35] top down, right?

Payman Langroudi: It is cool.

Sophie Lovett: It’s really cool, isn’t it? I was doing some filming, uh, with [01:44:40] a group called Jen Smile. Stunning practices, by the way. Went to my first dental [01:44:45] practice with a swimming pool. Thank you.

Ashley King: Okay.

Sophie Lovett: It was gorgeous.

Ashley King: Can we go there this summer and just [01:44:50] get a tan? Absolutely.

Sophie Lovett: Jen, smile if you’re listening. Um, and, uh, so I was doing the filming [01:44:55] and this videographer came along and he said to me, it was really nice filming something [01:45:00] where I understood the product whilst I was filming it. So he had no idea about it beforehand. But [01:45:05] um, he said he got it really, really quickly. He said it [01:45:10] was such a cool product, but it also makes him filming a lot easier because [01:45:15] he knows where to sort of change things, cut things when when he knows what it is. He says he films [01:45:20] so many times where he just absolutely has no idea what the person does or the company does.

Ashley King: Wow. [01:45:25]

Sophie Lovett: Um, so we’ve just got so many different things. We’ve got so many [01:45:30] strings to this bow that just, I feel really privileged to be able to work here. It’s, I mean, there’s people [01:45:35] lining up to work here. It’s it’s tough. It’s so tough. Um, [01:45:40] but it’s so rewarding as well.

Payman Langroudi: I did a bit on another pod. Yeah. And I [01:45:45] enjoyed it. So I want to throw it in now. It’s unrelated to kind of work. It’s kind of a guilty pleasures [01:45:50] section. What’s your guilty pleasure when it comes to food? [01:45:55] Fast food.

Ashley King: Honest [01:46:00] burger.

Payman Langroudi: Honest.

Ashley King: I’m a big fan.

Payman Langroudi: Have you had have you had the black [01:46:05] Bear?

Ashley King: No.

Payman Langroudi: Oh my goodness. There’s one around the corner. Unbelievable.

Ashley King: Let’s go.

Sophie Lovett: What’s yours? [01:46:10] Is that.

Payman Langroudi: Kfc? Kfc?

Sophie Lovett: No, no, no, it’s not that.

Ashley King: That’s a [01:46:15] good choice.

Sophie Lovett: My mum used to make when she was at university. She’d like, does this whole, uh, woe [01:46:20] is me thing? And she went to Preston Polytechnic, which I think is now the University of Central Lancashire. [01:46:25] Um, but she used to make soup with KFC bones. [01:46:30]

Payman Langroudi: Oh yeah.

Sophie Lovett: She was a poor student, apparently. And so no, not, necessarily. [01:46:35] I don’t know, whatever I have anything.

Payman Langroudi: Guilty pleasure. Music.

Ashley King: Oh. [01:46:40] Like 90s. Country. Country.

Sophie Lovett: 90s country.

Ashley King: Shania Twain. [01:46:45] Oh, yeah. I’m going out tonight. Looks like we made [01:46:50] it. Yeah.

Sophie Lovett: I could just listen to divorced.

Ashley King: After that song.

Sophie Lovett: I [01:46:55] could listen to The kinks and and Fleetwood Mac and Beatles all day on repeat. [01:47:00]

Ashley King: Oh, sunny day by the kinks.

Payman Langroudi: Before your time.

Sophie Lovett: Slightly before my time, yeah. And the kinks, [01:47:05] yeah. I love the kinks so much. They’re so good.

Ashley King: You put me on to them. The kinks. [01:47:10] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What about if you had nothing like. No, no no work, no expectation. You had half a day to yourself. What would [01:47:15] you do?

Sophie Lovett: I’d probably download Candy crush.

Payman Langroudi: Do you like it?

Sophie Lovett: No. [01:47:20] I really have to avoid having games on my phone. I just think. [01:47:25]

Payman Langroudi: You get addicted.

Sophie Lovett: Oh, yeah, they are, but they are designed to do that. You know, I think a lot of people would probably [01:47:30] think that and not say it, but, I mean, I love a cryptic crossword. I’m such a loser. So [01:47:35] either give me a cryptic crossword or Candy crush. No, I don’t have Candy crush. But honestly, if I had. [01:47:40] If I had no work to do. I hate being bored. I hate being bored. But I would probably download [01:47:45] phone games. Oh.

Ashley King: That’s so funny.

Sophie Lovett: Sorry. Oh no, I wouldn’t read. I’d just waste.

Payman Langroudi: Time [01:47:50] stuck in the guilty pleasure bit. Oh. What about.

Ashley King: You? Half day off.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Ashley King: Oh, [01:47:55] man.

Payman Langroudi: Go berserk. Whole day off. Honestly, like no expectation.

Ashley King: I’m. [01:48:00] My ass is in a chair on the beach. And I’m getting a tan. I’m drinking pina [01:48:05] colada.

Payman Langroudi: That’s why you’re in London.

Sophie Lovett: Oh, I thought you meant if we couldn’t do. If we had no, like, money.

Payman Langroudi: Or you’re [01:48:10] in.

Sophie Lovett: London.

Ashley King: Yeah, right. I know, I know, maybe maybe I’m [01:48:15] in Kent on the coast on a nice sunny day.

Sophie Lovett: We’re in. We’re in a small swimming pool in Dorchester. [01:48:20]

Ashley King: No, Saint Ives is great. I went there two years ago. It was beautiful. But yeah, [01:48:25] I think I would.

Sophie Lovett: Do one hand strawberry daiquiri, the other.

Ashley King: This is. That’s like Sophie’s thing. She’ll order [01:48:30] both at one time.

Payman Langroudi: Excellent.

Ashley King: She looks like a total alcoholic.

Sophie Lovett: It’s called a Miami [01:48:35] Vice. Yeah. And I do like Miami Vice, but I like to have. I feel very even. [01:48:40] When am I going to Dental forum? Yes.

Payman Langroudi: Excellent.

Sophie Lovett: Are you.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:48:45] don’t know.

Sophie Lovett: I tell you where we are going.

Payman Langroudi: Two days after the Ministry of Health.

Sophie Lovett: We’re going to the Ministry of Sound, aren’t we, Ashley?

Ashley King: We [01:48:50] are.

Sophie Lovett: We fought for this.

Payman Langroudi: So you have to go to Dental forum. Like you have to leave. You know you can’t leave on the Sunday [01:48:55] morning. You have to.

Sophie Lovett: Leave. I’m having I’m having a day recovery from. No, we might leave [01:49:00] slightly early. I don’t think we’re going to drink at the Minimalist Ministry, are we?

Ashley King: Definitely not.

Payman Langroudi: Final [01:49:05] questions. A fantasy dinner party. Three guests, dead or alive? [01:49:10]

Ashley King: Okay, so I was thinking about this. It depends on what the vibe is like. [01:49:15] Are we. Is this like a fun dinner party? Am I trying to learn?

Payman Langroudi: If you want to have fun. [01:49:20] Have fun. Invite invite a fun guy. Okay.

Ashley King: I [01:49:25] my answer to you would be Mur Mira [01:49:30] murati. She is a. She was the CTO of OpenAI.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. [01:49:35]

Ashley King: And now she runs thinking labs.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Ashley King: She’s like one of the more prominent women [01:49:40] behind the AI movement that no one knows about it. Um, [01:49:45] so I would like to.

Payman Langroudi: Wish you from Romania.

Ashley King: She’s Albanian, I think. Albanian.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I’ve [01:49:50] seen I’ve seen the profile.

Ashley King: And I keep trying to find different like podcasts and like, she just has [01:49:55] very little presence. So I would like to sit in a room with her and ask her some [01:50:00] questions. She seems like a genius. Um, the second person. So this [01:50:05] is, by the way, this dinner is like trying to learn everything that I can. Dinner. [01:50:10] Not a fun dinner. So, Sophie, I think you’d be really bored if.

Sophie Lovett: Ashley’s, like, real. [01:50:15] So she sends me on Instagram. Have changed from being, like to, like, code. Yeah. [01:50:20] Claude hack.

Ashley King: This is my toxic productivity. Taking [01:50:25] a fun exercise and turning it into. Anyway, um, the next person who [01:50:30] I would like to learn. Paul Graham um, and then Nikola [01:50:35] Tesla.

Payman Langroudi: Nikola Tesla. Yeah. Yeah. Well done.

Ashley King: Um, I feel like there’s a lot that [01:50:40] he discovered, especially around free energy and all these [01:50:45] scientists that have been dying. There’s like 12 different scientists who are studying something adjacent to what he.

Payman Langroudi: Said, something [01:50:50] about propulsion.

Ashley King: And like anti-gravity. And I think all of it goes back to the free energy. [01:50:55] And so I’m very fascinated. That’s I have ADHD, so I get like very. Did you study in uni, public [01:51:00] health and biology? Oh, really? Yeah. So yep. That’s who it would be a [01:51:05] very interesting. Everyone would be way smarter than me. But that’s how you learn.

Sophie Lovett: Who [01:51:10] do I have? I’m not going to go Joe Lovitz route and say my partner. Um.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:51:15] don’t allow I don’t allow that.

Sophie Lovett: In my partner.

Payman Langroudi: I don’t allow that answer. I never allow that.

Sophie Lovett: She’s Cuban though, [01:51:20] so, you know, so I would probably have, oh my gosh, I’m such a loser. But I just love Rory [01:51:25] Stewart So much Rory Love Rory Stewart so much. Do you know who I [01:51:30] would love to hear from? Whether it’s in her voice or her [01:51:35] fake voice is, I want to know what Elizabeth Holmes actually thinks. I [01:51:40] wouldn’t have that.

Ashley King: Sophie has like a weird she’s like, weirdly, she’s even wearing the black shirt [01:51:45] like like black turtleneck.

Sophie Lovett: I was talking today about like, how I can change my voice. Um, I [01:51:50] just think like, once you go lower, then you become more successful.

Ashley King: So if Sophie starts a [01:51:55] company after this, be concerned.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, if I, if I, if.

Payman Langroudi: You’re fascinated by the way she pulled the wool [01:52:00] over everyone’s eyes.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. And if like, how much she’s deluding [01:52:05] herself about what she did and didn’t know. Right.

Ashley King: Like I feel like she was actually, I think she actually believed [01:52:10] that she could do it. Like, I don’t think she went into minutes.

Sophie Lovett: Five more minutes, right? Like 5 [01:52:15] million more.

Ashley King: She was just so pathological that she believed her own lies kind of thing.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. Um, [01:52:20] I need someone funny. Um, I mean, you can come to my dinner party if [01:52:25] you want. No, no. No, man. Um, Nick garrison from Pearl. [01:52:30] So funny.

Ashley King: Also super smart.

Sophie Lovett: So [01:52:35] smart.

Ashley King: Went to Harvard. Smart guy.

Sophie Lovett: Um, no, I don’t know.

Ashley King: I think that’s a good answer. We’ll leave it at [01:52:40] Nick.

Sophie Lovett: Let’s leave it with Nick.

Payman Langroudi: Amazing.

Sophie Lovett: Have you met Nick?

Payman Langroudi: No.

Sophie Lovett: He, like, he, um. [01:52:45] He. He’d come in in his overalls. You’d be like, oh, this room doesn’t need painting [01:52:50] today.

Ashley King: Our joke with Nick is, like, which tradesperson are you dressed as today? Yeah. [01:52:55]

Sophie Lovett: You, like, dislike.

Ashley King: Struggling artists.

Sophie Lovett: Disney.

Ashley King: Bouncers.

Sophie Lovett: And architects.

Ashley King: But [01:53:00] he actually is good style.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. And like, this guy will give you the brutal [01:53:05] truth as well. Like.

Payman Langroudi: Is he based in L.A., though?

Sophie Lovett: He’s based in LA. His ideas [01:53:10] and morals are so spot on as well. He’s he’s really trying to do a [01:53:15] lot now for the UK and um, in terms of how we can support [01:53:20] paediatric dental care as well. He’s he’s a really kind of moral smart guy.

Ashley King: He is [01:53:25] he he’s also someone who I think has really maybe [01:53:30] he’s more vocal about them, but he has contrarian beliefs compared to what I like. [01:53:35] I’ll say something that I think is a great idea. And then he’ll be like, no, you’re completely wrong. And let me [01:53:40] tell you why. And I’m like, damn, yeah, yeah, you’re kind of right, actually.

Sophie Lovett: And [01:53:45] also he’s.

Ashley King: Like, he.

Sophie Lovett: Just, he like, he kind of like [01:53:50] morally name drops as well. So he’ll just be like, oh yeah, Jen [01:53:55] and Jen and Brad or like Jen and.

Payman Langroudi: Get into ministry. Well.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, [01:54:00] he’s a good guy. Ministry. Yeah. A lot of people want to come to ministry. Tell us [01:54:05] about ministry.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, we’re gonna have so much fun.

Sophie Lovett: We’re gonna have so.

Payman Langroudi: Much, so much fun trying experimental [01:54:10] education in this new, new setting.

Sophie Lovett: Can I ask you a question?

Payman Langroudi: Sure.

Sophie Lovett: If [01:54:15] you were principal again, would you have Pearl?

Payman Langroudi: Oh, of course, I [01:54:20] was never a principal there. I never owned a practice.

Sophie Lovett: Make Payman principal again. [01:54:25] But you say. You say, of course. So definitively. [01:54:30] What makes you say that?

Payman Langroudi: The trust question. What I said about trust. It’s [01:54:35] huge. I was good at knowing what dentistry was about. I was, I enjoyed it, I enjoyed [01:54:40] being a dentist. Um, definitely. It’s about trust. Yeah. Yeah. That’s [01:54:45] the key point. Um, it’s a bit like, you know, you know that thing EMS do that. Uh, gee, [01:54:50] what’s it? Guided biofilm therapy. Yeah. On paper it sounds ridiculous. [01:54:55] Yeah, it’s a 200 £0 scaler. That’s crazy. Whereas it’s, you know, it’s the [01:55:00] regular scale is like $500. This thing’s like 20 grand. Yeah, it sounds ridiculous, [01:55:05] but every single patient goes through that thing and it makes a [01:55:10] cleaning much more comfortable. Yeah. And when you realise that the value [01:55:15] of it’s way more than 20,000.

Ashley King: Right.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s, it’s one of those things.

Sophie Lovett: So seeing past [01:55:20] the face value of something and then looking into.

Payman Langroudi: Like a no brainer.

Sophie Lovett: It isn’t a.

Payman Langroudi: Total [01:55:25] no brainer. And I didn’t even realise it was that cheap. I thought it’d be much more.

Sophie Lovett: I know, I know, when.

Ashley King: I joined, I was like, [01:55:30] that’s all we charge. But now, you know, we get pushback on price all the time. So I don’t [01:55:35] know. It depends.

Sophie Lovett: People often say, and who you are is that, like you said, is that that’s not per [01:55:40] practice. Is that per chair?

Payman Langroudi: Per chair?

Sophie Lovett: Yeah. But people do have single chair practices who pay for it. I [01:55:45] mean, and I’ve said to everybody, cancel it. If if it’s not making [01:55:50] that return and we have no cancellations, do we. It’s um.

Ashley King: Very low churn.

Sophie Lovett: Yeah, [01:55:55] yeah. It’s an incredible product. We’re very lucky to be working here.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:56:00] wish my people were as enthusiastic about my stuff as.

Sophie Lovett: They love working.

Ashley King: Sometimes I feel like I’m in a cult. I’m like, am [01:56:05] I gonna realise like, ten years from now? You know, like hindsight is 2020, like.

Sophie Lovett: Send [01:56:10] us that special water, don’t they? That we have to drink?

Ashley King: Oh yeah. Oh yeah. That medicine, that pill [01:56:15] we have to take every morning. Yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Don’t turn up to that final meeting at Mafia’s [01:56:20] country home.

Ashley King: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Sophie Lovett: He sent us.

Ashley King: He said something about kool aid. [01:56:25] I don’t know, it was weird.

Payman Langroudi: It’s been a massive pleasure. Thank you so much for coming. I really [01:56:30] enjoyed.

Ashley King: It. Thank you so much.

[VOICE]: This is Dental Leaders, [01:56:35] the podcast where you get to go one on one with emerging leaders in dentistry. [01:56:40] Your hosts Payman [01:56:45] Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

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Professor Tara Renton OBE brings four generations of dental history — and a career built on curiosity rather than ambition — to her conversation with Payman.

 From navigating undiagnosed dyslexia and a father who begged her not to follow him into dentistry, to becoming the first female chair of oral surgery at King’s College London, her story is one of serendipity, resilience, and an almost obsessive interest in the patient behind the pain. 

She shares remarkable insights into orofacial pain — nerve injuries, psychosocial histories, patients whose chronic pain only begins to shift when someone finally takes the time to ask the right question — and makes a compelling case for multidisciplinary thinking in a profession she feels has been far too siloed for far too long. 

Sharp reflections on surgical safety, local anaesthetic technique, and the state of dental education sit alongside something warmer: a life philosophy that’s disarmingly simple. Stay curious.

 

In This Episode

00:02:50 – Four generations of dentists

00:06:05 – Child dental health crisis

00:07:20 – New grandmother

00:10:00 – Choosing dentistry

00:17:05 – Serendipity over ambition

00:37:15 – The juggle: three kids and a PhD

00:41:00 – Bullying and misogyny in surgery

00:44:45 – King’s: first chair in oral surgery

00:47:35 – Multidisciplinary pain clinic

00:49:25 – The Iranian patient

00:56:00 – Trust underpins consent

01:00:00 – Classifying orofacial pain

01:07:05 – When grief resolves chronic pain

01:12:15 – Blackbox thinking

01:17:00 – Local anaesthetic tips

01:22:00 – Wrong site surgery

01:25:30 – Dental student selection

01:27:15 – Redesigning the dental course

01:47:50 – Bruxism: rethinking the evidence

01:50:15 – Fantasy dinner party

01:53:45 – Last days and legacy

 

About Professor Tara Renton OBE

Professor Tara Renton OBE is Emeritus Professor of Oral Surgery at King’s College London Dental Institute, where she became the first female chair of oral surgery — and one of the world’s leading authorities on orofacial pain and nerve injury. Over a career spanning more than 40 years, she has authored over 250 research papers, completed a PhD centred on morbidity following third molar surgery, established a pioneering multidisciplinary pain clinic at King’s, and carried out extensive medico-legal work in surgical safety. She is the co-founder of the patient resource orofacialpain.org.uk.

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[VOICE]: This [00:00:35] is Dental Leaders. The [00:00:40] podcast where you get to go one on one with [00:00:45] emerging leaders in dentistry. Your [00:00:50] hosts Payman Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

Payman Langroudi: It [00:00:55] gives me great pleasure to welcome Professor Tara Renton, OBE [00:01:00] onto the podcast. Does that mean I have to call you Dame now? No.

Tara Renton: Absolutely [00:01:05] not. It was the latest I know. I can’t believe it. [00:01:10] I’ve got goosebumps even talking about it. And have you been. No [00:01:15] no no no. You get you get a letter from um the Cabinet [00:01:20] Office like in big letters on the envelope I think. Oh my God, what have I done? This was like end of November [00:01:25] or what had my husband done more importantly. And um, and you open it [00:01:30] up and it basically is three sheets as a questionnaire. You fill in if you’re accepted or not, and a bit about your [00:01:35] E and D bits and pieces. And then, um, basically the letter says, um, [00:01:40] you have to keep this secret. You’re not allowed to tell anyone. Mhm. Um, and you’re [00:01:45] sort of in a state of disbelief. Um, and I managed to keep it [00:01:50] quiet for my husband for who’s of 39 years. Um, my sort of, my, [00:01:55] my, my biggest supporter, my silent weapon. I like to call him. Um, no, [00:02:00] no, actually for nearly two weeks. But the person I was most desperate [00:02:05] to tell was my 87 year old mum, I bet, and I was, and I just thought, I can’t, I can’t, [00:02:10] I’m so glad I didn’t. Um, and so I told my husband, we didn’t tell anyone. And then we were at a [00:02:15] New Year’s party with friends and one of them and found out and you get [00:02:20] this little trickle of people who obviously there’s some people obviously study it every year, like in depth. And I’ve got some [00:02:25] lovely emails from people and texts. Um, and then one of my girlfriends has seen it and [00:02:30] announced it at the dinner party. So most, not all, but most of my good friends know. [00:02:35] So yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And you’ve told your honour.

Tara Renton: I’ve told my mum. Yes. I think.

Payman Langroudi: She’s.

Tara Renton: I think [00:02:40] she’s inventing people to ring up and tell she’s absolutely buzzing. Bless her. So [00:02:45] she’s, she’s widowed. Um b 30, 32 years [00:02:50] this year. My father was a dentist and died at 62 on an exercise bike. So [00:02:55] um, as I mentioned, you know.

Payman Langroudi: Four generations, four generations. [00:03:00]

Tara Renton: Yeah. So, um, three guys, I make another Wolfson [00:03:05] candidate, a bit like Richard Porter and others. Um, but um, [00:03:10] yeah, my, my father was a GP. Um, he was, he did his national, he did [00:03:15] his guy’s dentistry and then he did, um, LDS and then he did national service. Um, [00:03:20] and that’s how he met my mother. He was out in Cyprus during the Suez crisis. And my mother’s father was a, in [00:03:25] the army. So they met and married um there and then my grandfather was a dentist, [00:03:30] a private dentist in Golders Green. So he did dentistry with um, with um, uh, [00:03:35] basically, um, what do you call it now? Just just. [00:03:40]

Payman Langroudi: Operated.

Tara Renton: Yes. Well yes, it was, there was a trundle his front room in his house at number [00:03:45] 11, North End Road. If anyone was, was his surgery, they had that distinct smell and we used [00:03:50] to go and visit them. Um he was just up the road from the um the the the palladium [00:03:55] golden screen palladium. So he had always his, his, uh, his waiting room, which was [00:04:00] doubled up as a dining room at the weekends, a big fish tank always people like Sid James [00:04:05] and Hattie Jakes, all the big names were often sitting [00:04:10] in the waiting room.

Payman Langroudi: And your great grandfather.

Tara Renton: My great grandfather’s a bit more of a leap because [00:04:15] he did. He qualified in surgery in 191887 at [00:04:20] Barts, and he, um, went into the Indian [00:04:25] Army Medical Corps, and he, I think he did 3 or 4 tours there. So he [00:04:30] was there for a long time and a bit of a naughty boy. So he, um, he, um, [00:04:35] my grandmother, my great grandmother left him, came back with my grandfather [00:04:40] and his brother, who’s brother actually ended up being the royal vet Proby Cautley. And [00:04:45] um, and, uh, he retired, came back to England. And [00:04:50] in those days before the dental Act, he could, he decided to do dentistry, and I always thought that was a bit of an [00:04:55] odd choice. But it turns out, thanks to when I did a bit of research for courtly Dental dynasty for [00:05:00] the British Historical Society. He was one of six officers, [00:05:05] medical officers that were invited back to do a special course at Guy’s Hospital and [00:05:10] doing dental extractions, because obviously we all know with the Napoleonic saying, can’t bite, can’t [00:05:15] fight, we know the repercussions in the army of dental unfitness. And in [00:05:20] that in that era, I mean, it was after the Boer War where more people, as many people, [00:05:25] died of toothache as they did of being shot. Yeah. Apparently, um, in [00:05:30] those days it was a real problem. That’s what made made, rendered servicemen just unfit. So they basically [00:05:35] thought, well, we’ll bring six surgeons, medical officers back, teach them how to do dental extractions. [00:05:40] And that was the beginning of the Army Dental Corps. That’s really interesting. So that obviously swayed [00:05:45] his choice. He thought he’d retire in Norfolk and become a dentist.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. So I heard a statistic that 3,040% [00:05:50] of the of the military, the front line were [00:05:55] debilitated by dental pain, you know, back then.

Tara Renton: I’m not surprised.

Payman Langroudi: It’s so interesting.

Tara Renton: It is [00:06:00] fascinating. We live in today. I mean, we think 30% of, you know, the kids.

Payman Langroudi: Gas. [00:06:05]

Tara Renton: Gas. I mean, it’s, it’s, it’s the most common reason for kids under 12 to be [00:06:10] admitted to hospital is, is dental caries. It’s just, it’s, [00:06:15] it is shocking. And I, if you ask me about bugbears, that’s one of my bugbears. And [00:06:20] I know you’ve touched.

Payman Langroudi: On isn’t that like societal in the UK and that there [00:06:25] is a neglected bottom 10% in the UK or whatever percentage it is, but the. [00:06:30] And by neglected, I don’t necessarily only mean by the the the healthcare [00:06:35] system. It’s almost like the bottom 10% of everything in the UK has just been [00:06:40] let go. Everything. You know, you can have the best universities and you [00:06:45] can have the worst. You can have the best schools and the in the world and some of [00:06:50] the worst, the best restaurants in the world.

Tara Renton: And some of the words. I’ve never thought about it in percentages wise. [00:06:55] I mean, all these amazing initiatives, you know, Dental smile in Scotland [00:07:00] where they they get kids to read and brush their teeth with teddies and try and [00:07:05] encourage the parents to read with the kids and brush their teeth. I mean, there’s some fantastic incentives and you and [00:07:10] also increasingly now in nurseries, you know, I’ve got my first ever grandchild and [00:07:15] they’re talking about nurseries and we’re talking, they get breakfast and they get their teeth brushed.

Payman Langroudi: So it’s [00:07:20] how does it feel to become a grandmother?

Tara Renton: Oh my God, I never saw it. So surreal. 5th of December last year. [00:07:25]

Payman Langroudi: Is it surreal?

Tara Renton: It’s amazing. It’s amazing. And I’m not the most maternal person. [00:07:30] I, um, I never thought I’d have kids. I honestly didn’t all be married. No, I never did. [00:07:35] Never did. No. So all happy circumstance. I’ve got three lovely kids, and our eldest [00:07:40] son Tim’s had little sac and we were babysitting him yesterday. It’s. You can’t describe [00:07:45] it. I don’t think you just can’t describe it. It’s incredibly special and also slightly [00:07:50] anxiety producing as well. You think this world and what we’re talking about and yeah, [00:07:55] it’s.

Payman Langroudi: So did you feel the weight of becoming a dentist when [00:08:00] you were deciding this stuff? Because did you know about the three generations before you?

Tara Renton: I didn’t know, [00:08:05] no, I knew obviously my grandpa and obviously my father, but I didn’t know. So it’s a really good question. [00:08:10] Payman. Because actually, um, I thought perhaps in retrospect, [00:08:15] but actually at the time, I remember my dad being stressed all the time and [00:08:20] he loved his work. He loved his patients. He loved the NHS. It took me a while [00:08:25] to figure out at his funeral, actually, he was 17 when the NHS was invented. He was a massive [00:08:30] advocate of never doing private work, always doing NHS dentistry, and a lot of your [00:08:35] podcast people talk about the amount of admin work you do in general practice. My father was there till [00:08:40] midnight, 1:00 every night, every morning, doing all his old brown cards.

Payman Langroudi: Really?

Tara Renton: Yeah. [00:08:45] I mean, they saw so many patients. He had a dual surgery, he’d numb one patient up. [00:08:50] And then, you know, I mean, the volume of.

Payman Langroudi: And was it the traditional setup where you lived above [00:08:55] the.

Tara Renton: No, no, no separate practice. No. We lived about a mile up the road.

Payman Langroudi: Where where was.

Tara Renton: I? [00:09:00] Uh, Taunton, Somerset.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, a lovely place.

Tara Renton: It’s still a still a big practice. Now Bupa practice number [00:09:05] one. Staplegrove road. Yard house. So, um, so I grew up with my dad, and I could never [00:09:10] figure out he loved his work so much. And he was very, very dedicated. I could never understand what [00:09:15] it was. And it was sort of penny dropped, really. He never relaxed. He only ever took like two weeks holiday in [00:09:20] the summer. Um, and it was essentially at least 1 or 2 of his [00:09:25] partners just stressed him out. He hated taking time away from the practice because he’d come back and [00:09:30] something had been done or. Mhm. Um, and that was his big stress or he wasn’t probably the most [00:09:35] business oriented man either, which is I’ve inherited that. So I understood [00:09:40] that my. Yeah, I, I felt no pressure at all because actually when I [00:09:45] told him I could only do maths, I was pretty dyslexic at school, never diagnosed. I failed [00:09:50] my English O-level. Um. I struggled reading probably up until I got to university. Still, I struggled [00:09:55] then um and uh, but could do maths and physics. I got into girls grammar school, [00:10:00] you know, worked incredibly hard. Um, loved the sciency stuff. And I remember [00:10:05] thinking, what can I do with sciences? And I could do medicine, possibly do veterinary. [00:10:10] Um, in those days, probably still the same at some girls schools. I was offered nursing [00:10:15] or teaching. I was my mum was very ambitious for me. She never had a career, so she wanted me [00:10:20] to be independent and I did too. Um, and I remember thinking I kept coming back [00:10:25] to dentistry because I love art, I love using my hands. I love making things. I love using my brain. [00:10:30] I just thought, actually, I can travel, I can earn good money. I can work part time. What, [00:10:35] what a better job is there, you know, and, um.

Payman Langroudi: Back then was the percentage of women, much less. [00:10:40]

Tara Renton: Uh, well, it was my year at guy’s when I went to guy’s at 1979, was [00:10:45] the first year they had 50% girl students, so the movement had started. [00:10:50]

Payman Langroudi: 79. The year we got to Britain.

Tara Renton: Oh, really?

Payman Langroudi: Winter of discontent.

Tara Renton: Yes. [00:10:55]

Payman Langroudi: It was a tough time.

Tara Renton: It was.

Payman Langroudi: Tough. We were coming from Iran, which was like. It [00:11:00] felt like, I don’t know, whatever Dubai must feel like right now or something. Yeah. And we got here and it was dark [00:11:05] and it was raining and there was rubbish piled up because they hadn’t collected the rubbish. [00:11:10]

Tara Renton: All the strikes.

Payman Langroudi: Everyone was on strike.

Tara Renton: Yeah. And I thought such different times.

Payman Langroudi: And they [00:11:15] built it to us. You know, we were kids. Right. They built it to us as we’re going to England. It’s going to be great. I [00:11:20] was like, what happened here?

Tara Renton: Whereabouts in Iran did you come from?

Payman Langroudi: My, [00:11:25] we’re from the north. But. But we were living in Tehran. Right. Um, and we were very [00:11:30] lucky to get out in time. My dad had a few English people working for him. And when the UK embassy [00:11:35] told them, get out, we got out.

Tara Renton: So.

Payman Langroudi: So many people [00:11:40] didn’t manage to get out in time.

Tara Renton: You know, it’s a story that’s not told enough, I think. My husband was involved [00:11:45] with BP in Iran.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Tara Renton: And all through that transition, actually, it’s very interesting. [00:11:50] And I was very lucky. I got invited to lecture there about eight years ago and we went.

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Tara Renton: It’s the most [00:11:55] beautiful country and lovely people. So sad. What’s happening? Yeah. [00:12:00] You must have friends and relatives. I’m so sorry.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah yeah, yeah. I mean, and, you know, they even managed [00:12:05] to block Starlink now.

Tara Renton: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: It’s you can’t even, you know, my [00:12:10] uncle, we’ve only spoken to him once in the last three weeks, and [00:12:15] he was too scared to say anything. Um, he just kept on saying I’m okay, [00:12:20] I’m okay. But he wouldn’t talk about the situation because, you know, [00:12:25] this sort of 1984 thing that’s happening across all countries. Right. Yeah. [00:12:30] Um, it’s it’s a weird thing. I remember reading that book thinking it was, [00:12:35] it was a warning about communism or something. And I think it was right. That’s Sorry. And [00:12:40] thinking like, that’s, that’s, that’s a period in the past rather than that’s a period in the future. But [00:12:45] you feel like with data and AI and all of that, we [00:12:50] are merging with the machines. It’s one of those crazy things that there’s no getting in the way [00:12:55] of it now, because billions and billions are being thrown at it. Yeah. So those people aren’t going to stop? [00:13:00]

Tara Renton: No.

Payman Langroudi: Do you have any thoughts about my my, my daughter was saying she wants to [00:13:05] be a dentist.

Tara Renton: Well, you see, when I, when I came back from school, having had this really [00:13:10] awful session with a careers advisor, loosely termed, I remember saying to dad, [00:13:15] you know, I really wouldn’t mind doing dentistry. And he went absolutely over my dead body.

Payman Langroudi: Really? [00:13:20]

Tara Renton: And I said, but you love your work. He said, I love the work, but I don’t like the business. [00:13:25] And I find it very you know, I never said stressful. That was not one of [00:13:30] his vocabularies. But he just said, I don’t want you to do dentistry. So in the end, um, [00:13:35] I he was, he was both my parents were very sporty and played lots of hockey. We used to watch them [00:13:40] play hockey at the weekends and we. We all got shoved out to do sport as well, so we weren’t under their feet. And [00:13:45] um, he said he, he sort of capitulated and said, well, okay, okay. [00:13:50] And he said, do medicine or do, do veterinary. And, and I just said, well, I don’t really know [00:13:55] what they do. So in the end, he said, well, I’ll tell you what, um, I’ve asked my veterinary veteran [00:14:00] hockey team and I think there was a vet, there was a medic, there was a psychiatrist, there [00:14:05] was a solicitor, a barrister, an accountant. Um, what else was there. Oh [00:14:10] there was a manager of a, of a hardware store. Anyway, he said um if [00:14:15] you go and do work experience with all of those and come back and say you still want [00:14:20] to do dentistry, he wouldn’t have me in the in the surgery, he, I had to go and work with one of his partners.

Tara Renton: Uh, [00:14:25] then we’ll have a conversation. So I did, I dutifully did, I lasted probably [00:14:30] 15 minutes at the vets, the first little fluffy creature that I was going to be put down. That was it. I was out of there. [00:14:35] Um, I remember thinking with the GP and these are the days where you [00:14:40] couldn’t have someone sitting in there or you could with patient’s consent. But, and I remember thinking, God, [00:14:45] these, these blokes are stuck in a small room with mad people all day. And arguably that’s [00:14:50] what I’ve ended up doing. But, you know, and, and I had no concept of specialisation [00:14:55] or what possible things there were in the future. But I came away from that thinking, [00:15:00] I definitely don’t want to do medicine. I definitely don’t want to do veterinary. I definitely don’t [00:15:05] want to do accounting. Um, and, uh, and, and I had [00:15:10] a conversation with dad and he said, well, okay, um, then then [00:15:15] go for it. But he, you know, he did say caveat. You’re like me, young lady. You don’t have [00:15:20] any business acumen. So be very careful.

Payman Langroudi: You know, you listen as an aside, [00:15:25] let’s talk about that because I know it’s a tough business. It is a tough business. You’re breaking your [00:15:30] back. You’re in it rather than on it. At the same time though, the [00:15:35] economics of it work out that you don’t have to be Gordon Gekko to make [00:15:40] some money as a dentist. You’ve just got to be good to your patients. Good to your staff. Yeah. [00:15:45] Obviously, the basics of any like a corner shop has to pay its taxes and [00:15:50] and its rates and all that. But but you know what I mean. As a business, I wouldn’t call it a difficult [00:15:55] business. Much easier business than the one we’re in. Yeah. Yeah. This business overnight could [00:16:00] could, could be worth nothing. Yeah. You know, based on some global competitor. Yeah. [00:16:05] Whereas if you want to practice in Surrey and you’re nice to your people and nice to your. It’s [00:16:10] not a bad business.

Tara Renton: No, but still, essentially, I think you have to be comfortable with running [00:16:15] a business, comfortable putting your face out there, promoting yourself, asking [00:16:20] for money. None of those things were something that I.

Payman Langroudi: Didn’t come.

Tara Renton: Naturally. No. And certainly [00:16:25] didn’t come naturally to my father.

Payman Langroudi: You go. You go from Taunton to the big city. [00:16:30]

Tara Renton: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Firstly, how were you with that? I mean, that must have been super exciting. [00:16:35]

Tara Renton: I was super excited. I was I got in, I was a bit younger, so I was just [00:16:40] 17 and I was ready. My grandma and I’d been the odd visit to my grandpa [00:16:45] and he’d taken me to Hamleys and a couple of. He introduced me to ballet, which was one of my passions. Oh, nice. [00:16:50] Um, so I sort of, I definitely, definitely was ready to go to a big city. I got into [00:16:55] several places. I got into Bristol and Manchester. Um. Um, [00:17:00] but actually I thought London was for me for four and a half, five years.

Payman Langroudi: And [00:17:05] I didn’t manage to do the introduction properly yet. But you’re right now you’re a world leader in [00:17:10] orofacial pain. Um, tell me just just make me, make me feel better and [00:17:15] tell me that you weren’t always that sort of super ambitious, super focussed person? [00:17:20] No. So as a student, you would just.

Tara Renton: I worked hard, I think because of my [00:17:25] dyslexia. I, I, I, it’s quite interesting before [00:17:30] all these types of learning. All my O-levels. My bedroom wall was covered in [00:17:35] coloured bits of paper.

Payman Langroudi: So obviously your strategy for getting around.

Tara Renton: That’s how I could remember things [00:17:40] and how I could learn things. And I got, you know, I failed my I mentioned I failed my English O-level, but luckily it was a girls [00:17:45] grammar school. So we did all those basic five a year early. So I had another chance [00:17:50] to bite at the cherry I managed to pass it with. But you know, I was getting A’s and I was in top sets [00:17:55] for everything, but asked me to read out loud in an English class. I just wanted to die. [00:18:00] And I, you know, I had a tough time for some of the, some of the teachers as well who just think [00:18:05] thought I was just not trying just so I had this, um, ethos. And obviously, [00:18:10] as I said, my mum was quite ambitious for me, definitely to work very hard [00:18:15] and I did work hard. And I remember my first day at 17 at Guy’s Hospital in a biochemistry [00:18:20] lecture and I thought, I have arrived, I love this, I could [00:18:25] swear, love this. Um, I just knew I was in the right place. I [00:18:30] loved all the dissection. I loved that smell of formula. And I love the Gordon Museum. I love [00:18:35] all of that. That was just my you know, and I, I’m very, very [00:18:40] curious, you know, on all fronts.

Payman Langroudi: I’m horrified by dissection.

Tara Renton: I [00:18:45] just thought we were so honoured.

Payman Langroudi: Those people, of course.

Tara Renton: You know, I saw it from that perspective [00:18:50] and I just thought it was just so interesting. And you know, every which way did [00:18:55] different angles. I, I absolutely loved it. I was flying the first two years. Um, [00:19:00] did you party? Yes, yes. I had a lovely boyfriend at the time. [00:19:05] Very healthy social life, didn’t do much dancing, didn’t do much sport, had a [00:19:10] bike. So I did a bit of cycling, which I still do now. Very passionate about that. But um, no, no, I [00:19:15] had a really, really good time. Lots, lots of drinking.

Payman Langroudi: And what would you say then if we’re talking, [00:19:20] what was the sort of inflection point to go from that to? You’ve [00:19:25] put out 250 papers now.

Tara Renton: There wasn’t Payman.

Payman Langroudi: There was [00:19:30] no there must have been an inflection that you said, I want to be the best at something or I want to specialise. [00:19:35] I mean, not what tiny proportion.

Tara Renton: Specialise when I, when I walked out of, I got the [00:19:40] final year prize, I came second in the year, but that’s because I was loving [00:19:45] what I was doing and I worked hard. It wasn’t out of some focus of ambition. I [00:19:50] definitely, definitely knew I did.

Payman Langroudi: Not class yourself as an ambitious person.

Tara Renton: No.

Payman Langroudi: Really? [00:19:55]

Tara Renton: No.

Payman Langroudi: I love that.

Tara Renton: No. It’s serendipity. Honestly, I’ve [00:20:00] I’ve landed in a corner of my life in an area that I absolutely love. [00:20:05] I really enjoy the people I work with. I love still seeing the patients, [00:20:10] um, part. Retiring and moving away from surgeries made me realise how much I missed that. [00:20:15] Mhm. I don’t miss the admin. I don’t miss all the hassle that goes with the NHS. [00:20:20] Now. It’s so difficult to do things. So difficult to change things. Impossible [00:20:25] to be innovative. But no, I would not say I was an [00:20:30] ambitious person. I would always do. I always do my best on everything. And as I say with [00:20:35] that background, I just was doing in an area that I love. I remember qualifying in, [00:20:40] in dentistry, thinking, I’m never, ever going to come back and have to do any academic work ever again. Seriously. [00:20:45]

Payman Langroudi: How funny.

Tara Renton: But then I knew I didn’t want to do peds because it was just [00:20:50] too stressful working on children and their family. I knew I didn’t orthodontics.

Payman Langroudi: Similar [00:20:55] issues.

Tara Renton: And perio weren’t for me. And I remember Richard [00:21:00] Haskell was one of the consultants, an oral medic consultant, absolutely Armenian. [00:21:05] And he was a genius. He was intellectually brilliant. I remember him doing a giant [00:21:10] diagnosing giant cell arteritis and doing like a giant temporal artery biopsy, [00:21:15] just like that, you know, just and I sort of thought that’s the sort of person I would [00:21:20] really like. I’d like to be that good. I never thought I would would be anything like it. But, um, those [00:21:25] are the people that really inspired me.

Payman Langroudi: And did you, you must have had crisp and.

Tara Renton: Crisp [00:21:30] and Scully I love but never taught me. I had Roy Roy Castle, Roy Coulson, who was [00:21:35] an inspirational, inspirational Frank Ashley that comes later. [00:21:40] He was the one that pushed me to do a PhD. In the end, he was really.

Payman Langroudi: Edwina.

Tara Renton: Kidd. Edwina Kidd I [00:21:45] saw recently at the Dental day.

Payman Langroudi: Was she when you were.

Tara Renton: She was restorative. She was like a young lecturer and restorative. [00:21:50] Really. Richard Palmer. Oh, he was lovely. He’s still a good friend. He was a great mentor, actually, [00:21:55] as a student. Really lovely man.

Payman Langroudi: Have you put implants in as well? Yeah.

Tara Renton: Did implants. [00:22:00] This is how old I am. I think I put some of the first ever branemark and cor [00:22:05] vent and imz implants in, in my max fac training in Melbourne. So we’re.

Payman Langroudi: Going.

Tara Renton: Um, [00:22:10] when’s that 1987, 88, 89.

Payman Langroudi: So how long did it take [00:22:15] between qualifying and doing max max training. Was it pretty.

Tara Renton: Quick. Not, not it [00:22:20] was not an intentional thing. Nothing’s been intentional. And when a lot of the kids come up to me and say, oh, can [00:22:25] I have some career advice? I’m saying you’re asking the wrong person about career advice. My, my, you know, I [00:22:30] sort of focus down. I wanted to do a combination of, of medicine and surgery. [00:22:35] And the only options then were max fac. So basically, like a lot of people, you [00:22:40] know, the rich and porters of the world and other people, you think, actually, I’d like to get my first part [00:22:45] fellowship and I’d like I didn’t got an show with my, um, uh, [00:22:50] with Don Gibb, the Max fac surgeon who was the most of them were singly qualified or [00:22:55] singly qualified. Don Gibb um, and I remember did my first essay [00:23:00] and I thought, no, I really quite like this, you know, the, the casualty. And I’ve got some great stories about [00:23:05] what happened in casual and bits and pieces. And I really, I guess I just like being stretched [00:23:10] and in an area that I love and it just the potential just keeps.

Payman Langroudi: Going, going.

Tara Renton: And, [00:23:15] um, and then with Don Gibb’s help, I suspect I got shortlisted [00:23:20] for a Esho at Torbay Hospital and I was a massively keen windsurfer at the time. [00:23:25] So I applied for all the jobs along the South coast and I got the job at Torbay [00:23:30] and I was there for a year as an SHO. Stayed on for another year as a SHO forward slash registrar. [00:23:35] Hugh Brock he used to rock up to work either on a horse or on a motorbike. [00:23:40] He was a real character, had handlebar moustaches and a handlebar moustache and alongside [00:23:45] bands. He was a genius of a man and sadly died of bowel cancer far too young. Another [00:23:50] inspiration in my life. And um, I loved that work that and again, [00:23:55] work hard, play hard. Great doctors, great, great people. A lot of people just stayed [00:24:00] in Torbay. I don’t blame them. Um, and that was amazing.

Payman Langroudi: The work.

Tara Renton: It was, it [00:24:05] was, it was.

Payman Langroudi: Hard. The whole thing.

Tara Renton: Yeah. 1 in 2 on call, I think I did. Oh I did nine 1 [00:24:10] in 8 years, 1 in 2 on call. You add it all up. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: The old NHS. [00:24:15]

Tara Renton: The good old days. Yeah. 72 hours on. Yeah. Um.

Payman Langroudi: But you loved [00:24:20] it. Oh, I loved it. So then you decide to do Max factor training?

Tara Renton: Well, no, because I had [00:24:25] with my family guys, I was offered to do free medicine. And I remember thinking, [00:24:30] going back to that girl who did the work experience with her dad’s veteran hockey team, I don’t [00:24:35] want to do medicine. What is it going to change me? You know, surely I can do what I want to do without having [00:24:40] to spend another five years of my life doing. I don’t want to do that. Um, what I hadn’t realised [00:24:45] is obviously that time expired senior registrars were just beginning to happen. So [00:24:50] there’s still a chance you could get through single qualified. But actually I just on [00:24:55] principle I was not going to do that. So I thought I did really just under three years [00:25:00] at Torbay Hospital. I thought right, I need some time out. I’m not sure if I want [00:25:05] to use my ovaries or not. I need time out just to think about what I want to do. So I got a job as a ski rep with Inghams, [00:25:10] and in the first two weeks I met my husband who helped to put my skis on the [00:25:15] back of the bus and he was working in Australia, so I quit that job, went back, got a job [00:25:20] in practice in Bournemouth with my windsurfer, Barry Nibbs, a real character, recently retired [00:25:25] and did eight months in practice whilst I waited for my migrant visa to come through. And we got [00:25:30] married and I followed my husband out to Australia. So we knew each other for two weeks.

Payman Langroudi: Whirlwind, [00:25:35] but especially for someone who decided not to. Wanting not to get married and have kids.

Tara Renton: I [00:25:40] was telling my brother the night before I met Tony, I’m never going to get married. I [00:25:45] have a certain type if I do, if the biological clocks. The clock [00:25:50] is ticking. I’ll just go to a Danish, Asperger’s or sperm [00:25:55] bank pick and, you know, like the Scandinavians [00:26:00] and all. Yeah, and the rest is history. The perfect man [00:26:05] turned up the next day. Yeah. I knew he was the one. I told my mum. I went back for Christmas. My [00:26:10] mum and I said to mum, I think I’ve met the man I’m going to marry. She said, oh, don’t be so stupid. [00:26:15] To finish the washing up and, uh, and yeah. And then two weeks, a week [00:26:20] later, he proposed, went off to Australia and I went out for a holiday to meet [00:26:25] him, but he was posted in Papua New Guinea for most of that time, which was disastrous. Um, but [00:26:30] yeah, got married in August. That was 39 years ago.

Payman Langroudi: Were you not considering staying in Australia [00:26:35] after that stint?

Tara Renton: I never wanted to go to Australia. I went I followed Tony to Australia, but the the reason I’m telling [00:26:40] that story is in order to get my migrant visa, I had to get jobs in practice. So [00:26:45] I got jobs in practice. I registered with Victoria State Dental those days it wasn’t federal [00:26:50] Dental board, it was um state. Um, so I ticked all the boxes to try [00:26:55] and maximise getting my migrant visa. And that included getting offered jobs in, in practice. [00:27:00] So I was working three days in dental practice, two days a week as a volunteer at the National [00:27:05] Art Museum. That’s my passion is. And I just thought, actually that’s what I was going to do. I was going to [00:27:10] finally do art. You know, my my dad had Pooh poohed that right at the start. Um, and [00:27:15] I remember Carlo Roberts, who’s a South African, uh, practice, [00:27:20] uh, principal real character took me on two days a week in lovely Beaumaris in Melbourne. [00:27:25] And, um, I’d finished a day’s work and um, he [00:27:30] said to me, oh, Tara, I’m supposed to be giving this tutorial tomorrow night. I just can’t be bothered, [00:27:35] you know, more about you’ve done more oral surgery and wisdom teeth. Why don’t you give the tutorial [00:27:40] about wisdom teeth? So I thought it’s fair enough. He’s done lots of favours. I can do that.

Tara Renton: And [00:27:45] there was about it was for the Royal Australasian College of Dental Surgery. So the RA [00:27:50] CDs, which is the RCS equivalent here. And um, [00:27:55] there was about 12 young mainly blokes, um sort of students, not [00:28:00] post-grad. No, they’re postgrads. And um I gave my tutorial [00:28:05] and there was a bloke sitting at the back and then I thought very old bloke sitting at the back and [00:28:10] he didn’t introduce himself, he just disappeared off. And then two weeks later, I got this telephone call [00:28:15] at work saying, um, is that Tara Renton? I took all my married name because I used to be Tara [00:28:20] Courtly. And, um, and I said yes. And he said, oh, it’s a professor Peter Reid here. I run [00:28:25] the Oral medicine, Oral pathology and Oral maxillofacial program at Melbourne Hospital, [00:28:30] Melbourne University. Um, I listened to your I was very impressed [00:28:35] by your talk you gave the other day, and I’m sorry I didn’t introduce myself. I had to rush off. He said, I just wanted [00:28:40] to ask you, um, this was November, [00:28:45] late October, early November. He said, um, we have a very good, um, [00:28:50] maxfax maxillofacial program, which is four and a half to five years. [00:28:55] And we have two candidates a year and one of the candidates just dropped out and [00:29:00] it starts in January. So I remember thinking, oh my.

Payman Langroudi: God. [00:29:05]

Tara Renton: And I thought, and I remember thinking, I don’t want to do max work. And what it was is [00:29:10] max FAC program very much like the American model. So basically integrates medical studies. You [00:29:15] don’t end up you don’t walk away with an M.D. but and it’s very orthognathic [00:29:20] lots of trauma, lots of dental alveolar, a smattering of head and neck, [00:29:25] bit of plastics. So it was very much the American model. And of course, I didn’t have to go and do five [00:29:30] years of medicine. And I thought, actually, I’m quite tempted by this. But then I didn’t [00:29:35] know how long we were going to be in Australia for because Tony was on a temporary visa with BP. So the reality was two, [00:29:40] two and a half years max. So I went back and had a chat with my long suffering husband [00:29:45] and just said, actually, I’m really quite tempted by this. He said, well, look, if you want to do it, do it. But [00:29:50] you know, I don’t think he realised how what hard work it was going to be. And it was hard work, but [00:29:55] incredible training. So that’s how I ended up with a max fac qualification. But then when [00:30:00] I came back to England five years later, pregnant with my firstborn unintentionally. [00:30:05] And, um, yeah, for those girls in the audience on the pill and, [00:30:10] um. And couldn’t get a job. Why so [00:30:15] xenophobic about foreign qualifications? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So interesting, isn’t it?

Tara Renton: Couldn’t [00:30:20] get a job. Um, so I managed to scrape in through the back door back at guy’s with Pat [00:30:25] O’Driscoll, and I did a locum SPR for him in max vac. I did that till [00:30:30] I dropped my first born, Tim. Um, and that’s really good that I did that in a way, because [00:30:35] it just got my foot back in the door and people remembering who I was. And, and so [00:30:40] when I had sort of six months just looking after Tim, I was hoping to get back to work part time, [00:30:45] no part time jobs in oral surgery didn’t exist. It was just max vac, [00:30:50] um, oral medicine. And you needed medicine to do that as well. So what I did is I put my [00:30:55] CV in the post to three main teaching hospitals in London and heard back from two [00:31:00] of them. And one of them was Mark McGurk. Professor Mark McGurk, who basically said, [00:31:05] look, I’m prepared to take a risk. And he did. I had an interview with him. To my chagrin, [00:31:10] I managed to get pregnant with my second son after being offered the job before starting it. Wow. Um. [00:31:15] And, uh, but anyway, he was, he was great. So three days a week, he was doing research [00:31:20] for the Royal College of Surgeons, sort of some research funding he had. And it was basically three, [00:31:25] it was three days. I did three, um, uh, 3GA [00:31:30] third molar lists and three clinics. And I did that for ten [00:31:35] years.

Payman Langroudi: Wow.

Tara Renton: Um.

Payman Langroudi: And were you at this point now thinking of research [00:31:40] as well?

Tara Renton: Well, because it was the research, because it was already research. Yeah, I was, [00:31:45] I was doing it and I used to bump into Frank Ashley. I mean, I then had two young [00:31:50] boys, um, and, uh, and I remember thinking, actually, this is great part [00:31:55] time ticks all the boxes. Loving the research side of it. Um, really [00:32:00] loving the operating sort of ticking all the boxes and sort of five, five years in and then just [00:32:05] just about to have my daughter. And I remember thinking, what’s the career prospects here? There was none. So [00:32:10] I was I had been made an associate specialist. Um, definitely [00:32:15] wasn’t going to do medicine. Um, because I didn’t think how that would change my practice and it wouldn’t [00:32:20] have done.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And, um, sort of got started thinking and I was thinking, [00:32:25] you know, what to do. And every time I was late, often late doing my, you know, finishing [00:32:30] off everything, I’d get in the lift at guy’s. And one of the downsides of that of the [00:32:35] guy’s hospital on the, you know, the Dental hospital on different floors is you rarely interact with [00:32:40] people, different specialities. But one of the upsides is that blooming lifts, because you’re waiting for them [00:32:45] for ages and you’re in them for ages. And I used to see Frank Ashley a lot, who was then Dean, and he used to say [00:32:50] to me, Tara, you should be doing a PhD. The research you’re doing is really good. And I said, look, [00:32:55] for God’s sake, I’ve got two young kids. I’ve got another one on the way. I can’t do a [00:33:00] PhD. And he said, yes, you can. So I spoke to Mark about it and he was very, [00:33:05] very supportive. Something that got me going as well as [00:33:10] that, they advertised for a bombs trainee and I didn’t get it and I was really upset about [00:33:15] that. Um, so I thought actually the only option is to have a career is to do a [00:33:20] PhD. And that would give me the options to follow through with academic oral [00:33:25] surgery. So that was the academic omfs as it was called. So that was my only option. And so [00:33:30] call me ambitious, I don’t know, I just I knew that what I was doing was not enough. [00:33:35] Um, it ticked a lot of boxes. Um, but [00:33:40] I wanted more, I wanted to do more. And I guess I did want [00:33:45] some recognition for it. Looking back, I guess I did that I wasn’t happy just to sit doing [00:33:50] all that work. Um, as an associate specialist.

Payman Langroudi: I’d like to, I’d like to delve [00:33:55] into the juggle of being, you know, that person with three children, [00:34:00] you know, the, in that in that era as well. Um, [00:34:05] how you pulled that off. But I’m even more interested in the notion of the [00:34:10] recognition and the, you know, the driver [00:34:15] for doing things. I was, I was funny, I was talking to my wife about it that [00:34:20] let’s say we sell enlightened for a stupid amount of money, like $1 billion. It’s, [00:34:25] it’s not worth anything near that. I was saying to her then then we’d be going [00:34:30] walking, trying to get a coffee like we are right now. Yeah. Having done that. But [00:34:35] it’d still be me and you going to try and get this coffee and. But there’d [00:34:40] be something in the back of your head that you feel like you achieved something or some something like that. [00:34:45] Yeah. But what’s, where’s the deficit that [00:34:50] wants me to feel that feeling? And of course, there’s, there’s, you know, whether you want to call [00:34:55] it ambition or deficit or whether these are bad words, maybe, but but, you know, like recognition, [00:35:00] is there an aspect of, you know, you have that the weight of the generations before you. [00:35:05] So you want to show that you did something.

Tara Renton: That’s not Payman that’s not my driver.

Payman Langroudi: Or is it something else? Is it is [00:35:10] it is it someone who underestimated you as a, as a woman or whatever? As a as a [00:35:15] young girl? Like, where does this come from? I’m so interested in it.

Tara Renton: It’s it’s fascinating. [00:35:20] Um, such an interesting question. I think for me, I’d [00:35:25] look at it as a different perspective, as a curious person. I think it’s the what’s next? [00:35:30] So you’ve sold your company for zillions of. Zillions of pounds. You’re walking down the road to get [00:35:35] a coffee with your lovely wife. You’re going to be thinking, what shall I do now?

Payman Langroudi: Maybe, maybe. [00:35:40]

Tara Renton: So for me, I’m flipping it. But that’s probably more where I was. [00:35:45] I had no aspirations to do more academia. I regard [00:35:50] myself as academia.

Payman Langroudi: You know how you said when you got an OBE, the first person you wanted to tell was your mum? Yeah, yeah. [00:35:55]

Tara Renton: That’s probably that’s probably it.

Payman Langroudi: There’s something there. Yeah. Why? Why was the first person you [00:36:00] want to tell your mum to sort of tell her that all her hard work was worth something?

Tara Renton: Yeah. No, [00:36:05] she was very ambitious for me and I never realised quite so much. [00:36:10] And she had a she basically never had proper schooling. She was an army child. So they were post-war [00:36:15] Germany. Then they were Malta, then Cyprus. So. And she’s a very bright, [00:36:20] bright lady, one of five Cornish family um, did all sorts of jobs [00:36:25] when I was growing up. So I grew up with a working mother. She was a PE teacher, green shield stamp lady, a model, um, [00:36:30] second hand clothes shop, uh, rental, wedding rental business. So [00:36:35] that’s interesting. Always working. She’s always finding a channel.

Payman Langroudi: Your definition of normal, [00:36:40] seeing your mum was someone who was working really hard.

Tara Renton: Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah. My father, my father, we hardly [00:36:45] saw dad. Yeah. And the only time I could speak to my dad was coming downstairs at 1030 [00:36:50] at night, and he’d have his unofficial second dinner, which my mum was always. He’s always [00:36:55] on a diet and he’d have his big jar of Horlicks, and like a jam [00:37:00] and bread, and with all his dental notes, doing his dental admin. And that was the one time [00:37:05] I’d often. Often, if I’d come back from a party, you know, or come back from the pub with [00:37:10] friends, I’d sit down and chat with him. And that’s when I had my valuable time with dad.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s [00:37:15] talk about the juggle.

Tara Renton: Yeah. The juggle. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s talk about the juggle. Three kids, academic [00:37:20] career, PhD research. I mean, it’s a lot. What [00:37:25] gives in that situation? Did anything give. Do you feel like something gave.

Tara Renton: Oh, [00:37:30] definitely. Um, I don’t think you at the at the time you’re just in [00:37:35] the jungle. You’re fighting the fire. Yeah. Um, and you’re very aware of the compromises [00:37:40] that other people are making for you particularly. Um, I think there’s a, I don’t think [00:37:45] it’s just women, but you have this guilt, you know, I’m a rubbish mother. I’m a rubbish wife. Um, [00:37:50] I mean, I do talk about my husband. He really is my secret [00:37:55] weapon. He’s been so supportive. And I mean, I did a part time PhD five [00:38:00] years with three kids under five. I mean, I was it [00:38:05] was it was only like a couple of years later when Ella was like 3 or 4 and she was doing, you know, those stick pictures [00:38:10] they do at school. There was Mummy and Daddy, you know.

Payman Langroudi: Pictures. Yeah, yeah.

Tara Renton: So it was Mummy and Daddy, two [00:38:15] brothers, Cat and Ella and I had this big square black box here. [00:38:20] My laptop.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, no.

Tara Renton: Yeah. So and also, you know, [00:38:25] it’s just and I was aware I was, I was aware, I mean, I did function, I got them to school, I got [00:38:30] them to all their clubs. I was working three days a week. I didn’t have the nanny when the two days a week I wasn’t working. So I [00:38:35] was trying to be a good mum. Um, and we did lots of stuff at the weekends. I’ve [00:38:40] never been ever. My husband doesn’t encourage me to talk about work at home, so that’s [00:38:45] sort of off limits, which I think is really healthy actually. Um, and [00:38:50] it’s only since the kids have left home and we’re both retired that we’ve actually realised [00:38:55] some of the similarities we have. I would say we were completely polar opposites. But you know, we both [00:39:00] love getting things started. He, you know, he’s a bit of a businessman. He likes getting things started. [00:39:05] Has some great ideas. So we have a lot more in common than we probably realised [00:39:10] during this fire fighting period. Um, but his career came first. You [00:39:15] know, when we were BP and and I was working part time, he was working quite hard. And then, [00:39:20] um, serendipity in a way. At 52, he’s the clever, smart one.

Tara Renton: He was [00:39:25] on the full pension. He could walk away from BP and he wanted to. And we had a long chat about that. And obviously, [00:39:30] you know, he had other opportunities. He could have travelled and done gone up the chain. And but [00:39:35] we made he made that conscious decision. And at that point, that’s when I got offered [00:39:40] the job at QM. Shmuel. After doing my PhD. So I was offered a senior senior lectureship [00:39:45] at Shmuel. Um, uh, and it was full time or [00:39:50] nothing. So that was just serendipity that those phases worked in. So [00:39:55] he could be, um, he still was working. He was making much harder. I joke, having left [00:40:00] BP, we always call it the protected workshop. A lot of these corporates, you know, it’s not so much now, [00:40:05] but you know, end salary schemes, secretaries super [00:40:10] well looked after. Yeah. So he started up quite a few bits and a few companies. [00:40:15] He’s been very successful. So he was working but he was at home a lot of the [00:40:20] time still boxing, boxing a little bit. Um, but I and that we sort of basically swapped, you [00:40:25] know, um, yeah, still working very much as a partnership, but that’s probably that [00:40:30] facilitated that.

Payman Langroudi: So then the skills it takes to become [00:40:35] a leading academic specialist, I can, I can [00:40:40] take, I can, I can imagine some of them, right? You’ve got to work hard. You’ve got to be imaginative. Yeah. You’ve [00:40:45] got to think outside.

Tara Renton: The.

Payman Langroudi: Box passionate. But what about like the politicking [00:40:50] and.

Tara Renton: The power.

Payman Langroudi: Games that go on.

Tara Renton: Not very good at that. I have I [00:40:55] have literally been. I was offered the job at [00:41:00] QM and had a difficult [00:41:05] time. That was another learning experience there. I have to say I was I was very badly bullied. There [00:41:10] was an article about it in the times, I think December 24th about [00:41:15] the culture change of the misogyny, and it was really bad. So I was the only [00:41:20] single qualified person in the group in the department. And, um, it [00:41:25] was tough. It was really tough. I lost about a third of my hair. I lost my eyebrows, my eyelashes. When I look back [00:41:30] at the pictures now, I just hadn’t realised the physical. I was commuting like an [00:41:35] hour and a half, two hours a day.

Payman Langroudi: Um, each way.

Tara Renton: Each way full time. [00:41:40] It was only full time job. Um, and that’s when thing cracks became [00:41:45] really happen. And it was the first time in my life I didn’t want to go to work. I’ve always [00:41:50] loved my work. Um, always jump out of bed in the morning [00:41:55] and, you know, skip to work. It’s the first time, and I really didn’t want to go. My husband was just saying, walk. Just walk. It’s [00:42:00] not worth it. And I thought about whistle blowing. Came very close to that. Actually spoke [00:42:05] to a few different people. Um, everyone knew. I mean, sounds very [00:42:10] much like things may not have changed that much, but who knows? Um, and, [00:42:15] you know, a lot of there have been a lot of catastrophes before me. Um, mine [00:42:20] was just another, you know, one along the road and I [00:42:25] basically, um, went to my boss at the time. Lovely, lovely boss [00:42:30] and just said, look, either I go part time and I don’t have to go to these consultant [00:42:35] meetings and be humiliated and screamed at on a regular basis for nothing, or [00:42:40] I walk. And that was a really hard thing for me to do because I, [00:42:45] you know, love my work. Um, she capitulated and that [00:42:50] made life much better. So I was offered that job in the first place, which, you know, was a learning [00:42:55] because I often was very dismissive of there were not many girls in that environment, obviously. But, [00:43:00] you know, girls were talking about fellow fellow women talking about being bullied, bullied at work. And I always [00:43:05] remember thinking, oh goodness, just stand up for yourself, you know? Boy, oh boy, was [00:43:10] the shoe on the other foot during that period. It was awful.

Payman Langroudi: And the kind [00:43:15] of woman who goes into oral surgery tends to be the get on with it type of person.

Tara Renton: Absolutely. [00:43:20] Well, as Stephen, Stephen was saying, is it something like 8% of [00:43:25] surgeons are psychopathic?

Payman Langroudi: That’s right, that’s right.

Tara Renton: And I’ve always joked, actually, I think you have to [00:43:30] be a little bit psychopathic to cut into another human being. Yeah, maybe as a dentist as well, I don’t know. But [00:43:35] you have to have that bit of your personality.

Payman Langroudi: But who do you blame for this incident? I [00:43:40] mean, clearly the perpetrator, but it’s.

Tara Renton: The culture of the department is, you know, is ongoing [00:43:45] for years there being, no female fatalities before? Before [00:43:50] me who’d been, you know, come and gone.

Payman Langroudi: But the culture of the the the profession, [00:43:55] I mean, you know, it starts in dental school, isn’t it? You get you get some [00:44:00] some poor student who gets targeted by by some teacher.

Tara Renton: Well, [00:44:05] there’s bullying everywhere. There’s bullying in the schools. I mean, thank God, you know, all this social media stuff has got worse, [00:44:10] I think. I’m so grateful. A, I didn’t grow up with that. And B, my kids, my kids. [00:44:15] 33, 31, 28 we didn’t, I mean, mobile phones were just coming [00:44:20] through. My daughter was going to senior school, so we were so lucky to. And my kids are lucky to have not. [00:44:25]

Payman Langroudi: But would you say the culture in academia is any better now?

Tara Renton: Uh, yeah. No, it is, it is, [00:44:30] it is. There’s still, you know, relatively fewer women, um, in [00:44:35] senior academia, particularly in, in medicine. Um, no, I think [00:44:40] it, I think it’s pretty good actually. I’m, I’ve not never been that. [00:44:45] So I was going to say that I then got. Basically offered to apply [00:44:50] for my job that, you know, I now have a Kings. And I know when a difficult time was happening [00:44:55] and I’d gone part time and I was thinking I was part time for about six months. I then got that message from Nan Wilson [00:45:00] saying, you know, um, the job I, the job I thought I was going to offer [00:45:05] you 18 months ago no longer exists, but actually there’s a chair first chair [00:45:10] in oral surgery. Would you, I want you to be at the interview. And I remember saying to him, I don’t have enough tickets [00:45:15] for that. So it’s not me aggressively looking for the next step up. I’ve, you [00:45:20] know, on three counts max fac training in Melbourne, I would argue actually even [00:45:25] the show at Torbay, I’ve been given those opportunities. You know.

Payman Langroudi: Sometimes [00:45:30] it’s nicer. It’s nicer when someone doesn’t go for an opportunity. Like those are the people [00:45:35] you want to push forward sometimes.

Tara Renton: Well, there’s an element of that. I think there’s a lot less of that now. I think I think [00:45:40] in the dental environment, you know, our trainees, the kids that want to come and do oral surgery. [00:45:45] I mean, the ratio of applicants to successful training posts is [00:45:50] ridiculously high. And most of those kids are worthy of it for sure. [00:45:55] So it’s, um, it’s, it’s probably. Yes. [00:46:00] I’m not very good at playing the political games. I’m very aware of that. So [00:46:05] meetings, I would avoid those as much as possible. I always felt there were great waste of time. [00:46:10] I would go to meetings where I thought there might be a change at the end of it, something concrete. [00:46:15] But I often felt that actually it was a lot of meetings. For meetings sake. I was great [00:46:20] at getting in there doing. I loved, I ran the the undergraduate oral surgery program [00:46:25] for 11 years and made that really good. I loved it, great teachers, some still [00:46:30] around, which is amazing.

Payman Langroudi: You were head of department, right?

Tara Renton: Yeah, head of department. I was the first chair, first chair in [00:46:35] oral surgery appointed and obviously the first female. And there’s been lots since. Um. [00:46:40]

Payman Langroudi: Let’s let’s talk a little bit about orofacial pain. Yeah. And [00:46:45] about surgical safety. Mhm. Which [00:46:50] are your two main areas of interest? Um, firstly, [00:46:55] I, I’m really interested in this notion of it seems clear that [00:47:00] psychological stress, uh, sorry. It seems clear that that [00:47:05] chronic pain causes psychological stress, but it’s not so obvious. [00:47:10] But but it’s certainly true that psychological stress brings on pain.

Tara Renton: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: So it’s a two way [00:47:15] road.

Tara Renton: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: And when you’ve got that patient in front of you that several others have probably looked at [00:47:20] and, and baffled by or, or it’s a difficult patient. Do you start [00:47:25] by trying to unpick the which which came first, the chicken or the egg or does it not? [00:47:30]

Tara Renton: You have to.

Payman Langroudi: Oh you.

Tara Renton: Do. You have to. So, I mean, I was so blessed in my job at King’s. [00:47:35] Um, I wrote several business plans, which obviously a bit of a challenge for me and set up [00:47:40] this multidisciplinary clinic. So we have, um, uh, headache neurologists. [00:47:45] Peter Goadsby, who’s like king of migraine. He’s the guy that did a lot of the research [00:47:50] behind the antibodies for migraine. He’s super, super, super chat. So [00:47:55] some of his fellows would come and work with us. We have, um, a liaison psychiatrist, [00:48:00] which is really interesting. Never been taught anything about psychiatry. Wow. That was an eye opener. [00:48:05] Then we had a fantastic clinical psychologist, Sarah Barker, who now works privately. And [00:48:10] we have a big psychology team at the dental school in Kings, um, at [00:48:15] Denmark Hill. And we have a neurosurgeon and we had, uh, [00:48:20] we have visiting ENT and some other specialists and obviously restorative the [00:48:25] likes of Martin Keller, her and Serpell before she retired, we dragged them down and asked them questions. [00:48:30] Is this crown? You know, um, Endodontists you know, Rachel, she popped down [00:48:35] and help us out with some of the patients because I haven’t done dentistry for proper dentistry [00:48:40] since early 88. So I’ve done [00:48:45] lots and lots of wisdom teeth, lots of operating, lots of, you know, maybe some bits and pieces, but but [00:48:50] not not general dentistry as we know it. So going back to your question, that [00:48:55] team basically opened up my eyes. It was one of the best things, probably one of my biggest achievements work [00:49:00] wise, because you actually learn from we’re so siloed in our training. And [00:49:05] I think particularly dentistry, that’s one that is a big bugbear. We’re underappreciated and we’re very [00:49:10] siloed, and it’s partly our own fault a little bit. Um, the it [00:49:15] was fascinating. Payman I and even now I get a kick going, you know, [00:49:20] um, so obviously, um, there.

Payman Langroudi: Was some, some [00:49:25] examples of cases that came through. So yeah, so.

Tara Renton: One of my take home stories, which [00:49:30] I talk about sometimes in my lectures is never, ever judge a book by its cover. And I’ve always [00:49:35] thought that anyway, if you’re dealing with people, you never can. But this is a really good example. She [00:49:40] was Iranian. Interestingly, she was 23. She was drop dead [00:49:45] gorgeous. She was wearing all her matching Gucci boots, everything super.

Payman Langroudi: Super [00:49:50] uniform.

Tara Renton: Super, super. Yeah. Don’t don’t get me started. She had a gorgeous fiance [00:49:55] who would patiently sit in the waiting room. Now she’d had a wisdom tooth out. Very straightforward [00:50:00] and ended up with a lingual nerve injury, which was painful. And that’s what I did, my PhD. And that’s how I got into [00:50:05] pain. So and I remember, and I see a lot of these, I mean, I probably [00:50:10] advise like sometimes up to ten cases a week even, you know, of LA [00:50:15] or Endo or whatever. And I remember she, [00:50:20] um, she was broken and I just couldn’t figure out this young, [00:50:25] beautiful girl with seemingly everything. Why, why was her response [00:50:30] so brittle? Why was she so vulnerable? And, um, and I, [00:50:35] tried to try to work my magic. So, um, all through this multidisciplinary [00:50:40] care, we pre assess our patients. So we do a plethora of tests around looking at [00:50:45] anxiety, depression, PTSD is relevant in these cases. Sleep. Um, [00:50:50] so we look at OSA sleep disorders. Um, we look at prior abuse and neglect. [00:50:55] Um, and we look at some types of personality disorders that are associated with chronic [00:51:00] pain. Um, so, so this is something that I started doing and I actually, I [00:51:05] even did it in my PhD. I even did a chapter because I remember seeing [00:51:10] when I was doing my part time PhD, it was all around wisdom tooth surgery. Smartest move I ever did. If [00:51:15] you do a PhD, do it around something that you love doing and that you’re doing lots of at the time, [00:51:20] and you can actually make it happen without having to take five years or three [00:51:25] years out of your life and transplant somewhere else, then come back.

Tara Renton: So, so I was basically doing [00:51:30] patients after third molar surgery, morbidity and looking at nerve injuries. And what I couldn’t [00:51:35] understand is these patients had numbness and they had pain. And that would never that was never recognised before. [00:51:40] So we now notice neuropathic pain. We didn’t know then. That’s what it was. So I was thinking, [00:51:45] how can these people have numbness and pain at the same time? And that’s basically what nerve injury does. Sensory [00:51:50] nerve injury does. And if if you’re having breast surgery thoracotomy limb [00:51:55] amputation, there’s like a 30, 30 to 45% chance you will have that [00:52:00] pain for the rest of your life having those procedures done. It’s massive. Massive. Um, [00:52:05] any trauma, surgery, trauma, physical trauma, burns, radiation, chemotherapy [00:52:10] can all cause neuropathic pain as well as diabetes and M.S. and other things. So [00:52:15] I go this patient and it just, it didn’t compute for me because I’d seen quite a lot of patients and I [00:52:20] was, you know, done my PhD and felt fairly expert in the area. [00:52:25] And I kept thinking, why is she so brittle? And I, I, [00:52:30] you know, pre assess the patients. I knew she had some degree of anxiety, depression. I [00:52:35] knew she definitely had PTSD. I was about 70% of all patients with nerve injuries have PTSD, if they [00:52:40] particularly have the pain.

Tara Renton: And, um, and I sort of do [00:52:45] my very open lots of hugs, apologise, you know, on behalf of the profession. I’m really [00:52:50] sorry this has happened. You know, I know you’re warned about it. And it’s like, you know, [00:52:55] we all know when you walk across the road, you can get run over by a bus. No one sees this coming. And when [00:53:00] it happens, if you’re the wrong personality type, anxiety, depression and no sleep, it’s [00:53:05] going to hit you really, really hard and you may not actually get over it properly. So [00:53:10] I was thinking at that time and I said, look, I think you need to see my I saw her twice. And I said, I [00:53:15] think you really should see our clinical psychologists, you know, and [00:53:20] maybe, maybe the psychiatrist. Anyway, I got her back. [00:53:25] She wouldn’t she wouldn’t do it. So I got her back for the third time. And I, and I spent quite a long time, at least 45 [00:53:30] minutes with these patients. And this time I just said to her, look, I I’ve done my best [00:53:35] with you. And normally by this stage after one visit, most people understand become [00:53:40] a little bit more accepting, understand what the neuropathic pain is. It’s, it’s nerve injury that’s sending [00:53:45] signals to your brain like a text message. Emma Beecroft is great at this. And her lectures, [00:53:50] text messages is going to brain saying, pain’s still happening in my finger or in my tooth, but actually it’s [00:53:55] the brain that’s misrepresenting the signals going through.

Tara Renton: And, [00:54:00] um, she, she broke down again [00:54:05] and I just said to her, look, what can I do? And I just said, you know, what’s [00:54:10] happened? And she said, well, obviously it’s confidential, but [00:54:15] no one knows who she is. And um, she said, well, my parents brought [00:54:20] my sister and I to London when actually, you know, my parents brought [00:54:25] me to London when I was five years old When I was nine, [00:54:30] my parents had a difficult marriage. When I was nine, my mum had my baby [00:54:35] sister and a year after that, or 18 months after that, my [00:54:40] dad was killed on a bike on his bicycle outside Selfridges. So my mum was obviously [00:54:45] very dependent. I think she had one, quite some family members in [00:54:50] London and she looked to them to support this [00:54:55] patient, then got sexually abused by one of the uncles. And [00:55:00] obviously bigger stressor was to make sure that it didn’t happen to her younger sister. This [00:55:05] fell out. Her mother decided the best place for them to go back to Iran. So [00:55:10] they went back to Iran to be closer to other family members. Um, and [00:55:15] her, it didn’t go well. So she [00:55:20] obviously she had an English passport. She came back to England, basically cared for [00:55:25] her sister, brought her sister back so her sister could go to university in England and [00:55:30] she’d set up a very successful business. Um, put all this stuff behind [00:55:35] her, met her lovely fiance, goes the dentist, has a wisdom tooth taken [00:55:40] out.

Payman Langroudi: Wow.

Tara Renton: And has a nerve injury. And this is the proverbial straw on the camel’s [00:55:45] back. And she just could not pick herself up afterwards. And you think. [00:55:50] And I got I get goosebumps just recounting. I’ve got so many stories like this. You [00:55:55] know, she.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, look, interestingly, it took three visits to unlock that story. Well it’s. [00:56:00]

Tara Renton: Time. Yeah. It’s a time and trust.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And you talk about that a lot. You know, and, [00:56:05] you know, I talk about it a lot with wrong site surgery and bits and pieces. Because [00:56:10] as a specialist, you generally just see patients. And with increasing with the NHS demands on [00:56:15] time, you have such limited time to build trust with that patient. And actually trust really [00:56:20] underpins consent. Yeah. You know, effectively, you know, Henry Marsh who [00:56:25] Stephen referred to the neurosurgeon. He talks about he did a fantastic seminar [00:56:30] on consent at the Royal College of Surgeons a couple of years ago. And he basically says, you know, consent is [00:56:35] about trust. If my patient needs to understand what I’m doing when I’m taking a brain tumour out, they need to go and do 11 [00:56:40] years neurosurgery training and like another ten years post-grad. Then they’ll understand what I’m doing. [00:56:45] It’s trust. So that’s what I try and establish with my patients. I think [00:56:50] I am very empathic, I’m very interested in their stories. I have time for them to tell me [00:56:55] their stories. But for me, one of the key things is to have this pre-assessment. And for the life of me, [00:57:00] I don’t understand why. In general, medicine, dentistry and physio, beauticians, particularly [00:57:05] aesthetic aestheticians, I don’t know how I couldn’t work now [00:57:10] without having this. I’ve developed a web app with a partner with my PhD students, which basically [00:57:15] gives you all this summarised very simply. It’s a brilliant tool. Orofacial [00:57:20] pain facial pain.org. It’s geared for orofacial pain patients, [00:57:25] but it could definitely have a use just to see how difficult your patient’s going [00:57:30] to be or what a difficult time your patient’s having.

Tara Renton: And like you say, it’s a flip side [00:57:35] stress because of this or stress already before it. Yeah. So we know if you have high levels of [00:57:40] anxiety, depression, those same neurotransmitters and neural pathways, anxiety, depression, [00:57:45] stress, they’re the same as chronic pain pathways. So if you’ve got stuff going [00:57:50] on already in those pathways and you’ve got like this new nerve pain, the system just doesn’t [00:57:55] cope. And, and you’re much less resilient if you’ve had prior life abuse, neglect, [00:58:00] adverse events. And we know that your brain developed now is they [00:58:05] used to say women 2022 men 2224. They think it’s even later. [00:58:10] Now it’s like late 20s when your brain, your somatosensory system, your neuro system is [00:58:15] fully developed. If you have a critical life event during that development, something [00:58:20] happens. It makes you much more fundamentally at risk of chronic disease, [00:58:25] not just chronic pain, diabetes, cardiovascular. Yeah. So [00:58:30] those resilience, your resources are diminished significantly if you’re not sleeping, [00:58:35] if you’re anxiety anxious, you’re depressed, your resources diminished, you [00:58:40] can’t cope with this extra stuff that’s happening. So, so you cannot see a lot of patients, [00:58:45] I would argue, not just chronic pain patients without fundamentally understanding what’s going [00:58:50] on behind the patient, behind that very nice smiley face and a Gucci handbag when they turn [00:58:55] up to your clinic. Yeah. You need to understand what’s happening there, particularly, I think if you’re doing complex [00:59:00] elective work. So, you know, doing implant work, aesthetic work, I think you need to be able to understand [00:59:05] if that patient’s motivations are right.

Payman Langroudi: Of course. [00:59:10]

Tara Renton: And not falling into that trap, that horrible, horrible medical legal trap where [00:59:15] things go, go wrong of.

Payman Langroudi: The patients that you get sent, which are [00:59:20] the ones that are sort of most common and easy for you to clear [00:59:25] up and which are the opposite. Like.

Tara Renton: Oh, I love a toothache. Give [00:59:30] me a toothache.

Payman Langroudi: Toothache as well. You don’t the person doesn’t know. [00:59:35]

Tara Renton: I tell you, the toothache, the chronic toothache, pain. I’ve got some great examples.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, so then you [00:59:40] work with the endodontist on that or.

Tara Renton: Well, no. Generally the tooth is. By the time we’ve seen one, the pain clinic [00:59:45] know it’s time for extraction. Yeah, yeah. I tell you, I love I really miss [00:59:50] my wisdom tooth list. It was just so nice. Pericoronitis. Take the tooth [00:59:55] out. Oh, I miss those days. Um. Yeah. No, it’s.

Payman Langroudi: If [01:00:00] you break them up into the kind of categories.

Tara Renton: Okay, so tooth related. What else? So you’ve got odontogenic [01:00:05] pain. Um, so there’s I cop International Classification of Orofacial Pain published in 2020. [01:00:10] Cephalalgia. I was part of an international team. We’re revisiting it at the moment. It’s [01:00:15] a faulty document. But the aim was there’s this massive conglomerate so that if you go to pain [01:00:20] meetings, which I’ve been to a lot in my life, you’ll have the rheumatologist and the headache neurologist arguing [01:00:25] who’s more important, who, which owns the most pain in the world. And, and [01:00:30] arguably, they both kind of like up their 40% ish. Um, [01:00:35] so, um, what was I going to say? We were talking about, uh, [01:00:40] I’ve lost my, lost my focus on that. What was the question?

Payman Langroudi: Different types of oh, [01:00:45] different types of pain.

Tara Renton: So I got basically, um, so the going back to headache neurologists, they, uh, [01:00:50] international Association of study of Pain iasp is massive. And basically they [01:00:55] have these big classification systems and the big classification system that touched on our region [01:01:00] was the International Headache Society and the International classification of headache [01:01:05] disorders HD. So they have that and they have like trigeminal neuralgia in there. They [01:01:10] have some neuropathic pain, uh, no acute pain. So so when [01:01:15] you’re doing this work, you’re trying to use the right diagnostics to make sure that the research is valid and robust. [01:01:20] But we didn’t really have a good classification system. We didn’t have one that is aligned to those. [01:01:25] So we’re talking the same language, and we didn’t have one that included acute pain. So a [01:01:30] chronic and acute. So we now have a system that’s acute and chronic. So there’s toothaches. [01:01:35] So odontogenic pain not just toothache. It’s um mucosa bone teeth but dental [01:01:40] alveolar salivary salivary gland. Yeah. And [01:01:45] then there’s muscle group which is mainly temporomandibular joint myogenous group. Then [01:01:50] there’s arthrogenic TMD joint pain. And then there is [01:01:55] the title. It’s basically neuropathic pain cranial nerve lesions of cranial [01:02:00] nerves leading to pain, which includes trigeminal neuralgia. Glossopharyngeal really [01:02:05] rare. But the most common thing is post-traumatic neuropathy, which is nerve injury, which is what I deal with. And that’s what I [01:02:10] did. My PhD in burning mouth, burning mouth, I think should be neuropathic burning. So we’ve [01:02:15] got neuropathic, then we’ve got, uh, neurovascular conditions mimicking headaches. So we [01:02:20] see loads and loads of migraine in the face that’s misdiagnosed and trigeminal [01:02:25] autonomic cephalalgias, which is cluster headaches. Loads and loads. And then the last one clinical [01:02:30] group is the um idiopathic which I hate, which includes at the moment [01:02:35] burning mouth, which I think should be neuropathic and actually persistent idiopathic facial pain and persistent [01:02:40] idiopathic or persistent dento alveolar pain. So intra-oral extra-oral [01:02:45] idiopathic persistent pain. Most of those have neuropathic features. So I’m hoping one day that [01:02:50] that number six will go. And then the seventh category is the axis two, which obviously is all important. [01:02:55]

Payman Langroudi: Axis two.

Tara Renton: Which is psychological.

Payman Langroudi: Or psychological.

Tara Renton: So that’s all important because [01:03:00] you can’t. So so it’s a really nice classification.

Payman Langroudi: So out of those ones which are the hardest [01:03:05] to spot, which are the hardest to spot.

Tara Renton: The conditions, it’s the patient.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, okay.

Tara Renton: Just [01:03:10] like dentistry.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Tara Renton: You know, um, Richard was talking about doing? [01:03:15] I can’t remember. It was a simple procedure. If the patient’s really difficult. And I think [01:03:20] that’s something we underestimate, I think, well, I’m longer in the tooth than you are, but after a certain time [01:03:25] seeing patients, you get like an antennae, a feeling that something’s not quite [01:03:30] right here. Yeah. Um, you know, I think we should be much more out there thinking [01:03:35] about what personality? The hateful patient that again, Richard [01:03:40] alluded to and the Richard Groves paper in 1978. I talk about this. We’ve just published [01:03:45] a paper in um Dental update about complaints. Now, is it the patient or [01:03:50] is it the procedure or is it the. And a lot of it, you know, I, I’ve [01:03:55] had one complaint against me in my career that I know about that went to the GDC. This guy [01:04:00] complained about eight people at the dental school. So that’s the only complaint. And I remember [01:04:05] getting a letter, another long story anyway, from the GDC, didn’t even know the complaint had happened, saying the [01:04:10] complaints dismissed. And I just thought, oh my God, I didn’t know I had a complaint. And it was like [01:04:15] literally like, I think a year, the last year of retirement.

Payman Langroudi: Pretty good going in a 40 year [01:04:20] career in in pain.

Tara Renton: Incredible.

Payman Langroudi: Pain. It wasn’t 40 years in pain, but it was 20 [01:04:25] years. But high risk area.

Tara Renton: It is. It is. And they’re very tricky [01:04:30] patients. So so for me, it’s not the condition that’s difficult. That’s the that’s [01:04:35] the low hanging fruit. I mean they’re difficult to manage. But you’re not managing [01:04:40] the pain. You’re managing the patient with the pain. And I think if you’ve got a complex patient, [01:04:45] which some of them are, I mean, I’m seeing private patients now mainly online, um, [01:04:50] and see some to face to face. Um, but you go through the history and [01:04:55] it is, it’s heart sink. I mean, there’s so much stuff, but often what’s [01:05:00] really relevant is what’s happened before. So, you know, another, another group of patients, the [01:05:05] idiopathic facial pain, which I hate and I don’t believe in it. So definition of pain, you can feel pain without [01:05:10] physical injury. Yeah, we all know that. When my daughter started at Surbiton School, [01:05:15] two days in, she had her mobile phone. I was in the middle of a busy clinic. The phone goes. [01:05:20] I’ve got on the wrong train. I’m thinking, oh, [01:05:25] God. So I said, calm down, darling. You know, which train are you on? Well, I’ve just left Kingston, [01:05:30] but I don’t know where it’s going. It’s not going home. And I said, well, can you look for a nice lady and [01:05:35] just let me speak on your phone? So find nice lady talking to the nice lady on the phone.

Payman Langroudi: Was she like 12?

Tara Renton: She was 11.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [01:05:40]

Tara Renton: And, um, and the woman’s going. Oh, yes. No, no, your daughter’s here. Yeah. No, it is the wrong train. [01:05:45] Don’t worry. I’ll. I’ll get her out on the platform and get her going in the right direction. Oh oh. Oh, no. And [01:05:50] I said what’s happened? She said, oh, I think your daughter ran back to get her bag. And the doors have closed. [01:05:55] So my daughter’s now on the wrong train with no phone, no one to talk to. And I remember that [01:06:00] even now, I get that visceral pain. Yeah, it’s a really good example. There’s loads of different [01:06:05] examples, but that’s how I, you know, you don’t need to have physical damage to have pain. So we [01:06:10] see patients who have decades or sometimes decades, but many, many [01:06:15] years of chronic pain, difficult patients, complex history, [01:06:20] lots of anxiety, depression. There’s a bit of PTSD going on there. And [01:06:25] you get chatting to them. And sometimes they’ve just had a terrible, terrible [01:06:30] early year life. But sometimes it’s something like the [01:06:35] husband dies. There’s this massive tax bill that they didn’t know about. The dog’s [01:06:40] ill. Their best friend’s had some bad news. It’s just these little red flags, [01:06:45] these tipping factors that just tips them. They can’t cope anymore. And actually we’ve got [01:06:50] I keep meaning to write it out. We’ve had nine patients, um, one man, [01:06:55] mainly mainly ladies and basically their pain went with grief counselling. Um [01:07:00] so that makes sense. It makes total sense that if you’re managing the patient holistically. [01:07:05]

Payman Langroudi: You must be really good at by now. You must be really good at sort of explaining [01:07:10] to the patient that the stress is a big factor.

Tara Renton: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: But but I remember [01:07:15] I used to do one session a week with a guy called Doctor Jagger in [01:07:20] Cardiff.

Tara Renton: Yes, I remember that.

Payman Langroudi: He used to have a pain clinic as well. It was, it was kind of a TMJ [01:07:25] clinic. But but you’d get burning mouth syndrome and trigeminal neuralgia thrown in there. [01:07:30] And I remember as a young dentist, just really struggling with trying to get over [01:07:35] to the patient that, look, the number one cause of this issue is stress. Whereas [01:07:40] sometimes when you say to a patient, look, it could be that there’s something psychologically or stress going on, [01:07:45] a lot of times they think you’re dismissing them. Yeah. And just trying to get through that, that it’s a real [01:07:50] thing. Don’t worry about it.

Tara Renton: No, it’s really it’s really true. But I think there’s much more acceptance around [01:07:55] that now. I mean, when I’m talking to my patients, I’m talking about anxiety. [01:08:00] Obviously I’ve got fantastic measures. Now I can actually broach that subject. People are more open to that. [01:08:05] I always remember thinking when we started doing the psych screenings, we started off like hard copy. I [01:08:10] remember thinking, none of the patients are going to do this, you know?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah.

Tara Renton: To be fair.

Payman Langroudi: I’m talking a [01:08:15] 25 year old story today. The taboos are much, much easier.

Tara Renton: It’s very, very rare. [01:08:20] We get patients saying, actually, I don’t want to do your questionnaire because there’s too many personal questions there. [01:08:25] It’s very rare we have that. It’s more around technical issues that they can’t do the online thing.

Payman Langroudi: Because [01:08:30] they.

Tara Renton: Can’t use a keyboard or something. But that’s not too often. But it’s just so important. [01:08:35] And I love it because I have my summary and I get my consultation [01:08:40] documents together. That’s how I’ve worked for the last 20 years, and I feel like I know what’s coming [01:08:45] through the door. I’m prepared for what’s coming through the door rather than spending like the first 15, [01:08:50] 20 minutes of the consultation, which would be much more difficult because you’re not ready for the [01:08:55] patient. You know, we had a little summary on the computer screen, anxiety up there, depression [01:09:00] up there. Ptsd, no sleep, you know. Um, it’s [01:09:05] just makes total sense to me that we should be doing that with all our patients. Yes. [01:09:10] And I’d love to see a day when we and, you know, arguably it’d be very interesting to look at personality disorders [01:09:15] because those are the people who are really difficult, difficult to manage. They have, you [01:09:20] know, with pain. They have to accept that they have to take tablets, they have to do other things like improve their [01:09:25] nutrition and their microbiome. Talk a lot around my patients around, you know, cheap [01:09:30] pain. You know, you don’t like taking tablets. Well, there’s evidence base for these vitamins [01:09:35] that will reduce migraine. There’s evidence base that actually, if you eat this kind of diet, you’re going to have [01:09:40] loads more dopamine going around serotonin, serotonin, you know, all those natural pain [01:09:45] endorphins you can make with a good diet.

Payman Langroudi: What do you mean? Which diet gives me more serotonin [01:09:50] and dopamine? So tell me immediately.

Tara Renton: Well, I can give you.

Payman Langroudi: I’m a bit of an addict of those two [01:09:55] substances.

Tara Renton: All of my websites, all of my orofacial pain.org.uk. And [01:10:00] then there’s a specific one nerve injury. But and actually I’ve got a I do an annual I call them my [01:10:05] two virtual children, not my three real children. And I do an annual update. The annual update is happening in February. [01:10:10] So there’s a lot more stuff around nutrition going in there as well. And again, it was really refreshing hearing Richard talk about [01:10:15] that as well. And actually a couple of other much more. A microbiome is an amazing thing. And I’ve [01:10:20] had time now I’m retired. I cycle every morning. Um, I take much more care about [01:10:25] my tummy.

Payman Langroudi: Is it like kefir and this sort of stuff? Yeah, yeah.

Tara Renton: There’s a, it’s a mix of stuff. It’s [01:10:30] different colour, you know, the good old Zoe kind of stuff, you know, nuts, seeds.

Payman Langroudi: Several [01:10:35] different different.

Tara Renton: Vegetables.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Excellent.

Tara Renton: I haven’t, I haven’t touched red meat for years. [01:10:40] Have you got. I will do if someone serves it at a dinner party I’ll eat it. But yeah. Um cutting [01:10:45] down the alcohol, which is probably for me the toughest thing.

Payman Langroudi: Um, I find coffee difficult [01:10:50] to like. Coffee. Giant amount of coffee. Do you?

Tara Renton: I used to, I went off [01:10:55] at all three pregnancies and red wine and I’ve never gone back there. So yeah, it’s funny, isn’t it. But coffee can be [01:11:00] really good for you.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I heard.

Tara Renton: There’s some headaches that respond to coffee. You drink coffee last thing at night, [01:11:05] and it cures your headaches. So there’s some really interesting things.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s get on to the darker part of [01:11:10] the pod. Actually, before we move on. Yeah. It’s such a privilege as a [01:11:15] dentist to be able to alleviate pain. Mhm. Yeah. And we’ve all done it. Your [01:11:20] patient comes in toothache, you extirpate it, and you kind of find [01:11:25] a few canals. And, you know, when that patient gets home and things are warmed up, you’ve [01:11:30] done a you’ve done a great job. They’re your sort of detective work that you have to do that [01:11:35] when you finally get to a solution for someone like that [01:11:40] Iranian lady you were talking about, there must be a massive sense of of achievement. [01:11:45]

Tara Renton: Absolutely. Love it. Payman. And the problem with chronic pain is you don’t necessarily get the patient [01:11:50] out of pain.

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Tara Renton: But you’ve dealt with all these holistic [01:11:55] issues. You’ve given them a clear diagnosis, A clear prognosis [01:12:00] and some possibilities, some tools that they can do. I love it. I do feel like [01:12:05] Inspector Clouseau on the clinic.

Payman Langroudi: Sounds like it. Yeah.

Tara Renton: Because you’re literally at different pebbles, [01:12:10] different things.

Payman Langroudi: Lifting up different bits.

Tara Renton: So interesting.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s now get to the darker [01:12:15] part of the pod. We like to talk about mistakes. And now with your medico legal work, [01:12:20] you see loads and loads of mistakes. So I’d like to get into some of that. How, how, how do people [01:12:25] avoid the common things. But I also like to get into any clinical [01:12:30] areas that stand out. Your own clinical areas that stand out to you.

Tara Renton: Um, I’ve got [01:12:35] one not so funny for the patient and one. I mean, I, so [01:12:40] I remember my father taking out the wrong premolar on his best friend, his orthodontist [01:12:45] friend’s daughter. So for me, that was I remember him coming inside. Yeah. Wrong side. [01:12:50]

Payman Langroudi: Oh my.

Tara Renton: Goodness. And and I remember he was like that pale grey colour before you have a coronary. [01:12:55] He was like that for like three days. So that’s been always with me. But I only reappeared when [01:13:00] I was involved in the lock slips and the wrong site surgery. And I’ve done it. I’ve taken out [01:13:05] four wisdom teeth on a 60 year old or 17 year old boy. I should have had just two wisdom teeth taken out. [01:13:10] Didn’t realise. Gah! Just no. Just just routine. [01:13:15] I’d written it up wrong. You know, I always wrote my own treatment plan. Never, never delegated anyone else on [01:13:20] the board in front of me with the X-ray checked. And I managed to do that. And I remember as [01:13:25] soon as I.

Payman Langroudi: Realised.

Tara Renton: Realised I just I and I went, obviously [01:13:30] the patient was taken to recovery and I went straight at his mother’s in the waiting room and I just said to look, I’ve [01:13:35] made, I’ve made a mistake. I’ve taken out all his four wisdom teeth.

Payman Langroudi: The uppers instead of [01:13:40] two.

Tara Renton: Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And I said, look, I’m really, really sorry. Um, [01:13:45] this is, you know, wrong. Um, I’ll give you my details. And and she [01:13:50] said, oh, thank God for that. She said, because we were telling the orthodontist said the dentist said that [01:13:55] he only needed two out, but actually we wanted to have four out because he’s going travelling next year. So I was [01:14:00] so lucky. But it’s very poignant because it stays with you. It’s just so [01:14:05] easily done. I mean, when I was others, I’ve written lots of papers around wrong site surgery [01:14:10] and and, and patient safety. What we do as dentists [01:14:15] is really, really difficult. And I know you’ve touched on this on quite a few podcasts. So [01:14:20] we as dentists, as you say, we’re individual practitioners. Yes. We have our dental nurse with us. We’re in [01:14:25] a room by ourselves most of the day, or none of our patients want to come and see us. They all know they’re [01:14:30] going to get pain, even a little, tiny bit. They’re going to get pain. Most patients actually [01:14:35] just even looking at the appointment card, if you take an MRI of their brain, [01:14:40] the amygdala, the limbic system is lighting up basically that, [01:14:45] you know, that non-physical pain is already happening in their brain when they get into the [01:14:50] car park. It’s almost actually happening before you get a needle or anything near them, and then [01:14:55] when they see the dental chair or they hear their drill and in the next door surgery, or they [01:15:00] see a syringe. Yeah, they’ve already got the pain. You can literally just [01:15:05] do.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And they’ll have the pain. Yeah. Yeah. So I think, and you know, we, we [01:15:10] work in that environment. We are immune to it.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. We’re normalised.

Tara Renton: And I have said, [01:15:15] you know, if I ever became dean of a dental school, which I haven’t and I won’t, I always said if I would change [01:15:20] dental training, I would say you sit down with your patient in a medical conversation, a medical consultation [01:15:25] model. You sit eye, eye to eye level in two chairs next to each other and have a conversation. [01:15:30] You do the consultation like that. You you do your consent [01:15:35] like that. You only put them in the dental chair to examine them, take them out again to carry on [01:15:40] the conversation about what you found, and then you put them back in the dental chair to do your treatment. And I honestly [01:15:45] think if we did that, patients would retain more, they’d hear more and actually probably be better [01:15:50] in a room without the dental chair because that’s a massive, massive trigger for many, many patients. [01:15:55] Can we give painless blocks, painless injections? I don’t [01:16:00] think so. I mean, with all the stuff I’ve written about LA around minimising nerve injuries, but more [01:16:05] about optimising pain management patients, you don’t need to give blocks very often. You use [01:16:10] infiltration dentistry. All Implantologists been doing that for years and you’re [01:16:15] smart. You know, you can give them topical local anaesthetic or a bit of ice. It’s probably [01:16:20] the most effective. Give them the articaine buccal articaine get it so that you’re blanching [01:16:25] the lingual mucosa without going, you know, lingually.

Payman Langroudi: Don’t push so hard on the plunger. [01:16:30] Right.

Tara Renton: Just gentle. I mean, and also, you know, it’s, [01:16:35] it’s just we’re immune. You know, we there’s no way that [01:16:40] you can do dentistry with an ID block painlessly. You can’t. The pulpal anaesthesia rates are [01:16:45] so poor. If that injection was invented now and said, oh, dentists, we’re going to be doing this from it, we’d laugh them [01:16:50] out of the room. It’s just it just doesn’t work well enough.

Payman Langroudi: Do you have any tips and tricks on.

Tara Renton: I [01:16:55] have some good tips and tricks.

Payman Langroudi: Well, don’t do them.

Tara Renton: No, no, no, it’s not that. [01:17:00] So I’m, I’m not a great advocate of um of of the direct [01:17:05] Halstead. I rather do indirect. So you’re not going through the lingual nerve. In fact what I started doing in [01:17:10] my later years, if I was going to give a block is do a gow-gates. Go higher. They’re just as effective as a Halstead, [01:17:15] but they. They completely miss the lingual nerve. Okay. And the ID nerve. [01:17:20] So you just go higher up and you just follow along the the the top of the wisdom teeth [01:17:25] into the little fossa retromolar fossa and just go direct. You don’t have to be near the nerve. [01:17:30] We know that you can be a centimetre and a half away from the nerve. The local anaesthetic we use is so good, so [01:17:35] strong. It works. But you do need to wait ten minutes for a block to work for the optimum [01:17:40] pulpal anaesthesia, which is another reason why it’s so short.

Payman Langroudi: Ten minutes, ten minutes.

Tara Renton: And if you’re a [01:17:45] patient or a red haired patient or an anxious patient, which most of them are, could [01:17:50] take up to 20 minutes to get optimal pulpal anaesthesia from an IDB, which is why [01:17:55] they’re so rubbish.

Payman Langroudi: Why, oh why do they?

Tara Renton: Because there’s lots of theories. It [01:18:00] might be an enzyme thing. It might be laxity. Laxity of the connective tissue, a bit like in pregnancy. They [01:18:05] don’t really know. But they’ve got a really high resistance to local anaesthetic. Um [01:18:10] poor things with all the other stuff that they have to deal with.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Um, so in general you’re saying go a little bit higher [01:18:15] than you think.

Tara Renton: Well, the first thing was don’t give an inferior dental block [01:18:20] unless you have.

Payman Langroudi: To, unless you have to.

Tara Renton: So I would do infiltration dentistry.

Payman Langroudi: Um, so. [01:18:25] Articaine.

Tara Renton: Articaine. Buccally. Yeah. Um, the, the anterior mandible is [01:18:30] very porous, so it works brilliantly here. Don’t stick it into the mental nerve. Don’t go anywhere near nerves. [01:18:35] Mhm. Um but the, but the lingually, the mandible is very porous. So what [01:18:40] you can do is you can give your I used to say get a cartridge of articaine and do [01:18:45] in front and back of the tooth, go slightly higher up. So you blanch the lingual mucosa. [01:18:50] And then if you need to go in, if there’s still pulpal sensitive, you can give a lidocaine [01:18:55] and not know only if you’re doing extractions. Never give in to ligamental unless just [01:19:00] infiltration. Okay, but often you don’t need to do that. If you’ve got a polycytic tooth or [01:19:05] a big zit somewhere like a big acne spot or any inflammation in the trigeminal system, [01:19:10] your sodium channels will be absolutely, um, sensitised. So that’s [01:19:15] another reason why your your local anaesthetics not working. So give them ibuprofen, solubility, ibuprofen, [01:19:20] as long as they can take it about 20 minutes before the giving the local anaesthetic and that will optimise [01:19:25] your local anaesthesia because it’s basically reducing the sodium channel hyperactivity. Old [01:19:30] stuff. Ken Hargreaves, 1980s champion, Endodontist [01:19:35] pharmacist, dean of Houston dental school wow. Mega guy. It’s all out there. [01:19:40]

Payman Langroudi: Interesting.

Tara Renton: So a lot of this stuff infiltration and you’ll have much more comfort [01:19:45] for the patient. There’s much nicer injection to have. Much more effective pulpal anaesthesia. [01:19:50] And I just don’t know why we’re not doing more and more of that. And if you probably the patients you have to give [01:19:55] a block for would be a complex prosthodontics. If you’re doing long procedures, [01:20:00] you can top it up like you would in an IDB in the old days. Um and possibly [01:20:05] endo. Um, and the endodontic is actually probably the best [01:20:10] trained of all of us in managing, uh, managing postoperative [01:20:15] pain. I just operative pain.

Payman Langroudi: In general, pain in general.

Tara Renton: It’s a big part of their training [01:20:20] program. I mean, going back to that, you know, again, so many [01:20:25] things, but in vets get something like 40 hours of pain [01:20:30] training. Really medics for [01:20:35] six.

Payman Langroudi: That’s crazy. Dentists none.

Tara Renton: Half [01:20:40] an hour if you’re lucky.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: It’s bad.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And it was and I hadn’t realised, you know, [01:20:45] Richard was talking about what a stressor it is for a lot of people doing DBS.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

Tara Renton: Well it [01:20:50] shouldn’t be.

Payman Langroudi: I took, I took five years off when we started the company and [01:20:55] then my wife got pregnant. And then I went back part time after that. And [01:21:00] after five years of not giving an ID block, I had massive stress.

Tara Renton: I’m not surprised. [01:21:05]

Payman Langroudi: My first. But actually something had happened. I’d forgotten something that they [01:21:10] started. I was started becoming not very good at ID blocks after [01:21:15] five years off. And I.

Tara Renton: Think you’re a bit more just a bit more critical.

Payman Langroudi: Maybe. But I just [01:21:20] remember going back to my wife and saying, let’s talk about this. How do you do it? Because [01:21:25] I don’t remember having a problem before.

Tara Renton: It’s waiting. It’s waiting. That’s all it is. [01:21:30] It’s waiting.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. So in private industry, it’s very easy to wait because I take that time to talk [01:21:35] to the patient and that’s the best thing you can do anyway. Talk to the patient in NHS. They do the other thing sometimes. [01:21:40] I don’t know if it’s still a thing. Wait in the waiting room? Yes. That used to work very well.

Tara Renton: My dad [01:21:45] did these two surgeries next.

Payman Langroudi: To each.

Tara Renton: Other.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, that used to work very well, didn’t it? I guess that’s why [01:21:50] those patients were properly anaesthetised. Um. I can’t see being able to do [01:21:55] that in private anymore, though. No, no.

Tara Renton: No. I think it’s probably not. Not possible.

Payman Langroudi: And how [01:22:00] do you how do you manage the wrong site surgery? By putting protocols [01:22:05] in where two people are checking at a time.

Tara Renton: You know, you you can’t take the wrong brain out and you can’t take [01:22:10] the heart out. Wrong heart out. Because obviously you’ve got one of those kidneys. It’s possible, you know, [01:22:15] and limbs it’s possible and lungs it’s possible. But um, dentistry, we’ve got [01:22:20] four quadrants and we’ve got two dentitions. So honestly, it’s like tiger country. Yeah. [01:22:25] And um, as my, you know, my dear old dad used to say, shit happens. And I say that a lot [01:22:30] at work and I to my patients and to, you know, um, play with [01:22:35] fire. You’re going to get burnt sometimes. It doesn’t matter how many protocol wise.

Payman Langroudi: What do you suggest? [01:22:40] What did when you did the work and decided.

Tara Renton: Oh, I see, well, the loxp stuff. Yeah. [01:22:45] No, it’s um it’s out there. It’s a big committee. The Royal College of Surgeons and we [01:22:50] did specialist locks for each domain. So a lot of it’s around checklists and [01:22:55] just, you know, making sure that your radiograph is, is labelled correct, labelled correctly. [01:23:00] Obviously it’s on screen now so it’s less likely to happen.

Payman Langroudi: That got me. I draw the wrong side.

Tara Renton: That’s [01:23:05] you see that happens a lot. And I think one of the key things is if you’re doing the surgery, the onus is [01:23:10] to you the medical legal. Even if the anaesthetist messes up, it’s still the surgeon’s problem. So you [01:23:15] just have to plan and be clear. But also just make [01:23:20] sure, put your plan, you know, up somewhere on a piece of paper and [01:23:25] you check with your nurse and a nurse. A dental nurse twice has stopped me doing wrong site surgery [01:23:30] really. And that’s, you know, talking about having your nurses. I always say, if you’ve got a really [01:23:35] good nurse, they’re good enough to be a dentist. And they should be. I think they should [01:23:40] be able to do it, to be honest. But anyway, I just think having that team approach [01:23:45] and people being able to speak up, that’s such a good sign that, you know, my couple [01:23:50] of times Dental have said actually, um, Tara, your and you know, I’m never Tara, [01:23:55] I’m think your forceps are on the seven or the six.

Payman Langroudi: Goodness [01:24:00] me.

Tara Renton: It’s fantastic. Why wouldn’t you want that in your team?

Payman Langroudi: Of course. Yeah. [01:24:05] Of course. So for instance, in black box thinking that yeah, they found one of the big [01:24:10] crashes, famous ones, uh, Canary Islands. There was [01:24:15] a massive plane crash where one plane went straight into another one on the runway. And just [01:24:20] before it was it was a very famous captain. Yeah. Just before [01:24:25] he said, he said, okay, full power ahead. Yeah. And the first officer who was a junior [01:24:30] said something like, sir, are you sure there’s a plane? And then there was this muffle [01:24:35] of him saying that. Yeah. And then the plane went forward and smashed. And then they made [01:24:40] a protocol with pilots of this sort of like.

Tara Renton: Listen.

Payman Langroudi: Whistle blowing kind of [01:24:45] that if you as a junior, if you see a senior doing something there [01:24:50] and then speak up and, and, and, and, you know, he was too scared to really say it. [01:24:55]

Tara Renton: Yeah. Well, the protocol, you know, our student protocol now is you check and recheck. So you [01:25:00] make sure you’ve got the right, you know, you double check your notes, you double check you’ve got the right patient. You double check you’ve [01:25:05] written the right treatment plan up there. Um, you, um, when you’re giving the local anaesthetic you check with [01:25:10] your nurse. I’m doing the right side. Yeah. Yeah. And when with your nurse again you say right, I’m taking out the lower right [01:25:15] six and I’m putting my forceps on the lower right. Six and it’s all with your, [01:25:20] with your, with your dental nurse or your or your. So it’s a, it’s a team [01:25:25] team work. They have to have that confidence to be able to speak up.

Payman Langroudi: Tell me about teaching [01:25:30] in Kings and you’ve seen generations of, of dentists go through. Um, [01:25:35] can you tell? Pretty early on who are going to be the stars? Um.

Tara Renton: Um. [01:25:40]

Payman Langroudi: What about what about the, the teaching itself. I mean, we’re [01:25:45] about to do this event. You should come, by the way, we’re about to do an event at Ministry [01:25:50] of Sound. Oh, are you a Dental conference at Ministry of Sound?

Tara Renton: Fantastic.

Payman Langroudi: Um, [01:25:55] but where that comes from? Yes. Is that particularly post-COVID? [01:26:00] I feel like Dental education, if we’re going to get up out of our homes [01:26:05] and out of our jobs and come somewhere. Yes. That that there needs to be something about going [01:26:10] somewhere that makes that makes sense to that, you know, it’s got to be either super fun or [01:26:15] you’ve got to meet people who you’re going to network with later on, and it’s going to work. Something [01:26:20] different has to happen. I mean, you’re standing on a stage presenting a lecture. You might as well be on the on [01:26:25] the other end of a computer in California presenting a lecture, you know. Um, but what [01:26:30] are your reflections on the course, the Dental course itself. Um, and. [01:26:35]

Tara Renton: It’s, it’s a frustration because, um, like a lot of people, I, and [01:26:40] again. I’ve heard you talk about this on previous podcasts. Um, I [01:26:45] don’t think they, the Dental students come out ready cooked. I mean, there’s more and more, more and more [01:26:50] emphasis on I mean, they’re, they’re, they’re just psychologically, they’re [01:26:55] an interesting generation. Obviously, I’ve got three kids, so they’re very anxious about things, very [01:27:00] self-critical, very fearful of doing anything wrong.

Payman Langroudi: Especially this this generation, anxious, [01:27:05] high achievers, the ones because dentistry is much harder to get into now.

Tara Renton: Well, and that arguably [01:27:10] I would just say that. Are we selecting the right people? I think we need empathic listeners. [01:27:15]

Payman Langroudi: Empathic carpenters.

Tara Renton: Yes. Well, not just that, but but no, you [01:27:20] it’s the empathy is the most important thing. And I think about being patient. I mean, my [01:27:25] whole career has been patient centred and very, very patient centred. And I just think actually [01:27:30] a better qualification for people coming into healthcare would be that they volunteer or they [01:27:35] do a year, not national service, but a year working and helping in a hospital or an old people’s [01:27:40] home or kids nursery.

Payman Langroudi: It’s one of the requirements.

Tara Renton: I would love that to [01:27:45] happen. I’ve been saying that for years. I think that would tell us more and also would tell the kids more whether [01:27:50] they actually made for that particular, you know, and you need a variety [01:27:55] of people. You need a variety of people to make up a team. But dentistry, as in general, dental practice [01:28:00] is very much you and the dental nurse. Yeah. Um, whereas in other domains [01:28:05] of working in a dental team, multidisciplinary teams, you need [01:28:10] different personalities. You need someone who’s going to make sure the T’s are crossed and the i’s are dotted.

Payman Langroudi: But if [01:28:15] you, if you were queen of the world and you could redesign the dental course, which bits would [01:28:20] you take out to to include these bits that you want to put in?

Tara Renton: I think I’d take [01:28:25] out quite a lot and put a lot more.

Payman Langroudi: Um, so, so [01:28:30] the traditional, like, would you take out things like biochemistry? I would, I.

Tara Renton: Would love I, [01:28:35] I think at the element of that definitely. Yeah, I would love to see dentists. You know, one of [01:28:40] my ambitions, which never came to fruition was I’m very jealous of Richard’s new development, I have [01:28:45] to say, is.

Payman Langroudi: Is.

Tara Renton: To have like a 1012 surgery high street [01:28:50] unit that teaches students and postgrads. [01:28:55]

Payman Langroudi: Mhm.

Tara Renton: Um, and, and one day it’s pros, one day it’s oral surgery, one day [01:29:00] you can still do this.

Payman Langroudi: You could still do this.

Tara Renton: I’d love, I’d love to do I think oral surgery is so [01:29:05] stressful and so difficult for the students. That whole concept of. And it’s a horrible [01:29:10] thing to do what we do to our patients. I started saying, as dentists, you know, we’re, as [01:29:15] you say, dealing with patients who don’t want to see us. They know they’re going to get pain. [01:29:20] The trigeminal nerve basically has a one way, one ticket transfer [01:29:25] to the limbic system. So if you’re in threat of having pain to this area [01:29:30] or having painted this area. Your brain is like.

Payman Langroudi: It’s.

Tara Renton: On fire.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And [01:29:35] that’s what we do in dentistry. We work in the try the most difficult nerve in the whole body. That’s [01:29:40] basically amplifying all the stress and everything going on in our head related [01:29:45] to pain. And we just we do it on awake patients. I mean, [01:29:50] did that happen because of barber surgeons? Barber surgeons took out teeth. Dentists [01:29:55] invented GA and let them blooming surgeons run away with the GA. So all these fancy surgeons just [01:30:00] operate on the sleep people. I know there’s it’s changing, thank goodness. And that’s partly due to chronic pain [01:30:05] actually, because we know that a lot of the post-surgical chronic pain, neuropathic [01:30:10] pain is actually probably to do with central sensitisation. So if you get very, [01:30:15] very intense pain transmission to the brain, particularly the para ductal grace just [01:30:20] sits below the amygdala, that area sensitised. And that probably has a memory of pain. So if [01:30:25] you block it with local anaesthetic like we do in dentistry doesn’t happen. So if you go and have [01:30:30] breast surgery, limb surgery, still big enough anatomical areas, you [01:30:35] can’t block it off with local. But the anaesthetist will give strategic local anaesthetic.

Payman Langroudi: For that reason.

Tara Renton: To [01:30:40] minimise chronic pain. Isn’t that fantastic? They’re taking a lesson out of dentist. We do that for years. You [01:30:45] know, I would argue that a lot of stuff we do, patients should be sedated. I don’t think it’s [01:30:50] fair. A lot of the stuff we do that they’re awake. But going back to the, to to rearranging dentistry, [01:30:55] I think a lot of it should be like my grandpa did more of an apprenticeship. Still think you [01:31:00] need the academic knowledge, not to the extent of forays [01:31:05] or four nines or whatever it is these days. I don’t think you’re selecting the right people. I [01:31:10] did actually.

Payman Langroudi: You must have been on the selection board for some time now. Um, you [01:31:15] know, getting.

Tara Renton: Specialists never, never for undergraduates. Oh, really? Yeah. Too busy teaching [01:31:20] and doing the research. I mean, the whole system is ridiculous at university because the [01:31:25] kudos and the money comes with the research. Still not with the teachings, the teachings. Always trying [01:31:30] to get the patients in, trying to deal with the NHS managers who say we can’t be arsed having the [01:31:35] dental students in. They don’t do enough work. We’re basically giving away our our salary, our [01:31:40] income. They don’t want. So you’re fighting all these levels that are running. The undergraduate program was [01:31:45] so stressful because you want more patients in. You want your students doing stuff. [01:31:50] These wonderful people who come in and give up their salary in clinical practice to come and teach our salt [01:31:55] of the earth. Not appreciated, not dealt with very well. And [01:32:00] it’s such a frustration. So I would love it that you have a nice practice [01:32:05] where people want to be there, the teachers want to be there, and then they give the kids a good [01:32:10] time, good experience, and I’d love to see that. And I don’t think that happens an awful lot. I’m [01:32:15] quite cynical or critical about the haptic stuff, and I don’t think that prepares [01:32:20] people for dealing with patients. And as nearly every one of your [01:32:25] podcasts that I’ve listened to, it’s all about the patient. It’s all about the patient relationship. If things are going to go well, [01:32:30] you know, I shouldn’t say this. You know, if your patient loves you, you can do shit dentistry. [01:32:35] But that’s not what we’re advocating.

Payman Langroudi: No, no, but it’s important. Your patient can love you and you can do brilliant.

Tara Renton: And [01:32:40] you have a better day if you have your patients, your dental nurse liking you and your patients liking you. Yeah, you’re going to have a [01:32:45] much better day.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, exactly.

Tara Renton: So and that’s down to, you know, um.

Payman Langroudi: So, [01:32:50] so, so changing the course, you take out lots of the basic science I’m taking.

Tara Renton: I would.

Payman Langroudi: Do, you’d [01:32:55] put in a lot more on relationships.

Tara Renton: I’d put in a lot more face to face, hands on. [01:33:00]

Payman Langroudi: Work as well.

Tara Renton: Sorry.

Payman Langroudi: Communication.

Tara Renton: Absolutely. And psychology. [01:33:05]

Payman Langroudi: And I’d even say business, you know, like.

Tara Renton: Business should.

Payman Langroudi: Be the basics of business.

Tara Renton: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: I think it should [01:33:10] be in school, let alone dental school. Yeah. They should, they should talk. I was going through my daughter. [01:33:15] She’s she’s only at GCSE level. Yeah. Yeah. But you forget you know, GCSE maths [01:33:20] still quite hard. Like I couldn’t, I couldn’t remember how to do this stuff. I was going, yeah, [01:33:25] you know, differentiation or something. I remember the word.

Tara Renton: I gave up trying to help my kids with [01:33:30] their homework a long time ago.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I referred her to ChatGPT at me. But [01:33:35] but then but then this is what I’m saying, that going to quite complex mathematical sort of thing, but [01:33:40] no idea how to apply for a mortgage, like a life, like a very important.

Tara Renton: Life bank account.

Payman Langroudi: Open a bank [01:33:45] account, money in and money out, these sort of simple things, simple.

Tara Renton: Things. The education system [01:33:50] is not fit for purpose either.

Payman Langroudi: And, you know, Elon’s got an idea. I’m calling him like he’s my best [01:33:55] friend. But Elon Musk got an idea of, you know, in schools you have sets.

Tara Renton: Yes. [01:34:00]

Payman Langroudi: But he’s talking about sets that you can move within years. So, for instance, [01:34:05] this nine year old could be in 14 year old physics class. But being [01:34:10] seven year old maths, not maths.

Tara Renton: He’d probably be I would have been kindergarten English [01:34:15] and like probably if I was lucky O-level maths. But yeah, no, I [01:34:20] get that.

Payman Langroudi: So you wrote all these papers. How did you get over your English and dyslexia [01:34:25] and all that to write papers?

Tara Renton: My husband still jokes about champion, not [01:34:30] shampoo paper, what I wrote. It’s my first ever publication. Oh [01:34:35] my God, it was hard. Looking at a blank piece of paper is the most difficult thing. [01:34:40]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: Um, and I, but I’m a massive reader now as well. I love reading, [01:34:45] which I, you know, I never did before, but I love reading.

Payman Langroudi: While we’re on it, what’s your favourite book?

Tara Renton: Uh, [01:34:50] my favourite book would be Patrick Suskind perfume.

Payman Langroudi: Which is a.

Tara Renton: Novel. [01:34:55] It’s a novel. Yeah. I do like quite dark, dark things. [01:35:00] So, um. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And what about your favourite Dental book?

Tara Renton: Favourite [01:35:05] Dental book? Well, I love Dental update. Oh, yeah. Not just because I’m on the editorial [01:35:10] board. Because actually, because I don’t do routine dentistry. I love reading those articles and I love [01:35:15] the editorial board meeting. They’re the best people. They’re the best and.is there as well. Such [01:35:20] talented people.

Payman Langroudi: Just.

Tara Renton: Just Leaders o. But also leaders in their fields are so [01:35:25] inspiring. So I love that because it’s just nice for me to understand, you know, it’s [01:35:30] so technical and so, so different than what I was taught.

Payman Langroudi: You on social media.

Tara Renton: Yes, I am. [01:35:35]

Payman Langroudi: Instagram and all that.

Tara Renton: I am, yeah, but not as you know me. So Instagram is [01:35:40] all stuff that I make. Oh, really creative stuff.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really? Okay. And what do you [01:35:45] make?

Tara Renton: Oh. All sorts. I’ll make anything. I love a project. Always like a project. [01:35:50] So the last thing I made was my two mad Scottish friends who had us around for [01:35:55] New Year’s Eve dinner party. They loved dressing up and, um, [01:36:00] they have these mad selection of, of Christmas hats like turkey upside down [01:36:05] and all sorts of things. And I thought I had some fabric left over because I make these [01:36:10] really ornate Christmas stockings for gifts for people when I’m in the mood. And I had this fabric left over and [01:36:15] I thought, actually, I could make them some really good crowns. So I made these fantastic crowns for them, for Lindsay and Nigel, [01:36:20] and they were great. But anything I can make jewellery. I made my husband’s [01:36:25] wedding ring. I made cufflinks, make jewellery, make clothes, [01:36:30] pay my, pay my way through dental school, making evening dresses and party dresses for [01:36:35] the 80s.

Payman Langroudi: If Etsy was around back then, you’d be a millionaire.

Tara Renton: I would have been killed. I would have not done dentistry. I would have [01:36:40] walked away. I doubt it somehow.

Payman Langroudi: And did you ever get involved in sort of the digital [01:36:45] side of dentistry, or. I guess.

Tara Renton: I have.

Payman Langroudi: Just not.

Tara Renton: The web app is, I suppose.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: No. [01:36:50] So yeah, my sort of chosen course would be probably, well, more psychology [01:36:55] because I love it, but um, MIT in health, I’d love to do a course sort of around [01:37:00] AI and health.

Payman Langroudi: Um, so listening to you now, I feel like just [01:37:05] endless curiosities, like a massive, massive, like [01:37:10] it’s a, it’s a prerequisite to becoming someone like you.

Tara Renton: I think it [01:37:15] helps. It makes the journey much more fun.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: Um, yeah. No, [01:37:20] I think it’s a very, very cool thing I would say actually, and just interested in lots of things. And I [01:37:25] belong to the RSPB. I’ve just been to India. My husband’s involved in tiger conservation. [01:37:30] So big animal lovers and um, love nature. [01:37:35] I cycle every morning in Richmond Park when I can, so I have my own safari every morning. All [01:37:40] the birds.

Payman Langroudi: Beautiful.

Tara Renton: Took a video of the stags this morning, crossing the road in front of me.

Payman Langroudi: And [01:37:45] what did you say was the lowest point? Was it this bullying part incident, like [01:37:50] in this 40 year journey?

Tara Renton: Yes. Um, I was sexually [01:37:55] abused. 11. That was pretty tough. Didn’t tell my mum until about five years [01:38:00] ago. That was horrible. And that’s probably part of my personality as well, just [01:38:05] digging my way out of that. So that was pretty awful. Um, and [01:38:10] then yeah, the bullying at at that, that particular job was tough actually.

Payman Langroudi: Did you feel [01:38:15] like one mirrored the other? Like in your head?

Tara Renton: Uh.

Payman Langroudi: Sometimes [01:38:20] does, you know, like sometimes.

Tara Renton: The one I wasn’t there out of choice. And the second [01:38:25] one, the bullying scenario I was going to into work every day. So some submissive, [01:38:30] you know, submitting to this horrible behaviour. So that’s slightly different. And that [01:38:35] made it harder in a way. Um, yeah. So yeah, no sort [01:38:40] of character building as my mom says, tough, tough love.

Payman Langroudi: If you like. So [01:38:45] then now going forward, basically retired, but [01:38:50] you’re working. You’re working. Yeah. On, on the legal side and.

Tara Renton: Uh, not doing much. I’d [01:38:55] love to do more. I’d love to do more medical legal actually. So I’m just, um, um, [01:39:00] involved in writing an opinion paper, uh, for the BDJ [01:39:05] on the, uh, Winterbottom case. Yeah, yeah. Um, and I’ve got [01:39:10] Irish is involved and he honestly, he’s been through the wringer and he. It’s completely. [01:39:15] Judgement seems very odd. Doesn’t seem right. So [01:39:20] I’m very, very interested in exploring that from a clinical and legal perspective. [01:39:25] So Linda Cruz is doing that with us. Excellent. That’s something I want to pursue. Again, I’d love [01:39:30] when I retired I thought I might do a law degree actually. Really. I don’t I’m not I’m [01:39:35] not a thing. I’m going to do that.

Payman Langroudi: There’s that course at Cardiff that’s like law for doctors or [01:39:40] something like that.

Tara Renton: I might look into that.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: I find it fascinating because they think in such a different way. [01:39:45] Yeah, yeah. Totally different way. So I’m not sure I get.

Payman Langroudi: Some of the most impressive professionals I’ve come across are lawyers. [01:39:50]

Tara Renton: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Some of the most annoying as well. Yeah. Some of the most impressive.

Tara Renton: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Um, [01:39:55] yeah, I’ve noticed that along the way. Yeah. So do you, do you miss the rough [01:40:00] and tumble or are you.

Tara Renton: I miss the I miss my team at work. Yeah. Not seeing them, I [01:40:05] miss operating. Yeah. Um. I’m still seeing patients. That’s still a challenge. I’m [01:40:10] still Invited all over the world to. Lecture won’t be going on for much longer because I won’t be [01:40:15] current for much longer. Um. I’m still. I’m writing a paper for [01:40:20] BMJ Practical Neurology. So breaking down the silos around facial [01:40:25] pain, teaching neurologists about toothache, basically. Um, I’ve [01:40:30] got a load of I help still. I’ve got two clinical fellows who want to do PhDs. [01:40:35] I can’t supervise them, sadly. Crazy thing. Retire, return [01:40:40] only you’re only allowed to return for two years at King’s. I mean, the different universities have different [01:40:45] regulations. I’d love to be doing more. You know, I wouldn’t be charging them anything like free [01:40:50] pro-bono. No, no.

Payman Langroudi: No, not even that.

Tara Renton: No, no. Can’t do [01:40:55] it. I don’t know the regulations.

Payman Langroudi: People like.

Tara Renton: I don’t I obviously don’t want people hanging around [01:41:00] like a bad smell. And I’m very aware of that. I don’t want to do that either. You know, I really don’t. I want to [01:41:05] not hang around and be one of those people in the room think, oh God, he’s still here.

Payman Langroudi: What comes [01:41:10] to mind if I ask you? Like, what was the lecture? Or a lecturer? Yes, that [01:41:15] that blew you away.

Tara Renton: Um. Probably two. So when I was a dental [01:41:20] student, um, we had, uh, Mark Ferguson, I think it was who did the, um, [01:41:25] discovered that crocodiles in utero didn’t scar when they repaired their cleft lip and palate. [01:41:30] I know it’s weird, but I love that. Yeah. And then my probably seminal lecture was [01:41:35] listening to Irene Tracy, who’s now provost or vice provost at Oxford [01:41:40] University. She is a pharmacist, but did some of the seminal work around [01:41:45] pain perception using MRIs, which is where I ended up. I was hoping to work with her, [01:41:50] but she never came to London and we nearly did. Um, but I’ve done a huge amount of MRI work, [01:41:55] and on that front, I’m very much involved in developing MRI neurography. [01:42:00] So we can see nerves for the first time in imaging, which is very exciting.

Payman Langroudi: How does [01:42:05] that work?

Tara Renton: It’s basically clever mathematicians. So basically you have an MRI. [01:42:10] Um, just a normal MRI, which is fantastic. But what you do is you have a [01:42:15] specific coil that actually, um, accentuates the concentration [01:42:20] of the, of the MRI in those areas. And um, Frederick van [01:42:25] de Crusnes, one of my star PhD students, I’ve had 14 PhD students over the years. They’re all my work [01:42:30] babies. They’re amazing. He, he developed this. And you can actually see all the cranial [01:42:35] nerves on an image. So and you can see if the, for example, lingual nerve is broken, if [01:42:40] it’s swollen, if it’s hyperintensive inflamed. So we’re just developing that first in Manhattan [01:42:45] at King’s at the moment. So they’ve got it up and running in a few centres in the in the US [01:42:50] and a couple of centres in Belgium. But first here, which is really exciting. [01:42:55] So that’s a project that I will not let go because I just think it’s fascinating. It’s going to be a whole new science. [01:43:00] And we’ve never looked at nerves before, never been able to do ophthalmologists, headache [01:43:05] neurologists. They are gagging for this stuff.

Payman Langroudi: So it’s.

Tara Renton: Fantastic. Cancer surgery [01:43:10] planning. It’s amazing. Um, and what the clever guys. So so basically [01:43:15] the and we also use contrast. So gadolinium, which helps obviously [01:43:20] visualise the nerves. Um, so what you can see is and what they’ve done is they’ve basically sort of refined [01:43:25] the, the mathematical algorithms. So you can actually differentiate nerve tissue from fat. Um, [01:43:30] and obviously water content for other arteries and bits and pieces. So the scans [01:43:35] are developing that I’m working with the team at um Slam or um, IOP [01:43:40] in the Institute of Psychiatry Psychology. They’ve got a big central neuroscience neuroscience imaging [01:43:45] centre there, which is where I’ve done most of my research. So blessed, such interesting people, [01:43:50] so clever. And they’re basically developing an MRI scan that could do [01:43:55] bone arteries and nerve. So it’s really super exciting. So that’s one of the projects. My web app [01:44:00] is a big project. Um, I’d love to commercialise that. So it can actually be just take [01:44:05] a psych assessment of patients before you see them. Um.

Payman Langroudi: Should do that. [01:44:10]

Tara Renton: I’d love to do that.

Payman Langroudi: If it works, then the next step to do that I’d love to do that.

Tara Renton: And [01:44:15] then because I, one of my heartbreaking things around seeing patients for these many, many [01:44:20] years is delayed or wrong diagnosis. So many patients sit around some [01:44:25] unfortunately, with cancer, not too many, thank God. But then people, you know, they’ve had [01:44:30] all this dental work and they’ve actually got a migraine of v3 mandibular branch or maxillary [01:44:35] branch, or they’ve got a cluster headache type thing going on. Um. [01:44:40]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I spoke to someone.

Tara Renton: So many patients.

Payman Langroudi: Who said, you’re a dentist. I said, yeah, and [01:44:45] he said, I’ve got to ask you about this thing. Uh, trigeminal neuralgia.

Tara Renton: Everyone knows about neuralgia. [01:44:50] It’s the least common facial pain.

Payman Langroudi: So I said, yeah, what do you want to know? And he said, [01:44:55] I went through 12 years of going through different doctors until [01:45:00] someone said, this is what it is.

Tara Renton: And it was.

Payman Langroudi: Ten. It was ten, [01:45:05] and it had an operation to resect MVD.

Tara Renton: But [01:45:10] one of the few indications for surgery and.

Payman Langroudi: A tear came to his eye when he mentioned the name of the guy [01:45:15] who finally figured it out, you know. Yeah, yeah.

Tara Renton: No TN is we do see [01:45:20] it’s the least common diagnosis that we make very, very life impactful for [01:45:25] patients.

Payman Langroudi: Because the pain is severe. Right?

Tara Renton: Well, the pain is severe. You get either elicited or spontaneous. [01:45:30] Often around this area. It’s probably sodium. It’s inherited and [01:45:35] 18% of patients really onset spontaneous starts, usually 5060 year [01:45:40] olds. Yeah. Sort of almost equal distribution men and women. Um, and [01:45:45] uh, haven’t found the cause yet. Mvd basically peels of an artery [01:45:50] or a, or a vein off the stem of the nerve as it comes out, but still, we don’t really [01:45:55] understand how that works. But it’s the most effective treatment after medical treatment initially. Mhm. But if [01:46:00] you’re a pilot or a HGV driver. You can’t tolerate the medications because they just slow you down, slow [01:46:05] your responses. So but that’s I think that’s pretty well treated. There’s a guy called Cruccu [01:46:10] in Italy who’s the lead. He’s done some exceptional work around TN. So I think it’d [01:46:15] be unusual now. I mean all medics know about TN because they remember the trigeminal neuralgia case on their neurosurgery [01:46:20] ward round. So that’s the only oral facial pain that most medics know about. They all know about it. [01:46:25] And that’s frustrating to me because all that gets it’s always TNTNTN. But actually toothache [01:46:30] can mimic migraines, can mimic TN, can mimic all sorts of different conditions. [01:46:35] And then obviously post-traumatic neuropathy, nerve injuries is a biggie. Much bigger and [01:46:40] bigger than TN because you have you touch it, you get electric shock, you get mechanical allodynia or [01:46:45] thermal allodynia, which is a feature of that, of that condition. So that’s often misdiagnosed [01:46:50] as well. What about. So that’s what the web apps come about, is to try and develop a sort [01:46:55] of diagnostic app that will direct patients either to neurologists or to a dentist [01:47:00] or to ENT so they don’t end up going to an ENT surgeon having sinus washout and septal [01:47:05] deviation correction, and then being told that they’ve got, you know, cluster headache or going to [01:47:10] the neurologist and having five years of, of headache medication when they’ve actually got, you [01:47:15] know, tooth or embedded carious wisdom tooth that no one’s picked up on and [01:47:20] a long cone periapical.

Payman Langroudi: So is the least common. What’s the most common migraine?

Tara Renton: Migraine [01:47:25] is very, very common. So and migraine always generally in [01:47:30] most patients affects v1, v2, v3.

Payman Langroudi: All the way down.

Tara Renton: It does. And we forget that. [01:47:35] And there’s an increasing number of patients now that come to us who’ve got misdiagnosed pain. And actually [01:47:40] it’s migraine. So you can actually screen that’s part of our screening. It’s hit six. You can screen out migraines [01:47:45] very, very easily and find out if there are migraine.

Payman Langroudi: And has has bruxism increased. [01:47:50] And TMJ.

Tara Renton: Is not a pain condition and bruxism.

Payman Langroudi: Is not.

Tara Renton: There’s really good evidence [01:47:55] now that bruxism does not drive muscle pain and.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really, really, really.

Tara Renton: So, you know, we’ve had patients [01:48:00] where they’ve got no teeth, like one millimetre of tooth tissue above their gingival level. Yeah. [01:48:05] No pain.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Tara Renton: So bruxism, there’s two there’s awake and sleep, bruxism, sleep [01:48:10] bruxism. Nocturnal bruxism, bruxism. Increasingly. Another inspirational lecture. [01:48:15] Danny. Danny Eccles. He’s a sleep [01:48:20] physician researcher. Adelaide. Incredible. And [01:48:25] um, his work is international based but they basically [01:48:30] showing that actually nocturnal bruxism is an activity that coincides with periodic [01:48:35] limb movements. So restless leg syndrome at night. Yeah. And actually it’s all to do with the arousal [01:48:40] phase of sleep. So it’s a neuromuscular phenomenon. It’s not stress. [01:48:45] Oh really? Yeah. And actually what you need to do, how you I mean stopping [01:48:50] restless leg syndrome. It’s the same old drugs we use for a lot of chronic pain conditions, relaxant, muscle relaxant drugs. [01:48:55] But actually you just need to protect the teeth and reassure the patient. Daytime [01:49:00] I definitely clench is probably stress related, but it doesn’t drive [01:49:05] pain.

Payman Langroudi: So to that, that bit of information that I have is, I guess, old information. [01:49:10]

Tara Renton: It is. I think it’s coming through. I mean, the other thing that’s very interesting as well, that I’ve published quite [01:49:15] a bit on recently is myogenous TMD. So muscle based jaw joint pain, a [01:49:20] lot of that is migraine.

Payman Langroudi: Oh really?

Tara Renton: So you need to and again, [01:49:25] it’s something dentists should be doing routinely is if the patients presenting with a pain [01:49:30] just say, do you get headaches? Do you get migraines? And they know most patients will know [01:49:35] if they have a history or they currently get intermittent migraines.

Payman Langroudi: So much of it is going into that [01:49:40] functional medicine kind of that’s.

Tara Renton: Where.

Payman Langroudi: We should be interaction. That’s where we should be. Mouth body connection. [01:49:45] I wouldn’t expect that from someone coming from, you know, oral surgery, you know, but [01:49:50] you’re very much everything you’ve said is in that sort of.

Tara Renton: It is that’s where we need to be. [01:49:55] That’s the whole place we need to be to optimise the treatment for our patients. And [01:50:00] and that’s not what’s being taught, sadly. And it’s so much more interesting.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [01:50:05] it’s very interesting. It’s very interesting. It’s been a massive pleasure to have you, professor. [01:50:10] Stay awake. Dame. Stop it. Please [01:50:15] don’t do that. Can I can I finish off with the usual questions where you ask the fantasy [01:50:20] dinner party? Three guests, dead or alive. Who are you having?

Tara Renton: Um, [01:50:25] I’ve got no name. Uh, so, um, [01:50:30] Atul Gawande, who’s the medic? The Indian American medic who was Obama’s medical [01:50:35] adviser, who’s done a huge amount around lots and lots of areas, [01:50:40] but he was Mr. Checklist. He was one of the first people to introduce the W.H.O. [01:50:45] checklist, which is now surpassed. But it’s I think it’s entered the culture of most.

Payman Langroudi: It speaks very [01:50:50] well as well.

Tara Renton: He’s a fantastic speaker. Yeah. Um, I think he was on, um, [01:50:55] Rory Stewart, wasn’t he? Uh, Campbell and Stewart.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. That’s right, that’s right, that’s right. Politics. [01:51:00] Politics. Leading. Leading. Yeah.

Tara Renton: He’s really good. Um. And then [01:51:05] I wrote an actress name down and I’ve had a mental block now.

Payman Langroudi: Um, what was she in? [01:51:10]

Tara Renton: She was a jungle queen. Um, she was a sort of kick [01:51:15] ass woman. Didn’t take any prisoners. We were going back to the 1950s movies. I grew [01:51:20] up, my dad was a great movie buff. Um, Katharine Hepburn.

Payman Langroudi: Katharine Hepburn loved her. Okay.

Tara Renton: Trousers. [01:51:25]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Tara Renton: Did her own thing, but in a nice way. Um, and [01:51:30] then, um, who else would I invite? [01:51:35] I mean, I don’t think Elon Musk would be. He is phenomenal. I don’t like him. He’s [01:51:40] not a nice person, but he’s phenomenal.

Payman Langroudi: He is I think on the net net you have to say he’s an asset. I [01:51:45] mean.

Tara Renton: Yeah I think I’d agree.

Payman Langroudi: With you. He could be a Nazi whatever whatever he is a right winger, [01:51:50] whatever he is. But if you look at what he’s done, you’ve got to say it’s so impressive. [01:51:55] Humanity’s moved forward. Yeah.

Tara Renton: It’s so impressive. And he talks about his busy. [01:52:00] I have a busy brain, which is why, you know, I don’t I have I don’t have when someone, a couple of people [01:52:05] have asked me if I have therapy and I’ve never done that, but I say my bicycles, my therapy. And [01:52:10] I learned that, you know, with long time back when really busy family [01:52:15] look back, I just can’t believe what we did, you know, spinning all those plates and doing everything. But [01:52:20] the one thing I did was I bought a second hand Brompton bike on eBay because [01:52:25] I was frustrated. I was getting no exercise. And it basically meant I could take it [01:52:30] everywhere and I could cycle between meetings, cycle to work as much as I could cycle home. And honestly, [01:52:35] I could have the shittiest day from hell. Want to kill everyone? Get on [01:52:40] the bike. Five minutes cycling from Denmark Hill to Vauxhall.

Payman Langroudi: Solve [01:52:45] it.

Tara Renton: And that’s what I learned. Actually. That’s probably.

Payman Langroudi: Some [01:52:50] lime bikes for that, but.

Tara Renton: No lime bikes.

Payman Langroudi: Even though there’s not much work going on. No, no. The [01:52:55] speed of acceleration. Yeah. No, but you’re right. And in winter it’s [01:53:00] harder, isn’t it? Yeah. In winter I don’t use them as much. No. And actually feel it, [01:53:05] you know. Oh do you. And somehow I make a point. You use 2 or 3 a day. Yeah. I’ll cycle here. [01:53:10] Cycle back, cycle wherever. I should make.

Tara Renton: A point of doing it more.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: As I say in Norway, it’s not the [01:53:15] wrong weather. It’s the.

Payman Langroudi: Wrong place. Exactly. Yeah, exactly.

Tara Renton: Very much. I cycle snow, rain, everything. [01:53:20]

Payman Langroudi: You do, you.

Tara Renton: Get out. I love it, it just makes me feel.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah. There is something.

Tara Renton: A dose of mindfulness. [01:53:25] Nature. Get home and I’m ready for the rest of the day. I love it so I don’t [01:53:30] I think Elon needs to do probably more cycling. I don’t know. He’d be less productive if he does more cycling. But it’d [01:53:35] be interesting to sit next to someone with that much of a busy brain, or maybe a bit of a misogynist, I don’t [01:53:40] know. I’ve had enough of those in my life, but.

Payman Langroudi: I’ve got a deathbed question.

Tara Renton: Oh, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Lying [01:53:45] on your deathbed, surrounded by your dearest and [01:53:50] nearest and dearest many years from now. What three pieces of advice would you [01:53:55] leave for them and for the world?

Tara Renton: Stay curious. Probably? Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: That [01:54:00] seems.

Tara Renton: Clear. That’s my biggest joy. Um. Priorities. [01:54:05] Prioritise your friends and family. I’ve got eight girlfriends. [01:54:10] I wouldn’t be here sitting here now without my amazing husband. Three [01:54:15] kids. I’m incredibly proud of that. I haven’t fucked up completely. Um, [01:54:20] and the girlfriends we’ve seen each other through.

Payman Langroudi: Which era are they from? From [01:54:25] school, university, or.

Tara Renton: A couple I’ve known for 40 years.

Payman Langroudi: Uh huh.

Tara Renton: Um. Uh, [01:54:30] yeah, about half over half of them I’ve known for 38, [01:54:35] 40 years. And then there’s a few new add ons that we met at antenatal [01:54:40] with our Firstborn’s 33, 33 years. I can’t believe I’m saying [01:54:45] that.

Payman Langroudi: There’s nothing like old friends. Nothing like old friends.

Tara Renton: So friends and family, I think, are really, [01:54:50] really up there. Curiosity. And I would say, stick to your guns. [01:54:55] If there’s if you’re principled, if I look back and think, I could have made some really dumb [01:55:00] decisions, like not doing medicine, I didn’t do it. I was right, I was very lucky because [01:55:05] oral surgery came in, you know, and then I. Yeah, no, stick to your [01:55:10] guns, you know, you know, know who you are. And, and if you have a goal, [01:55:15] just, just keep at it. And if you keep hitting a brick wall, just walk around that wall. Find a way [01:55:20] around that wall.

Payman Langroudi: What do you wish you were more like.

Tara Renton: Uh, [01:55:25] my husband.

Payman Langroudi: In what sense?

Tara Renton: Calm. Kind. [01:55:30]

Payman Langroudi: You seem calm.

Tara Renton: I am calm.

Payman Langroudi: You seem kind.

Tara Renton: I am kind.

Payman Langroudi: Um. [01:55:35] What is it? What is it you’re bad at? You know. That’s what I’m getting at.

Tara Renton: I think I, I have [01:55:40] I can have the element of irritating people. I don’t mean hating people. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: In [01:55:45] what sense?

Tara Renton: Um, there’s a family joke really that I, you know, I’m ADHD [01:55:50] and. Yeah, I’m a bit busy. Mrs. [01:55:55] McHenry.

Payman Langroudi: From.

Tara Renton: Magic Roundabout. So yeah, probably. But [01:56:00] then that’s part of my charm, I guess. A lot of people tell me, I don’t know.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, the [01:56:05] thing is, you could say I wish I was better at politicking in I guess. Yeah, [01:56:10] but but but the charm of it is that you’re not.

Tara Renton: Yeah, I guess so. Well, it’s it’s not [01:56:15] served me too badly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And I’d be a very different person if I was better at that kind [01:56:20] of stuff.

Payman Langroudi: Exactly, exactly.

Tara Renton: Probably be nice just to have a little tiny bit of commercial [01:56:25] DNA.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah yeah.

Tara Renton: Yeah, yeah. Because I really haven’t.

Payman Langroudi: That sounds like your husband’s got that [01:56:30] in spades.

Tara Renton: He. Yes. He has.

Payman Langroudi: So you should do a project together. You should do this teaching centre.

Tara Renton: I’d [01:56:35] love to do it together. Well, I was just. I ring up Richard Porter and just say, [01:56:40] do you want your oral surgery or a facial pain I love. I’d [01:56:45] love to train oral facial pain. Do you know, I get a lot of people asking me about doing special. There’s [01:56:50] no speciality in oral facial pain. Yeah, but I think it would be a fantastic thing if certain dentists are interested. [01:56:55] I think you do your dentistry for 4 or 5 days a week, and then you do one day speciality, [01:57:00] and that would be make an awful lot of sense for for, you know, maintaining interest. [01:57:05]

Payman Langroudi: So this is something I want to go into at this thing at ministry, right? Is the question of [01:57:10] should I specialise or should I go on Richard Porter’s course? Yes. [01:57:15] Or for the sake of the argument, Frank spear or yes or whatever. [01:57:20] But you know, should I specialise? And the other question, which speciality should I do? [01:57:25] Because I think oral surgery. I say all surgeries, one on its own in a way. [01:57:30] But for me, when I when a young dentist ask me which, which one should I do? I’m [01:57:35] not sure which one I like the most. I’m going to do whichever one. Yeah. Like get very good at anything. [01:57:40] Yeah. And you’ll enjoy it. Outside of. Also, I’d say all surgery and max facts and blood [01:57:45] and flaps and bone. Some people are made for that, and some people just don’t want to [01:57:50] go anywhere near that.

Tara Renton: And I understand that.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. But whether it’s.

Tara Renton: A lot of people do.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. A lot of people [01:57:55] do. A lot of people do.

Tara Renton: And it’s incredibly rewarding.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, the thing we don’t have anymore is that, you know, the failed [01:58:00] medic syndrome. Yes. Because it’s just as hard to get into dentistry as to get into medicine.

Tara Renton: Well, it’s. [01:58:05]

Payman Langroudi: Harder. It’s harder in my day that that was the thing. Yeah. It was you couldn’t quite get into [01:58:10] medicine then that you came to dentistry. And then then and then those guys end up becoming Max fac surgeons because [01:58:15] they wanted to be doctors. For me, you said it for me.

Tara Renton: I was biting my tongue, which is very [01:58:20] unusual, which is not a great that’s not a great solution. No, it’s [01:58:25] not a great professional way to select your future career. Yeah. No, I think and it’s not. And, [01:58:30] you know, saying that now it’s and [01:58:35] the part of the reason I originally chose dentistry is I know that I, I knew that I could work [01:58:40] in a practice for one or 2 or 3 days a week and do whatever I wanted to do. The other [01:58:45] time. So I think there’s that pressure of I think the kids put themselves under a lot of pressure. [01:58:50] They want to be Instagram influencers. They want to be this. They probably want to prefer to be that than actually [01:58:55] doing a lot of the dentistry, to be fair, which is a shame for the patients. Um, [01:59:00] but I think it’s not just about pleasing. [01:59:05] I think there’s so much out there, like, well, like orofacial pain, there’s no speciality in orofacial pain. [01:59:10] There’s no speciality in lots of aspects of teeth whitening.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: No implants. Implants.

Payman Langroudi: Not going [01:59:15] with that. Should I specialise, should I go on a course? Should there be some sort of hybrid? Yeah. Which [01:59:20] is what you’re suggesting.

Tara Renton: I think it would be great.

Payman Langroudi: Like even even at one from institutions, you know, like [01:59:25] it could be that you could go. And I know it’s like a part time MSc. They have these things, right? [01:59:30] But but something where people could, could follow an interest.

Tara Renton: And have [01:59:35] a network, a supportive network.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Tara Renton: And that would be a UK wide. I mean, another [01:59:40] going back to undergraduate. Why don’t we have national curricula in orofacial pain? [01:59:45] You know, I heard you saying one of your podcasts about when you first qualified from Cardiff, [01:59:50] you went into BT and you had you could see that some people were really good at this, and [01:59:55] some people were really good at that and, you know, identified some of the weaknesses in your own training. Yeah. [02:00:00] I just think, actually, why aren’t we just. And that’s an argument for even the NHS as well, [02:00:05] when there’s all this good stuff happening, why aren’t we harnessing that and spreading the love? [02:00:10]

Payman Langroudi: Because we’re very slow to change. We’re very slow to change. But you’re form of the system, [02:00:15] right? Can you can you understand why we’re so slow to change?

Tara Renton: Well, I think one of the [02:00:20] problems, like talking about ID blocks and, and, and diagnosing TN, we’re [02:00:25] still doing the same stuff we were taught at dental school.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, but look, your kids are in, you know, it [02:00:30] data science, AI changing weekly.

Tara Renton: Yes, but I’m just.

Payman Langroudi: Saying those industries [02:00:35] are very quick to change, but Dental medical.

Tara Renton: But they’re still teaching the same stuff I was taught [02:00:40] at dental school and that’s wrong. It’s mad and it’s wrong. It’s completely wrong and it’s not [02:00:45] fit for purpose. And I feel sorry for the kids for that because they’re already predisposed to anxiety. [02:00:50] They don’t have their confidence is not built up enough, I think, [02:00:55] and their interpersonal skills, they don’t know who they are.

Payman Langroudi: How have you managed to navigate all [02:01:00] of this and keep such a like, smile on your face? Because [02:01:05] that’s I’d say that’s the the biggest success of your sort of career. Like we like meeting [02:01:10] you properly is that, you know, you know, a lot of people get jaded and [02:01:15] lost.

Tara Renton: I’m always well, it’s the curiosity and I’m always hoping for. I [02:01:20] feel most sorry for people that go to work and do the same thing over [02:01:25] and over again. Never question, never think about how they can make things better [02:01:30] for the patient. Go home and have dinner.

Payman Langroudi: Mhm.

Tara Renton: That would be, for me, the worst possible [02:01:35] work life environment I would have. Yeah I [02:01:40] am. I have managed with grit and determination, [02:01:45] but mostly curiosity and energy to, you [02:01:50] know, identify something that seems like a really good idea. Changing practices impossible. [02:01:55] Like the guidelines and everything. You just get all these, you know, depending on their different personality disorders. [02:02:00] Yeah. And we can’t do this because of that. And we can’t do that. You know, the, the negative this and but yeah, [02:02:05] I think, I think if you’re patient centred, then that that is obvious. The choice [02:02:10] is obvious that actually that’s the right direction, the right factor. We go in.

Payman Langroudi: You know, [02:02:15] and you’ve, you’ve lectured all over the world. Are there different research [02:02:20] cultures.

Tara Renton: Oh my goodness. Different Dental cultures. Yeah. Different conference cultures.

Payman Langroudi: So for [02:02:25] instance, one, one thing I heard that the, the Chinese research is much more [02:02:30] centralised. And so much as they look at a big problem and direct all [02:02:35] the resources towards these big problems in university.

Tara Renton: Well, that’s what they do in [02:02:40] corporates and R&D and corporates. Yeah, exactly. It’s exactly the same process. It’s much more commercial.

Payman Langroudi: So where we’re [02:02:45] at with with universities is almost it’s almost like a passion projects of [02:02:50] or of course, there’s the, the funding side of it as well. Yeah, [02:02:55] I think the passion is an important part of it. Right. But do you think there should be more coordination like [02:03:00] UK wide, wide. We should coordinate research.

Tara Renton: Should be much less barriers, much less [02:03:05] silos. Yeah. And much more collaboration. Yeah. And I think that’s something [02:03:10] that’s probably one of my other skills. I was never frightened to Praveen Anand, [02:03:15] who’s a is a fantastic, godlike neurologist at [02:03:20] Hammersmith Hospital. He led the whole research into nerve growth factor [02:03:25] in diabetic neuropathy. Mega brain. I wanted to as part of my PhD, [02:03:30] I wanted to use this equipment. It’s called medic and it basically is quantitative sensory testing. [02:03:35] So you have, um, hot and cold and you look at different fibre types A-delta C fibre [02:03:40] and how they react and pick up the different thresholds. Anyway, this really [02:03:45] expensive machinery and the rep was really lovely penny. And she said, oh well Prof Adnan’s [02:03:50] got that at Hammersmith Hospital. And I said, well you know, she said, oh I’m [02:03:55] sure, I’m sure he’d let you see the equipment. So there’s me [02:04:00] and I, you know, I’ve never been backwards and coming forward, I will front up and take a [02:04:05] challenge. Um, and I, you know, I remember going to his clinic and I honestly, it felt [02:04:10] like I was in hyperspace. There was him, there was a very bright Peter [02:04:15] neurophysiologist from Queen’s Square. There was Rolf Birch, really famous orthopaedic [02:04:20] surgeon who first talked about brachial plexus syndrome and pain after orthopaedic surgery. He [02:04:25] used to wear a Deerstalker and a pipe. I was in this clinic. It was like surreal. [02:04:30] And I really probably fundamentally understood less than 2% [02:04:35] of the conversation. It’s like dumb blonde, you know? And I just but it [02:04:40] didn’t stop me, you know? And he was brilliant. He let me he persuaded [02:04:45] the company to lend me a machine for one of my PhD chapters. That’s that’s how [02:04:50] to be is not afraid to if you’re that curious in something and you’ve [02:04:55] got the energy and the drive, things are going to happen.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, [02:05:00] it reminds me of one of my school friends. He’s become a world expert [02:05:05] at, uh, psychology.

Tara Renton: Oh, interesting.

Payman Langroudi: Fungus disease. [02:05:10] That he’s a doctor, but he’s become a real top guy in that. And he invited me to his professorial [02:05:15] lecture. And, um, honestly, slide two. [02:05:20] I was completely lost. Completely lost. And I thought I knew it. You know, I [02:05:25] thought I’d understand a few medical terms or.

Tara Renton: I’ve had so many.

Payman Langroudi: Experiences. Like I told [02:05:30] him. Slide two. I was I just couldn’t keep up. And he goes two. I [02:05:35] was like, and you know, when they’re in their own world, aren’t they for them? And there’s [02:05:40] other people in the room that they’re trying to impress or whatever they’re talking. He was talking so matter of fact [02:05:45] ish and I literally couldn’t keep up after slide two.

Tara Renton: And I’ll tell you the worst scenarios that you have [02:05:50] someone like that lecturing before you get up to lecture after them. Even worse. I felt like the village idiot [02:05:55] quite a few conferences. Like I’m obviously just there for the entertainment. I’m not really there for any kind of the [02:06:00] intellectual knowledge base.

Payman Langroudi: Place you’ve been.

Tara Renton: Oh golly, I’ve just been to the Andaman [02:06:05] Islands, which is very. The Andaman Islands are an archipelago [02:06:10] of islands, uh, east of India and west of Myanmar. [02:06:15] Oh, so they’re like. And if you follow the archipelago down, it becomes the Philippines. [02:06:20]

Payman Langroudi: Was it beautiful or Indonesia?

Tara Renton: Indonesia. Indonesia. Absolutely. Stunningly beautiful. [02:06:25] Impossibly difficult to get to.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. How’d you get there?

Tara Renton: By boat. Hardly [02:06:30] any European. You do? By boat, by plane, by plane, by plane, by boat. Um, [02:06:35] but absolutely, absolutely beautiful. Um, [02:06:40] did a bit of diving, which I haven’t done for ages.

Payman Langroudi: Beautiful in the sort of the yellow sand, kind of beautiful. [02:06:45]

Tara Renton: Beautiful beach something. We lived in Australia for five years and I go back a lot. My kids have been based in Australia [02:06:50] on and off for eight years. So beautiful beaches, beautiful beaches, a beautiful beach. But [02:06:55] um, the you land there basically. Um, the north Andaman is [02:07:00] basically there’s over 300 islands and only um 23 are [02:07:05] inhabited and only three of the islands have tourists on. Oh, and when [02:07:10] you fly over it’s this dense tropical forest.

Payman Langroudi: Forest.

Tara Renton: And [02:07:15] most of these lovely islands you go to is like the Maldives. It’s like pretty flat. And they’ve got these beautiful [02:07:20] hills. But when you go and go into the forest, I’m not kidding you. It’s like something out of [02:07:25] Games of Thrones. These trees are like Norfolk pines [02:07:30] and thick trunks. Beautiful. They go up 20m [02:07:35] at least.

Payman Langroudi: So would you get on a boat and and go to these different islands? [02:07:40]

Tara Renton: You can you can visit different islands or you just stay on one of them. We were on Havelock Island. They’re [02:07:45] all named after old British officers. Um and um [02:07:50] I think they’re trying to change the names, but they haven’t got around to it yet.

Payman Langroudi: So they call the Andaman.

Tara Renton: Called the Andaman.

Payman Langroudi: Andaman [02:07:55] Islands.

Tara Renton: Andaman Islands. Yeah. So that’s probably and [02:08:00] it was on the back of going to one of Tony’s Tiger annual Tiger conference. So he’s involved [02:08:05] in tiger conservation. So it just combines all that lovely thing that he does, which is I’m [02:08:10] really proud of him that he does that. So that was a very, very special trip. Yeah. But [02:08:15] I mean I love Cornwall, so I spent my first few years in Cornwall. So probably [02:08:20] my favourite place on earth is Cool Sand beach.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Tara Renton: Yeah, that’s where my [02:08:25] ashes are going to be.

Payman Langroudi: Doesn’t feel like the rest of the UK, does it? It just feels like a different country.

Tara Renton: Where the people are [02:08:30] very different.

Payman Langroudi: People are different. It’s just different. Everything different. Different landscapes, different hilliness. [02:08:35] Yeah.

Tara Renton: I love it.

Payman Langroudi: There it is cool.

Tara Renton: The walks are great. The sea. Just [02:08:40] being in. I swim every day.

Payman Langroudi: Have you got a place there?

Tara Renton: My mum’s my mum’s house. Oh, your mum’s on the beach.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. [02:08:45]

Tara Renton: The pub’s five foot outside the front door.

Payman Langroudi: And.

Tara Renton: The back, back gate goes onto [02:08:50] the beach. I don’t think there’s a better place on earth. I love it there.

Payman Langroudi: Good food and stuff as well. [02:08:55]

Tara Renton: Uh, it can be, it can be variable. But yeah, no, generally pretty good food. Excellent. Yeah. [02:09:00]

Payman Langroudi: It’s been such a massive pleasure and a real privilege to have you. So thank you so much for coming [02:09:05] all the way.

Tara Renton: My pleasure.

Payman Langroudi: Really, really enjoyed that and learned so much from you. I don’t your [02:09:10] mindset particularly is just such a such a beautiful way of looking at things, you know, like curious, [02:09:15] positive, um, uh, I always thought that was a young person’s [02:09:20] outlook, but it’s lovely to see someone continuous to be continuing to be that [02:09:25] way, you know, post retiring from all of your jobs.

Tara Renton: I think the family would like me just to kick off [02:09:30] the shoes. It’s never going to happen.

Payman Langroudi: Thank you so much for doing this.

Tara Renton: My absolute pleasure. Payman. [02:09:35] Thank you for the invitation.

Payman Langroudi: Pleasure.

[VOICE]: This is Dental Leaders, [02:09:40] the podcast where you get to go one on one with emerging leaders [02:09:45] in dentistry. Your hosts Payman [02:09:50] Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

Prav Solanki: Thanks for listening guys. [02:09:55] If you got this far, you must have listened to the whole thing. And just a huge thank you both [02:10:00] from me and pay for actually sticking through and listening to what we’ve had to say and what our guest [02:10:05] has had to say, because I’m assuming you got some value out of it.

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Mike Gray’s path to dentistry was anything but straightforward — and that’s precisely what makes this conversation so compelling. 

A former semi-professional mountain biker who raced the World Series across three disciplines, a musician who once had the head of Universal Publishing sitting in his living room in rural Wales, and a dentist who spent years doing everything he could to avoid dentistry, Mike has lived several lives before arriving at the one he clearly loves. 

Payman and Mike cover the full sweep — grief, therapy, surgical war stories, and an obsessive, self-taught approach to digital restorative dentistry that culminates in his POISE Protocol: a no-prep veneer workflow that he believes makes truly minimally invasive ceramics available to the vast majority of patients, not just a lucky five per cent.

 

In This Episode

00:00:55 – Introductions and first impressions

00:01:20 – Mountain biking career

00:09:15 – A friend’s suicide, guilt and stepping back from maxfax

00:12:15 – Therapy

00:14:10 – Life on the World Series circuit

00:19:25 – From maxfax to music

00:28:10 – Blackbox thinking

00:33:45 – Music career — Alabama Three, Peppa Pig and Covid

00:49:25 – NHS dentistry debate

00:51:50 – Falling in love with dentistry

00:54:40 – Self-taught restorative and the digital workflow

01:00:25 – Ditching the articulator

01:01:20 – Prototypes, not temporaries

01:05:10 – Into implants

01:11:00 – Compassion fatigue

01:13:40 – POISE protocol and no-prep ceramics

01:25:10 – The Lodge and the course

01:29:05 – Resilience and failure

01:34:20 – Practice ownership

01:41:10 – Instagram

01:49:20 – Fantasy dinner party

 

About Mike Gray

Mike Gray is a dentist based in Wales, working at Parkway Clinic in Swansea and The Lodge — a referral and education centre where he hosts his sold-out POISE Protocol course on minimally invasive ceramic veneers. His background spans maxillofacial surgery, semi-professional mountain biking at World Series level, and a music career that attracted interest from Universal Publishing and, improbably, Peppa Pig. He teaches himself CAD, machines his own surgical instruments, and has spent five years developing a digital workflow for no-prep ceramic restorations that he believes renders feldspathic and heavy preparation largely redundant.

Payman Langroudi: Dental educational events need a shake up? I’m really happy to announce that we’ll be doing [00:00:05] a new event in June called The Minimalist Conference at Ministry of Sound, [00:00:10] where we’re going to have 30 speakers and two parties. It starts at 2:00 [00:00:15] and finishes at 2:00 as well on the 13th of June, which is Saturday. [00:00:20] Check out the website at minimalist dash dot dot [00:00:25] app, or check out the Instagram page at minimalist [00:00:30] dot join us.

[VOICE]: This [00:00:35] is Dental Leaders. The [00:00:40] podcast where you get to go one on one with emerging [00:00:45] leaders in dentistry. Your [00:00:50] hosts Payman Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

Payman Langroudi: It [00:00:55] gives me great pleasure to welcome Mike grey onto the podcast. Mike is a. Legendary [00:01:00] is the best word I can find for it. Yeah yeah yeah. [00:01:05] I’ve got a degree of hero worship for you, man. Um, [00:01:10] they say never meet your heroes. But, you know, it’s a massive pleasure that you’ve come.

Mike Gray: Oh, no. It’s my [00:01:15] pleasure. Like I said, I. I think you got the wrong guy. Like I said, because it’s Dental Leaders [00:01:20] podcast and look at me, you know, but, uh, no absolute pleasure. And, uh, [00:01:25] yeah, it’s, uh, much respect for yourself as well and everything. Well, you [00:01:30] know, it’s, you’re a perfect person to speak to of life outside dentistry, [00:01:35] you know, because, uh, which is, and it’s awesome. And I think you don’t realise that [00:01:40] when you start dentistry, um, because you think, well, you know, I just have to drill people’s mouths and yet [00:01:45] you done all this, which is awesome.

Payman Langroudi: It’s very flexible, isn’t it? Dentistry that [00:01:50] my daughter’s thinking of going into it. Although these days you never know with, uh, robots [00:01:55] and you know what’s going to be like eight years time when she.

Mike Gray: Was working on it, aren’t they?

Payman Langroudi: Exactly. [00:02:00] I mean, the brain, definitely the the language model. And it’s time. It’s going to be the [00:02:05] super computer. Right. But then the only other thing is like, you know, the eyes and the hands. Yeah. And [00:02:10] you know, man, if they can’t make hands better than human hands in eight years time.

Mike Gray: Then when [00:02:15] Musk was on about it, I saw something the other day.

Payman Langroudi: He’s like, go to medical school. Yeah, I saw that.

Mike Gray: Well, it’s. [00:02:20] And it’s right. Yeah. I’d give that advice in this country for different reasons.

Payman Langroudi: But your mom’s [00:02:25] a doctor, right?

Mike Gray: Yeah. She is. She is. And she said, don’t do medicine. It’s 2004. [00:02:30] I went to university, so, uh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But you’ve got an amazing sort [00:02:35] of history insomuch as not only are you an expert at restorative dentistry, [00:02:40] some innovative stuff that I’ve seen you’re doing and teaching. Yeah. Um, around [00:02:45] minimally invasive stuff around full mouth stuff and surgical stuff. Yeah, yeah. Um, [00:02:50] photography. Yeah. But actually your journeys come through mountain [00:02:55] Biking at the highest level. Travelling the world. Doing that. [00:03:00] Yeah. Yeah. And a music career.

Mike Gray: Yeah. I mean.

Payman Langroudi: How did this.

Mike Gray: Career. [00:03:05] I shouldn’t say failed because I did I did all right. Yeah. Um. Yeah. And I [00:03:10] think I would say that’s a big strength in that just [00:03:15] from coming from those worlds. It means I approach things quite [00:03:20] different now. Um, so yeah, mountain biking, I did that. I’ve [00:03:25] always been two wheels, anything, two wheels, um, from about the age of ten. And, uh, I used to race [00:03:30] a race pretty much professionally. I raced over the World Series over three [00:03:35] different disciplines like downhill, which is getting from the top of the mountain to the bottom as fast as you can, and then full cross [00:03:40] where it’s for people like head to head. And then a little bit later, I, um, did World Enduro, [00:03:45] which is more endurance based, but you kind of pedal up the hill and then race down over a couple of days. So a [00:03:50] couple of days. Yeah. So it’s so it’s, um. It didn’t mix [00:03:55] too well with dentistry. Lots of injuries, uh, point to anywhere on my body. There’s nuts [00:04:00] and bolts and various things holding it together. I never got the, um, the sort of the, [00:04:05] the, you know, like the insurance insure your hands sort of thing because my premium was always too high [00:04:10] when you have to list your injuries prior. So, uh, waste of time on that one. [00:04:15] But, uh, yeah, it came from that realm, which [00:04:20] is, it’s something I learned early on is you [00:04:25] got to work hard wherever you want to do to, to, to get to the top to.

Payman Langroudi: To get anywhere.

Mike Gray: Well, I [00:04:30] think what to do well is a different one because you’ve only got to work a little bit harder than average because [00:04:35] you just got to work, you know, a little bit more than the average person, you’ll do well. But if you want to get to the top, like. [00:04:40]

Payman Langroudi: Obsession.

Mike Gray: Yeah, it’s that side of it. And so, but it’s [00:04:45] also an element of, okay, well, what am I going to do different to everyone else [00:04:50] that’s going to because everyone’s working hard, everyone’s putting in the hours, everyone’s putting in the training. So when [00:04:55] it’s racing, for example, you’re looking at your bike. What can I tinker with this? What can I change? Can I change my tires or pressures [00:05:00] or this or that or that side? And you’re always looking for that edge. And then, um, [00:05:05] and similarly music came after that. Um, and with [00:05:10] that, there’s, there’s 1,000,001 people doing it and you don’t have to do it better than everyone [00:05:15] else, but you’ve just got to do something a little bit different. And it could be that you do it slightly better or [00:05:20] you don’t have to, you know, sort of reinvent the wheel, you know, as Elvis or someone [00:05:25] like that. And so it’s just that sort of mindset [00:05:30] I put to the dentistry whenever I’m doing it, it’s like, okay, well, what, [00:05:35] how can I do this a little bit different? Everyone’s doing it this way. I’m told to do it that way. What can [00:05:40] I change? And my brain’s constantly going with lots of, for example, I, [00:05:45] I hate placing retraction cord And [00:05:50] I haven’t found a better way of doing it. Uh, and for anyone [00:05:55] says sort of retraction pace. No, it can be an adjunct, but you’re not replacing sort [00:06:00] of double cord and things like that, but just packing it and placing it is awful, I hate it, it’s a bit of my day. [00:06:05] I do not like. I haven’t come up with a better way to do it yet. So every time I sit there and resent it, but it’s constantly in [00:06:10] my head, it’s like, how can I change this? How can I do that? How can I make this a better experience, slicker, [00:06:15] more efficient, whatever. Yeah. And so I do that a lot with everything.

Payman Langroudi: What’s the answer to that? [00:06:20]

Mike Gray: Oh, the retraction cord. I don’t know yet. If you can tell me what’s an instrument?

Payman Langroudi: There’s an instrument. I stopped practising [00:06:25] 12 years ago, so maybe things have moved on. But there was an instrument that was like a half moon.

Mike Gray: Yeah. [00:06:30]

Payman Langroudi: Do you know the one I’m talking about? There’s lots of.

Mike Gray: Variations. Yeah. You get little cord packers with little teeth and [00:06:35] things like that. And it’s like, I don’t think I’m too cackhanded when I, you know, compare [00:06:40] my work to others. But when it comes to retraction cord fingers and thumbs and, and I think that’s [00:06:45] just the way it rolls. And, and so.

Payman Langroudi: I’m quite interested, I’m quite interested in, you know, [00:06:50] the things, little tips and tricks that every dentist, every dentist [00:06:55] has. Now, you as a sort of innovator, as a teacher, you’ve got more tips [00:07:00] and tricks than, than the next man generally. But you know, if [00:07:05] someone does come up with an answer.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Where do they go now? We’ve never [00:07:10] been at a better time.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Now than than than before. I mean, I remember [00:07:15] 25 years ago, you know, it’s about who you bumped into by mistake was the [00:07:20] key thing.

Mike Gray: It’s there’s so much opportunity and in a way that can be difficult because [00:07:25] there’s just so much it’s, you know, similar to that whole music side of things before you [00:07:30] had to go out gig and this. Whereas now everything’s just online and, and sort of doing it that way. And yeah, [00:07:35] it’s things are so accessible because so I love that I love, um, that sort of [00:07:40] innovation side. And I suppose a snippet into my psyche is, is I’ve taught [00:07:45] myself CAD. Um, and that world of CAD combined with 3D printing, which [00:07:50] you do as well. Whatever you dream up, you can draw up and print within the same day. It’s incredible. [00:07:55] So, um, what’s.

Payman Langroudi: Your approach when you are about to dive into something? [00:08:00] Is your approach? Who should I call first? Or is your [00:08:05] approach what book I should read? What, what resource? What do you do? Do you Google it? What do you do? [00:08:10]

Mike Gray: My approach should be who do I, you know, who do I call in that I’m not very good. [00:08:15] I’m very much sort of run solo. And I’m not saying that’s the best way. That’s my personality type. [00:08:20]

Payman Langroudi: The best way is to call some people I know, but I’m the same as you. My my first instinct [00:08:25] isn’t.

Mike Gray: I’m getting better at that. I am getting better at that. Um, so it’s, [00:08:30] it’s usually it would be if I have an idea, um, I’ll just get obsessive [00:08:35] and I’ll sit there and I’ll literally.

Payman Langroudi: What do you do? So you said, you said on another part, I [00:08:40] heard you say, uh, photography. Most people would go on a course. Yeah. I had [00:08:45] to learn it all inside out. So what do you do?

Mike Gray: Yeah, I’m changing that a little bit because [00:08:50] courses are great and I think I’m it’s weird. I’m almost starting my [00:08:55] career later because I didn’t put any effort into dentistry. I hated [00:09:00] it, like I said. So I graduated in 2009, did about four years of hospital jobs, [00:09:05] um, got my place in med school for max FACs. Um, uh, [00:09:10] and that was, you know, which we touched on earlier where [00:09:15] my, you know, my best friend took his life and he was one of those where I was like, oh, I’m [00:09:20] going to step back here. And I went back to racing bikes for a couple of years. Not necessarily [00:09:25] the right answer. Again, that whole obsessive side of things and burying yourself, you think [00:09:30] you’re being good, but actually you’re not giving yourself time to process anything.

Payman Langroudi: What was [00:09:35] the emotion that that he took his own life in dentistry. And so you were angry at dentistry [00:09:40] or something?

Mike Gray: Um, no, I think a lot of it was.

Payman Langroudi: Shook you out of what.

Mike Gray: You think. It’s [00:09:45] the guilt. I hadn’t seen him as much as I should have or. And it’s not, you know, I know the reality [00:09:50] is, is I was there for him as a mate and I was a buddy. And, you know, it was a good friend and that side of it. But Max [00:09:55] factor is all consuming. You know, he’s working 110 hour weeks. It was, you know, all [00:10:00] in and not being able to have that quality time. I was just kind of like, [00:10:05] ah, this, this is this sucks. This is rubbish. This is this is not life. And so I’m [00:10:10] just gonna, I’m gonna step back. I’m not doing this. And then and a lot of it was I was trying to cope but [00:10:15] wasn’t coping. I think it’s the honest answer. Um, and you know, nothing’s better than [00:10:20] world level sport. Just burying your emotions. Just train every day, [00:10:25] all day. Go and race here, there, everywhere. And you don’t actually have to sit with anything. [00:10:30]

Payman Langroudi: So you stop completely, completely.

Mike Gray: No, I was never fast enough to earn enough money. So [00:10:35] that was good for my dentistry because it kept my hand in so that I’ve got experience. [00:10:40] So even though I didn’t really learn anything. I was gaining experience over those years, so [00:10:45] I used to work part time, sort of living on a shoestring and like so with the racing, I’ll get bike sponsors, [00:10:50] you know, flights and hotels and stuff paid for that sort of thing, but nothing serious to, [00:10:55] to, to live properly.

Payman Langroudi: So tell me about that life. It’s a load [00:11:00] of training, I guess.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And then, and then. But you’re travelling all over the world.

Mike Gray: Yeah. [00:11:05] Yeah. So those two years that I raced the World Series went everywhere from Chile to Spain [00:11:10] to Colorado to, you know, Italy just, just all over. And it’s, [00:11:15] it’s, it’s awesome in that a lot of the people you race with, certainly [00:11:20] the racing I was doing was against the clock. So when you’re against each other, but when you’re racing against [00:11:25] the clock, you don’t have any of that animosity, that sort of right. So your body’s so you’re in these [00:11:30] incredible places.

Payman Langroudi: With incredible.

Mike Gray: People. Yeah. And, and often it’s not touristy. [00:11:35] So you’re off the beaten track. And so you get to experience parts of the world that you just, you would just [00:11:40] never see, which I love to go back and do that. But at the time I was doing that, I [00:11:45] wasn’t present. There was nothing there. You were completely focussed on the event. And I get emotional thinking back [00:11:50] of all the crazy places and beautiful things I’ve seen, and I wasn’t actually soaking it in. Um. [00:11:55]

Payman Langroudi: But, and I guess there’s a, there’s a sort of reflection [00:12:00] of that on every aspect of your life, right? Yeah. It’s not only when you’re in Chile not paying [00:12:05] attention to Chile. Yeah, yeah. It’s when you’re at home not paying attention to your best friend or not your mum [00:12:10] or whatever it is.

Mike Gray: Yeah, yeah. And I’m a lot better now. Um, it’s, you know, [00:12:15] anyone that hasn’t seen a good therapist, like whether you feel you need it or not, definitely recommend. [00:12:20] Uh, it turns out I needed it. It’s funny actually, because I [00:12:25] would say I’m a high achiever. I’m used to, you know, just picking stuff up, sorting things out, flying through, [00:12:30] done early, whatever. And, uh, I was with my therapist for about two and a half years and, and he was like, [00:12:35] I think you’re ready to sort of fly the nest. And I’m like, yeah, yeah. You know, So there I was like, oh, how long do most [00:12:40] how long do you spend with most people? He’s like, oh, about six months. I was like, oh, so not high [00:12:45] achieving. They’re not high achieving there. But one of the best things I ever did just to bring [00:12:50] you in touch with yourself.

Payman Langroudi: And while we’re on that subject.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What [00:12:55] was the thing that made you switch from I don’t need a therapist to, okay, let’s try this. [00:13:00]

Mike Gray: It was never I didn’t need it was, uh, a friend of mine [00:13:05] had gone. And so then, you know, it made me think, well, I couldn’t [00:13:10] give myself a good reason not to. And that was why I went, um, I genuinely I didn’t [00:13:15] think I really needed it, you know, at that side of it. But when I presented myself with argument of, [00:13:20] you know, give me a reason why you shouldn’t go, you can’t give [00:13:25] yourself a good reason.

Payman Langroudi: And so it tends to be that I don’t need to. Yeah. Like, for [00:13:30] instance, by the way, I’ve given the advice a hundred times. Go get a therapist. Yeah. But but [00:13:35] personally, I feel like I don’t need to. Yeah, it’s an interesting switch between. I don’t [00:13:40] need to to. Let me try this. Yeah. And what? Really? Now it’s playing on my mind so [00:13:45] much. Yeah. I’ve got a couple of members of staff who their thing is like, why would if you could afford it, why [00:13:50] wouldn’t you? Yeah. Like it’s a want, not a need kind of thing, you know? And that’s really getting [00:13:55] to me now. Yeah. Because I said.

Mike Gray: Well, you know, Payman you give yourself a good reason why you shouldn’t.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Well, I’ve [00:14:00] got so many good reasons I shouldn’t have you just.

Mike Gray: Like I’m not smart enough.

Payman Langroudi: I’m going back [00:14:05] to the back to the writing.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Who were the other people? Were [00:14:10] they like, uh, people from all over the world? Yeah. Yeah. Competitors.

Mike Gray: World champions, like, you know, everyone. So [00:14:15] I used to, uh, over the various different disciplines. I’d sort of sniff [00:14:20] around between 50th to 70th in the world, something like that. Um, which [00:14:25] was, like I said, it’s a hell of a cool level to reach, but unless you’re [00:14:30] sort of top 30, top 20, you’re not making any money. So you’re just doing it for.

Payman Langroudi: You might have been [00:14:35] number one in the UK. Yeah.

Mike Gray: Well. Number champion. Well yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:14:40] But number 40 in the world and 40 in the world doesn’t cut it as a career.

Mike Gray: No no no not in not [00:14:45] in the mountain biking. I think road cycling would be a bit different. So, uh, it’s [00:14:50] uh. Yeah, I went down the wrong discipline.

Payman Langroudi: And typically what would happen, you’d arrive in Chile?

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What [00:14:55] is the next day, the competition or would you have to acclimatise or so.

Mike Gray: So for example, Chile, [00:15:00] I think there was something like, yeah, 14 hour flight. You pack everything up in your bag. And again, [00:15:05] if you’re you’re further up the roster, you’ve got big team around you. So they’re sorting all the [00:15:10] bikes and mechanics.

Payman Langroudi: Whereas you are you going by yourself?

Mike Gray: Oh yeah. Kicking around by me. It’s like I’m a [00:15:15] mechanic and that sort of thing. Got to get myself there, organise everything, feed myself. No masseurs, none of that. [00:15:20] So um, so yeah, I just packed my bike up in a bike bag. Carry what? Spares [00:15:25] I could, um, and just set out on the aeroplane and I think it’s like it [00:15:30] was a long way to Chile. It was two flights and the first one was like 14 hours. And [00:15:35] then when I got there, I just hired a car, put the seats down, throw everything in [00:15:40] the back. I got stopped by the police within like five minutes for doing something wrong or going the wrong [00:15:45] way. And then yeah, make way. I had like a two, [00:15:50] four hour drive. I can’t even remember. Um, South of Santiago, up to [00:15:55] the mountains. And you rock up, find your hotel, acclimatise yourself a bit, [00:16:00] and then you’re into sort of practice then, um, so you would [00:16:05] get a couple of days to you get to, for example, the world enduro, I think Chile, they might have [00:16:10] been like five race tracks. So but you have to pedal [00:16:15] up on your own steam. So you’re pedalling up five mountains. So it’s, it’s, and that’s just the [00:16:20] training. So you’d have enough time to practice each track once, but [00:16:25] they’re so long, you don’t really know where you’re going. So you just hitting stuff. Uh, the expression [00:16:30] is blind. You don’t really know what’s around the corner, which is hard when you’re trying to race fast. It’s [00:16:35] crazy.

Payman Langroudi: Because you just imagine mountain.

Payman Langroudi: Biking is an adrenaline sport. Yeah, but it’s not adrenaline [00:16:40] for the first. Climbing up for a few days. Well, yeah.

Mike Gray: No, see, obviously when [00:16:45] you come down. So you pedal up and you wouldn’t get time pedalling up. You just had a time frame, so you had to get to the top with [00:16:50] it. So you couldn’t take it easy. So you had to pedal like you had to be fit to pedal up. And then, uh, you would [00:16:55] race down and that’s where you’re timed. And so you’re going as fast as you could. And the downs would be anywhere from about 5 minutes to [00:17:00] 25 minutes. And at the end of it, they add up all the times and he’s done everything quickest sort of wins there. So you’d have [00:17:05] a couple of days practice, but you’d be burning 8000 calories a day. So it was it [00:17:10] was tough just on the training.

Payman Langroudi: Side itself as an adrenaline junkie.

Mike Gray: Yeah, definitely. [00:17:15] Um, and I still sort of, and I listen to that voice [00:17:20] in my head a lot more now. That’s maturity. It’s like 1340 this year. And [00:17:25] so that voice that says that’s not a good idea. I pay attention to it, whereas [00:17:30] I didn’t before and obviously got myself in trouble with lots of injuries and doing stupid things, but [00:17:35] I do. I do still enjoy that side. For example, um, [00:17:40] week after next, I’m taking my motorbike to Germany to do the coldest motorbike rally [00:17:45] in the world. And why do I want to go and ride my motorbike and sleep in a tent in -12? [00:17:50] I don’t know, but well, I’ll tell you why. You know, I love motorbikes. [00:17:55] I love the experience. The group of friends I’m going with are great. They’re a load of old race buddies and [00:18:00] they’re the type that would make cyclists. Yeah, you know, some of them are. And [00:18:05] then and then, uh, uh, they’re the type of friends [00:18:10] that make a trip to the supermarket fun. Um, so normally every year we do [00:18:15] something called the Dragon rally, which is a motorbike rally up to North Wales. [00:18:20] And it’s supposed to be grim.

Mike Gray: So it’s usually first weekend of February and you go and camp [00:18:25] in a field in uh, in Snowdonia. And so this year we’ve moved it on to [00:18:30] this elephant rally, which is which is in Germany. But you’ve got to be sensible though, because again, [00:18:35] being younger and more stupid, first time I did the Dragon rally, you can only take whatever [00:18:40] you can fit on your bike. So it’s not much. And so had a little one man tent and I’m about sort of six [00:18:45] three. And this, this tent was tiny as like a sort of a saggy coffin. And, [00:18:50] uh, I remember getting a bit more drunk than I should have and ripped my tent getting [00:18:55] in, got one leg in my sleeping bag and passed out. And then I woke up [00:19:00] covered in snow. It was snowing, it was buried. I was borderline hypothermia. [00:19:05] And, uh, I managed to sort of climb in my sleeping bag and survived the night. But [00:19:10] after that I was like, yeah, it’s actually, you need to be a little bit sensible on this sort [00:19:15] of thing there. So, uh, I won’t be getting so inebriated in, in the Bavarian forest. [00:19:20]

Payman Langroudi: So was the thing that made you stop that you felt like you couldn’t pay for your life this way?

Mike Gray: Uh, [00:19:25] no. That was the music. Music. I got pissed off with that side. Um, so [00:19:30] I used to race all through from the age of ten competing, [00:19:35] you know, bikes, motorbikes, mainly mountain biking and, and all the way through uni up until final [00:19:40] year. Um, and then I knuckled down in final year, which, which because I never. [00:19:45]

Payman Langroudi: That’s when the oral surgery kicked in.

Mike Gray: Well I, I never, I never knew how to [00:19:50] study. Um, in school, my parents never made me do my homework. Um, [00:19:55] and luckily I was smart so I could get away with it. I had about like 80% attendance for my A-levels, [00:20:00] which works out missing a day a week. And it was and uh, achievement. [00:20:05] Well, stupid. No, I wouldn’t encourage it, but, you know, I’d be. I want [00:20:10] to go race my bike or I’m tired from racing or I wasn’t skiving off just kicking, you know, kicking around the [00:20:15] bus stop. But, um, and then when I got to uni, it’s the first time I was like, oh shit, I [00:20:20] actually have to work to pass these exams.

Payman Langroudi: You southern Bristol.

Mike Gray: Yeah. So that was in Bristol. But [00:20:25] then, you know, the fatal error as far as my [00:20:30] motivation, there was, you know, being told that, oh, dentistry is just a pass or [00:20:35] a fail. So I was like, okay, what’s the minimum amount of work I need to do to get by that?

Payman Langroudi: I made [00:20:40] that mistake.

Mike Gray: Oh, dude. So it was a bit stressful though. So I sailed too close to the wind [00:20:45] for a couple of years. I was, I was just scraping.

Payman Langroudi: Through out like that. But, but it’s, it’s a mistake [00:20:50] inasmuch as you put it in your own head that that’s all the only two outcomes are pass and fail. [00:20:55] Yeah. Which by the way, I failed. Yeah, but but but the outcomes are so different. I see some students [00:21:00] now. I don’t know if you come across students now. Yeah. My goodness man. You know like going on [00:21:05] hands on courses. Yeah. There were a few students. There’s 2 or 3 students I can think of who [00:21:10] are more connected in the dental world than me. Yeah. Been in it for 25 years. Some [00:21:15] dude sitting in the third year of dental school connected. Yeah. You know, it’s. [00:21:20] I guess it’s the internet again, right? It’s allowing that sort of thing to happen. [00:21:25]

Mike Gray: Yeah. It makes us. That’s just.

Payman Langroudi: Been. But you know that kid when he comes out, you know he’s going to be [00:21:30] much more ready to go than I was. Yeah.

Mike Gray: I had no idea I was I was massively naive [00:21:35] to the world and, uh. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So how much oral surgery did you do [00:21:40] before you started thinking maxfax.

Mike Gray: Uh, so I did a GP t, which [00:21:45] was two years. So did my first year dentistry and I was in a sleepy town in Swanage [00:21:50] on the south coast. So did a lot of dentures. And I’m like, oof, dentistry is not for me. And then [00:21:55] I was attached then to Poole Hospital, which was known as the Republic of Poole. Um, [00:22:00] most incredible job I ever had. Um, and, uh, [00:22:05] that’s where I did the oral surgery side. And then I did a four year maxfax [00:22:10] after that. And then I stayed in the hospitals then for sort of 3 to 4 years. And I [00:22:15] went to, um, I did a restorative job in Cardiff, but then I used to locum, um, [00:22:20] uh, night smacks facts, which again is stupid. Working 24 hours.

Payman Langroudi: I [00:22:25] did that.

Mike Gray: Job. Yeah, yeah. In the heat. In the heat.

Payman Langroudi: I did cry Cardiff Infirmary [00:22:30] was the. Yeah. The nightmare of. But, you know, some people thrive like it sounds like you thrived. [00:22:35] Yeah, yeah. Adrenaline junkie guy. Yeah, I hated it. Hated it, hated you. I [00:22:40] loved I still think it was good for me. Yeah, yeah. It was definitely good for me because nothing in life [00:22:45] has come close to.

Mike Gray: Oh, no. I think it should.

Payman Langroudi: Be compulsory that the.

Mike Gray: Student should do a year’s max [00:22:50] fax.

Payman Langroudi: Maybe. Maybe.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Or nothing in life has come anywhere near as challenging as [00:22:55] being this just qualified dentist looking after people who had like pint glasses smashed [00:23:00] in their face, or some poor person who’s got terminal cancer and they’re doing [00:23:05] a gigantic operation on them. And you’re the doctor, the junior.

Mike Gray: It’s crazy. My [00:23:10] first patient on my first day was, well, they did three days later. Yeah. [00:23:15] And it was like Ludwig’s angina in a patient with severe dementia. [00:23:20] And what is it? What am I supposed to do? It was a yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I remember [00:23:25] the nurse on the ward telling me, yeah, now you’ve got to, you know, pull the catheter out. I was like, [00:23:30] what? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Mike Gray: I didn’t sign up for this. The trick with that is don’t make eye [00:23:35] contact. It’s just you just go about it like business. Um, so [00:23:40] yeah, so I did that.

Payman Langroudi: But how did you, how good did you get at what? Eventually by the end of this, could [00:23:45] you, I don’t know, obviously take out wisdom teeth. Could you do things like, [00:23:50] uh, you know, Lefort operations.

Mike Gray: Uh, no, I couldn’t do, I did, I did a lot of mandibles, [00:23:55] did a lot of tracheostomies, um, zygomas that side. Um, [00:24:00] so, and most of that stemmed from my first couple of years down in pool, [00:24:05] because if anybody wants good math facts experience, go to a small, busy hospital [00:24:10] and you’ll get all the hands on it, preferably somewhere where there’s no plastics. So they don’t take any of that. [00:24:15] And so I put the time in though, to impress. Like, you know, the more you put in, the more [00:24:20] you get out and that sort of role. So like I said, I was there 12 hours a day minimum. Um, but because I [00:24:25] was put in that time in the consultants were, you know, well, crack on because I remember there was [00:24:30] a consultant, Sajjad Walji and, uh, we do a surgical tracheostomy [00:24:35] and, uh, he said, you watch one, you do one. And I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Next [00:24:40] one came along. I was like, okay. And I was like, are you kidding? So I [00:24:45] had to do the surgical tracheostomy. I’m two years out of dental school. Um, and it’s [00:24:50] terrifying. You cut a little window in the trachea and they’re like, okay, you’ve got two minutes to get that tube in. Otherwise they’re dead. And [00:24:55] you’re just like, but this is incredible passage.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Crazy.

Mike Gray: So [00:25:00] because I got a lot of hands on, the more you do, the more people will depend on [00:25:05] you and appreciate you sort of doing those bits. And so yeah, a lot of that surgical, [00:25:10] I did a lot of skins down in Poole as well, which was great for.

Payman Langroudi: Basal cell carcinoma.

Mike Gray: Yeah. Bccssx, [00:25:15] that sort of thing. And rotational flaps. Pedicle flaps.

Payman Langroudi: So you’re now [00:25:20] very comfortable with surgical in every sense. Did you put implants in now?

Mike Gray: Uh, I [00:25:25] do implants now. Yeah, yeah, I was late to that one though. Um, I, like I said, I wasn’t, I [00:25:30] wasn’t trying to move my career along then I was trying to do everything but be a dentist because like I said, got to [00:25:35] had my place in med school, three year Manchester. Um, and [00:25:40] yeah, my buddy passed away. I’m like, oh, screw this, like this, you know? And the other [00:25:45] thing is I could see the NHS going down the pan, which is sad. It’s really makes me really sad. Such a beautiful [00:25:50] system. Yeah. Care free at the point of delivery. But if it’s not working, [00:25:55] what does it matter if it doesn’t what it costs, you know? Um, and [00:26:00] so took that time out. I was like, I’m gonna race bikes again. So race bikes. [00:26:05] Um, yeah, like I made it as a semi career, [00:26:10] but I was, you’re never going to set yourself up on that. So then interestingly, in the max [00:26:15] facts, it probably was a coping mechanism. I started picking up guitar and just writing songs. [00:26:20]

Payman Langroudi: Before you move on to the music, what was the hairiest thing that happened [00:26:25] in that Max factor or some of the hairy things that happened to you? [00:26:30]

Mike Gray: We used to in Birmingham, it’s level two trauma centre. So at [00:26:35] time, you know, when I was there, you were getting everything from like Afghanistan and that. So people were stepping on, [00:26:40] you know, explosives in that side. And because often somebody steps on an [00:26:45] IED, obviously arms and legs get blown off, but everything comes and [00:26:50] hits the chin and jaw and all that side. And it’s the one I [00:26:55] used to find it difficult. Whenever you actually connected with reality, it was very easy in [00:27:00] Max factor to separate yourself of that a patient, um, or you know, it’s just parts [00:27:05] you’re, you see them unconscious. You don’t even build a relationship in the hospital. You just come in and [00:27:10] we’re going to operate. You don’t even talk to them, somebody else is whatever. And you just in theatre put them together, usually [00:27:15] unconscious when you’re finished. But the odd time when you do see him on the ward [00:27:20] afterwards and you realise, because the one that hit home for me was a young girl, 17 or [00:27:25] 18 in a in a RTA, and it didn’t even think, you know, you laughing, [00:27:30] joking around in theatres, sorting stuff, and then came by to you afterwards on the ward rounds and then a [00:27:35] Mother’s Day sort of like, oh, you don’t deserve this. And that’s give me goosebumps now thinking of it. And like, actually [00:27:40] there’s some really nasty stuff that you sort of see and humanity is can [00:27:45] be disgusting, which you see in max facts as well, because anyone fighting and doing horrible things [00:27:50] to one another usually involves injuries of the face and that side. So it’s a pretty [00:27:55] dark topic in that side, but incredible then as well what you can do and sort [00:28:00] that out. Um, but oh yeah. Hairy things. Yeah. I mean [00:28:05] saw everything from that. I did some really stupid things as well. I think you chat about mistakes afterwards.

Payman Langroudi: So Should [00:28:10] we go there now?

Mike Gray: I mean, it’s so dentally related. You [00:28:15] get called from A&E, docs come down. Somebody lost their [00:28:20] teeth. Um, and typically dentists, we look down on those as doctors [00:28:25] whenever it comes to the mouth. Yeah. I think that’s our one saving. Yeah. We got this. Yeah. You [00:28:30] know nothing you know. Yeah. And, uh, so I had a phone and it’s like, oh, you know, I’ve had a go at putting the [00:28:35] teeth back in, but can you just come and come and check? And I’m like, oh, what’s he gone and done, you know? So [00:28:40] I got down there and this gentleman sat there and, uh, he must have had a bit of perio because [00:28:45] you’d teeth like a burnt down fence, bless him. And, and I looked at it and I’m like, oh, what [00:28:50] have you done here? So I got his two front teeth and silly buggers gone and put them in the wrong way round. [00:28:55] So I swapped him round, put him back in the socket, stepped back and said to his wife, [00:29:00] I was like, you know, how’s that looking? We’re both sort of cocking her head and she’s like. And [00:29:05] then I’m like, oh no. So I leant back over him so that he [00:29:10] couldn’t see, and quickly swapped the teeth back around to how the doctor [00:29:15] had done it. And then I stepped back and I was like, how about that? And she’s like, yeah, yeah, that’s him. And I [00:29:20] learned a valuable lesson that day. You know, as far as ego and that side, the only doctor was [00:29:25] spot on and everything, right? And me as a professional came down, took the teeth back out, put them in the [00:29:30] wrong way round and yeah, got it all wrong. I like that. So, uh, learned a valuable [00:29:35] lesson that day.

Mike Gray: Another one was a poor kid. Um, he was a cleft patient, [00:29:40] um, of the, of the hospital and, uh, he’d come into A&E, fallen off his bike [00:29:45] or something, landed on his chin and he was sitting there and I’m like, this guy’s just been being a wimp. Like, it’s like he’s [00:29:50] blessing him. He’s had all his surgery with cleft and a lot of, you know, people who have been through in the mill [00:29:55] hospital environments are difficult. And so I’m like, uh, you know, and he [00:30:00] sat there and he’s making a fuss and he’s, uh, not really closing his jaw or anything like that. Took [00:30:05] an opt. Everything’s fine. No fractures, nothing. And [00:30:10] so I’m trying to send this kid home. I’m like, look, you need to toughen up. You just bruised your TMJ, that [00:30:15] side of it. And, uh, luckily there was a switched on A&E consultant who said, kids [00:30:20] in too much pain. It’s not just a bruise. And I’m like, yeah, it is. What do you know? You know, I’m the I’m the facial expert [00:30:25] here. And, uh, but so he overruled me and admitted him. And luckily my [00:30:30] reg came round. Um, this kid had managed to fracture his condyles [00:30:35] up through his mastoid bone into his brain. His condyles were sitting in [00:30:40] his brain. Wow. And that’s why he couldn’t close his jaw because they were stuck in there, but in a freakish [00:30:45] way. He’d done it without fracturing the condyles because you’d much more likely to fracture the condyles. [00:30:50] And I just felt awful. I’m busy there. I’m like, telling this kid to sort [00:30:55] of man up. Um, dude, you said a little. Meanwhile, his jaws sat in his brain [00:31:00] and, uh, so again, learnt a hell of a lesson then, you know, just.

Payman Langroudi: What was the incident [00:31:05] that caused that?

Mike Gray: Landed on his chin and fell off like fell over, fell off his bike, landed on his chin and [00:31:10] must have just got everything just right and happened.

Payman Langroudi: To be a cleft patient. Yeah.

Mike Gray: And [00:31:15] that’s and so it’s me just jumping to conclusions thinking I know more than I do.

Payman Langroudi: And so what [00:31:20] happened there?

Mike Gray: They planned a joint case with Maxfax neuro because they’re like, oh, we got to do [00:31:25] it. And the the anaesthetist anaesthetised him, intubated him, popped it out. And they’re like, oh, [00:31:30] job done. So left it there. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, um, oh [00:31:35] my.

Payman Langroudi: Goodness. That’s the juiciest one we’ve had on the podcast ever.

Mike Gray: I know, but.

Payman Langroudi: They’re going. [00:31:40]

Mike Gray: About like lethal bliss. And I, like I said, I feel awful even thinking about it now. Oh, another [00:31:45] one. Let’s just do Maxfax. And you have all these stories. Cardiff. Cardiff. [00:31:50] I can give you one. Yeah. Go on. Um, again, so I worked restorative [00:31:55] during the day, which to be honest, you need to work two jobs if you’re doing restorative. Chill [00:32:00] chill af you stroll up at nine, you see about one patient. [00:32:05] Then you maybe have one patient in the afternoon and then you’re done early. And [00:32:10] so I used yeah, locum. Then Max faxed through the night and maybe [00:32:15] not a good idea being tired. Um, but I had a gentleman come in and he had like a sebaceous cyst [00:32:20] right in the middle of his forehead that got infected. Big throbbing, full of pus, red, angry [00:32:25] and being tired. I went to give him like a supraorbital block, but [00:32:30] must have gone way too low and actually went into his eye socket a bit, not hitting eyeballs or anything, [00:32:35] but I caused something to bleed so I just swelled up shut. So I’m like, oh great.

Mike Gray: So I’m having to do IOPs [00:32:40] and monitor that. So I’m already like, Mike, what have you done? And then, uh, [00:32:45] so eventually then after panicking about swelling, getting his eye swelling [00:32:50] up shut, then I’m on to incise and drain, uh, this sort of infected cyst [00:32:55] on his forehead. And I didn’t make a big enough incision. So I’m panicking about [00:33:00] this. I didn’t make a business. So I make an incision and I’m trying to get the pus out, and it was just too much pressure. [00:33:05] And then suddenly you know where this is going. Oh, in my face, pus exploded [00:33:10] in my face. And you’re trying to be professional. And this guy sat there. I’ve already balled up and he’s thinking, [00:33:15] who the hell is this cowboy that I’ve got this. You know, I don’t look old now. I looked even younger then, and, [00:33:20] uh. And I’m there just trying not to retch. Trying not to scream. Try not to run out [00:33:25] this professional where I sort of go around his back and then just, like, are trying to get. [00:33:30]

Payman Langroudi: Clean myself up.

Mike Gray: Oh, goodness. So yeah, I’d say that’s a that’s a terrible one [00:33:35] as well. So I’ll stop with that hat trick before.

Payman Langroudi: No they’re good. I enjoyed [00:33:40] those.

Mike Gray: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So then music.

Mike Gray: Music. Yeah. So [00:33:45] that yeah. I think a coping thing with the Max factor was I just pick up a guitar and [00:33:50] play. And I used to play a lot of slide blues and that side of things.

Payman Langroudi: You could already play guitar.

Mike Gray: Yeah, I started [00:33:55] learning when I was about 13. I’m nothing incredible, but I get by And [00:34:00] I just started playing and writing songs, you know, later in life, really [00:34:05] the most musicians because I was 25, 26 at that point. [00:34:10] Um, and that’s where it started. And [00:34:15] then I went and had these couple of years of letting my hair down racing. And over [00:34:20] those couple of years, the music, it got to a point where I’m like, maybe I’ve got something. [00:34:25] And again, it was like, well, unless you [00:34:30] try, you’ll never know unless you know to put your money where your mouth is sort [00:34:35] of thing. So I dug into my pocket, asked around my old. And a good [00:34:40] friend of mine was in a band before. So I’m like producer, you know, give me a good [00:34:45] producer, whatever. So he put me on to this guy, Gethyn Pearson. And um, yeah, [00:34:50] sent him a demo and a lot of, you know, a lot of producers, if they don’t like it, they won’t take it on, you know, and so [00:34:55] he liked what he heard and because he where he was going. And so yeah, I went to a cool [00:35:00] studio, um, just for two days.

Mike Gray: Two songs. Oh, music industry’s wild [00:35:05] for hours as well. You can see there’s so many drugs involved and like, so you’d start, you’d [00:35:10] start in the morning and you’d stop when it’s done. Um, so often you’d go to like 2 a.m. that sort [00:35:15] of thing, which I don’t like. I don’t think it’s the best way to be productive, but that’s kind of the culture. So [00:35:20] we went in the studio, I did two days, two songs, Stupid Hours, and [00:35:25] came out with these two songs. And uh, it blew my mind where you could take it because I was kind of like [00:35:30] a one man band setup when it was not everyone was doing it. I had my nans suitcase [00:35:35] that I’d turned into a drum, but I put little drum triggers in there so you could make it sound like whatever you wanted. And [00:35:40] I had a tambourine, but drum triggers and stuff on that, it’s a massive sound. Guitar went to three different amps, [00:35:45] three different sounds, just huge sounds. And, uh, so [00:35:50] yeah, I did, uh, did, um.

Payman Langroudi: But at the end of that sort of session [00:35:55] in a, in a The studio is the talent of the producer is a big deal, right?

Mike Gray: Oh, [00:36:00] massive. That makes it. You got to be able to write the song. You got to be able to do bits. But the producer has [00:36:05] a big part of it as well. I mean, they take a big cut like that, you get screwed [00:36:10] left, right and centre as an artist in the music world. And so for example, [00:36:15] um, a producer would take uh, four points, [00:36:20] so they call it four points, 4%. So that’s what that is. Yeah. So 4%. Um, [00:36:25] and you think, oh, 4%.

Payman Langroudi: That’s nothing of what of turnover.

Mike Gray: Well, so royalty [00:36:30] wise, then on average, let’s say even if you’re a successful artist, [00:36:35] um, but certainly new artists, you’ll get about sort of roughly 12% [00:36:40] royalties. Yeah, yeah. So the rest goes to labels, everything else [00:36:45] and that side and that that four points comes [00:36:50] out of your cut. So it’s more like 40% of what you.

Payman Langroudi: Goodness.

Mike Gray: You know, [00:36:55] what you’re taking in is so that four out of that 12 leaves you with, uh, you [00:37:00] know, eight there. So it’s yeah, sorry, I got an A in maths and maths [00:37:05] goes in dentistry. Simple addition subtraction.

Payman Langroudi: But of your brains.

Mike Gray: Yeah. No [00:37:10] binomial expansion no more, you know. Um so.

Payman Langroudi: So so then now you had a couple [00:37:15] of songs. How does that progress on to.

Mike Gray: So from that one, [00:37:20] these songs, um, it just music [00:37:25] industry, it’s, it’s all who, you know, um, and it’s, it’s such an incestuous [00:37:30] world as well. And just off the back of that, these songs started circulating amongst different people [00:37:35] and that, and before you know it, I got a manager. Um, and that was a really cool [00:37:40] experience because he, um, uh, he owned like a [00:37:45] promotions company. So just run loads of music nights and loads of music venues [00:37:50] across the UK. So I went straight from a nobody. So he picked me up as [00:37:55] a manager back in, recorded some more bits, and then he just put me on stage with bands like Fun [00:38:00] Criminals and Alabama three and touring with them just off the back of Nothing [00:38:05] to Play into thousands of people. Um, which was incredible. Baptism of fire, but [00:38:10] a hell of an experience. Um, and so did.

Payman Langroudi: It, like standing on [00:38:15] a stage with thousands of people. The bigger the stage, as you would imagine. Yeah. [00:38:20] It’s.

Mike Gray: It’s the bigger the stage, the easier it is.

Payman Langroudi: Because [00:38:25] you can’t make out faces.

Mike Gray: You can’t see anyone, you can’t see anything. You’ve got lights in your face, a huge audience [00:38:30] out there. So it’s they’re the hardest gigs I ever played. Were the empty [00:38:35] pubs when no one’s listening because you can. You can hear every conversation, [00:38:40] see everyone, see that absolutely nobody.

Payman Langroudi: Forming as a comedian or something [00:38:45] like that.

Mike Gray: Is the hardest because it’s very real right in front of you. Whereas [00:38:50] big stage, It’s almost very impersonal.

Payman Langroudi: But you know how in dentistry, like we qualify, [00:38:55] we, you know, start out doing a few procedures, mess it up. Yeah. Not that great [00:39:00] at communication. And then you learn the things, the important sort of cornerstones. What, [00:39:05] what’s the equivalent of that in, in that world? I mean, okay, you’re in a pub playing in front [00:39:10] of people who aren’t listening, but you get better at it. Did you did you feel like you were improving?

Mike Gray: I, [00:39:15] um, I, I’m still very envious of those people who [00:39:20] can go out and they’ve done that sort of pub circuit and they’ve put in way more hours [00:39:25] than me because I skipped, I skipped so much of it.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: Yeah. It’s [00:39:30] like they, they, I skipped so much of it because I, I got lucky with my manager [00:39:35] owning all these cool venues. And so rather than having to hustle with the little gigs, I [00:39:40] went straight into these, these big gigs. And so I didn’t, I didn’t earn it. I didn’t put my hours in [00:39:45] of people throwing shit and asking stupid requests and booing or whatever, Or not listening [00:39:50] or crashing into the sea.

Payman Langroudi: Pinch yourself a little bit in that moment, right?

Mike Gray: Yeah. [00:39:55] But again, now I look back far more appreciative of the time. [00:40:00] Just a million miles an hour, not taking it in as well as I could.

Payman Langroudi: Stopping and smelling the [00:40:05] roses.

Mike Gray: Yeah, absolutely. And just not not taking that time to be because I’d [00:40:10] rolled on from, you know, terrible things to, to racing bikes straight into music. [00:40:15] Suddenly that took off like as a whirlwind. Um.

Payman Langroudi: And how far did you [00:40:20] go with the music?

Mike Gray: So I had one sort of manager and starting getting people [00:40:25] in there and that sort of petered out. And um, so everything [00:40:30] that I had sort of was all taken down because music industry is very much about control [00:40:35] of who sees what. And that’s even within the industry. They love to play.

Payman Langroudi: They sort of FOMO [00:40:40] like, um, love to play.

Mike Gray: Games with one another.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: It’s like, oh, I’ve got this artist and like, they’ll drip [00:40:45] feed what they want to different people knowing how it’s going to spike their interest. Sort of thing. [00:40:50] Um, and so everything was taken down. And so again, starting from nothing. [00:40:55] I’m like, oh, this is rubbish. So um, same thing again a bit more cash. I’m [00:41:00] like, alright, cool. I’m going to record another couple of songs. And then I started releasing on my own and off [00:41:05] the back of releasing, uh, I only just put out two tracks of my [00:41:10] own. Um, because luckily I smart thing is, I own all the rights to it. Not so smart because [00:41:15] it’s just sat on a hard drive now doing nothing. So I own all of nothing at the minute. [00:41:20] Um, but I got, yeah, [00:41:25] I had a couple of people reach out basically to management people. There was one based in London, [00:41:30] so one was um, a guy, uh, I can’t remember his name now. [00:41:35] Um, but Jax Jones, I don’t know if he’s a sort of a sort of a sort [00:41:40] of a dance music type, um, sort of big deal is his manager.

Mike Gray: Um, and so he [00:41:45] sort of reached out And then I had another guy from LA and within a short space of time, like I had people coming [00:41:50] to my house sort of wanting to represent from a management side. Um, and [00:41:55] I ended up going with, uh, sort of London based and, [00:42:00] uh, so that happened that way. And so then I’ve [00:42:05] got a manager and they help build a team. So then you’ve got a promoter and that side and I [00:42:10] had some cool experiences. But again, this is the bit I found difficult with music in [00:42:15] that I love about dentistry now because I hated dentistry. Love it. Now, um, in [00:42:20] that again, music or anything as we’re talking about to do. Well, you got to work hard. Um, there’s [00:42:25] no substitute in music. You’ve got to work hard and have a bit of luck. And it went [00:42:30] the other way for me. So for example, I had a guy called Mike Smith come to my house [00:42:35] in Wales and he is at the time he was head of Universal Publishing. [00:42:40]

Payman Langroudi: So he came to a house in.

Mike Gray: Wales, in Wales.

Payman Langroudi: So he kind of wanted to blow your [00:42:45] socks off. So this was that.

Mike Gray: Whole sort of romanticising my managing you to sort of he, [00:42:50] he was a romantic at heart to tap into that. And at a time I was living in like a 500 year old [00:42:55] stone house in the depths of Wales. You come across a little bridge over a river and just that [00:43:00] whole story. And so, yeah, he came, he came over from London and, and he signed everyone from like, [00:43:05] Coldplay to George Ezra.

Payman Langroudi: He’d be like a major guy industry.

Mike Gray: He was [00:43:10] the head of Universal Publishing. It was as big as you get. Like in the UK. Massive came to my house [00:43:15] and I played a small set for him in my living room. So I had like this huge PA system, which I bought so I could [00:43:20] just gig myself. And I played this set for just him and my manager and he’s like, cool. [00:43:25] Yeah, you got something, you can do it this way, or you can get involved with us and we do it this and [00:43:30] that side. So I’m like, oh, sign me up. Cool. And sadly, his, his wife, [00:43:35] um, about a week later was diagnosed with cancer. Um, it was horrible story. And you know, [00:43:40] that that trumps my music. Um, but that was that door that opened. [00:43:45]

Payman Langroudi: He disappeared.

Mike Gray: He disappeared. And again, music’s very much you’re attached to the individual. [00:43:50] So it’s not like the company would be like, oh, yeah, come on, we take you on now. No. You’re done. Like [00:43:55] you get signed to a label via by an A&R and they get fired or change. [00:44:00] That’s you done. You’re done. So there was a lot of bad.

Payman Langroudi: Luck came out of your [00:44:05] career at that point.

Mike Gray: Uh, no, I mean, that was things kept moving. Covid, Covid absolutely [00:44:10] put the nail in the coffin for me with music. So it was building ahead, building a team around me. [00:44:15] I had Peppa, Peppa Pig, uh, funding me. Peppa [00:44:20] pig was bankrolling me. So, um, e1 um, uh, [00:44:25] they’re big earners. Peppa Pig, obviously they do lots of [00:44:30] films and that, um, and they were expanding into music. Uh, and I think their big band they had [00:44:35] was like Lumineers. And so I was basically signed up to them. Um, which [00:44:40] is cool because you go, you go to the HQ and they’ve got a little cinema downstairs, and there’s [00:44:45] just Peppa Pig all over the wall and that sort of thing. And, uh. So, uh, yeah, [00:44:50] Peppa Pig was bankrolling me, and, uh, I, yeah, [00:44:55] had a good year lined up for 2020. So I was playing, [00:45:00] uh, some big festivals like Boomtown Boardmasters. So I was going to be [00:45:05] same stage of Kings. Leon Boardmasters uh.

Payman Langroudi: Do they pay?

Mike Gray: Ah, [00:45:10] nothing like. So I’ll be first on when everyone’s sleeping. And I think my [00:45:15] pot for a summer of festivals was up to about 7 or 8 grand if I played them. Um, [00:45:20] you know, you’re not going to sniff at it, but it’s not, you’re not going to live on that.

Payman Langroudi: Do you at least [00:45:25] like have an amazing time because you’re backstage or whatever? Oh, I.

Mike Gray: Know loads of.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: Cool, cool stuff with that. [00:45:30] And, and, uh, but 2020, I had that lined up and then Covid came along. Uh, [00:45:35] and then that was music off.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. Just as we talked about the sort of the craziest oral [00:45:40] surgery stories. Yeah. What was the craziest music story you had?

Mike Gray: To be.

Payman Langroudi: Honest.

Mike Gray: It’s [00:45:45] the music is, you know, I’ve got a group of buddies now. I’m into my old [00:45:50] motorbikes. My my old Harleys are choppers and of course, the vaccine. And so I’ve got [00:45:55] a couple old Harleys. I’ve got like 1976, which is I’ve painted like leopard print and built up from [00:46:00] various bits and pieces. And then I’ve got another old Shovelhead 1979 and the [00:46:05] boys are hanging around with for that. No one comes close. I don’t [00:46:10] try and compete along to pieces, but it’s one of those like, you just step back and let him go. [00:46:15] Um, so I would say the music industry is tame compared to those boys.

Payman Langroudi: Really are just. [00:46:20]

Mike Gray: Next level. But it’s, you know, they’re all fantastic, you know, hearts [00:46:25] and that side, but a wild, a wild bunch. But um so music. [00:46:30] Yeah, I didn’t, I was, I wasn’t your typical sort of artist [00:46:35] in that I, I suppose at this point I’m trying. I’m realising that. [00:46:40] Come on, you got to start enjoying this and that. And so again, you know, [00:46:45] I was I was touring with Alabama three and I don’t know um they [00:46:50] famously made a mistake in music is like always take, always play [00:46:55] the long game, take royalties. Um, that side of it. Don’t, don’t go for the cash. Um, [00:47:00] and they um, were approached for the [00:47:05] soundtrack for the Sopranos. Right. And they were offered 80 grand [00:47:10] for the song or royalties and they took the 80 K um, if [00:47:15] they’d taken royalties.

Payman Langroudi: Millions o Sopranos wasn’t famous at that wasn’t famous.

Mike Gray: So in the, [00:47:20] you know, before it’s even a thing. Yeah. Um, and, and so I was, [00:47:25] I was touring with them and I, it felt quite sad because I [00:47:30] started the tour with them and they all came out sort of bright eyed, [00:47:35] bushy tailed. Um, and then, but then you [00:47:40] get the drugs and things like that. And the next day they’re [00:47:45] all like zombies and they’re zombies until 5 p.m. when the next [00:47:50] load of drugs arrives. And that’s getting snorted off the manager’s desk and hell of a show. And they put it on, [00:47:55] which I think in music, a lot of people become dependent on that. It’s like, I can’t perform unless I’m doing [00:48:00] this because otherwise I’m just boring. I haven’t got that side of it. And you know, by the end of the [00:48:05] tour, it’s the same clothes that I started in, and no one’s actually seen any of these [00:48:10] cities because they’ve been sleeping in the tour bus, uh, sleeping off, raving all night. Um, [00:48:15] and yeah, it wasn’t that, so I didn’t fit in in that because, you know, in [00:48:20] my dressing room, it’s like, oh, you know, would you want there just like some tea bags, please? You know, that’d [00:48:25] be me set, you know? And so, uh, yeah, so I was pretty boring in that respect.

Mike Gray: Um, [00:48:30] and so no sort of crazy or too two wild stories. I’ve played some wild gigs, [00:48:35] um, the wildest though being for I won’t name specifics, [00:48:40] but it’s basically the SAS. There was a bunch from about to be shipped out somewhere somewhere [00:48:45] awful. Couldn’t tell me because before I showed up they’re like, oh, can you play this? And I was like, yeah, yeah, sure, sure, [00:48:50] sure. And they’re like, okay, right. No, no photographs. I’m like, all right. Yeah, no, don’t tag anything on social media. [00:48:55] Like nothing. I’m like, all right. And then I got there. I had no idea who the audience was. [00:49:00] And like I said, it was just 80, like bloodthirsty, like trained [00:49:05] killers and ah, get some beer in them. Oh my goodness, it’s [00:49:10] wild. There was fighting going off. There was all sorts like trying to play things being thrown. It [00:49:15] was just absolute carnage because I think you’ve got to have something a little bit sort [00:49:20] of screw loose for SAS. Yeah. And that side.

Payman Langroudi: So and all along that bit [00:49:25] of your journey, you were still being a dentist here and there. Yeah. Paying your bills.

Mike Gray: Part time, you know, [00:49:30] two days a week, something like that. Uh.

Payman Langroudi: So one night. One night you’re playing in front of the SAS. [00:49:35] Next minute you’re doing a scale and polish. Yeah yeah.

Mike Gray: Yeah [00:49:40] yeah. Nhs.

Payman Langroudi: Oh my God.

Mike Gray: Save my time. Which was good. You know it got the numbers in. You [00:49:45] know I wouldn’t take it back. I think it’s a different story now. Like before people had approached me.

Payman Langroudi: I [00:49:50] take issue with that question. Right. Yeah. Because people say yeah take do your three years on the Nash and get your numbers in. [00:49:55] Yeah, yeah, yeah. But in three years doing anything. Yeah. You would have progressed somewhat, [00:50:00] just like three years doing max facts. Yeah. You progressed. Yeah. Three years doing private. [00:50:05] You would progress three years doing anything. You would have progressed. So, so this notion that Nash [00:50:10] is the place to go to progress, I just think every other country in the world, [00:50:15] they don’t do that. Right.

Mike Gray: So and this is I would have disagreed with you ten years [00:50:20] ago, fully agree with you now because.

Payman Langroudi: It’s changed in the last ten years to that. That’s [00:50:25] the that’s what you’re saying. Yeah.

Mike Gray: You don’t get to do anything now. They’re not getting hands on like before I [00:50:30] was doing crowns, bridges, dentures, extractions. Endo, you did the lot. And [00:50:35] so, you know, you got all those numbers. Now it’s they’re not getting [00:50:40] that hands on. So actually.

Payman Langroudi: Why aren’t they. Because the system doesn’t make [00:50:45] sense.

Mike Gray: Just the contract and that now and everything is now. It’s just okay. Yeah. I [00:50:50] get you in give you an exam, emergency treatment, but anything else is going to have to wait or [00:50:55] just refer it on or bounce it on. It’s just so restrictive now. So no, I couldn’t agree with you more now [00:51:00] it’s a shame. And it’s but so yeah, I was part time, [00:51:05] so I never earned any money as well. It’s always that thing. Oh, dentists, you’re rich. And I was, [00:51:10] I was a dentist who was not rich because I didn’t get the money racing bikes. I just earned [00:51:15] enough to pay for my food and my accommodation. Um, music was the same. And, [00:51:20] and, uh, and so yeah, I’d be, yeah, gigging and I used to use work [00:51:25] to recover from the weekends, which I again now. So maybe it’s an age thing. [00:51:30] I’m 40. I need my weekends to recover from work. Yeah. I need to just just chill out and catch up. Otherwise I’m [00:51:35] in trouble. Whereas it was, I would hit Monday absolutely wiped. [00:51:40] So I would sit there and just go through, do what I needed to do and recharge through [00:51:45] my days working and then back out again. Um, and yeah, very different.

Payman Langroudi: How did this turn [00:51:50] into the expert that I see on social media? [00:51:55]

Mike Gray: Oh, luck. No. Um.

Payman Langroudi: I [00:52:00] mean, you know, the, the, the max factor with the surgical skills. Yeah. But the [00:52:05] restorative side.

Mike Gray: Are I was awful. It’s it’s.

Payman Langroudi: So how did you learn? What did.

Mike Gray: You learn? So [00:52:10] Covid came along, put a nail in the coffin the music and going back to that, [00:52:15] working hard versus luck. I was sick of working [00:52:20] really hard and getting nothing. Uh, and and maybe I could try again or whatever. [00:52:25] But dentistry is beautiful. Like the harder you work, the more you get. [00:52:30] It’s a straight graph. It’s fantastic. And that’s that’s not to be sniffed at. [00:52:35] And you see loads of people doing these incredible things. And. But it’s only a very small percent. The [00:52:40] vast majority of people who aren’t near the top, like, for example, with the biking where I was kicking outside the top [00:52:45] 30. Um, yeah, it’s a hard life.

Payman Langroudi: If you’re the number 40 dentist [00:52:50] in the world, you’re on fire, right? Oh, unreal. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Mike Gray: 40 dentists in the [00:52:55] UK. Like it’s and it’s just a beautiful thing. You work hard, you get paid more or you progress or you’re there. [00:53:00] Whereas music, I’m busting my balls. And then again, it all goes. And so [00:53:05] I was sick of nothing correlating as it should. Yeah. Um, and so that was when [00:53:10] I always had in the back of my head, like you got dentistry. At some point you’re going to have to knuckle down. Um, we [00:53:15] don’t have to, but it’s not.

Payman Langroudi: A bad guy. You are right. Yeah.

Mike Gray: It’s not a bad fallback. [00:53:20] And so like I said, I absolutely hated it. But as soon as I pulled my finger out of my arse and started [00:53:25] putting that effort into dentistry are the level of satisfaction went straight [00:53:30] up and love what I’m doing. Got into this and got into that and I was very lucky. In [00:53:35] the clinic. I ended up at um in Swansea Parkway clinic in Swansea. Fantastic [00:53:40] clinic, huge clinic. It’s kind of like the gateway to the rest of Wales. There’s nothing [00:53:45] else past that. Stop. So the amount of cases that would [00:53:50] just come that way, whatever you wanted to do, there was cases. And so to, [00:53:55] to hone my skills, there was abundance of patients to sort [00:54:00] of go that way and.

Payman Langroudi: Lots of other experts to talk to. Right? Yeah.

Mike Gray: So it’s one of those places [00:54:05] where there’s a bit of everyone under the roof. Max facts, um, endo perio, uh, [00:54:10] that side of it.

Payman Langroudi: Because I came to your other practice, the lodge. Yeah. Again, very impressive. [00:54:15]

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Very, very impressed. Not many.

Mike Gray: I there’s not many practices. We’ve got a bar next [00:54:20] to the surgery.

Payman Langroudi: Beautifully done.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. And also, you could see it was [00:54:25] a big centre sort of pride. Was it a specialist private.

Mike Gray: So there’s two halves. [00:54:30] Yeah. The half you came to was like the referral centre and the other half is sort of general dentistry. Yeah. [00:54:35] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So you knuckled down to dentistry. What did you do. What did you do to.

Mike Gray: Again [00:54:40] this is going back to what you said with the photographer. I very much the crazy thing is restorative. [00:54:45] Other than the SHO job I did for a year um in Cardiff. [00:54:50] Um I’m self-taught. Um so I haven’t done a single restorative [00:54:55] course. So aesthetic wise, whether it’s composite or veneers or that side. And [00:55:00] in that I wouldn’t say it’s the way to do it. If someone says to me, you know, what’s the best way to learn? Go [00:55:05] and learn from someone incredible. You know, that is absolutely the best way. And this is where [00:55:10] at the time, like, I don’t need to do that. I’ve been going on courses. Later, I go on surgical courses [00:55:15] and my tunes changed. I’ve kind of feel like I’ve got a little bit too far with the prosthetic side, where I [00:55:20] don’t get good bang for my buck in what I’m going to learn. So less so, though I could still learn [00:55:25] a lot. Um, and so I just used to just get my head down and [00:55:30] just read around it. Research. I always have a few things in my head of when [00:55:35] the right patient comes along, I’m going to try this. So I’m not scared to try new things. But [00:55:40] what I make sure is that the right patient comes along to try it on. [00:55:45] I don’t just try it on the next person in that they’re chilled. It’s a low lip line. Uh, [00:55:50] you know, if it does go wrong, it’s not the end of the world sort of thing. And so that sort [00:55:55] of attitude, I sort of try things. And again, yeah, I always tend to learn the hard way. Um, [00:56:00] but I’ve just sort of developed and things like, you know, composite are [00:56:05] go and just layer some teeth up in my garage, work it out. Like, how am I getting there? If [00:56:10] it’s an instrument that I want or I can’t just make it. So, um, um. [00:56:15]

Payman Langroudi: So I saw that, um, camera thing. Yeah.

Mike Gray: The bracket a [00:56:20] little bit risky?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Is it just me or is there something about it?

Mike Gray: Uh, I just again, [00:56:25] the way my brain works is I got into my photography, which again is a great [00:56:30] thing to do. Yeah. Um, not just from advertising yourself on that side, but actually reflection [00:56:35] on your work. Um, and again, yeah, go, go [00:56:40] on. Course. You know, that’s make life simple for yourself. Don’t be stupid [00:56:45] like me and just lock yourself in a room for three days and read everything you can about it and that way. [00:56:50] Um, but that’s and I tried the twin flash brackets. [00:56:55] Um, and I found they either had not enough movement or too much. So I’m like, well go in [00:57:00] the garage, hack up a bit of aluminium and knock one up. And I had this ratty bit of kit [00:57:05] that I used for about a year. And I’m like, actually works. I love to just set and forget. [00:57:10] I haven’t got time for faffing. So and I hate the way with particularly the twin flash brackets, [00:57:15] you put it down and it moves there. And the minute anything moves, your flash is in a different place. You’ve got a different [00:57:20] picture, so your befores and afters aren’t consistent or that side of it. And so I knocked up this [00:57:25] and I was like, it kind of works. I should do a proper job of that. So I did a proper job of it and realised how [00:57:30] much, how hard it is to earn money outside of dentistry. Yeah. It’s not, you know, [00:57:35] as in so try a trying to get stuff made in the UK was a nightmare. Um nobody wants [00:57:40] to work. Um so it took me ages trying to, I got my laser cut in Bridgend, then I got them anodised [00:57:45] up in Birmingham and then, uh, laser etched in Port Talbot. And at the [00:57:50] time, you know, it took forever. And then I’m having to thread stuff myself and put stuff together, [00:57:55] box things up, you get an ordinary and you get your emails, and then you’ve got to run it to the post [00:58:00] office and, and.

Payman Langroudi: Then your overall profit on that item £40. It’s like, yeah. [00:58:05]

Mike Gray: And so again, it makes you go, that’s not bad.

Payman Langroudi: I’d rather do it.

Mike Gray: Hard [00:58:10] living in the real world, you know?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: So, um, so I did a bit of that cool thing about that though, is, [00:58:15] you know, because obviously dentistry and limited company and things like that. Um, as long as you attempt to make [00:58:20] profit at something, uh, you can run that through the business. So I can get tools on my limited company. [00:58:25] I love tools, so I’ve got a lathe in the garage and things like that. So hence why I make [00:58:30] some of my own surgical instruments in that I bought some megabucks and I looked at it and I’m like, [00:58:35] I could make that. That’s. So sure enough, I wanted like a pillar elevator for some of the microsurgery [00:58:40] stuff. So I went in the garage and knocked one up on the lathe and use that in my kit, you know? [00:58:45] Um, and so my brain’s always going like that. And so I’m always trying things, always trying things [00:58:50] different. And I think the nice thing, it was the hard way to try and teach myself [00:58:55] and work it out myself, but then it because I wasn’t being told by anyone [00:59:00] how to do it. And often the danger of that is you get shown how to do it. This [00:59:05] is how it’s done. This is how you always do it. Um, because I hadn’t [00:59:10] been shown by anyone, I’d worked out my own way, which allowed me to approach [00:59:15] it completely, sort of in a different way, which which I. You know, I love for that and [00:59:20] that.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a beautiful thing. I mean, one of the. We do this course with Depeche Palmer. [00:59:25] Yeah. And young Depeche Palmer was like you. He [00:59:30] hadn’t been on many courses at all. Yeah. And then his mentor told him maybe. [00:59:35] Don’t. Yeah. Yeah. So it’s all original. Yeah. And some of the [00:59:40] insights that he’s come out with are his own. They’re clearly his own. Yeah. Yeah. [00:59:45] And the danger of going on a lot of education if you want to be a teacher. Is that you’re regurgitating [00:59:50] someone else’s work. And for the, you know, you get the delegates that you see [00:59:55] in lots of different courses, they, they can definitely see, you know, where it’s come from. Yeah, yeah. [01:00:00] Whereas we need people like you and him to come up with [01:00:05] totally new ways of looking at it. Um, because [01:00:10] what the hell is progress in the end, right?

Mike Gray: Oh yeah. I mean, there’s been a huge spike. [01:00:15] I would say, um, since digital dentistry has been on the scene, like [01:00:20] the amount of control it can give you and the things because like, again, if you go to the formal [01:00:25] teaching route, articulators. Facebow. Articulator. I haven’t used one for 5 or 6 [01:00:30] years. I do full mouth rehab all the time. You are. I don’t waste of time. Explain that. So [01:00:35] it basically it makes, in my opinion again, I’ll set some people with this. It makes [01:00:40] it more complicated because you’ve got to. You’ve got the added process of taking [01:00:45] a facebow and registering all that side of things. You’re adding cost and lab side of things. You’re also [01:00:50] adding inaccuracy. There’s just none of that you need to do with digital. Um, because [01:00:55] the beauty of digital, you can. All right, maybe articulator you get a [01:01:00] virtual articulator on something like Exocad, which is the dental software again, use that. [01:01:05] Yeah, I do a lot of my own.

Payman Langroudi: I don’t mean exocad. I mean the virtual articulator. [01:01:10]

Mike Gray: Uh, occasionally. A lot of the time, you don’t need to. You put the tooth in the right place and you’re not going to be [01:01:15] too far off. Um, but the beauty of, of, of digital dentistry is you can transfer. So [01:01:20] I don’t call temporaries temporaries, they’re prototypes and that’s what they are with digital. So [01:01:25] you transfer these prototypes into somebody’s mouth. You can take as long as you want. So the [01:01:30] first full mouth rehab that I approached, um, useless. Didn’t know [01:01:35] what I was doing. Um, as long as you manage the patient’s expectations, which is the biggest thing of any part of [01:01:40] dentistry, managing those expectations, then you [01:01:45] you’re set. So for me on a full mouth rehab, rather than being like, cool, I’m going to prep everything, [01:01:50] put some temporaries on, see how it’s going, and then go to the finals. I’d be like, [01:01:55] oh, this is really difficult. So we’re probably going to take a couple of months to get this bite right [01:02:00] on that side. And so you manage those expectations. And so then I was able to fart around [01:02:05] for as long as I wanted to get it right. And basically you prep the teeth, you put your [01:02:10] prototypes in place and you get your occlusion and everything right where you want. So for me, I [01:02:15] like to put the aesthetics where I want them first, and then I want to make the occlusion work to that aesthetic. [01:02:20] So then I go into the function and you can get your [01:02:25] occlusion exactly where you want it just from tweaking it chairside. And once it’s perfect [01:02:30] and again, if you want, you can send the patient away for a month and, you know, keep dialling it in, make sure [01:02:35] nothing’s broken. And when it’s you feel it’s perfect. Whether you’re reorganising or not, you just [01:02:40] scan. Yeah, you scan that and you, there’s a few little tricks in order to ensure [01:02:45] the accuracy of overlaying scans on one another is good. Um, but if you what. [01:02:50]

Payman Langroudi: Are they, what are.

Mike Gray: They? Oh, just little things that you sort of work out. Like if you’re the [01:02:55] hard thing with laying scans over one another is a point of reference.

Payman Langroudi: So [01:03:00] like a three dimensional point of reference.

Mike Gray: Yeah. So teeth are great for that because they’re hard and they don’t [01:03:05] move and they’re accurate. But if you prep them all well, you’ve just destroyed all your reference points.

Payman Langroudi: So attention [01:03:10] to that fact.

Mike Gray: So little things like if you’re scanning, get a load of the palette. It’s [01:03:15] not the most accurate, but it’s not going to change as much as the sort of buckle surfaces. So that’s one extra. If [01:03:20] I’m doing a full mouth rehab, I like to if I can leave the back teeth untouched, I can easily [01:03:25] come back and do those at the end. So again, you’ve kept your points of reference posteriorly. If you’re prepping [01:03:30] crowns at the front, when you fit your temporaries, just leave the margin showing on the palatal. [01:03:35] So you’ve got another hard point of reference. So you’ve kind of got this three point, uh, match up [01:03:40] with, uh, with your scans. And so they actually match up, which means then you can [01:03:45] accurately record the occlusion. So for example, on my prototypes, I’ll leave the articulating marks. [01:03:50] So the lab have.

Payman Langroudi: Oh before scanning. Yeah. Yeah.

Mike Gray: So you leave them on. So they’ve literally [01:03:55] got blue red marks where the occlusion where the guidance isn’t it. Oh, so you know, [01:04:00] okay, I need to get this perfect and there’s a little slice tool they can adapt [01:04:05] the ceramic to. With pretty much 100% accurate 99.99, you [01:04:10] know, fractions of a millimetre out. So accurate they can copy that. And as long as you’re transferring [01:04:15] things accurately, then you’ll come back with the exact occlusion that you had in your prototypes, [01:04:20] which is crazy. So you’re fitting stuff and having perfect canine guidance and all that side. And [01:04:25] there’s just no stress, there’s no stress. And, and I hate that about myself in that when I started [01:04:30] the full mouth rehabs, I’d be like, I can’t wait to get to a stage where I’m not stressing before every appointment. [01:04:35] This is horrible. I’m like, ah, and as soon as I get there, because now, like full mouth rehab does not stress [01:04:40] me. And I’m like, all right, I’m a bit bored now. And so then I’m doing something else. And, and [01:04:45] stupidly, I opened the implant can like, unless you’re willing to dive [01:04:50] in.

Payman Langroudi: Implants is all or nothing.

Mike Gray: Leave it alone. Oh my goodness. And I was slow getting to [01:04:55] it because of the surgical background. And I did a lot of soft tissue stuff and things even before placing. I’ve been [01:05:00] restoring them for way before I started placing. Um, and so I kind of did everything a little [01:05:05] bit ass backwards, but I’m on that implant side now. And yeah, I’ve been at it a couple of years and love it.

Payman Langroudi: But [01:05:10] would you be mad if you didn’t go into the implants, though, with all of your surgical background? You know, [01:05:15] because it’s just, yeah, especially like where you are and all that, you know, the competitions. Yeah. [01:05:20] It needs there’s, there’s a supply issue. Yeah. You need, you need people. [01:05:25] Why is it, what do you think is the difference between someone like you? Who how many [01:05:30] full mouth rehabs do you do now? Like, uh, how often do you do you do it?

Mike Gray: It’s the different [01:05:35] I because I get bored doing the same thing. I do a [01:05:40] lot of different things. And so re like a full mouth rehab, I’ll [01:05:45] have, you know, sort of maybe one going a month or something like that.

Payman Langroudi: So someone like you, the difference in someone like [01:05:50] you, who’s, who’s throwing yourself in, reinventing the wheel, you know, [01:05:55] like making your own tricks and tips and tricks up. And then I come across [01:06:00] a bunch of people paralysed by anxiety about being [01:06:05] sued and, and all that. Like you could if you could think to yourself, Jesus, [01:06:10] dude, I’ve made my own instruments. Yeah, I’ve put this into this [01:06:15] guy’s mouth. What if something goes wrong? Yeah, but you’re not thinking that, is it? The fact that [01:06:20] you’ve been through these much harder things that makes dentistry look a bit more like child’s [01:06:25] play?

Mike Gray: I mean, that’s a good point in that I get stressed, I definitely get stressed.

Payman Langroudi: And what stresses. [01:06:30]

Mike Gray: You? Um, I the biggest thing is, is when [01:06:35] I mess up or I don’t do as well as I feel I should have. And that’s not necessarily healthy. And I think [01:06:40] a lot of us are unhealthy in that way as sort of self-criticism and beating ourselves up. Um, but that’s [01:06:45] probably the biggest thing when, when I know I can’t blame it on anything or anyone but [01:06:50] myself, that’s when I’m like, oof, I’m gonna have to take five minutes. And I used to struggle. It [01:06:55] used to play on a bit, but now it’s like, all right, I’ll have a sulk. I’ll sit in those emotions and I will [01:07:00] get past it. But it’s a good point, and I think a lot of it comes [01:07:05] to calculated risk. So you’re going back to the mountain bikes. Um, it’s like, [01:07:10] oh, you know, aren’t you scared of crashing? You are scared of falling off your bike or that side of things. And, [01:07:15] and it’s no, you’re doing it day in, day out. And it’s, you’ve built your skill up to a level [01:07:20] where it’s a calculated risk. And so it’s, it’s the same as, you know, what [01:07:25] was it like when you drove a car for the first time? It’s scary as hell. Like you don’t shit your pants every time [01:07:30] you go in a car. Now you respect it, but it’s that side. And so I suppose it’s that sort of perspective. [01:07:35] It’s like, you know, and for example, the downhill race, you fly all the way to, uh, [01:07:40] you know, uh, you know, Canada or anywhere across the world, you’ve got to, you [01:07:45] sat on the start line, you’ve got a TV camera in your face, you’ve got one run three minutes to get it right and [01:07:50] putting your life on the line. Um, that’s the sort of pressure, you know, or you’re [01:07:55] on stage or that side of it, um, or playing for somebody in your living room, [01:08:00] you know. Uh, and that’s that sort of pressure.

Payman Langroudi: And so it seems a little bit easier than those things. [01:08:05] Yeah.

Mike Gray: But then it’s down under. I still respect it in a [01:08:10] healthy way. And I, and I think a lot of us don’t realise how hard it is and how stressful it is. It’s, [01:08:15] it’s just insane. Yeah. It’s and it sounds really bad because, um, [01:08:20] my wife’s American, I met her in, um, through the music, so, [01:08:25] you know, good thing out of the music. I was in Nashville, I was doing some songwriting there.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, was she like a groupie?

Mike Gray: Uh, no, not at all. Not [01:08:30] at all. Just unimpressed. Um, I met her at a little dive bar in Nashville, [01:08:35] and I managed to convince her that Newport was better than Nashville.

Payman Langroudi: Where everything is.

Mike Gray: Now. But, [01:08:40] um. So, uh. Yeah. So, uh, it’s. [01:08:45] Oh, where was I going with that? I got, got caught up [01:08:50] in, in my wife being mad at me, and I’ve lost my train of thought.

Payman Langroudi: Dentistry is difficult.

Mike Gray: Oh, yeah, that [01:08:55] was it. And so this year we opened up. Uh. Up last year, now 25, we opened up an Airbnb in [01:09:00] Nashville. Um, okay. And, but that’s a project, you know, I give you some cash for it and that [01:09:05] sort of thing. And so she’s, she’s now responsible. And, and she was getting stressed and secretly, [01:09:10] I enjoyed it a little bit until that stress started getting taken out on me because I didn’t [01:09:15] realise how much stress I coped with on a daily basis. Um, [01:09:20] and just took it as normal. And the vast majority of [01:09:25] people don’t, uh, on that side.

Payman Langroudi: And so when I stopped dentistry for [01:09:30] five years and then started again the first two [01:09:35] weeks, you, you suddenly realise, oh my God, is this what [01:09:40] I used to do? Yeah, yeah. And just turning up bitch.

Mike Gray: Oh [01:09:45] man.

Payman Langroudi: And to turn up then, then now, now on, on stage for [01:09:50] that many hours. Yeah. And the weird thing about it was I was, I was trying to do enlighten [01:09:55] at the same time. Yeah. The only time you’ve got is just like weird, like lunchtime [01:10:00] or. It depends how you run your book. Right? I used to run long, long appointments, [01:10:05] so I used to get like 15, 20 minutes here and there. Yeah. And if you want to do anything, at the end of the [01:10:10] day, you’re pretty much burnt out. Yeah. Especially in private. I found private, [01:10:15] you know, would burn your brain. Yeah. Nhs would burn your body almost. Yeah. It [01:10:20] was that hard. Yeah. Your soul. Yeah. Um, so you’re right. It [01:10:25] it is a lot of stress. And the empathy side is important [01:10:30] and tiring. Yeah.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And I’ve said this before, my, my cousin who I saw last [01:10:35] night, he’s a, he’s an eye surgeon. Yeah. He says when, when the patient’s not either [01:10:40] heavily sedated or, or GA, he has a much more stressful [01:10:45] day than when he’s doing a GA list. Right. Because he goes but la inside people’s eyes. Yeah. [01:10:50] And that anxiety comes and you know, we’ve got that at a level continuously [01:10:55] all the time.

Mike Gray: And unfortunately, everyone hates you, even if they’re nice [01:11:00] about it. Oh well. Big change from my practice now though, which I’ll come on to. But have you heard of like, [01:11:05] you must have heard of compassion fatigue?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And your mental health [01:11:10] wise.

Mike Gray: Yeah. And so that’s, that’s a real thing in like the therapy world where everyone’s coming and [01:11:15] trauma dumping on you. And if you’re not careful, you’ll soak it up like a sponge. So like therapists [01:11:20] and that they get up and they have different ways to combat it. Like something might just be stand up, shake your arms and [01:11:25] legs or run your hands under some sort of running water. They check in with their own therapists [01:11:30] every couple of weeks. And in dentistry, we get that every day. It’s like even [01:11:35] the the there’s plenty of people that outright be like, I hate you. I’m [01:11:40] like, oof, okay. And then, but there’s other people that are really polite about it, [01:11:45] but all their body language is telling you, I’m scared of you, I hate you. Um, and [01:11:50] you take so much.

Payman Langroudi: So funny that we take that personally. I mean, I don’t. [01:11:55]

Mike Gray: Like the massive difference now.

Payman Langroudi: Just the words themselves.

Mike Gray: So I purely do, like I said, [01:12:00] aesthetic and surgical dentistry, it’s all elective side of things. Yeah. Everyone [01:12:05] wants to be there. So nobody moans about the injection. Nobody moans about paying, nobody moans [01:12:10] about that. It’s it’s a completely different approach. And I didn’t realise that big wave [01:12:15] that was lifted. And when I started seeing these patients versus my [01:12:20] average day, and I’m doing way more complex and difficult stuff, but that burden is way lighter. [01:12:25]

Payman Langroudi: You’re right on.

Mike Gray: That.

Payman Langroudi: Side. The other thing is, uh, my, my, [01:12:30] um, two kids had ortho. Yeah, one normal ortho [01:12:35] and the other Dental monitoring ortho. Yeah. And Dental monitoring ortho [01:12:40] only visited five times or something. Yeah, yeah. And as a dentist, you [01:12:45] think, oh, that’s like the number of hours that she spent with my daughters. Not many hours. And we paid all [01:12:50] this money, but from the from the other side of it. Hell. Great man. Like going to the dentist. [01:12:55] Yeah. Is not pleasant. How much we think we make our waiting rooms nice. [01:13:00] And yeah, it’s not a pleasant going anywhere. It’s not pleasant to somebody.

Mike Gray: That enjoys that there. The scary patients.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [01:13:05] yeah. Like going to the hairdresser isn’t pleasant. Like spending.

Mike Gray: Time. Like people [01:13:10] hate the dentist. Oh my my, this is my bubble, my personal space. And you’re in.

Payman Langroudi: It.

Mike Gray: You know, you can tell [01:13:15] I don’t like the hairdresser. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, it’s it’s pleasant going to a restaurant or going to a doing [01:13:20] some sports or going to a show or it’s, it’s not pleasant going to any form of therapist, [01:13:25] right? It’s like, you know, but we fool ourselves because we’re having sometimes meaningful relationships [01:13:30] with the patients. We fool ourselves into thinking they’re having as much fun as we are. Yeah.

Mike Gray: And [01:13:35] that’s, and that’s why I think I love, you know, education. I think that’s so important. [01:13:40] You know, we were talking about before. So for example, the course I run poise protocol. Um, what’s it called. [01:13:45] Poise protocol poise poise. Yeah. So path of insertion and structural enhancement. It’s basically [01:13:50] that goes in my head the minute I approach anything indirect. It doesn’t matter what it is [01:13:55] because I’m asking myself, cool. So is there a path of insertion for the ceramic? [01:14:00] Yes or no? Do I need to create one? And structural enhancement. You know, is there enough strength [01:14:05] in the material I’m using and the tooth that I’m putting on? And when you think about it like that, you’re [01:14:10] always going to do the right thing for the tooth. And what the crazy thing, which it blows my mind, [01:14:15] which I feel everyone should know from the aesthetic side, is you [01:14:20] can provide ceramic veneers so, so minimally invasive [01:14:25] in that way. And it’s, I think I’ve gone full [01:14:30] circle in like everyone’s done composite, everyone jumps on composite and composite is [01:14:35] great. It is fantastic. It has its place.

Payman Langroudi: It’s fantastic. But you wouldn’t have it in your [01:14:40] own mouth, isn’t it? I mean, I’ve got it. My front teeth, my teeth.

Mike Gray: Have had a hammering, you know, again [01:14:45] relating to lifestyle.

Payman Langroudi: Um, but but tell me, explain it to me because so you’re saying a virtually [01:14:50] no prep. Yeah. So indirect porcelain veneer that you’re bringing [01:14:55] in in a, the path of insertion is not, not the normal path.

Mike Gray: So again. [01:15:00]

Payman Langroudi: Is that what you’re.

Mike Gray: Saying? When I started looking into that, because again, I was sick of comments like if anyone who does a lot [01:15:05] of composite, I don’t care what people are telling you with courses, the good educators will tell you the truth [01:15:10] about composite and that it’s fantastic, but you’re going to get chips, you’re going to get stains unforgiving. [01:15:15] Yeah, absolutely. And and it has its place. It’s perfect for anything that for me that it isn’t full [01:15:20] coverage, it’s composites. Great. Anything that’s full coverage. So, you [01:15:25] know, veneer ceramics, ceramics, way better. I, I had [01:15:30] one veneer fail in the last five years. I do not have veneer fractures or problems [01:15:35] or stains in my diary. It’s just not there. I am way less stressed with the ceramic [01:15:40] because I know I’m going to put that there. I have my protocols right and I’m not going to see him again. It’s [01:15:45] you know, it’s fantastic. And basically when I started looking into the whole prep list, because [01:15:50] I don’t, I like to try and be as minimally invasive as possible, which is different as an aesthetic dentist. I don’t [01:15:55] use cosmetic. That’s a dirty word in America. Um, so aesthetic dentist [01:16:00] side. And, um, when I approached it, I went to the lab a lucky [01:16:05] again in that a good relationship with my lab.

Mike Gray: And I got a really good lab technician, Anthony Bailey and Cardiff, [01:16:10] um, prime ceramics and we’re good buddies now because I’ve been back and forth for years and, [01:16:15] um, so I’m in there pretty much most weeks and he’s taught me all my ceramics. Like I do all my ceramic, [01:16:20] I do all the CAD side. He’s been my mentor through all of that. And when I first approached [01:16:25] him about ceramic, he’s like, um, felspathic. That’s the cool thing. That’s like [01:16:30] the sort of the, the creme de la creme sort of, of that side. And to [01:16:35] find someone to do feldspathic, um, well is difficult. Um, [01:16:40] you need a really talented clinician. And then when you look at the flexural strength, it’s like 70 [01:16:45] megapascals. It’s less than flowable composite. Um, and obviously you put it on a solid [01:16:50] base. You get that strength. So he said to me, call Feldspathic is really weak and it’s really hard for [01:16:55] someone to do it. And in the dentistry side of things, we’re kind of told, oh, stars need to align [01:17:00] to do prep less because it’s just not for everyone. And so [01:17:05] immediately I was like, well, I don’t want to dedicate my time and effort learning [01:17:10] about a material that was invented in the 70s that’s difficult to do [01:17:15] and not very strong.

Mike Gray: So I’m like, okay, well, how are we going to get the benefits of that out [01:17:20] of modern materials? And so you look at like the lithium disilicate urimax is like your sort of your trade [01:17:25] name and things like that. And, um, you can place, [01:17:30] uh, lithium disilicate 0.3 mils thick, which [01:17:35] is nothing. So if you’re not prepping, you’re not exactly adding massive bulk. When you look at margins, [01:17:40] okay, well, we need a margin. In my head, it was like, okay, I have to prep a margin. [01:17:45] Otherwise there’s going to be a big ledge. Oh yeah. And you’re going to have bacteria in the you look [01:17:50] at the papers. Um, you get more longevity with, with propolis [01:17:55] because you’ve left all that enamel there. Gingiva is healthy. And again, so you look at bop concepts [01:18:00] and that side of it, there’s no margins there and [01:18:05] everything’s completely healthy. It’s more about that sort of profile of what’s going on. You look at implants, you [01:18:10] know, a huge obviously it needs to be the right shape. But, you know, there’s no such thing as [01:18:15] a margin there. So you don’t actually need margins. And then with digitally you can act.

Payman Langroudi: So there’s an [01:18:20] actual ledge.

Mike Gray: Uh, so.

Payman Langroudi: A very thin one.

Mike Gray: No, no, no, no, there’s no ledge knowledge. You don’t prep a [01:18:25] margin at all.

Payman Langroudi: No. But so now you’ve got this veneer on there. How, how is it as long as you.

Mike Gray: Have [01:18:30] a nice smooth transition onto it. So not a square edge, then things are happy. And [01:18:35] again, digitally you can accurately place them. 0.3mm Subgingivally super [01:18:40] easy to do that with, with modern sort of digital scanners. And the beauty of it is [01:18:45] with modern scanners, you can scan a mouth. And when I say the stars need to align [01:18:50] path of insertion, point, path of insertion, you have to have a path of insertion for the ceramic to go [01:18:55] on. When you actually analyse it digitally, you can move it around and roughly [01:19:00] for a veneer you coming from the labial, but I like to come a bit of like 45 degrees to the incisal. [01:19:05] If you come to labial, gingiva starts getting in the way, but by immediately coming labial, you’ve been minimally [01:19:10] invasive. You have to remove less tooth structure. So you start fighting around with these scans, [01:19:15] um approaching from the labial. And the beautiful thing is they have [01:19:20] buttons that you can identify undercuts. See it’s not meant for [01:19:25] this. It’s meant for checking your prep. And have I got rid of it. You just put that on [01:19:30] on prep tooth, move it around a bit. It shows you exactly where the undercuts are.

Payman Langroudi: For that path of insertion. [01:19:35]

Mike Gray: That path of insertion. You change the view to path Preferences and you can fart around and it [01:19:40] shows you exactly where those paths of insertions are. So what I do then is I work out the best approach [01:19:45] for each tooth, the um as far as path of insertion. And [01:19:50] it highlights in blue depending on what sort of software you’re using. Um, but most [01:19:55] scanners will have an undercut button on there and you can create a preparation map and it, [01:20:00] it shows you exactly the bit of tooth you need to remove in order to create a path for insertion. [01:20:05] And what you will realise is it’s bugger all apps. So a full arch [01:20:10] of preps will take me five minutes in that you just get a little disk and you [01:20:15] go, yeah, yeah, according to your preparation map and a veneer is going to go on there. Um, [01:20:20] and, and other than structural enhancement with veneers, sharp line angles, [01:20:25] things like that, that you need to smooth off so you don’t have crack propagation. There’s nothing to do. [01:20:30] So a prep mouth looks untouched. I don’t numb them up. I do it as a point to [01:20:35] demonstrate to the patient, I’m not hacking your teeth to bits. And so it’s [01:20:40] incredibly minimally invasive. Like truly invasive. Because my argument against composite [01:20:45] is, you know, I think it’s false advertising when you say teeth are untouched [01:20:50] because this isn’t going to last forever. What happens when you take it off and they say, oh, I’ll be careful and [01:20:55] I’ll take that. Even polishing by nature is removing tooth structure. That’s the act of polishing. And [01:21:00] I see cases where they’ve had 2 or 3 lots of composite that I’m redoing. [01:21:05] And you take that composite off. That’s not a virgin tooth underneath. Someone’s been a bit slack or a bit rushed [01:21:10] or a bit lazy or just they’ve had so much. It is not an untouched tooth. And so you do that [01:21:15] 3 or 4 times, or you have ceramic where you’ve carefully according [01:21:20] digitally and super accurately recontoured this tooth and you’ve [01:21:25] got a veneer that’s going to last 15, 20 years and you’re not touching. And so it’s.

Payman Langroudi: How do you avoid the tooth [01:21:30] being bulky?

Mike Gray: It’s not 0.3 mil like.

Payman Langroudi: Across the whole thing.

Mike Gray: Yeah. You can have [01:21:35] 0.3 mil thickness and, and so that side of it, and obviously you can thicken it out way more [01:21:40] like the big thing for me. Yeah. The big thing for me on volume is lip line. [01:21:45] If somebody, as a general rule of thumb, if somebody’s got a high lip line, you want to keep the volume down because otherwise they look like [01:21:50] those sort of stuck on bits of teeth. Um, but yeah, you’re adding.

Payman Langroudi: Typically, are you doing [01:21:55] sort of a line bleach then that.

Mike Gray: Oh yeah, I’m a massive pro ortho before, like I [01:22:00] said, it’s uh, if someone’s, uh, the question I asked myself is, is this [01:22:05] patient going to die with their teeth by the time I finish with them? And if they are [01:22:10] older, I will give them the option of prepping versus not prepping. I still prefer not to prep. So even if somebody comes [01:22:15] to me in their 50s and they’re like, I want full mouth veneers, I’m like, cool, give me a good reason not [01:22:20] to do ortho because everyone’s life is easier. Uh, you know, my life as far as preps, [01:22:25] masking whatever is easier. But I say, look, best thing for you to do is to ortho first. But if they [01:22:30] say no, I’m like, fine. As long as it’s not crazy and I’m not hacking away too much to structure. I’ll be like, cool, I’ll [01:22:35] prep a younger patient. I don’t even give him a choice. I was like, no, you want veneers? It’s also first or nothing. Um, [01:22:40] and that side and again, coming back to the prep list, way easier to [01:22:45] do a full mouth than it is 1 or 2 teeth talking about that book. Because if you start back here, 0.3 [01:22:50] mil doesn’t look like you’ve added anything, um, onto the front, even if you start at the back. So works [01:22:55] a lot easier with, with, uh, sort of full teeth and things like that.

Payman Langroudi: So, and then [01:23:00] when you come to cement, um, each one of them is going in at a different angle. [01:23:05]

Mike Gray: No, you be pretty much going at that sort of 4545. [01:23:10]

Payman Langroudi: Generally.

Mike Gray: It’s your conventional veneer approach when you just wiggle it around a little bit [01:23:15] to, to keep it minimal, that’s all you’re doing. And you don’t want to go too [01:23:20] crazy with your approach because particularly on veneers, if you’re going too far from like, say, [01:23:25] laterally you, that’s when you have to start or I have to cement this one first and then that one. So [01:23:30] you want to keep it fairly, but again, it will blow your mind. I haven’t got my laptop [01:23:35] in my bag. I’ll show you after like how minimal it is that you’re actually to create [01:23:40] a path of insertion for every single tooth in the head. The vast majority, like you’ll have 4 or 5 teeth. Don’t touch. [01:23:45] Don’t even touch them. Um, and so that that world of prep is [01:23:50] just rather than being able to do it on 5% of people, you’re up to like 90% [01:23:55] of people. And the cool thing is, you know, I’d love to save enamel [01:24:00] everywhere in that the number of cases I see now where somebody’s prepped a full mouth, [01:24:05] um, conventional veneers, you’d think could I’ve done that a different way and that side. [01:24:10]

Payman Langroudi: And I think without, without prep you’ve got a much better bond, right.

Mike Gray: Oh yeah. No, I [01:24:15] mean, because the main success of a veneer is, I mean obviously you can look at occlusion and that not [01:24:20] to enamel. Yeah. It’s it’s that bond. And and you’ve left it all there. It’s there’s acres of it. [01:24:25] You couldn’t have a better starting point as to where you want to go. So yeah, [01:24:30] it’s awesome in that side and digital makes that all possible.

Payman Langroudi: Did you come up with this yourself? [01:24:35]

Mike Gray: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Like there wasn’t another guy in Peru who I saw.

Mike Gray: I mean, there’s a lot of things that [01:24:40] I think I’ve been clever and invented, and I’m probably not the first person, but.

Payman Langroudi: But you just came up with this yourself. You just step by [01:24:45] step by step.

Mike Gray: Five years. Yeah. That that sort of way. Interesting. And it’s, it’s, it’s, I love [01:24:50] it. I absolutely love it.

Payman Langroudi: So is that what your course teaches this?

Mike Gray: Yeah, yeah. And it’s basically I don’t [01:24:55] teach the conventional prep side because you can get that everywhere else. But the whole workflow of, [01:25:00] you know, planning to smile design to, um, actually, [01:25:05] yeah, executing and cementing and, and sort of all that side. [01:25:10] Um, but then yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Where’d you run the course?

Mike Gray: So I run that a lodge, uh.

Payman Langroudi: Lodge.

Mike Gray: Itself. Yeah. Lodge [01:25:15] itself. I like to keep smaller numbers. Um, we’ve been three years sold out now, which is cool. [01:25:20] Um, I need to.

Payman Langroudi: Do it once a year.

Mike Gray: About twice a year, twice a year. So I need to [01:25:25] release some dates. Um, but again, going back to the core side, [01:25:30] I love to create a space where people can just come and speak to other [01:25:35] like minded people, because such a stressful profession as we talked about it. And so come [01:25:40] and let your hair down. If you want to learn, you can learn. But you know, I put people I got to stop because [01:25:45] I don’t make any money. I don’t that’s the business side of me that’s useless. But I put people up in [01:25:50] a five star hotel, nice food, getting some wine tasting or whisky tasting. And [01:25:55] I had an ice cream van and barbecue at the last one. Um.

Payman Langroudi: I think, I think, I [01:26:00] think education needs a shake up.

Mike Gray: Oh no. But.

Payman Langroudi: You know, in this sense, it’s awesome.

Mike Gray: And I [01:26:05] love what you were talking about earlier, where you’re effectively getting a sort of a really [01:26:10] cool space to get everyone together.

Payman Langroudi: So we’re doing this thing at Ministry of Sound. Yeah. Which [01:26:15] I think you’re going to be at. So that would be great. Yeah. Yeah, that’ll be great. Check your diary. Yeah, [01:26:20] it’s.

Mike Gray: I think I did, like I said, with the American wife, as long as it’s not you saying it’s June.

Payman Langroudi: June, June [01:26:25] 30th.

Mike Gray: June 13th? Yes, as long as it’s not July 4th, Independence Day, you’re there. I [01:26:30] should be there. I set, I’m set. Otherwise, I’m on a lake, eating hot dogs, drinking beer and watching fireworks.

Payman Langroudi: But it’s [01:26:35] so interesting. Like, you know, the guy who invented Invisalign was some sort of banker. [01:26:40] Yeah. And it’s sometimes you have to zoom out or not be in [01:26:45] it. Yeah. To come up with solutions that are, you know, like, in a [01:26:50] way, it’s so interesting. You haven’t been on any cosmetics courses or particularly hadn’t [01:26:55] been on any cosmetic courses by the time you started coming up with this solution. Yeah. Um, [01:27:00] and yet look at it from a different angle. And I’m quite surprised at what you’re saying [01:27:05] about the margin that the, the margin isn’t an issue. Yeah. And, but you’re right in that, in that sort of [01:27:10] vertebrate world, we. Yeah.

Mike Gray: No you don’t.

Payman Langroudi: No one’s worried.

Mike Gray: About. I can show you, you know three [01:27:15] five year post-doc with. And we can all we all know what healthy gingiva looks like. Yeah. Brand new. Uh, [01:27:20] and, uh, yeah, it’s it’s, uh, The biggest question I get [01:27:25] whenever I talk on it is, is like, what about the gum health? Yeah. And because [01:27:30] it just doesn’t make sense. And that’s where you kind of condition. But it’s. Yeah. No.

Payman Langroudi: What [01:27:35] are you bad at?

Mike Gray: Uh.

Payman Langroudi: Bad dentistry.

Mike Gray: Yeah. [01:27:40] Um, things that involve patience, as [01:27:45] in not physical patience. The the act of being patient. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Short. [01:27:50]

Mike Gray: So Endo, for example. I’m good at endo. I was been a while. Yeah. Um, [01:27:55] I opened my first tooth over the Christmas period, um, for a long time and I was, I was, I [01:28:00] was, I’m working like, where are these canals? How many are there? Okay. Right. It’s a molar. Uh, but [01:28:05] it came back. Oh yeah. No, we got out [01:28:10] of pain, so succeeded there. But um, things like endo, [01:28:15] endo and I did great until it [01:28:20] got fiddly And I just got too impatient and I would snap something [01:28:25] or ledge something. And that was it. Like orthodontics. I, I [01:28:30] want it done now. I want it done now. And this is something I struggle with [01:28:35] on the surgical side because you have to wait for everything to mature. And I don’t. So like, you [01:28:40] know, I get a case I’m really excited to finish, but I’m going to do this bone graft now and then I’m going to wait four months and [01:28:45] then I’m going to sort of vertically graft the tissue and wait another four months. And then I’m going to condition [01:28:50] it to develop the Pontic site. And so 12, 18 months later I might get to the end. [01:28:55] And, and I struggle with that because I just want it now. And so yeah, anything [01:29:00] that sort of involves patience is my mind goes because I just want it.

Payman Langroudi: What [01:29:05] about Lifewise? What’s the like.

Mike Gray: Failure?

Payman Langroudi: I’d say.

Mike Gray: It’s failure. [01:29:10] Um, in that.

Payman Langroudi: Punish yourself mentally.

Mike Gray: No, it’s I’m just I [01:29:15] think I should imagine there’s a lot of dentists like this is. And you’re a high achiever, [01:29:20] right, to get into dental school. So you’ve done well in school. You’ve done well in university and [01:29:25] on that side. And so dealing with failure isn’t [01:29:30] something you’re used to. And this is where I suffered in the music. Uh, [01:29:35] the setbacks and things there. It’s I expected, oh, you work hard, you do this [01:29:40] and you pass. Um, and so that door opens and you move on [01:29:45] and somebody goes, nah, I don’t like that. Closes the door. I [01:29:50] couldn’t deal with that. It’s like I’m a failure. I’m no good. I’m not. And whereas you look at [01:29:55] people that deal with failure, which is most of life and most of business, it’s handling that rejection. [01:30:00] Uh, and, and you do because it’s something like, is it the Mormons? Like there’s a real, uh, [01:30:05] high percentage of the sort of the entrepreneurs, um, because they spend [01:30:10] first two years of their adulthood get sent on like pilgrimage and, and door [01:30:15] to door rejection, everyone slamming the door in their face. And so somebody [01:30:20] else closing a door. It means nothing to them.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: Somebody closes a door on me, I fall apart. [01:30:25]

Payman Langroudi: I saw this thing on probably on TikTok or something. It was like, if you if your kid [01:30:30] is top of his class and good at sports and all that, he hasn’t come across resilience [01:30:35] against rejection and failure, you know? And [01:30:40] I thought about my daughter, like she, she goes to ballet. She goes to ballet every week, every week. [01:30:45] She’s not the top of her class at ballet. She’s not here, but she keeps on going. Yeah. And I [01:30:50] was thinking, man, you know, if you give that much time to something, at least give it to something that you’re going to be like really [01:30:55] into or whatever. And then when I saw this, I thought, at least she’s building that muscle, [01:31:00] right? That muscle of resilience muscle, you know, which is a really important thing [01:31:05] in adulthood. Right? Definitely.

Mike Gray: Because unfortunately, that is life. Yeah. You know, [01:31:10] and.

Payman Langroudi: You get knocked back in life.

Mike Gray: Right? Yeah. So much. And, and that side. And that’s where [01:31:15] I wish I’m getting better. Um, but I’m so I’m building [01:31:20] that resilience a bit late.

Payman Langroudi: I’m quite interested in this question here of on in any endeavour, whether [01:31:25] it’s one of your ones that even or even, you know, photography or whatever in any [01:31:30] endeavour. Yeah. How much should you rely on resilience and just keep going and [01:31:35] keep going and keep going. And how do you know when’s the time to pivot? You [01:31:40] know, and, and I guess there’s no clear answer to that question. Yeah, [01:31:45] but but for instance, with me, the notion of giving up on something just doesn’t [01:31:50] cross my mind. So I tend to hold on to things a bit too long. Yeah, yeah. [01:31:55] Like sometimes my, my business partner, he’s great. He’s unemotional about he’s just like, let’s kill that product. [01:32:00] Yeah. And I just, I, I’m just so attached to it.

Mike Gray: But that’s, and that’s where I’d make a terrible CEO. [01:32:05] Um, I think I see myself as that I’m the type of person that [01:32:10] a CEO would love to get on board because they’re just fanatical and whatever. And [01:32:15] they work hard. Um, but that’s the whole point of, you know, them [01:32:20] trying to make it successful. You want lots of people around it. You can’t do all that yourself joking.

Payman Langroudi: You’re bad at [01:32:25] delegating or trusting other people.

Mike Gray: Terrible. Again.

Payman Langroudi: Control freak.

Mike Gray: Yes. [01:32:30] It’s less a control freak. And it’s again, without sounding too arrogant, I’m good at a lot of things. And so [01:32:35] to do a good job, often it’s, you know, you want a job, you probably do it yourself. And [01:32:40] so a lot of the time, I do a lot of things myself because of the quality or level that [01:32:45] I want it done. However you just.

Payman Langroudi: Limiting. Yeah.

Mike Gray: You can’t, you hit a [01:32:50] ceiling very quickly.

Payman Langroudi: One thing I’ve learned here is that if you’re giving a job to someone, [01:32:55] by the way, I’m not the best delegator. My best partner is excellent at it. I’m really not that great. But [01:33:00] if you give a job to someone, something. Let’s take it like, I don’t know, I was running the social media of [01:33:05] enlightened myself. Yeah. In the first whenever five years of social media. Yeah. [01:33:10] Right. Then it got to a point where I’d give it to someone. There’s going to be a dip. Yeah, there’s going to be a [01:33:15] period of time where that person’s doing it worse than what you were doing it. Yeah. Yeah. [01:33:20] And you’ve got to be like, allow that dip to happen. Bearing [01:33:25] in mind once you’ve done it a few times, that at one point that person’s going to be doing it much better than you. Yeah. Because [01:33:30] that person’s 100% focussed on that thing. Yeah. But some perfectionist types, [01:33:35] they can’t face that dip. Yeah. Yeah. And I remember like seeing some of our output [01:33:40] at that moment thinking, oh, you know, that’s not my brand. Yeah. Yeah. But [01:33:45] and I think through laziness, I didn’t address it. Right. But then this person ended up being much better than [01:33:50] me at that. Yeah. Yeah. I went on some course, you know, like completely focussed on that. Yeah. Yeah.

Mike Gray: And it’s, [01:33:55] I think my wife’s good for that one in that I will fret over like stupid things. And she [01:34:00] used to, she did jewellery design for about ten years. And in that world everyone’s stealing everyone else’s [01:34:05] ideas and this sort of thing. And I’m like, I’m trying to come up with these inventions. And like, I worry that this [01:34:10] leaked or something like that, I’m like, oh, it’s going to get copied. And she’s like, shut up.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. You’re [01:34:15] fine.

Mike Gray: Um, on that side. So, um.

Payman Langroudi: Chuck, are you going to do your own practice? [01:34:20]

Mike Gray: Should really potentially purely because I [01:34:25] would love to have that control of how things are. But then again, there’s [01:34:30] so many things that I love to spend my time doing now, which I know I would have to sacrifice. [01:34:35] That’s true. And, um, so for example, again, going back, I suppose I say I’m [01:34:40] bad at delegating, but then I think with my education, like obviously now I’m taking it seriously. [01:34:45] Um, I’ve been smarter about that in that, for example, [01:34:50] I gatecrashed, I forget what university it was and they had like a sort of a paper reading [01:34:55] day, um, a literary review and um, the person leading [01:35:00] it at the start said, you know, why do we make you do this? Um, and [01:35:05] it was because even though you can read summaries of these papers [01:35:10] and all that, and it’s an abstract put for you. You. If unless you read it [01:35:15] the paper yourself, you won’t generate your response. And it might be different [01:35:20] to what somebody else has done. And I think that’s a valid point. But for me, I’m [01:35:25] just going to ask somebody that I trust that’s read the paper, and then I don’t have to spend my time [01:35:30] reading a paper from 1985. Uh, I can spend.

Payman Langroudi: It these days. Ai, right?

Mike Gray: Well, [01:35:35] yeah, there’s that side that summarises. Great. Um, but it’s, I [01:35:40] can then put my time into learning CAD. I can, you know, learn 3d printing. I can [01:35:45] on that side. And so I’m still working just as hard as somebody else. And, but I’m terrible [01:35:50] at quoting papers and that’s like absolutely useless. But then you just have.

Payman Langroudi: Does it stress you that someone’s [01:35:55] going to turn up on your course and bedazzle you with like, uh, [01:36:00] science from another.

Mike Gray: Absolutely. And I think.

Payman Langroudi: I tell you, you’re a charlatan. [01:36:05]

Mike Gray: That’s every lecturer’s nightmare, I think, and I’ve been fortunate [01:36:10] in that I certainly with my course, it’s a lot of. It’s been word of mouth [01:36:15] and everyone who wants to do it is really passionate and they just want to be there. [01:36:20] And so everyone’s been awesome. It’s been incredible. And I think I’m [01:36:25] sure I will get that if it keeps building and then somebody’s doing it because they feel they ought [01:36:30] to do it because their bodies did it or they need to keep up and, and, and, and that side and [01:36:35] the best approach I find is just to be honest and say, I don’t know, you [01:36:40] know, you could have a point.

Payman Langroudi: I so respect people who say, I don’t know.

Mike Gray: Yeah. And, and, and [01:36:45] it’s because as well, you’ve got to be careful. I learned this, [01:36:50] um, uh, I lectured in UPenn last year. Um, and, [01:36:55] uh.

Payman Langroudi: How’d that come about?

Mike Gray: Uh, Celine. Uh, [01:37:00] Celine. Yeah. Yeah. So she’s.

Payman Langroudi: She’s there.

Mike Gray: Now. She’s there now. And so I know [01:37:05] her. And then, um. Marcus Blatz and that side. And, uh, I sort [01:37:10] of you can find a paper to support anything. Um, now, so whatever you’re trying [01:37:15] to say, you can just Google, you know, ChatGPT, whatever, or the various other resources [01:37:20] to, um, to, to support what you want to say. And so everyone does that. And, and she’s like, don’t [01:37:25] do that in front of Marcus. And so I’m like last minute taking down all these references [01:37:30] in there and, and it’s much better. It’s much better to even find a paper that argues against [01:37:35] what you’re trying to say, uh, and just be authentic in that side. Um, and [01:37:40] yeah, it’s, I, I respect that too. And I really respect lecturers [01:37:45] who talk about their mistakes. I’m trying to be brave enough to incorporate more of that [01:37:50] into what I’m doing.

Payman Langroudi: It makes for a much better experience for them.

Mike Gray: Because [01:37:55] that’s how I learned the hard way. Um, and so there’s so much value in [01:38:00] that side of.

Payman Langroudi: Things about papers. Yeah. Is that when you’re at To near the [01:38:05] forefront of something you realise much of the literature is [01:38:10] is, is whether you want to call it incorrect or whether you want [01:38:15] to call it out of date or whatever it is.

Mike Gray: You’re never going to be at the cutting edge. [01:38:20] I mean, you will, but it’s yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Like, like I’m waiting.

Mike Gray: For 12 [01:38:25] years.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I draw an insight. I draw an insight here from from 140,000 [01:38:30] treatments. Yeah. Let’s say I’ve got data on 140,000 [01:38:35] treatments. Yeah. I draw an insight from that. Yeah. Yeah. And then someone will quote me a paper [01:38:40] with 42 patients. Um, and it’s a, it’s a world renowned, you know, name. [01:38:45] Yeah. On 42 patients decided the opposite of my insight that [01:38:50] I’ve brought from 140 000 cases. Yeah. Yeah. You know, like, and [01:38:55] I’m hundred percent sure about this insight. Yeah. If you Google it. Yeah. Hardly [01:39:00] any paper says that that’s true. Yeah. And so it’s almost like, you know, [01:39:05] when you when you understand something or when you’re involved with something, you realise how [01:39:10] like, let’s say, have you ever been involved in a news story where there’s a [01:39:15] journalist involved? Yeah. Where there’s a journalist involved. I mean, news story sounds a bit dramatic, a [01:39:20] PR story where there’s a journalist involved and you’re part of it and you’re close to the situation, [01:39:25] and you read the article and it’s just like, the details are all incorrect. Yeah. You know, and the conclusion [01:39:30] is incorrect. Yeah. So sometimes when you, when you know about something, but [01:39:35] then in our, in our world, where’s the evidence? It’s like a very good question you should [01:39:40] be asking. Yeah.

Mike Gray: And it’s just that balance, isn’t it. And I think that’s part of developing yourself [01:39:45] as a clinician or anything in the world. It’s just using your brain to pick out what’s sensible, [01:39:50] isn’t it on that side? But yeah, because I guess you look at me on paper, you tear [01:39:55] me apart like I shouldn’t be doing any of the treatments that I do. Like, you know, right now I love my soft tissue [01:40:00] work, so I’m doing everything around implants like vertical grafting, rebuilding, papilla, all [01:40:05] that. Oh, really? And and, you know, full mouth rehab, all [01:40:10] that. Technically, I always think, like, what happens if I end up before the GDC and [01:40:15] there’s a panel expert. Yeah. And it would be traditional, say prosthodontics trained [01:40:20] and they’ll be sort of critiquing how I do it. [01:40:25] And technically, you know, there’d be far more by the book. And so it’s, yeah, [01:40:30] it’s a weird one. But like, like you said, it’s applying that common sense. And [01:40:35] for you, you, you, you, you’ve got all that wealth of data and things [01:40:40] to support what it is you’re thinking. So, you know, it’s legit. And again, coming back to that whole margin side, [01:40:45] I worried at first. I’m like, oh, if I don’t drill a margin, but then I’m like, well, we’re putting all [01:40:50] these composites on and they’re definitely thicker than 0.3mm.

Payman Langroudi: Which is not very much, is it? [01:40:55]

Mike Gray: Yeah. And everything’s fine. And so actually, I’ve got [01:41:00] everything in front of me. It’s telling me. Know what you’re thinking of doing. Isn’t that crazy? [01:41:05] Um. And so yeah, you’re fine on that side.

Payman Langroudi: What about Instagram? [01:41:10] Do you find it easy to know?

Mike Gray: It’s hard.

Payman Langroudi: You find it hard.

Mike Gray: It’s a double edged sword, isn’t it? I think [01:41:15] double edged blade in that you you kind of need to do it. I [01:41:20] think in the modern world, I think one of the best things have come out of it is sort of networking and [01:41:25] meeting people. And also the University of Instagram, you see lots of stupid stuff. But again, [01:41:30] that’s down to you to take apart properly. But then there’s so much incredible things everyone wants to [01:41:35] show off. So they’re showing you all these amazing things and it’s like, oh wow, do they do that? How can I do this? How can I tweak that? How [01:41:40] can I apply that? And you can work it out, break it down and, and apply it to where you want to go. So it’s, [01:41:45] it’s awesome in that respect. Um, but then it’s more work. It’s a lot [01:41:50] of work to do it properly. I’ve been terrible these last few months of doing it because I’m focusing, I’ve got other projects [01:41:55] top secret, um, which at some point, uh, when when the pattern [01:42:00] clears, you’ll know about it. But, um, so I, you know, putting time into other [01:42:05] things and that side and the social media side suffered. And because you, you have [01:42:10] to commit yourself or like you said, get someone to [01:42:15] take that over for you. And that again, is probably me. And my [01:42:20] thought process is wrong on this thinking, like, if somebody does it, [01:42:25] they’re not going to get the right angles. They’re not going to try and say, because a lot of my posts are more for dentists, not patients, um, [01:42:30] pretty much all of them. And so that educational side and, and that bit, I feel it [01:42:35] would be difficult for someone to get right unless it’s me, but of course there would be ways around it. I just need to invest [01:42:40] the time and, you know, and plan it. And I’m sure I could. Um, but it’s, uh, [01:42:45] yeah, it’s, it’s a great thing and not a great thing on the same.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s finish with [01:42:50] some quick fire questions. What comes to mind when I say what’s the best lecture you’ve been to?

Mike Gray: Ah, so [01:42:55] my, um, can I have a favourite lecturer? So you know doctor Alice Roberts, [01:43:00] she, she does all that sort of coast to coast thing. She’s an anthropologist. Um, so all [01:43:05] this sort of discovery channel, things like, you know, they’re trying to work out Henry the Eighth.

Payman Langroudi: Or.

Mike Gray: That sort of thing. [01:43:10] Ah, she taught us in Bristol for anatomy and I fancied her. So [01:43:15] I was front row every lesson for, [01:43:20] for, for anatomy. So definitely. Uh, yeah. Doctor Alice Roberts, favourite lecturer.

Payman Langroudi: Nice. [01:43:25] If there was no like constraints at all time or money or anything, is [01:43:30] there a course you’d jump into tomorrow? Like what? What comes to mind?

Mike Gray: I was, I was signed up [01:43:35] to do, um, and it was hard and soft [01:43:40] tissue, a week of hard and soft tissue augmentation. And I’ve just spent too much money. [01:43:45] Uh, and it was, it’s like an eight grand course literally for a week. Um, and [01:43:50] so yeah, I, I want to get that done. Yeah. Tick that off a. It’d be nice to go to [01:43:55] Italy for the week. Both incredible. And I don’t do sort of block grafting. So that’s. [01:44:00] I need to tick that off and get that done. Because the type of implant work [01:44:05] I do, it’s all the sort of the difficult anterior stuff that people don’t want to do. That’s most of my cosmetic [01:44:10] now. I do a lot of the rehab stuff and that’s where. But a lot of it is, you know, [01:44:15] generally working between canines, often trauma or bad dentistry or that side of it. And so [01:44:20] that’s where I want to tick that block grafting side of things. Um, and yeah, [01:44:25] so.

Payman Langroudi: And what comes to mind if, if I say, um, [01:44:30] dentally, what, what, what if you had to give someone advice about, [01:44:35] do you think you’re qualified to give advice on, on this, like career wise, some, some younger [01:44:40] dentist wants to know what, which direction to go or not necessarily. I don’t want you to say ortho [01:44:45] or endo. Yeah, but, but which mindset to have because the thing I’ve been most impressed with you is [01:44:50] the mindset of like, anything’s possible kind of mindset that you’ve got going on as [01:44:55] long as you obsess into it. Yeah. But it’s also you’ve also got [01:45:00] a real like pragmatic edge to that. Yeah. You know, because, you know, someone can dive [01:45:05] into something and not be pragmatic. Yeah. What would you say? What advice would you give to a young dentist? [01:45:10]

Mike Gray: For me, just a broad foundation I think is fantastic. [01:45:15] Um, it’s difficult again, because and this [01:45:20] sort of ties in with stay in your lane, like, and, uh, because it’s [01:45:25] I’m terrible for this. I used to be even worse when I just graduated. Like, oh, such and such gone [01:45:30] off. And they’ve already done a post-grad training and they’re doing this. Oh, they’ve bought a practice and [01:45:35] you just, you look at yourself and be like, I’m useless. Like, what have I done? And [01:45:40] stay in your lane? And like I said, for me, my dentistry was terrible up until 5 or 6 years ago. [01:45:45] Um, and not terrible. I was decent for not knowing anything, but it wasn’t until I [01:45:50] put in started putting in that effort. Um, and so [01:45:55] it’s, yeah, stay in your lane. Just worry about yourself. Um, and again, social media [01:46:00] is terrible for that, isn’t it, with people portraying what they want to portray and not necessarily reality. [01:46:05] And then, um, it’s that broad foundation. I think [01:46:10] it can be very tempting because you think, oh, everyone’s doing this, I need to do this and I need [01:46:15] to specialise. Um, that you can get sort of [01:46:20] coaxed along into finding your niche too early. Whereas [01:46:25] for me, I had a huge base from surgical to restorative. One of the [01:46:30] profs I was with in the restorative process was endo. So I did a year of microscope endo. [01:46:35] Don’t do any of that now. Use it every day in my case assessment and [01:46:40] things. And so that foundation being so broad means I can, [01:46:45] you know, approach a lot with a, in a sensible way. Um, and.

Payman Langroudi: Interesting. [01:46:50]

Mike Gray: Even things outside of dentistry. You look at the, the mechanics on [01:46:55] the motorbikes and like, you know, metal fabrication or woodwork implants [01:47:00] are a self-tapping screw. I’ve done that a million times in metal and wood and all that side of it. So all [01:47:05] the principles stay the same and you can start then tearing things apart. Because when I’m looking at [01:47:10] implants now and I look at how we, we talk a bolt, which is something it’s crazy how precise we [01:47:15] try to be with implants. We’re so imprecise when we. The simplest thing of screwing [01:47:20] a, a bolt in and we talk it. Because you speak to someone [01:47:25] in a machine shop, which I do regularly when my bikes are falling apart. And that. And it’s like, okay, so talk [01:47:30] well, with the torque wrench, the bolt needs to be in motion when you’re talking. Otherwise, [01:47:35] the minute you stop, you’ve got coefficient of friction involved in that. You should lubricate the torque. What temperature [01:47:40] are things at? And we don’t look at any of that. We just kind of nip it up and it’s done.

Mike Gray: And it’s [01:47:45] so inaccurate and so straight away. Then I’m thinking, okay, how can I do things? So when I do my [01:47:50] implants, I call it a shakedown. When you build a motorbike, you take it out for a ride [01:47:55] and then you get it back and you check all the nuts and bolts and tighten up whatever’s come loose. So [01:48:00] whenever I fit an implant, I get them back two weeks, two months later, after they’ve been chewing on it and [01:48:05] check the torque on that bolt and again, checking the torque, you think, oh, you just nip it up. No, you have to back [01:48:10] it out first so that the bolt is turning without the coefficient of friction [01:48:15] having to overcome that. So you can actually get an accurate torque reading every [01:48:20] time. It will nip up a little bit. And whether that’s because of a temperature change or that side of it. So [01:48:25] when I say my implants out for a shakedown, always nips up a little bit afterwards, and there would be science [01:48:30] behind that. And somebody, somebody do a paper that won’t.

Payman Langroudi: Be verbal skills. Yeah. So because.

Mike Gray: It’s [01:48:35] that. So it’s that broad base.

Payman Langroudi: Debate says his design and tech GCSE [01:48:40] was much more useful is much more useful to him than chemistry [01:48:45] Biology. A level off for me. Agree?

Mike Gray: Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah [01:48:50] yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: Absolutely. And and it’s it’s that sort of, you know, [01:48:55] that and I and putting into that side of things. So, uh, yeah, broad [01:49:00] based though it can be frustrating, but nothing is wasted in that. And [01:49:05] like I said, there’s so many treatments I don’t do now, but because I’ve had experience and I understand them, it [01:49:10] all helps with building that foundation of the bigger cases [01:49:15] I’m doing now.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s get to the final, final bit of the pod, which [01:49:20] starts off with fancy dinner party. Um, three guests.

Mike Gray: Are. [01:49:25]

Payman Langroudi: Dead or alive?

Mike Gray: No. So for me, it’s it’s, you know, call [01:49:30] it, uh, sort of soft or cuddly or friends and family. [01:49:35] It’s, it’s, uh, like I said, I had the sad thing [01:49:40] of one of my childhood besties passing away, uh, New Year’s. And [01:49:45] would I be more sad if I went for [01:49:50] dinner with somebody famous or somebody passes away? Or [01:49:55] I went for a dinner with my friends and family and it’s I’m going to have the best night with the people. I get on with the. [01:50:00] I can have the most fun joke and laugh. And so yeah, just nearest [01:50:05] and dearest, closest friends. That would be my dinner party.

Payman Langroudi: It’s beautiful. It’s beautiful. I don’t normally allow [01:50:10] that sort of answer, you know, but on this occasion I will think on this occasion I will because, [01:50:15] you know, I’m like, you know, come on surely, Gandhi. Yeah. If you could sit with him. [01:50:20] But but on this occasion I will.

Mike Gray: And again, maybe that’s me being blasé because [01:50:25] I’ve been fortunate to meet lots of incredible people. I’ve met world champions, multiple world champions [01:50:30] in sport I’ve met.

Payman Langroudi: It doesn’t interest.

Mike Gray: You. People at the highest level in music. In [01:50:35] surgery. I’ve been fortunate to meet some of the best surgeons.

Payman Langroudi: That was that bit you did about the peeing [01:50:40] in the toilet? Even even Oasis have to pee in this toilet.

Mike Gray: But [01:50:45] that’s the.

Payman Langroudi: Thing. Yeah, that’s a good point. That was from that was from Rockfield Studios.

Mike Gray: So again, [01:50:50] I was fortunate to to have a recording session, Rockfield Studios, which famously Bohemian Rhapsody [01:50:55] was was created on the piano there. And like I said, you’ve had Oasis in there and they [01:51:00] did the album. What’s the what’s the story? Morning glory. And yeah, famously, they [01:51:05] had a microphone in the hallway that picked up some of the birds. So whenever you go there, everyone always puts this microphone in the hallway [01:51:10] and, and records it. But at the end of that hallway, there’s just a, just a grotty little toilet. Um, [01:51:15] and, and it’s funny, I went there to, to use the toilet and [01:51:20] I stood there and looking at this toilet and I’m thinking of all these incredible people that have [01:51:25] had to take a pee in that toilet before me. And it’s like, so again, advice [01:51:30] to anyone out there and young people, all these incredible dentists and things that you’re looking up to, whether you’re looking [01:51:35] up to me or yourself or anyone like that, they’ve all got to pee like you and I. [01:51:40] Yeah. So, uh, yeah, it’s a beautiful story. It’s a beautiful analogy.

Payman Langroudi: Love that man. It’s [01:51:45] been a massive pleasure, dude, a massive pleasure. I really learned a lot from your outlook. Uh, [01:51:50] you know, you say that broad base, but then you dive deep. Yeah. You know, that combination [01:51:55] is facilitates that though.

Mike Gray: And I think that’s, that’s that important side and that [01:52:00] stops you getting trapped.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mike Gray: Uh, like we said in that, oh, I have to do it this [01:52:05] way because this is how I’m, how I’m told.

Payman Langroudi: So kid on the way, huh?

Mike Gray: Yeah. [01:52:10] Got a baby due end of April, so I’m sure life would change.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Go berserk. Go [01:52:15] berserk from now until the baby’s done. Yeah. Yeah. Like, [01:52:20] go travel with that one year old. Yeah. It’s amazing. Yeah. Number one, you don’t pay your ticket. Yeah. You [01:52:25] know, once you start paying four times a flight to Thailand, you realise. Oh my [01:52:30] God. Yeah. Yeah. Enjoy. Enjoy it as well.

Mike Gray: As the [01:52:35] business side.

Payman Langroudi: Stop and smell the roses, too. Yeah.

Mike Gray: Yeah. Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Lovely to have you, man.

Mike Gray: Thank you. No [01:52:40] thank you ever so much. And like I said, absolute pleasure and privilege.

Payman Langroudi: To get a party together. Yeah. [01:52:45] In ministry. Yeah, absolutely.

Mike Gray: I’m looking forward to it. I’m going to be there.

Payman Langroudi: It’s going to be good.

Mike Gray: So, uh. Yeah. [01:52:50] Can’t wait.

Payman Langroudi: Sounds incredible. Thanks, man.

Mike Gray: No, thank you so much.

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Rawa Jawad Quinn is a dentist-turned-tech founder whose restless energy and refusal to be underestimated have shaped every chapter of her career. In this episode, she tells Payman about growing up in Chelsea after her Iraqi family fled Kuwait with nothing, studying in Liverpool, and working across 16 dental practices before channelling her frustrations into Medicube — a consent and patient communication platform built to give associates the consistency they’ve never had. The conversation takes some wonderfully unexpected detours into quantum physics, telepathy, AI-driven futures and the spiritual experiences that Rawa can’t quite explain but absolutely trusts. There’s also plenty of practical wisdom on occlusion, practice culture and what it really takes to bootstrap a dental tech start-up while raising a three-year-old without a nanny.

 

In This Episode

00:00:45 – Introduction and welcome

00:01:25 – Growing up on the Kings Road and childhood in Chelsea

00:03:30 – Studying dentistry in Liverpool and reinvention

00:07:00 – Dyslexia diagnosis and learning differently

00:10:10 – The itch beyond dentistry

00:14:00 – Fleeing Kuwait, starting over in the UK

00:16:25 – Why her parents’ medical careers put her off medicine

00:18:05 – Ambition, being underestimated and self-belief

00:23:15 – Spirituality, connectedness and trusting intuition

00:26:10 – Wanting it all — motherhood, marriage and a start-up

00:31:00 – Lessons from 16 dental practices

00:36:25 – Working in corporates and at Bupa

00:41:20 – NHS vs private practice

00:45:15 – The birth of Medicube

00:48:30 – How Medicube works and pilot results

00:55:55 – Finding a co-founder and the UCL connection

00:58:50 – Funding through grants, awards and bootstrapping

01:03:25 – AI, the Turing test and the future of work

01:10:25 – Robots, relationships and what makes us human

01:22:55 – Physics, multiverse theory and keeping an open mind

01:28:40 – Blackbox thinking

01:33:40 – A patient with buyer’s remorse after crown preps

01:36:55 – Occlusion, full mouth rehabs and the Dawson Academy

01:43:20 – Tech conferences and the reality of being a founder

01:47:05 – Fantasy dinner party

 

About Rawa Jawad Quinn

Rawa Jawad Quinn is a dentist based in Belfast, currently working at Bupa, with a particular interest in full mouth rehabilitation cases. She is also the co-founder of Medicube, a dental tech platform that streamlines consent, treatment planning and patient communication. Rawa trained at the Dawson Academy and Chris Hall’s programme, and has worked across 16 practices spanning NHS, private and corporate settings.

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[VOICE]: This [00:00:25] is Dental Leaders. The podcast where you [00:00:30] get to go one on one with emerging leaders in dentistry. Your [00:00:35] hosts Payman Langroudi and Prav [00:00:40] Solanki.

Payman Langroudi: It gives me great pleasure to welcome Jawad Quinn [00:00:45] to the podcast. Um, Rawa is a dentist who’s [00:00:50] now branched out into tech. Yeah. Um, with your Medicube product. [00:00:55] That’s correct. I’m very interested in that whole founder journey. Um, [00:01:00] everything that it takes. And I haven’t done it myself. Right? Yeah. The sort of Earth’s [00:01:05] gravitational pull, which I call dentistry and, you know, coming out of that [00:01:10] and, uh, your, your journey so far with, with the investment [00:01:15] co-founders, all of that really want to get into all of that. Yeah. [00:01:20] Lovely to have you.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Thank you so much. Thanks for having me. Payman really appreciate it.

Payman Langroudi: All the way from Belfast. [00:01:25]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. So I live in Belfast now.

Payman Langroudi: How long have you been there?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So I’ve been there for four years. [00:01:30] Um, it’s a great place. It’s very safe. Like you can leave [00:01:35] stuff anywhere and people won’t steal. Yeah, because everyone knows each other. Um. [00:01:40] So. No, I love Belfast. It’s really good.

Payman Langroudi: Where were you before? Belfast.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So I used to live in South London, [00:01:45] so I was like round Clapham.

Payman Langroudi: You grew up in South London?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, I grew up on the Kings Road. [00:01:50] Did you? Yeah, but we weren’t, we weren’t well off like we lived. Um, we lived [00:01:55] in a flat on the Kings Road.

Payman Langroudi: Um We’re both.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So literally [00:02:00] like it was, I think it was called there was a Guinness building. [00:02:05] We weren’t the Guinness building, which would be ironic. Me living in Belfast now. Um, [00:02:10] no, it was um winch house, that’s where we lived. So it was like right in the centre [00:02:15] of the King’s Road that like our flat is worth so much money. Now if we bought it, [00:02:20] but we didn’t. Um, and yeah, it was a nice upbringing. Well it was, [00:02:25] I went to Ashburnham School. It was a little school, like right near it. And [00:02:30] actually the community was so lovely. Like none of us like were very well off. [00:02:35] Um, you know, like high, like low socioeconomic. Um, [00:02:40] you know, loads of like very low household income families. [00:02:45] Um, but it was a really nice community and I’m like in touch with loads [00:02:50] of my friends from school.

Payman Langroudi: Um, they’re the best.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: They’re really nice.

Payman Langroudi: They are the best.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [00:02:55] Like I really wish them well. And they’re very sweet. Like.

Payman Langroudi: You know, I’ve got friends from school, from university [00:03:00] family, all that school friends or something else.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, it’s.

Payman Langroudi: Weird, isn’t it? What I find really [00:03:05] interesting is how little people change. You know, when we’re all 50, whatever, 52, whatever it is, 53. [00:03:10] Um, same character as the kid was when he was 11, you know?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: God, [00:03:15] I’ve had that realisation recently. Yeah. Like, I think even from the age of three, you [00:03:20] can kind of tell someone’s character. Yeah. And it sort of doesn’t ever change. [00:03:25]

Payman Langroudi: And where did you study dentistry?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So I studied in Liverpool. Um, [00:03:30] and it was great. Yeah, I really enjoyed. I’m still in contact with some of the lecturers actually, and they’re [00:03:35] very helpful. Um, with Medicube as well. They’ve been fantastic.

Payman Langroudi: Was [00:03:40] that on purpose you went to Liverpool or by mistake?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No. Well, I wanted to get out of London, to be honest. [00:03:45] Yeah, I did, I was like.

Payman Langroudi: That’s a good foresight to have that foresight to want to get out [00:03:50] because I didn’t.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Want.

Payman Langroudi: You know, when you’re 17, you think you know it all. I didn’t want to get out. I was [00:03:55] forced out like I didn’t get the grades. I ended up in my reserve place. [00:04:00]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s typical though, isn’t it? Yeah, it happens to so many.

Payman Langroudi: I adored it. It was the best thing that [00:04:05] ever happened. And then I forced my son, who just went to university, to leave London. Really? He [00:04:10] was thinking of Imperial College, which is like the building next door to his school. And he goes to the [00:04:15] lycée. The French school.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Amazing.

Payman Langroudi: And I said, listen, like, [00:04:20] leave and reinvent. And when I say reinvent, I don’t necessarily mean make up a new [00:04:25] person. It’s almost like this. This there’s someone in you who you’re not letting out because [00:04:30] of the, the guardrails, the kind of the framework that you’re growing up in. And [00:04:35] then you get to the new town. Were you like that when you got to Liverpool?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, I think Liverpool. I went there and I [00:04:40] did go mad and I was away from like family.

Payman Langroudi: Which year was it?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, so [00:04:45] God, it’s so long ago, 2009. So I was, I went mad, [00:04:50] I was wild. Were you, were you. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Excellent.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: And I think that was what was so funny. Like [00:04:55] even those friends that I made, they’re still in touch with still really good friends. Um, it’s [00:05:00] harder now to reach out, like as often, but whenever we see each other, it’s like nothing’s changed. [00:05:05] But they, they must have thought I was absolutely nuts because we’d [00:05:10] go on a night out. We’d have, like, so much fun would be wild and whatever. And then it [00:05:15] got to like February and I just like started to become really elusive and [00:05:20] they like, wouldn’t see me anymore and I would be in the library, like constantly because [00:05:25] the other side of me came out of like, oh my God, I’ve been having too much fun and like, I’m [00:05:30] gonna fail.

Payman Langroudi: Wait, were you like a girly swot in school?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, no, [00:05:35] I was a real, um, I think at school, I was like a drifter. [00:05:40] I was always a drifter. Just drift between different groups. Um, and [00:05:45] then. But I would work really hard because, like, I am actually like dyslexic. [00:05:50] Um, and that was diagnosed very late, that was diagnosed at university. [00:05:55] So I had a lot of coping mechanisms and strategies. I used to like work really, really [00:06:00] hard. And, um, university was hard for me. Like academically, [00:06:05] I’ve really actually found it very difficult. Um, so yeah, my friends would find it so funny [00:06:10] because like from February to June, you wouldn’t see me. I would be in the library like, [00:06:15] so.

Payman Langroudi: Put it, verbalise it for me. Like the feeling of being dyslexic. Are [00:06:20] there certain concepts you just can’t pick up and others that you find really easy?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No. Like [00:06:25] now honestly doesn’t show for me. My dyslexia is like really not obvious, but I’ll [00:06:30] explain it like this. When I was a kid learning about the world, I couldn’t [00:06:35] grasp why things were done a certain way. So like when I was taught the [00:06:40] alphabet and the time, those were two times I specifically remember at school being [00:06:45] incredibly frustrated. I would like, I just couldn’t understand because I was like, [00:06:50] really? I was smart, but when it came to those two things. I couldn’t understand [00:06:55] what they were teaching me. Why they were teaching me, what was the value of what I was learning. [00:07:00] And it really frustrated me. And I would like get I would get really upset and [00:07:05] like, that’s.

Payman Langroudi: Because you were undiagnosed as well.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yes, yes. And back then [00:07:10] it wasn’t like dyslexia wasn’t a thing. It was like, okay, you’re not listening. You’re not focusing, [00:07:15] you know, so I that was what I found really hard. Um, but actually it’s been [00:07:20] a bit of a superpower, if I’m honest, like.

Payman Langroudi: Some of the most successful people are dyslexic.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I mean, [00:07:25] yeah, I mean, only recently I’ve been able to like account a lot of my success to [00:07:30] my dyslexia. The upside is huge. Like so, okay, so things like this, like [00:07:35] I can read loads of different books and topics that are completely unrelated [00:07:40] and I can see like a thread of how they link and I can like reapply [00:07:45] concepts. So it’s really fun. Like I am a big picture thinker, so [00:07:50] I can see I can like basically learn something about, yeah, completely unrelated topic, reapply [00:07:55] it somewhere else. And it’s really fun. I love doing that. And that’s how I’ve always learned [00:08:00] actually, even, um, I think with maths, even I loved learning [00:08:05] to do things the long, hard way because that meant I understood them [00:08:10] and I can re-apply pieces to different. Um, so.

Payman Langroudi: Is that when you, when you’re looking [00:08:15] at something, do you have to understand it fully?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Some people, some people [00:08:20] like that.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: And I am like that.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. It’s a pain, but it’s also brilliant because yeah, once you [00:08:25] understand it fully, then you can really like adjust it and make it yours.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Totally. [00:08:30]

Payman Langroudi: I noticed that with people I know who are like that, but if you want to explain something to them, you can’t just gloss [00:08:35] over it. You have to go from the beginning.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, that’s what’s frustrating for a lot of people. [00:08:40] Like explaining stuff to me, especially my husband. He gets so wound up trying to explain [00:08:45] stuff, but it’s because like, so where it’s been so beneficial is [00:08:50] in dentistry as well. I struggled so much to learn [00:08:55] dentistry. And then when I came out into practice, I don’t know what happened. [00:09:00] It just like all came together so fast and like I could see, um, [00:09:05] I can’t explain it. Like I just, I was so focussed on like, okay, [00:09:10] this is what I want to do in my career. I had this goal three years in. I was like, I want to be the best [00:09:15] dentist in the world. And that was like what I was working to. And very early on, I worked [00:09:20] in really high end private practice and I was mentored. Actually, [00:09:25] I had lived in Belfast in 2017 and 2018, just for a year and a half, worked [00:09:30] at a really high end practice there called Gentle Dental Care, was mentored by the dentist there. [00:09:35] She is incredible. Like I would still.

Payman Langroudi: Chat her up.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Worship her. Lucy [00:09:40] Stock she’s amazing. She’s amazing. Dentist. Um, and then [00:09:45] I did like the crystal course and um, that was incredible as well. Really good foundation. [00:09:50] Everything just came together and I just realised, um, I [00:09:55] think I just, I like really my career just leapt forward really fast. Right? And I got [00:10:00] really good at doing dentistry, but then I realised that it [00:10:05] just sort of came crashing down really early where I was like, this isn’t enough. [00:10:10] Like this isn’t going to make me happy. I can’t do this forever. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: That [00:10:15] feeling too.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: How old were you when that happened?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Uh, 29. [00:10:20]

Payman Langroudi: 28.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Were you? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You know what, I was sitting. I figured out how to do veneers. [00:10:25] I think it was at the time. There was no Invisalign back then. I’d figured out veneers, and I was really happy [00:10:30] about veneers. I was making loads of money, and I suddenly had this moment [00:10:35] where I thought, even if I do the best [00:10:40] job in the world, my impact is five miles radius of [00:10:45] this building. And at the time I was in Folkestone somewhere. You know, I was in. Yeah. V t plus [00:10:50] one kind of job. Yeah. And I wanted more impact. I childishly, [00:10:55] if I have to be honest, be honest with you. It was a bit childish because you can have impact, right? [00:11:00] You can open 100 practices if you’re man enough or woman enough. Yeah, yeah. So I could have had impact. But [00:11:05] somehow in that childish moment, I thought my impact has to be something other than being a [00:11:10] dentist.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, I totally see that. I do see that completely. And I think [00:11:15] for me, there was, there was a bit more of a frustration, not [00:11:20] the impact so much. What I found was like, you could build [00:11:25] a really strong foundation in one practice. Then if something [00:11:30] happened to that job and you were not happy and you had to move to another practice, you’re starting again training [00:11:35] a team, um, building that trust in the [00:11:40] team and the workflow and everything. And that was a huge problem for me. And [00:11:45] then what I found was I’ve worked at a lot of practices, by the way, I’ve worked at 16 practices [00:11:50] and I’ve really and that’s another one of my superpowers that really gets [00:11:55] underestimated. I can walk into a practice. I can work there for [00:12:00] maybe two weeks. And I can tell you exactly, uh, pretty [00:12:05] much who shouldn’t work there, who’s not interested, who’s, who’s not trainable. [00:12:10] You know, there are people who take on jobs, and you can’t train [00:12:15] them to be any better than they are because they’ll never care. Um, I get that sense really fast. [00:12:20] And, um, so.

Payman Langroudi: It’s like an EQ thing rather than an IQ thing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I don’t [00:12:25] know, I don’t think.

Payman Langroudi: I have emotional intelligence that you sort of understand people quickly.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I don’t think I have great [00:12:30] EQ, I honestly don’t. Like I’m not, I’m not that like, you know, there are people that are really charming [00:12:35] and they can like sell anything. I don’t think I’m like that, but I don’t, I. [00:12:40] I don’t know what it is. I can just tell straight away, but usually I have to work with someone. I have to get [00:12:45] a sense of their, um, how they complete their tasks.

Payman Langroudi: Like a member of staff, [00:12:50] a nurse or something.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Their attention to detail, reception team, pretty much everyone. I get like a strong sense of. [00:12:55]

Payman Langroudi: I definitely want to talk about this then because whenever I talk to a specialist. Yeah, you know how specialist, a [00:13:00] lot of them jump between 16 practices.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: I’m really fascinated by the notion of, [00:13:05] so what lessons do you learn from like good and bad from different practices? [00:13:10] I do want to go there.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: 100%.

Payman Langroudi: Not right now, but I do want to go there because, you know, it’s [00:13:15] one of those I’ve only ever worked in for practices. So and [00:13:20] each one was completely different. And so, you know, your experience and practices is [00:13:25] quadruple mine, right? So I’m interested to hear those lessons.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: And even like I’ve worked at big [00:13:30] practices as well. So you see huge teams. Um, so you’re exposed to a [00:13:35] lot of people. So I’ve worked at really big, really small NHS private, high end bog [00:13:40] standard. I’ve done, I’ve done it all. I think that was also my my piece of my dyslexia. [00:13:45] Being like, I really need to understand dentistry before I really know where I want [00:13:50] to place myself. That probably is part of my I mean, I don’t know if it’s dyslexia or my personality [00:13:55] really.

Payman Langroudi: But a couple of things are a bit of a rewind. You said you were in, uh, [00:14:00] Chelsea. Westminster. Sorry. Chelsea and Kensington. Kensington, Chelsea in [00:14:05] a low socioeconomic group, but both your parents are doctors.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yes. Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So how [00:14:10] does that play out?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, um, so we so basically we used to live [00:14:15] in Kuwait, um, when I was young, and then the war broke out between Iraq [00:14:20] and Kuwait and I’m Iraqi while.

Payman Langroudi: Living in Kuwait.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: While we were living in Kuwait.

Payman Langroudi: So [00:14:25] Iraq was number one.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Which is so interesting because like, I’ve never in my [00:14:30] life really been able to understand, like actually what [00:14:35] happened to us in like a, like visceral sense because like we had [00:14:40] all of our assets seized. Um, so my parents lost everything. Like [00:14:45] we were living a great life out there. You know, they were doing very well. Um, what.

Payman Langroudi: Kind of doctor’s.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Orders? Um, [00:14:50] so my dad’s a paediatrician. He didn’t do that anymore. He went into GP and my mum, I [00:14:55] don’t think she actually specialised in anything. She was just a general, um GP [00:15:00] uh, sorry. General doctor went on to be a GP and um so yeah, [00:15:05] we had all of our assets seized. It was me, my brother and sister, you know, I was like [00:15:10] three at the time. My sister was um like ten and my [00:15:15] brother was like eight. And uh, yeah, we just had to.

Payman Langroudi: Run [00:15:20] away to the UK.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Came to the UK.

Payman Langroudi: Um, start from completely zero.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [00:15:25] And it was really difficult as well because back in those days, like you would. So my dad would was [00:15:30] trying to get recruited to be in the army and all of this stuff. And it was really hard. So it was, it was [00:15:35] really uncertain time. But anyway, we got to the UK. Um, and then yeah, [00:15:40] we didn’t really have anything and my parents had to basically train up from being like the equivalent [00:15:45] qualify. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Because they studied in Iraq.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, essentially. Yeah. [00:15:50] Well they studied in Egypt.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. So they had to kind of, um, [00:15:55] start as a v t basically not a v t um.

Payman Langroudi: During the doctor.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Junior doctor. [00:16:00] Yeah, exactly. Which I think was a bit of, you know, it’s a bit humiliating for [00:16:05] a doctor who’s worked so long and has done so well for themselves. And now you’re just training with like new [00:16:10] grads. So, um, and they were working a lot. They were doing a lot of night shifts, [00:16:15] um, different parts of the UK, like my mum [00:16:20] was in Doncaster at one point, my dad was in Wales. Um, but at the time.

Payman Langroudi: Was [00:16:25] it enough to put you off medicine?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: 100%. Oh my God, 1,000,000%. [00:16:30] Like I see, I see people now that are doctors that are married and [00:16:35] I just I listened to their story now and they’re like, yeah, we don’t have kids because we [00:16:40] don’t know how we’ll make it work. So I think now it’s like people are very responsible. When [00:16:45] you bring a child into the world, you want to have a good, you know, a good [00:16:50] life for them. And I think it’s put a lot of doctors off, but it’s very unfair on them. [00:16:55] Like I don’t think it gets enough publicity on like how hard it is for them to raise kids, [00:17:00] how traumatising it is for their children. I mean, that was a huge part of like, [00:17:05] um, you know, my upbringing was like very much like my, my sister [00:17:10] when I mean, my mum had to kind of go and work when I was maybe like six, [00:17:15] um, my sister was 16 and it was really difficult, like [00:17:20] my sister was taking on like the role of caring for me. Um, and [00:17:25] that was hard. That was really.

Payman Langroudi: Underestimate it when both parents are in medicine. I mean, I know [00:17:30] loads of people where one of them is a surgeon and the other one is running everything at [00:17:35] home. But then I know loads of people, two doctors, and either one of them has to take [00:17:40] a real break on their career or, you know, nannies come into [00:17:45] play.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Yeah, definitely.

Payman Langroudi: But that notion of, you know, my brother, my brother and his [00:17:50] wife are doctors, both of them. And right now at this moment, they’ve got two young kids. And [00:17:55] there isn’t one day that all four of them are together. Yeah, even during the weekend.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s so.

Payman Langroudi: Sad. Which [00:18:00] is which is difficult, right? It’s so hard trying to address it, but yeah, but you’re right, it doesn’t get talked about enough. [00:18:05] Tell me about the ambition piece because you’re clearly very ambitious. It’s very [00:18:10] obvious.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Is it.

Payman Langroudi: Obvious? Yeah. Were you always know? [00:18:15] Was there an inflection point?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, God, I was. So this is actually I think this goes a lot back [00:18:20] to my upbringing. I was very underestimated as a child. Oh, yeah. So I, um, look, [00:18:25] I grew up in a, in a household where I, you know, I had to figure a lot out for myself. [00:18:30] And it was it was very difficult. Like it wasn’t like I wasn’t [00:18:35] like read bedtime stories and I wasn’t like, you know, I, I just got on [00:18:40] with it. And it was hard. Like it wasn’t a nice, um, [00:18:45] upbringing. And I think what that did was it created a sense [00:18:50] of, okay, so as a child, it created a lot of confusion. [00:18:55] Um, because I.

Payman Langroudi: They were positives, right? Self-reliance, that sort of thing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, but as a child, you don’t [00:19:00] see it that way. As a child, you think everyone has your life. So then [00:19:05] you go to school and you pick up on things like, I don’t know, really unusual things [00:19:10] like just how cared for people other people are. And you do sort of [00:19:15] think, huh, that’s weird. Like, you know, just it just, [00:19:20] it just occurs to you and you don’t really understand why they’re living such a different life to you. [00:19:25] Um, and then as you get older, you kind of realise a [00:19:30] bit more what happened. And then I think it takes a really long time to process your childhood. I think a lot of people [00:19:35] in their 30s are still processing their childhood. And for me, um, very [00:19:40] early on, I realised that being a child was it just was [00:19:45] it sucked. And the reason it sucked is because I had no say in what I do. So after [00:19:50] that, it was like, when I’m an adult, I’m going to take full control of my life. And [00:19:55] I think what happened was I just realised that there was like, nothing I couldn’t [00:20:00] do if I put my mind to it. So the ambition piece comes from the self-belief [00:20:05] of like, I genuinely know that there’s like nothing [00:20:10] that I can’t do. Like if I. It might take me years, it might take my whole [00:20:15] life. But if I put my mind to it, like I’ll do it. And [00:20:20] so I think it’s just, it’s self-assurance, it’s belief.

Payman Langroudi: Um, it’s interesting, [00:20:25] you know, like some people thrive in like, institutional setup? [00:20:30]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, I noticed that.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Some people love school and uni love rules. You know, [00:20:35] like they like hard lines. Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, almost it [00:20:40] breaks their heart when someone breaks one of those rules and, you know, they almost feel like, well, how come [00:20:45] I’m following the rule and this person isn’t? For the sake of the argument and other people thrive in [00:20:50] the opposite situation where, you know, like you say you can in your life and business, [00:20:55] you can make massive leaps if you make the right moves. Whereas in school, you can’t, [00:21:00] you can’t. You’re stuck in that system and people thrive in that. You [00:21:05] know.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That’s actually so interesting because that’s what I picked up on like at school. I was so [00:21:10] underestimated.

Payman Langroudi: So are you the type of person if someone says, I don’t believe [00:21:15] you can do that, that drives you to.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I just find it funny when people say things like [00:21:20] that because I’m like, how do you know what I can do?

Payman Langroudi: No, but I used to live with a guy and he was a medic. [00:21:25] Yeah. And we were getting to the end of our course, and this guy was scraping through, continuously scraping through, [00:21:30] almost getting kicked out. And then we got to the end and he said, yeah, I want to be a surgeon. And I went, [00:21:35] come on, man.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You know, why don’t you just become a GP? Yeah, because, you know, and he went [00:21:40] on to become one of the world’s top surgeons in his area. Wow. And I had dinner with him and he said, [00:21:45] you know that thing you told me? That’s what made me do because you underestimated me. And [00:21:50] so I was like.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I love.

Payman Langroudi: That.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. I mean, I think there’s a bit of that. [00:21:55]

Payman Langroudi: It’s like a red rag to a bull, you know, like.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. But I think honestly, I think, um, sometimes you’re [00:22:00] underestimated.

Payman Langroudi: Underestimated your parents.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, I.

Payman Langroudi: Would.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Say, I’d [00:22:05] just say everybody, like I would say everyone probably in my early life underestimated.

Payman Langroudi: Why? Because [00:22:10] you were like, uh.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Quiet, quiet. I was very quiet.

Payman Langroudi: You didn’t come across quiet.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’m [00:22:15] not anymore. Yeah, but this is the thing. I think you have, like.

Payman Langroudi: That reinvention piece in Liverpool. [00:22:20]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, well, I think I’ve reinvented myself so many times, but now I’m like, I [00:22:25] think after a while you’re sort of like, who actually am I? And then you remember who you are, who you are deep [00:22:30] down and stuff. So a lot of it is like, for me, I honestly don’t care if people [00:22:35] think I can do something or not. I’m very stoic about things now. I’m like, if I need [00:22:40] you to believe in me, I will put some energy into that, [00:22:45] right? But if I don’t, then you can do what you want. I’ll do what I want. We’ll move [00:22:50] in our own circles. So I just have this thing where I’m like, I conserve my energy for what’s important. [00:22:55] And in terms of like, there’s a lot of self-belief, [00:23:00] but there’s a lot of feeling like I need to do things because, um, [00:23:05] it’s weird. Sometimes I feel like you’re guided by something like I definitely feel guided, [00:23:10] like I feel guided by, I don’t know whether it’s a higher power or um. [00:23:15]

Payman Langroudi: But you said you don’t believe in.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’m not religious, but I believe in God. Yeah. I do believe [00:23:20] in God. I mean, I don’t believe in like God in the same sense that like necessarily how [00:23:25] other people talk about God. But I do believe in like a higher power. Um, I believe we’re all connected. [00:23:30] I’ve always believed that, um, pray, I pray at [00:23:35] night time, but my prayer is more like, um, so I do a lot of, um, uh, [00:23:40] gratitude and, uh, I just pray for just people to be well, [00:23:45] um, and yeah, and just, yeah, just be, I just be grateful for a moment [00:23:50] and I just like thank, um, like I usually just thank the universe, but that’s for me, that’s the [00:23:55] higher power that I’m thanking. Um, but yeah, I think, I think the key thing is, [00:24:00] I do believe we’re all connected. So that’s a huge, um, part of how I live my [00:24:05] life. Like I don’t do things to hurt people because I’m like.

Payman Langroudi: Like in a karmic way like that. [00:24:10]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, I guess so. Yeah. Yeah. Because I think that we’re all kind [00:24:15] of the same person walking different lives. We’re all connected. You just need to want well [00:24:20] for everyone. So, you know, when it comes to like, if I need people [00:24:25] to believe in me, it’s got to be like, you know, if I need do [00:24:30] you know what I mean? Like it’s got to be stoic. So I want well, for other people, if they don’t believe in me, I’m not going to be upset about [00:24:35] it. But yeah, it does drive me sometimes because I’m like, but also [00:24:40] not really anymore because I know where I’m going. I know what I’m doing. I know why I’m doing [00:24:45] it. If someone doesn’t believe in it, then I don’t care. How old are you? I’m 35.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, [00:24:50] you look a bit younger. Do I? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: How old did you think I was? That’s [00:24:55] compliment. I like being.

Payman Langroudi: Told. I wasn’t saying that for a compliment. Just like. No, but. But there is something [00:25:00] I don’t know. Do you think women take longer to get to this point that [00:25:05] you’re at, or sort of knowing yourself?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, I don’t think that actually. [00:25:10] I think the opposite.

Payman Langroudi: I come across 1 or 2 women who say that, right? They say, oh, you know, for a [00:25:15] woman, knowing yourself takes longer. And, you know, in uni, I didn’t think that [00:25:20] I come across, you know, 18 who know themselves quite well.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. I [00:25:25] think do you know what’s really interesting? I think I really got to know myself after I, um, [00:25:30] got pregnant and that’s really strange. But when I got pregnant, I felt so spiritual [00:25:35] and it was like, it was very, it [00:25:40] was really, really like spiritual amazing time for me. Um, [00:25:45] and then after when I, you know, had my little girl, I think now I just feel so connected [00:25:50] to her. Like I almost think we’re telepathic sometimes. Like it’s just so strange. [00:25:55] Like, I’ll have a thought and she’ll have a thought. We’ll wake up at the same time and think loads of weird [00:26:00] things. And she’s three and a half.

Payman Langroudi: Is you any kid?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, she’s my only child. Yeah. [00:26:05] God, I don’t think I can handle going through it all again, but no, I think, I think, [00:26:10] um.

Payman Langroudi: How do you feel around the subject of, like, wanting it all.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: About what?

Payman Langroudi: Wanting it [00:26:15] all.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: What do you mean, wanting it all?

Payman Langroudi: You know, like you want a child, you want a husband, you want [00:26:20] a business, you want a.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I want it all. I do want it all. Yeah, yeah, I want it all. And I don’t think that’s a problem. [00:26:25]

Payman Langroudi: I think. Do you think like, something’s going to give? Like something has to give? In this situation. [00:26:30] So. So then what gives? Right? So yeah, so so let me tell you what I think. Like [00:26:35] your relationship with your child is not going to give.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, I know.

Payman Langroudi: You’re not going to let your business give [00:26:40] because the moment you let your business give. That it goes away all together. Yeah. And it tends [00:26:45] to be either your own health and happiness. That gives or [00:26:50] your relationship sometimes being the. I find the second kid does that more. [00:26:55] Than the.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: First probably. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But but you know that notion that we’re sold that I can have it all. I [00:27:00] found it’s a little bit toxic, a little bit toxic in that in that, you know, what is all. [00:27:05] Uh, the next person could say all is 100 practices. Yeah, yeah. So can [00:27:10] you have 100 practices and a Start-Up and a woman and a child and a had, um, [00:27:15] Anushka from the mirror.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, yeah. Cool.

Payman Langroudi: Three children, 600 employees, 43 [00:27:20] practices.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: She’s done well. She’s done amazing. I remember applying for a job with one of her [00:27:25] practices in like 2015, 2016, and I think they had half the number they have now. [00:27:30]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: She’s amazing. Yeah. She sounds brilliant.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, I think of Linda Greenwall [00:27:35] for children. She’s written books. She travels all over the world. Lecturing has her own [00:27:40] massive practice at the same time. But something my point is, wanting [00:27:45] it all will lead to disappointment. Yeah, and it doesn’t matter. Doesn’t matter. It’s fine. Yeah, [00:27:50] but the notion of something’s going to give. And then don’t let that break your heart.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [00:27:55] Look, I agree with you. I know when I started this journey, [00:28:00] especially with the business that something was always going to have to give. [00:28:05] And founders will say it all the time. No, you’re hard. [00:28:10] Like know what you’re willing to give up. And I know what I’m willing to give up there is [00:28:15] like I’ve said, I’ve, you know, said it very clearly. [00:28:20] Even when like I do set my intention for the day, I know exactly what [00:28:25] I’m focussed on and what will suffer. And for me, it’s not a choice. [00:28:30] It’s just what I have to do to make this business go. And it just means I don’t have [00:28:35] like, you know, there’s loads of people that have an amazing social life. They’re out all the time partying, having fun. [00:28:40] I just know I can’t do that. Like with what I’m trying to achieve at this point, like I can’t [00:28:45] go out and have fun. I can’t go drinking whenever I want. I can’t, [00:28:50] you know, do all these things. I have to be really focussed. I have to [00:28:55] be, you know, like, and with my daughter, it’s hard. Like I did find there was a period where I [00:29:00] wasn’t spending as much time as her with her as I should, but what I did was I changed that [00:29:05] narrative to the time I spend with her is ring fenced. It’s precious. [00:29:10] We spend really rich time together and, um. Yeah. [00:29:15] And, uh, and that’s funny. No, we don’t have a nanny. We have. No, [00:29:20] no, we don’t have a nanny. It’s just we just manage like, it’s really hard, but [00:29:25] we have like. Yeah, to be fair, I don’t know.

Payman Langroudi: How you wouldn’t [00:29:30] do dentistry without a nurse.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Doing a child and a business without a nanny.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [00:29:35] You’re right.

Payman Langroudi: It’s hard.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: You’re right. To be honest, in Belfast, it’s not that easy to locate nannies. [00:29:40] Um, you can get. Yeah. It’s not part of the culture. You can get [00:29:45] babysitters. So we have babysitters. Yeah. Um, but yeah, no, we work really hard. Even [00:29:50] me and my husband work really hard and it isn’t easy. Um, and yeah, so that, that [00:29:55] we know that things.

Payman Langroudi: But this thing you’re saying about quality time. Yeah. Rich time nanny [00:30:00] really is perfect for that.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. That’s good. That’s true.

Payman Langroudi: Like, I don’t know, it’s [00:30:05] a bit like, do you have a cleaner? Yeah, yeah. So, you know, like in the time that the cleaner is ironing, [00:30:10] you could be having quality time with your child. Yeah, yeah, it’s a similar kind [00:30:15] of thing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You’re right. As this business takes off and you’re nowhere, right? 23 is [00:30:20] nothing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Yeah, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. You might have to be in Europe [00:30:25] once a month. You might. You know, it might be.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I know. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: My top customer [00:30:30] was in Amsterdam for, for years. You know, like it was, you know, that was where he was. Um, [00:30:35] it’s just, it’s just, you know, especially if you have a second.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [00:30:40]

Payman Langroudi: Are you saying you’ve ruled that out?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Haven’t ruled it out? I don’t know how we’ll do it, but [00:30:45] you’re right. Maybe that’s it. A nanny?

[BOTH]: Yeah. Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: There you go. I’ll take that on board.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s [00:30:50] go on to. Okay. You. You qualified?

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You started working in different [00:30:55] dental practices and these 16 practices you worked at.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s go on to that piece. [00:31:00] What were the what were the lessons you learned, good and bad?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, [00:31:05] the main one, I would say, and they say this a lot, but as [00:31:10] an associate, I think a lot of associates don’t pick up on this, that your reception [00:31:15] team is a huge part of why you might be getting [00:31:20] complaints. So your reception team can be really upsetting [00:31:25] and annoying patients without you knowing. Um, and what it tends to do [00:31:30] is kind of upset the patients, but not enough that they’d complain. But then as soon [00:31:35] as something else goes wrong, they’ll complain. Then they’ll write a letter. And what was [00:31:40] frustrating for me is when you receive those letters where like most of it, [00:31:45] is about how the practice is run or like their dealings with the reception [00:31:50] team, and then like maybe two lines on something that happened clinically. [00:31:55] And then as an associate, you’re given that complaint to handle and you’re sort [00:32:00] of thinking, yeah, but is this really is this really towards me? Um, [00:32:05] so I picked up on that a lot. Um, I think reception teams are essential. [00:32:10]

[BOTH]: They’re like, do you think it.

Payman Langroudi: Emanates from the top though?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Like, yeah, I do. Absolutely. I think [00:32:15] the culture comes from the very top. I worked at some practices where the [00:32:20] owner was, uh, amazing. I mean, he was like on [00:32:25] site every week with the practice managers getting [00:32:30] an outline of how people were performing. And he would have reviews [00:32:35] with each dentist. He would have like performance reviews. Um, he [00:32:40] had internal courses. And I think I learned a lot from observing [00:32:45] that because, you know, most practices don’t do that. They don’t speak to their associates like [00:32:50] the owners will not, you know, especially if it’s corporate won’t really speak to their associates. Um, [00:32:55] so I think embedding a structure and a culture in [00:33:00] your practice is really important, but it’s a tricky one because associates [00:33:05] are self-employed. They don’t like to be over scrutinised. Um. I don’t think [00:33:10] there’s like a perfect answer, but what I have um, found and this was a huge part of why [00:33:15] we launched Medicube is that you’ve got to give your associates [00:33:20] the tools they need to make money. Like if you’re trying to make cuts and you’re [00:33:25] sort of like, oh, we can’t really get an optra gate or we can’t get like that [00:33:30] clamp you want or whatever it or even like a face bow like they [00:33:35] are, you know, get them a face bow, for God’s sakes. Like if they’re asking you, they’ve done a course, they want [00:33:40] to get it for them because they’re going to generate, you know, ten X that in revenue or whatever, [00:33:45] just do it. But I see a lot of, um, practices trying to make cuts. If [00:33:50] you’re not going to give your associates the tools to make money, they’re not going to make money.

Payman Langroudi: So true, man. [00:33:55] I don’t know, maybe it’s the one moving part they can affect. [00:34:00]

[BOTH]: I mean, yeah, but.

Payman Langroudi: The total cost to the practice of all the materials [00:34:05] they buy, if it’s a crazy spender, is, [00:34:10] I don’t know, 8%. And if it’s a totally tight guy, [00:34:15] it’s like 6%.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So it’s not going to make a big difference to the final. [00:34:20] Yeah. But you’re right about the associate. If there’s a material or a technique [00:34:25] that is the right one, and then you can hand on heart, tell your patient, I can do [00:34:30] this. The tonality in your voice is going to make that treatment go through. You’re going [00:34:35] to do it right. You’re not going to get an unhappy patient at the end of it. Like all these little things. Yeah, but [00:34:40] but somehow it’s like people are more focussed on the cost of things than on the profit [00:34:45] that they can generate.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: And they’ve got it so wrong. And you know what’s really frustrating [00:34:50] when you’re dealing with a, um, you know, a [00:34:55] head nurse or something and you have to go through the head nurse to get this piece of equipment, [00:35:00] but it makes no sense.

Payman Langroudi: It’s in the corporate setting.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I mean, I’ve seen that a lot, not [00:35:05] just in corporate settings. I think they, they, you know, often be done to, [00:35:10] you know, ask that person and then that person has a budget and, you know, and it’s [00:35:15] kind of like, okay, but it’s going to take me an hour longer to, [00:35:20] you know, and at my hourly rate. Is that really going to make sense? What if we [00:35:25] order this tool, we have it and you know, everyone’s happy. Patients are happy, [00:35:30] you know? So I think that I think there is maybe there’s just actually [00:35:35] a bit of a problem with how dentistry is structured. And like, I really [00:35:40] enjoy like thought experiments and like disruption. I really, really like love things [00:35:45] like that. I do think like the whole head nurse thing, [00:35:50] like, does it work? Like, does it really work? You know, head nurse ordering stock, [00:35:55] um, and things like that. I don’t know if there needs to be like another. [00:36:00]

[BOTH]: Um, what you often.

Payman Langroudi: See the opposite problem, where they haven’t [00:36:05] assigned any one head nurse and someone like the owner himself is, is doing the work [00:36:10] that the owner shouldn’t be doing, you know? So you see that side as well?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. And then you [00:36:15] see the other thing where sometimes the practice manager does everything and they’re non-clinical and they don’t [00:36:20] understand. And so I don’t.

[BOTH]: Know, you’re.

Payman Langroudi: A hooper now.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’m at Bupa now.

[BOTH]: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And have you been [00:36:25] at other corporates as well.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’ve been at a lot of corporates.

[BOTH]: I’ve probably.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Been at five [00:36:30] different.

[BOTH]: Corporates.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: About five corporates. And then independence. So I [00:36:35] worked at Smart Dental for a bit. I worked at Obex. [00:36:40]

[BOTH]: Oh were you? I worked at.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Inspire. I think [00:36:45] it’s called inspire. Um, um, I honestly, [00:36:50] I need to, I need to look at my CV. No, I nearly took a job with my dentist. [00:36:55] I didn’t take one in the end with them. They use R4. I’m not really keen on R4.

Payman Langroudi: Any [00:37:00] war.

[BOTH]: But they don’t.

Payman Langroudi: Tell me about now.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, so Bupa is good. [00:37:05] Bupa is good. I like the way they run. Um, but no, I don’t [00:37:10] have a lot of opinions really on the way. And also I find with Bupa as well, like I [00:37:15] know I’ve spoken to management a few times like the higher tier management. Um, [00:37:20] and they’re not that open to receiving feedback either, [00:37:25] which I find really interesting. Um, so I think generally in the Dental world, you do find like [00:37:30] they don’t, people just sort of don’t want to know if you’ve got feedback for them. [00:37:35]

Payman Langroudi: I don’t think generally you can, you can, you can generalise about that. Yeah. Because there are lots of very [00:37:40] innovative dentists out there with the corporate you have to understand, right. 8000 [00:37:45] people under Mark Allen, you know.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: 8000.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:37:50] With over 100 number of sites they’ve got.

[BOTH]: Mhm.

Payman Langroudi: Um I mean [00:37:55] I get it as well, insomuch as even if he wants to do X, Y, and Z. Not possible. [00:38:00] That’s a tanker.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I find quite interesting in that they they sort of high [00:38:05] on their own supply of, of that question of we’re a non-profit, which is cool [00:38:10] in a way. Yeah. It’s nice. It’s a nice thing, you know, that profit isn’t the absolute [00:38:15] centre of everything.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And yet in the end, profit is. Right. [00:38:20]

[BOTH]: So yeah, you’ve got to.

Payman Langroudi: Someone’s got to be responsible for budgets.

[BOTH]: And.

Payman Langroudi: And [00:38:25] all of that. But it’s just nice to hear them talk the way they were.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s very [00:38:30] idealistic.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I mean, but you know, I’ve looked at I looked at buying a dental practice [00:38:35] a few years ago. Yeah, yeah. So I really explored what I was going to do for a long time before I decided [00:38:40] I was going to do this. Um, and I looked at the [00:38:45] margins of dental practices and I can see how they are very tight at [00:38:50] like it is hard for dental owners. I wouldn’t, I don’t envy all of their positions [00:38:55] too, To because at the same time, like I’m talking as an associate, and if I was [00:39:00] in that situation.

[BOTH]: Very.

Payman Langroudi: Different.

[BOTH]: Very.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Different, I would fully understand. Like their margins are tight. You [00:39:05] know, you’ve got a lot of moving parts. You’re keeping a lot of people happy.

[BOTH]: People short staffed, [00:39:10] all of this.

Payman Langroudi: I’ve got a friend. He’s, uh, doing a nuclear power station. [00:39:15]

[BOTH]: Oh, cool.

Payman Langroudi: Sounds like a crazy notion, right?

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I was asking him, you know, like, [00:39:20] like, where do you even start? Like a nuclear power station, you know? And [00:39:25] he said, you know, there’s not that many humans involved. Yeah. And, and, and it’s humans [00:39:30] that are the problem.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Humans are the problem.

[BOTH]: I think.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That’s so terrible to say.

[BOTH]: But, but.

Payman Langroudi: In dentistry, right? It’s, [00:39:35] it’s only humans, right? It’s patients, it’s staff, you know, it’s all about humans. [00:39:40]

[BOTH]: And so it’s such an unknown.

Payman Langroudi: Um, thing. And I [00:39:45] was in a restaurant last night. Yeah. And you realise even in a restaurant, you realise it’s only humans. It’s [00:39:50] not about food. You know, the food is a very simple process that they’ve, they’ve got down to a t.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: They [00:39:55] know how to make their food. But, you know, there was a rowdy table on one side. [00:40:00] There were people walking in saying they had a reservation even though there wasn’t a table available [00:40:05] for them. Like just stuff like that.

[BOTH]: Yeah, I’m watching.

Payman Langroudi: Watching the staff, you know, because you do when you, [00:40:10] when you when you’ve been in business for a while.

[BOTH]: You start watching how.

Payman Langroudi: Is the business operating?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, yeah. Yeah. I’ve noticed [00:40:15] that.

[BOTH]: About.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: When I go to dinner with other business people and they’re like, I was left waiting at the door [00:40:20] for ten minutes and can’t do that in Mayfair.

[BOTH]: Yeah. And I remember.

Payman Langroudi: Going to [00:40:25] a private practice in the city, um, from Kent. I [00:40:30] was in Kent in a private practice and I thought to myself, I’m killing in Kent. [00:40:35] I really was, I was having a great, I was doing these veneers.

[BOTH]: Amazing. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And then, and then I thought, if I go [00:40:40] to the city, imagine I’m going to destroy. I’m going to be amazing.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I got to the city and totally [00:40:45] different patients. Yeah. Number one and a nightmare to to sell anything to them because they’re [00:40:50] all salesmen themselves, right? Um, but number two, if you kept them waiting. Five [00:40:55] minutes. Five minutes. Yeah. I had a massive complaint because I was five minutes late for [00:41:00] someone. And by the way, he didn’t even wait. He left. He left. His [00:41:05] appointment was, you know, 130, whatever it was. At 135, he was out. Yeah. He left and made a [00:41:10] massive complaint, you know, and it’s like such a nightmare. It’s like humans, right?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [00:41:15]

Payman Langroudi: Um, give me your private practice.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Experience.

Payman Langroudi: Experience. [00:41:20] But also, you know, there’s a bunch of people who in the health service were in mixed [00:41:25] and they’re looking to go private.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What are your sort of takeaways from [00:41:30] surviving and, and excelling in private compared to NHS?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: This [00:41:35] is so it’s do you know what I would say. Payman like I thought [00:41:40] I worked NHS and I work private and I always thought it was greener on [00:41:45] the other side, you know, like, oh, it’s better if you work private. Oh it’s better if you work NHS because you get all [00:41:50] these updates, you know what you’re getting and vice versa with private. But I don’t think [00:41:55] there’s one easy answer. I think with NHS, you’re [00:42:00] just. The key element is you’re switching tasks regularly. So [00:42:05] that’s very hard on your, uh, brainpower basically like a lot. There’s a lot [00:42:10] of people that don’t do well with task switching and especially your nurse is [00:42:15] probably going to ask you, oh, what were you doing for the next one? What am I setting up? Do you want to make tricks? Do you want this? And [00:42:20] that’s quite hard, right? But whereas when you’re seeing when you’re doing private, you’re only seeing maybe like [00:42:25] ten, 12 patients, but you’re having a lot more discussions, you’re having to document [00:42:30] more. Um, it’s just, it’s just different. I mean, personally for me, [00:42:35] I am somebody that doesn’t like task switching. So for that reason, I prefer [00:42:40] private, I enjoy private, I enjoy doing big cases. I do a lot of full mouth [00:42:45] rehab cases. Yeah, yeah, I do. And I love them. I absolutely love them. They’re my favourite thing. [00:42:50]

Payman Langroudi: Did you learn those? Chris Hall, Chris or.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I also did the Dawson Academy course. They were fantastic. [00:42:55] Yes. Yeah. Before he, uh, closed. I was so lucky to get in before he closed. [00:43:00] He was amazing. And. But I go to. I will go to America sometimes [00:43:05] for conferences, you know, like the New York Dental conference, the Chicago Dental conference. I’m going to [00:43:10] do that more and more now. Um, because I love American dentistry. I think it’s [00:43:15] amazing. Like I love.

Payman Langroudi: I love their optimism around [00:43:20] it.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I just love Americans and the way they are. Like, they just, [00:43:25] I don’t know, they’re just so funny. Like there’s, they’re just so optimistic about everything. Yeah. [00:43:30] Um, but yeah, I think, you know, going back to what you said about like, what’s [00:43:35] better, I think private practice, you are seeing less patients. [00:43:40] It’s usually more methodical. It’s less stressful in that [00:43:45] sense. The patients tend to be like paying, you know, some form [00:43:50] of insurance now. So I don’t know, we get that a lot on Bupa where they’re like, you know, sometimes you get dem [00:43:55] plan patients or you get people on.

Payman Langroudi: Have you been benefiting from this Bupa thing where they’re sending you patients with £300? [00:44:00] Uh, what.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Do you.

Payman Langroudi: Mean? Well, if you’ve got Bupa health insurance, maybe it’s not the same. If [00:44:05] you’ve got Bupa health insurance, Bupa is now saying you can turn up at Bupa dentist with [00:44:10] £300 credit and spend.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh no, they’re not doing that where I am. No no no I [00:44:15] haven’t seen that. No no. Do dentists like that.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Oh okay. Suddenly books are full of people [00:44:20] who’ve got £300 to spend.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Good. Yeah, that is good.

Payman Langroudi: Obviously from the Bupa perspective they spend £301 [00:44:25] before anything, before they get any credit, keeping their dentists happy, [00:44:30] you know.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That’s true. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I’m sure other people are a bit pissed off about it. But but but then, you know, if Bupa [00:44:35] doesn’t leverage this sort of thing, what’s the point of having a Bupa, you know?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. So is it coming off of Bupa kind [00:44:40] of revenue.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Yeah. They’re they’re giving each medical [00:44:45] I suppose. Look their main business is medical insurance, so keeping those people happy is their main business. [00:44:50] Keeping their dentists happy is their second business. You know, when you own a corporate, the way [00:44:55] to think about it is your customer is the dentist.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. That’s true.

Payman Langroudi: You know, because.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That is [00:45:00] true.

Payman Langroudi: Dentists turnover is the most expensive thing that can happen.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, God. You’re absolutely right. I [00:45:05] mean, they pay like a lot of money for these sorts.

Payman Langroudi: Of things.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Right? Yeah. [00:45:10] No. It’s crazy.

Payman Langroudi: Um, let’s get on to consent. Medicube. [00:45:15] Why did you go in this direction? So we’ve got the basic idea [00:45:20] of why you were having sort of these existential thoughts. Because I don’t know, man, if [00:45:25] I, if I didn’t know that you started this business, I’d say, here’s a real super happy dentist. [00:45:30] Oh, you’re doing high end stuff.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’ll tell you what it is.

Payman Langroudi: Practice. You know, like things [00:45:35] are good.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, I’ll tell you what it is. So the question you asked me about why NHS, why private. That’s [00:45:40] that’s very relevant. Because what I realised was I realised very early on, like I did a bit [00:45:45] of everything and nothing. Um. Firstly, nothing was keeping me happy, but [00:45:50] also if a complaint happened, it was so detrimental to my [00:45:55] health and wellbeing I would be so stressed about it. I’d be up like, you [00:46:00] know, probably for two months. I’d be like really ruminating over it.

Payman Langroudi: Listen, I gave [00:46:05] up dentistry 13 years ago. Yeah, one letter still bothers me. Nothing. [00:46:10]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Nothing came of it. It’s a real thing, isn’t it?

Payman Langroudi: But it was the sentiment in the letter.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: But [00:46:15] the interesting thing is that’s not that’s not actually understood outside of dental [00:46:20] circles. So the pressure and how much it impacts you. And in [00:46:25] addition, because I worked at so many practices, seeing how other people’s behaviour [00:46:30] can actually like pass a liability on to me. It made [00:46:35] me think, I can’t do this job because I can’t actually control anything. Like [00:46:40] it’s too unpredictable. There’s no system. I start from scratch every [00:46:45] day, pretty much everywhere I go. Then I’m given a random new nurse, or there’s a new person [00:46:50] or reception who doesn’t know how I work. I was like, I can’t do this. This is impossible. [00:46:55] And I thought, even private practice doesn’t really mitigate that stuff. So then realistically, [00:47:00] it was like, well, what’s going to fix this? And that was exactly why Medicube [00:47:05] was born. Um, because now like my interaction with [00:47:10] the patient, okay, we have an interaction in the surgery, but within seconds, [00:47:15] like I’ll say them, I’ll say to them, by the end of the day, you’ll receive a personalised information pack about you, [00:47:20] about what we discussed. Um, if you’re happy to go ahead, next steps, get yourself booked into, [00:47:25] um, you know, your digital smile design appointment will start planning.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, [00:47:30] you know, I’ll lay out that foundation, they’ll go home, I’ll send them the information pack. [00:47:35] Everything they need to know is on there. They’ll sign it, they come in. I ask, have you got [00:47:40] any questions? And they’re generally happy. And it’s just super easy. Like, I don’t even need [00:47:45] a treatment coordinator. I don’t need anything. Like I literally [00:47:50] can just make, I can secure high ticket sales by myself without [00:47:55] having to ask a receptionist, can you send this for me? Or having to ask anybody [00:48:00] else, can you do this for me? So it actually creates a little bit of consistency for me. It creates my own [00:48:05] workflow. Like I have my own images that I embed in there. I tell them all the risks that I want to [00:48:10] tell them. Like in addition to, you know, your standard risks, um, it’s something [00:48:15] I can control and I can control it. So, you [00:48:20] know, so to such a high degree that it just gives me that absolute peace of [00:48:25] mind, but not only me.

Payman Langroudi: But where are we at with the product? I mean, is it way past minimum viable [00:48:30] product?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Like, yeah, it’s live, it’s live.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a live working.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s live in Dental practices. [00:48:35] Um, it’s, uh, not many. We’ve got a closed, um, group of [00:48:40] pilot users.

Payman Langroudi: Um, and so talk me through it. So why is, why is it so easy to [00:48:45] produce this document?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, so we have, we basically, so we’ve, we’ve piloted this [00:48:50] for two and a half years. We’ve been talking to users. We’ve had like over 130 dentists use it [00:48:55] and tell us what, what they. Um, so.

Payman Langroudi: What were the insights?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So the insights were huge. Like we [00:49:00] found out things like people want extra signature functionality, which [00:49:05] we built in. Um, some like implant dentists want to be able to send videos. [00:49:10] So we looked at that. So we came up with a solution with that. Um, we, [00:49:15] you know, found that for a lot of dentists, like they can’t explain things like what onlays [00:49:20] are and they’re using like Google search to like, find images and then show it to patients. [00:49:25] So we came up for a solution for that.

Payman Langroudi: So now video library of.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. So now we basically [00:49:30] have a product where we have like we’ve built AI into it as well. So we’ve got like an AI letter [00:49:35] generator. So in seconds you can generate a letter based on like appointment [00:49:40] information, for example.

Payman Langroudi: Based on the notes.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So usually based [00:49:45] on the notes, that’s like the easiest way to do it. Um, and you can have a, um, [00:49:50] just a friendly letter. You can embed your consent forms, you can add different [00:49:55] signature functionality. You can, um, add like Google search images [00:50:00] that are unlicensed and things like that. Uh, you can add videos. It’s [00:50:05] super easy. And the associate in seconds can compile that, send it to a patient because it has an integration. [00:50:10] So that’s it. Like it doesn’t take you any time at all. You [00:50:15] can do it for ten, 12, 15 patients that day if you wanted. [00:50:20] Um, it’s just a completely different way of working. And those patients [00:50:25] feel so cared.

Payman Langroudi: For, plugged into all the different softwares. The patient.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s a web application, so [00:50:30] you just log in. Um.

Payman Langroudi: But how do you get into your care [00:50:35] stack or your.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So, so we have an integration with Dental at the moment. So [00:50:40] Dental users are the other key focus at the moment. But we are going to build a [00:50:45] Non-integrated version that’s standalone. Um so other users [00:50:50] can enjoy the benefits as well.

Payman Langroudi: So for now you’re only focussed on Dental.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: For now we’re just focussed [00:50:55] on Dental. Yeah. Um, but we’ve done like two and a half year pilots and in that time we found that [00:51:00] complaints firstly, like very few complaints happen. When they do [00:51:05] happen they de escalate so quickly because you’re covered. Well no, not because you’re covered [00:51:10] because you just say to the patient, by the way, do you remember that information pack I sent you? Can you look over it again? They’ll, [00:51:15] you know, you can resend it to them because you still have access to everything. We don’t delete [00:51:20] anything. And patients literally have chosen [00:51:25] to de escalate complaints. They’ve literally said, okay, fair enough. And [00:51:30] they’ve just not taken it any further. We’ve had no refunds. We’ve actually had like half £1 [00:51:35] million worth of private work go through our process. No refunds, no [00:51:40] complaints, no escalations. So it really speaks for itself. We’ve done [00:51:45] very long pilots, and there’s very few products that can [00:51:50] say what we can say, like, you know, patients actually love it. [00:51:55] And we also give patients a survey at the end and like the of [00:52:00] the patients that fill in the survey, like 96% of them are glad that they were sent that additional information. [00:52:05] Um, you know, you’ve got, you’ve got 40% of patients [00:52:10] saying they trust their dentist. More, 60% are saying they’re more relaxed going into their next appointment. So [00:52:15] we’ve got like really key data points.

Payman Langroudi: So just, just, just walk me through it like a [00:52:20] child a little bit. Yeah. So you’re giving them this document, which is part treatment plan, part [00:52:25] consent, and you’re just saying it’s easier [00:52:30] to produce this document really quickly and really and dotting all the I’s [00:52:35] and crossing all the T’s. Yeah. So. But but how? So I’m going to treatment plan a [00:52:40] whitening composite bonding. Yeah, I don’t know. Green. Amber, red. Yeah. In the, in the [00:52:45] in the long run. Full mouth rehab.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So we, we do an integration with Dental. So you’re doing your [00:52:50] dental visit.

Payman Langroudi: I’ve put that in the notes.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: We have an integration handles that. Yeah. So you. [00:52:55]

Payman Langroudi: And what does it do? It says whitening. These are the risks. These are the benefits.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So you basically set up your [00:53:00] own templates on our site, on our platform. And we’ve done like a really [00:53:05] nice, um, onboarding, um, with semi semi-automated, [00:53:10] the onboarding. So you can set yourself up with your templates really quickly. Uh, once you’ve got your templates [00:53:15] set up. Yeah, it will pull all the right treatment data, um, from that. [00:53:20] So basically, if you’ve got a treatment plan with whitening, um, veneers and your templates, [00:53:25] uh, look a certain way, it will pull them together. You can add an AI generated [00:53:30] letter. We’ve got a little, um, library, you can select, uh, images [00:53:35] and then you click next. There’s a video section, you can skip it or you can add videos from our stock [00:53:40] library or embed them from third party videos. [00:53:45] Uh, yes, we did. Yeah, yeah, we made them with videographers and then we got dentists to check them and things. [00:53:50] So yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So I mean, I expect you can reverse engineer it to some extent. I [00:53:55] know, you know, obviously the whole point of this is to save time and make it, yeah, a clean process. [00:54:00] But I could copy and paste my identity notes into Gemini and tell it to write a [00:54:05] letter and, you know, do it myself.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, you can, you can, but then you’re [00:54:10] still having to, uh, paste that all into. Okay, so there’s a few things [00:54:15] here. So you’re having to paste that into your, uh, interdentally send it to the patient. [00:54:20] You also get no, so you get no information about whether the patient’s opened it. [00:54:25] You get no information about how even how many times you’ve sent that email, um, [00:54:30] how the patient has interacted with it. We log all of that in a report that you’ll [00:54:35] be able to see.

Payman Langroudi: So it’s a receipt from the email.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Uh, well, no. So the [00:54:40] there’s like summaries. So you can like go into that patient’s summary and see what’s happened. So.

Payman Langroudi: But how do [00:54:45] you know he’s opened it? It says it.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: In the patient summary. Yeah yeah yeah. So we’ve got like [00:54:50] so patient summary can go in there. You can see you can just refresh your memory. What did I send them? What [00:54:55] videos did I send them? How much of it is watched? Like we actually log how [00:55:00] much as well is watched? Um, so you get like a lot of intelligent insights. [00:55:05] And we’ve had cases where some of our users have said to us, [00:55:10] some of our dentists have said to us, oh, patient, a patient said they didn’t receive the email and [00:55:15] then they’ve logged, they’ve logged in, looked at the summary and it said, patient’s logged in [00:55:20] and it gives you a time. So like, it’s just so funny because it [00:55:25] helps a lot. Like you do have some patients say, oh, I didn’t, You know, I’ve [00:55:30] had loads of cases where patients say, oh, you quote me a crown. It was a different price. And I’m like, no, [00:55:35] log in, have a look. You’ll see it. Um, it’s so easy and it’s really [00:55:40] easy for patients to log in and verify. Um, I can’t [00:55:45] go into too much detail about that, but we’ve like, you know, we have, our [00:55:50] team is really strong by the way.

Payman Langroudi: So let’s talk about that. Let’s talk about that. So you decide to do this company. [00:55:55] Where did you find your co-founder? Did you go to an accelerator? You did, didn’t you accelerate her. [00:56:00] What was that I saw?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. So basically in 2019, um, [00:56:05] I decided I was either going to buy a dental practice [00:56:10] and create my own corporate with a few other people, or I was going to like not [00:56:15] do dentistry at all and go into tech. Tech had really, um, interested me because [00:56:20] I had, I was listening to a lot of podcasts about tech. I was obsessed actually [00:56:25] from 2017. I was obsessed with tech and listening [00:56:30] to things about AI and how AI was going to change the world. I mean, they knew there were going to be job losses, [00:56:35] like they suspected in 2018, that there would be 40% of people [00:56:40] jobless because of AI. That was back then. And so anyway, I used to go to a lot [00:56:45] of tech events. Um, and I went to one. It [00:56:50] must have been completely, um, a stroke of luck from the universe [00:56:55] genuinely, because this event was put on Eventbrite, right? It was [00:57:00] actually for UCL students and it shouldn’t have been on Eventbrite, but I saw it. It was a hackathon [00:57:05] at UCL. I was like, it was sponsored by Microsoft.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I was like, I am going. Absolutely. [00:57:10] It was on my day off. I went, um, and the, the lecturers [00:57:15] there were like, oh, we’re so sorry. This is actually just only for students, but you can stay if you like. [00:57:20] So I did, um, and I kind of watched what the students were doing and what they were building [00:57:25] and it was so interesting. And they’re so brilliant, those students. And, um, my [00:57:30] co-founder was doing his PhD at the time. And so I started speaking [00:57:35] to all the PhD students and we just, we just like really got on and we kept [00:57:40] in contact. And then I think it was about six months later, he contacted me [00:57:45] and he said, like, the students need to do something healthcare related. Do you have a project [00:57:50] in mind? And that’s when I started working with the students and building prototypes with them. And [00:57:55] I started doing lots of courses on UX and UI design and learning about [00:58:00] just tech and how to manage a team and how to manage sprints and all of this. And, [00:58:05] um, then.

Payman Langroudi: Is that what you do? You do sprints?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. We do. Yeah, yeah. Basically, [00:58:10] I wouldn’t say I’m the best at it, but like, to be honest, I’ve been managing a team for like [00:58:15] five years.

Payman Langroudi: Two weeks sprints.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, we do two week sprints. Yeah. So you just basically [00:58:20] we use Trello and we just have like list our requirements. [00:58:25] And, you know, it’s actually very simple. Um, and so now [00:58:30] we’re like UCL bronze part, we’re a UCL bronze partner. So we go, we, we work with students a lot, [00:58:35] um, which is really incredible because they are so brilliant and we work with master’s [00:58:40] students now. Um, so.

Payman Langroudi: You’re basically getting that for free, huh?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Through my co-founder. [00:58:45] So yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Otherwise you’d have to pay for all that.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, you’d have to pay a lot of money for [00:58:50] it.

Payman Langroudi: So did you raise cash as well?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: We, um, won a few awards, so [00:58:55] we put in some applications and we won awards and they came with cash awards. So it was [00:59:00] like tech starts. So, um, so basically they’re grants and some of them were [00:59:05] awards, some of them were grants, um.

Payman Langroudi: Kind of better than an investor, right? Just cash. Yeah, [00:59:10] yeah. How much like how much can you get from something like that?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So it varies. Um, but [00:59:15] I mean, in total, we, I mean, we haven’t taken a crazy amount. We’ve, we’ve built our product [00:59:20] with about Thousand of pounds worth of money that we were awarded [00:59:25] from various different grants.

Payman Langroudi: Um, so.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, we’re super [00:59:30] lean, we are super lean. But then also, you have to remember that like my co-founder is [00:59:35] a professor at UCL and his time is worth a lot. So he puts in all this time. [00:59:40] So it’s all the goodwill as well.

Payman Langroudi: Um, but does he own some of the company?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, [00:59:45] yeah. He’s a co-founder. Yeah. Yeah. So, um, and yeah, it just, [00:59:50] it was just so interesting, our journey and then we just started to onboard users.

Payman Langroudi: Test pilot not [00:59:55] profitable yet.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Uh, no, no, I think so.

Payman Langroudi: What’s your runway? I mean, how much longer have you [01:00:00] got.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Now that I can’t talk about that I can’t talk about.

Payman Langroudi: You must be like you’re [01:00:05] aware of that number.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, 100%. We’re fully aware.

Payman Langroudi: You have to raise money.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So [01:00:10] we are looking to raise um, and yeah, I think we’ve, [01:00:15] we’ve not wanted to, we’ve held it off. We’ve bootstrapped for pretty long actually. We’ve [01:00:20] done really well. Um, because we were like, we are revenue generating.

Payman Langroudi: That’s interesting, isn’t it? [01:00:25] Crowns and fillings are kind of paying for this company.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I was the same with an item. It was the same. It [01:00:30] was the same with the lighting. My wife’s dentistry and my partner’s denture. I gave up altogether and [01:00:35] just focussed on this for the first five years. Yeah, but my three I’ve got three partners are [01:00:40] all dentists. Yeah. And they were paying me like some ridiculously small amount of money [01:00:45] to, to, to, to do this. Right.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Amazing. Is that how it worked? Okay.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [01:00:50] yeah. But but but I mean, it was a different time. Yeah. It was. Yeah. They weren’t things [01:00:55] like accelerators and.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Yeah. So we’ve, I mean, [01:01:00] I think you’re right. So the accelerator thing we got on that um, through that NatWest [01:01:05] and you know Barclays Eagle labs do that. So we apply for a lot of things and we get a lot [01:01:10] of things to be honest like but.

Payman Langroudi: So the journey from dentist. [01:01:15] Yeah. You’re clearly talking all the language of Start-Up now.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah Sorry.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:01:20] know it’s a good thing. It’s a good thing. But the, the I’ve seen people go through [01:01:25] that process, right, of someone who comes to me. People come to me all the time with little ideas, right? [01:01:30] Try this, try that. And you can see this person is clueless. There’s no idea [01:01:35] what the hell they’re talking about. And then I’ve often my. These days, my advice is often [01:01:40] just go to an accelerator because they tend to weed. Weed out.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: And then [01:01:45] sometimes they get going on an eight week accelerator, not even a long thing, and come out the [01:01:50] other side talking a whole other language. Yeah. And, and much clearer [01:01:55] on where they want to go with a co-founder. And, you know, we’re making investment pitches left, right. [01:02:00] Yeah. And it’s a wonderful thing. It’s a wonderful. So is that what you know? Is that your education? [01:02:05] I mean, you’re saying you’re saying you you were going to tech conferences on your own back.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I mean, yeah, [01:02:10] for me, it was very different because again, like 2019 was quite a different time. So [01:02:15] for me, I did a lot of research into tech, really understanding what I wanted to do.

Payman Langroudi: Tech. How [01:02:20] did it come about? Tech. Have you got like a brother or a sister or a friend or something?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, no, I tell you what it was, it’s funny. [01:02:25] There was one moment like there was actually one defining moment for me. And that was, um, so [01:02:30] I was, I was watching, uh, it must have been like it was [01:02:35] a documentary. It was either like horizon or something like that. But they were talking about, [01:02:40] um, how they were creating AI, GPS and that was back in [01:02:45] 2018 again. And Babylon Health was doing it and they, the GP could [01:02:50] diagnose a human just through asking a set of triage questions with 80% [01:02:55] accuracy. And a human did it to the same level of accuracy. The single issue was [01:03:00] that sometimes it missed highly risky, um, you [01:03:05] know, misdiagnosed a highly risky case. That was the only reason they couldn’t release [01:03:10] it. Now since then.

Payman Langroudi: 2018.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Yeah, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Now fixed that by now.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [01:03:15] And I think a lot of um, the, the way culturally people have changed, [01:03:20] like the way people think about AI. That’s happened a lot in the past 2 or 3 years. And they’ve been saying [01:03:25] that like the Turing test, Turing test was like, basically, do [01:03:30] you know what it is? Yeah I do. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Say it, but say it.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. So basically where, you know, can [01:03:35] an AI pass as human? And people were saying for a long time, no, that won’t ever happen. [01:03:40] And like we’ve completely.

Payman Langroudi: Gone.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Past that and no one [01:03:45] spoke about it. And I remember hearing that on a podcast recently and thinking how funny that was.

Payman Langroudi: But I’ve talked to my team, [01:03:50] you know, people who pick up the phone and I’m trying to explain to [01:03:55] them, you know, that, you know, that’s not going to go on for much longer. And [01:04:00] sometimes they’re sceptical and they say, oh, there’s no way a machine can do better than me. And [01:04:05] then I kind of remind them that, you know, like I go on Amazon and I buy something. [01:04:10] I don’t want to talk to a human. I go on Amazon, I pick the thing, I push the button. [01:04:15] It arrives. Yeah. And the notion that everyone wants to talk to a human. I [01:04:20] kind of don’t want to talk to a human. Yeah. You know, I.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Think that’s a London thing, by the way. [01:04:25]

Payman Langroudi: But if I want to buy a flight or something, there was a time. If you wanted to buy a flight, you had to talk to a human. [01:04:30] Yeah. Now we all take it for granted. Yeah, yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, totally.

Payman Langroudi: You know, so the world [01:04:35] is going to change. Your job is not going to get taken by an AI. Your job is going to be taken by someone who knows how to use an [01:04:40] AI, right? You can who can leverage. And this thing you’re saying about 40% of jobs [01:04:45] will go. It’s highly possible.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But it really depends on the number of new jobs that are [01:04:50] made by AI.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That’s it. So I think that’s the. So I listened to a lot of things like Ray [01:04:55] Kurzweil and, you know, Geoffrey Hinton and all this and what they’re saying.

Payman Langroudi: About who wants to meet his dad. [01:05:00] His dead dad.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It would be amazing, but I do [01:05:05] honestly, those there. I mean, they are the most pioneering, [01:05:10] you know, AI specialists out there. And they’ll say things like, you [01:05:15] know, that it’s very like, okay, Geoffrey Hinton is saying like, things are really worrying and stuff. But [01:05:20] aside from that, in terms of the jobs they are saying, you know, realistically, [01:05:25] even 100 years ago, the jobs we had were very different. We lost all [01:05:30] of those jobs and new jobs.

Payman Langroudi: Agriculture.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Exactly. So it’s very likely there will be new [01:05:35] jobs. It’s just people have to be adaptable. That’s the key thing in [01:05:40] this world. You have to be adaptable, open minded.

Payman Langroudi: You know, what’s interesting is there are some [01:05:45] things, some services and products that this elasticity of [01:05:50] demand. So let’s say something. If something gets cheaper, [01:05:55] it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to be the same number of that thing being sold. There [01:06:00] are some areas that if the thing gets cheaper, the volume goes through the roof. And so [01:06:05] those things are going to benefit massively. Yeah. So I take the example, my [01:06:10] brother radiologist eyes can read these scans. Yeah, but there’s [01:06:15] way more scans being asked for now.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Interesting. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: There’s still medicolegally. The [01:06:20] radiologist has to sign it off. So his life has actually gotten a lot better in a way because [01:06:25] they used the AI tool. A doctor has to sign it off. So he’s still getting paid for being [01:06:30] the doctor. And yet they can put a whole lot more scans through than before. And surprise, [01:06:35] surprise, the the the doctors are asking for the scans are asking for way more [01:06:40] scans. Yeah. There’s elasticity in it.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. That’s great.

Payman Langroudi: So those areas, whatever [01:06:45] they are, like whatever business you’re in, if, if more of it cheaper is going [01:06:50] to get more demand. Yeah, those areas are going to be amazing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I think you’re right. Like, [01:06:55] I think we’re just pushing towards being more of an efficient civilisation really. That’s like [01:07:00] the key thing.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. But there’s someone’s job in enlightened to answer, uh, lab [01:07:05] problems. Yeah. Now her job, the number of lab problems [01:07:10] coming in isn’t going to increase even however good we good we get [01:07:15] at answering those questions. Yeah. The number of lab problems that come in are the number of lab problems. So [01:07:20] her job is a much more dangerous position than someone whose job they’ll increase. [01:07:25] Ai will increase the amount coming.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, absolutely. And I think also well, [01:07:30] I think they’re talking a lot about now like AGI, because if you can create [01:07:35] artificial general intelligence, then, you know, it can be used for multiple [01:07:40] tasks realistically. That’s kind of the way it will go. So you’ll still need humans [01:07:45] in the loop is what they call it, where humans are maybe specialists in [01:07:50] areas and they’re managing, you know, the AGI.

Payman Langroudi: Loads [01:07:55] of loads of robots.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. I mean, it’s like, I like my co-founder is the best [01:08:00] person to talk to about this because he’s got all these like great opinions that, you [01:08:05] know, he, because he, he’s like, he even said we had a meet up yesterday actually [01:08:10] with some dentists and he was some of them were asking him about AGI and he was saying that, [01:08:15] um, you know, he, because he’s got contacts in like that are working on Google DeepMind [01:08:20] and all of that. So his opinion is a lot more, um, configured to actually [01:08:25] what thing, what’s out there? Um, whereas I think for most of us, [01:08:30] we’re speculating on, you know, what, what we’re gauging, but we don’t [01:08:35] see the full picture. There’s a lot happening in the labs that we don’t know about. [01:08:40] And there’s a lot of breakthroughs that we don’t know about. And we won’t know about them for another few years. So [01:08:45] I think that’s kind of the what makes people feel a bit uneasy.

Payman Langroudi: Along [01:08:50] with along with, you know, you know, we’ve all had it hallucinate like her. [01:08:55]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And yeah, and that sort of non-zero risk that something crazy [01:09:00] will happen by by mistake. Yeah. Not even on purpose. Yeah. I worry more about the on purpose [01:09:05] thing. Like if someone’s got some AI that’s much more powerful than everyone else. That person [01:09:10] can rule the world, right?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. I mean, that’s the thing I worry about the most. I’m not actually worried about AI. I’m worried [01:09:15] about the humans controlling the AI. Um, and it’s a big, it’s a big thing. Like, [01:09:20] you know, people talk a lot about diversity and I think it gets such a weird [01:09:25] polarity of opinions. But I think realistically, because we have [01:09:30] AI and we’ve got super, super computers, quantum computers, [01:09:35] all these things, you do actually need representation at these top levels [01:09:40] because if you’re not getting it, you’re going to have, um, well, it’s just, [01:09:45] it’s like things are not going to be very user friendly, like to put them in a very simple term, [01:09:50] because if they’re building worlds for people like themselves, it’s not, it’s not going to be good for [01:09:55] everyone. And realistically, I think children get forgotten about a lot generally [01:10:00] in the world. And I think by having representation, you are going to build [01:10:05] a better world for children. I think that’s the most important thing. Like, we can’t just think about the [01:10:10] world for ourselves. We do have to think about the children growing up and what their experience [01:10:15] is going to be like, and how we can ensure that they’re not going to be growing up in a world that’s [01:10:20] like quite dangerous, really, or savage towards them.

Payman Langroudi: I reckon. I reckon [01:10:25] mine and your kids yours particularly because younger um, [01:10:30] could easily date a robot. God, I really believe that. Yeah, I honestly [01:10:35] believe that.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Would you be okay with it?

Payman Langroudi: Well, I just believe it’s going to happen. Yeah. Because. Yeah, [01:10:40] you know, like your for you page on Instagram, let’s say the robot knows you better than you know yourself [01:10:45] like that, like that for you page knows you better than you know yourself. And how far are we from [01:10:50] a humanoid robot, right? That’s affordable.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, not that far.

Payman Langroudi: I.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Think.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Let’s call [01:10:55] it four years.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I think they’re releasing them now. There’s like a £30,000 one [01:11:00] going on the market or something.

Payman Langroudi: There you go. But let’s say, let’s say it’s it can do everything a human [01:11:05] can do. And the brain, a brain of four years [01:11:10] time. Chatgpt.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So you know what’s interesting about that? Yeah. I think what that’s doing [01:11:15] is playing to our very, uh, reptilian [01:11:20] minds of basically us being fooled [01:11:25] on a subconscious level.

Payman Langroudi: I’m not talking about shagging the robot. I’m not saying that. I’m not saying that.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, naturally, [01:11:30] that probably is.

Payman Langroudi: I think the version of that will be with a pair of glasses that messes with your brain, [01:11:35] you know, like you dream it or something. Yeah, but my point is, if the robot can do everything a [01:11:40] human can do in terms of motor skills and spraying is ChatGPT from four years [01:11:45] time. Yeah. Like it’s not only people sitting in front of a screen whose jobs are going to go. [01:11:50] The plumber’s job’s going to go, you know, like the dentist job is going to go potentially potentially. [01:11:55]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, potentially. Yeah. I mean, it’s difficult to imagine what the world would be like, but like [01:12:00] I’m talking on an emotional level, emotional level as well, like partners and stuff. [01:12:05] It could be that, yeah, people start competing with robots for, [01:12:10] for partners. Like that would be insane. But I think that, you know, hopefully [01:12:15] there’s still a human need for companionship that [01:12:20] an AI that knows you really well and says exactly what you want to hear can’t [01:12:25] necessarily satisfy.

Payman Langroudi: Really knows you.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But that’s not [01:12:30] necessarily going to tell you what you want to hear. It could give you exactly what you need. Yeah, yeah. The unpredictability [01:12:35] of a human. Yeah. I find this really interesting question. Yeah. That [01:12:40] if we could transfer your brain to a robot. Ray Kurzweil’s dream come true. Yeah. [01:12:45] If you could transfer your brain to a robot and that robot can look like you and act like you, then [01:12:50] when you die, that robot can carry on as you. Yeah. [01:12:55] Now, for you, it doesn’t really work. Yeah, but for everyone around you, it does in a way. Yeah, I.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Think [01:13:00] no, I don’t think so. I don’t think so.

Payman Langroudi: I think because your soul’s not there.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, well, no, no, I [01:13:05] would say, look, I’ve battled with the soul question a lot and I’ve listened to Sam [01:13:10] Harris. And I honestly, if I’m honest, I can’t really actually stand the guy. I think he comes up with some really [01:13:15] terrible theories.

Payman Langroudi: Um, I like him apart from his Islamophobia.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, [01:13:20] yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I like him. Honestly, I like him.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: He I think he he’s very [01:13:25] flawed, actually, in the way he thinks he’s he’s very emotional. That’s what I’ve picked up on him with [01:13:30] him. Um, his theories don’t really make a lot of sense. But in terms of the, in terms [01:13:35] of if you’ve ever loved someone in your life, like really loved them and lost them, [01:13:40] um, there’s a, there’s a, there’s a connection and a magic [01:13:45] about it that you’re, you’re easily not [01:13:50] be satisfied by a robot that just looks like them, says what they want to say or says, you [01:13:55] know, kind of is extrapolated from their past data points, essentially, because [01:14:00] it’s really just making a prediction on how they would behave. But [01:14:05] I just don’t think that’s there’s something missing. There’s like a magic in connecting [01:14:10] with that person. And maybe it goes back to my belief of thinking that we’re all connected, that, you know, you can’t possibly [01:14:15] really connect with a robot. Um, but then what connects us? I [01:14:20] don’t know, it’s difficult. I don’t think I’ll ever have an answer to this question. I’m just.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a funny thing. [01:14:25] I went to a friend’s house. They had a puppy.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You know, they say puppy eyes. Yeah. [01:14:30] I was staring at this puppy’s eyes. There was something, man. There was some sort of connection, [01:14:35] like you say. Yeah, between me and that puppy. And it was just like. Yeah, [01:14:40] like a love. Just pure love coming out of this puppy’s eyes.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I mean, yeah, but there is, there is something. [01:14:45] There’s something like, you know, they say that we’re mostly made of [01:14:50] space. Um, you know, we’re just like, like most of us [01:14:55] is empty space, right? But we perceive each other. I mean that if [01:15:00] you think about that, like that’s completely separate, we’re sensing each other. And [01:15:05] so how can a robot replicate that? What we’re sensing of each [01:15:10] other that electromagnetic.

Payman Langroudi: The thing is, though, you know what I think about sometimes, let’s [01:15:15] say, um, let’s just keep it really simple. Let’s say you get drunk. Yeah. [01:15:20]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And and you know, the way your mind and and, and vision [01:15:25] and decisions are when you’re drunk. Mhm. Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I know what you [01:15:30] wanted to say. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Now, let’s say that that is [01:15:35] that was normal. Yeah. And this was drunk. Yeah. [01:15:40] Yeah. And there’s no reason why, you know, anything is normal or not. Like. Like if we could [01:15:45] see X-rays and if we could see radio waves, this would be a very different [01:15:50] room. Yeah. They’d be crap going through. Yeah, but we can’t. Yeah. So. So I [01:15:55] often wonder about that. You know, like, is my chemistry maybe slightly different [01:16:00] to your chemistry? Yeah. And you’re seeing my orange is blue and I’m seeing your blue as [01:16:05] red. Yeah. And then, but then real the experience piece, you know, like you’re saying, you seem [01:16:10] so sure that we’re all connected. Yeah. Why?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, I think, um. [01:16:15]

Payman Langroudi: You’re experiencing it somehow.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, I think you’re right. I mean, like, a lot of, uh. What’s [01:16:20] really interesting is like, your body grows your brain and your brain [01:16:25] controls your body. And there’s like that connection between your brain and body and, [01:16:30] but your brain chemistry is a lot of it is kind of environment. It’s part environmental, [01:16:35] part inherited. So you’re going to have traits that run through your family [01:16:40] and your perception will likely be similar to, yeah, your, your, [01:16:45] your family and you could turn out very different, but that’s going to be the perception piece of [01:16:50] maybe how you perceived your environment. Um. But [01:16:55] yeah, it’s, it’s, you’re right. There’s a lot. I think we have to be very [01:17:00] mindful of our limitation that we have, um, a human brain, which isn’t, [01:17:05] you know, even the capacity to which it functions at is quite low. Yeah. Isn’t it [01:17:10] like 10%?

Payman Langroudi: Probably.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s something really like stupidly low. And have you [01:17:15] heard that? Apparently we’ve got 36 sensors, something along those lines.

Payman Langroudi: I can imagine. [01:17:20]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That we we’re not aware of apparently.

Payman Langroudi: Like time space.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Yeah. Loads like [01:17:25] loads of things like, um, like even, uh, you know, they say one of them is like when you [01:17:30] think someone’s going to call you or you think about someone and then they call you, you know, that one?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I’ve got a theory [01:17:35] on that one.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Go on.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. So let’s imagine me and you are buddies, like, like like your buddies with your friends in [01:17:40] Liverpool. Yeah, but you and one of them. Yeah. Call each other, like, [01:17:45] within a five week or five month timescale. [01:17:50] Yeah. And there’s actually a very accurate clock in your head. That’s counting [01:17:55] that time potentially.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Okay.

Payman Langroudi: But it’s a subconscious clock in your head. [01:18:00] It’s a feeling you get when that time comes around. When you’re four and a half weeks in, the clock in your [01:18:05] head is going, haven’t. It’s about time I contact that person. Yeah. And [01:18:10] it’s similar with the clock in her head. And so you’re thinking about it and then suddenly it rings.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I [01:18:15] feel like that’s way more complicated than telepathy. It [01:18:20] could be. I mean, I’ve had situations where I, I’ve got friends that I don’t message really [01:18:25] like ever. This was at school even, um, and I remember messaging [01:18:30] somebody and he messaged me at the same time and it was so [01:18:35] bizarre. And we were like, did you just message me? And I was asking him about a school project or something. But [01:18:40] things like that have.

Payman Langroudi: An element of assigning meaning to coincidences.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yes. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You’re right. I want to [01:18:45] make meaning of the world. You’re right, by the way. I’m not rejecting it.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, no.

Payman Langroudi: Who’s to say? But [01:18:50] you know.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: A thousand years ago, no one understood light or electricity or whatever, you know. [01:18:55]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. But I think I do think that, um, with human experience, I think sometimes when [01:19:00] you experience stuff, you know, it’s real and it’s just intuition. You don’t know how you know it’s [01:19:05] real. You can’t explain it to anyone because you’ll sound crazy, but you just know.

Payman Langroudi: But you know, the reason [01:19:10] I’m saying about, I think experiences and AI and all that is, you know, you have a dream [01:19:15] feels really real. Yeah, yeah. Is it real? It’s not, [01:19:20] it’s not. Well, there are certain chemicals going on in your head that making this dream happen. Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So [01:19:25] that’s a good point.

Payman Langroudi: Once, once they figure out those chemicals. Yeah. They say, oh, in his dream, like, [01:19:30] state what you can, you can download a dream into someone’s head. Yeah. Then like [01:19:35] the sky’s the limit.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s true. It’s interesting. Why do we dream? And I mean, they’ve done a lot [01:19:40] of research into it.

Payman Langroudi: How do we dream? Why? I get some sort of processing or whatever for the information. [01:19:45] But if you could do that, if I could download a James Bond dream into your head and [01:19:50] you can now go and have that experience. Yeah, like it’s as real as it could [01:19:55] possibly be while you’re asleep. You feel like it’s really happening sometimes. Yeah. I haven’t [01:20:00] dreamt for a long time.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: But again, you have people that say things like, [01:20:05] I had a dream about something.

Payman Langroudi: And then it.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Happened and then it happened. And so how do you explain that? [01:20:10] You know, again, it could be coincidence. It seems like a very unusual coincidence when you have [01:20:15] deja vu where you’re like, I have dreamt this before.

Payman Langroudi: So deja vu, I heard someone was saying, it’s like the left [01:20:20] and right side of your brain, right? There’s a there’s a lag between the communication.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Between. [01:20:25]

Payman Langroudi: Left and right. Well who knows? But that’s what I read. There’s a lag between the connection between the left and right. And so in a way, [01:20:30] you feel like you’ve been here already.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: But that’s I’ve had a lot of very, [01:20:35] very spiritual experiences in my life. Actually, when I, when I think about it, what do you.

Payman Langroudi: Mean by that? [01:20:40]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, it’s weird stuff. Weird.

Payman Langroudi: It’s difficult to put it into words. Yeah. Because by its very nature, [01:20:45] you say spiritual. It’s almost like words. I know it sounds.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: So crazy [01:20:50] and airy fairy and stuff, but no, I’ve had I’ve had dreams where, um. Oh, and [01:20:55] I honestly don’t talk about it a lot because it’s weird, but I’ve had dreams where like, [01:21:00] um, I’m, I’ve woken up really emotional and [01:21:05] it, it tended to be when I was younger, like I don’t get them as much anymore. But when I was really young, I would have, uh, [01:21:10] I had a really crazy dream about my grandma contacting me and [01:21:15] I didn’t see her face. I just saw her hands. But I knew it was her. And she was passing on a message and a few things [01:21:20] that happened in the dream, like played out in the next 20 years. And it was just really [01:21:25] highly emotional. And my mum had kind of done a reading for her the day before, which I didn’t know about. [01:21:30] Um, and uh, yeah, it was just, it was honestly [01:21:35] very strange, but she would, she had basically told me, um, that she was [01:21:40] really not happy in this dream. And it turned out like we, yeah, we had [01:21:45] a few really awful things happen in our family over the next 20 years. And then when I look back at the dreams, [01:21:50] I realised kind of the scenes that were happening, what they meant. [01:21:55] Um, so it’s just very hard to explain, but that [01:22:00] was a really unusual moment in my life. Like I’ve probably, that was probably the only one [01:22:05] time. And, um, I’m certain that that was [01:22:10] something extraordinary and not normal. Um, and that’s happened a few times [01:22:15] to me. And another time when I was pregnant, I had, um, an experience and, [01:22:20] um, sorry, my boots are rubbing and, um, [01:22:25] and, um, yeah, I had an experience and I know that it was just very [01:22:30] strange. It could have been somebody from the other side. And I know that sounds so crazy, but [01:22:35] you’re so sure of it because it’s, it’s, it’s [01:22:40] a collection of things that would be too much of a coincidence otherwise. Um. [01:22:45] But anyway, at the risk of sounding like.

Payman Langroudi: Well, you can’t rule any of this stuff out, man. You can’t rule any of [01:22:50] this stuff out. We don’t know.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: But I’m really into physics, right?

Payman Langroudi: And that’s I find that quite interesting. Right?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Physics [01:22:55] is physics talks about, you know, different universes.

Payman Langroudi: Multiverse. [01:23:00]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Thing that’s ever that could possibly happen has happened. Um, there’s, [01:23:05] I think physics is so wacky that [01:23:10] anything’s possible. It almost gives you a reason to believe this stuff. [01:23:15]

Payman Langroudi: Like quantum entanglement.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Like I.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Couldn’t explain what it is, but yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But [01:23:20] but it’s like you get two, two particles entangled, right? And it doesn’t matter if they’re [01:23:25] on the other side of the universe. When this one moves, that one will move. [01:23:30] Yeah. And we know the speed of light, you know? Question. So how the hell are these [01:23:35] two associated with each other?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: That far away, like it seems impossible, [01:23:40] right? But but it’s a real thing. Quantum tunnelling is a real thing. Yeah, they’re talking about that’s how we would [01:23:45] eventually, once Elon gets to Mars, that’s how we’ll communicate. Because if you if [01:23:50] you rely on the speed of light, it takes eight minutes to get to Mars or whatever. Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: These [01:23:55] are all this is like literally how things should be innovated. Like you use these concepts. [01:24:00] Yeah. And, um, and I think, yeah, maybe that’s, maybe that’s why I am, I come across [01:24:05] so wacky is because like, I don’t, I think anything’s possible. No, no, genuinely like I think [01:24:10] anything’s possible. And I do think that, um, you’ve got to trust your intuition [01:24:15] a lot. Like as a human, we’re very lucky. Yeah, yeah, 100% trust my intuition.

Payman Langroudi: Have you always. [01:24:20]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, it’s more of a recent thing.

Payman Langroudi: Me, too.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So I used to be [01:24:25] the opposite of intuition. Yeah, I used to, so not believe in it. Yeah. That if [01:24:30] I felt like, oh, I should turn right here or whatever the decision was, I’d go the [01:24:35] opposite. Just to prove that I’m a scientist, although. And it would just, it would get me in all sorts of trouble [01:24:40] and then sometimes, or a lot of times you see like really successful people [01:24:45] and they say, just feel it in my stomach. And I go with that feeling. And I thought, let’s try that. [01:24:50] In the last ten years, I’ll be much more like trying to be intuitive. Yeah. And it serves you. It’s like, it’s [01:24:55] almost like you’re skiing downhill instead of uphill. Yes.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, it’s very true. I think if you’re very [01:25:00] clear on, I think with intuition, if you’re very clear on your goal, you’re [01:25:05] very clear on where you’re going and why you’re going there, then intuition will guide you. Like [01:25:10] I’m a big believer in that.

Payman Langroudi: But do you get like a bad feeling about [01:25:15] someone and for no reason? My business partner is like, he doesn’t he doesn’t like that guy. He doesn’t [01:25:20] know why.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Do you know what’s funny? I have had that in my life. And then sometimes I realise that it’s because they [01:25:25] remind me of someone I don’t like and I’m like, oh, damn, that’s that’s like my reptilian [01:25:30] brain just being stupid. So no, you have to, you kind of have to obviously like, but [01:25:35] look, I think when you’re we’ve got to be More nurturing [01:25:40] towards that side of our human self that perceives stuff that [01:25:45] we don’t necessarily know is happening. And I think that’s what is important to trust [01:25:50] in your life, you know? Um, you know, if you know who you really are and you know [01:25:55] why you’re doing something, then naturally you’ll trust your intuition. [01:26:00] It is going to guide you. It’s going to help you see the right opportunities. And it’s subconscious. [01:26:05] I think like a lot of it is kind of your internal calculator [01:26:10] sort of being like, oh, this is the right path. You got to trust it because I also like doing [01:26:15] what I do. I speak to a lot of business mentors and I get really frustrated actually, [01:26:20] because like, I’ve got a lot of business mentors that are amazing and they, they will tell me exactly [01:26:25] like what I’m doing right, what I’m doing wrong. And they will almost tell me where [01:26:30] I’m going to go wrong and they’ll get it right. And that’s like, oh, I should have listened to them.

Payman Langroudi: Where do [01:26:35] you find these business mentors from the, oh, like accelerator programs?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. Different programs like accelerator [01:26:40] programs. Um, honestly, sometimes I just meet them randomly. Um, [01:26:45] like, again, really weird coincidences, like met one business [01:26:50] mentor on the plane when I was flying with my nine month old daughter. I [01:26:55] was flying for a business thing as well. And, um, I just started talking to him about my business [01:27:00] and he’s been one of my best mentors and he’s like guided me through a lot of [01:27:05] stuff. Um, and we just kept in touch and he’s been great. I think a lot. You know, that’s intuition [01:27:10] though, isn’t it? Like you start speaking to someone.

Payman Langroudi: I reckon you’re a real sucker for, for [01:27:15] kismet. Like for for for for fate. Yeah. And coincidence. [01:27:20] You know, someone could take massive advantage of you that way, you know, like, maybe, you know, that notion of [01:27:25] arrange. You can arrange a couple of coincidences.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I [01:27:30] am very.

Payman Langroudi: You’d fall for that?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, not at all. I’m super sceptical. I mean, my [01:27:35] upbringing, like I have to figure things out.

Payman Langroudi: And have you heard of that? That that idea? Let’s [01:27:40] imagine that you go to the play and [01:27:45] someone’s sitting next to you, and then you sit on a plane and that person sitting next to you. Like for you.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, no, [01:27:50] I’m not like that.

Payman Langroudi: For you, that would that would tell you all sorts of stories. No.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’m [01:27:55] not that gullible.

Payman Langroudi: You know.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’m really not.

Payman Langroudi: Well, that’s an amazing coincidence.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’m really not. Like [01:28:00] when I, when I talk about, um, people that I’ve built these relationships [01:28:05] with, it’s been over years, you know? So I [01:28:10] gauge character over a long period of time. I’m not someone that’s like, oh my God, [01:28:15] like a coincidence. We must open a business together. Like, [01:28:20] no, I’m, I am a very I’m actually a very sceptical person. Um, but [01:28:25] I realised how wacky I probably sound with. But no, I [01:28:30] genuinely think when you learn about physics.

Payman Langroudi: Your mind opens.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Your mind [01:28:35] opens.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I agree, massively.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Massively.

Payman Langroudi: We like to talk about mistakes on this [01:28:40] pod.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Of course I want to talk about clinical error and I want to talk about business mistake [01:28:45] you made.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Of course. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s start with the business mistake. While we’re on business.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Business mistakes, I [01:28:50] would say. Oh, God.

Payman Langroudi: So many. Right?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I think [01:28:55] no, I.

Payman Langroudi: Think.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, no.

Payman Langroudi: There’s so many to choose from. For me. [01:29:00]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s a difficult one because I think you you never know when you’re going right or wrong in business. [01:29:05] You actually see.

Payman Langroudi: In retrospect, you.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: See the aftermath after. Right? So I would say for me. [01:29:10]

Payman Langroudi: I suppose he only been two years, isn’t it?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, we start we started.

Payman Langroudi: Business.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: In 2022. [01:29:15] End of. Yeah. Uh, launched our pilot six months later. We’ve been running them for two [01:29:20] and a half years. Um, I guess I won’t really know my mistakes till a couple of years down [01:29:25] the line. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a bit early.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, but I think.

Payman Langroudi: But would you like, for instance, for instance, [01:29:30] some people might think. I wish I’d gotten into it earlier.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, I think my, my, my mistakes [01:29:35] genuinely are not being. Sometimes more assertive. And that’s what I’m learning. [01:29:40] Like.

Payman Langroudi: Um, with staff and stuff.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Uh, so with teams. [01:29:45] Yeah, so that’s, I’m learning like to manage a team basically now. Um. And [01:29:50] I think again, when you’re feeling a bit like I’m not getting what I [01:29:55] need out of. Certain people and are they right for this role? Like now I’m a lot [01:30:00] clearer on that and I’m. A lot more kind of self-directed. Um, so I think.

Payman Langroudi: Do [01:30:05] you have a staff or are you.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, we do, we work. We have like eight people and they’re all amazing. Um, [01:30:10] but we have had in the past, like very early on where we’ve, you know, we’ve shifted a lot. We [01:30:15] had like different staff members we were working with. So I think that’s a big thing. [01:30:20] I’m learning, like if it, if you feel like you’re not getting the best out of someone, you need to explore [01:30:25] that feeling. And I would say that’s probably been connected to my biggest [01:30:30] mistake in business, like not speaking earlier. If something [01:30:35] doesn’t feel right, if I’m not getting the results I need. Um, you’ve got to be like direct. [01:30:40]

Payman Langroudi: Avoid conflict kind of thing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I think look as okay, if you want to talk about being a woman, right? [01:30:45] Being a woman, you’re taught to be a good girl. You’re taught to be [01:30:50] go with the rules, play by the rule book. And what I’ve learned is I [01:30:55] have to do things my way. I’m not a man. I can’t behave like a man. [01:31:00] I can’t adopt, um, male styles of leadership. [01:31:05] I’m still a woman, and I still have to find my style of how I’m going to do this. I think that’s [01:31:10] confusing for people. So when I work with people, they’re often a little bit unsure. [01:31:15] Um, of yeah, of how it’s going to go, how my leadership [01:31:20] style is going to be. And that’s okay. It takes time. Um, but also having [01:31:25] the confidence to be assertive, like I’m definitely at a point in my life now where, yeah, I don’t [01:31:30] I don’t think very much about what people think about me because I’m not really interested. I know what, what we [01:31:35] need to achieve, where we’re going. And I think that takes a lot of, um, pressure [01:31:40] off of myself. And as well, it’s good for other people to feel [01:31:45] that because then they’re not so self-conscious about what they’re doing. I’m very forgiving with, with people [01:31:50] I work with as well. Like they can win things back. But I have to trust that [01:31:55] if I’m not getting the best out of them, you know, you have to talk about whether it’s the right role [01:32:00] for them.

Payman Langroudi: Have you fired anyone?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: We had to let go of someone. Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You [01:32:05] know, once once you get in it for a few years. Yeah, yeah. You end up like [01:32:10] sometimes you have to find someone who’s done nothing wrong.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Why would you do that? Just because [01:32:15] of costs.

Payman Langroudi: Sometimes it’s costs. Sometimes it’s the role has overtaken [01:32:20] them. Um, you know.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: How did you find that.

Payman Langroudi: A nightmare? [01:32:25]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s horrible letting people go. A to a nightmare in itself, but then you realise [01:32:30] later on you realise like that’s many, many people get fired through [01:32:35] no fault of their own. Yeah, like many people like my buddy with a nuclear [01:32:40] power station, he let 2000 people go. No way in in one moment. [01:32:45] Yeah, because you know that that’s what the business needed it to do.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Wow. That’s [01:32:50] cutthroat.

Payman Langroudi: But he had no choice. He had no choice in that moment. Yeah, yeah. And [01:32:55] I was talking to the guy from Pearl AI. He was saying every single person he’s ever fired didn’t [01:33:00] deserve it. Yeah, because. Because he said if they deserved it, someone else would have fired them. [01:33:05] So by the time it gets up to his level, he’s got a thousand employees or something.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That’s the thing. Yeah, [01:33:10] it’s it’s heartbreaking. Yeah. And I guess you just that’s being a [01:33:15] leader. You have to do things.

Payman Langroudi: You know, you sort of like the different businesses, right? You’re the culture [01:33:20] of your business. Could be this family thing. Mhm. And that’s not very useful [01:33:25] when it comes to firing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: People.

Payman Langroudi: Because, you know, you can’t fire people in your family. Um, [01:33:30] but you know, these are all business in the end is just solving problems like [01:33:35] this. Yeah.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It’s all about learning.

Payman Langroudi: About clinical errors.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Clinical errors. [01:33:40] Um, so yeah, I’ve been quite lucky. I’ve not done a [01:33:45] lot of clinical errors. Um, I the.

Payman Langroudi: Most difficult patient.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [01:33:50] I had a patient that actually, that’s a really good question because I did have a patient that, [01:33:55] um, was quite crazy. I’m not sure if they had a little bit of [01:34:00] like, uh, Alzheimer’s or something. Um, I had a patient [01:34:05] like, um, basically do really bizarre things. [01:34:10] And he was, he agreed to a treatment plan. We prepped [01:34:15] two of his teeth. He had like very worn down like laterals. And [01:34:20] we, um, we had in order to save them, we had to crown them. So we prepped them. [01:34:25] He came into the fit appointment and said he doesn’t want the crowns anymore. And [01:34:30] we were like, we’ve done like a full consent on you. You know, this was actually before Medicube [01:34:35] as well. So we were like, we’ve done a full consent and we’ve spent quite a bit of time on that. And um. [01:34:40]

Payman Langroudi: The funny time to get buyer’s remorse.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Was like, we prepped your teeth, like under those temps, [01:34:45] you’ve not really, you’ve got stumps, you know that. And, uh, and then anyway, he left. [01:34:50] Um, and then he stood outside of our, um, surgery and he was [01:34:55] listening while me and my nurse were sort of trying to understand what happened.

Payman Langroudi: And [01:35:00] juicy.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. He was like listening and so and so.

Payman Langroudi: Listening, like his ear to the door. Yeah. [01:35:05]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. So me, me and my nurse were sort of like.

Payman Langroudi: You were bitching about him. [01:35:10]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Well, no, but I mean, we were confused. We were we were stressed out by the situation. And I [01:35:15] was sort of saying to her, did I was it something I said, do you think, do you think I wasn’t very [01:35:20] clear? And she was saying, well, no, he knew exactly what he was doing. You don’t go to Sainsbury’s [01:35:25] and at the checkout like go. Oh, like I’m gonna. [01:35:30] Like you don’t take the food home basically and go, oh I don’t want to pay for it. So um, anyway, he heard that [01:35:35] and then, uh, called the practice and like started being really weird with us. And [01:35:40] it was just really bizarre. We didn’t know what was going on. That was one of the hardest.

Payman Langroudi: Resolve or [01:35:45] didn’t resolve.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um.

Payman Langroudi: Did you what did he do? Did he go on with the with the temporaries? [01:35:50]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No. Like I just I fit them in the end for free. No, [01:35:55] no, he he paid, we gave him money back. We did give him some money [01:36:00] back.

Payman Langroudi: Is it for no reason at all.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: But for him it was. I was a bit like. Does he have something [01:36:05] psychological? Like I wasn’t sure I was like Alzheimer’s or.

Payman Langroudi: Whatever it could [01:36:10] have been.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Or bipolar. We really weren’t sure. I still haven’t resolved that one, but [01:36:15] that was the one time I was I was really caught out with the patient. I was like, there is something quite [01:36:20] unusual about his personality that.

Payman Langroudi: What about what about what about. I’m not looking [01:36:25] for a terrible story. Yeah, I am, really. But but but what about, you know, you [01:36:30] do full mouth rehabs? Yeah. What about the stuff you’ve done that you’ve [01:36:35] learned from? You know, like we learn from our mistakes a lot of the times. So, [01:36:40] you know, what? Were you doing something a certain way. Realised that wasn’t the best way of doing it. Now [01:36:45] you do it a different way or you know what are gems around? Full mouth rehab, man. It’s a big [01:36:50] thing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, it’s a big thing. But I think if you.

Payman Langroudi: What have you, what have you broken it down into? Like, what’s [01:36:55] the crux of it? If I’ve never done one occlusion, I’ve done.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Essential. Everyone talks about occlusion, [01:37:00] don’t they? But like the key thing is like, I hear a lot of dentists say like, oh, get, get [01:37:05] like, um, their back teeth, like their bite through [01:37:10] their back teeth. And I’m like, what are you talking about? Like the, the key thing is you always [01:37:15] need solid anterior guidance. Like that is like number one thing in occlusion, like you [01:37:20] need solid anterior guidance and you need. You know, if you can get good solid [01:37:25] anterior support, that’s like the beginning of a full mouth rehab. And [01:37:30] then you go on to your posterior contacts because if you work the other way around, [01:37:35] that patient is going to feel very uncomfortable. Their bite is going to feel really uncomfortable. So [01:37:40] that’s like my big take home message for like, if I’m talking [01:37:45] to like, you know, other, um, dentists earlier on in their career in [01:37:50] my practice.

Payman Langroudi: But is it, is it that that’s an awesome thing? And there’s another way of doing it that starts at the back. [01:37:55]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I mean, I think all the institutions basically say, even Chris all [01:38:00] said, like, you know, when you think of occlusion, you think of your jaw joint and you think of an anterior stop. Basically, [01:38:05] that is like the solid it seems.

Payman Langroudi: Right.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Basis of occlusion. Yeah. [01:38:10] Everything else. Okay. Canine guidance. You know, they talk. I [01:38:15] think Frank Speer talks about modified canine guidance, which is where you guide on your premolars anterior [01:38:20] guidance. I think I’ve heard anterior guidance might be a myth from [01:38:25] one of them, I can’t remember. Anterior guidance or canine guidance. There’s like this this like, oh, maybe it’s [01:38:30] a myth, I don’t know. But that’s kind of going really deep into the topic. But I think the basis [01:38:35] of it is, yeah, um, you know, your TMJ and an anterior [01:38:40] stop, that’s like the key thing and you really can’t go wrong from there. Like if you get that right. And then [01:38:45] also, you know, there are, it does get more complicated when you’re, um, going [01:38:50] into like centric relation and stuff like that. If you’re doing like a reorganised approach. [01:38:55]

Payman Langroudi: Did you have a moment like were you doing a reorganised approach and couldn’t get [01:39:00] it right?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Um, I think, um. No, [01:39:05] I.

Payman Langroudi: Haven’t done a reorganised case.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, no, I have done them. So basically you just, [01:39:10] you need like a leaf gauge. I mean, the most annoying thing is when your nurse loses your leaf gauge and you’re like, oh, for God’s [01:39:15] sakes, like, I need this. And I have had to have situations where I’ve had to get them [01:39:20] to bite on like, um, no, I’ve had to like, I’ve had [01:39:25] to like do a workaround basically where I’ve got like I had, and this was really, really like annoying [01:39:30] because we couldn’t find it anywhere, but I had to get them to buy on, um, some [01:39:35] gauze and grind forward and back, forward and back and squeeze because we didn’t have a Lucia [01:39:40] jig as well. And sometimes you’re just in situations like that where you have to like make things work and [01:39:45] then, you know, you get the bike ride and you, you know, do that. So there’s ways around it. Like I wouldn’t, [01:39:50] I wouldn’t want to publicise that, but that’s like situations where you’re like, ah, what am [01:39:55] I going to do? Like the patient’s here. We, you know, are we going to really like rebook them our diaries [01:40:00] full? Um, so you do find workarounds sometimes, but.

Payman Langroudi: Comes to mind if I say, what’s the best [01:40:05] dental education you’ve had like lecture wise or course wise?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, I would say [01:40:10] definitely Crispr is amazing. And, um, the Dawson [01:40:15] Academy, I’d say both of them. I’d say they are incredible. And I would say like, there’s a lot [01:40:20] of, um, for me, I think if you get functional, if you get functionality correct, [01:40:25] the cosmetic side comes with it.

Payman Langroudi: So the link between those two [01:40:30] is quite interesting, isn’t it? Because we sort of see them as separate things we do.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a bit like mind body like. [01:40:35] Yeah, they’re not separate things.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. And I think because they say that your, your um upper [01:40:40] central incisors, like the position of them is the most important in the whole mouth. [01:40:45] If you get that right, then things just fall into place. But I think, you [01:40:50] know, occlusion is taught in a way that it’s so complicated. It sounds like a bit of wizardry or something, [01:40:55] but it’s really not that complicated. You just want, you know, there’s like five pillars [01:41:00] of occlusion. I think that Dawson teaches and you just so I would say reading his book, um, [01:41:05] now I’m not somebody that like reads and highlights every chapter, [01:41:10] but I get, I get the gist and I’m like, yep, I know what I’m doing. Um, but yeah, [01:41:15] I would say, I would recommend that to dentists trying to get good with occlusion. That’s like.

Payman Langroudi: Dawson.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Dawson’s [01:41:20] book is amazing.

Payman Langroudi: So that’s your.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Book? Yeah. And Dawson lectures. Um, [01:41:25] I think they’re worth their weight in gold for teaching you. And, like, not just. It’s not just for full mouth rehabs, [01:41:30] though. If you’re doing like a single crown, you need to understand how to check the occlusion [01:41:35] properly on. Yeah. You know, protrusive movements, lateral [01:41:40] excursions, you need to understand what you’re looking for. And he’ll just like lay it down in a way that’s really [01:41:45] simple.

Payman Langroudi: One of the very obvious, very simple things that people don’t do. [01:41:50] And it’s when you when you figure it out, it seems so obvious, right? It’s look at the occlusion before [01:41:55] you start drilling.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. That’s true.

Payman Langroudi: So damn obvious.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Hindsight is a beautiful thing. Yeah. [01:42:00]

Payman Langroudi: Even for filling. Yeah. Like look at where’s the occlusion on this this. Yeah. That’s true. We [01:42:05] all do it at the end.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. You’re like, oh, should I check this at the start? I know I [01:42:10] used to actually check it at the start, but I’m way less way less uptight with my dentistry now. [01:42:15] I’m a lot more relaxed. And yeah.

Payman Langroudi: How about none? Dental. So you [01:42:20] said you went to all these conferences where was like an aha moment in those tech [01:42:25] in the tech space?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, in the tech space. Oh, what do you mean? Like an [01:42:30] aha moment where I was like, oh, I know where I’m going.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, like, for instance, you know how to conduct [01:42:35] a sprint. Yeah. Well, I don’t know if I talk to you. Four years ago, you wouldn’t know what a sprint is.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, [01:42:40] no. But that’s all boring stuff. That’s all.

Payman Langroudi: Okay, so what was it?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: What was it? Learning online and stuff.

Payman Langroudi: Um, what [01:42:45] what is it in the moment in the entrepreneurship tech, particularly [01:42:50] tech entrepreneurship. I mean, the SaaS space, right? You’ve got yourself into like a space that’s quite [01:42:55] competitive.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, 100%. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, there are competitors out there too. Your product. [01:43:00]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Mhm.

Payman Langroudi: Who does dentistry? Does one.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. There’s loads.

Payman Langroudi: Are there loads? [01:43:05]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. There’s not like a handful. There would be. Yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So [01:43:10] anyway, in in that area of tech entrepreneurship, where [01:43:15] did you learn something? What was an aha light bulb moment for you?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I honestly just think every [01:43:20] time I go to a tech conference, I’m like, this is insane. Like, I went to the AWS conference [01:43:25] about a year ago and it was incredible. And I was like talking. It’s so funny.

Payman Langroudi: Web [01:43:30] services.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, yeah. And what was so funny is like, you talk to dentists and they’re really impressed [01:43:35] with all these services. And then you go to these tech conferences and you see like how [01:43:40] much of them there are like the market you [01:43:45] follow? Mm.

Payman Langroudi: Do you follow?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: What do you mean, do I follow?

Payman Langroudi: When you go to an AWS talk, [01:43:50] do you understand what the hell’s going on? Do you understand what they’re saying?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, dude, [01:43:55] I do, but I’ve.

Payman Langroudi: Been hard to follow that sort of thing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Tech conferences for, like, six years. I mean, [01:44:00] I’m not a developer, so there would be, you know, there would be a.

Payman Langroudi: Massive.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Gap. Yeah. [01:44:05] And I sort of say to my co-founder, what does this mean? You know? Or I’ll go on ChatGPT and just research [01:44:10] it and come back to him with all this spiel. And he’s like, what, ChatGPT? [01:44:15]

Payman Langroudi: One of my buddies from school, he’s a mycologist. Yeah, a fungus expert, right? [01:44:20] And he’s global, globally famous guy. And he just became a professor [01:44:25] and he said, oh, come along, come along to my. They have a professorial lecture. [01:44:30] They give. And I said, sure, of course I came. And you know, I went through [01:44:35] dentistry. I thought a little bit, one slide in, I didn’t, I couldn’t follow anymore.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: One slide. Yeah. [01:44:40] But that’s fungus. That’s fungus. It’s a bit different.

Payman Langroudi: It was a 45 minute lecture [01:44:45] about his research. Yeah. After one slide that was lost.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: But I do think because we use tech [01:44:50] products that actually you’ll be surprised how much you will understand.

Payman Langroudi: Um, [01:44:55] plus you, you’re filtering for that, right? You’re like, yeah, in a way, your algorithm is now sending [01:45:00] you tech stuff and you know, you’re chasing, you end up seeing what you’re after in a way.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. I [01:45:05] mean, when I go to tech conferences, I know exactly like what I’m looking for, like whether I’m looking for [01:45:10] specific partners, whether I’m looking for like what innovations happened? Um, yeah, [01:45:15] so, but I would, I would say, like, honestly, being a founder is so [01:45:20] hard. I don’t think you have aha moments. I think every day is like, God, [01:45:25] there’s so much like, like I had a call just before I came here with, [01:45:30] uh, one of my mentors and I was like, so confident we knew exactly what we were [01:45:35] going to do. And he just like threw everything, threw a spanner in the works. Basically. [01:45:40] He was like, why don’t you do this, this, this, this, this, this is what you should do this. And then like, you’re [01:45:45] going back to the drawing board and going with your team and then trying to manage everything. You know, you’re trying to manage like [01:45:50] your users, like your accounts and then your roadmap, and then you’ve got [01:45:55] your mentors saying crazy things all the time and you’re just trying to make sense of it. So [01:46:00] it’s, I get less of those aha moments because I don’t think your brain has the freedom to just be [01:46:05] like. You know, free. Um, it’s [01:46:10] just so intense. You’re just constantly, um, but it’s fun. It’s why [01:46:15] I do it. Like, I love the challenge. I don’t think I could live not doing it. Like [01:46:20] now I find dentistry so unstressful. It’s so funny how like I’ve recalibrated. [01:46:25] Yeah. As my break. Yeah, yeah. I’m like, this is like a chilled [01:46:30] out day, like the.

Payman Langroudi: Number of mothers I come across. So they say dentistry is their me time.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That [01:46:35] is the craziest thing.

Payman Langroudi: I hear that a lot.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I hear that from [01:46:40] patients when they lie back and they’re like, oh, this is so relaxing. And I’m like, oh, [01:46:45] you have a child.

Payman Langroudi: Saying it was the most relaxed part of her day was [01:46:50] seeing a patient.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That’s hilarious.

Payman Langroudi: It’s been it’s [01:46:55] been a massive pleasure, man.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, thank you Payman. I really enjoyed it. Thank you so much.

Payman Langroudi: Um, [01:47:00] I’m gonna leave you with the final question.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Sure.

Payman Langroudi: Fantasy [01:47:05] dinner party.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, yes.

Payman Langroudi: Three guests.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: Dead or alive?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: I’ve [01:47:10] got. I’ve got a really funny one, but I would have to have this guest. Um, [01:47:15] Stephen Hawking, I absolutely love Stephen Hawking. He actually inspired [01:47:20] me so much as a child. Um, so Stephen Hawking [01:47:25] definitely.

Payman Langroudi: Was the first superstar scientist, wasn’t he? It’s interesting.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah, but do you know what? Do you know [01:47:30] why I love him so much? Actually, there’s the key reason I love him so much is [01:47:35] because if you saw Stephen Hawking in a nursing home without his equipment, you [01:47:40] would think that, you know, he was incapable and there [01:47:45] was nothing. You know, you wouldn’t think that he was having all these thoughts. Um, he I [01:47:50] mean, I don’t think there’s been a single person in history that has made such a movement like [01:47:55] he did without even being able to really so much as lift a finger. I [01:48:00] just find him like one. He’s he’s literally 1 in 1,000,000,000 or 1 in [01:48:05] 1,000,000,000,000.

Payman Langroudi: He’s wrote beautifully. You know what I found with I, I knew who Stephen Hawkins [01:48:10] was. Yeah. But I wasn’t following particularly. Um, then I got, I got my [01:48:15] phone broke and had to take it to the Apple shop. Um, they said, yeah, we’ll need it for 2.5 [01:48:20] hours. I was in Cardiff. I wasn’t even at home. So I’m like sitting around without [01:48:25] my phone, like completely addicted to my phone. Right?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, now I didn’t have satnav. [01:48:30] I didn’t know where to go. I couldn’t get an Uber. I couldn’t get a line bike. [01:48:35] I couldn’t do anything. It’s totally debilitating. Yeah. So what should I do? I saw a bookshop. I [01:48:40] went to look and it was a second hand books. And the one out of all the ones that were there [01:48:45] was his.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Which one did you pick? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And I had three hours [01:48:50] to just sit and read, which I hadn’t done in such a long time. But he wrote so beautifully. [01:48:55]

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh he’s amazing.

Payman Langroudi: It wasn’t just scientific. It was really like.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Like experiential. [01:49:00] Almost like.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: It. Yeah. See, I think he’s he’s a very intuitive thinker. Yeah. And, [01:49:05] um, it’s just so interesting because I think, yeah, I think the way [01:49:10] he thinks is more intuitive than scientific actually. And I think a lot of breakthroughs [01:49:15] are made that way. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, because people think differently in that situation.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Not even [01:49:20] differently. I think sometimes, again, it’s like a reflection of like another concept you’ve seen [01:49:25] and you’re likening it. So there’s a, there’s a thing, I don’t know if you’ve heard of this, but there’s like [01:49:30] in a philosophy, like there’s the saying like as above, [01:49:35] so below. And that is meant to be like how, um, in astronomy, [01:49:40] um, the stars, how they kind of move sometimes that reflects things [01:49:45] that are happening down here and that’s used in like hermetic, hermetic philosophy. [01:49:50] So a lot of the times in philosophy, a lot of those movements [01:49:55] were affected by the observations they were doing in the universe [01:50:00] at the time. So Aristotle and Socrates were all like around at a similar time where they were making [01:50:05] massive breakthroughs about the universe, like the known universe. So yeah, so [01:50:10] I think that’s why I love physics so much. I think there’s so much to learn, even.

Payman Langroudi: It’s the best science. [01:50:15] It is.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Oh, it is, it’s not. I feel like it’s not even a science. It’s, it’s bigger than a science. It’s like [01:50:20] a science and an art mixed together. It’s amazing. But yeah. So Stephen Hawking’s second guess. Um, [01:50:25] I think David Attenborough, he always really inspired me as a child too. Um, and [01:50:30] I really struggled with the third guest. The third [01:50:35] guest, I just, um, I really struggled, but I think for [01:50:40] the sake of this podcast, I’m going to.

Payman Langroudi: Say you struggled. You couldn’t think of anyone.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: No, I could think of someone [01:50:45] and I couldn’t. So like.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, your grandma. How about that? No, as simple as that.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yeah. [01:50:50] She was she was an absolute boss, that woman. Yeah. Um, but yeah, like probably [01:50:55] a family member that we’ve lost, like that would be my natural intuition to [01:51:00] like pick that person. But for the sake of this podcast, I’m going to say, um, Andrew [01:51:05] Carnegie because I would love to know more [01:51:10] about what he did 100 years ago with the steel business and all of that.

Payman Langroudi: I like [01:51:15] that. I like Andrew Carnegie. Before, actually, I’ve never had any of those before. Yeah. [01:51:20] Amazing.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Weird bunch.

Payman Langroudi: I’ve really enjoyed it, man. Thank you. I really enjoyed it. [01:51:25] I’m really super impressed with what you’re doing. Oh, by the way, it’s a product available to buy now or no it is. So [01:51:30] how much is it?

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Yes. So for associates, it’s £43.50 a month. [01:51:35] For dental practices, it’s £180 a month. So that.

Payman Langroudi: Covers. Can you put in [01:51:40] there.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: That actually is unlimited at the moment. We’ve kept it. Yeah, very very simple. And if you go on to Medicube [01:51:45] site, just register your interest and just drop your email and [01:51:50] we’ll contact you and we’ll sign you up.

Payman Langroudi: Seems fair to £43 [01:51:55] a month. Later. The first treatment plan. Oh my.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: God. What I didn’t mention, which I really wanted to mention, [01:52:00] is how much my income has like doubled since using Medicube.

Payman Langroudi: Just [01:52:05] because it sells things easier.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Easy. Like I don’t have to book endless reviews, you know? You get a lot of patients [01:52:10] that are just so like they want the treatment. They know, like their veneers.

Payman Langroudi: What is it about [01:52:15] it that does that? Is it like pleasant? Honestly.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: You’ll have to ask our patients. But, [01:52:20] um, but I think for patients, they just want that moment of like, okay, first, [01:52:25] firstly, having a personalised information pack about you is really like nice. [01:52:30] And I think they enjoy that moment of having, of reading about themselves. And [01:52:35] in addition to that, I think it gives them a time to research [01:52:40] at home rather than otherwise they’ll be going on Instagram and maybe looking up like, oh, [01:52:45] what is like, what are veneers? What are, what is a root canal or whatever? And you can’t control what content [01:52:50] they’re looking at. So there’s that huge explosion of like misinformation Online, and [01:52:55] you’re kind of controlling that by sending them a personalised info pack. They are getting. [01:53:00] Yeah, the content that you’ve verified essentially, and you know the specific [01:53:05] information that is relevant to them. So it’s really nice for them because they don’t have to [01:53:10] go and search for that information somewhere else. You’d be surprised how patients feel really misinformed [01:53:15] generally.

Payman Langroudi: Amazing man. I keep thinking back to [01:53:20] when I was three years in to this business. I was nowhere near as organised [01:53:25] as as, as, as relaxed as you are. I didn’t [01:53:30] have those, uh, grant payments that we were just constantly, constantly [01:53:35] underwater.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Must have been very hard for you to be fair to have Dental partners. And it’s like [01:53:40] having investors, though, isn’t it? Yeah. Like we’re lucky we’ve not got investors, but as soon as we have [01:53:45] investors, it’s going to be intense. Like I know it will be, but we’re ready for that. I think [01:53:50] we’re we’ve actually spent too long in this phase. I think we’re ready to to move on. And we’ve [01:53:55] got a really like.

Payman Langroudi: But you know, you’ve done very well, man. You’ve got you’ve got the products ready and you know where [01:54:00] you are. You know who you are. You know what you want to achieve. It’s a beautiful thing. So thank you. Thanks [01:54:05] so much for coming.

Rawa Jawad Quinn: Thanks so much for having me. I’ve really enjoyed being here.

[VOICE]: This [01:54:10] is Dental Leaders, the podcast where you get to go one on one [01:54:15] with emerging leaders in dentistry. Your [01:54:20] hosts Payman, Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

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