This week Payman chats with Payvand Menhadji, a newly qualified specialist periodontist who’s navigating the delicate balance between clinical excellence and impending motherhood. 

At 30 weeks pregnant, Payvand reflects on her journey from general dentist to specialist—driven by a competitive streak and a love for surgical challenge that emerged during her VT year. 

The conversation weaves through everything from the realities of private practice economics to why she’d rather perfect her surgical skills than chase Instagram fame, touching on mentorship, imposter syndrome, and the art of staying humble when success comes knocking.

 

In This Episode

00:01:00 – Finishing specialist training whilst pregnant
00:04:20 – Why four days feels necessary
00:05:10 – The moment surgery clicked
00:07:10 – Competitive from birth
00:08:20 – Hospital jobs and surgical confidence
00:11:45 – Decision to specialise
00:14:50 – Choosing between ortho and perio
00:18:30 – Training structure and challenges
00:22:15 – Learning from the best
00:26:40 – Private practice reality
00:30:20 – What patients actually pay
00:34:45 – Imposter syndrome
00:38:20 – Building a reputation
00:42:15 – Surgical complications
00:46:30 – Blackbox thinking
00:51:45 – Treatment planning philosophy
00:56:20 – Working with implantologists
01:00:15 – Referral relationships
01:04:30 – Social media approach
01:08:45 – Learning from Instagram
01:13:35 – Fantasy dinner party
01:15:20 – Last days and legacy

 

About Payvand Menhadji

Payvand Menhadji is a specialist periodontist who completed her training in September 2024. She works across multiple specialist practices focusing on periodontal surgery and implantology, having developed her surgical interest during VT under the mentorship of implantologist Victor Keyhani.

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Payvand Menhadji: Just finished September, so we’re [00:01:15] in end of October now. I’m a baby specialist.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. And you’ve got a baby coming [00:01:20] as well?

Payvand Menhadji: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: How many weeks?

Payvand Menhadji: So 30 weeks. I’m 30 weeks. Ten weeks.

Payman Langroudi: Time. [00:01:25]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: A lot going on for you, huh?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Lot going on. I think back [00:01:30] to years in my life where it was like that. We, I think we started the company, [00:01:35] moved house and got married in the same year.

Payvand Menhadji: Amazing. [00:01:40]

Payman Langroudi: And then other times when kids came along and it’s funny, you don’t really realise what you’re [00:01:45] achieving until many years later when you look back on it and you think, bloody [00:01:50] hell, I did all of that at the same time.

Payvand Menhadji: That was a tough year. Exactly. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [00:01:55] because you’re so busy you can’t even, you know, see the wood for the trees?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. You have no time to [00:02:00] reflect. Really? I’ve definitely felt that this year.

Payman Langroudi: How are you feeling about becoming a mother?

Payvand Menhadji: Excited, [00:02:05] to be honest. So I’m 34. Um, I [00:02:10] always wanted to have children, but I was. I’ve always been studying, you know, putting [00:02:15] kind of dentistry first. And I said to my husband, you know, when’s [00:02:20] the right time? And we said, okay, I’m coming to [00:02:25] the end of my training, but I didn’t think it would happen so soon. So so it happened [00:02:30] really fast. And then throughout my whole finals from April. [00:02:35] Sorry. From. Yeah. From April, May till now I’ve just been pregnant [00:02:40] sitting exams. So it’s been really tough.

Payman Langroudi: But but the I [00:02:45] don’t know the feeling of trepidation that it must be to be a mother in [00:02:50] waiting. I remember being a father about this time. I remember thinking, shit, man, like, what [00:02:55] is going to happen next? Yeah. You’re right. No one teaches you, right?

Payvand Menhadji: I am.

Payman Langroudi: Scared. For mother, it’s even [00:03:00] more.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, do you reflect on the fact that you’ve, like. Now, going forward, [00:03:05] you’ve lost all autonomy. You’ve [00:03:10] got ten weeks left, man. Like that’s it. After that.

Payvand Menhadji: You know, when you say it like [00:03:15] that, I’m fucked. Excuse me, I shouldn’t swear. Um, yeah. I [00:03:20] haven’t really sat down to think about it. I think I’ve been so busy. Yeah, but I’m slowing [00:03:25] down work next month, and I think that’s when it will really hit me that, okay, I’m going to become [00:03:30] a mother. I think feeling I’m having a baby girl. Okay. Yeah. [00:03:35] Amazing. So feeling her kick me and stuff. Um, especially during work, makes [00:03:40] it feel very real. Yeah. Um, but no, I’m really excited. I think it [00:03:45] will be a hard juggling act. I don’t know how I’ll cope.

Payman Langroudi: I’ll just think you’re going to be back [00:03:50] full time or part time or what?

Payvand Menhadji: The plan is to work four days a week. Um. [00:03:55] She says, you know, let’s see how it goes. Right. But the plan is to work four days a week for [00:04:00] six months. Um, get my mum to help out my husband. Um, see how how [00:04:05] we get on. Really?

Payman Langroudi: I mean, in many ways, I’m trying to persuade my daughter, my 15 year old, to [00:04:10] look at dentistry now. And in many ways, I think it really suits a mother. [00:04:15] Right. I think so. And, I don’t know, four days seems like a lot.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:04:20] I just I still want to be really good at my craft. I feel like I’ve got to a stage where [00:04:25] now’s the time for me to actually put in the work. You know, I’ve just finished [00:04:30] my training. I’m building a name for myself, and so I don’t want to lose that skill. [00:04:35] That’s my only. That’s.

Payman Langroudi: You reckon if you did three days a week, you’d lose that skill? I mean.

Payvand Menhadji: No, you’re right. [00:04:40] I’ve just got some good jobs at the moment. I don’t want to give them up. That’s the truth. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Did you get [00:04:45] those jobs after you qualified or during or.

Payvand Menhadji: Um, two of them. [00:04:50] I’ve. I’ve kept on since, like, first year of perio training [00:04:55] and then two of them I’ve got like later on in perio training through recommendation [00:05:00] and people just realising that I’m okay at what I do. So [00:05:05] yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Can you tell me the story of wanting to become a specialist and [00:05:10] when you track it back? Yeah. How how how long ago did you realise [00:05:15] you want to become a specialist? Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: So I think dental school. I didn’t ever [00:05:20] think I’d be a specialist. I just wanted to be a dentist. Yeah. You know, it seemed like a [00:05:25] good work life balance. Um, and then it was my PhD year, actually, where I had two [00:05:30] trainers. One of them was placing loads of implants. Victor Keyhani.

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Payvand Menhadji: He [00:05:35] does the ace courses. I know, nice. Um. And Sabina, um, [00:05:40] she’s the partner at the practice, so I had two really good trainers. [00:05:45] And Victor actually lived down my road in Stanmore. So we became very close family, friends. [00:05:50] And he said to me, hey, pay like. To be honest with you, if I redid my whole career, [00:05:55] I’d be a periodontist. And I really respected him. So I thought, okay, [00:06:00] let me let me look into this. Um, so I [00:06:05] shadowed actually at the time when I was like an PhD, um, I [00:06:10] went on a few courses, just, you know, cheap ones, the long deck ones and stuff. Learned [00:06:15] to raise a flap, that kind of thing. Um, and I realised I really [00:06:20] like surgery. So what did I do next? I thought, okay, I need a [00:06:25] hospital year, um, to get really good at extractions and things like that. Still wasn’t sure I’d be [00:06:30] a periodontist, but I knew I wanted to have, like, surgical skill.

Payman Langroudi: Did you? I mean, before you [00:06:35] realised you really like surgery, were you, like the rest of us, a bit worried about surgery?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly. [00:06:40]

Payman Langroudi: So what was the. What was the inflection? Was it just like watching loads of surgeries?

Payvand Menhadji: Cool. Yeah, just watching [00:06:45] Victor place implants. I thought it was really nice, like life changing stuff. Um, he [00:06:50] was. He was really happy performing the implants and the patients were really happy [00:06:55] receiving it. And it just seemed like level expert, you know, which I quite liked. [00:07:00] It’s quite nice to be referred to things that are complicated. I think I like the challenge. Yeah. [00:07:05]

Payman Langroudi: I mean, have you always been a high achiever?

Payvand Menhadji: I’m a big nerd. Yeah, I guess [00:07:10] so.

Payman Langroudi: Because I noticed on your on your. I think it was Instagram. It’s just with honours with honours with honours [00:07:15] all over it. Like.

Payvand Menhadji: You make me sound like such a geek. I [00:07:20] do have a very active social life. But no, I am a nerd. [00:07:25] Yeah, I’m competitive, I guess. Are you. Are you? Yeah. Against. [00:07:30] Against myself. Like, if I set a goal, like I want to do the best. Really? [00:07:35] So I think specialist suits me.

Payman Langroudi: How long ago does that track German [00:07:40] were you compared to seven year old?

Payvand Menhadji: My Iranian mother.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Yeah, I can imagine. [00:07:45]

Payvand Menhadji: Um, yeah. I mean, in sports and things. I [00:07:50] wasn’t too gifted, unfortunately. Um, but yeah, I was always pretty. Pretty high [00:07:55] achieving. And at school. Um. Yeah, I guess it’s always [00:08:00] been around. Yeah. Touchwood. I haven’t failed anything. I nearly failed my driving licence, [00:08:05] but I just passed, so. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So there might be a first time where you feel [00:08:10] like a failure when something goes not your way.

Payvand Menhadji: I’m sure it will happen. I’m [00:08:15] waiting for my downfall.

Payman Langroudi: There’s basically. There’s no way out of life, is there? There’s no way, no [00:08:20] easy way out of life. Even if you’ve had a, let’s call it a blessed life. Yeah, like you have, let’s say, [00:08:25] for the sake of the argument, eventually something will come and get you. It’s a it’s a weird [00:08:30] thing.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, my brother was always top of his class, top of everything. And then it was like, [00:08:35] I don’t know, it was like some sort of Mississippi part two. He’s a doctor that [00:08:40] finally just got him, got to him. He’d never felt anything in his life, suddenly started failing [00:08:45] and he couldn’t believe it himself.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. You know, when you’re. I mean, during [00:08:50] finals, pregnant. I’ll be honest with you, I didn’t study to that usual level that I could. [00:08:55] You know, I was in my first trimester, I was sick, I was exhausted, [00:09:00] I was nauseous, my husband would come home and be like, have you been in bed all day? You know, he could tell. I’d [00:09:05] been like, yeah, just like watching TV. Yeah. And, um, I wasn’t [00:09:10] behaving like myself, so I was scared. I didn’t think I’d fail, but I thought I’d just [00:09:15] scrape a pass. So, um, that’s the most scared I’ve been this.

Payman Langroudi: Year. [00:09:20]

Payvand Menhadji: Anyway. Yeah. It’s great. I, I scraped it. It was a [00:09:25] shock, to be honest. So.

Payman Langroudi: So then the training itself is a, what, three [00:09:30] year program?

Payvand Menhadji: Four years. Part time.

Payman Langroudi: Part time or three years full time? Exactly.

Payvand Menhadji: So the beauty [00:09:35] of kings is you can do it part time and still earn money on the side, essentially to pay for the [00:09:40] course and your mortgage.

Payman Langroudi: Do you know Eleanor? She’s doing.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes, yes. So I work with her.

Payman Langroudi: S1 [00:09:45] Okay.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah yeah.

[BOTH]: Yeah okay. Okay.

Payman Langroudi: So so for years part time. So [00:09:50] how many what was the actual commitment like how often did you have to be in how much homework.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah it’s [00:09:55] it’s a three day. You’ve got a three days. You’ve got to be in two days. You can work in practice. But [00:10:00] honestly it feels like a império. It feels like a full time course.

Payman Langroudi: Like [00:10:05] they give you lots of homework.

Payvand Menhadji: Lots of homework. You’re expected to, you know, show up all [00:10:10] the time, just like the full time is, even on random days.

Payman Langroudi: When you’re not.

Payvand Menhadji: Scheduled to. Yeah, exactly. [00:10:15] They might have something on if you don’t go. You’ve missed out that kind of thing.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Um, [00:10:20] it’s it’s heavy.

Payman Langroudi: In those three days. How much of it is actual clinics [00:10:25] and how much is not.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Um, I would say, I mean, sometimes you can [00:10:30] have three days full clinics. Um, other times it’s two days full clinics. And maybe, like, [00:10:35] there’s always so much to do. Like, I’m thinking back now, we’re always at the hospital doing stuff. [00:10:40] A lot of it’s admin. Yeah. Nhs admin is like, [00:10:45] terrible. Oh my gosh. Um, yeah. A lot of administrative [00:10:50] tasks. Research. You know, part of the dent is you do a [00:10:55] thesis, but because everyone’s so high achieving and I mean that, you [00:11:00] know, some of my friends in my course in my year were pulling out five systematic reviews [00:11:05] a year, which is crazy. I did 1 in 4 years. One [00:11:10] of my friends, Michiko. Yeah, she did, I think 4 or 5 in one year. It’s crazy. So they [00:11:15] work very hard.

Payman Langroudi: And what’s the cost?

Payvand Menhadji: The cost. So it goes up every year. [00:11:20] So when I started in 2019, um, [00:11:25] annually it was 18 K and then it goes up. And so by [00:11:30] the end it was about 21 k. So every year it would go up £1,000 or so. [00:11:35]

Payman Langroudi: And literally you were paying for it by being a dentist the other two days was that is how it works.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Paying [00:11:40] for it by being a dentist. But also it’s people don’t realise it’s a loss of earnings, right. [00:11:45] You know, I think my training costs me like.

Payman Langroudi: If you’re taking loss of earnings into [00:11:50] account, hundreds of thousands.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely. And a lot of the time I was thinking, [00:11:55] God, I should have just stayed working as a private GDP. I’d be much happier.

Payman Langroudi: And is [00:12:00] that what you were, a full time private GDP?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. So I did general dentistry up until my third year. [00:12:05] I was still doing veneers and crowns. Admittedly not as well as some other people, [00:12:10] obviously. Skilling. I could see myself getting worse. Um, but then I just went [00:12:15] and focussed my practice to periodontics, basically.

Payman Langroudi: Then [00:12:20] you said you studied dentistry in Liverpool? Yeah. What do you think of Liverpool?

Payvand Menhadji: It [00:12:25] was really fun. It was. You know what? It’s it’s great [00:12:30] for a weekend. Five years was a long time for me. Why? Too small? Yeah. [00:12:35] Too small. It was like the same streets, you know. Without being sounding [00:12:40] like someone from the South. You know, we just have so much [00:12:45] more to do in London. So I got a bit bored up there. Um, but made really [00:12:50] good friends. Found my husband, basically brought him back down.

Payman Langroudi: Not a dentist. [00:12:55]

Payvand Menhadji: He’s a dentist.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, he’s a dentist.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah, he likes endo nutter. I know.

Payman Langroudi: But [00:13:00] Liverpool, I love it. I love that town. I love that town.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s really fun.

Payman Langroudi: And it’s quite close to [00:13:05] Manchester. Right. You’ve got that.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. So we used to do like weekend trips to Manchester and every time we [00:13:10] went it was raining so bad.

Payman Langroudi: I love the people there though.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, [00:13:15] people were good. Patients were lovely.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Actually, you’re the second Liverpool graduate I’ve had today. [00:13:20] Oh, the guy before you was Liverpool graduate. Really nice. Before that you did biomedical. [00:13:25] Did you say.

Payvand Menhadji: Biochemistry?

Payman Langroudi: Biochemistry.

Payvand Menhadji: A similar thing, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What’s [00:13:30] that like? Um, did you do three years of that?

Payvand Menhadji: Three years of that. So at 18, I kind [00:13:35] of wasn’t sure what I’d want to do. I was good at science. Put biology and chemistry [00:13:40] together. Biochemistry? Yeah. Um, it was the best three years of my life. [00:13:45] Really? That was the best parties, honestly. I made [00:13:50] really good friends. Yeah. Lived out in London.

Payman Langroudi: For the whole three years.

Payvand Menhadji: Whole three years. Central [00:13:55] London. You know, you’re living your best life, basically. They were the golden years. And then [00:14:00] I really wanted to stay on at King’s because I had such a good time. Yeah, but King’s rejected me, so [00:14:05] I went to Liverpool.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, so you’ve had some sort of rejection in your life?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I have, yeah. [00:14:10] Thank you.

Payman Langroudi: So at the end, like, that’s quite a massive commitment, right? I mean [00:14:15] and we know like that’s what I was telling you about my daughter, she’s 15 and people are asking questions like, [00:14:20] who do you want to be. What do you want to be.

Payvand Menhadji: How do you know that age?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, but I’m saying from 15 till [00:14:25] today.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You’ve been working at it.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Biochem [00:14:30] such a nerd.

Payman Langroudi: But I’m saying on the day that they awarded you [00:14:35] that speciality. Sort of.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. The graduation is next [00:14:40] summer, actually.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, has it not happened yet? Has it happened yet? There must have been like a feeling. What was the feeling? Relief. How [00:14:45] would you characterise it? Pride. Were you proud of yourself?

Payvand Menhadji: I was.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah. It’s [00:14:50] so funny. The motivations in life are so funny. You know, like like, [00:14:55] why does one do what one does?

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: You know, like, right now, Trump’s looking for a Nobel Peace [00:15:00] Prize. Like, why? Yeah. You know.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s so funny you say that. And I reflect [00:15:05] on this. You try so hard and then you achieve that thing. No one really cares. [00:15:10] It’s for you, you know?

Payman Langroudi: And I even think, like, there’s some scripting in, like, you know, [00:15:15] um, I never really fancied going to Japan for years and [00:15:20] years. I just scripted myself. I don’t want to go to Japan. And now I’m desperate to go to Japan.

Payvand Menhadji: Why do you [00:15:25] think that is?

Payman Langroudi: I don’t know, I’m just saying it’s just scripting. You script yourself in different directions. You convince yourself [00:15:30] you are this cat, and then there’s like a feedback loop because you’ve got something.

Payvand Menhadji: You believe [00:15:35] in it and.

Payman Langroudi: Some form of identity, you.

Payvand Menhadji: Know? Yes.

Payman Langroudi: And and then at the end of it all, [00:15:40] if you really examine it properly, you realise those sliding door moments in your life, like, [00:15:45] I don’t know, my dad said, let’s move to San Francisco when we were seven. Imagine that. It [00:15:50] was this whole other American cat. Exactly.

Payvand Menhadji: You could have taken a different path. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:15:55] And so many things in life are like that. Yeah. How do you feel about that? Do you feel like. [00:16:00] Are you a fatalist or are you, you know, are you do you think like everything’s random or how do you [00:16:05] feel about.

Payvand Menhadji: I think I think I’ve managed I think about [00:16:10] what the next step actually. So I’ve, I’m at a point in my life now where I’ve [00:16:15] kind of achieved, achieved everything I want to so far and [00:16:20] I’m done, you know, which is nice. I don’t think it’s fate. I’ve kind of had [00:16:25] a goal and then I’ve achieved that goal, you know, go to dental school, do perio, have a baby? [00:16:30] But now I’m done. So I don’t know what the next step is, but it’s good to, like, [00:16:35] I’m going to actually relax and my friends and family don’t believe me. They’re like, hey, there’ll be something [00:16:40] else, but I’m going to take a break. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So look, the the the [00:16:45] upside of being this person is very obvious, isn’t it? Yeah. [00:16:50] The downside of it constantly putting pressure on yourself.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes [00:16:55] you’re right. And it’s quite regimented, isn’t it? Um. I’m always doing something, [00:17:00] but I can’t sit still.

Payman Langroudi: But you, like, guilt ridden if you’re not achieving something. [00:17:05]

Payvand Menhadji: I don’t think so. I think I like the challenge. Yeah, I think [00:17:10] that’s what motivates me. I just think, like, especially if somebody says, oh, you can’t do that. And [00:17:15] this at the same time, I’m like, hold my drink, you know.

Payman Langroudi: No, I had I [00:17:20] had no idea on this pod. And I made my daughter listen to that pod. [00:17:25]

Payvand Menhadji: I mean, she’s amazing.

Payman Langroudi: Because the way I said to my daughter, just count how many times she was [00:17:30] too young at that point to really take it seriously. Yeah, but I but I made a little game for her. So just [00:17:35] count how many times she said, that’s really fun. Yeah. And she’d say stuff like, oh, you know, it was like [00:17:40] seven days a week. But it was really fun. I was really enjoying whatever it was.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:17:45]

Payman Langroudi: What an outlook she’s got.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. I mean, she’s juggling so many hats. Um, her [00:17:50] practice, her kids, her. No, I think she’s an absolute powerhouse. [00:17:55] I’m not like Reena. She’s in another league. Um, yeah. [00:18:00] She’s amazing.

Payman Langroudi: Do you think you’ll end up in your own practice the way she’s done it?

Payvand Menhadji: No. [00:18:05] I think so. My husband wants to buy a practice where hopefully [00:18:10] things will work out soon.

Payman Langroudi: It’s an endodontist.

Payvand Menhadji: No special interest. Um, [00:18:15] if we couldn’t have two crazy specialists. Too much work. Yeah. And also, like, financial [00:18:20] commitment. Um. Bless him, he supported me a lot as well. Um, so [00:18:25] hopefully he’ll have his practice. Um, he has a partner as well, so [00:18:30] that they can do their own thing. I just want to be good at my craft. I’m not in it for like the. [00:18:35]

Payman Langroudi: Do they have a practice?

Payvand Menhadji: They’re getting one. Hopefully things will work out. Yeah. Next year. Um, [00:18:40] but yeah, I just want to be good at what I do and hopefully yeah, maybe work there, but [00:18:45] maybe continue at the other practices I work at. I just want to be the person who [00:18:50] people refer really hard stuff to because they’re like, actually, I don’t know what to do. That’s [00:18:55] gangster.

Payman Langroudi: Has it started already? I mean, do you have a referring base of Dental? [00:19:00]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: How does that happen? How does like how does the evolution of, you know, not being someone [00:19:05] people refer to. Yeah. And then turn into being someone people think of to refer to.

Payvand Menhadji: Which is really nice [00:19:10] actually. Yeah. I think people talk as well. Um, people talk. So you’ve got [00:19:15] to be careful what you do to your patients. It’s such a small world. Nurses talk [00:19:20] as well. Yeah. You know, I work with so many different nurses and hygienists and you [00:19:25] got to you got to keep keep a good impression to everybody because everyone knows everyone. [00:19:30] You know, that. Um, but I think referrals started just by friends [00:19:35] first. You know, I’ve got loads of mates who are dentists, and then Instagram has kind of blown [00:19:40] up for me as well. People see your work and then they reach out.

Payman Langroudi: You’re getting a lot of patients from Instagram. [00:19:45] Yeah that’s nice.

Payvand Menhadji: From dentists though.

Payman Langroudi: From dentists.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Because [00:19:50] my aim is to appeal to dentists, not to patients. Right. Yeah. No. You know, patients are like, I’ve [00:19:55] got gum disease. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: As a specialist, your customer is the dentist. Exactly [00:20:00] right.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s a hard line not to be like. You want to be professional, but [00:20:05] not cringe. I think it’s difficult.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: On social media, you know.

Payman Langroudi: So what [00:20:10] would you say is the difference? I mean, I just had the previous guy as an orthodontist asking me, what’s the difference between [00:20:15] a good periodontist and a periodontist?

Payvand Menhadji: Um, I [00:20:20] think the problem in the UK is a lot of dentists think perio [00:20:25] is really boring and it’s just scaling, right? Gum gardening. But it’s a surgical speciality. [00:20:30] And in other countries in Europe and America and stuff, they [00:20:35] see us as like the best surgeons. But in the UK, because of our training, well, [00:20:40] I think my training was very good actually, because we had some great consultants, [00:20:45] etc. but like it’s just changing that stigma and then showing dentists [00:20:50] like actually this is what we can do. Um, it’s not just cleaning teeth. [00:20:55] I really want to step away from that, actually. Like, I just of course it’s important, but when you [00:21:00] work with such good hygienists as well, you know, you can delegate work and then they send [00:21:05] you work back and you work as a really nice team.

Payman Langroudi: So what’s the answer to my question?

Payvand Menhadji: I’ve [00:21:10] got a baby brain, haven’t I?

Payman Langroudi: Difference between a good and a great periodontist. [00:21:15] So those surgical skills.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I think great periodontists are surgical skills. [00:21:20] Not being afraid of anything. And good treatment planning.

Payman Langroudi: And you said you’re [00:21:25] kind of area of interest is sort of that mucogingival grafting.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, so [00:21:30] tell me about that. I mean, there’s a lot of it. There’s a lot more need for [00:21:35] that than I realised, actually.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. I mean, most of the time it is an elective procedure. [00:21:40] Yeah. Um, you know, patients aren’t going to die if they don’t have it, and the teeth aren’t, [00:21:45] you know, most of the time going to fall out. But, um, maybe it’s because I’m in this [00:21:50] world so much, but I’m seeing so much more of it now. Yeah. Um. So. Yeah. [00:21:55] Gum. Recession surgery. There’s so many different types of ways, um, you know, [00:22:00] tunnelling, coronally, advanced flaps, etc., etc.. So I just think it’s so meticulous [00:22:05] and can be very stressful, actually. I just [00:22:10] love being in that moment. For me, it’s like meditation, honestly.

Payman Langroudi: Go on. What’s like a the [00:22:15] key to it?

Payvand Menhadji: The key to it is, you [00:22:20] know, diagnosis is really important. So, you know, if you understand like the [00:22:25] area the defect really well then you know which surgical technique to [00:22:30] use. I think that’s what’s critical, because sometimes you might do something that, you [00:22:35] know, you didn’t diagnose right and it might, you know, be a shit show.

Payman Langroudi: What do you do? Do you get like a cbct or [00:22:40] something to literally see every bit of it?

Payvand Menhadji: No, it’s more like understanding, [00:22:45] like your limitations. So you can’t grow all the um, so for example, we’ve [00:22:50] got RT one and two and three defects. Do you remember the Miller’s classification? So there’s [00:22:55] a new one.

Payman Langroudi: Oh yes.

Payvand Menhadji: Well it’s not that new 2011. We call it chiro. [00:23:00] So it’s knowing like okay the bone has been lost. We can only grow the gum back [00:23:05] to the level of the bone. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Oh I see.

Payvand Menhadji: I see stuff like that. Um, and then managing patients expectations [00:23:10] from the outset, um, these things are really critical to getting a good result. [00:23:15]

Payman Langroudi: And traditional perio patients, you know, with [00:23:20] them I always think of like, you know, the the patient [00:23:25] changing their behaviour is like 90% of the battle, right?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, [00:23:30] I think the as specialists, we’re lucky because when they’ve come and [00:23:35] kind of paid for a console their game, you know, because somebody already [00:23:40] the dentist has done the soft sell and then I’ve done the hard sell, you know. So [00:23:45] I think most of the time conversion rate is like, I don’t know, nine out of ten. You know, most [00:23:50] people are willing to put in the work and the effort to fix their problem. You know, they’ve [00:23:55] come to that consultation. So I don’t find I’m spending too much time, um, [00:24:00] trying to change behaviour. They’re they’re almost ready. Like the hygienists and dentists have done [00:24:05] an excellent job. And it’s just.

Payman Langroudi: I guess by the time it’s gotten to you, they’ve already taken care of that.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, [00:24:10] exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Which is a blessing, really, because.

Payman Langroudi: I had a periodontist [00:24:15] that I used to refer to when I was dentist. And, you know, the great thing about him was like, for instance, my, [00:24:20] my kind of referral would be I want to stick a bridge. Yeah, but [00:24:25] this recession.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And I’m not sure whether these teeth can take it or not.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes, [00:24:30] exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Something like that. That would be the classic. The classic. Right. But the great thing about him [00:24:35] is he would send the patient back with a full treatment plan. Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Restorative.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Even [00:24:40] the other side. Yeah. Like. And the patient would go, like I’m thinking, will he or won’t [00:24:45] he go ahead with this bridge. Will I, will I be able to and come back with two other crowns and all that?

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely. [00:24:50]

Payman Langroudi: And that’s because he was good at restorative. And I don’t know if you ever came.

Payvand Menhadji: I have heard of him. Yes. [00:24:55] He was at guy’s. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Um, I think one of my implant consultants [00:25:00] works with him. Care of Andy?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah, yeah. That’s right, that’s right, that’s [00:25:05] right.

Payvand Menhadji: Um, yeah, exactly. So, you know, our exams are restorative as [00:25:10] well. So if you give back the dentist, more work to do. Yeah. [00:25:15] They’re going to keep referring to you.

Payman Langroudi: And the patients. Like going to respect your opinion [00:25:20] more than the dentist because you’re the together. You’re the clever specialist, right? So, like, [00:25:25] you know what I mean? That’s. That’s the position you’re in.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Um, so, no, I [00:25:30] think it’s that is a really good point. And we do definitely do that. We get more work for the dentist, [00:25:35] um, whether they like it or not. Really? Yeah. [00:25:40]

Payman Langroudi: Have you come across patients where, um. I mean, I mean, there must these [00:25:45] must be the ones you come across where for no reason, you can’t see why it’s not working. [00:25:50] Perio treatment isn’t working. It goes down. I kind of we kind of blame genetics. Right. Yeah. [00:25:55]

Payvand Menhadji: It’s, I think, to be honest, with good perio treatment. [00:26:00] Because now what we do is. Yeah, we do. Step one is kind of risk factors [00:26:05] supragingival cleaning. Step two is the nonsurgical phase. So we know we’ll [00:26:10] have residual pockets. So the studies say we have about 74% residual pockets on [00:26:15] average. So we’ve resolved 74%. So there’s some remaining. And then we [00:26:20] enter the surgical phase. So if you know, you could either do non-surgical [00:26:25] again, but if you do the surgical phase, then you’re eliminating those pockets and then you’ve [00:26:30] made the patient stable. So it’s never the case of.

Payman Langroudi: Something that [00:26:35] runs away.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. Which I think at Liverpool when I was a student, [00:26:40] I thought, oh, we’re just going round in circles. I used to make up my pocket charts [00:26:45] and like, really hate perio, but now I’ve realised, you know, you can stabilise [00:26:50] a perio patient and that is the whole point. So if you do it properly, you know. Yeah, [00:26:55] we’re not curing them but they’re stabilised. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s talk implants [00:27:00] from the peri periodontists perspective. So you must as a periodontist you must bring something [00:27:05] to that. Right, to that, to that discussion. I mean yeah. Are we, are we, are we talking sort of in [00:27:10] the anterior zone. You’re managing the soft, the pink so that it all looks natural, [00:27:15] better than the next guy who’s not a periodontist who doesn’t, you know.

Payvand Menhadji: I mean, I have.

Payman Langroudi: To get better. I mean. [00:27:20]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I have to be honest. I’m still a baby specialist, I think. Anterior zone [00:27:25] is. I think the more you know, the more you know your limitations. [00:27:30] And I think a lot of gdp’s no disrespect to GDPs. You know, they’re happy [00:27:35] to place loads of implants in the anterior zone. They don’t think of any hard or soft tissue grafting [00:27:40] and it looks shit. Um, but, you know, we we pick our cases [00:27:45] so carefully, and if it’s out of my scope, you know, I’ll team up with somebody like a [00:27:50] mentor or I’ll refer on because I don’t think I’m kind of good enough to do that yet. [00:27:55] Um, anterior zone is very complicated. Yeah. Um, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And at the higher [00:28:00] level. Right. I mean, where you’ve got patients paying loads of money, it’s got to be right.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely. [00:28:05] High smile line. You know, thin gingiva. Yeah. You got to do something about [00:28:10] it.

Payman Langroudi: In that situation. Would you handle that right now yourself or you wouldn’t you refer refer. [00:28:15]

Payvand Menhadji: I’m definitely not there yet in terms of implants, anterior zone simple implants, [00:28:20] back teeth, etc. for sure. My plan is after maternity [00:28:25] leave to really take that on. Our training at guy’s was was good, but [00:28:30] it wasn’t. I think we need more experience, you know? [00:28:35]

Payman Langroudi: Implant experience.

Payvand Menhadji: Implant experience. Yeah, we we placed a lot. [00:28:40] But it’s it’s just there’s so much to it. It’s a whole nother discipline in my opinion. [00:28:45] So to say I’m amazing at it would be a lie. You know, I’ve got a lot to learn.

Payman Langroudi: Do [00:28:50] you plan to do you plan to move in that direction specifically?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. I want my work to be [00:28:55] 50%, 50% implants. I think that’s what would make me happy. I want [00:29:00] to kind of stop the non-surgical side.

Payman Langroudi: Well, I find implantology really is an all or [00:29:05] nothing kind of thing.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. So and it goes on and [00:29:10] on and on. It’s like. It’s not like. It’s just like it keeps evolving. Exactly.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And [00:29:15] like I say, the more you learn, the more you realise. Bloody hell, there’s so much to know. But [00:29:20] when people do, you know these weekend courses, you just think what on earth [00:29:25] like?

Payman Langroudi: I guess it’s the beginning of the journey sometimes.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah. But I think maybe [00:29:30] because I’ve been down this academic specialist route, [00:29:35] I’m less kind of confident to just get [00:29:40] stuck in. But I think I pick everything carefully. I’m more risk averse, I [00:29:45] guess. I only perform like a surgery if I know I’m going to execute it really well. [00:29:50] You know what I mean?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: But yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You know, the first time you do anything [00:29:55] new, you’re not going to perform it really well, are you? Yeah, but.

Payvand Menhadji: You have, like, plan B and C maybe your [00:30:00] mentor there. Right. Yeah. Whereas some people, I think they just go in blind. Implant in [00:30:05] the sinus.

Payman Langroudi: Sometimes the best dentist though. Yeah. Because they figure it out like they [00:30:10] figured out differently to you, you know. Yeah. You’re right.

Payvand Menhadji: You’re right, you’re right. And some people, [00:30:15] you know, in my class, people say I’m quite ballsy. Like, I’m the, like, crazy one. And I’m [00:30:20] thinking GDPs are way crazier than I am, you know?

Payman Langroudi: Do you end up in sort of [00:30:25] the medico legal world as well?

Payvand Menhadji: Do I?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Not. Not personally. [00:30:30] What do you mean, as an expert?

Payvand Menhadji: No, I’m not.

Payman Langroudi: Doing any of.

Payvand Menhadji: That. No, I’m not into that. No, [00:30:35] I hate reading.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Um, lots [00:30:40] of. Yeah, lots of implant dentists can tend to do that, actually. I wonder whether it’s because [00:30:45] they’ve had, like, a case and then they end up doing.

Payman Langroudi: I think some people think [00:30:50] it’s easy money compared to, like, you know, spending your time sticking stuff in patients.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Maybe I’d [00:30:55] rather have the day off, to be honest.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. But and I think there’s a lot of litigation.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:31:00] Of course. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: There’s lots of work.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Um, [00:31:05] it’s one of those. It’s one of those things that, like, I don’t know, I don’t know. I [00:31:10] haven’t looked into it enough, but I guess there’s a lot of period Neglect?

Payvand Menhadji: Yes, [00:31:15] but luckily I’m on the other side of that. Right? Yeah, because I’m helping and [00:31:20] treating those patients. But I think yeah GDP is bless them.

Payman Langroudi: Sometimes, sometimes forget [00:31:25] to do pocket charts.

Payvand Menhadji: Or. Yeah. Yeah. And yeah exactly. [00:31:30]

Payman Langroudi: I think I think it’s not, it’s not the most like litigious bit of dentistry.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s, it’s [00:31:35] pretty high up there. Pretty high. I haven’t checked the stats recently but I think went to a BDA lecture [00:31:40] a couple years back and it was one of the highest.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, it’s like third or fourth or something.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:31:45] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You can imagine RCTs are going to be problematic. Yeah. You can imagine. [00:31:50] You can imagine implants, ortho you know like expectation management [00:31:55] side of things. Um, now my kids have been through ortho I kind of realised you [00:32:00] become super picky, man. As the patient, you become super [00:32:05] picky.

Payvand Menhadji: This is a little bit wonky.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, because it’s almost like this. These kids been through it for two years and [00:32:10] they’re going to pull it off and then that’s it. That’s you haven’t got a chance. And the weird thing is, the moment they take it off, you [00:32:15] don’t even bother with that ever again. You don’t think about it. It’s like some little corner that was really pissing you off. Yeah. [00:32:20] You just completely forget all about it. It’s so true.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I actually had braces [00:32:25] when I was younger and then braces again at dental school because, you know, you’re around. [00:32:30] Yeah. Relapse. And you as a dentist, you want to have nice teeth, right? And you realise [00:32:35] it’s like a hairdresser. You have to have good hair. And I had, um, fixed braces [00:32:40] for two years at Liverpool. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So you work now in five different practices? [00:32:45] Yeah. And I’m sure you’ve worked in a bunch of other practices as well.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I have.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a question [00:32:50] I kind of ask specialists because they’ve got a good insight into this. What [00:32:55] lessons have you learned about business management practice management [00:33:00] from being exposed to so many different practices? Because even the best ones [00:33:05] do things differently to each other.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely. I think one of the best practices [00:33:10] I work at, out. Um. It’s just so well organised. You know, they have [00:33:15] probably more staff than they need, but it’s it’s costing. But then that’s [00:33:20] reflected, I suppose, in the prices. But it makes the clinicians and the patient journey [00:33:25] just so slick.

Payman Langroudi: I just think there’s not enough humans in dental practices generally.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes. [00:33:30] But you know they can hire more. But it’s a cost isn’t it? It’s a [00:33:35] yeah. Like in.

Payman Langroudi: Private dentistry.

Payvand Menhadji: Right.

Payman Langroudi: You can make up that.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:33:40]

Payman Langroudi: Quite easily. You can make up the cost of a nurse for a day.

Payvand Menhadji: I agree.

Payman Langroudi: Um, but what I’m my reflection [00:33:45] on it is you walk into a room.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Or a IV? These [00:33:50] aren’t high, expensive restaurants. Right. There’s a lot of humans. There’s a lot of humans. [00:33:55] There’s someone greeting you at the door. There’s someone else taking you to your table. There’s a third person coming in. Wine person. Whatever. [00:34:00] Yeah, there’s a lot of people there’s in dentistry. We seem to really have the bare minimum. [00:34:05]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So this place has more people, more humans.

Payvand Menhadji: More humans is important, number one. Yeah. Um, [00:34:10] I think I mean, one of these practices, we’ve got somebody who’s on, [00:34:15] you know, we’ve got two people on reception, and there’s one person working from home who [00:34:20] answering calls, answering calls. But just any time you message them, they will just sort out [00:34:25] whatever you need. You know, I’ll just be like, can you do X, Y, and Z for these appointments next week? And [00:34:30] it’s done in a minute, you know.

Payman Langroudi: And it’s just so you’re saying you’re saying not to forget that someone can sit at [00:34:35] home and do a bunch of stuff.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly. Work remotely as well. And I guess, you know, if you’re a mother [00:34:40] as well, you want to work part time. That’s such a great job.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a good insight.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Yeah, [00:34:45] yeah. Remote working. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Anymore?

Payvand Menhadji: Anymore? Let me think. Um. [00:34:50] Yeah. More nurses for sure. Pay your nurses properly if you find a good nurse. Especially [00:34:55] these surgical nurses are. They’re just amazing. They’re gold. And it’s really [00:35:00] funny because I end up seeing them at the same practices. Like there’s a handful in [00:35:05] London that kind of work in all the right places, and you end up seeing them again and again. And yeah, [00:35:10] if we can keep those around. Brilliant. Just appreciate [00:35:15] them. Um, but I think more people, good nurses who?

Payman Langroudi: Any of them. If you [00:35:20] come across a practice where, um, marketing’s been amazing.

Payvand Menhadji: So [00:35:25] some of my practices, they spend so much money on that kind of stuff.

Payman Langroudi: It’s the opposite.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. And [00:35:30] I’m looking at it, and I’m thinking, what’s actually bringing in the patients? I don’t think it’s the marketing. [00:35:35] Um, I think it’s.

Payman Langroudi: Word of mouth.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Word of mouth is [00:35:40] number one. Always. Um, absolutely. But it’s tricky, isn’t it? I [00:35:45] mean, I’m not a practice owner. I think it’s really challenging, but they spend so much on marketing. [00:35:50]

Payman Langroudi: So there’s something you’re kind of. You’re saying I wouldn’t if you’re lesson [00:35:55] learnt is too much money’s being spent on marketing. Yeah. And what perhaps you’re [00:36:00] saying, like, you could push that resource into customer care or whatever.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Or like, sometimes [00:36:05] I think, um, especially as a referral centre. If you’ve got lots of specialists, [00:36:10] it’s good to hold things like CPD evenings, etc. study days, [00:36:15] get the local GP’s around, look after them, give them good food and drinks, um, [00:36:20] make a community and that’s going to bring in more patients.

Payman Langroudi: Have you been around [00:36:25] long enough for people? Someone stopped referring to you.

Payvand Menhadji: Stop referring to me.

Payman Langroudi: Because [00:36:30] I’ve noticed. I’ve noticed that the specialists really they have real pain about that one [00:36:35] when that happens. And the best it happens to the best.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah. You know, it’s I mean, it’s early days [00:36:40] for me. It hasn’t happened yet. I haven’t I don’t think I’ve pissed anyone off yet.

Payman Langroudi: There’s a churn rate. Yeah. [00:36:45] There’s a churn rate of customers in every business. Yeah. In your business. Right. The customers are [00:36:50] dentists. There will be a churn rate. And that’s why it’s one of the hardest things about being a specialist is you.

Payvand Menhadji: Break [00:36:55] my heart.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, well, not not only the, the the sort of that emotional side of it, you [00:37:00] constantly have to get more dentists to refer to you. Yeah. Because there is a constant churn. [00:37:05]

Payvand Menhadji: Yes, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: By the way, people move around, people sell their practices. And one [00:37:10] thing I’ve noticed with specialists is sometimes they’re overreliant on 1 or 2 referrers. [00:37:15]

Payvand Menhadji: That’s, you know, I can see that in my work. Um, I mean, luckily, the practice [00:37:20] kind of the practice is, um, give me so many [00:37:25] patients, naturally, you know, they’re in-house, but the external referrals, you know, it’s [00:37:30] it’s the same few people usually, who are just really keeping you busy. [00:37:35]

Payman Langroudi: So imagine that you’re like, imagine 1 or 2.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:37:40]

Payman Langroudi: I lost. Suddenly it changes the whole, you know, economics number one. It does. But but [00:37:45] also I’ve noticed specialists get hurt. Yeah. And by the way, I get it right. I’m [00:37:50] hurt when someone leaves enlightened. It’s. I feel like it’s my my baby. Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Of [00:37:55] course. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It does. I do get it. Yeah. But you haven’t. You haven’t [00:38:00] gone far enough in your journey to come across that particular pain point.

Payvand Menhadji: I’ll let you know when someone breaks [00:38:05] my heart. Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah I know. I know you haven’t had one of these for a long time. [00:38:10] Yeah, but what would you do if you had half a day off?

Payvand Menhadji: And actually, I [00:38:15] had one on Thursday. Oh, yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: No expectations.

Payvand Menhadji: No expectations. Because. [00:38:20] Because I’m getting quite big now. I mean, the principles are taking care of me.

Payman Langroudi: You weren’t [00:38:25] big.

Payvand Menhadji: Ah. What was the question again?

Payman Langroudi: What would you do if you had a time off? If you had time to yourself. [00:38:30]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I’m going to. I’m going to have a facial. I’m going to get my nails done. Yeah. Self-care [00:38:35] stuff. Shopping.

Payman Langroudi: Shopping.

Payvand Menhadji: I’m not going to sit at home, basically, but I’m going to go out and look after [00:38:40] myself.

Payman Langroudi: But so you said you said you live in Battersea. Yeah. [00:38:45] Have you been to that thing? The power station thing?

Payvand Menhadji: Of course. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I’m [00:38:50] there all the time, though. I don’t even like shopping. Yeah, but it’s cool there.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s cool, isn’t [00:38:55] it? You’ve got nice shops. I love Battersea Park. You’ll see me on the weekend, you know. Oh, yeah. [00:39:00] Um, but, yeah, it’s yes, it’s a lovely neck of the woods, I love it, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So [00:39:05] going forward, do you see yourself? Just. Is this it? Is this. Is this the way you’re going to be. [00:39:10]

Payvand Menhadji: I think.

Payman Langroudi: What’s your next goal?

Payvand Menhadji: I’m going to take it. Not not not take a step back. [00:39:15] But I want to see what my husband does next, to be honest. You know, he’s a dentist, etc. he’s [00:39:20] going to start the practice. I’m going to be a mum. And do you know where.

Payman Langroudi: The practice is yet or not?

Payvand Menhadji: It’ll [00:39:25] be south west somewhere. We don’t know yet. Um, but now I’m excited for him [00:39:30] because it’s all been about me, you know, being a specialist, blah, blah blah. So [00:39:35] it’s time to, like, back off a bit. So because we were in the same year at [00:39:40] university as well. So um, and then I think afterwards after [00:39:45] mat leave, my plan is to, yeah, get really stuck in with more difficult implant [00:39:50] work and work on those skills. We’re never stopping learning, right? Yeah. I mean, [00:39:55] I told you one of my biggest mentors is Amit Patel. He’s like [00:40:00] 50 odd And his place. He wouldn’t like me saying that. Probably he’s [00:40:05] placing zygomatic implants. Now he goes to trips to Brazil.

Payman Langroudi: Still learning.

Payvand Menhadji: He’s still learning. [00:40:10] And I’m like, why are you bothering? You know, with zygotes? Why? You know, why are you doing that? And he’s [00:40:15] like, because it’s cool. Like you just want to level up.

Payman Langroudi: So do you [00:40:20] see yourself going to that.

Payvand Menhadji: At this moment? No. Maybe. Never [00:40:25] say never. Yeah. Um. Never say never, [00:40:30] but I don’t I don’t know.

Payman Langroudi: Why do you think it is? There aren’t enough women in [00:40:35] surgery and implants and all that.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, it’s like a boys thing, isn’t it? We always say it’s an old boys [00:40:40] club. The, um. It could be because of maternity and stuff. You know, [00:40:45] people, women have kids, and then they just decide, oh, I’m making enough money part time. [00:40:50] I don’t really have the time to dedicate to more courses. And learning [00:40:55] could be that, um, maybe women are a bit more risk averse, [00:41:00] unfortunately. Um, but no, it shouldn’t be. And actually, through [00:41:05] the API, I’ve realised there are so much more women. Yeah, it is changing. I [00:41:10] mean, we’ve got the next, um, members forum coming up and, you know, we’ve [00:41:15] got lots of female speakers. You know, they do these things intentionally. Yeah. Um, but it makes [00:41:20] a difference. You know, last year I was watching, you know, lots of women. And then this year I’m going to [00:41:25] be speaking, and I feel like I’ve just graduated. Um, but it’s really nice.

Payman Langroudi: Are you speaking [00:41:30] at the full on event or.

Payvand Menhadji: I need to.

Payman Langroudi: Make a.

Payvand Menhadji: Presentation. No, the full on one.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:41:35] Um.

Payman Langroudi: So it’s. What’s it on?

Payvand Menhadji: It’s on gum grafting. [00:41:40]

Payman Langroudi: Oh, okay. Yeah. Okay. Around implants.

Payvand Menhadji: Round implants and teeth.

Payman Langroudi: So [00:41:45] let’s talk. Peri implantitis. Is it like the time bomb? People say.

Payvand Menhadji: Um, [00:41:50] I think it’s. Listen, everything’s about prevention, [00:41:55] right? So I always use the analogy. An implant is like a Ferrari in the mouth. [00:42:00] You need a good garage and you need more frequent mots. I say that to every patient and [00:42:05] then they’re like, oh, okay, but everyone can have them. Perio patients can have them. [00:42:10] Prevention is key. Once it happens, it’s really easy [00:42:15] now for me to put my perio hat on and see like why it’s happened. Lack of keratinised [00:42:20] tissue and cleansable, you know, poor placement cement. [00:42:25] Um, and I think if you can correct those factors and [00:42:30] then kind of try to stabilise the disease, it can be okay. But if you just kind of clean the implant, not [00:42:35] correct why it’s happened, it’s going to still remain a problem.

Payman Langroudi: So whether [00:42:40] or not you can correct it. Yeah. It depends on the particular situation. [00:42:45]

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. Diagnosis is key. Right.

Payman Langroudi: I guess it’s the same with teeth as [00:42:50] well, right?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Or is there something about periimplantitis is different to teeth? I mean, in that.

Payvand Menhadji: Sense, it’s more aggressive, [00:42:55] right?

Payman Langroudi: Is it, is it.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Like, bone loss around implants is so much quicker [00:43:00] than teeth. Okay, so, yeah, we have to act faster. Um, and [00:43:05] it can go undetected for so long. Right. If a dentist isn’t probing the area or taking, you [00:43:10] know, regular ads, you might just not know because the patient has no symptoms. Um, [00:43:15] so, yeah, it’s important to do.

Payman Langroudi: Do you get mobile implants that you have to then [00:43:20] remove and then I guess, figure out why that happened and not make that mistake the [00:43:25] second time. Is that what.

Payvand Menhadji: No, it’s it’s interesting. Even if an implant has about 5 to [00:43:30] 10% of bone, it can be quite solid. Oh, really? It’s really rare.

Payman Langroudi: Is that why you mean it’s not undetected? [00:43:35]

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. It’s really rare for an implant to be actually mobile. The implant itself, [00:43:40] the crown can be mobile, and then you just screw it back in. Hopefully. Yeah. Um, but [00:43:45] it’s rare for the implant to be mobile, so at that stage, it’s hopeless. It’s got to come out, [00:43:50] and then you can gbr redo an implant if the case suits. [00:43:55] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And have you got two bone graft with [00:44:00] four implants? Is that what you mean?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly. Yeah. Bone grafts. Um, you can use [00:44:05] xenografts. Allografts. People use mixtures of things. So. Yeah. Guided [00:44:10] bone regeneration. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. And soft tissue [00:44:15] as well. Sometimes it just, you know, it’s all on alveolar mucosa and that’s why everything’s failed. Because [00:44:20] it’s like a plaque slide going into the implant neck. Whereas you need that thick [00:44:25] collar of keratinised tissue sometimes.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s get to the darker part okay. [00:44:30] The pod should have like a music. Um, [00:44:35] what’s what if what comes to mind as the darkest day in the journey? [00:44:40] Or some of them so far?

Payvand Menhadji: Do you mean, um, in [00:44:45] my training or whatever you want? I’ve had some dark days, [00:44:50] my friend. Have you? Yeah. Period. This year of final year [00:44:55] has been really tough.

Payman Langroudi: Really? So you reckon from your whole biochem, dentistry [00:45:00] and specialist journey, this year was the hardest year.

Payvand Menhadji: This year was [00:45:05] the hardest year of my life. Yeah, it was just we say [00:45:10] exams like. And people just imagine us just studying. You’ve got non stop clinics [00:45:15] on top. The clinics don’t stop at the hospital. So you’re still treating patients like you would normally [00:45:20] because they don’t.

Payman Langroudi: Referral patients to the hospital.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah exactly. Because it’s an NHS [00:45:25] service. Right. And I had to beg my consultants to take two days [00:45:30] of study leave extra because, you know, I didn’t have enough days. Apparently [00:45:35] you only get ten a year or something. Um, to go to the Europa Conference. You know, [00:45:40] I had to, like, beg them. So I think you have so many commitments and you’re juggling [00:45:45] so many things, and you just sometimes think, bloody hell, like, I just need a break. Um, [00:45:50] but.

Payman Langroudi: Did you have a moment? Like, was it? I lost it. I mean, sometimes these moments [00:45:55] are like the straw that breaks the camel’s back. But did you have concurrent things? It [00:46:00] was your whole.

Payvand Menhadji: First trimester, I think. Yeah. I just couldn’t handle it. Every [00:46:05] day I was, like, trying to get through the next day. Feeling sick. Had so [00:46:10] much to do. Work was piling up. Practices, messaging you. What about this patient? When are [00:46:15] you back? What are you doing? Um. Your family as well. You know, you’ve got expectations [00:46:20] of being like a daughter, a best friend, a wife, etc.. You’re pulled from all different [00:46:25] sides, but you got through it, you know? [00:46:30] And that’s the thing. There’s always a really difficult period. And then it will come to an [00:46:35] end. And then you can look back and say, God, I won’t do that again.

Payman Langroudi: That sort of [00:46:40] idea of wanting it all. Yeah. Do you accept it’s impossible to have it all?

Payvand Menhadji: Um. [00:46:45]

Payman Langroudi: I mean, it depends what all is, right? Yeah, exactly. [00:46:50]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I’ve got everything touch with that I’ve wanted. I’m looking at someone like Rena. [00:46:55] She looks like she’s got it all, you know?

Payman Langroudi: So it depends what you call.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, it depends what you call. [00:47:00] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Because someone could say, oh, I want it all, I want kids, I want to be a specialist. [00:47:05] I want 130 practices as well.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: That’s quite you know what I mean. Yeah, [00:47:10] yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. You’ve got to be realistic as well.

Payman Langroudi: There is someone like that.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Really? [00:47:15] Of course. Yeah, yeah. You know what I mean. Yeah. You can, you can laugh at it [00:47:20] and someone else will laugh at you. Yeah. And say wow, look at her and [00:47:25] laugh at her. Yeah. Look up to you and say, look at her. Got a kid on the way just did that. [00:47:30]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, but my question where it’s going is this notion of if you [00:47:35] accept that, you can’t have it all.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: What gives like what aspect [00:47:40] gives? Like you just mentioned their family.

Payvand Menhadji: Something’s got to give, right? [00:47:45]

Payman Langroudi: Often it’s yourself, isn’t it? Your own health and your own mental health sometimes.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely. For me, [00:47:50] it was a relationship. Yes. They call it. You know, they call these courses the divorce course.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:47:55]

Payvand Menhadji: Right. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Um, yeah. I mean, my relationship, we’ve had ups [00:48:00] and downs. We’re fine, you know, but there are periods where I probably drive him crazy. [00:48:05] Um, just because you’re stressed, right? And, [00:48:10] I mean, I used to be quite fit. I was always going to the gym, and then that took a real [00:48:15] turn. Um, I’ve got the excuse of being pregnant now. I’m just scared of going back [00:48:20] to the gym. Um, something’s got to give. You’re absolutely right. And usually it is your own health, [00:48:25] isn’t it?

Payman Langroudi: You need that conversation to be had more, you know, because the other side of it, of [00:48:30] I want it all. And why can’t I have it all? Yeah, that seems to have been a conversation. Like people, you hear that [00:48:35] narrative quite a lot. Yeah. But the reality end of the of that equation [00:48:40] that okay. I mean, listen, by the way that I know, um, I [00:48:45] had Anushka from the mirror here. She’s got. She’s got a naughty [00:48:50] practices.

Payvand Menhadji: The purple one.

Payman Langroudi: Three children.

Payvand Menhadji: Wow. [00:48:55]

Payman Langroudi: Um, you know, there’s a lot, lot going on, but but, you know, even she was telling me she’s she’s [00:49:00] never really travelled.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: You know, and she’s she’s sunk. You don’t get to 40 [00:49:05] practices by spending the money. Yeah. You get the 40 practice by sinking every penny back in.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes. [00:49:10]

Payman Langroudi: And on her anniversary, she had to get up at 4 a.m. [00:49:15] to make sure that it didn’t affect her husband and children to go through papers. [00:49:20] She was buying seven practices that day. You know.

Payvand Menhadji: At the.

Payman Langroudi: Same time. At the same time.

Payvand Menhadji: What [00:49:25] a lady.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Um, but my point is, is that okay, you could say. Oh, Anoushka’s got it all. Yeah. [00:49:30] But, yeah. What a nightmare. Exactly. Yeah, [00:49:35] yeah. If you want to look at it that.

Payvand Menhadji: Way to us. Yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Um, but the conversation needs to [00:49:40] be had. You know, it sounds so good and easy and.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, you’re totally. People actually [00:49:45] have said to me, I’ve had people come up to me in the hospital junior years. Hey, you’ve [00:49:50] got everything. How do you manage everything? How do you do this? How do you do that? And I’m [00:49:55] thinking, I’m so stressed. And, you know, I’ve ended up in this position. [00:50:00] I’m fortunate, but it’s not happened yet. It’s not easy. People [00:50:05] see the final product.

Payman Langroudi: That’s gone into.

Payvand Menhadji: It. Yeah. Bloody hell. Like so much work, people see the end [00:50:10] result and they think are accomplished. Whatever. But it’s hard work. [00:50:15] Nothing comes easy.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, look, if what we said was I lost hair. Really? We [00:50:20] said we said this, this particular journey. If you want to go backwards, you know, maybe from [00:50:25] when you were 15. Yeah. Yeah. That’s 18, 20 years ago.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s mad, isn’t [00:50:30] it? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: 20 years you’ve been working at this and you’re just at the beginning. Yeah. You’re [00:50:35] the most junior specialist in the country right now. Absolutely. Yeah, exactly. [00:50:40] It’s huge man. Yeah. It’s huge. You know, people have to listen to that [00:50:45] conversation and say, yeah, this, this massive sacrifice in achievement. Yeah. [00:50:50] How do you get over this? I’m having real trouble with this notion of contentment [00:50:55] and progress.

Payvand Menhadji: Mhm.

Payman Langroudi: Especially from our [00:51:00] culture. Yeah. Like if you say if you’re someone I don’t know what it is in forest, but if someone comes [00:51:05] up to you and says how are you, how’s your business? And I say, I’m really content. It’s almost like, [00:51:10] what’s wrong with them? Like, why would he be content? Yeah. Like, it’s almost a bad thing to be. Yeah. [00:51:15] And I. And I get it right because it’s almost on a string. Contentment and progress can’t like, [00:51:20] you know, they’re in opposition to each other.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Like, if you’re content, why would you progress?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:51:25] But you, as this ambitious person, and you seem very like. And like. I know your delivery [00:51:30] is. You seem like happy go lucky.

Payvand Menhadji: I’m so happy go lucky.

Payman Langroudi: How [00:51:35] have you squared this circle?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. You’re right. I am very happy. Go lucky. I think I’m, [00:51:40] I forget very easily, which is a good thing. You [00:51:45] know, like, I don’t dwell on the negativity and negative things for too long. [00:51:50]

Payman Langroudi: And the past.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes, exactly. I think that is a good skill I have, and I think that’s what keeps [00:51:55] me going. Like something will piss me off. Right. And yeah, I’ll be annoyed, but [00:52:00] not for long. And then I just think, whatever. I’m just upsetting myself, and I just. I move on easy [00:52:05] and I move on from people and problems very easily.

Payman Langroudi: I [00:52:10] don’t get emotionally attached to to negative stuff.

Payvand Menhadji: No, no, no, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: But [00:52:15] how about the power of now thing? I mean, are you are you in the future all the time? Is your is your head constantly thinking three [00:52:20] years ahead?

Payvand Menhadji: Maybe. You know, I’ve not thought about that. I do always [00:52:25] I’m a to do list person. I like having a list and [00:52:30] you’re going to laugh at me now. I have like a few like, life goals as well. Like [00:52:35] what I want to achieve. By what age? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Go on, go on. Share share share. 1 or 2 of those? [00:52:40]

Payvand Menhadji: No. I mean.

Payman Langroudi: Well. Are you superstitious about them as well?

Payvand Menhadji: No, no, no. It’s just, [00:52:45] you know, you set yourself targets like.

Payman Langroudi: First kid at 34.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, that kind of [00:52:50] thing. Or like, a big mansion by this age. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What age were [00:52:55] you thinking?

Payvand Menhadji: That’s why I didn’t disclose.

Payman Langroudi: Which country did you think you’re going to be in to have this big mansion? [00:53:00]

Payvand Menhadji: No. I know you can only.

Payvand Menhadji: Dream, right? But I think [00:53:05] it’s.

Payvand Menhadji: Good to have some.

Payman Langroudi: Big mansions of dentists, generally outside London. But my [00:53:10] goodness, some dentists where they get themselves these gigantic pieces of land.

Payvand Menhadji: Just [00:53:15] give me, like, decades.

Payman Langroudi: But then sometimes £1 million buys a big thing.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:53:20]

Payvand Menhadji: It depends. Exactly.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. Big mansion. Sounds obvious. Anything [00:53:25] else? Anything like. Not so obvious.

Payvand Menhadji: Um. I mean, I’m fortunate, actually. I made sure [00:53:30] even during perio, I did a lot of travelling. I’ve done. Yeah, yeah. Every month, even if [00:53:35] it’s a little trip, at least it’s the weekend. Um, so I’m not, like, super thirsty [00:53:40] for travel. I’d love to have some longer holidays, but it’s okay. The main [00:53:45] ones are like, yeah, I wanted to start a family and it’s just the next step. [00:53:50] I want a big house basically.

Payman Langroudi: But honestly, my honest, I don’t want to give up any of the jobs [00:53:55] you’ve got. But my honest advice is three days is ample.

Payvand Menhadji: You think so?

Payman Langroudi: Three days is a lot.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, right.

Payman Langroudi: I [00:54:00] don’t know when you’re doing five days. Three days doesn’t.

Payvand Menhadji: Seem like.

Payman Langroudi: Three days is a lot. It’s a career.

Payvand Menhadji: Because [00:54:05] one day it’s just minimum admin, you know, letters, blah, blah, blah. But we got AI [00:54:10] now.

Payman Langroudi: No, but I’m saying three days is a lot of dentistry at a high level as well. You’re talking about, [00:54:15] you know, you want to be the kind of person who gets referred complicated stuff.

Payvand Menhadji: No you’re.

Payvand Menhadji: Right.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [00:54:20] yeah. Surgeon.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I’ve talked to some implant guys the night before. Big case. [00:54:25] They they go to bed early and.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: This sort of move.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: Yes. Like, so [00:54:30] what I’m saying is three days of.

Payvand Menhadji: That.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: Is a lot. It’s like it’s like four days for [00:54:35] a standard but five days for someone.

Payvand Menhadji: More experienced than me. Yeah. I take your advice. You’re [00:54:40] right. I’m just thinking I can do it all right now, Victoria.

Payman Langroudi: And say you’re.

Payvand Menhadji: Leaving. Yeah. Okay. [00:54:45]

Payman Langroudi: So the practices you’re at Victoria [00:54:50] and Ariane.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Which is the. What’s it called? Health.

Payvand Menhadji: That’s the health society. One place. Beautiful [00:54:55] place there. So lovely as well.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. The vibe. The vibe in that place.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. They’re [00:55:00] just cool. They’re cool, they’re cool.

Payman Langroudi: They can’t help themselves.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Go on.

Payvand Menhadji: Um. Kills. [00:55:05] Hap kills. Love that practice. Very cool. He’s just. He’s [00:55:10] just so relaxed. I look up to him a lot.

Payman Langroudi: He knows a lot as well.

Payvand Menhadji: He [00:55:15] is an exceptional dentist. I always knew he was good, but I didn’t realise until I started working. [00:55:20]

Payman Langroudi: Exceptional for many years now. You know, it’s like.

Payvand Menhadji: Such a he’s like a god. Yeah, I really like [00:55:25] him.

Payman Langroudi: And Jaz Gulati works there too.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, jazz has come back. So he worked there before and now he’s come back. Um, [00:55:30] I work in Q as well. Um, Jaguar. He went to [00:55:35] Liverpool, actually. Okay. Um, really nice practice. Private practice.

Payman Langroudi: Private [00:55:40] practice.

Payvand Menhadji: Right. Yeah. Yeah. Um. Yeah. Really happy at those. And then. [00:55:45]

Payman Langroudi: Serene in serene and Knightsbridge.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Like there there’s [00:55:50] lots of Arabs. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Like people like tourism. Like like health tourism. [00:55:55] They’ve come to London for the for the dentistry.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely. And sapphires contacts really. [00:56:00] You know, she um I think she has like a bit of an international presence as well now, but [00:56:05] maybe in the Arab world, um, so people will come to her and then she’ll send [00:56:10] me her cases to stabilise or like pre or post ortho, which is really nice. [00:56:15] Um, you get like.

Payman Langroudi: Is that the most expensive one of the funds you go to?

Payvand Menhadji: No, I think [00:56:20] S1 Dental is the Westminster.

Payman Langroudi: Excellent.

Payvand Menhadji: It’s full of [00:56:25] like lords and ladies.

Payman Langroudi: It’s been there a long time.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, it’s 20 years plus and it’s right [00:56:30] by the Houses of Parliament. It’s beautiful. Yeah, I think that one’s the most expensive place. [00:56:35]

Payman Langroudi: So what does it cost to see you?

Payvand Menhadji: Um. A consult? Yeah, 250. [00:56:40] Yeah, for an.

Payman Langroudi: Hour. What does it cost for, like, mucogingival surgery? [00:56:45] Like, I know it depends on it.

Payvand Menhadji: Depends. Right. But, yeah, like.

Payman Langroudi: On average.

Payvand Menhadji: On [00:56:50] average, um, it totally varies. Like a grand to [00:56:55] two grand to three grand. You know, it depends how many teeth, how long it’s going to take.

Payman Langroudi: How [00:57:00] long does it take? I mean, isn’t it quite quick?

Payvand Menhadji: No, it depends what you’re doing. Right. And maybe I’m quite [00:57:05] slow still, but if you’re doing like an area from like 2 to 6, right. [00:57:10] That’s a lot. Yeah. And I would book two and a half, three hours for that.

Payman Langroudi: And [00:57:15] have you got to the point where you can tell how it’s going to like develop [00:57:20] mature as.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Of course you can tell before you start from what you said about the bone [00:57:25] levels.

Payvand Menhadji: Bone levels. It’s your suturing. It’s you’re suturing at the end is so key as well. Remember, [00:57:30] I’m just a baby specialist. I’m sure specialists will listen to me now and think. How many has she done? [00:57:35] Um, but I’m still learning a lot. But, yeah, the suturing will take me [00:57:40] the longest time. The easy part, and the most fun part is the cutting. Cutting. Five [00:57:45] minutes. Get that ready. Five minutes. Get the graph from the palette. The suturing at [00:57:50] the end is what.

Payman Langroudi: Makes the.

Payvand Menhadji: Different time. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Exactly. [00:57:55] What about that? Just being very fine. I mean, it’s interesting you ask. Yeah. [00:58:00] What’s the key to Implantology. And he said.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh did he. Yeah. For me it’s I think [00:58:05] what.

Payman Langroudi: About.

Payvand Menhadji: The suturing? Suturing? Just like positioning everything perfectly. Not taking [00:58:10] too long as well because you don’t want to damage the tissues.

Payman Langroudi: Traumatising not.

Payvand Menhadji: Traumatising. [00:58:15] You’re exactly using your really small 6 or 7 zero sutures. It’s hard, [00:58:20] you know. Um. What else? Keeping the tissues moist. [00:58:25] Just. Just positioning. Just doing a good job. You know, when you get back to an upper [00:58:30] six. Access is tricky, you know?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Um, not having [00:58:35] tension on the flap. Primary closure, all these, like, you know, standard stuff. [00:58:40]

Payman Langroudi: You know what? I’ve noticed that the the difference between an expert and a not expert [00:58:45] is doing the basics absolutely right.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly.

Payman Langroudi: You know.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Not [00:58:50] missing.

Payvand Menhadji: A step.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Not not skipping any steps.

Payvand Menhadji: Absolutely.

Payman Langroudi: And it’s so interesting how a lot [00:58:55] of our profession is around hacks and and and missing steps. Like, [00:59:00] like almost. You’re almost like on on some of the forums. It’s about what’s the best way to miss this step.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [00:59:05]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. And whereas every time you go to an expert in any area, whichever and [00:59:10] you’re talking to them, you try and find out where’s the magic in this? Yeah. You’re so right. It’s not magic. It’s [00:59:15] do everything right without skipping any steps.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. Every [00:59:20] time you do it. Yeah. So it becomes the norm, and you just. It’s like muscle memory, [00:59:25] right? Yeah. You’re so right.

Payman Langroudi: And, you know, it’s really good from the manufacturer perspective. Yeah. You’d [00:59:30] be amazed how few people read the instructions.

Payvand Menhadji: I don’t.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, you’d be amazed. [00:59:35] I’d say one 5% might read instructions.

Payvand Menhadji: I’m just thinking of enlighten [00:59:40] right now. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You know, sometimes the instructions are very specific. Very, very [00:59:45] specific. Like dry and wet and then dry again. You know, something like that. Yeah. And, you know, some [00:59:50] chemist has gone through like hell to figure out, you know, this bioactive glass, the way [00:59:55] this works. Yeah, yeah. You’re going to have to, like, you know, first dry it, then apply it, then leave it for [01:00:00] 30s. And then. Very rarely does anyone read that.

Payvand Menhadji: Why are we [01:00:05] like that? We’re lazy. We’re humans.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. By the way, I’m just saying, if I buy some thing, [01:00:10] I never read the instructions. Yeah, some speaker or something. Yeah, I [01:00:15] never read it, but it’s one of the reasons why we do like online training.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [01:00:20]

Payman Langroudi: You know, like an actual session of training.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. Even with all this baby stuff, [01:00:25] you know, I’m. I can’t be bothered to sit down and read a book, but whereas, you know, these [01:00:30] NCT classes when someone’s telling me do this. That’s how I learned. Yeah, [01:00:35] I think that’s really important, actually. It makes it more interactive.

Payman Langroudi: What comes to mind if I say [01:00:40] errors?

Payvand Menhadji: Administrative errors. Cool. Yeah. [01:00:45] There was a period I was, I think, hands up. At the hospital, [01:00:50] I was quite lazy with my notes because you think you’re protected [01:00:55] as well in the hospital. You’ve got this, like.

Payman Langroudi: Cottonwool around you. Yeah, yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: But, [01:01:00] you know, things do get checked. And, you know, I would get flagged up. So, um, [01:01:05] now I’ve got some good solid templates, etc.. Um, I need to [01:01:10] get I want to use Dental tco. Do you use anything like that? [01:01:15]

Payman Langroudi: I don’t practice.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh, yeah. I didn’t know that, actually.

Payman Langroudi: I stopped 2012.

Payvand Menhadji: Fair [01:01:20] enough. You don’t need to know. Do you miss it?

Payman Langroudi: I miss people.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, but [01:01:25] you’ve got all this, you know, you’ve got the Dental Leaders podcast.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, it’s one of the reasons I [01:01:30] do it.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Brilliant.

Payman Langroudi: But, um. Yeah. No, but I know what you’re talking about. So something [01:01:35] like Dental. There’s a few of them is like karaoke.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly. So I think you need to spend, [01:01:40] like, a good, solid day to learn it, and then you can use it, but, um. [01:01:45] Yeah. Notes. I’m, I’m, I’m not good on. So that’s my biggest kind [01:01:50] of error in terms of clinical error.

Payman Langroudi: What happened? What happened? You didn’t.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh, nothing [01:01:55] really. You just kind of.

Payman Langroudi: What was the event?

Payvand Menhadji: Um, you know, you just get a slap on the wrist and, [01:02:00] like.

Payman Langroudi: Your your boss.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Consultants. Like, for example, I was about to start [01:02:05] a surgery. I’ll never forget this. Actually about to start surgery. And, [01:02:10] um, because we got a new system. It’s called epic on the hospital, and [01:02:15] I just wasn’t getting the hang of it. I’m not very. I can do dentistry. I’m not good at computers. So [01:02:20] I’d done the consent form. Hand on heart. I’d done it. Patient was. Their patient was vouching [01:02:25] for me. Like, I know what I’m doing, I signed something last week. She told me [01:02:30] all the risks the consultants like, tell me the risks. And he’s like pain, bleeding, swelling, [01:02:35] infection. And, um, I just couldn’t find it on this bloody computer. [01:02:40] Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so it was just stuff like that I’d always get in trouble for, um, [01:02:45] you fill out, then you have to fill out another form, like a date form, and [01:02:50] then just keep saying sorry.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I’m not gonna accept it. Sorry. I’m not gonna [01:02:55] accept that as your error. I like it, but not a lot.

Payvand Menhadji: Okay? [01:03:00] I haven’t had any major cock ups.

Payman Langroudi: There must have been other errors.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, I know, and [01:03:05] I’ve been thinking about it. I wish I had something really juicy to tell you. Like I made a patient bleed [01:03:10] to death, but I haven’t. No. Um. I [01:03:15] mean, my biggest fear. It’s not happened [01:03:20] to me. I hope it never happens to me. But you hear of people harvesting the graft from the palate [01:03:25] and then the nurse suctions it up.

Payman Langroudi: And they lose.

Payvand Menhadji: It and they lose it. And, [01:03:30] you know.

Payman Langroudi: Are you supposed to do that point?

Payvand Menhadji: Well, you you’re meant to say sorry and pray that you [01:03:35] can take it from the other side and the patient will let you. But it’s so sore. So then [01:03:40] the whole mouth is. So every time I’m working with anyone, I’m like, look, okay, [01:03:45] but we have to communicate properly.

Payman Langroudi: Complaint. One complaint in your career.

Payvand Menhadji: Hand on heart, I haven’t.

Payman Langroudi: Really. [01:03:50]

Payvand Menhadji: Let’s not jinx it.

Payman Langroudi: Really?

Payvand Menhadji: I want to say people like me. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: That’s amazing [01:03:55] man. Yeah, that’s. How many years have you been a dentist?

Payvand Menhadji: Since 2018. Seven. [01:04:00]

Payman Langroudi: That’s amazing man. Not a single complaint. All right.

Payvand Menhadji: I swear to God.

Payman Langroudi: Your [01:04:05] most difficult patient.

Payvand Menhadji: Difficult patient? It’s the ones I mean. I kind of [01:04:10] like it as well. They quiz me so much. So just the other. Just [01:04:15] the other week, I had somebody, um. You know, I wanted to take a tooth out. It was [01:04:20] what we call hopeless prognosis. No matter what kind of perio treatment we do, This tooth needs [01:04:25] to come out. And she was saying to me, look, I get that, but I don’t want to have a [01:04:30] foreign body placed in me like an implant. And then we talked about bridges [01:04:35] for ages, implants for ages, and then the whole consult I [01:04:40] hour. I didn’t even look in her mouth. We were just speaking about this situation. [01:04:45] And, you know, she was very articulate, very intelligent, and she wanted me to like [01:04:50] quote, papers and.

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. And my nurse is looking at me like, are you okay? [01:04:55] You know, are you tired? And then you finish and you just think I felt [01:05:00] very challenged. But luckily, you know, patients on board. But they’re the difficult patients [01:05:05] for me, all the questioning, it’s exhausting.

Payman Langroudi: And American.

Payvand Menhadji: She [01:05:10] was English actually.

Payman Langroudi: I know, I know dentist. Yeah. Who? Um, [01:05:15] the patient got rejected by the Eastman mid treatment because [01:05:20] he was so difficult.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And she took him on. Really? [01:05:25] Yeah. And, uh, the, you know, he wanted pulse oximeter on [01:05:30] his hand throughout treatment and all sorts of suctions all over the place [01:05:35] because of the amalgam. Uh, yeah. Yeah. And, uh, I think [01:05:40] she charged him. I don’t want to get it wrong, but it was. It was [01:05:45] in the £1,500 for a mo. Right. And and it took [01:05:50] all day.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: I mean, that’s the thing with a difficult patient as well, [01:05:55] right? You just kind of up your fee. And so if.

Payman Langroudi: She said it wasn’t worth it, by.

Payvand Menhadji: The way.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, [01:06:00] she said it was a terrible day. Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh, my God, that is awful. But [01:06:05] that that is a, um, a trick that somebody had told me. You know, if you don’t want to see the patient [01:06:10] up your fee and then if you are seeing them, at least you’re getting rewarded for it. [01:06:15] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But in that situation, when someone’s saying, quote me a paper, what are you saying?

Payvand Menhadji: Well, [01:06:20] luckily, you know, I’ve just finished my finals, so. Yeah. Yeah. So everything’s fresh at the moment. But you [01:06:25] know me in a few years time. Well, I’ll be hopefully quoting those old papers, [01:06:30] but it’s hard to keep up.

Payman Langroudi: And I think, you know, a couple of things, a couple of things that young dentists need to [01:06:35] be aware of that they’re not so much, in my experience, is that it’s okay to say, I don’t know.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, [01:06:40] yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: When you’re young, you feel like if you say that you’re going to be found out. [01:06:45]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, you’re right. But it’s this whole, like, specialist hat now. Like as a baby specialist, people [01:06:50] are still paying the big bucks to see you and for the treatment, so. [01:06:55]

Payman Langroudi: I know, but look, I, I’ve had a bunch of people. I’m paying too much money for their, like, [01:07:00] very specialist legal knowledge for the sake of the argument. Yeah, yeah. And [01:07:05] when I asked a question, the guy says, I don’t know. My respect goes up for him. Not [01:07:10] down.

Payvand Menhadji: At least he’s not lying.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. This is not making it up on the spot.

Payvand Menhadji: You know, it’s funny you say [01:07:15] that because this same patient, she then started talking about amalgam. And that’s not my [01:07:20] expertise. I can blag a little bit. But I did actually say, I don’t know because she [01:07:25] was asking more questions and we moved on, which was good.

Payman Langroudi: I respect for that. For that professional goes up first. [01:07:30] Yeah. Because. Because he knows what he doesn’t know. Yeah, exactly. You’re not.

Payvand Menhadji: Bullshitting [01:07:35] the.

Payman Langroudi: Patient. Bullshitting. Yeah, yeah. Um, but then then and I [01:07:40] spoke to Andrew Darwin about this as well. The telling the patient the things that can [01:07:45] go wrong. Yeah. In a again, young dentists think if I do [01:07:50] that, it’s going to put the patient off me being their their dentist.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Whereas [01:07:55] from the patient perspective again you think at least the guy knows what could [01:08:00] go wrong.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. And yeah, as clinicians we’ve been in situations where I’ve been in situations [01:08:05] where family members about to have a ten hour operation.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: And it’s important that we [01:08:10] know what could go wrong.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly.

Payman Langroudi: In that situation. You don’t want just reassurance that everything’s going to be all [01:08:15] right.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. And I think, you know, with grafting, Going back to grafting, I always [01:08:20] tell them, like, you know, you over stress, the pain, you don’t know how they’re [01:08:25] going to respond. But I’m like.

Payman Langroudi: Under-promise kind of thing.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, exactly. I’m like, it’s going to hurt so much. [01:08:30] You know? I’m really sorry. You’re going to hate me on day 4 or 5. Then we’ll be friends again in [01:08:35] two weeks. But I and then they come back and they’re like, it really wasn’t that bad. But, you know, I really stress [01:08:40] that you’re going to have so much pain because some people do. Um, but I make sure that’s when my, um, [01:08:45] my letters are really good as well with, you know, all the risks. You have to do it right. [01:08:50]

Payman Langroudi: As a perio trainee, you’ve had all the restorative training as well. So [01:08:55] is part of that course doing like full mouth rehabs and that sort of thing or [01:09:00] doesn’t it get.

Payvand Menhadji: No. Unfortunately not. We kind of work with our colleagues. So [01:09:05] yeah. Together. Together. Yeah. Like we all do the crown lengthening but they’ll do all the like the [01:09:10] crowns, bridges, etc.. Um, we can plan together, but more [01:09:15] of the full mouth rehabs, it’s more prosto.

Payman Langroudi: And so are you doing much drilling of teeth at all?

Payvand Menhadji: No [01:09:20] no, no. I was, but now I’m not. It’s just it’s just. Yeah, exactly. [01:09:25] Just cutting and stitching. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What are [01:09:30] you very bad at?

Payvand Menhadji: Um.

Payman Langroudi: Often notes.

Payvand Menhadji: Saying [01:09:35] no.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Payvand Menhadji: People pleaser. I’m a people pleaser. That’s why I’ve got so many jobs. [01:09:40] I hate letting people down. That’s my. [01:09:45] That’s my downfall. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a terrible people pleasing. It’s a wonderful person [01:09:50] to be around.

Payvand Menhadji: I’m getting better at it. But that, truthfully, that [01:09:55] is. Yeah. I’m a people pleaser.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a wonderful person to be around, isn’t it? Everyone thinks, oh, this person is so amazing. [01:10:00]

Payvand Menhadji: Happy go lucky.

Payman Langroudi: So amazing. You know, like, if you’re saying yes to everything. Yeah. Saying yes [01:10:05] to everything your parents are saying. Yes. Everything. Your husband saying yes. Everything your kids saying.

Payvand Menhadji: Then you burn out.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Yes. To everything. [01:10:10] Your work saying. Yeah. And the only thing you’re not taking care of is yourself.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. That’s me. [01:10:15]

Payman Langroudi: It’s great to be around that person. Yeah, people put that person on a pedestal, right?

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [01:10:20]

Payman Langroudi: Um.

Payvand Menhadji: And it’s something always gives, right? So for ages, I have lots [01:10:25] of non Dental friends that keep me sane, basically. And they were just like, hey, like, we’ve not [01:10:30] seen you in ages. You know, we’re not a priority anymore. All these kind of things. And I’m just thinking, [01:10:35] you bastards, I’m just trying to survive. Um, but [01:10:40] yeah, I think saying no, um, I need to work on it. I’m [01:10:45] aware of it, though. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: A couple of quick round things.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: What comes [01:10:50] to your mind if I say, what’s the best lecture you’ve been to?

Payvand Menhadji: So we were talking [01:10:55] about this, um, the Europa conferences. I like the Glastonbury of Perio, and [01:11:00] they really are though. And it’s every three years, [01:11:05] it’s like 10,000 people and 10,000. Oh it’s massive.

Payman Langroudi: How many [01:11:10] screens, how many, how many stages?

Payvand Menhadji: So yeah, maybe like 3 or 4 big stages at [01:11:15] the same time, and then loads of little rooms as well. It’s it’s it’s huge.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:11:20] didn’t I had no idea.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah yeah yeah it’s massive. It’s so fun. And it’s like [01:11:25] all the big names of Perrier.

Payman Langroudi: Oh yeah. If it’s every three years, it’s like.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: The [01:11:30] World Cup final.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. And everyone’s there and you know, the meals [01:11:35] out, the drinks. So much fun. Um, the best speaker I’ve seen speak. [01:11:40] I think it changes all the time, but it’s the. Kelly. Have you heard of him? Giovanni? Kelly? [01:11:45]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Payvand Menhadji: He’s he’s a character. He’s like the mucogingival God or [01:11:50] self proclaimed. But he is self proclaimed. I hope he’s not listening. Um, but he, [01:11:55] um, he’s just such a personality.

Payman Langroudi: Like a great.

Payvand Menhadji: Man. Yeah. I mean, the Italians in [01:12:00] period, full stop. But he’s he always wears a scarf. We caught him like vaping on stage [01:12:05] once. Vaping in a perio conference. Can you imagine? But, you [01:12:10] know, it’s just it’s iconic. And it’s just the [01:12:15] way he talks. Like, he’ll he’ll he’ll speak really quietly and then he’ll start shouting. And [01:12:20] he wakes you up and he’s come up with so many of the techniques that we use today. Oh, really? So I [01:12:25] think yeah, he’s like every time I see him, he’s quite special for me.

Payman Langroudi: Like [01:12:30] a, like a hero worship thing.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s nice. Nice. When you start meeting your [01:12:35] heroes, it’s a nice thing. Yeah, it can be. It can be nice. Um, what about. What about if I said to you, what’s your most [01:12:40] important sort of resource like call it. It could be a book. It could be a Instagram [01:12:45] page. It could be a website.

Payvand Menhadji: Um, there’s a specialist oral [01:12:50] surgeon, Bijan Shokoohi. No, he is an amazing [01:12:55] implant and oral surgeon. And he’s.

Payman Langroudi: In the US.

Payvand Menhadji: In the UK, and he’s [01:13:00] made an Instagram fairly recently, maybe in the past six months or so. And it’s taken off. [01:13:05] It’s so educational.

Payman Langroudi: What’s it.

Payvand Menhadji: Called? Um, it’s just his name. Yeah. Doctor Bijan [01:13:10] Shokoohi. I think I’m pronouncing his name right. It’s so good. Really? [01:13:15] Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I’ll check it out.

Payvand Menhadji: He taught me it, guys, to take out teeth. Um, him and his [01:13:20] wife, actually. But his page, I’ll share it with you. Is. Is phenomenal. And I don’t think many [01:13:25] people know about it, but, I mean, he’s getting traction now, but it’s so [01:13:30] good. Excellent. That’s the best page. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Final questions. Fantasy [01:13:35] dinner party. Three guests, dead [01:13:40] or alive. Who are you having?

Payvand Menhadji: Um. I [01:13:45] so I’d want, like, um. So I’m really into, like, [01:13:50] house music.

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Payvand Menhadji: Me too. Nice. So, like, I go to Ibiza every year, that kind [01:13:55] of thing. Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Not any more.

Payvand Menhadji: And I just.

Payman Langroudi: I.

Payvand Menhadji: Went pregnant. My baby went [01:14:00] to a club. Excellent. Um. And I think. Yeah. Don’t [01:14:05] don’t ask me which DJ, but it would be cool to have like, a bunch of them, like high flying [01:14:10] deejays together in a room, having a chat with them. Um, also, maybe [01:14:15] like the.

Payman Langroudi: Old DJ yourself.

Payvand Menhadji: I’m not very good. I’m not like Victoria. I have, I have, I have decks, [01:14:20] but really? Yeah. Yeah, it’s actually a maternity leave project.

Payman Langroudi: Excellent, excellent, [01:14:25] excellent.

Payvand Menhadji: Um, but also. So that’s like the fun side. I’d [01:14:30] love to like. I would have loved to have meet the Shah of Iran. Yeah, that would be quite cool. Have [01:14:35] a chat.

Payman Langroudi: See, it’s not the first time he’s come up.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. Really? Yeah. What [01:14:40] the hell happened, man? You know, um. And. Yeah, maybe, [01:14:45] like my granddad, I never met. Something like that. Oh, yeah?

Payman Langroudi: Who’s that? Your dad’s dad. [01:14:50]

Payvand Menhadji: Dad’s dad? Yeah. He died giving blood, actually.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, he died way before you were born. [01:14:55]

Payvand Menhadji: Before I was born. Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Oh I.

Payvand Menhadji: See. Sounds like a cool guy. Yeah? Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Why? What stories [01:15:00] have you heard about him?

Payvand Menhadji: Just like, you know, because I see myself in [01:15:05] my dad’s personality, and my dad always says he was like his dad. And I just it would [01:15:10] be cool to see, like where it came from, you know, the craziness.

Payman Langroudi: You don’t come across [01:15:15] as crazy to me, man. That’s good. All right, final question. Is [01:15:20] it like a deathbed question?

Payvand Menhadji: Okay.

Payman Langroudi: It’s weird for someone as young as you, but you [01:15:25] had to give three pieces of advice.

Payvand Menhadji: Three pieces of advice? Um, [01:15:30] don’t hold grudges. We were talking about this. Get over the negative [01:15:35] things really easily. Just don’t. Don’t care about things that don’t actually matter. [01:15:40] Like, if it won’t matter tomorrow, who cares? Um. So, yeah, try not to be too emotional [01:15:45] as well. Um, and just enjoy life. She [01:15:50] says working really hard. But yeah, it’s important.

Payman Langroudi: You’ve got a big smile on your face the whole time.

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. [01:15:55] I have fun doing everything. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I really hope that just keeps on going. Right. [01:16:00] I was talking to my mom about this, and she was saying life in the end breaks. You know, I [01:16:05] was saying to my mom, why, why do you look so sad? Yeah. Yesterday I was like, why do [01:16:10] you say what’s wrong? And she said, life in the end breaks you. And she’s.

Payvand Menhadji: Tired. Hungry.

Payman Langroudi: Like [01:16:15] maybe it does. Maybe it does. Maybe, you know, like you’re young, right? [01:16:20]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah. You’re right.

Payman Langroudi: But I hope it doesn’t. That’s that’s that’s [01:16:25] right. How would you like to be remembered?

Payvand Menhadji: I want to be remembered as [01:16:30] a really professional, talented specialist, [01:16:35] but, like, also very humble and just, you know, very approachable. And I [01:16:40] never want to let anything get to my head, you know what I mean? Like, no ego. That’s [01:16:45] how I want to be remembered.

Payman Langroudi: Difficult though difficult, though, because once you become this very talented, [01:16:50] the plaudits come in, right? Yeah. And, you know.

Payvand Menhadji: I [01:16:55] hope to never change. Like who I.

Payman Langroudi: Am, Giovanni. You know, like.

Payvand Menhadji: Oh, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: People start hero worshipping you. [01:17:00]

Payvand Menhadji: Yeah, that’s true, isn’t it?

Payman Langroudi: It’s going to be if you’re, if you’re that that talented. But but you’re [01:17:05] right. That pulling off, you know, dancing on that needle.

Payvand Menhadji: Yes.

Payman Langroudi: Is beautiful.

Payvand Menhadji: Exactly. [01:17:10] That’s what I would aim for. Yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s been a massive pleasure. Thank you. Thank you so much [01:17:15] for coming in.

Payvand Menhadji: Thank you so.

Payman Langroudi: Much. 30 weeks pregnant. Yeah. Well done. Thank you. Thank [01:17:20] you.

[VOICE]: This is Dental Leaders, the [01:17:25] podcast where you get to go one on one with emerging leaders in dentistry. [01:17:30] Your hosts, Payman Langroudi [01:17:35] and Prav Solanki.

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