Mehy Lo Presti joins Payman on the podcast for a wide-ranging conversation that’s equal parts origin story and quiet manifesto. Raised in the heartland of La Mancha by a Palestinian father and Italian mother, Mehy arrived in London in 2015 with barely any English, no NHS number, and — as it turns out — very little interest in following the conventional path. 

He’s since built a reputation not just as a restorative associate but as one of dentistry’s most creative event and experience designers, currently channelling that energy into Dent Town, a major immersive dental conference launching this September. 

The conversation ranges freely across the fear culture surrounding the GDC, the science of patient experience design, and the painful economics of putting on events that are actually good — before landing somewhere unexpectedly personal, as Mehy opens up about the impact of October 7th on his family and his mental health in the weeks surrounding his daughter’s birth.

 

In This Episode

00:00:55 – Introductions

00:01:50 – The outsider mentality

00:03:05 – Palestinian-Italian roots and growing up in La Mancha

00:07:15 – On parenting and giving children freedom

00:10:30 – Problems with conventional education

00:30:55 – GDC fear culture vs Spain

00:37:10 – Moving to London from scratch

00:40:20 – First steps in private practice

00:41:25 – Master’s in aesthetic restorative dentistry at King’s

00:43:20 – College of Extraordinary Experiences

00:48:00 – Patient Experience Design

00:49:30 – Designing the ideal squat

00:52:55 – Reception as the heart of the practice

01:02:10 – Google reviews and the “feel” factor

01:04:05 – Associate vs clinic owner

01:09:15 – The economics of running events

01:17:15 – Events mistakes

01:20:50 – Blackbox thinking

01:25:00 – Setting patient expectations

01:29:20 – Favourite resources

01:32:05 – Fantasy dinner party

01:36:25 – October 7th, Gaza, and personal impact

01:43:00 – Faith, karma, and identity

 

About Mehy Lo Presti

Mehy Lo Presti is a London-based associate dentist with a master’s degree in aesthetic and restorative dentistry from King’s College London, currently practising at The Kensington Dentist. A son of Palestinian and Italian parents who met in Egypt and settled in Spain, he grew up in La Mancha before relocating to London in 2015. He is probably best known as the creative force behind Global Dental Collective and the Dental Rama brand, and is now co-founder of Denttown — an immersive two-day dental conference launching in September 2026.

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[VOICE]: This [00:00:35] is Dental Leaders. The [00:00:40] podcast where you get to go one on one with [00:00:45] emerging leaders in dentistry. Your [00:00:50] hosts Payman Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

Payman Langroudi: It [00:00:55] gives me great pleasure to welcome Mary Lopresti onto the podcast, finally. [00:01:00] It’s been a long time coming. Thanks a lot for coming in the first place. Mahi [00:01:05] is an associate dentist interest in restorative dentistry, but probably [00:01:10] best known for his alternative approach to dental education with [00:01:15] originally global Dental Collective. Still is right the Dental Rama brands [00:01:20] now dent Town coming in September.

Mehy Lo Presti: September 18th 19th September. [00:01:25] Yes.

Payman Langroudi: Amazing. So lovely to have you, my buddy.

Mehy Lo Presti: Thanks.

Payman Langroudi: Well done for coming in. [00:01:30]

Mehy Lo Presti: Thank you for.

Payman Langroudi: Having to me. When I look at you, I really like you. We have a good time together. Whatever. Yeah, [00:01:35] but it seems to me like you’ve got this sort of, I call it outsider mentality [00:01:40] kind of thing going on. Is that right? [00:01:45] Is that wrong? Is it something that happened by mistake on purpose? Or have you [00:01:50] always been that guy who’s always thinking a bit differently?

Mehy Lo Presti: Uh, I think so, [00:01:55] yeah. Now that you say it, probably I always had in mind something else that what [00:02:00] I never knew what it meant to be or to do in my life. And that was the issue. And that’s [00:02:05] probably why I’m a dentist. To be fair, when I had to decide what to do, I [00:02:10] wasn’t exposed to all the possibilities that life could give you all the [00:02:15] jobs and professions. And when I had to decide, uh, my [00:02:20] dad, who’s a doctor, a Middle Eastern.

Payman Langroudi: Gynaecologist.

Mehy Lo Presti: Gynaecologist, of course, uh, [00:02:25] he gave me the best advice he knew about, which is, why don’t [00:02:30] you become a dentist if you don’t know what to do? Because the alternative was being a fashion [00:02:35] illustrator.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: And that didn’t.

Payman Langroudi: Were [00:02:40] you autistic?

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, yeah, I always had this artistic view, but I was never exposed [00:02:45] that that art could be a profession. And [00:02:50] I didn’t know that you could actually, through your creativity, you could actually create [00:02:55] and do different things then with the time and learn how to use that in the industry, not [00:03:00] just non-clinical, but also clinical and, uh, but.

Payman Langroudi: But, but [00:03:05] going back to you were growing up in Madrid. Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: South Madrid, two hours south La [00:03:10] Mancha.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, two hours south of Madrid, two.

Mehy Lo Presti: Hours in the middle of nowhere.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. [00:03:15] Past Toledo.

Mehy Lo Presti: Past Toledo. Uh, it’s right in between Madrid [00:03:20] and Granada.

Payman Langroudi: Uh, it’s a.

Mehy Lo Presti: Long way down. I was born in Granada, and then [00:03:25] I grew up in Pinas, which is a town famous for the wine. It’s the biggest producer of wine [00:03:30] in the world. And, uh, yeah, this is where I grew up. A son [00:03:35] of a Palestinian and an Italian.

Payman Langroudi: How did they meet my parents? [00:03:40] Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Egypt. Oh, my dad was a refugee. He left in the 67. [00:03:45] My mom. Uh, her dad, uh, was [00:03:50] Italian. And, uh, there was a big community of Italians in Alexandria.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:03:55]

Mehy Lo Presti: The accelerated from from from Italy.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: And my dad was doing medical [00:04:00] school in Alexandria.

Payman Langroudi: And she was living there.

Mehy Lo Presti: She was living there. And they had this kind of, I [00:04:05] always say Romeo and Juliet story with two families, completely different.

Payman Langroudi: Opposed. [00:04:10]

Mehy Lo Presti: Opposed completely, where they were not understanding each other. And they kind of [00:04:15] like made their way through it. And, you know, they [00:04:20] end up getting married, moved to Spain to start a new life. And this is.

Payman Langroudi: What did your mom [00:04:25] do? Did she work?

Mehy Lo Presti: She used to work at the WTO. She [00:04:30] was a secretary. She. She was speaking five languages at the age of 20. Oh, wow. She [00:04:35] was working for an Italian consulate. Super talented. And then [00:04:40] moved to Spain and started teaching, uh, doing translations. Now she still [00:04:45] does translations for for the police, for, uh, courts [00:04:50] and, uh, and she’s an amazing guitarist. She. She does her passion guitar, [00:04:55] her kids and dogs.

Payman Langroudi: She has. In a way. Would [00:05:00] you say you were more. You were more influenced by your mother than your father?

Mehy Lo Presti: In a way. I [00:05:05] think so. I think in the way that I, I analyse, I act, [00:05:10] I do things, I’m very similar to my mom and I [00:05:15] think in other ways, in the ways of how I approach or how [00:05:20] I’m probably more risk apprehensive. Maybe I’m more like my dad [00:05:25] in that sense. So but yeah, I think we have all a mix of both.

Payman Langroudi: But when [00:05:30] it came to choosing dentistry, was there struggle there? Like, did you want to do something else? And they were saying, [00:05:35] just be a dentist.

Mehy Lo Presti: No, no, they didn’t.

Payman Langroudi: They didn’t really know what you wanted.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. They never said no, don’t do [00:05:40] that. It’s just so like, look, dentistry is a great profession. It’s very generous. It’s going to be very generous with your time. [00:05:45] And then you can do in your free time.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, whatever.

Mehy Lo Presti: Whatever [00:05:50] you want. And, uh. And, well, this. To be honest, it was a great [00:05:55] advice. Advice in that day, especially when I didn’t [00:06:00] know what to do. So, uh. I think my parents, once I finish dentistry, [00:06:05] my mom confessed to me that she. Thought I would not finish even the first year. Oh, [00:06:10] you told me that now. But, you know, it’s, uh. [00:06:15]

Payman Langroudi: I have a similar story. I think my mom struggled to get me into dentistry and to get me [00:06:20] out of dentistry and all of that.

Mehy Lo Presti: She wanted you to be out of dentistry.

Payman Langroudi: She struggled. She struggled [00:06:25] with me. You know, my brother was never a struggle. He was always top of his class. But I was always scraping [00:06:30] through. If I was getting into things and passing things, I was only just getting through. [00:06:35] And I remember my mum, when I decided to stop practising, [00:06:40] the look on her face was just so crazy because it felt like I managed to [00:06:45] make him into a doctor and now he’s giving up. And then.

Mehy Lo Presti: What is it doing. [00:06:50]

Payman Langroudi: Now? And then I had to explain to my dad, who’s an accountant, totally risk averse, that I’m [00:06:55] giving up dentistry to start this teeth whitening business. And at the time, [00:07:00] teeth whitening was illegal. So you said you’re going to do something illegal. Yeah. [00:07:05] So he immediately he put down.

Mehy Lo Presti: A drug dealer.

Payman Langroudi: He put down that I’m against this. [00:07:10] Yeah. And my mum, just by looking at her face, you could tell she was against it. Yeah, yeah. So it’s [00:07:15] tough, though. Now, you’re a parent, though.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You do sort of understand. I know your [00:07:20] daughter’s, what, three.

Mehy Lo Presti: Almost two and a half.

Payman Langroudi: Two and a half.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. So you’re not [00:07:25] there yet. But now I’m at that stage where my kids are saying, what should we do for A-levels? And one of my my [00:07:30] boys now in university, and suddenly you turn into your parents here, you start talking [00:07:35] about all sorts of worst case scenarios. You know, I’m telling my daughter now become [00:07:40] a dentist, you know, because worst case scenario, let’s say you’re on your own or whatever you can feed your children [00:07:45] and, and this sort of thing. It’s strange. As a kid, you have all hopes and dreams, and [00:07:50] as a parent, you’re looking at only those worst cases completely.

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean, [00:07:55] we’re not there yet. We’re actually, like, like, very obsessed on her doing whatever [00:08:00] she wants. Yeah. And I’m not sure if this is good either. We’re kind of probably escaping from from our [00:08:05] families. Overcompensating kind of. So also we were thinking about it. Maybe we’re too, you [00:08:10] know, we’re giving too much freedom and maybe we should guide a bit more. But because my [00:08:15] wife happened the same to her, like she wanted to be a doctor, it’s the opposite. Oh, she wanted [00:08:20] to be a doctor. And her mom said, no, you shouldn’t be. She wasn’t doing something [00:08:25] way easier. And, you know, and, uh, not complicate your life. And she did, um, [00:08:30] history of art. Oh, and now she runs a fertility company, [00:08:35] right? Yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Well, we’ve had her on our podcast, haven’t we?

Mehy Lo Presti: Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. True. That’s true, that’s true. [00:08:40] So and now we’re just like trying to give her as much freedom [00:08:45] as possible. I don’t know when the time arrives of taking decisions we might be actually, like, [00:08:50] scared off.

Payman Langroudi: I think, though, is if your kid happens to have passion for something, [00:08:55] that itself is a massive lucky thing. 100%, because it’s not often I [00:09:00] talk to my kids and their friends. Few of them have a passion for something at that age, [00:09:05] especially in the UK system, right? You have to decide at 15.

Mehy Lo Presti: That was my problem. I didn’t have a passion. Yeah, [00:09:10] I was, you know, I was talented, but I was not putting in the work. [00:09:15] Right. So I didn’t have really something that I was obsessed with. Yeah. And sometimes I was, you’re [00:09:20] right. I wish I was obsessed with something. And then I was just, I knew what I [00:09:25] wanted to do and that’s luck. And that’s. Yeah, like.

Payman Langroudi: You were obsessed with having a great time, right?

Mehy Lo Presti: I [00:09:30] was obsessed with having a good time.

Payman Langroudi: Which is absolutely right for a young person, you know, like, you know, if it’s [00:09:35] not that when you’re young, what the hell is it? If you can’t have a good time, [00:09:40] then.

Mehy Lo Presti: I had an amazing time. Yeah. You know, like I.

Payman Langroudi: So where did you study? [00:09:45]

Mehy Lo Presti: I studied in Madrid.

Payman Langroudi: Central Madrid. Was it?

Mehy Lo Presti: No. There is a town called Villanueva [00:09:50] de la Canada, which is ten minutes from the centre and is a town only for students. [00:09:55] So there are like 30,000 students. Very spoilt. Yeah. All living [00:10:00] in their own little houses. Yeah. And, you know, it was amazing. [00:10:05] You know, it’s.

Payman Langroudi: So when I talk to the friends of my kids and, you know, my kids go to the [00:10:10] lycée, so their, their friends go and study all over the world. Yeah. And, you know, some have [00:10:15] gone to Milan and some have gone to America. And the ones who studied in Madrid, I’ve [00:10:20] noticed a pattern here. The ones who studied in Madrid had the best, best, best time in [00:10:25] Madrid. Did you have an amazing university?

Mehy Lo Presti: I had an amazing time. Also, [00:10:30] I struggled with being in a in a lecture room. I actually didn’t have fun in [00:10:35] all my 20 years being in a classroom. I don’t know what that kid. I’m that kid [00:10:40] that I really even now, going to a conference and sitting more. Maybe that’s why I do what I do. Yeah, [00:10:45] but just sitting.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I don’t like to sit either. I like to look around [00:10:50] the back of the.

Mehy Lo Presti: Car like you’re never in sight and a bit like this. So I really struggle [00:10:55] and being in a classroom and that was my issue that was never going to class. So [00:11:00] I had to compensate. And luckily I had good memory so I could, you [00:11:05] know, pass the exams. But when I was in the class, I was doing something [00:11:10] else.

Payman Langroudi: So the dental school, you found it challenging?

Mehy Lo Presti: I found it challenging because I didn’t really [00:11:15] enjoy it. And I think the I mean, in general, I’m not a big fan of conventional [00:11:20] education. I think this authoritarian way of educating where everyone is [00:11:25] sitting in a class, listening to someone standing higher than the rest and saying, this is [00:11:30] how things need to be done. And if you don’t do this, it’s wrong and there is no a two way conversation. [00:11:35] You know, for me, it doesn’t work. So I think it wasn’t [00:11:40] about dentistry. I think anything that I would study, I would I would struggle in the same way because [00:11:45] it’s just the format. And then dentistry in a way, like I liked it in terms [00:11:50] of like, you know, when you get what is about and start making [00:11:55] sense, then you enjoy it. But the first two years, yeah, they were hard, like biology, [00:12:00] chemistry, anatomy, not my thing, not my thing. Yeah. [00:12:05]

Payman Langroudi: And now when you think about it. Yeah. I remember in dental school doing loads of things [00:12:10] that were totally not applicable to the job. And [00:12:15] I remember when I started doing the job, loads of things that [00:12:20] weren’t, weren’t covered in the course.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So if we think about the sort of [00:12:25] the trade off of which bits you take out and what you would [00:12:30] throw in what comes to mind, because I think about school like that. Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, [00:12:35] I think the issue is that, Um, to update the curriculums [00:12:40] in any academic institution. It takes ages.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:12:45]

Mehy Lo Presti: So at the time that you actually want to change and be in line with what is happening in real life, you’re [00:12:50] already ten years behind. Yeah. So just now, maybe very, uh, avant [00:12:55] garde universities, they got this right. I mean, now there are universities in, [00:13:00] I know in Pennsylvania and dental schools, they’re teaching almost through, uh, snapshots [00:13:05] of images, you know, in terms of like, uh, frameworks, boom, boom, boom, boom. This is what [00:13:10] you need to do to do a filling a cavity, like very easy captions [00:13:15] and knowing the basic visuals visually teaching. Exactly. But right now, [00:13:20] you know what you need to what they teach you. Well, the goal in a [00:13:25] university or in the classroom is to have a great memory about what you just learned and [00:13:30] does it make. And then you can apply it, right? Because you just studied memorising.

Payman Langroudi: And it’s [00:13:35] a funny thing because knowledge has been commoditized. The more we get into. [00:13:40]

Mehy Lo Presti: This, like it’s very political. Yeah, whatever you learn is super political, especially [00:13:45] in early in the early days.

Payman Langroudi: But but in my dad’s day or in your dad’s day, becoming an [00:13:50] expert in an area was pretty much all you needed to dominate. Yeah. Yeah. It’s [00:13:55] almost like the memory in his head of the the different things. My dad’s an accountant. Your dad’s a doctor. But [00:14:00] almost. That was it. Now all the information’s in everyone’s fingertips. [00:14:05]

Mehy Lo Presti: Exactly. Everyone is an expert.

Payman Langroudi: Everyone’s an expert. I mean.

Mehy Lo Presti: How do you stand out? Of of of that. [00:14:10] What is what makes you different?

Payman Langroudi: I think it’s so interesting, dude, because we’ve got one member of staff here. Yeah. Who [00:14:15] has focussed in on toothpaste. Yeah. And ChatGPT [00:14:20] and we’ve got the, you know, Gemini, you know, the paid ones and [00:14:25] all that. Yeah. And literally in four months she knows more about toothpaste than I do because I [00:14:30] haven’t done that exercise the way she has. Yeah. And you realise that knowledge [00:14:35] isn’t the key. So what is the key? What is the key?

Mehy Lo Presti: I think the key is. The [00:14:40] value that the strength that you might have. You [00:14:45] know, and how to use that knowledge. And this is, uh, what [00:14:50] makes you stand out from the rest? Yeah. And I don’t know if it’s you being a good speaker or [00:14:55] a good clinician or a good, um, educator [00:15:00] or someone that how you transmit that knowledge. I think that’s going to be the, the [00:15:05] key. Um, for the future, because everyone will have the knowledge in [00:15:10] a moment. Yeah. Now how you deliver this knowledge because people will get tired [00:15:15] of going to ChatGPT. People will get tired to read. People will want to be acquire [00:15:20] this knowledge in a different way. Yeah. I want to go and speak, see [00:15:25] and listen to Payman because of the way he transmits this knowledge.

Payman Langroudi: And so we [00:15:30] see it with speakers, don’t we? There are some speakers that engage the room. Electrify [00:15:35] the room? Yeah, actually, let’s get to that part of the pod where I ask you, because you’ve been on so much [00:15:40] education. What comes to mind when I say that? I mean, which speakers, [00:15:45] for instance, you mentioned the. We were having coffee. You mentioned Galip Grill. Yeah. [00:15:50] For me there was a lecture. Galip gave about 20 years ago [00:15:55] that I went to that not only was the subject matter unbelievable [00:16:00] because it was his technique for minimally invasive prepping of the teeth. Not only that. [00:16:05] Yeah. The presentation back then, I mean, now you could probably ChatGPT, but the presentation, you had these dancers [00:16:10] going in the shape of the words beautiful. And then the man himself. [00:16:15] Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Was he a presence.

Payman Langroudi: Olympian or whatever? He was like a water polo.

Mehy Lo Presti: Captain [00:16:20] of Turkey.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, whatever. This guy said the whole room was paying attention. Yeah, [00:16:25] yeah. So he comes to mind for me. But you’ve been exposed to a lot more educators than I have. Who comes [00:16:30] to mind for you?

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean, you know, right now. Actually, the I [00:16:35] would say, well, coachman, of course, he’s a great, uh, you know, one of my favourites, [00:16:40] a mentor to me. Um, the way that he delivers [00:16:45] and, uh, improvises what he says. It’s incredible. You know how [00:16:50] he chooses the right words, the right timing, the right tone of voice? He does it very well. [00:16:55] And also, the content is very relevant because you can have also great speakers. But if the content. [00:17:00]

Payman Langroudi: You need it all, you.

Mehy Lo Presti: Need it all. And that’s the difficulty to.

Payman Langroudi: Balance all [00:17:05] of.

Mehy Lo Presti: That. Yeah. Now, now that we’re trying to find clinical educators is where we struggle to see someone [00:17:10] that can deliver in the way that’s aligned with what we do. But also the content is amazing. [00:17:15] And not only the, the, the quality of the content, but the quality, as you said, of the presentation, [00:17:20] is to be something that you remember because you’re going to only remember how you felt in that [00:17:25] moment and in that moment. If you’re like Amazed that those [00:17:30] words, that technique that they’re showing you is what we will you will retain.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. But then [00:17:35] sometimes you’re amazed and that amazement inspires you 100%. [00:17:40] But it’s not practical knowledge because you know, you can’t pull it off. [00:17:45] You’re just amazed that this guy’s pulled that off and you’re sort of in awe. And it’s important. It’s [00:17:50] important, you know, like we went to buy Malaysian, didn’t we. Some of the stuff those guys are doing, no, [00:17:55] no one in the practice is going to do day to day, but someone needs to be at the tip of the spear [00:18:00] to push things up so that everyone else comes up. So I get that.

Mehy Lo Presti: I think that [00:18:05] is, I think. Sorry to interrupt you, but I think there is a mix of that. I think you need a bit of both. Yeah. You need it’s [00:18:10] like when you see athletes, you know, like you see football and [00:18:15] then you might not learn from messy, messy. So but you are inspired [00:18:20] to, to go to go there. Now, if you want to learn football, you have some someone at your [00:18:25] level or a bit higher than your level that you can achieve. And this is a little bit with education. So I think you need [00:18:30] both. For me, one of the best, uh, and actually [00:18:35] Cristian Guzman was there and he said the same, but one of the best lectures [00:18:40] on digital dentistry is, uh, was Marta Revilla. She’s [00:18:45] a Spanish. She’s the head of, uh, research at the centre.

Payman Langroudi: Uh-uh. [00:18:50]

Mehy Lo Presti: Her lecture, dissecting everything [00:18:55] on digital, comparing all the different, uh, tools, uh, all the different [00:19:00] softwares, uh, the all the factors, error, uh, mistakes. [00:19:05] It was amazing. I think that was like a masterpiece. And the way she delivers. [00:19:10]

Payman Langroudi: Say her name again slowly.

Mehy Lo Presti: Marta. Revilla.

Payman Langroudi: Marta. Yeah. Rebellion.

Mehy Lo Presti: And [00:19:15] I think she was amazing. And that really inspired me. And [00:19:20] also seeing the lecture was in English and seeing and, non, [00:19:25] uh, native English speaker delivered in that beautiful way. It was also [00:19:30] inspiring. She’s Spanish.

Payman Langroudi: I got that feeling when I saw Nasri.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: The [00:19:35] same feeling. Oh, and I was blown away. I was completely blown away. And then [00:19:40] I got out of the lecture room. I think it was b a c d. Yeah. And I turned around to everyone and said that was [00:19:45] just unbelievable. And people weren’t as impressed as I was, but maybe because I wasn’t, [00:19:50] you know, haven’t seen it before. Yeah, but it blew me away, man.

Mehy Lo Presti: Man is amazing. That’s why we’re bringing him to [00:19:55] the town.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I know, because it’s.

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean, the level for me. I’ve treated some [00:20:00] of his patients that he referred to me like in terms of like, hey, look, I have a problem [00:20:05] with a patient. And I saw in.

Payman Langroudi: You saw the work.

Mehy Lo Presti: I saw the work, the margins [00:20:10] and the precision. And I was like, wow. So again, he’s an expert on microscope. [00:20:15] You might not have a microscope, but you know, what is the [00:20:20] right thing to do? And you know, anything below that. It’s not perfect, so at least you know what is [00:20:25] the. What is the standard?

Payman Langroudi: And then in terms of format. Yeah, I’ve seen you’ve [00:20:30] experimented with so many different formats and we all know the basic format. The basic [00:20:35] format is the hero is standing on the stage. Hopefully there’s some good AV. There isn’t [00:20:40] always. Yeah, yeah, hopefully there’s some good AV. He shows some cases. [00:20:45] He goes through some of his techniques. Okay. That’s number one. We all know about that [00:20:50] one. Yeah. Number two I’d say one level above that is he also discusses [00:20:55] failures. Yeah. Which many don’t. Yeah. And I even thought about a whole event called [00:21:00] failures where every every case has to be a failure. Yeah. You know, because we’re going to talk about clinical [00:21:05] mistakes now, but we tend to learn from our mistakes. Yeah, yeah. Okay. That’s the next level. But it’s still [00:21:10] one guy talking. Then we get on to all the different things you’ve tried. [00:21:15] Yeah. You’ve you’ve had in the round stage productions [00:21:20] with with actors. And by the way, well done. Yeah. Someone someone [00:21:25] needs to. Someone needs to try things. Yeah. And all of that. But okay, I’ve been to those. [00:21:30] And again, I don’t know, I learned that much from I enjoyed it.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I enjoyed it. Yeah. Panels [00:21:35] you’ve had and I’ve done panels before as well, which [00:21:40] I find them better. I find them better. But even a panel, if it’s going to go on for half an hour, 40 [00:21:45] minutes. How many people are you going to have in the panel? Say you have five people. They can only talk for like [00:21:50] five minutes each or something. And it becomes a bit sort of sound bitey. Yeah. And I’ve [00:21:55] been thinking about an idea of let’s say you can talk, you can, we can have a panel [00:22:00] on something that isn’t clinical. That’s fine. But how the hell do you have a [00:22:05] panel on a subject that is clinical? Let’s say if I want to have a panel on composite, you can’t have five composite [00:22:10] guys talking about composite. So what’s the solution? So the only thing I can [00:22:15] come up with is you get one of them to present an amazingly complicated [00:22:20] case. And the other four to discuss what they would have done. [00:22:25] Have you seen something like that?

Mehy Lo Presti: No.

Payman Langroudi: I’ve thought about it.

Mehy Lo Presti: It’s. It’s fun. Funny that you’re saying [00:22:30] that because this is something that we were we are bringing to the town. So our [00:22:35] speaker will will bring their lecture. We’re putting some priorities on the lecture. [00:22:40] What they need to have us.

Payman Langroudi: Including failure.

Mehy Lo Presti: As well. So [00:22:45] ideally.

Payman Langroudi: You know, they do that. They say that there needs to be one one failure.

Mehy Lo Presti: So [00:22:50] which is which is I think is great. And then we dissect, we build a waiting. [00:22:55] Um, it’s like a waiting room in the stage in the middle of the stage. Yeah. And there [00:23:00] is going to be like two, three interviewers and they’re going to dissect where the speaker [00:23:05] the, the conversation. And that’s why a way of thinking, [00:23:10] how can a lecturer be more relevant to what people do? [00:23:15] And also, this is very we are very good at this, right? Having the.

Payman Langroudi: Audience.

Mehy Lo Presti: Participation [00:23:20] and engaging. Yeah. And this is only you can only do it for my experience. [00:23:25] Having that circular stage or the people around some stage. [00:23:30] Yeah. Because we tried we’ve done events with other companies or in [00:23:35] other conferences where you have the classic, uh, layouts.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: It [00:23:40] was very difficult to make people be engaged and participate. So you kind of [00:23:45] need to have the people a little bit above.

Payman Langroudi: Seeing each other.

Mehy Lo Presti: Seeing each other [00:23:50] and higher than the speakers. Oh, so they don’t feel intimidated. You don’t feel like [00:23:55] they don’t see like people like, oh, there are gods and I’m not allowed to be in that conversation. [00:24:00]

Payman Langroudi: Mhm.

Mehy Lo Presti: That’s what.

Payman Langroudi: That’s interesting.

Mehy Lo Presti: That’s when one of our [00:24:05] learnings from all these years of doing this thing and, and.

Payman Langroudi: Then you’ve done even other formats, [00:24:10] you did a dinner format. Yeah. And that wasn’t education or was it entertainment? [00:24:15]

Mehy Lo Presti: It was. I mean, look, I don’t think we ever.

Payman Langroudi: Do you mix the two entertainment. Entertainment. [00:24:20]

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, you know, we again, this is something that I, I think [00:24:25] is wrong on. Well, not wrong, but it didn’t work with me. And I think with a lot of people. And it’s the conventional [00:24:30] education, which is just one way of, uh, the conversation goes in one [00:24:35] direction. And what we want to do is we create conversation. So you see something, [00:24:40] something is wrong, and then we facilitate the conversation. So the idea of the [00:24:45] of modern noir was to experiment what people would like, what people wouldn’t like. [00:24:50] We really took everything to the maximum level of creativity. We, you know, people [00:24:55] were arriving to this old church that we converted in a fancy [00:25:00] dinner for 150 people. But when you were arriving, you arrived to a trade [00:25:05] show from the 80s, and then the actors would perform how the industry [00:25:10] were in the 80s, how then after how the industry was in in [00:25:15] 2025, how dentistry will be in 2045. So [00:25:20] there is true that the last there there was no conversation or [00:25:25] the people didn’t have the chance to speak, but we wanted to see what was that creating [00:25:30] in between the people. And if people were having their own conversations in their own [00:25:35] tables.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, I think, look, the one sort of takeaway from all of this, yeah, is, [00:25:40] okay, me and you might be a little bit like unconventional learners, right? [00:25:45] Adhd types, whatever. They couldn’t sit down in the classroom or whatever. Maybe that’s why me and you [00:25:50] are so interested in this subject, like you said. But Dental education needs a shake up. [00:25:55] And the reason it needs a shake up is that if I want to just learn, I can order [00:26:00] a bunch of courses that I can sit in front of my computer and learn. Yeah. Then you’ve got the kind [00:26:05] of the, the networking part of going to a course. You know, you meet some people [00:26:10] like you maybe managed to talk to the teacher at the bar in that course. [00:26:15] And then really, the point is the sort of experiential side [00:26:20] of you’re taking a day out of your life to go to a Dental thing. That [00:26:25] day needs to be super fun. And I think you’ve really nailed that with with global Dental collective [00:26:30] in a nice way. But really, every time I do an event now that’s always like become [00:26:35] my focus here that the guy needs to have felt like it was worth leaving his House.

Mehy Lo Presti: And [00:26:40] the Senate, and the bar is getting higher and higher and higher. Yeah. Uh, I mean, [00:26:45] I think the industry is a few steps behind other industries. Yeah. [00:26:50] Like fashion, uh, like tech, uh, although.

Payman Langroudi: Many steps [00:26:55] ahead. Um, medicine, for instance, you know, I, I’ve been to some of my brother’s [00:27:00] things and it’s just like, you know, the classic old shape lecture with heading bullet. Bullet. [00:27:05] Bullet. Bullet. Just words. The lecturer saying the words that are on the screen.

Mehy Lo Presti: And [00:27:10] it used to be amazing, you know? Have you seen those, like, surgical rooms where they’re doing the surgery [00:27:15] and they’re like surgical theatres, which inspired.

Payman Langroudi: The.

Mehy Lo Presti: Operation? This is inspired [00:27:20] us a lot to our formats. That was amazing. Right? And those classrooms, [00:27:25] old style where people can debate comment that doesn’t exist anymore. You know, like people [00:27:30] are just like throwing ideas, the teachers and they get banned for the crazy ideas. [00:27:35] No. Now everything is so political, you know? So controlled. And this is what it means. And this is what we want [00:27:40] to we wanted to bring back this, uh, you know, when you see in the movies, you know, the scientists talking [00:27:45] about these new laws of maths and new physics and people are [00:27:50] getting crazy and this is bullshit, and this is great. This is what I think we’re missing [00:27:55] that conversation and the formats, unfortunately, you know, they sit and [00:28:00] listen format is dying.

Payman Langroudi: I think another important thing to point out though, [00:28:05] and to remember as someone like you. Yeah. Is, let’s say you do this Dental. [00:28:10] Let’s say it goes amazingly well. And I don’t know what your numbers are, but let’s imagine 750 people [00:28:15] turn up. 75,000 people will see the content.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. [00:28:20]

Payman Langroudi: And where you’ve you’ve done quite well there is that, you know, and it’s important to remember as, as [00:28:25] someone who’s organising an event, it’s as important or could be ten times [00:28:30] as important for the social views and [00:28:35] the content that comes from the event. Yeah. As it is to be at the event.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, [00:28:40] yeah, yeah, yeah. We put a lot of effort on being able to show [00:28:45] as much as possible or make people feel what actually happens in the room. [00:28:50] It’s, it will never be fair and never comparable to what you [00:28:55] can experience being there, but at least you know.

Payman Langroudi: But you know, if I’m scrolling my phone, yeah. [00:29:00] And anything by you comes up. Yeah, I’m going to stop and watch. Yeah. [00:29:05] That is a product. That attention is the product itself. [00:29:10] Yeah. Because I could I could scroll and watch whatever the hell I want. Yeah. Why should I watch global Dental? [00:29:15]

Mehy Lo Presti: I agree, and I.

Payman Langroudi: So.

Mehy Lo Presti: Appreciate you liking it. And a lot of people pass and don’t [00:29:20] for sure, but but uh, same.

Payman Langroudi: Thing, same thing, same thing here in this room. Yeah. We can [00:29:25] sit and be politically correct. Yeah. But then why should the guy anyone? Why should the listener [00:29:30] listen to this? Why not go watch succession or something?

Mehy Lo Presti: You know? I [00:29:35] agree people. I mean, you probably would have stopped time ago and probably [00:29:40] that’s the nature. But what this.

Payman Langroudi: What does the listener want here? Yeah. Listener wants here a little [00:29:45] look behind the curtain. Right. So let’s do that. Let’s let’s let’s uh.

Mehy Lo Presti: You’re [00:29:50] taking me. Okay. Let’s go.

Payman Langroudi: That takes me comfortably onto let’s go the little [00:29:55] look behind the curtain. Let’s just go straight into the darker part of [00:30:00] this pod. Let’s let’s start with the very general question [00:30:05] in the last 20 years that you’ve been involved in education, [00:30:10] dentistry, all of that, what to you, which day sort [00:30:15] of stands out as the darkest day? What, what what comes to mind when I [00:30:20] say that? Or which days?

Mehy Lo Presti: In education or in clinical either. [00:30:25] Well, clinical for sure. Like [00:30:30] the, the, you know, the stress of knowing that, you know, we [00:30:35] all had these issues with patients, know that you’re doing the best that you think you’re doing for someone. [00:30:40] And you know, things cannot always go as you expect.

Payman Langroudi: And [00:30:45] I want to go into it.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. And then, and then, you know, feeling [00:30:50] like you are a criminal, you know, like actually like.

Payman Langroudi: When you get a letter or [00:30:55] something.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. I mean, touch wood. I never got any letter or any formal complaint. Well. [00:31:00]

Payman Langroudi: I never got we’ve all had complaints. Right?

Mehy Lo Presti: Complaint? Yes, but nothing [00:31:05] like GDC. So but and you [00:31:10] know what? This is a feeling that you don’t have in Spain. Yeah, yeah. [00:31:15] That fear of practising dentistry, that fear of doing the right thing is so crazy. [00:31:20] And this is one of the reasons that we started doing all this. You know, our first event was about mental health and social [00:31:25] media.

Payman Langroudi: I was there.

Mehy Lo Presti: They were there. And it really shocked [00:31:30] me. Coming from Spain, where you have the freedom of doing [00:31:35] the best that you think and and if things don’t go well.

Payman Langroudi: Everyone [00:31:40] understands.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, at least there is no any automatic process of [00:31:45] making your criminal. Yeah. Right. And make you making you feel like, oh, wow, [00:31:50] you’re not good enough or, or being still being confident about what you do and [00:31:55] being in a process that I’ve never been through. But I’ve seen a lot of incredible [00:32:00] clinicians that I went through this. I was like, why? What’s the reason? I mean, [00:32:05] with the time we understood.

Payman Langroudi: I mean, have you got a feeling of what, for instance, in Spain, what is [00:32:10] the process for someone who really does need to be stopped?

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, I don’t think so. The GDP [00:32:15] in Spain doesn’t doesn’t go automatically to try [00:32:20] and and get you or or you know.

Payman Langroudi: But let’s start [00:32:25] with that. Let’s, let’s imagine there’s someone who’s a proper criminal. Yeah, he’s he’s.

Mehy Lo Presti: Taking [00:32:30] you’re going to get sued. You know, you’re going to be like.

Payman Langroudi: No, no, but he’s taking teeth out that don’t need to be taken out or whatever it is. He’s doing [00:32:35] terrible. And if if the patient doesn’t have the same recourse as they have [00:32:40] here. Yeah. I guess that guy can get away with more than here, because over here [00:32:45] people are getting done for almost nothing, for having the right, the wrong thing written in the notes.

Mehy Lo Presti: So I think there is I [00:32:50] don’t think the problem is on us trying to stop things. Of, [00:32:55] of, of going wrong. Right. The problem is the process itself where [00:33:00] you really feel like you’re a criminal. This is a problem. The problem is that not that they investigate the [00:33:05] issue or see what’s wrong. No, the problem is what blame. They blame the [00:33:10] the the whole thing about waiting for for for months. Yeah. If something [00:33:15] gets resolved, the investigation, the I mean, I, I have friends [00:33:20] that, you know, they call everyone that they work with to understand if he’s actually a good dentist, [00:33:25] a bad dentist. I mean, I think it’s a bit crazy. And for also, [00:33:30] we did a bit of research understanding if this is true or not. There is no such a big risk as the reality. [00:33:35] I think also.

Payman Langroudi: The fear is more.

Mehy Lo Presti: The fear, those numbers that are brought by [00:33:40] indemnity insurances, right? Like they are the ones saying like you’re going to get. They’re [00:33:45] saying that to students. You’re going to get an average of five complaints during your career.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah, [00:33:50] yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Imagine you’re getting your license, your driving license. And the guy from from the insurance comes, knocks at the door. He’s like, [00:33:55] hey, by the way.

Payman Langroudi: When you go to.

Mehy Lo Presti: Court, when you go to, to, when you start driving, you’re going to have at least five accidents. [00:34:00] How are you going to drive the rest of your life?

Payman Langroudi: I think I had I had Linda Cruz on the pod. [00:34:05] Yeah. And he said they used to actively start every lecture with that. And they actually [00:34:10] realised, I think he was working for Dental defence or something. They actually realised [00:34:15] they’re putting anxiety into the whole workforce and then stopped doing it. Yeah. [00:34:20]

Mehy Lo Presti: Because those numbers, I don’t know where they’re coming from.

Payman Langroudi: But there was there was there was a peak GTC [00:34:25] around 20 1415. Yeah. Peak. Well, yeah, they were calling, they were [00:34:30] taking in anyone they could.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I went, I mean, I got also behind those [00:34:35] years and understanding the numbers and who was taking the decisions. And [00:34:40] yeah, they didn’t look very good. I think things were they’re trying to change.

Payman Langroudi: Trying to [00:34:45] make them.

Mehy Lo Presti: Better. Yeah. But yeah, there was a, you know, I don’t know if you’re talking about 2010 or something [00:34:50] like that.

Payman Langroudi: Ten, 10 to 15 was really tough.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I saw.

Payman Langroudi: Those when you arrived. [00:34:55] Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Just before And I saw some numbers and they were like, the graph is like up [00:35:00] and down, like drastically.

Payman Langroudi: So I want to get to your biggest mistake, but let’s start with [00:35:05] you came from Spain. Have you practised in Spain?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. Practised for two years.

Payman Langroudi: So the biggest [00:35:10] difference between here and there was this fear question. Anything else? [00:35:15] What, like practising in Spain and practising here. What’s what are the patients different there to [00:35:20] hear that.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. I mean it would be difficult to compare because I was in a rural [00:35:25] area.

Payman Langroudi: Oh. Compared to central London.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. Compared to central London, compared to Kensington [00:35:30] or to Highgate. You know, it’s, it’s it’s hard also it’s a different mentality. And [00:35:35] you don’t have NHS there. Yeah. Uh so you know, it’s a [00:35:40] different system. There is all private 95%. [00:35:45] Uh, so I think the main thing also the financial, uh, [00:35:50] background and where you work in the context, right? Um, their [00:35:55] insurances kind of stipulated the price of the [00:36:00] treatments in exchange of sending you patients. Yeah. There is no regulation [00:36:05] on the amount of dentists that can get graduated every year. So there is an [00:36:10] overflow of dentists. So at the end it’s very hard to do good dentistry. Yeah. [00:36:15] Because a people don’t don’t they’re not [00:36:20] used to pay a lot for good dentistry.

Payman Langroudi: And there’s loads of dentists.

Mehy Lo Presti: And there’s lots of dentists. So [00:36:25] that was one of the reasons, you know, like of, of leaving.

Payman Langroudi: But was there like a two tier [00:36:30] thing? I mean, I’m sure there’s some of the top dentists in the world work in Spain.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah, yeah there is. But those [00:36:35] seats.

Payman Langroudi: It’s very.

Mehy Lo Presti: Very, very limited. And that’s the problem that you need to have access to [00:36:40] that upper class and you need to have a name for years. And normally [00:36:45] it’s people that they had clinic for generations start over. And I know some [00:36:50] of the best dentists in the world that they are like, wow. And they tell me what they can charge. And [00:36:55] they almost lose money. And it’s not about being rich, but software, technology, everything. [00:37:00] If you want to apply what is coming on board, you know, it’s the [00:37:05] numbers are not right.

Payman Langroudi: So what made you move to London? I know, I know, you wanted [00:37:10] to move out of Spain, but why London?

Mehy Lo Presti: I think, uh, this is 2015. You [00:37:15] know, London was probably the capital of the world, uh, before Brexit and [00:37:20] before, uh, all this Covid and crisis. [00:37:25]

Payman Langroudi: So kind of bright lights, big city, kind.

Mehy Lo Presti: Of it was like, you.

Payman Langroudi: Know, did you know London already?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I knew London. [00:37:30]

Payman Langroudi: A few.

Mehy Lo Presti: Times. I had family here. Um, but not in the way that I actually discovered, [00:37:35] you know, from the creativity.

Payman Langroudi: Where did you move to? Where was the first part of London you. [00:37:40]

Mehy Lo Presti: Moved to start my land.

Payman Langroudi: My land?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: My land.

Mehy Lo Presti: It was like.

Payman Langroudi: What [00:37:45] a shocker.

Mehy Lo Presti: My. First time my mom came to visit me. [00:37:50] She left crying.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I bet she did.

Mehy Lo Presti: She left like I think. [00:37:55] I was sharing a house with six girls.

Payman Langroudi: Oh.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well done. I mean, I was like, you know, I [00:38:00] came with with nothing. So I had a job and performing nothing. [00:38:05] And I could barely speak English also.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it was [00:38:10] from zero. From scratch.

Payman Langroudi: But you spoke Spanish. Italian, Arabic? Yeah. Do you speak Arabic? [00:38:15]

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: And Italian as well.

Mehy Lo Presti: Italian, 70%. Oh, but I understand 100%, [00:38:20] but yeah, now I have to get. I have an Italian wife and.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, that’s right, that’s right.

Mehy Lo Presti: So it’s [00:38:25] getting it’s getting better.

Payman Langroudi: So then how did you find the job? What did you do?

Mehy Lo Presti: That’s [00:38:30] a crazy story. Uh, I basically I [00:38:35] came, I didn’t understand the system and then I, I, I, I discovered [00:38:40] the NHS and how you need to start working in NHS and then go to private and this and that. [00:38:45] I was like, gosh, this is going to be impossible. So I went to see a Spanish [00:38:50] dentist that worked in Nottingham, and I asked him for advice and he had like, you know, [00:38:55] the dream life. You know, he was like, it’s a super cool dude. And he’s I mean, I’d [00:39:00] be forever grateful for for him always. And I was like, okay, how can I do [00:39:05] this? I was like, man, you’re going to have to work in the NHS and then this and then there’s like a long journey. [00:39:10] I felt like super demotivated. I was like, okay, I went home, back home and [00:39:15] I was like, okay, this is not going to happen. And I don’t know, I need to find a different way. I, [00:39:20] I bumped into, into, in the street into this guy and [00:39:25] dentist in Spain.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Mehy Lo Presti: And he’s like, you know, I’m [00:39:30] the person that was running the clinic with me. She left. And, [00:39:35] you know, I was thinking that, you know, I need someone to help me with the management [00:39:40] and everything. You know, she was my right hand. And, you know, I think you need a space [00:39:45] or have you found a place? It’s like, no, it’s like, okay, why don’t start?

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Mehy Lo Presti: And see, you know, [00:39:50] there was one chair clinic. Only one chair in Westbourne Grove. [00:39:55]

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Mehy Lo Presti: Super cool. Like very nice clinic, but one chair. So [00:40:00] it was like, okay, when can I work? It’s like, well, whenever it’s free. The chair. So when it’s [00:40:05] free, the chair go and check. So in that way, I started, you [00:40:10] know. You know, I remember that, uh, he was not doing root canal. So I started doing. [00:40:15] His root canal.

Payman Langroudi: Root canal private. Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Or private.

Payman Langroudi: Okay. So he never even worked [00:40:20] at the NHS.

Mehy Lo Presti: Never worked NHS never. Never worked in NHS. I don’t know if it’s nice or not, but I never. I mean, [00:40:25] kind of like the insurance system in Spain.

Payman Langroudi: It’s a bit like that.

Mehy Lo Presti: A bit like that. [00:40:30]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: A lot of patients.

Payman Langroudi: High volume.

Mehy Lo Presti: Volume.

Payman Langroudi: Low price.

Mehy Lo Presti: So I went through [00:40:35] it.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: And I was like, okay, I’m not, I’m not going to do this here again. And then I tested [00:40:40] what is the private in Notting Hill? And I was like, okay, this is nice.

Payman Langroudi: So living [00:40:45] in my land, working in Notting Hill.

Mehy Lo Presti: It was easy access, central line. It was there in like 30 [00:40:50] minutes, so it was actually very nice. I remember working like, I don’t know, very little, like [00:40:55] 2 or 3 hours a day, like 2 or 3 days not working.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:41:00]

Mehy Lo Presti: I was making enough money to, you know, to pay rent and save some money. [00:41:05] And then it started like, you know, I was understanding and learning how the system works, the patients, [00:41:10] everything.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: And then at some point, uh, yeah, just got another job and another [00:41:15] job and, you know, everything went organic.

Payman Langroudi: And did you study [00:41:20] any more apart from the, you know, Dental degree?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I went to, I did my master’s in [00:41:25] aesthetic restorative dentistry at King’s.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Mehy Lo Presti: Uh.

Payman Langroudi: Part time, part [00:41:30] time.

Mehy Lo Presti: Part time. And that was also great. Uh, open [00:41:35] my mind to.

Payman Langroudi: To whole mouth dentistry.

Mehy Lo Presti: Whole mouth. [00:41:40] Uh, you know, a new system, the British educational [00:41:45] system, which was very different to what we do, writing critical appraisals. That [00:41:50] was super hard. There was no ChatGPT or stuff like that. That’s right. I mean, now imagine people [00:41:55] doing that and I don’t even know how. But that was hard. The all the research [00:42:00] that needed to be done behind that was very tough.

Payman Langroudi: I recommend it.

Mehy Lo Presti: I [00:42:05] think. It depends. [00:42:10] It depends if you want to get into research and in the academic circuit works in work in university. [00:42:15] Yes. Right. Because this is where.

Payman Langroudi: You.

Mehy Lo Presti: This is where they’re going to meet you. Yeah. [00:42:20] You know, and this is the way to get in. Yeah. If you don’t. Maybe not. Now there are an incredible, [00:42:25] uh, programs and especially in restorative, right? The one year program, [00:42:30] two year, you know, from I know Monique Vashon or Chris or, or these, you know, these people, [00:42:35] they have the basics and the where you can get incredible notion of [00:42:40] doing things in the right way and you can practice straight or.

Payman Langroudi: Even spear and spear. [00:42:45]

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. And if you are willing to travel, you know, this is, I think one [00:42:50] of my to do or something I would have liked to do is do coys. [00:42:55] That’s probably something that if I had the chance, I [00:43:00] could in dentistry. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: That’s probably so is that the answer [00:43:05] to my other question, which is going to be if you have no time or money constraints, which course would [00:43:10] you jump into?

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, in.

Payman Langroudi: Clinical.

Mehy Lo Presti: Courses probably.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:43:15] What if we’re not talking clinical what would you do?

Mehy Lo Presti: I will tell [00:43:20] you what is my the best educational experience I ever had. And I [00:43:25] would do again and again and again and is going to the College of Extraordinary [00:43:30] Experiences.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, so.

Mehy Lo Presti: This was actually what opened my mind to immersive [00:43:35] experience and to do what I do in a different level. Yeah, we were 130 [00:43:40] experienced designers from all around the world in a castle in Poland. [00:43:45]

Payman Langroudi: Wow.

Mehy Lo Presti: For for a week on a Harry Potter Hogwarts [00:43:50] style.

Payman Langroudi: Wow.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. So you have your house, you have your lectures. [00:43:55] Everything is a bit magic. Uh, you completely forget about the.

Payman Langroudi: Outside. [00:44:00]

Mehy Lo Presti: Outside world. Uh, I remember also, there is no alcohol served [00:44:05] in the whole week, which doesn’t need to mean anything, but, you know, this course is in the night. You [00:44:10] know, normally there’s a bar or something, there is no alcohol. And I found that incredible because. [00:44:15]

Payman Langroudi: Give me some examples of like what stuff went on there.

Mehy Lo Presti: So [00:44:20] for example, uh, there are every day you have [00:44:25] like two different workshops. Um, one of the workshops, for example, [00:44:30] was about, uh, voice. So there was a group of [00:44:35] 15 people in a room And through the buoys you [00:44:40] through the buoys, you can heal and you can, you know, get to a different level, right? [00:44:45] And it was how the, the, the [00:44:50] teacher facilitator make the whole room go to a note in [00:44:55] your voice that you would never imagine that you could go, well, you get to, to places [00:45:00] that you don’t ever think that you can go. Thanks to the collective work and [00:45:05] the experience of, of how, how to create that [00:45:10] classroom and how to learn from, okay, how can I apply what he just did, what I do [00:45:15] in a daily basis and that you can apply it from the whole experience? For me, it was the whole [00:45:20] experience. And from there, you can take things that you can tweak in the patient experience, how you make feel, [00:45:25] people triggering through an emotion, through a sound, through light, through different [00:45:30] components. The event has. So everything was super curated [00:45:35] every single moment.

Payman Langroudi: And who were the other people on that call? Nothing to do with dentistry, obviously. Nothing. [00:45:40] All different sort of event.

Mehy Lo Presti: All different. I mean, some people that they were like the head of events [00:45:45] in Disney and the head of research on Adidas, uh, people that they do immersive experiences [00:45:50] in, in escape rooms in Netherlands that they do.

Payman Langroudi: How did you find this [00:45:55] course?

Mehy Lo Presti: So a good friend of mine told me, I told her like, this is what I’m doing with Dental. I was like, okay, [00:46:00] you need to go here. And it’s almost like almost, almost like invitation only. I mean, if anyone [00:46:05] wants to know more about it, please contact me because I’m super happy to share. [00:46:10] Yeah. If you like events, experience and learn more about it, it’s, it’s [00:46:15] it’s amazing. It’s, uh, I think next one is in October in 2026. [00:46:20] And, uh, she told me you need to go there and, you know, actually I went not knowing what I [00:46:25] was going to do. You see the website and already the name is amazing the College of Extraordinary [00:46:30] Experiences.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: It’s like, I want it to be there.

Payman Langroudi: I think I’m going to go.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, you should go. And then, honestly, [00:46:35] the people that you meet, like, like, uh, we [00:46:40] did it with three people that I met there from Netherlands. They flew all the way there. Actors. [00:46:45] We create the experience.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, I see.

Mehy Lo Presti: And even for for downtown, we have also [00:46:50] a lot of people that work in events, creating different parts of, of the, of the [00:46:55] two days.

Payman Langroudi: So, you know, it’s really interesting that, like you say, in order for [00:47:00] me to feel like I’ve had an experience.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: The ingredients of that [00:47:05] are less than obvious. You know, it’s not obvious. [00:47:10] It’s not, it’s not, it’s not just what you do, it’s how you do it. Yeah. So [00:47:15] like what you’re saying about voice bringing you to a different level of sort of meditation, [00:47:20] if you like. Yeah. There’s no sort of logical reason why that might [00:47:25] be. So you can completely miss that. Yeah. And the way that we’re talking about, you know, one speaker [00:47:30] having aura and charisma and the other speaker. They could even be saying the exact [00:47:35] same thing. But one of them has your attention and the other doesn’t. And [00:47:40] like you say, sound and light and the importance of these things to changing [00:47:45] your sort of outlook on things. Have you ever reflected on [00:47:50] how can you translate that to a dental practice setting 100%? Have [00:47:55] you. You must have. Right?

Mehy Lo Presti: I do, and actually I lecture about it. Oh, really?

Payman Langroudi: I’ve [00:48:00] not seen this lecture.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I have a lecture called the Patient Experience Design. Yeah. [00:48:05] Where? I lecture at the European, um, Association, [00:48:10] European, uh, Association of Cosmetic Dentistry in [00:48:15] Sevilla in September and was a lecture about this, about how can you design [00:48:20] the experience of the patient through the journey, but not [00:48:25] only about the communication, not only about the things that we see often, but also [00:48:30] about how we can.

Payman Langroudi: Make some smells and all of that. Is that where we went?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, a little bit like [00:48:35] this. And also what we can get from other industries and how to apply it with the materials and softwares [00:48:40] that we have. So how to create brand experience with your scanner, how to do that with a [00:48:45] 3D printer, how to, uh, and what are the most difficult things [00:48:50] to, to solve, like sound during the, even during the lecture, I trigger motions with [00:48:55] the sound and people was like, oh, you need to stop this. I can’t do it with that. I said, yeah, so it’s a very good, [00:49:00] cool, cool.

Payman Langroudi: So give us some examples. Then give us some examples [00:49:05] of someone, someone’s opening a squat. I’ve got someone coming in actually after you. He’s just about [00:49:10] to totally change a practice. Yeah. What’s your advice? Like what you know from the [00:49:15] you’ve got the obvious things like goals and what you see. [00:49:20] And I think, you know, for me, like when you say take, take inspiration from other industries, sometimes [00:49:25] you go to a spa or something and from the moment you walk in, it’s just like it’s a whole different feeling.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, [00:49:30] well.

Payman Langroudi: A Dental doesn’t have to do that, but maybe yes, it can or it can’t. [00:49:35]

Mehy Lo Presti: But yeah, I don’t know why not.

Payman Langroudi: You know, can it can, it can, it can.

Mehy Lo Presti: And this is something that they do very well. Yeah. [00:49:40] And then we are very resistant to it. Not sure why, you know, I mean, like I know why, you know, [00:49:45] we’re a very conservative industry and then we think things are in a way. And then to change takes time. I think people are going [00:49:50] into that direction.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. So no, but okay. I’m setting up the squad. Yeah. I’ve got an example. I went to Robbie Hughes’s [00:49:55] place in Liverpool. Have you been.

Mehy Lo Presti: No.

Payman Langroudi: But what’s amazing about it is, you know, you’re [00:50:00] in events. Yeah. So you know how in events you get the blank space. Yeah. Blank canvas type events, [00:50:05] blank canvas. Basically the. For people who are not in events, the, the, the, the venue [00:50:10] has nothing. It’s just a big open space and you can do whatever the [00:50:15] hell you want with it. And he’s kind of done that with this practice, insomuch as from the outside [00:50:20] it looks like an Ikea or something. It looks like a warehouse, like kind of like that industrial [00:50:25] Warehouse thing. The moment you step in, there’s this [00:50:30] like curated space and big thing in Liverpool spaces a lot cheaper than [00:50:35] in London, right? Because I live next to his London practice, which is much smaller practice. Yeah. [00:50:40] Um, but you know, there’s enough space that he’s got long corridors and his [00:50:45] own surgery. Anyone who’s been there, it’s like the biggest surgery I’ve ever seen. You know, [00:50:50] there’s a, there’s a table like this in the surgery. Then there’s a sofa area, then there’s four big screens [00:50:55] that way. And then there’s, you know, it’s a it’s a totally different experience. So go on. [00:51:00] So if someone was going to do a squat.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. I think this is something important. Also [00:51:05] understanding your demographic. Yeah. Who are the patients that you want to treat?

Payman Langroudi: That’s the right start.

Mehy Lo Presti: Uh, because [00:51:10] if you go to fancy, people might feel overwhelmed and [00:51:15] they might already think, okay, this is not my place. And this is also it happens to us, right? That’s very true. Sometimes [00:51:20] you go to a shop, there’s like, oof, this is too much luxury. It’s going to be so expensive and it’s going to be like, oh, [00:51:25] maybe it’s not. It looks so that you’re like.

Payman Langroudi: You know, personally. Personally, I’ve got trouble in [00:51:30] Bond Street, you know, walking into a shop where there’s no other customers. Yeah. A [00:51:35] uniformed guy on the door and someone standing there like, I can’t, [00:51:40] I can’t do it. No, I can’t if.

Mehy Lo Presti: You want, you’re like.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, I can’t bring myself to go [00:51:45] into that shop.

Mehy Lo Presti: Exactly.

Payman Langroudi: So, so I get it. So but then that shop’s there for a reason because that’s aiming at someone [00:51:50] else. Who’s who wants that privacy. Oh, 100%. And you make a very good point. You make it very well.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. [00:51:55] I’m not saying it’s the right thing because they are doing well, of course, but it depends what you want to do. You know, maybe you want [00:52:00] to treat one patient a day and then close the whole place for them. I think Robbie, for example, he does this very well [00:52:05] and he knows his clientele. He knows what they want.

Payman Langroudi: And by the way, very accessible [00:52:10] there too. Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: No, I’m not saying about that. It’s how what the patients want to [00:52:15] be, to feel. Yeah. I’m not saying I don’t know the prices or anything like that, but they want to feel [00:52:20] that this is super exclusive and I’m super cured. And there’s no there’s no other [00:52:25] person in the world except me right now. And he’s done. I think that very well. But [00:52:30] there are other areas that people might not want, that people might want to feel like, okay, this is a normal [00:52:35] place. It’s actually accessible, easy, accessible. So that’s [00:52:40] number one, understand your, your audience with who you want to talk, walk, um, um, [00:52:45] work.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: This happens also in social media. It depends which kind of patients you want [00:52:50] to attract.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Um, second, be the patient yourself. So [00:52:55] see what you would like to be doing in that space, right? Something that I love, for [00:53:00] example, um, is as an architect, uh, and he’s one [00:53:05] of the best designers in the world. He founded house of M.wood. He’s actually speaking at Dental [00:53:10] to, uh.

Payman Langroudi: Who is it? What’s his.

Mehy Lo Presti: Name? He’s, uh, Iranian.

Payman Langroudi: Okay.

Mehy Lo Presti: I’m [00:53:15] gonna I’m gonna say his surname wrong, but he’s from Netherlands, and he founded [00:53:20] House of Hamad, and he’s done one of the best, some of the best clinics in the world. And, [00:53:25] uh, he does this receptionists clinics right where, [00:53:30] um, and I love that it’s the clinics that there are no receptionists. There are hosts, right? [00:53:35] And you don’t see those desks, that high desks.

Payman Langroudi: Why are they so high? Why are they [00:53:40] so high?

Mehy Lo Presti: I don’t know, I think we’re trying to hide something behind.

Payman Langroudi: The.

Mehy Lo Presti: Field. Yeah. But you know, [00:53:45] again, it can work. I think things are changing in that in that sense. And I think that’s [00:53:50] the way and also the reception where people are waiting. What do you want them to do there? You [00:53:55] know, like sometimes we create.

Payman Langroudi: In the waiting room.

Mehy Lo Presti: Waiting room. Yeah, super uncomfortable spaces. [00:54:00] And it’s like, what? You know, people are very busy. Maybe they want to work there.

Payman Langroudi: Have you come across a guy [00:54:05] called Tristan Scott? He’s in Bristol.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I [00:54:10] think he rings a bell.

Payman Langroudi: He’s he he’s got this practice in in the sort of the harbour [00:54:15] area of Bristol. And he’s modelled the waiting room on a, I [00:54:20] don’t know, Singapore airline. Uh, first class seat. Yeah. [00:54:25] Yeah. And but I don’t know how much it cost him. Yeah. Because it, it looks like it’s a bespoke [00:54:30] thing. Someone’s built for him. Yeah. Um, but yeah. Okay. So what [00:54:35] do you want person to do in that room? It’s a good question. Right?

Mehy Lo Presti: You know, how do you want them to feel? And they want to be [00:54:40] like, you know, okay, bring us something that I usually say a lot people, they come from the outside [00:54:45] world and they come from all their problems and disasters. Or maybe they just receive [00:54:50] a £2,000 bill. Maybe they’re going through a divorce. Maybe the kids just throw up before going to [00:54:55] school, and they come rushing to your clinic to do a dental work. You know, [00:55:00] how can we bring them to the level of acceptance [00:55:05] and the level of calm in a in the first instance?

Payman Langroudi: Not [00:55:10] to mention nervous. Yeah. Not to mention nervous.

Mehy Lo Presti: Not even mentioning nervous. I’m not even mentioning it yet. I’m talking about. [00:55:15]

Payman Langroudi: You’re just.

Mehy Lo Presti: Happy. Patient. Yeah. Super happy patient that is happy to come and see you.

Payman Langroudi: For the [00:55:20] stream. Let’s dream big. Let’s dream big. Okay, so it’s a beautiful environment. It’s calm because we’re going for that kind of patient. [00:55:25] What next are we talking? Coffee. You know, this whole thing.

Mehy Lo Presti: You can. Yeah, you can have [00:55:30] that. But for me, the key is reception. The host or the first person to receive that [00:55:35] person is the key. This is going to be what it will, uh. [00:55:40]

Payman Langroudi: Manage set the.

Mehy Lo Presti: Tone, set the tone for the rest of the appointment. So [00:55:45] and this is something that, uh, Pugin also discusses. [00:55:50] This is very difficult to do in London, but it’s two different receptions. One for people that [00:55:55] arrive, one for people that live. So when you arrive, you’re not hearing the discussion of someone that’s living, [00:56:00] paying, uh, you know, uh, seeing a [00:56:05] problem or whatever. So it’s a little bit of differentiating both sides. This is a bit hard to do. [00:56:10] And especially in London, we don’t have so much space, but at least, uh, reduce [00:56:15] the amount of information that is given in that space. Some people move the reception [00:56:20] to an office space in the in a back space, if that’s possible, would be amazing. But those [00:56:25] negative issues, negative problems that are happening in the reception or [00:56:30] problems are getting solved. That can also set the tone of the patient and maybe [00:56:35] start feeling like, oh, I’m not sure I’m in the right place. Um, then [00:56:40] sound, you know, like in Kensington, our the rooms are soundproofed. [00:56:45]

Payman Langroudi: Oh, really?

Mehy Lo Presti: So you can’t hear anything from in or out, which is amazing because you [00:56:50] see it and that’s it. If you’re sitting in a in a place and you’re just hearing the drill and all this [00:56:55] sound is like, it can be a bit stressful, especially if it’s your first time and you even, you [00:57:00] can’t even see what’s happening inside, right? And then you can play with a lot of stuff like the [00:57:05] lights, the.

Payman Langroudi: Music.

Mehy Lo Presti: The music, the, the smells. Um, [00:57:10] there is science behind all of this, which is accessible to everyone. But [00:57:15] you need to have a system to to apply all these [00:57:20] things. You know, this is, I think that what we forget we normally have systems in the room. Well, [00:57:25] ish we have a system to actually how to do a composite, [00:57:30] a full math. Everyone knows what needs to be done outside the the the surgery [00:57:35] know, right? So, so this is what needs to be implemented in the system. [00:57:40] Hey, you’re in charge of this. You’re in charge of that. This needs to happen. This is step one, step two, step three. [00:57:45] And then see what works and doesn’t work and take it from there. So if you [00:57:50] start when you start building the clinic, I think it’s important to have those systems in [00:57:55] place written so people can follow understanding, okay, this is what needs to be happening.

Payman Langroudi: Otherwise, [00:58:00] you know, you feel I feel like in dentistry, we don’t have enough people.

Mehy Lo Presti: In [00:58:05] terms of to work.

Payman Langroudi: Stuff.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I know, I know margins [00:58:10] are tight and all of that is true. Yeah. But I feel like, you know, like [00:58:15] in the way that you’re talking about it is there’s a concierge at the door. I think Robbie also does many, many practices. There’s [00:58:20] someone you’re meeting at the door. That person almost has to be your person until [00:58:25] they go into the dental surgery. And so if there’s another person coming, you know.

Mehy Lo Presti: Maybe not, [00:58:30] maybe not doesn’t need to. You need to hold the hands with that person. It’s just the way you receive that person. [00:58:35] It doesn’t feel like you are going to do a transaction. You know, it doesn’t feel like [00:58:40] you are registering in a hospital to do a surgery. You know why [00:58:45] we don’t take this from spa, luxury spa or hotels [00:58:50] where they actually is like, there’s like, okay, how are you? Very good. Are you going to be doing this? [00:58:55] Just have a seat. Sometimes it’s very transactional and sometimes you’re on the phone [00:59:00] and this and that. It’s a bit stressful and it’s really like.

Payman Langroudi: Well, you know, I go to a lot of dental practices. Yeah, [00:59:05] I’ve been to a lot of dental practices and it’s mad the difference between some and others. You know, there [00:59:10] are some where that what the person is trained to open the [00:59:15] door, shake the hand, or welcome the person with their name. [00:59:20] Yeah, yeah, yeah. Before the person even said anything, they know who they are because we all know [00:59:25] who’s coming in. Yeah, sit them down in another area. Coffee. [00:59:30] What do you want? Flat white or this? And it’s actually delicious. Coffee. Yeah. And they’re sitting [00:59:35] waiting before they go in. Yeah. And then others. Well, we know the other one, right? Where the person [00:59:40] hasn’t even got time to look up from the computer. Yeah. You’re standing a bit uncomfortable [00:59:45] waiting in this patient’s coming in and out and all that and everything, everything in between those [00:59:50] two situations. But it does come down to it like a training point.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I [00:59:55] think so. It’s not easy. No. So like, uh, reception is I think they have the hardest job in [01:00:00] the clinic by far. They get all the hits. They get all the, the, everything that patients [01:00:05] don’t want to say to the dentist, they say to the receptionist, they need to Multitask.

Payman Langroudi: What [01:00:10] about. Okay, now the nuance of the dentist patient interaction. So, [01:00:15] for instance, I’m a hot one for the dentist. Going and getting that patient. Yeah. Rather [01:00:20] than a nurse. Yeah. Not only because a nurse is busy, but because I want to set the tone [01:00:25] between you and the patient outside of the treatment room. Yeah. And [01:00:30] almost that to be dictated by you, insomuch as if you’re going [01:00:35] to be kind and sweet and nice. And how’s your day and all that really just starts. [01:00:40] What’s going to happen? Is that do you get your inpatient? Would you?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. The majority of the times. Sometimes [01:00:45] not if I can.

Payman Langroudi: But yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Going back to this needs to be.

Payman Langroudi: A [01:00:50] system.

Mehy Lo Presti: It needs to be like, you know, the clinic to be like, okay, this is how we do it here. Yeah. [01:00:55] And that’s why we do it. Yeah. You know, and explain it because the problem is if you [01:01:00] have the same patient, I receive the patient, but the same patient goes to see the specialist or your colleague [01:01:05] and doesn’t. It’s already. Oh, it’s too important for me to see me. So [01:01:10] this is the thing. Oh, we all do it or no one does it.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: So that needs to be very [01:01:15] carefully curated.

Payman Langroudi: That’s that’s a really interesting thing is that once you [01:01:20] get people addicted to this place that they’re coming to, it’s often something. [01:01:25] The reason why I remember there was two coffee shops I could have gone to. The reason I [01:01:30] would go to one over the other wasn’t the coffee. It was the free water. [01:01:35] Free water that one of them had just, you know, where the weather apps [01:01:40] of the thing are because there was free water there. I would go there every day and buy my coffee. You [01:01:45] know, obviously water’s not costing him anything. If it was paid water, I wasn’t even going to buy one. [01:01:50] Yeah. So, so, so what I’m saying is this guy may not even have known that [01:01:55] the reason I’m going there is the free coffee, the free water. But for me, that was the thing. And [01:02:00] the interesting notion of what are the things that addict people to businesses, you [01:02:05] know, like.

Mehy Lo Presti: I think, and you can see this on the Google reviews that people live in the clinic. It’s [01:02:10] all the time, 90, 90, but 70% [01:02:15] is about how the reception, how nice was the receptionist, you know, and there’s always [01:02:20] like this, you know, they might talk about the clinician, oh, amazing team and everything. The reception was so nice. Explained [01:02:25] everything. Is this the key person. And you will probably go to this coffee shop. [01:02:30] I doubt this because of the free water, but it’s how the person serving the coffee felt. Made [01:02:35] you feel. Sure. And it’s like, oh, it’s so nice.

Payman Langroudi: By the way, by the way, by the way, every time I’m on my way to a dentist, [01:02:40] I look at the Google reviews. Yeah, many ways of looking at the Google reviews here because [01:02:45] let’s say you’re going to a clinic and it’s got 300 reviews.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. [01:02:50]

Payman Langroudi: Now just from that fact.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: You can tell this guy knows how to operate [01:02:55] a review system. Yeah, yeah. So he’s a professional in that sense. Yeah, yeah. Then [01:03:00] you can read the reviews. Obviously you can read all of them or the [01:03:05] first 100 or whatever. Or you can go straight to the one stars and two stars. Yeah. [01:03:10] See what it is, where they where it, where are they failing often in that situation? It’s unlucky [01:03:15] for a dentist. Sometimes it’s like people who wanted NHS and there was no NHS available. So they go [01:03:20] straight in with a one star review. But me, the way I like to read reviews, you know, at [01:03:25] the beginning there’s the key words that are repeated many times and [01:03:30] I like there’s a one word I’m really looking for and it is feel interesting [01:03:35] the way they make you feel. Yeah. And I’ve noticed the ones where the feel comes [01:03:40] up a lot. Every time when I get there, it’s a brilliant team. Everyone’s happy, [01:03:45] you know. It’s like a nice place to be. Yeah. Now, of course, it could say receptionist. [01:03:50] It could say they’re great words too. They’re brilliant words. Yeah. Receptionist. [01:03:55] Hygienist. But but I’ve found that’s a really good way of sort of looking at reviews. [01:04:00]

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah. That’s true, that’s true.

Payman Langroudi: For the place.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: So are [01:04:05] we going to see this clinic of yours? Do you think you’re never going to be a clinic owner because you don’t define [01:04:10] yourself as a dentist so much as like, that’s because you could do an amazing [01:04:15] clinic.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I always I mean, I’m lucky to, to work in amazing places, you know, [01:04:20] and.

Payman Langroudi: You’re the one on Church Street, Kensington church Street, beautiful place.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: The Kensington [01:04:25] dentist, beautiful place.

Mehy Lo Presti: And, you know, very too much a lot [01:04:30] of attention to detail. And, you know, we do amazing dentistry.

Payman Langroudi: You’re saying you’re [01:04:35] happy and so there’s not a good reason to to leave. Is that what you mean?

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean, I’m in a I mean, look, [01:04:40] it’s I’m very comfortable. I’m very happy. And it’s more about [01:04:45] do you want to be an associate of an or an owner? Yeah. And I think I took the decision [01:04:50] to not put my energy on owning a clinic. [01:04:55] Um, maybe I choose the path on more on the educational side in terms [01:05:00] of like putting my time on building up the in town and [01:05:05] events and do something bigger. Uh, so I think, [01:05:10] you know, it depends and also the ecosystem on owning a clinic. It’s going to, it’s changing, [01:05:15] it’s going to change. Um.

Payman Langroudi: So you’re not sure or have you ruled it [01:05:20] out?

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean, I thought, I’m sure I always think, I’m sure that I wouldn’t. And [01:05:25] sometimes I think, oh, what if I agree? I think, I think I would, I would make.

Payman Langroudi: You do [01:05:30] a good job. You do a good job for sure.

Mehy Lo Presti: I think I would do a nice place and I’m very inspired with the places I [01:05:35] worked. And this is, you know, again.

Payman Langroudi: And it looks it’s an interesting question here. Let’s say you never looked at [01:05:40] global Dental collective, never looked at education, but the amount of effort and time [01:05:45] and thinking time, brain time that you put into those, you put into a clinic. Yeah. [01:05:50] Or, or 11. Yeah. Because you know, your, your contacts with Sarita and all that, you could [01:05:55] go private equity, raise loads of money. It’s possible My wife’s doing that right now, right?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah yeah. [01:06:00] So but it’s interesting to think like that sliding door that started you in the events [01:06:05] education space could easily have been this. And [01:06:10] you know that, you know how we end up sort of persuading ourselves who we are. Like, [01:06:15] like you tell yourself a lie about who you are when you buy anything. You know, it’s like, you know, you could buy yourself a nice [01:06:20] watch. You tell yourself a little lie there. Yeah. About. I’m the kind of person who’s. You know. [01:06:25]

Mehy Lo Presti: Why? Yeah. I mean.

Payman Langroudi: You define yourself in the way it almost makes you feel. The [01:06:30] things you do. Um, it makes you feel good to do education, I’m sure. Yeah, but [01:06:35] I wouldn’t rule it out. I wouldn’t rule out a clinic for you. Yeah. Because I reckon it would be [01:06:40] very, very nice and interesting.

Mehy Lo Presti: I would, I would like if I do it, I would like to do it with friends or with, [01:06:45] you know, a team. I wouldn’t like to do it.

Payman Langroudi: I know what you mean. I know what you mean. Yeah. Because maybe I’m like you [01:06:50] as well. Yeah. There are things I’m really good at, and there’s things I’m really, really bad at. I don’t [01:06:55] need partners for those other bits.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah, I don’t think, you know, I’m a good curator. I can, [01:07:00] you know, I’m a good person on saying we’re going that direction. The daily [01:07:05] management of people I would struggle, I would struggle and it’s something I struggle. I’m not confrontational [01:07:10] at all. So I was, you know, I can’t tell people to do things [01:07:15] and that’s a big problem. I know what you mean. So [01:07:20] I always think, you know, and it’s always there in the back of my head, oh, what if you know, [01:07:25] but, you know, I’m happy with what I’m doing. Uh, it gives me a lot of freedom [01:07:30] too. And this is also something that’s priority in my life, especially, you know, we live kind of [01:07:35] in between Spain and here. We spend a lot of time there, um, a lot of time here. [01:07:40] So having a base, it would kind of make me stuck in [01:07:45] a place. And this is something that is the reason number one, probably of why not why I’m not doing it. [01:07:50] So that’s why if I can do it with people that, you know, I don’t have to be 100% a [01:07:55] formula where I could bring my part to it. Yeah, I could [01:08:00] work.

Payman Langroudi: In another universe. Yeah, you and Sarita could have done an interesting Dental business [01:08:05] because she’s she’s she’s. She seems pretty good at telling people what to do. She’s. Yeah. [01:08:10]

Mehy Lo Presti: I know that. No, she’s, [01:08:15] uh, I don’t know if she she doesn’t like much the Dental world. She sees [01:08:20] the struggles and she prefers to be a bit [01:08:25] step back from the the patient connection. She likes to work with. [01:08:30] Now she’s working with gynaecologists, with fertility experts. So she would be very good at working with dentists. [01:08:35] Uh, but then when she needs to deal with the with the patients. No, she would [01:08:40] be like, no, no, this is not my, you know, I can’t deal with this, which is understandable. You know, [01:08:45] it’s it’s very hard. Um, but yeah, I think we, you know, we always think about if [01:08:50] we do something together, it would be great. Um is another step in the relationship. [01:08:55] Work together and builds.

Payman Langroudi: Of course, you could go into the fertility world as well. That’s easier. [01:09:00]

Mehy Lo Presti: It’s at this point, it’s way easier that I work for her [01:09:05] than, than than going to the Dental world. And also she she hates events. [01:09:10] She’s like, I don’t know how you do this.

Payman Langroudi: It’s hard. Do you know what it is about events studio? Whenever [01:09:15] I’ve done it, yeah, I’ve. It’s the excitement is so high at the beginning. [01:09:20] Yeah. That, you know, once you think of an idea and you’re going to do it and you’re going to be different and it’s [01:09:25] going to be great. And then if you’ve given yourself enough [01:09:30] time, and I’d say enough time is a minimum of six months, kind of for the marketing [01:09:35] phase, if you like. Yeah. If you have given yourself enough time, the whole of that [01:09:40] six months, you’ve got this worry of, am I going to lose money or not? It’s [01:09:45] a continuous worry. And then the thing I find hardest about events [01:09:50] and maybe hard nosed events managers don’t care. Yeah, but [01:09:55] the better the event is, the less money you make.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, it’s like everything in life. [01:10:00] No, it’s like dentistry.

Payman Langroudi: Like dentistry.

Mehy Lo Presti: Like that’s exactly like dentistry. The dentistry you do, the less money you [01:10:05] make. Yeah, but you know, you need.

Payman Langroudi: That breaks my heart. It breaks my heart that, you know, I want [01:10:10] this event to have the best AV. And I want this event to have the best food and the best experience and the best every [01:10:15] time I add one of those things to it.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, but it.

Payman Langroudi: Takes it takes from the and you see event [01:10:20] companies who don’t give a give a damn as much. Yeah. And because that’s their business. [01:10:25] Right. And so they’ll have 500 people sitting in front of a plasma screen. Yeah. [01:10:30] Can’t bring myself to do it, man, I wish I could.

Mehy Lo Presti: I wish I could. My life would be way [01:10:35] easier. Yeah, but I think things are changing. [01:10:40] Yeah. I think those events are going to struggle. They are struggling.

Payman Langroudi: To pull their socks.

Mehy Lo Presti: Up. Yeah. [01:10:45] And and, you know, this is like everything, you know, it’s not only events like you build a house. The. The [01:10:50] more quality you put in the materials, the less money you’re going to make. So it depends on how you budget [01:10:55] it. And you know, we, we try to and we’ve been trying [01:11:00] to cover costs to hire people to do better things and grow and grow and grow and [01:11:05] get professionals that they do. Uh, they know how to do this in a, in a very good way. And this [01:11:10] has been our, our reason. But yeah, I agree. Like everything, the better [01:11:15] you do things, the less money you’re going to make until probably at some point, they value it enough [01:11:20] to pay the, the price. [01:11:25]

Payman Langroudi: It’s six months of pain, you know. So whenever I do an event, it’s very painful. I mean, whenever I do an event, [01:11:30] I actually feel like it’s detracted from my core business.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. It takes like I don’t sleep. [01:11:35]

Payman Langroudi: And also it also adds to the core business, but the amount of work and pain and effort that goes in. Yeah. [01:11:40] If I put that into teeth whitening, I can probably get a bigger return. But there is something magical [01:11:45] about them.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, this is the thing, you know, And this is what people are going to events. And I [01:11:50] see this a lot and underestimates the time and effort. It is how hard it is. And [01:11:55] so I see.

Payman Langroudi: The risk here. The risk is.

Mehy Lo Presti: You know, and is it worth it? You know, [01:12:00] like at the end, like I see like, you know, we’ve seen a lot of events that they do one, two and [01:12:05] that’s it.

Payman Langroudi: But you’re a glutton for punishment. Like as soon as your event’s finished, you’re thinking of another event.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, [01:12:10] yeah, I released it straight out straight in the same event. You’re constantly running 20, 2728. [01:12:15]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, you’re constantly you have the headache, right?

Mehy Lo Presti: You have to, you have to because you know. [01:12:20]

Payman Langroudi: The speakers.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, you need to, especially places to, if you want a good space, [01:12:25] especially in London, you need to almost get it with a year in advance. Um, [01:12:30] and then also, you know, you should launch the same day of the, [01:12:35] when the other events. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, you know, at least you get traction. Uh, [01:12:40] people don’t understand why we do. So the problem of that you’re saying is like 45% [01:12:45] of the people. They tend to buy their tickets the week before [01:12:50] or two weeks before the event. This is a nightmare, right? So we [01:12:55] do all this early birds and offers, and we are trying [01:13:00] to, uh, compensate people buying early to [01:13:05] at least knowing what are we doing, right? It’s not because we’re like, I hate [01:13:10] it that we are trying to be pushy and helping people and facilitating people to buy that they’re [01:13:15] going to buy. Yeah, yeah. But for us, you know, it’s better for our peace of mind if they buy now. [01:13:20]

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, for sure.

Mehy Lo Presti: Than if they buy the week before. And I’ll be honest, I’m the worst. I also [01:13:25] buy the day before, you know, and.

Payman Langroudi: I buy on the day.

Mehy Lo Presti: On the day. So, [01:13:30] you know, I know that we and we’ve sold out all our events and, [01:13:35] uh, we think we’re going to do this again, but [01:13:40] yeah, um, the risk is bigger, right? There’s more people, more costs, more logistics, [01:13:45] and like, more Lenoir. We had 70 people working on the event. [01:13:50]

Payman Langroudi: 70 people.

Mehy Lo Presti: 450 guests.

Payman Langroudi: My goodness.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. Yeah. [01:13:55]

Payman Langroudi: Oh, because it’s food and all that, right?

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, the food waiters, actors, volunteers, [01:14:00] um, the people that are working through the year, like now [01:14:05] we have a team of six, seven people working through the whole year. Uh, [01:14:10] but then you add all the time, you know, production AV so [01:14:15] you have a lot of people. So to put all this together and it’s a lot of [01:14:20] costs that go in advance. Thankfully. Also, we have a lot of like sponsors [01:14:25] that, you know, they support us. Something that was not understanding in the past how the sponsorship [01:14:30] work and why it’s like, you know, it’s the key because people would, you know, need to [01:14:35] pay them otherwise like £5,000 per ticket. Yeah. So, so it’s, it’s [01:14:40] great. And it’s speedboat. By this. The struggle is real. You know, when people like try to do events for [01:14:45] 100 people. Without a [01:14:50] vision or a bigger vision or a direction, it’s not worth it. That’s why we had to change the model.

Payman Langroudi: And [01:14:55] then there’s the other model, right? Which is the year course kind of you mentioned chrissoren type thing. [01:15:00] Have you considered that kind of event? I mean, you know, loads of good teachers.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, we would love to do something [01:15:05] like that.

Payman Langroudi: And there’s a spin off from from this maybe.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, it’s I mean, we [01:15:10] are all about collaboration, you know? And I think there are people way better than us doing [01:15:15] these things. And we would love to, you know, help or to produce a [01:15:20] course done by someone that is already doing it. I don’t think we would [01:15:25] be doing ourselves something like that. Our mission is to do this big downtown [01:15:30] every year where we become a bit the epicentre [01:15:35] of dentistry, where everyone can have something happening in that, in [01:15:40] these two, three, four days, right? And this is this is what we would like to do. Then [01:15:45] through all the year, the Dental events is an ecosystem. Everything needs to [01:15:50] happen. They need to be trade shows need to be courses of one day or two days, one year long. But [01:15:55] we love to collaborate with other events that. How can we amplify [01:16:00] the experience of what they do already? We tried a few things and it’s amazing.

Payman Langroudi: It’s an interesting idea, isn’t it? [01:16:05] So let’s say you’ve got some guy who’s a good teacher but can’t be bothered with the [01:16:10] other side. Yeah. And then collaborate and do the other side.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, we’ve done this. We did [01:16:15] this with, uh, Doctor Ernest Lucas. He’s, uh, an incredible [01:16:20] surgeon. I work with one of the most talented surgeons in the world. And [01:16:25] it was, it was the it was what happened. He was like, look, I want to give a [01:16:30] lecture. I’m super busy and I can’t deal with with the rest. It’s like, okay, [01:16:35] we’ll give you the we did it. Hackney Wick in number 90 at Bruno’s pace, we [01:16:40] did a super cool, uh, two days, um, lecture [01:16:45] workshop. And, uh, yeah, it was, it was amazing. So it’s, it’s something that we, we explore [01:16:50] and again, in understanding, okay, how can we twist and improve [01:16:55] what already is on and we trigger all these different, the layouts, [01:17:00] the lights, the way everything is delivered, the food, the [01:17:05] music that they hear is a little bit like the patient experience that we’re talking.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

Mehy Lo Presti: Exactly. Yeah. [01:17:10]

Payman Langroudi: So now let’s get to mistakes again while we’re on the events. What’s the biggest mistake you’ve made [01:17:15] in events?

Mehy Lo Presti: In events? Wow. Hundreds. Uh. [01:17:20] I think, uh. Probably [01:17:25] like the one I felt a little [01:17:30] bit, uh, that was harder was an event I did about vulnerability. It [01:17:35] was a topic that people were not understanding. And [01:17:40] I think that was a bit. This is where my trigger point was about like, okay, [01:17:45] we want to. I want to do uplifting events. It was a bit of a dark.

Payman Langroudi: It was a downer. [01:17:50]

Mehy Lo Presti: It was a downer. And I didn’t.

Payman Langroudi: Want the thought. The thought you had was the notion of like a [01:17:55] safe space, a safe.

Mehy Lo Presti: Space.

Payman Langroudi: Where you can say anything about your. And so everyone was saying, [01:18:00] oh, they want to be sued and.

Mehy Lo Presti: No. Yeah, it was amazing, you know, but I left that room. I was like, I don’t want to feel [01:18:05] like this in my events. I don’t want to live like this. It’s interesting. Yeah. And [01:18:10] well, and then more and more, uh, it was a big technical, uh, [01:18:15] problem.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, you said the sound.

Mehy Lo Presti: The sound.

Payman Langroudi: It’s interesting.

Mehy Lo Presti: The [01:18:20] sound. We were like, we tested and we tried and everything was okay, but we didn’t count with [01:18:25] having 200 people in the room and everyone was saying. And that was making [01:18:30] a huge sound. So the sound wasn’t clear. Uh, And then [01:18:35] obviously underestimating spaces timings. But that that [01:18:40] was probably the it’s always technical things, always technical things.

Payman Langroudi: I always say to people who are doing events [01:18:45] for the first time, I tell them, listen, think of it as like a wedding or something. We’re [01:18:50] always in a wedding. One thing is going to go very wrong. Yeah, and it’s almost [01:18:55] like you’re waiting for that one thing. And when it happens, you’re like, oh, there it is. You [01:19:00] know, like recognising it almost like in a way, like meditation. You know, when they say, let the problem [01:19:05] come see it, don’t feel it and just push it away from you. Because when [01:19:10] you’re, when you’re ambitious, especially, you’re trying to do things for the first time.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah. But this is the difference [01:19:15] between amazing events, uh, managers or organisers. Those are the [01:19:20] ones that think about everything that’s going to go wrong.

Payman Langroudi: Contingencies.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. And they, and this is what I [01:19:25] learned from, from in the college that I was telling you before, there are people that they do immersive experiences [01:19:30] and you play role models for a week. There’s this this one [01:19:35] of the founders. He created this experience that you were a rock star for two weeks, going [01:19:40] from east to to the West Coast in the United States, doing concerts. [01:19:45] Uh.

Payman Langroudi: People were buying this experience. Yeah. How interesting.

Mehy Lo Presti: Amazing. You know? And, [01:19:50] or he builds this, this world’s where you are [01:19:55] a character and imagine all the things that can go wrong because you need to arrive [01:20:00] to that door and that door needs to open. And it’s like, what if the key is not there? [01:20:05] You know what we do. And then he started thinking about all the things that can go wrong. And this is how [01:20:10] he starts building events from the side of what can go wrong. So [01:20:15] you put step one. Okay, good. Now what can go wrong here? Fine. Solved. Step two. [01:20:20]

Payman Langroudi: Wow.

Mehy Lo Presti: And this is a bit how you can, but there are things that you know you [01:20:25] can’t control.

Payman Langroudi: Shit happens.

Mehy Lo Presti: Shit happens all the time. But this is the beauty. I always say [01:20:30] the day of the event, I go to the venue expecting to solve at least 50 [01:20:35] problems. Yeah. You know, and you have to go do that mentality, you know? And then host the event. And [01:20:40] then people that they have an issue, they haven’t done the issue. They don’t come. They don’t. [01:20:45] Yeah. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: How about what about clinical. Clinical mistakes. We started [01:20:50] on it but we didn’t finish.

Mehy Lo Presti: Uh, I think, uh.

Payman Langroudi: This patient. [01:20:55]

Mehy Lo Presti: Uh, well, hardest patient. I [01:21:00] mean, I’ve been lucky, you know, I didn’t have very, very, [01:21:05] very bad.

Payman Langroudi: No, no, no, no, I just saw it in your eyes there when you when you, I saw it, I saw it. Just [01:21:10] say it. Just say it. Just say it, man, I saw it, I saw it in your eyes. I saw it in your eyes. There’s a story. [01:21:15] Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: No, I think the one I felt was like a full math where, [01:21:20] where we were inserting, like, you know, there were like 24 units and [01:21:25] none of them fitted.

Payman Langroudi: Why?

Mehy Lo Presti: I think maybe [01:21:30] the the impression material didn’t set properly.

Payman Langroudi: Or something.

Mehy Lo Presti: And maybe [01:21:35] shrunk.

Payman Langroudi: Not a single one was fitting.

Mehy Lo Presti: Not a single one. And all of them.

Payman Langroudi: Clearly something [01:21:40] was.

Mehy Lo Presti: Was wasn’t done properly, most likely on my side. Um, obviously [01:21:45] you blame the lab.

Payman Langroudi: But [01:21:50] poor labs.

Mehy Lo Presti: Poor labs. Yeah. Poor labs. Sorry, but yeah. Um, but [01:21:55] yeah, probably that was like, you know.

Payman Langroudi: So what did you done? You taken all the temporaries off and nothing [01:22:00] was off.

Mehy Lo Presti: Then you’re there, you’re like, oh my God, nothing is fitting. And [01:22:05] then you have to take impressions.

Payman Langroudi: Impressions of course. [01:22:10]

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, of course, impressions and retraction cords. Uh, well, yeah. [01:22:15]

Payman Langroudi: When you think it’s about to end and it’s actually right at the beginning.

Mehy Lo Presti: When you’re like there and then like the first one. Oh, okay, [01:22:20] I’ll modify this later if I can second one. And then you start like, okay, it’s all of them. [01:22:25]

Payman Langroudi: Oh my goodness.

Mehy Lo Presti: And then you’re like, you know, you’re like, look. Thankfully, she was [01:22:30] very understanding the patient she was travelling from far to. So, you know, it’s just [01:22:35] like, you feel bad for people, you know, it’s like, what can you do? You know.

Payman Langroudi: That does [01:22:40] sound like a good, good news story in the end though. Yeah. Like a happy ending. Is it was there an unhappy ending? [01:22:45] One where let’s just say, I don’t know the patient, but the patient lost confidence and didn’t come [01:22:50] back. Something like that.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: I mean.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, that happens. That happened once. [01:22:55] And you know, I don’t know what you can do. Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: But what happened? [01:23:00] What was the situation?

Mehy Lo Presti: I think it was a case that they didn’t finish, uh, as [01:23:05] we were expecting. And then the patient was in, you know, uh, [01:23:10] she, she didn’t have trust on that. This would be finishing. I think it [01:23:15] was a liners case. And then, and then we [01:23:20] had to.

Payman Langroudi: Get very picky at the end of the line.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, it makes sense. It’s like a very stressful, [01:23:25] not stressful, but you know, it’s very consuming, right?

Payman Langroudi: And the weird thing, I’ve [01:23:30] been through it myself with my kids. Yeah. That near the end of a line, particularly my wife, who’s a dentist, [01:23:35] becomes almost obsessive about a one millimetre rotation or something. [01:23:40] And then, but the weird thing is, the moment you say, okay, it’s over, then you [01:23:45] never even see that again. You don’t even notice it again.

Mehy Lo Presti: No no, no.

Payman Langroudi: No, but it’s the fact that, you know, this [01:23:50] is your last chance to fix it. You know.

Mehy Lo Presti: You’ve been so like, I don’t know if you were like two years [01:23:55] with aligners or whatever. And it’s like, well, once I’ve gone through, gone through all of this.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah, yeah, [01:24:00] yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, let’s get this millimetre. Right.

Payman Langroudi: So the guy gave up. Thought you can’t do this. Went complained [01:24:05] money back.

Mehy Lo Presti: No no no no no. It’s like I want to see another dentist. And I was like, okay, you [01:24:10] know, I mean, I bet the result was the result was the same, you know, like it’s [01:24:15] how it is, you know? Um, but, uh, yeah, of course I understand, [01:24:20] you know, like people like, most likely it was my fault, you in terms of communication [01:24:25] and setting expectations. Things that you don’t do at the beginning. You don’t know how to set expectations [01:24:30] at the beginning of your career.

Payman Langroudi: Let’s take the fault for everything, isn’t it? Just it’s just correct. You start blaming [01:24:35] the patient. You’re in all sorts of trouble.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, you can’t, you know. Yeah. You won’t go anywhere. Yeah. Um, [01:24:40] of course there are things that are unfair and, you know, but, um, [01:24:45] at the end, you know, understand, you know, patients are going through things. It’s what we were saying. People [01:24:50] have their own problems. Um, and also adding this, uh, [01:24:55] things, but I think it’s the key and this is the problem that we do is setting the right expectations. [01:25:00] Yeah. This is what those cases where things go wrong and things get [01:25:05] upset is because you didn’t say this might happen. Yeah. In a clear way. [01:25:10] And this is it. People don’t get upset because things the treatment is not right. People [01:25:15] get upset because you didn’t tell them that it might go wrong.

Payman Langroudi: Absolutely. Man. If me and you treat [01:25:20] the same patient the same way, depending on what you said and what I said 100%. [01:25:25] It’s a massive difference. You could look like an expert. Yeah. When something fails, [01:25:30] if you’ve warned that it might fail. Yeah. Whereas if I haven’t warned that it failed. I look [01:25:35] like a charlatan. You know, it’s.

Mehy Lo Presti: Surgeons like like ha, like heart surgeon [01:25:40] cardiologists. They do this very well. It’s like a 50 over 50. Imagine you say this to to as.

Payman Langroudi: Long as they come [01:25:45] out alive.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. It’s like 50. Oh, okay. Well, but you know, you don’t you you don’t think he’s he’s [01:25:50] a bad doctor.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: You think he’s an honest doctor and he’s going to do the best for me.

Payman Langroudi: And he knows [01:25:55] what could go wrong. Yeah. That’s another.

Mehy Lo Presti: So the same. You know, I don’t know why we have that fear of telling the patients [01:26:00] like, look, this is going to go wrong or this or this is not going to happen. Um, and then we get in [01:26:05] trouble because of that. And sometimes it’s just a, because we forget. Sometimes it’s because.

Payman Langroudi: You know what it is if you’re an [01:26:10] expert. Yeah. You end up feeling like you’ve, you’ve, you’ve, you’ve, you’re [01:26:15] it’s okay to say what could go wrong. It’s when you’re out of your depth. Yeah. That [01:26:20] it can become a problem. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And often when you’re out of your depth, you cover it up with extra confidence. [01:26:25] You overcompensate with confidence. Yeah. That’s where stuff starts to [01:26:30] go wrong. Yeah. Because if you feel like you know what you’re talking about, telling people about what could go wrong actually [01:26:35] is almost like an extra bit of. Like this guy knows the pitfalls. [01:26:40] Yeah. You know.

Mehy Lo Presti: And also, you know, also, I see it in a way of we not [01:26:45] knowing how to handle certain patients. You know, like some, some kind of certain [01:26:50] energies that you feel a little bit like.

Payman Langroudi: Sometimes you just don’t vibe with them.

Mehy Lo Presti: No, you don’t vibe. [01:26:55] You don’t feel comfortable to tell them how things are. No. And then [01:27:00] you end up treating them.

Payman Langroudi: Have you ever come across a body dysmorphic situation, like [01:27:05] where someone is blaming all their problems in the world on the way your veneers look? [01:27:10]

Mehy Lo Presti: Um, no, I don’t have a problem with that. But I have, you know, you have problems [01:27:15] with people like, you know, getting obsessed with a specific thing for for years. [01:27:20] And then again, it’s a problem of not managing this patient before [01:27:25] starting the treatment.

Payman Langroudi: I was talking to you about it and she was saying that sometimes [01:27:30] what the patients complaining of is so small, but as [01:27:35] long as she can see what the patient is complaining about, she’ll take it [01:27:40] seriously and try and fix it. But she says the danger one is where she can’t see what the patient is saying [01:27:45] 100%.

Mehy Lo Presti: And that’s a good that’s a very good advice.

Payman Langroudi: That’s a good line, isn’t it? A good.

Mehy Lo Presti: Line?

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [01:27:50] Because if you can’t see it. Yeah, definitely don’t go in like do anything.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah [01:27:55] yeah yeah I agree. And you know it’s our nature, right? We want [01:28:00] to help them. We want to do the best for them. We want to, you know, and it’s not about [01:28:05] the money.

Payman Langroudi: It’s just about you’re absolutely right. In private dentistry, it’s so much more like a service [01:28:10] business. You’re in constant yes mode.

Mehy Lo Presti: You’re not going [01:28:15] to make money out of that case, you know. You know that you’re going to lose money because it’s going to be there. But you want to help. Yeah. And [01:28:20] you still, it’s so hard for us to say, like, I can’t help you, you know, because we feel like we’re failing [01:28:25] them, right? And in a way, you know, you know, you’re going to lose money there.

Payman Langroudi: So have you developed [01:28:30] like a sixth sense about where to say no?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah.

Payman Langroudi: Do you know what [01:28:35] I mean? Do you know what I mean by sixth sense? It’s almost like you don’t know why, but something’s off. Yeah. [01:28:40]

Mehy Lo Presti: But do you know this? As an associate, it’s hard to to take [01:28:45] those decisions right where you want to stop. Treating the patient, you need to be very aligned [01:28:50] with the clinic in terms of like understanding, okay, are we all together? And we don’t [01:28:55] treat this patient or I’m going to say no, and then someone is going to take [01:29:00] it, and then it’s going to be like, you know, you’re going to look bad. And then at the end, it ends up [01:29:05] being a problem for the other person. So it’s, yeah, I have this sixth sense, but sometimes like, [01:29:10] okay, it’s not going to go well, but what do I do here? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So those [01:29:15] are things that also is good to have that conversation with, with the clinic itself.

Payman Langroudi: What [01:29:20] comes to mind when I say favourite book or resource or podcast [01:29:25] or either within or outside of dentistry? Okay. You said that college of experiences, whatever. [01:29:30]

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. Well, now I’m obsessed with anything that is about immersive experience. [01:29:35] Uh, events like the science.

Payman Langroudi: Are you looking into that?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. [01:29:40] Like the science behind the events and how people are, how [01:29:45] everything is evolving and how what people want to make, uh, how, what feeling [01:29:50] they want to have from an event, how to trigger emotions. That’s now I [01:29:55] love all of this stuff. Uh, so I’m very much into it. And it’s cool because [01:30:00] you can apply some stuff to dentistry too in terms of clinical. Um, [01:30:05] I mean, I’m a, I’m a big fan of Pascal Magne, so [01:30:10] his books are always been like a bit like the Bible.

Payman Langroudi: On your shelf, huh?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah. [01:30:15] Uh, so I think this is a book that, you know, you [01:30:20] can, you can, uh, agree or disagree on [01:30:25] techniques, you know, but how everything has been written and the passion behind [01:30:30] for me is like a good principles to have. And then you can modify whatever you think, uh, [01:30:35] in social media, I think, uh, really like how Marcus Blatz has, [01:30:40] uh, transformed, uh, evidence based education [01:30:45] on making it snippets and it’s very, very bite size. I love it and I think it’s, [01:30:50] it’s the way and it’s good to do that. You do it, but you put the reference and then you [01:30:55] go, if you want to go deeper into it, uh, you need to read x, Y, z. But [01:31:00] I think he does it very well and explain the reasons. Again, you can agree or disagree [01:31:05] on, on, on some stuff obviously, but I think it’s a good way of engaging. [01:31:10]

Payman Langroudi: And I mean, the good thing is like, if you want to go deep with him, you can. You [01:31:15] know, for sure that’s the other side of it that, you know, he’s a professor. He knows his [01:31:20] stuff.

Mehy Lo Presti: Incredible.

Payman Langroudi: And yet manages to make it. I always think about education, like almost [01:31:25] like breadth or depth. Yeah. And some people manage both, you know, they somehow manage it. I think [01:31:30] Chris was very good like that. He he’ll give you a lot of breadth if you want to go deep, [01:31:35] he’ll go deep with you. Yeah. But but you know, he manages a good combination of breadth and depth, [01:31:40] you know, in his teaching. I’ve enjoyed [01:31:45] this. I’ve enjoyed this. Good.

[BOTH]: It’s a good start.

Payman Langroudi: As long as [01:31:50] I enjoyed it.

[BOTH]: I enjoyed it, I enjoyed it all. Yeah. As far as we enjoy here.

Mehy Lo Presti: The rest would come [01:31:55] up.

Payman Langroudi: We’ve been going for a long time.

[BOTH]: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean we already had a lot of conversations [01:32:00] outside here. So it’s.

[BOTH]: Good to put.

Mehy Lo Presti: It actually summarise it here.

Payman Langroudi: That’s right. But [01:32:05] the final questions that we like to ask Fantasy dinner [01:32:10] party.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, you know that like dinner parties.

Payman Langroudi: I [01:32:15] know you like dinner parties. We go to a very nice dinner parties together.

Mehy Lo Presti: But, uh, you [01:32:20] know, a.

Payman Langroudi: Three guests, dead or alive.

Mehy Lo Presti: Do [01:32:25] you know what I, I, I always thought about these questions, and I always, [01:32:30] I met some people that I really admired and I met them on dinner and I got [01:32:35] so disappointed.

Payman Langroudi: It can happen.

Mehy Lo Presti: It can happen. So I’m kind of like, you know, I stopped thinking. [01:32:40]

[BOTH]: I.

Payman Langroudi: Don’t want to.

[BOTH]: Risk.

Mehy Lo Presti: It. I don’t want to risk it anymore. So, you know, I it would [01:32:45] cost me a lot understanding who would I like to to speak. But for sure, [01:32:50] people that can probably not they’re not famous and they can actually enjoy [01:32:55] having dinners with people that I can learn from and make me speechless. [01:33:00] And I don’t need to talk. Uh, but if you ask me, people [01:33:05] and I’m going to get a bit romantic here, Uh, I think my grandparents are [01:33:10] nice. I think like, uh.

Payman Langroudi: Which which ones?

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, I, I [01:33:15] the all four in the prime. I only met my, [01:33:20] my dad’s mom. She was quite old, so I really didn’t [01:33:25] understand. Uh, where was she coming from? But I would like to understand where I’m coming from, [01:33:30] why I’m being educated this way. How? My parents. Why they’re thinking [01:33:35] that way. And and I think, well, I think no, I know there were brilliant, uh, [01:33:40] what they were doing. And I think I would love to understand why I [01:33:45] do what I do. And I think a lot of it comes.

Payman Langroudi: From a good place to look. Right?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, I think that’s [01:33:50] I mean, I was always no. Yeah. Like we should look at why we do things is where we’re [01:33:55] coming from. And I know that now we try, you know, when you become parents and then you try to break [01:34:00] that, uh, chain of actions [01:34:05] and thoughts and starving a dad, uh, without any [01:34:10] thinking from the past or from your ancestors? Yeah, but I think it’s important to actually [01:34:15] understanding why I believe in things that you do.

Payman Langroudi: So [01:34:20] look, your mom’s side. Very interesting, but I’d like to go into your [01:34:25] dad’s side as far as grandparents. Your dad, you said, was a refugee [01:34:30] from Palestine. Yeah. What was the situation with your grandparents in Palestine? [01:34:35] They were living there.

Mehy Lo Presti: They were living there. They? Yeah, they [01:34:40] were in Palestine. They exist. And, uh, they have, [01:34:45] uh, a great life. Um, my, my, my [01:34:50] granddad actually on the, in the 67 invested all his money [01:34:55] on creating this, uh, factory of, uh. [01:35:00]

Payman Langroudi: In Israel now.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, not in Gaza.

Payman Langroudi: Oh, in Gaza, in Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: And then [01:35:05] basically it got destroyed from one day to the other. All the money that he [01:35:10] made, all his life invested in that factory, that from one end to the other was [01:35:15] gone. And then obviously, you know, my dad.

Payman Langroudi: Did you grandparents [01:35:20] carry on living in Gaza?

Mehy Lo Presti: He so in the 67, uh, my [01:35:25] dad left 66, 67. My dad just before the war, my dad [01:35:30] left. It was six. And with his brother, little brother and sisters [01:35:35] and his mom.

Payman Langroudi: To.

[BOTH]: Wear.

Mehy Lo Presti: To Cairo. And at the age of six, [01:35:40] they told him and his two his older brothers and dad, they stayed in Gaza until [01:35:45] after the war. So with six years old, they told him like, you are [01:35:50] the man of the family now, so you need to look after your [01:35:55] whole family. Um.

Payman Langroudi: And then the repetitions, the repetitions [01:36:00] of the, all the things that have happened in that area. Does [01:36:05] that does that sort of, you know, you were just talking about sort of hereditary. [01:36:10] Hereditary pain and suffering.

[BOTH]: Yeah. Oh, this [01:36:15] is something.

Payman Langroudi: The echoes of that. Like do you feel the echoes of that? Do you feel like. Of course you do. [01:36:20] And you watch what’s happening right now. But do you feel like it’s something that’s going to go into your [01:36:25] kids and.

[BOTH]: Well, this is a great question.

Mehy Lo Presti: And this is something I went through therapy, a very strong [01:36:30] therapy. As soon as, uh, my daughter was born, she was born.

[BOTH]: She [01:36:35] was born.

Payman Langroudi: Right around then.

Mehy Lo Presti: She was born a month after October 7th.

[BOTH]: Wow.

Mehy Lo Presti: And, and [01:36:40] obviously that was a very, very, very, very difficult time for me. Um. [01:36:45]

[BOTH]: Watching what.

Payman Langroudi: Happened to all these other kids.

Mehy Lo Presti: Watching what happened and also not being [01:36:50] able to. I got into a black hole, right? Of thoughts of negativity, of, uh, not [01:36:55] being able to, to do anything. Watching what happens to all of these kids and families [01:37:00] and my own family is still there.

[BOTH]: Still there now. [01:37:05]

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And you know, I have first cousins that are there and you [01:37:10] feel like powerless and guilty. And, and my first [01:37:15] worry was, uh, me transmitting this to my daughter. I [01:37:20] was believing I was already, like, projecting this bad energy that she she didn’t, [01:37:25] uh, deserve. And to my wife, which she just gave birth [01:37:30] and she was going through all the postpartum process and I felt like I wasn’t there. [01:37:35] I wasn’t the, the person that I needed. And that made me feel terrible. [01:37:40] And all the aspects from work, from, I mean, even the events, right? I [01:37:45] ended up doing an event about vulnerability. Imagine how, where was my, my, my mind was [01:37:50] in the darkest days of, of my, my, my life. And I [01:37:55] did like a very strong therapy, uh, intense. Where [01:38:00] I managed to see things from from, from perspective. And, [01:38:05] you know, I understood that, you know, I have a massive war already in my house, [01:38:10] right? There’s a big conflict in my house I need to solve. And, and once this [01:38:15] is sorted, I can start looking at the rest of the world. But I can’t solve anything happening [01:38:20] anywhere, you know, and that you make that guilt that you have about like, oh, she [01:38:25] should do something. I can do something. And if I’m not doing it, I’m not a good person. [01:38:30] And, you know, little by little.

[BOTH]: Around.

Payman Langroudi: The same time [01:38:35] you broke with Joe Lovett as well.

[BOTH]: Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Also that was, uh, at [01:38:40] that time. Exactly. So it was everything, you know, like, yeah, it was a lot. It was like, you know, [01:38:45] it was never, it’s never nice to, to, uh, you [01:38:50] know, pathways, pathways with someone that you build something [01:38:55] for one reason or the other. It’s just like, you know, it’s not a positive experience, let’s [01:39:00] say, you know, and it wasn’t, uh, so we, you know, it was.

[BOTH]: Everything was.

Payman Langroudi: Understandable, [01:39:05] even, okay, I’m not connected to the area like you are, but my [01:39:10] wife is from Beirut, which is down the road and all of that, even not [01:39:15] connected to it. You feel it?

[BOTH]: I think so when. [01:39:20]

Payman Langroudi: You’re when you’re connected to it even more. And then and then the repetition, the fact that it’s happened again [01:39:25] and again and again and again, and we forget the number of times in 2016, [01:39:30] one moment and then in 2019, the moment, you know, there’s so many [01:39:35] of those that, you know, come and go in the news, you’re feeling them worrying about your [01:39:40] family. And, you know.

Mehy Lo Presti: It becomes like, okay, every two years you’re going to have one [01:39:45] of those. It’s like a bad flu, right? Every three years you’re going to get bad. This one [01:39:50] was like never ending. Yeah. You know, you think like, okay, it’s going to be another hit. And then it’s just [01:39:55] like, you know, and still, you know, till now it’s still the same. And it’s terrible that you get numb. And we all the humanity, [01:40:00] the whole world got numb. And we are now used to see these things happening. And [01:40:05] we’re not even, you know, we’re so used to now see that kids and people [01:40:10] dead bodies and that it’s just, it’s just crazy, you know, it’s [01:40:15] like, uh, what the world has become.

Payman Langroudi: How do you, how do you square the circle? [01:40:20] I mean, like for me, I, I tend to like, take the other [01:40:25] side’s point of view into account to give [01:40:30] some sort of sanity to it.

Mehy Lo Presti: Well, yeah, of course it’s difficult.

Payman Langroudi: It’s so difficult. Like, [01:40:35] how do you manage it?

Mehy Lo Presti: I mean, I mean, I understand why people think in a way [01:40:40] and it’s not their fault. Yeah. You know, like when people they’ve been brainwashed [01:40:45] and thinking that is the right thing. Well, when they see it and [01:40:50] happens, they’re not going to feel bad about it, you know? So I actually think also people [01:40:55] are victims. The people that think this is right are victims of, of, of the [01:41:00] manipulation that they’ve been going through all their lives. And it’s sad to see. And now everything reveals. And not only [01:41:05] that in this, in this conflict, in this war and genocide, [01:41:10] but also in anything that happens around the world, people seeing the extreme [01:41:15] right or extreme left or anything, any extremes and radical radicalism that [01:41:20] that is happening is normal, you know, and this is where you get scared. It’s like, whoa, this [01:41:25] is not probably the word I want to leave for my daughters to, to live. So yeah, [01:41:30] it’s an understanding kind [01:41:35] of, but you know, you also lose respect for a [01:41:40] lot of people and a lot of things around you. And that happened to me over the past two years, [01:41:45] people that I admire. And I thought they were very, very intelligent people. [01:41:50] And when you see how they think about certain things, they’re like, whoa, okay, [01:41:55] that’s. I thought, you know, you were more free minded. [01:42:00]

Payman Langroudi: Uh, it’s polarising though. Yeah. Polarises you into one direction or [01:42:05] another. It’s one of those one of the biggest.

Mehy Lo Presti: There is nothing, nothing polarising about being [01:42:10] in favour of humanity and genocide. You know, you can have political views. Okay, I understand [01:42:15] you have your reasons. Financial reasons? Historical reasons, I don’t know, but there are things [01:42:20] that there is no side or the other. It’s just, you know, you actually.

Payman Langroudi: You [01:42:25] see it a lot with Iranians here because, uh, we feel like our country got destroyed [01:42:30] by religion. Yeah. And, and you see it with Iranians who, who, who see, [01:42:35] see what’s going on in, in Gaza. Yeah. And almost see it as like a necessary thing that needs [01:42:40] to happen for us, for us to get. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And lose humanity in [01:42:45] that moment. Like lose humanity in that moment. Yeah. You know that [01:42:50] the the the four year old child has got nothing to do with this [01:42:55] guy’s issue with Iran in 1978. Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: Exactly. And this [01:43:00] is the problem that the people are using religion and they’re using.

Payman Langroudi: Believe in [01:43:05] God.

Mehy Lo Presti: Oh, I think I believe in God, not in [01:43:10] the not in how the religion says [01:43:15] that God is. You know, I probably don’t.

Payman Langroudi: Did you pray?

Mehy Lo Presti: No.

Payman Langroudi: So what do [01:43:20] you believe then?

Mehy Lo Presti: I think there is. I believe in energies. I believe that, you know, [01:43:25] there’s, you know, things that just don’t happen because they’re happening. I believe that.

Payman Langroudi: There’s more to [01:43:30] it than we can see and feel to it.

Mehy Lo Presti: And there’s more more things in between us than what we can [01:43:35] see. Yeah. I don’t think there is anyone judging if we’re gonna go to hell or [01:43:40] no, I don’t think there’s anyone.

Payman Langroudi: No one watching.

Mehy Lo Presti: I don’t think anyone is watching karma. Karma. [01:43:45] Kind of like I could I could feel I could feel that, you know, uh, good [01:43:50] things would happen to you.

Payman Langroudi: If you do good things.

Mehy Lo Presti: If you good things, you, you might attract [01:43:55] good things.

Payman Langroudi: It’s practically obviously right. Practically. Obviously you’ve been good to [01:44:00] me. I’m going to be good to you. Yeah. So that’s a practical thing. But do you believe there’s more to it than [01:44:05] that, even? Like.

Mehy Lo Presti: I think so. I think I think, you know, if you expect that if I’m good to you [01:44:10] expecting that you’re going to be good to me. I don’t think that’s the that’s.

Payman Langroudi: The way it just it is, it is.

Mehy Lo Presti: It’s going [01:44:15] to be like this. You know.

Payman Langroudi: We’ve had some excellent interactions. My future interactions with you will be excellent [01:44:20] whatever happens because we’ve had amazing like I’ve always liked you. We’ve hugged each other. We’ve we’ve we’ve [01:44:25] you’ve been nice to me. I’ve been nice. Karma. Karma is practical. Yeah, I think so.

Mehy Lo Presti: But it’s [01:44:30] not, it’s not, it’s not.

Payman Langroudi: It’s nothing more than that. Nothing more than that. Like, you know, a lot of people who believe in karma actually [01:44:35] believe something comes around that goes around, you know, like.

Mehy Lo Presti: I think I think there [01:44:40] is something like that, you know, I think, I think, you know, when, when I wake up and I [01:44:45] see like the sun and the flowers and the beautiful [01:44:50] things. You think that this is happening for.

Payman Langroudi: An overall connection?

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. [01:44:55] And I believe in God in that way. I believe in God. And being on, on, on the beautiful things [01:45:00] that happen. But I don’t believe on someone that’s judging me and observing and thinking, if you do this, you’re going to go [01:45:05] to hell. If you do this, you’re going to go to another place. I think [01:45:10] you know.

Payman Langroudi: So you wouldn’t even characterise yourself. You wouldn’t identify as any sort of religion. [01:45:15]

Mehy Lo Presti: I’ve been raised in a in a my mom was [01:45:20] raised Christian, my dad Muslim. Yeah. So I think I’ve been [01:45:25] raised probably with that culture, Muslim culture, and I understand [01:45:30] the Christian culture. I’ve been. Also, I was going to school and every morning was there [01:45:35] was a pray and.

Payman Langroudi: Actually in Spain.

Mehy Lo Presti: In Spain. So I understand [01:45:40] everything and I’m. And I’m a very lucky position to actually be able [01:45:45] to learn from both sides. Uh, my wife is Italian, so, you [01:45:50] know, understanding her family and their values, which are all the same, you know, and [01:45:55] this is the problem that religion should unify. And the problem was that I don’t believe on [01:46:00] the people that are managing religions nowadays. Right? And how things are [01:46:05] brought.

Payman Langroudi: This is not only nowadays, is it? It’s been through through the ages.

Mehy Lo Presti: Exactly. So that’s why I don’t [01:46:10] think.

Payman Langroudi: You don’t like the organised. Sort of. Yeah.

Mehy Lo Presti: I don’t, I don’t think I don’t believe in [01:46:15] these things, but you know, I respect everything and it’s good to have values. And I like when [01:46:20] religion gives you principles you can work with. And some people, [01:46:25] they just need a guide somehow. I would say maybe they never had it [01:46:30] in their life. Yeah, this is a bit. Sometimes it gets dangerous when, when the, the interpretation [01:46:35] of those books that were written 2000 years ago can go [01:46:40] in a, in a, in a wrong way.

Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I feel like a bit like, I don’t know, it’s a bit like saying, [01:46:45] um, is the army a good thing or not? In a way, yeah. [01:46:50] Like, let’s say I’ve got no sort of structure. Then [01:46:55] joining the army might give me structure, you know, give me discipline. It’ll [01:47:00] teach me right from wrong if you like, if you.

Mehy Lo Presti: Like those values for me is [01:47:05] a bit like, uh, I hate those values, you know? Yeah. You know, one thing is to get [01:47:10] to learn how to be disciplined, but you can learn to be disciplined without guns.

Payman Langroudi: No, no, I [01:47:15] know, I know.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah. So so you know, I agree with you and same from the religion. There are beautiful things. [01:47:20]

Payman Langroudi: There are beautiful things, amazing things. You can use it. You can use it as a structure for whatever.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, exactly. Like, you [01:47:25] know, I, I know the Quran, I know the Bible and you know, and there [01:47:30] are things that you don’t agree, but there are beautiful things that you can take in terms of the [01:47:35] respect for other people, in terms of the generosity, in terms of like there for [01:47:40] a lot of us is common sense, but some people maybe need a bit of a reminder [01:47:45] of, of how, you know, be kind with others.

Payman Langroudi: But also I’ve recently, I [01:47:50] used to have a lot of problem with everything that you said. Yeah, I agree with everything you said. I used to have a problem [01:47:55] with it because of everything that you said. Yeah. But then recently I’ve started treating [01:48:00] all the religions more like a book. Like any book. Yeah, yeah, like there’s some Shakespeare [01:48:05] book that I’m sure it’s beautiful. Yeah, it’s a beautiful thing. Yeah. So I could [01:48:10] look at Christianity and say, yeah, that that message is a beautiful message. Exactly. I don’t have to even bother myself [01:48:15] with was Christ the Son of God or is there a God? Yeah, yeah, I agree. [01:48:20] I can just go to the teaching, you know, just and itself is a beautiful thing.

Mehy Lo Presti: And you can [01:48:25] get inspired by Shakespeare. Like you’re not going to do everything that they did in the book, right? Or, but you can see [01:48:30] like, wow, this is great. And that actually is making me think. So that probably is a very nice [01:48:35] approach.

Payman Langroudi: We pretty much agree on that.

Mehy Lo Presti: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Payman Langroudi: It’s been really, really fun. I’ve really enjoyed it, man. [01:48:40] Thank you so much for doing this. And um, really good. Good luck with Dental.

Mehy Lo Presti: Thank you.

Payman Langroudi: And [01:48:45] all the other stuff that you’re going to do going forward.

Mehy Lo Presti: Thank you very much. And, [01:48:50] uh, thank you so much for having me. Has been a great pleasure.

Payman Langroudi: Always, always.

[VOICE]: This [01:48:55] is Dental Leaders, the podcast where you get to go one [01:49:00] on one with emerging leaders in dentistry. Your [01:49:05] hosts, Payman, Langroudi and Prav Solanki.

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