Mike Gray’s path to dentistry was anything but straightforward — and that’s precisely what makes this conversation so compelling.
A former semi-professional mountain biker who raced the World Series across three disciplines, a musician who once had the head of Universal Publishing sitting in his living room in rural Wales, and a dentist who spent years doing everything he could to avoid dentistry, Mike has lived several lives before arriving at the one he clearly loves.
Payman and Mike cover the full sweep — grief, therapy, surgical war stories, and an obsessive, self-taught approach to digital restorative dentistry that culminates in his POISE Protocol: a no-prep veneer workflow that he believes makes truly minimally invasive ceramics available to the vast majority of patients, not just a lucky five per cent.
In This Episode
00:00:55 – Introductions and first impressions
00:01:20 – Mountain biking career
00:09:15 – A friend’s suicide, guilt and stepping back from maxfax
00:12:15 – Therapy
00:14:10 – Life on the World Series circuit
00:19:25 – From maxfax to music
00:28:10 – Blackbox thinking
00:33:45 – Music career — Alabama Three, Peppa Pig and Covid
00:49:25 – NHS dentistry debate
00:51:50 – Falling in love with dentistry
00:54:40 – Self-taught restorative and the digital workflow
01:00:25 – Ditching the articulator
01:01:20 – Prototypes, not temporaries
01:05:10 – Into implants
01:11:00 – Compassion fatigue
01:13:40 – POISE protocol and no-prep ceramics
01:25:10 – The Lodge and the course
01:29:05 – Resilience and failure
01:34:20 – Practice ownership
01:41:10 – Instagram
01:49:20 – Fantasy dinner party
About Mike Gray
Mike Gray is a dentist based in Wales, working at Parkway Clinic in Swansea and The Lodge — a referral and education centre where he hosts his sold-out POISE Protocol course on minimally invasive ceramic veneers. His background spans maxillofacial surgery, semi-professional mountain biking at World Series level, and a music career that attracted interest from Universal Publishing and, improbably, Peppa Pig. He teaches himself CAD, machines his own surgical instruments, and has spent five years developing a digital workflow for no-prep ceramic restorations that he believes renders feldspathic and heavy preparation largely redundant.
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[VOICE]: This [00:00:35] is Dental Leaders. The [00:00:40] podcast where you get to go one on one with emerging [00:00:45] leaders in dentistry. Your [00:00:50] hosts Payman Langroudi and Prav Solanki.
Payman Langroudi: It [00:00:55] gives me great pleasure to welcome Mike grey onto the podcast. Mike is a. Legendary [00:01:00] is the best word I can find for it. Yeah yeah yeah. [00:01:05] I’ve got a degree of hero worship for you, man. Um, [00:01:10] they say never meet your heroes. But, you know, it’s a massive pleasure that you’ve come.
Mike Gray: Oh, no. It’s my [00:01:15] pleasure. Like I said, I. I think you got the wrong guy. Like I said, because it’s Dental Leaders [00:01:20] podcast and look at me, you know, but, uh, no absolute pleasure. And, uh, [00:01:25] yeah, it’s, uh, much respect for yourself as well and everything. Well, you [00:01:30] know, it’s, you’re a perfect person to speak to of life outside dentistry, [00:01:35] you know, because, uh, which is, and it’s awesome. And I think you don’t realise that [00:01:40] when you start dentistry, um, because you think, well, you know, I just have to drill people’s mouths and yet [00:01:45] you done all this, which is awesome.
Payman Langroudi: It’s very flexible, isn’t it? Dentistry that [00:01:50] my daughter’s thinking of going into it. Although these days you never know with, uh, robots [00:01:55] and you know what’s going to be like eight years time when she.
Mike Gray: Was working on it, aren’t they?
Payman Langroudi: Exactly. [00:02:00] I mean, the brain, definitely the the language model. And it’s time. It’s going to be the [00:02:05] super computer. Right. But then the only other thing is like, you know, the eyes and the hands. Yeah. And [00:02:10] you know, man, if they can’t make hands better than human hands in eight years time.
Mike Gray: Then when [00:02:15] Musk was on about it, I saw something the other day.
Payman Langroudi: He’s like, go to medical school. Yeah, I saw that.
Mike Gray: Well, it’s. [00:02:20] And it’s right. Yeah. I’d give that advice in this country for different reasons.
Payman Langroudi: But your mom’s [00:02:25] a doctor, right?
Mike Gray: Yeah. She is. She is. And she said, don’t do medicine. It’s 2004. [00:02:30] I went to university, so, uh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Payman Langroudi: But you’ve got an amazing sort [00:02:35] of history insomuch as not only are you an expert at restorative dentistry, [00:02:40] some innovative stuff that I’ve seen you’re doing and teaching. Yeah. Um, around [00:02:45] minimally invasive stuff around full mouth stuff and surgical stuff. Yeah, yeah. Um, [00:02:50] photography. Yeah. But actually your journeys come through mountain [00:02:55] Biking at the highest level. Travelling the world. Doing that. [00:03:00] Yeah. Yeah. And a music career.
Mike Gray: Yeah. I mean.
Payman Langroudi: How did this.
Mike Gray: Career. [00:03:05] I shouldn’t say failed because I did I did all right. Yeah. Um. Yeah. And I [00:03:10] think I would say that’s a big strength in that just [00:03:15] from coming from those worlds. It means I approach things quite [00:03:20] different now. Um, so yeah, mountain biking, I did that. I’ve [00:03:25] always been two wheels, anything, two wheels, um, from about the age of ten. And, uh, I used to race [00:03:30] a race pretty much professionally. I raced over the World Series over three [00:03:35] different disciplines like downhill, which is getting from the top of the mountain to the bottom as fast as you can, and then full cross [00:03:40] where it’s for people like head to head. And then a little bit later, I, um, did World Enduro, [00:03:45] which is more endurance based, but you kind of pedal up the hill and then race down over a couple of days. So a [00:03:50] couple of days. Yeah. So it’s so it’s, um. It didn’t mix [00:03:55] too well with dentistry. Lots of injuries, uh, point to anywhere on my body. There’s nuts [00:04:00] and bolts and various things holding it together. I never got the, um, the sort of the, [00:04:05] the, you know, like the insurance insure your hands sort of thing because my premium was always too high [00:04:10] when you have to list your injuries prior. So, uh, waste of time on that one. [00:04:15] But, uh, yeah, it came from that realm, which [00:04:20] is, it’s something I learned early on is you [00:04:25] got to work hard wherever you want to do to, to, to get to the top to.
Payman Langroudi: To get anywhere.
Mike Gray: Well, I [00:04:30] think what to do well is a different one because you’ve only got to work a little bit harder than average because [00:04:35] you just got to work, you know, a little bit more than the average person, you’ll do well. But if you want to get to the top, like. [00:04:40]
Payman Langroudi: Obsession.
Mike Gray: Yeah, it’s that side of it. And so, but it’s [00:04:45] also an element of, okay, well, what am I going to do different to everyone else [00:04:50] that’s going to because everyone’s working hard, everyone’s putting in the hours, everyone’s putting in the training. So when [00:04:55] it’s racing, for example, you’re looking at your bike. What can I tinker with this? What can I change? Can I change my tires or pressures [00:05:00] or this or that or that side? And you’re always looking for that edge. And then, um, [00:05:05] and similarly music came after that. Um, and with [00:05:10] that, there’s, there’s 1,000,001 people doing it and you don’t have to do it better than everyone [00:05:15] else, but you’ve just got to do something a little bit different. And it could be that you do it slightly better or [00:05:20] you don’t have to, you know, sort of reinvent the wheel, you know, as Elvis or someone [00:05:25] like that. And so it’s just that sort of mindset [00:05:30] I put to the dentistry whenever I’m doing it, it’s like, okay, well, what, [00:05:35] how can I do this a little bit different? Everyone’s doing it this way. I’m told to do it that way. What can [00:05:40] I change? And my brain’s constantly going with lots of, for example, I, [00:05:45] I hate placing retraction cord And [00:05:50] I haven’t found a better way of doing it. Uh, and for anyone [00:05:55] says sort of retraction pace. No, it can be an adjunct, but you’re not replacing sort [00:06:00] of double cord and things like that, but just packing it and placing it is awful, I hate it, it’s a bit of my day. [00:06:05] I do not like. I haven’t come up with a better way to do it yet. So every time I sit there and resent it, but it’s constantly in [00:06:10] my head, it’s like, how can I change this? How can I do that? How can I make this a better experience, slicker, [00:06:15] more efficient, whatever. Yeah. And so I do that a lot with everything.
Payman Langroudi: What’s the answer to that? [00:06:20]
Mike Gray: Oh, the retraction cord. I don’t know yet. If you can tell me what’s an instrument?
Payman Langroudi: There’s an instrument. I stopped practising [00:06:25] 12 years ago, so maybe things have moved on. But there was an instrument that was like a half moon.
Mike Gray: Yeah. [00:06:30]
Payman Langroudi: Do you know the one I’m talking about? There’s lots of.
Mike Gray: Variations. Yeah. You get little cord packers with little teeth and [00:06:35] things like that. And it’s like, I don’t think I’m too cackhanded when I, you know, compare [00:06:40] my work to others. But when it comes to retraction cord fingers and thumbs and, and I think that’s [00:06:45] just the way it rolls. And, and so.
Payman Langroudi: I’m quite interested, I’m quite interested in, you know, [00:06:50] the things, little tips and tricks that every dentist, every dentist [00:06:55] has. Now, you as a sort of innovator, as a teacher, you’ve got more tips [00:07:00] and tricks than, than the next man generally. But you know, if [00:07:05] someone does come up with an answer.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Where do they go now? We’ve never [00:07:10] been at a better time.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Now than than than before. I mean, I remember [00:07:15] 25 years ago, you know, it’s about who you bumped into by mistake was the [00:07:20] key thing.
Mike Gray: It’s there’s so much opportunity and in a way that can be difficult because [00:07:25] there’s just so much it’s, you know, similar to that whole music side of things before you [00:07:30] had to go out gig and this. Whereas now everything’s just online and, and sort of doing it that way. And yeah, [00:07:35] it’s things are so accessible because so I love that I love, um, that sort of [00:07:40] innovation side. And I suppose a snippet into my psyche is, is I’ve taught [00:07:45] myself CAD. Um, and that world of CAD combined with 3D printing, which [00:07:50] you do as well. Whatever you dream up, you can draw up and print within the same day. It’s incredible. [00:07:55] So, um, what’s.
Payman Langroudi: Your approach when you are about to dive into something? [00:08:00] Is your approach? Who should I call first? Or is your [00:08:05] approach what book I should read? What, what resource? What do you do? Do you Google it? What do you do? [00:08:10]
Mike Gray: My approach should be who do I, you know, who do I call in that I’m not very good. [00:08:15] I’m very much sort of run solo. And I’m not saying that’s the best way. That’s my personality type. [00:08:20]
Payman Langroudi: The best way is to call some people I know, but I’m the same as you. My my first instinct [00:08:25] isn’t.
Mike Gray: I’m getting better at that. I am getting better at that. Um, so it’s, [00:08:30] it’s usually it would be if I have an idea, um, I’ll just get obsessive [00:08:35] and I’ll sit there and I’ll literally.
Payman Langroudi: What do you do? So you said, you said on another part, I [00:08:40] heard you say, uh, photography. Most people would go on a course. Yeah. I had [00:08:45] to learn it all inside out. So what do you do?
Mike Gray: Yeah, I’m changing that a little bit because [00:08:50] courses are great and I think I’m it’s weird. I’m almost starting my [00:08:55] career later because I didn’t put any effort into dentistry. I hated [00:09:00] it, like I said. So I graduated in 2009, did about four years of hospital jobs, [00:09:05] um, got my place in med school for max FACs. Um, uh, [00:09:10] and that was, you know, which we touched on earlier where [00:09:15] my, you know, my best friend took his life and he was one of those where I was like, oh, I’m [00:09:20] going to step back here. And I went back to racing bikes for a couple of years. Not necessarily [00:09:25] the right answer. Again, that whole obsessive side of things and burying yourself, you think [00:09:30] you’re being good, but actually you’re not giving yourself time to process anything.
Payman Langroudi: What was [00:09:35] the emotion that that he took his own life in dentistry. And so you were angry at dentistry [00:09:40] or something?
Mike Gray: Um, no, I think a lot of it was.
Payman Langroudi: Shook you out of what.
Mike Gray: You think. It’s [00:09:45] the guilt. I hadn’t seen him as much as I should have or. And it’s not, you know, I know the reality [00:09:50] is, is I was there for him as a mate and I was a buddy. And, you know, it was a good friend and that side of it. But Max [00:09:55] factor is all consuming. You know, he’s working 110 hour weeks. It was, you know, all [00:10:00] in and not being able to have that quality time. I was just kind of like, [00:10:05] ah, this, this is this sucks. This is rubbish. This is this is not life. And so I’m [00:10:10] just gonna, I’m gonna step back. I’m not doing this. And then and a lot of it was I was trying to cope but [00:10:15] wasn’t coping. I think it’s the honest answer. Um, and you know, nothing’s better than [00:10:20] world level sport. Just burying your emotions. Just train every day, [00:10:25] all day. Go and race here, there, everywhere. And you don’t actually have to sit with anything. [00:10:30]
Payman Langroudi: So you stop completely, completely.
Mike Gray: No, I was never fast enough to earn enough money. So [00:10:35] that was good for my dentistry because it kept my hand in so that I’ve got experience. [00:10:40] So even though I didn’t really learn anything. I was gaining experience over those years, so [00:10:45] I used to work part time, sort of living on a shoestring and like so with the racing, I’ll get bike sponsors, [00:10:50] you know, flights and hotels and stuff paid for that sort of thing, but nothing serious to, [00:10:55] to, to live properly.
Payman Langroudi: So tell me about that life. It’s a load [00:11:00] of training, I guess.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: And then, and then. But you’re travelling all over the world.
Mike Gray: Yeah. [00:11:05] Yeah. So those two years that I raced the World Series went everywhere from Chile to Spain [00:11:10] to Colorado to, you know, Italy just, just all over. And it’s, [00:11:15] it’s, it’s awesome in that a lot of the people you race with, certainly [00:11:20] the racing I was doing was against the clock. So when you’re against each other, but when you’re racing against [00:11:25] the clock, you don’t have any of that animosity, that sort of right. So your body’s so you’re in these [00:11:30] incredible places.
Payman Langroudi: With incredible.
Mike Gray: People. Yeah. And, and often it’s not touristy. [00:11:35] So you’re off the beaten track. And so you get to experience parts of the world that you just, you would just [00:11:40] never see, which I love to go back and do that. But at the time I was doing that, I [00:11:45] wasn’t present. There was nothing there. You were completely focussed on the event. And I get emotional thinking back [00:11:50] of all the crazy places and beautiful things I’ve seen, and I wasn’t actually soaking it in. Um. [00:11:55]
Payman Langroudi: But, and I guess there’s a, there’s a sort of reflection [00:12:00] of that on every aspect of your life, right? Yeah. It’s not only when you’re in Chile not paying [00:12:05] attention to Chile. Yeah, yeah. It’s when you’re at home not paying attention to your best friend or not your mum [00:12:10] or whatever it is.
Mike Gray: Yeah, yeah. And I’m a lot better now. Um, it’s, you know, [00:12:15] anyone that hasn’t seen a good therapist, like whether you feel you need it or not, definitely recommend. [00:12:20] Uh, it turns out I needed it. It’s funny actually, because I [00:12:25] would say I’m a high achiever. I’m used to, you know, just picking stuff up, sorting things out, flying through, [00:12:30] done early, whatever. And, uh, I was with my therapist for about two and a half years and, and he was like, [00:12:35] I think you’re ready to sort of fly the nest. And I’m like, yeah, yeah. You know, So there I was like, oh, how long do most [00:12:40] how long do you spend with most people? He’s like, oh, about six months. I was like, oh, so not high [00:12:45] achieving. They’re not high achieving there. But one of the best things I ever did just to bring [00:12:50] you in touch with yourself.
Payman Langroudi: And while we’re on that subject.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: What [00:12:55] was the thing that made you switch from I don’t need a therapist to, okay, let’s try this. [00:13:00]
Mike Gray: It was never I didn’t need it was, uh, a friend of mine [00:13:05] had gone. And so then, you know, it made me think, well, I couldn’t [00:13:10] give myself a good reason not to. And that was why I went, um, I genuinely I didn’t [00:13:15] think I really needed it, you know, at that side of it. But when I presented myself with argument of, [00:13:20] you know, give me a reason why you shouldn’t go, you can’t give [00:13:25] yourself a good reason.
Payman Langroudi: And so it tends to be that I don’t need to. Yeah. Like, for [00:13:30] instance, by the way, I’ve given the advice a hundred times. Go get a therapist. Yeah. But but [00:13:35] personally, I feel like I don’t need to. Yeah, it’s an interesting switch between. I don’t [00:13:40] need to to. Let me try this. Yeah. And what? Really? Now it’s playing on my mind so [00:13:45] much. Yeah. I’ve got a couple of members of staff who their thing is like, why would if you could afford it, why [00:13:50] wouldn’t you? Yeah. Like it’s a want, not a need kind of thing, you know? And that’s really getting [00:13:55] to me now. Yeah. Because I said.
Mike Gray: Well, you know, Payman you give yourself a good reason why you shouldn’t.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Well, I’ve [00:14:00] got so many good reasons I shouldn’t have you just.
Mike Gray: Like I’m not smart enough.
Payman Langroudi: I’m going back [00:14:05] to the back to the writing.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Who were the other people? Were [00:14:10] they like, uh, people from all over the world? Yeah. Yeah. Competitors.
Mike Gray: World champions, like, you know, everyone. So [00:14:15] I used to, uh, over the various different disciplines. I’d sort of sniff [00:14:20] around between 50th to 70th in the world, something like that. Um, which [00:14:25] was, like I said, it’s a hell of a cool level to reach, but unless you’re [00:14:30] sort of top 30, top 20, you’re not making any money. So you’re just doing it for.
Payman Langroudi: You might have been [00:14:35] number one in the UK. Yeah.
Mike Gray: Well. Number champion. Well yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. [00:14:40] But number 40 in the world and 40 in the world doesn’t cut it as a career.
Mike Gray: No no no not in not [00:14:45] in the mountain biking. I think road cycling would be a bit different. So, uh, it’s [00:14:50] uh. Yeah, I went down the wrong discipline.
Payman Langroudi: And typically what would happen, you’d arrive in Chile?
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: What [00:14:55] is the next day, the competition or would you have to acclimatise or so.
Mike Gray: So for example, Chile, [00:15:00] I think there was something like, yeah, 14 hour flight. You pack everything up in your bag. And again, [00:15:05] if you’re you’re further up the roster, you’ve got big team around you. So they’re sorting all the [00:15:10] bikes and mechanics.
Payman Langroudi: Whereas you are you going by yourself?
Mike Gray: Oh yeah. Kicking around by me. It’s like I’m a [00:15:15] mechanic and that sort of thing. Got to get myself there, organise everything, feed myself. No masseurs, none of that. [00:15:20] So um, so yeah, I just packed my bike up in a bike bag. Carry what? Spares [00:15:25] I could, um, and just set out on the aeroplane and I think it’s like it [00:15:30] was a long way to Chile. It was two flights and the first one was like 14 hours. And [00:15:35] then when I got there, I just hired a car, put the seats down, throw everything in [00:15:40] the back. I got stopped by the police within like five minutes for doing something wrong or going the wrong [00:15:45] way. And then yeah, make way. I had like a two, [00:15:50] four hour drive. I can’t even remember. Um, South of Santiago, up to [00:15:55] the mountains. And you rock up, find your hotel, acclimatise yourself a bit, [00:16:00] and then you’re into sort of practice then, um, so you would [00:16:05] get a couple of days to you get to, for example, the world enduro, I think Chile, they might have [00:16:10] been like five race tracks. So but you have to pedal [00:16:15] up on your own steam. So you’re pedalling up five mountains. So it’s, it’s, and that’s just the [00:16:20] training. So you’d have enough time to practice each track once, but [00:16:25] they’re so long, you don’t really know where you’re going. So you just hitting stuff. Uh, the expression [00:16:30] is blind. You don’t really know what’s around the corner, which is hard when you’re trying to race fast. It’s [00:16:35] crazy.
Payman Langroudi: Because you just imagine mountain.
Payman Langroudi: Biking is an adrenaline sport. Yeah, but it’s not adrenaline [00:16:40] for the first. Climbing up for a few days. Well, yeah.
Mike Gray: No, see, obviously when [00:16:45] you come down. So you pedal up and you wouldn’t get time pedalling up. You just had a time frame, so you had to get to the top with [00:16:50] it. So you couldn’t take it easy. So you had to pedal like you had to be fit to pedal up. And then, uh, you would [00:16:55] race down and that’s where you’re timed. And so you’re going as fast as you could. And the downs would be anywhere from about 5 minutes to [00:17:00] 25 minutes. And at the end of it, they add up all the times and he’s done everything quickest sort of wins there. So you’d have [00:17:05] a couple of days practice, but you’d be burning 8000 calories a day. So it was it [00:17:10] was tough just on the training.
Payman Langroudi: Side itself as an adrenaline junkie.
Mike Gray: Yeah, definitely. [00:17:15] Um, and I still sort of, and I listen to that voice [00:17:20] in my head a lot more now. That’s maturity. It’s like 1340 this year. And [00:17:25] so that voice that says that’s not a good idea. I pay attention to it, whereas [00:17:30] I didn’t before and obviously got myself in trouble with lots of injuries and doing stupid things, but [00:17:35] I do. I do still enjoy that side. For example, um, [00:17:40] week after next, I’m taking my motorbike to Germany to do the coldest motorbike rally [00:17:45] in the world. And why do I want to go and ride my motorbike and sleep in a tent in -12? [00:17:50] I don’t know, but well, I’ll tell you why. You know, I love motorbikes. [00:17:55] I love the experience. The group of friends I’m going with are great. They’re a load of old race buddies and [00:18:00] they’re the type that would make cyclists. Yeah, you know, some of them are. And [00:18:05] then and then, uh, uh, they’re the type of friends [00:18:10] that make a trip to the supermarket fun. Um, so normally every year we do [00:18:15] something called the Dragon rally, which is a motorbike rally up to North Wales. [00:18:20] And it’s supposed to be grim.
Mike Gray: So it’s usually first weekend of February and you go and camp [00:18:25] in a field in uh, in Snowdonia. And so this year we’ve moved it on to [00:18:30] this elephant rally, which is which is in Germany. But you’ve got to be sensible though, because again, [00:18:35] being younger and more stupid, first time I did the Dragon rally, you can only take whatever [00:18:40] you can fit on your bike. So it’s not much. And so had a little one man tent and I’m about sort of six [00:18:45] three. And this, this tent was tiny as like a sort of a saggy coffin. And, [00:18:50] uh, I remember getting a bit more drunk than I should have and ripped my tent getting [00:18:55] in, got one leg in my sleeping bag and passed out. And then I woke up [00:19:00] covered in snow. It was snowing, it was buried. I was borderline hypothermia. [00:19:05] And, uh, I managed to sort of climb in my sleeping bag and survived the night. But [00:19:10] after that I was like, yeah, it’s actually, you need to be a little bit sensible on this sort [00:19:15] of thing there. So, uh, I won’t be getting so inebriated in, in the Bavarian forest. [00:19:20]
Payman Langroudi: So was the thing that made you stop that you felt like you couldn’t pay for your life this way?
Mike Gray: Uh, [00:19:25] no. That was the music. Music. I got pissed off with that side. Um, so [00:19:30] I used to race all through from the age of ten competing, [00:19:35] you know, bikes, motorbikes, mainly mountain biking and, and all the way through uni up until final [00:19:40] year. Um, and then I knuckled down in final year, which, which because I never. [00:19:45]
Payman Langroudi: That’s when the oral surgery kicked in.
Mike Gray: Well I, I never, I never knew how to [00:19:50] study. Um, in school, my parents never made me do my homework. Um, [00:19:55] and luckily I was smart so I could get away with it. I had about like 80% attendance for my A-levels, [00:20:00] which works out missing a day a week. And it was and uh, achievement. [00:20:05] Well, stupid. No, I wouldn’t encourage it, but, you know, I’d be. I want [00:20:10] to go race my bike or I’m tired from racing or I wasn’t skiving off just kicking, you know, kicking around the [00:20:15] bus stop. But, um, and then when I got to uni, it’s the first time I was like, oh shit, I [00:20:20] actually have to work to pass these exams.
Payman Langroudi: You southern Bristol.
Mike Gray: Yeah. So that was in Bristol. But [00:20:25] then, you know, the fatal error as far as my [00:20:30] motivation, there was, you know, being told that, oh, dentistry is just a pass or [00:20:35] a fail. So I was like, okay, what’s the minimum amount of work I need to do to get by that?
Payman Langroudi: I made [00:20:40] that mistake.
Mike Gray: Oh, dude. So it was a bit stressful though. So I sailed too close to the wind [00:20:45] for a couple of years. I was, I was just scraping.
Payman Langroudi: Through out like that. But, but it’s, it’s a mistake [00:20:50] inasmuch as you put it in your own head that that’s all the only two outcomes are pass and fail. [00:20:55] Yeah. Which by the way, I failed. Yeah, but but but the outcomes are so different. I see some students [00:21:00] now. I don’t know if you come across students now. Yeah. My goodness man. You know like going on [00:21:05] hands on courses. Yeah. There were a few students. There’s 2 or 3 students I can think of who [00:21:10] are more connected in the dental world than me. Yeah. Been in it for 25 years. Some [00:21:15] dude sitting in the third year of dental school connected. Yeah. You know, it’s. [00:21:20] I guess it’s the internet again, right? It’s allowing that sort of thing to happen. [00:21:25]
Mike Gray: Yeah. It makes us. That’s just.
Payman Langroudi: Been. But you know that kid when he comes out, you know he’s going to be [00:21:30] much more ready to go than I was. Yeah.
Mike Gray: I had no idea I was I was massively naive [00:21:35] to the world and, uh. Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: So how much oral surgery did you do [00:21:40] before you started thinking maxfax.
Mike Gray: Uh, so I did a GP t, which [00:21:45] was two years. So did my first year dentistry and I was in a sleepy town in Swanage [00:21:50] on the south coast. So did a lot of dentures. And I’m like, oof, dentistry is not for me. And then [00:21:55] I was attached then to Poole Hospital, which was known as the Republic of Poole. Um, [00:22:00] most incredible job I ever had. Um, and, uh, [00:22:05] that’s where I did the oral surgery side. And then I did a four year maxfax [00:22:10] after that. And then I stayed in the hospitals then for sort of 3 to 4 years. And I [00:22:15] went to, um, I did a restorative job in Cardiff, but then I used to locum, um, [00:22:20] uh, night smacks facts, which again is stupid. Working 24 hours.
Payman Langroudi: I [00:22:25] did that.
Mike Gray: Job. Yeah, yeah. In the heat. In the heat.
Payman Langroudi: I did cry Cardiff Infirmary [00:22:30] was the. Yeah. The nightmare of. But, you know, some people thrive like it sounds like you thrived. [00:22:35] Yeah, yeah. Adrenaline junkie guy. Yeah, I hated it. Hated it, hated you. I [00:22:40] loved I still think it was good for me. Yeah, yeah. It was definitely good for me because nothing in life [00:22:45] has come close to.
Mike Gray: Oh, no. I think it should.
Payman Langroudi: Be compulsory that the.
Mike Gray: Student should do a year’s max [00:22:50] fax.
Payman Langroudi: Maybe. Maybe.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Or nothing in life has come anywhere near as challenging as [00:22:55] being this just qualified dentist looking after people who had like pint glasses smashed [00:23:00] in their face, or some poor person who’s got terminal cancer and they’re doing [00:23:05] a gigantic operation on them. And you’re the doctor, the junior.
Mike Gray: It’s crazy. My [00:23:10] first patient on my first day was, well, they did three days later. Yeah. [00:23:15] And it was like Ludwig’s angina in a patient with severe dementia. [00:23:20] And what is it? What am I supposed to do? It was a yeah.
Payman Langroudi: I remember [00:23:25] the nurse on the ward telling me, yeah, now you’ve got to, you know, pull the catheter out. I was like, [00:23:30] what? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Mike Gray: I didn’t sign up for this. The trick with that is don’t make eye [00:23:35] contact. It’s just you just go about it like business. Um, so [00:23:40] yeah, so I did that.
Payman Langroudi: But how did you, how good did you get at what? Eventually by the end of this, could [00:23:45] you, I don’t know, obviously take out wisdom teeth. Could you do things like, [00:23:50] uh, you know, Lefort operations.
Mike Gray: Uh, no, I couldn’t do, I did, I did a lot of mandibles, [00:23:55] did a lot of tracheostomies, um, zygomas that side. Um, [00:24:00] so, and most of that stemmed from my first couple of years down in pool, [00:24:05] because if anybody wants good math facts experience, go to a small, busy hospital [00:24:10] and you’ll get all the hands on it, preferably somewhere where there’s no plastics. So they don’t take any of that. [00:24:15] And so I put the time in though, to impress. Like, you know, the more you put in, the more [00:24:20] you get out and that sort of role. So like I said, I was there 12 hours a day minimum. Um, but because I [00:24:25] was put in that time in the consultants were, you know, well, crack on because I remember there was [00:24:30] a consultant, Sajjad Walji and, uh, we do a surgical tracheostomy [00:24:35] and, uh, he said, you watch one, you do one. And I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Next [00:24:40] one came along. I was like, okay. And I was like, are you kidding? So I [00:24:45] had to do the surgical tracheostomy. I’m two years out of dental school. Um, and it’s [00:24:50] terrifying. You cut a little window in the trachea and they’re like, okay, you’ve got two minutes to get that tube in. Otherwise they’re dead. And [00:24:55] you’re just like, but this is incredible passage.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Crazy.
Mike Gray: So [00:25:00] because I got a lot of hands on, the more you do, the more people will depend on [00:25:05] you and appreciate you sort of doing those bits. And so yeah, a lot of that surgical, [00:25:10] I did a lot of skins down in Poole as well, which was great for.
Payman Langroudi: Basal cell carcinoma.
Mike Gray: Yeah. Bccssx, [00:25:15] that sort of thing. And rotational flaps. Pedicle flaps.
Payman Langroudi: So you’re now [00:25:20] very comfortable with surgical in every sense. Did you put implants in now?
Mike Gray: Uh, I [00:25:25] do implants now. Yeah, yeah, I was late to that one though. Um, I, like I said, I wasn’t, I [00:25:30] wasn’t trying to move my career along then I was trying to do everything but be a dentist because like I said, got to [00:25:35] had my place in med school, three year Manchester. Um, and [00:25:40] yeah, my buddy passed away. I’m like, oh, screw this, like this, you know? And the other [00:25:45] thing is I could see the NHS going down the pan, which is sad. It’s really makes me really sad. Such a beautiful [00:25:50] system. Yeah. Care free at the point of delivery. But if it’s not working, [00:25:55] what does it matter if it doesn’t what it costs, you know? Um, and [00:26:00] so took that time out. I was like, I’m gonna race bikes again. So race bikes. [00:26:05] Um, yeah, like I made it as a semi career, [00:26:10] but I was, you’re never going to set yourself up on that. So then interestingly, in the max [00:26:15] facts, it probably was a coping mechanism. I started picking up guitar and just writing songs. [00:26:20]
Payman Langroudi: Before you move on to the music, what was the hairiest thing that happened [00:26:25] in that Max factor or some of the hairy things that happened to you? [00:26:30]
Mike Gray: We used to in Birmingham, it’s level two trauma centre. So at [00:26:35] time, you know, when I was there, you were getting everything from like Afghanistan and that. So people were stepping on, [00:26:40] you know, explosives in that side. And because often somebody steps on an [00:26:45] IED, obviously arms and legs get blown off, but everything comes and [00:26:50] hits the chin and jaw and all that side. And it’s the one I [00:26:55] used to find it difficult. Whenever you actually connected with reality, it was very easy in [00:27:00] Max factor to separate yourself of that a patient, um, or you know, it’s just parts [00:27:05] you’re, you see them unconscious. You don’t even build a relationship in the hospital. You just come in and [00:27:10] we’re going to operate. You don’t even talk to them, somebody else is whatever. And you just in theatre put them together, usually [00:27:15] unconscious when you’re finished. But the odd time when you do see him on the ward [00:27:20] afterwards and you realise, because the one that hit home for me was a young girl, 17 or [00:27:25] 18 in a in a RTA, and it didn’t even think, you know, you laughing, [00:27:30] joking around in theatres, sorting stuff, and then came by to you afterwards on the ward rounds and then a [00:27:35] Mother’s Day sort of like, oh, you don’t deserve this. And that’s give me goosebumps now thinking of it. And like, actually [00:27:40] there’s some really nasty stuff that you sort of see and humanity is can [00:27:45] be disgusting, which you see in max facts as well, because anyone fighting and doing horrible things [00:27:50] to one another usually involves injuries of the face and that side. So it’s a pretty [00:27:55] dark topic in that side, but incredible then as well what you can do and sort [00:28:00] that out. Um, but oh yeah. Hairy things. Yeah. I mean [00:28:05] saw everything from that. I did some really stupid things as well. I think you chat about mistakes afterwards.
Payman Langroudi: So Should [00:28:10] we go there now?
Mike Gray: I mean, it’s so dentally related. You [00:28:15] get called from A&E, docs come down. Somebody lost their [00:28:20] teeth. Um, and typically dentists, we look down on those as doctors [00:28:25] whenever it comes to the mouth. Yeah. I think that’s our one saving. Yeah. We got this. Yeah. You [00:28:30] know nothing you know. Yeah. And, uh, so I had a phone and it’s like, oh, you know, I’ve had a go at putting the [00:28:35] teeth back in, but can you just come and come and check? And I’m like, oh, what’s he gone and done, you know? So [00:28:40] I got down there and this gentleman sat there and, uh, he must have had a bit of perio because [00:28:45] you’d teeth like a burnt down fence, bless him. And, and I looked at it and I’m like, oh, what [00:28:50] have you done here? So I got his two front teeth and silly buggers gone and put them in the wrong way round. [00:28:55] So I swapped him round, put him back in the socket, stepped back and said to his wife, [00:29:00] I was like, you know, how’s that looking? We’re both sort of cocking her head and she’s like. And [00:29:05] then I’m like, oh no. So I leant back over him so that he [00:29:10] couldn’t see, and quickly swapped the teeth back around to how the doctor [00:29:15] had done it. And then I stepped back and I was like, how about that? And she’s like, yeah, yeah, that’s him. And I [00:29:20] learned a valuable lesson that day. You know, as far as ego and that side, the only doctor was [00:29:25] spot on and everything, right? And me as a professional came down, took the teeth back out, put them in the [00:29:30] wrong way round and yeah, got it all wrong. I like that. So, uh, learned a valuable [00:29:35] lesson that day.
Mike Gray: Another one was a poor kid. Um, he was a cleft patient, [00:29:40] um, of the, of the hospital and, uh, he’d come into A&E, fallen off his bike [00:29:45] or something, landed on his chin and he was sitting there and I’m like, this guy’s just been being a wimp. Like, it’s like he’s [00:29:50] blessing him. He’s had all his surgery with cleft and a lot of, you know, people who have been through in the mill [00:29:55] hospital environments are difficult. And so I’m like, uh, you know, and he [00:30:00] sat there and he’s making a fuss and he’s, uh, not really closing his jaw or anything like that. Took [00:30:05] an opt. Everything’s fine. No fractures, nothing. And [00:30:10] so I’m trying to send this kid home. I’m like, look, you need to toughen up. You just bruised your TMJ, that [00:30:15] side of it. And, uh, luckily there was a switched on A&E consultant who said, kids [00:30:20] in too much pain. It’s not just a bruise. And I’m like, yeah, it is. What do you know? You know, I’m the I’m the facial expert [00:30:25] here. And, uh, but so he overruled me and admitted him. And luckily my [00:30:30] reg came round. Um, this kid had managed to fracture his condyles [00:30:35] up through his mastoid bone into his brain. His condyles were sitting in [00:30:40] his brain. Wow. And that’s why he couldn’t close his jaw because they were stuck in there, but in a freakish [00:30:45] way. He’d done it without fracturing the condyles because you’d much more likely to fracture the condyles. [00:30:50] And I just felt awful. I’m busy there. I’m like, telling this kid to sort [00:30:55] of man up. Um, dude, you said a little. Meanwhile, his jaws sat in his brain [00:31:00] and, uh, so again, learnt a hell of a lesson then, you know, just.
Payman Langroudi: What was the incident [00:31:05] that caused that?
Mike Gray: Landed on his chin and fell off like fell over, fell off his bike, landed on his chin and [00:31:10] must have just got everything just right and happened.
Payman Langroudi: To be a cleft patient. Yeah.
Mike Gray: And [00:31:15] that’s and so it’s me just jumping to conclusions thinking I know more than I do.
Payman Langroudi: And so what [00:31:20] happened there?
Mike Gray: They planned a joint case with Maxfax neuro because they’re like, oh, we got to do [00:31:25] it. And the the anaesthetist anaesthetised him, intubated him, popped it out. And they’re like, oh, [00:31:30] job done. So left it there. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, um, oh [00:31:35] my.
Payman Langroudi: Goodness. That’s the juiciest one we’ve had on the podcast ever.
Mike Gray: I know, but.
Payman Langroudi: They’re going. [00:31:40]
Mike Gray: About like lethal bliss. And I, like I said, I feel awful even thinking about it now. Oh, another [00:31:45] one. Let’s just do Maxfax. And you have all these stories. Cardiff. Cardiff. [00:31:50] I can give you one. Yeah. Go on. Um, again, so I worked restorative [00:31:55] during the day, which to be honest, you need to work two jobs if you’re doing restorative. Chill [00:32:00] chill af you stroll up at nine, you see about one patient. [00:32:05] Then you maybe have one patient in the afternoon and then you’re done early. And [00:32:10] so I used yeah, locum. Then Max faxed through the night and maybe [00:32:15] not a good idea being tired. Um, but I had a gentleman come in and he had like a sebaceous cyst [00:32:20] right in the middle of his forehead that got infected. Big throbbing, full of pus, red, angry [00:32:25] and being tired. I went to give him like a supraorbital block, but [00:32:30] must have gone way too low and actually went into his eye socket a bit, not hitting eyeballs or anything, [00:32:35] but I caused something to bleed so I just swelled up shut. So I’m like, oh great.
Mike Gray: So I’m having to do IOPs [00:32:40] and monitor that. So I’m already like, Mike, what have you done? And then, uh, [00:32:45] so eventually then after panicking about swelling, getting his eye swelling [00:32:50] up shut, then I’m on to incise and drain, uh, this sort of infected cyst [00:32:55] on his forehead. And I didn’t make a big enough incision. So I’m panicking about [00:33:00] this. I didn’t make a business. So I make an incision and I’m trying to get the pus out, and it was just too much pressure. [00:33:05] And then suddenly you know where this is going. Oh, in my face, pus exploded [00:33:10] in my face. And you’re trying to be professional. And this guy sat there. I’ve already balled up and he’s thinking, [00:33:15] who the hell is this cowboy that I’ve got this. You know, I don’t look old now. I looked even younger then, and, [00:33:20] uh. And I’m there just trying not to retch. Trying not to scream. Try not to run out [00:33:25] this professional where I sort of go around his back and then just, like, are trying to get. [00:33:30]
Payman Langroudi: Clean myself up.
Mike Gray: Oh, goodness. So yeah, I’d say that’s a that’s a terrible one [00:33:35] as well. So I’ll stop with that hat trick before.
Payman Langroudi: No they’re good. I enjoyed [00:33:40] those.
Mike Gray: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Payman Langroudi: So then music.
Mike Gray: Music. Yeah. So [00:33:45] that yeah. I think a coping thing with the Max factor was I just pick up a guitar and [00:33:50] play. And I used to play a lot of slide blues and that side of things.
Payman Langroudi: You could already play guitar.
Mike Gray: Yeah, I started [00:33:55] learning when I was about 13. I’m nothing incredible, but I get by And [00:34:00] I just started playing and writing songs, you know, later in life, really [00:34:05] the most musicians because I was 25, 26 at that point. [00:34:10] Um, and that’s where it started. And [00:34:15] then I went and had these couple of years of letting my hair down racing. And over [00:34:20] those couple of years, the music, it got to a point where I’m like, maybe I’ve got something. [00:34:25] And again, it was like, well, unless you [00:34:30] try, you’ll never know unless you know to put your money where your mouth is sort [00:34:35] of thing. So I dug into my pocket, asked around my old. And a good [00:34:40] friend of mine was in a band before. So I’m like producer, you know, give me a good [00:34:45] producer, whatever. So he put me on to this guy, Gethyn Pearson. And um, yeah, [00:34:50] sent him a demo and a lot of, you know, a lot of producers, if they don’t like it, they won’t take it on, you know, and so [00:34:55] he liked what he heard and because he where he was going. And so yeah, I went to a cool [00:35:00] studio, um, just for two days.
Mike Gray: Two songs. Oh, music industry’s wild [00:35:05] for hours as well. You can see there’s so many drugs involved and like, so you’d start, you’d [00:35:10] start in the morning and you’d stop when it’s done. Um, so often you’d go to like 2 a.m. that sort [00:35:15] of thing, which I don’t like. I don’t think it’s the best way to be productive, but that’s kind of the culture. So [00:35:20] we went in the studio, I did two days, two songs, Stupid Hours, and [00:35:25] came out with these two songs. And uh, it blew my mind where you could take it because I was kind of like [00:35:30] a one man band setup when it was not everyone was doing it. I had my nans suitcase [00:35:35] that I’d turned into a drum, but I put little drum triggers in there so you could make it sound like whatever you wanted. And [00:35:40] I had a tambourine, but drum triggers and stuff on that, it’s a massive sound. Guitar went to three different amps, [00:35:45] three different sounds, just huge sounds. And, uh, so [00:35:50] yeah, I did, uh, did, um.
Payman Langroudi: But at the end of that sort of session [00:35:55] in a, in a The studio is the talent of the producer is a big deal, right?
Mike Gray: Oh, [00:36:00] massive. That makes it. You got to be able to write the song. You got to be able to do bits. But the producer has [00:36:05] a big part of it as well. I mean, they take a big cut like that, you get screwed [00:36:10] left, right and centre as an artist in the music world. And so for example, [00:36:15] um, a producer would take uh, four points, [00:36:20] so they call it four points, 4%. So that’s what that is. Yeah. So 4%. Um, [00:36:25] and you think, oh, 4%.
Payman Langroudi: That’s nothing of what of turnover.
Mike Gray: Well, so royalty [00:36:30] wise, then on average, let’s say even if you’re a successful artist, [00:36:35] um, but certainly new artists, you’ll get about sort of roughly 12% [00:36:40] royalties. Yeah, yeah. So the rest goes to labels, everything else [00:36:45] and that side and that that four points comes [00:36:50] out of your cut. So it’s more like 40% of what you.
Payman Langroudi: Goodness.
Mike Gray: You know, [00:36:55] what you’re taking in is so that four out of that 12 leaves you with, uh, you [00:37:00] know, eight there. So it’s yeah, sorry, I got an A in maths and maths [00:37:05] goes in dentistry. Simple addition subtraction.
Payman Langroudi: But of your brains.
Mike Gray: Yeah. No [00:37:10] binomial expansion no more, you know. Um so.
Payman Langroudi: So so then now you had a couple [00:37:15] of songs. How does that progress on to.
Mike Gray: So from that one, [00:37:20] these songs, um, it just music [00:37:25] industry, it’s, it’s all who, you know, um, and it’s, it’s such an incestuous [00:37:30] world as well. And just off the back of that, these songs started circulating amongst different people [00:37:35] and that, and before you know it, I got a manager. Um, and that was a really cool [00:37:40] experience because he, um, uh, he owned like a [00:37:45] promotions company. So just run loads of music nights and loads of music venues [00:37:50] across the UK. So I went straight from a nobody. So he picked me up as [00:37:55] a manager back in, recorded some more bits, and then he just put me on stage with bands like Fun [00:38:00] Criminals and Alabama three and touring with them just off the back of Nothing [00:38:05] to Play into thousands of people. Um, which was incredible. Baptism of fire, but [00:38:10] a hell of an experience. Um, and so did.
Payman Langroudi: It, like standing on [00:38:15] a stage with thousands of people. The bigger the stage, as you would imagine. Yeah. [00:38:20] It’s.
Mike Gray: It’s the bigger the stage, the easier it is.
Payman Langroudi: Because [00:38:25] you can’t make out faces.
Mike Gray: You can’t see anyone, you can’t see anything. You’ve got lights in your face, a huge audience [00:38:30] out there. So it’s they’re the hardest gigs I ever played. Were the empty [00:38:35] pubs when no one’s listening because you can. You can hear every conversation, [00:38:40] see everyone, see that absolutely nobody.
Payman Langroudi: Forming as a comedian or something [00:38:45] like that.
Mike Gray: Is the hardest because it’s very real right in front of you. Whereas [00:38:50] big stage, It’s almost very impersonal.
Payman Langroudi: But you know how in dentistry, like we qualify, [00:38:55] we, you know, start out doing a few procedures, mess it up. Yeah. Not that great [00:39:00] at communication. And then you learn the things, the important sort of cornerstones. What, [00:39:05] what’s the equivalent of that in, in that world? I mean, okay, you’re in a pub playing in front [00:39:10] of people who aren’t listening, but you get better at it. Did you did you feel like you were improving?
Mike Gray: I, [00:39:15] um, I, I’m still very envious of those people who [00:39:20] can go out and they’ve done that sort of pub circuit and they’ve put in way more hours [00:39:25] than me because I skipped, I skipped so much of it.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: Yeah. It’s [00:39:30] like they, they, I skipped so much of it because I, I got lucky with my manager [00:39:35] owning all these cool venues. And so rather than having to hustle with the little gigs, I [00:39:40] went straight into these, these big gigs. And so I didn’t, I didn’t earn it. I didn’t put my hours in [00:39:45] of people throwing shit and asking stupid requests and booing or whatever, Or not listening [00:39:50] or crashing into the sea.
Payman Langroudi: Pinch yourself a little bit in that moment, right?
Mike Gray: Yeah. [00:39:55] But again, now I look back far more appreciative of the time. [00:40:00] Just a million miles an hour, not taking it in as well as I could.
Payman Langroudi: Stopping and smelling the [00:40:05] roses.
Mike Gray: Yeah, absolutely. And just not not taking that time to be because I’d [00:40:10] rolled on from, you know, terrible things to, to racing bikes straight into music. [00:40:15] Suddenly that took off like as a whirlwind. Um.
Payman Langroudi: And how far did you [00:40:20] go with the music?
Mike Gray: So I had one sort of manager and starting getting people [00:40:25] in there and that sort of petered out. And um, so everything [00:40:30] that I had sort of was all taken down because music industry is very much about control [00:40:35] of who sees what. And that’s even within the industry. They love to play.
Payman Langroudi: They sort of FOMO [00:40:40] like, um, love to play.
Mike Gray: Games with one another.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: It’s like, oh, I’ve got this artist and like, they’ll drip [00:40:45] feed what they want to different people knowing how it’s going to spike their interest. Sort of thing. [00:40:50] Um, and so everything was taken down. And so again, starting from nothing. [00:40:55] I’m like, oh, this is rubbish. So um, same thing again a bit more cash. I’m [00:41:00] like, alright, cool. I’m going to record another couple of songs. And then I started releasing on my own and off [00:41:05] the back of releasing, uh, I only just put out two tracks of my [00:41:10] own. Um, because luckily I smart thing is, I own all the rights to it. Not so smart because [00:41:15] it’s just sat on a hard drive now doing nothing. So I own all of nothing at the minute. [00:41:20] Um, but I got, yeah, [00:41:25] I had a couple of people reach out basically to management people. There was one based in London, [00:41:30] so one was um, a guy, uh, I can’t remember his name now. [00:41:35] Um, but Jax Jones, I don’t know if he’s a sort of a sort of a sort [00:41:40] of a dance music type, um, sort of big deal is his manager.
Mike Gray: Um, and so he [00:41:45] sort of reached out And then I had another guy from LA and within a short space of time, like I had people coming [00:41:50] to my house sort of wanting to represent from a management side. Um, and [00:41:55] I ended up going with, uh, sort of London based and, [00:42:00] uh, so that happened that way. And so then I’ve [00:42:05] got a manager and they help build a team. So then you’ve got a promoter and that side and I [00:42:10] had some cool experiences. But again, this is the bit I found difficult with music in [00:42:15] that I love about dentistry now because I hated dentistry. Love it. Now, um, in [00:42:20] that again, music or anything as we’re talking about to do. Well, you got to work hard. Um, there’s [00:42:25] no substitute in music. You’ve got to work hard and have a bit of luck. And it went [00:42:30] the other way for me. So for example, I had a guy called Mike Smith come to my house [00:42:35] in Wales and he is at the time he was head of Universal Publishing. [00:42:40]
Payman Langroudi: So he came to a house in.
Mike Gray: Wales, in Wales.
Payman Langroudi: So he kind of wanted to blow your [00:42:45] socks off. So this was that.
Mike Gray: Whole sort of romanticising my managing you to sort of he, [00:42:50] he was a romantic at heart to tap into that. And at a time I was living in like a 500 year old [00:42:55] stone house in the depths of Wales. You come across a little bridge over a river and just that [00:43:00] whole story. And so, yeah, he came, he came over from London and, and he signed everyone from like, [00:43:05] Coldplay to George Ezra.
Payman Langroudi: He’d be like a major guy industry.
Mike Gray: He was [00:43:10] the head of Universal Publishing. It was as big as you get. Like in the UK. Massive came to my house [00:43:15] and I played a small set for him in my living room. So I had like this huge PA system, which I bought so I could [00:43:20] just gig myself. And I played this set for just him and my manager and he’s like, cool. [00:43:25] Yeah, you got something, you can do it this way, or you can get involved with us and we do it this and [00:43:30] that side. So I’m like, oh, sign me up. Cool. And sadly, his, his wife, [00:43:35] um, about a week later was diagnosed with cancer. Um, it was horrible story. And you know, [00:43:40] that that trumps my music. Um, but that was that door that opened. [00:43:45]
Payman Langroudi: He disappeared.
Mike Gray: He disappeared. And again, music’s very much you’re attached to the individual. [00:43:50] So it’s not like the company would be like, oh, yeah, come on, we take you on now. No. You’re done. Like [00:43:55] you get signed to a label via by an A&R and they get fired or change. [00:44:00] That’s you done. You’re done. So there was a lot of bad.
Payman Langroudi: Luck came out of your [00:44:05] career at that point.
Mike Gray: Uh, no, I mean, that was things kept moving. Covid, Covid absolutely [00:44:10] put the nail in the coffin for me with music. So it was building ahead, building a team around me. [00:44:15] I had Peppa, Peppa Pig, uh, funding me. Peppa [00:44:20] pig was bankrolling me. So, um, e1 um, uh, [00:44:25] they’re big earners. Peppa Pig, obviously they do lots of [00:44:30] films and that, um, and they were expanding into music. Uh, and I think their big band they had [00:44:35] was like Lumineers. And so I was basically signed up to them. Um, which [00:44:40] is cool because you go, you go to the HQ and they’ve got a little cinema downstairs, and there’s [00:44:45] just Peppa Pig all over the wall and that sort of thing. And, uh. So, uh, yeah, [00:44:50] Peppa Pig was bankrolling me, and, uh, I, yeah, [00:44:55] had a good year lined up for 2020. So I was playing, [00:45:00] uh, some big festivals like Boomtown Boardmasters. So I was going to be [00:45:05] same stage of Kings. Leon Boardmasters uh.
Payman Langroudi: Do they pay?
Mike Gray: Ah, [00:45:10] nothing like. So I’ll be first on when everyone’s sleeping. And I think my [00:45:15] pot for a summer of festivals was up to about 7 or 8 grand if I played them. Um, [00:45:20] you know, you’re not going to sniff at it, but it’s not, you’re not going to live on that.
Payman Langroudi: Do you at least [00:45:25] like have an amazing time because you’re backstage or whatever? Oh, I.
Mike Gray: Know loads of.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: Cool, cool stuff with that. [00:45:30] And, and, uh, but 2020, I had that lined up and then Covid came along. Uh, [00:45:35] and then that was music off.
Payman Langroudi: Okay. Just as we talked about the sort of the craziest oral [00:45:40] surgery stories. Yeah. What was the craziest music story you had?
Mike Gray: To be.
Payman Langroudi: Honest.
Mike Gray: It’s [00:45:45] the music is, you know, I’ve got a group of buddies now. I’m into my old [00:45:50] motorbikes. My my old Harleys are choppers and of course, the vaccine. And so I’ve got [00:45:55] a couple old Harleys. I’ve got like 1976, which is I’ve painted like leopard print and built up from [00:46:00] various bits and pieces. And then I’ve got another old Shovelhead 1979 and the [00:46:05] boys are hanging around with for that. No one comes close. I don’t [00:46:10] try and compete along to pieces, but it’s one of those like, you just step back and let him go. [00:46:15] Um, so I would say the music industry is tame compared to those boys.
Payman Langroudi: Really are just. [00:46:20]
Mike Gray: Next level. But it’s, you know, they’re all fantastic, you know, hearts [00:46:25] and that side, but a wild, a wild bunch. But um so music. [00:46:30] Yeah, I didn’t, I was, I wasn’t your typical sort of artist [00:46:35] in that I, I suppose at this point I’m trying. I’m realising that. [00:46:40] Come on, you got to start enjoying this and that. And so again, you know, [00:46:45] I was I was touring with Alabama three and I don’t know um they [00:46:50] famously made a mistake in music is like always take, always play [00:46:55] the long game, take royalties. Um, that side of it. Don’t, don’t go for the cash. Um, [00:47:00] and they um, were approached for the [00:47:05] soundtrack for the Sopranos. Right. And they were offered 80 grand [00:47:10] for the song or royalties and they took the 80 K um, if [00:47:15] they’d taken royalties.
Payman Langroudi: Millions o Sopranos wasn’t famous at that wasn’t famous.
Mike Gray: So in the, [00:47:20] you know, before it’s even a thing. Yeah. Um, and, and so I was, [00:47:25] I was touring with them and I, it felt quite sad because I [00:47:30] started the tour with them and they all came out sort of bright eyed, [00:47:35] bushy tailed. Um, and then, but then you [00:47:40] get the drugs and things like that. And the next day they’re [00:47:45] all like zombies and they’re zombies until 5 p.m. when the next [00:47:50] load of drugs arrives. And that’s getting snorted off the manager’s desk and hell of a show. And they put it on, [00:47:55] which I think in music, a lot of people become dependent on that. It’s like, I can’t perform unless I’m doing [00:48:00] this because otherwise I’m just boring. I haven’t got that side of it. And you know, by the end of the [00:48:05] tour, it’s the same clothes that I started in, and no one’s actually seen any of these [00:48:10] cities because they’ve been sleeping in the tour bus, uh, sleeping off, raving all night. Um, [00:48:15] and yeah, it wasn’t that, so I didn’t fit in in that because, you know, in [00:48:20] my dressing room, it’s like, oh, you know, would you want there just like some tea bags, please? You know, that’d [00:48:25] be me set, you know? And so, uh, yeah, so I was pretty boring in that respect.
Mike Gray: Um, [00:48:30] and so no sort of crazy or too two wild stories. I’ve played some wild gigs, [00:48:35] um, the wildest though being for I won’t name specifics, [00:48:40] but it’s basically the SAS. There was a bunch from about to be shipped out somewhere somewhere [00:48:45] awful. Couldn’t tell me because before I showed up they’re like, oh, can you play this? And I was like, yeah, yeah, sure, sure, [00:48:50] sure. And they’re like, okay, right. No, no photographs. I’m like, all right. Yeah, no, don’t tag anything on social media. [00:48:55] Like nothing. I’m like, all right. And then I got there. I had no idea who the audience was. [00:49:00] And like I said, it was just 80, like bloodthirsty, like trained [00:49:05] killers and ah, get some beer in them. Oh my goodness, it’s [00:49:10] wild. There was fighting going off. There was all sorts like trying to play things being thrown. It [00:49:15] was just absolute carnage because I think you’ve got to have something a little bit sort [00:49:20] of screw loose for SAS. Yeah. And that side.
Payman Langroudi: So and all along that bit [00:49:25] of your journey, you were still being a dentist here and there. Yeah. Paying your bills.
Mike Gray: Part time, you know, [00:49:30] two days a week, something like that. Uh.
Payman Langroudi: So one night. One night you’re playing in front of the SAS. [00:49:35] Next minute you’re doing a scale and polish. Yeah yeah.
Mike Gray: Yeah [00:49:40] yeah. Nhs.
Payman Langroudi: Oh my God.
Mike Gray: Save my time. Which was good. You know it got the numbers in. You [00:49:45] know I wouldn’t take it back. I think it’s a different story now. Like before people had approached me.
Payman Langroudi: I [00:49:50] take issue with that question. Right. Yeah. Because people say yeah take do your three years on the Nash and get your numbers in. [00:49:55] Yeah, yeah, yeah. But in three years doing anything. Yeah. You would have progressed somewhat, [00:50:00] just like three years doing max facts. Yeah. You progressed. Yeah. Three years doing private. [00:50:05] You would progress three years doing anything. You would have progressed. So, so this notion that Nash [00:50:10] is the place to go to progress, I just think every other country in the world, [00:50:15] they don’t do that. Right.
Mike Gray: So and this is I would have disagreed with you ten years [00:50:20] ago, fully agree with you now because.
Payman Langroudi: It’s changed in the last ten years to that. That’s [00:50:25] the that’s what you’re saying. Yeah.
Mike Gray: You don’t get to do anything now. They’re not getting hands on like before I [00:50:30] was doing crowns, bridges, dentures, extractions. Endo, you did the lot. And [00:50:35] so, you know, you got all those numbers. Now it’s they’re not getting [00:50:40] that hands on. So actually.
Payman Langroudi: Why aren’t they. Because the system doesn’t make [00:50:45] sense.
Mike Gray: Just the contract and that now and everything is now. It’s just okay. Yeah. I [00:50:50] get you in give you an exam, emergency treatment, but anything else is going to have to wait or [00:50:55] just refer it on or bounce it on. It’s just so restrictive now. So no, I couldn’t agree with you more now [00:51:00] it’s a shame. And it’s but so yeah, I was part time, [00:51:05] so I never earned any money as well. It’s always that thing. Oh, dentists, you’re rich. And I was, [00:51:10] I was a dentist who was not rich because I didn’t get the money racing bikes. I just earned [00:51:15] enough to pay for my food and my accommodation. Um, music was the same. And, [00:51:20] and, uh, and so yeah, I’d be, yeah, gigging and I used to use work [00:51:25] to recover from the weekends, which I again now. So maybe it’s an age thing. [00:51:30] I’m 40. I need my weekends to recover from work. Yeah. I need to just just chill out and catch up. Otherwise I’m [00:51:35] in trouble. Whereas it was, I would hit Monday absolutely wiped. [00:51:40] So I would sit there and just go through, do what I needed to do and recharge through [00:51:45] my days working and then back out again. Um, and yeah, very different.
Payman Langroudi: How did this turn [00:51:50] into the expert that I see on social media? [00:51:55]
Mike Gray: Oh, luck. No. Um.
Payman Langroudi: I [00:52:00] mean, you know, the, the, the max factor with the surgical skills. Yeah. But the [00:52:05] restorative side.
Mike Gray: Are I was awful. It’s it’s.
Payman Langroudi: So how did you learn? What did.
Mike Gray: You learn? So [00:52:10] Covid came along, put a nail in the coffin the music and going back to that, [00:52:15] working hard versus luck. I was sick of working [00:52:20] really hard and getting nothing. Uh, and and maybe I could try again or whatever. [00:52:25] But dentistry is beautiful. Like the harder you work, the more you get. [00:52:30] It’s a straight graph. It’s fantastic. And that’s that’s not to be sniffed at. [00:52:35] And you see loads of people doing these incredible things. And. But it’s only a very small percent. The [00:52:40] vast majority of people who aren’t near the top, like, for example, with the biking where I was kicking outside the top [00:52:45] 30. Um, yeah, it’s a hard life.
Payman Langroudi: If you’re the number 40 dentist [00:52:50] in the world, you’re on fire, right? Oh, unreal. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Mike Gray: 40 dentists in the [00:52:55] UK. Like it’s and it’s just a beautiful thing. You work hard, you get paid more or you progress or you’re there. [00:53:00] Whereas music, I’m busting my balls. And then again, it all goes. And so [00:53:05] I was sick of nothing correlating as it should. Yeah. Um, and so that was when [00:53:10] I always had in the back of my head, like you got dentistry. At some point you’re going to have to knuckle down. Um, we [00:53:15] don’t have to, but it’s not.
Payman Langroudi: A bad guy. You are right. Yeah.
Mike Gray: It’s not a bad fallback. [00:53:20] And so like I said, I absolutely hated it. But as soon as I pulled my finger out of my arse and started [00:53:25] putting that effort into dentistry are the level of satisfaction went straight [00:53:30] up and love what I’m doing. Got into this and got into that and I was very lucky. In [00:53:35] the clinic. I ended up at um in Swansea Parkway clinic in Swansea. Fantastic [00:53:40] clinic, huge clinic. It’s kind of like the gateway to the rest of Wales. There’s nothing [00:53:45] else past that. Stop. So the amount of cases that would [00:53:50] just come that way, whatever you wanted to do, there was cases. And so to, [00:53:55] to hone my skills, there was abundance of patients to sort [00:54:00] of go that way and.
Payman Langroudi: Lots of other experts to talk to. Right? Yeah.
Mike Gray: So it’s one of those places [00:54:05] where there’s a bit of everyone under the roof. Max facts, um, endo perio, uh, [00:54:10] that side of it.
Payman Langroudi: Because I came to your other practice, the lodge. Yeah. Again, very impressive. [00:54:15]
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Very, very impressed. Not many.
Mike Gray: I there’s not many practices. We’ve got a bar next [00:54:20] to the surgery.
Payman Langroudi: Beautifully done.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. And also, you could see it was [00:54:25] a big centre sort of pride. Was it a specialist private.
Mike Gray: So there’s two halves. [00:54:30] Yeah. The half you came to was like the referral centre and the other half is sort of general dentistry. Yeah. [00:54:35] Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: So you knuckled down to dentistry. What did you do. What did you do to.
Mike Gray: Again [00:54:40] this is going back to what you said with the photographer. I very much the crazy thing is restorative. [00:54:45] Other than the SHO job I did for a year um in Cardiff. [00:54:50] Um I’m self-taught. Um so I haven’t done a single restorative [00:54:55] course. So aesthetic wise, whether it’s composite or veneers or that side. And [00:55:00] in that I wouldn’t say it’s the way to do it. If someone says to me, you know, what’s the best way to learn? Go [00:55:05] and learn from someone incredible. You know, that is absolutely the best way. And this is where [00:55:10] at the time, like, I don’t need to do that. I’ve been going on courses. Later, I go on surgical courses [00:55:15] and my tunes changed. I’ve kind of feel like I’ve got a little bit too far with the prosthetic side, where I [00:55:20] don’t get good bang for my buck in what I’m going to learn. So less so, though I could still learn [00:55:25] a lot. Um, and so I just used to just get my head down and [00:55:30] just read around it. Research. I always have a few things in my head of when [00:55:35] the right patient comes along, I’m going to try this. So I’m not scared to try new things. But [00:55:40] what I make sure is that the right patient comes along to try it on. [00:55:45] I don’t just try it on the next person in that they’re chilled. It’s a low lip line. Uh, [00:55:50] you know, if it does go wrong, it’s not the end of the world sort of thing. And so that sort [00:55:55] of attitude, I sort of try things. And again, yeah, I always tend to learn the hard way. Um, [00:56:00] but I’ve just sort of developed and things like, you know, composite are [00:56:05] go and just layer some teeth up in my garage, work it out. Like, how am I getting there? If [00:56:10] it’s an instrument that I want or I can’t just make it. So, um, um. [00:56:15]
Payman Langroudi: So I saw that, um, camera thing. Yeah.
Mike Gray: The bracket a [00:56:20] little bit risky?
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Is it just me or is there something about it?
Mike Gray: Uh, I just again, [00:56:25] the way my brain works is I got into my photography, which again is a great [00:56:30] thing to do. Yeah. Um, not just from advertising yourself on that side, but actually reflection [00:56:35] on your work. Um, and again, yeah, go, go [00:56:40] on. Course. You know, that’s make life simple for yourself. Don’t be stupid [00:56:45] like me and just lock yourself in a room for three days and read everything you can about it and that way. [00:56:50] Um, but that’s and I tried the twin flash brackets. [00:56:55] Um, and I found they either had not enough movement or too much. So I’m like, well go in [00:57:00] the garage, hack up a bit of aluminium and knock one up. And I had this ratty bit of kit [00:57:05] that I used for about a year. And I’m like, actually works. I love to just set and forget. [00:57:10] I haven’t got time for faffing. So and I hate the way with particularly the twin flash brackets, [00:57:15] you put it down and it moves there. And the minute anything moves, your flash is in a different place. You’ve got a different [00:57:20] picture, so your befores and afters aren’t consistent or that side of it. And so I knocked up this [00:57:25] and I was like, it kind of works. I should do a proper job of that. So I did a proper job of it and realised how [00:57:30] much, how hard it is to earn money outside of dentistry. Yeah. It’s not, you know, [00:57:35] as in so try a trying to get stuff made in the UK was a nightmare. Um nobody wants [00:57:40] to work. Um so it took me ages trying to, I got my laser cut in Bridgend, then I got them anodised [00:57:45] up in Birmingham and then, uh, laser etched in Port Talbot. And at the [00:57:50] time, you know, it took forever. And then I’m having to thread stuff myself and put stuff together, [00:57:55] box things up, you get an ordinary and you get your emails, and then you’ve got to run it to the post [00:58:00] office and, and.
Payman Langroudi: Then your overall profit on that item £40. It’s like, yeah. [00:58:05]
Mike Gray: And so again, it makes you go, that’s not bad.
Payman Langroudi: I’d rather do it.
Mike Gray: Hard [00:58:10] living in the real world, you know?
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: So, um, so I did a bit of that cool thing about that though, is, [00:58:15] you know, because obviously dentistry and limited company and things like that. Um, as long as you attempt to make [00:58:20] profit at something, uh, you can run that through the business. So I can get tools on my limited company. [00:58:25] I love tools, so I’ve got a lathe in the garage and things like that. So hence why I make [00:58:30] some of my own surgical instruments in that I bought some megabucks and I looked at it and I’m like, [00:58:35] I could make that. That’s. So sure enough, I wanted like a pillar elevator for some of the microsurgery [00:58:40] stuff. So I went in the garage and knocked one up on the lathe and use that in my kit, you know? [00:58:45] Um, and so my brain’s always going like that. And so I’m always trying things, always trying things [00:58:50] different. And I think the nice thing, it was the hard way to try and teach myself [00:58:55] and work it out myself, but then it because I wasn’t being told by anyone [00:59:00] how to do it. And often the danger of that is you get shown how to do it. This [00:59:05] is how it’s done. This is how you always do it. Um, because I hadn’t [00:59:10] been shown by anyone, I’d worked out my own way, which allowed me to approach [00:59:15] it completely, sort of in a different way, which which I. You know, I love for that and [00:59:20] that.
Payman Langroudi: It’s a beautiful thing. I mean, one of the. We do this course with Depeche Palmer. [00:59:25] Yeah. And young Depeche Palmer was like you. He [00:59:30] hadn’t been on many courses at all. Yeah. And then his mentor told him maybe. [00:59:35] Don’t. Yeah. Yeah. So it’s all original. Yeah. And some of the [00:59:40] insights that he’s come out with are his own. They’re clearly his own. Yeah. Yeah. [00:59:45] And the danger of going on a lot of education if you want to be a teacher. Is that you’re regurgitating [00:59:50] someone else’s work. And for the, you know, you get the delegates that you see [00:59:55] in lots of different courses, they, they can definitely see, you know, where it’s come from. Yeah, yeah. [01:00:00] Whereas we need people like you and him to come up with [01:00:05] totally new ways of looking at it. Um, because [01:00:10] what the hell is progress in the end, right?
Mike Gray: Oh yeah. I mean, there’s been a huge spike. [01:00:15] I would say, um, since digital dentistry has been on the scene, like [01:00:20] the amount of control it can give you and the things because like, again, if you go to the formal [01:00:25] teaching route, articulators. Facebow. Articulator. I haven’t used one for 5 or 6 [01:00:30] years. I do full mouth rehab all the time. You are. I don’t waste of time. Explain that. So [01:00:35] it basically it makes, in my opinion again, I’ll set some people with this. It makes [01:00:40] it more complicated because you’ve got to. You’ve got the added process of taking [01:00:45] a facebow and registering all that side of things. You’re adding cost and lab side of things. You’re also [01:00:50] adding inaccuracy. There’s just none of that you need to do with digital. Um, because [01:00:55] the beauty of digital, you can. All right, maybe articulator you get a [01:01:00] virtual articulator on something like Exocad, which is the dental software again, use that. [01:01:05] Yeah, I do a lot of my own.
Payman Langroudi: I don’t mean exocad. I mean the virtual articulator. [01:01:10]
Mike Gray: Uh, occasionally. A lot of the time, you don’t need to. You put the tooth in the right place and you’re not going to be [01:01:15] too far off. Um, but the beauty of, of, of digital dentistry is you can transfer. So [01:01:20] I don’t call temporaries temporaries, they’re prototypes and that’s what they are with digital. So [01:01:25] you transfer these prototypes into somebody’s mouth. You can take as long as you want. So the [01:01:30] first full mouth rehab that I approached, um, useless. Didn’t know [01:01:35] what I was doing. Um, as long as you manage the patient’s expectations, which is the biggest thing of any part of [01:01:40] dentistry, managing those expectations, then you [01:01:45] you’re set. So for me on a full mouth rehab, rather than being like, cool, I’m going to prep everything, [01:01:50] put some temporaries on, see how it’s going, and then go to the finals. I’d be like, [01:01:55] oh, this is really difficult. So we’re probably going to take a couple of months to get this bite right [01:02:00] on that side. And so you manage those expectations. And so then I was able to fart around [01:02:05] for as long as I wanted to get it right. And basically you prep the teeth, you put your [01:02:10] prototypes in place and you get your occlusion and everything right where you want. So for me, I [01:02:15] like to put the aesthetics where I want them first, and then I want to make the occlusion work to that aesthetic. [01:02:20] So then I go into the function and you can get your [01:02:25] occlusion exactly where you want it just from tweaking it chairside. And once it’s perfect [01:02:30] and again, if you want, you can send the patient away for a month and, you know, keep dialling it in, make sure [01:02:35] nothing’s broken. And when it’s you feel it’s perfect. Whether you’re reorganising or not, you just [01:02:40] scan. Yeah, you scan that and you, there’s a few little tricks in order to ensure [01:02:45] the accuracy of overlaying scans on one another is good. Um, but if you what. [01:02:50]
Payman Langroudi: Are they, what are.
Mike Gray: They? Oh, just little things that you sort of work out. Like if you’re the [01:02:55] hard thing with laying scans over one another is a point of reference.
Payman Langroudi: So [01:03:00] like a three dimensional point of reference.
Mike Gray: Yeah. So teeth are great for that because they’re hard and they don’t [01:03:05] move and they’re accurate. But if you prep them all well, you’ve just destroyed all your reference points.
Payman Langroudi: So attention [01:03:10] to that fact.
Mike Gray: So little things like if you’re scanning, get a load of the palette. It’s [01:03:15] not the most accurate, but it’s not going to change as much as the sort of buckle surfaces. So that’s one extra. If [01:03:20] I’m doing a full mouth rehab, I like to if I can leave the back teeth untouched, I can easily [01:03:25] come back and do those at the end. So again, you’ve kept your points of reference posteriorly. If you’re prepping [01:03:30] crowns at the front, when you fit your temporaries, just leave the margin showing on the palatal. [01:03:35] So you’ve got another hard point of reference. So you’ve kind of got this three point, uh, match up [01:03:40] with, uh, with your scans. And so they actually match up, which means then you can [01:03:45] accurately record the occlusion. So for example, on my prototypes, I’ll leave the articulating marks. [01:03:50] So the lab have.
Payman Langroudi: Oh before scanning. Yeah. Yeah.
Mike Gray: So you leave them on. So they’ve literally [01:03:55] got blue red marks where the occlusion where the guidance isn’t it. Oh, so you know, [01:04:00] okay, I need to get this perfect and there’s a little slice tool they can adapt [01:04:05] the ceramic to. With pretty much 100% accurate 99.99, you [01:04:10] know, fractions of a millimetre out. So accurate they can copy that. And as long as you’re transferring [01:04:15] things accurately, then you’ll come back with the exact occlusion that you had in your prototypes, [01:04:20] which is crazy. So you’re fitting stuff and having perfect canine guidance and all that side. And [01:04:25] there’s just no stress, there’s no stress. And, and I hate that about myself in that when I started [01:04:30] the full mouth rehabs, I’d be like, I can’t wait to get to a stage where I’m not stressing before every appointment. [01:04:35] This is horrible. I’m like, ah, and as soon as I get there, because now, like full mouth rehab does not stress [01:04:40] me. And I’m like, all right, I’m a bit bored now. And so then I’m doing something else. And, and [01:04:45] stupidly, I opened the implant can like, unless you’re willing to dive [01:04:50] in.
Payman Langroudi: Implants is all or nothing.
Mike Gray: Leave it alone. Oh my goodness. And I was slow getting to [01:04:55] it because of the surgical background. And I did a lot of soft tissue stuff and things even before placing. I’ve been [01:05:00] restoring them for way before I started placing. Um, and so I kind of did everything a little [01:05:05] bit ass backwards, but I’m on that implant side now. And yeah, I’ve been at it a couple of years and love it.
Payman Langroudi: But [01:05:10] would you be mad if you didn’t go into the implants, though, with all of your surgical background? You know, [01:05:15] because it’s just, yeah, especially like where you are and all that, you know, the competitions. Yeah. [01:05:20] It needs there’s, there’s a supply issue. Yeah. You need, you need people. [01:05:25] Why is it, what do you think is the difference between someone like you? Who how many [01:05:30] full mouth rehabs do you do now? Like, uh, how often do you do you do it?
Mike Gray: It’s the different [01:05:35] I because I get bored doing the same thing. I do a [01:05:40] lot of different things. And so re like a full mouth rehab, I’ll [01:05:45] have, you know, sort of maybe one going a month or something like that.
Payman Langroudi: So someone like you, the difference in someone like [01:05:50] you, who’s, who’s throwing yourself in, reinventing the wheel, you know, [01:05:55] like making your own tricks and tips and tricks up. And then I come across [01:06:00] a bunch of people paralysed by anxiety about being [01:06:05] sued and, and all that. Like you could if you could think to yourself, Jesus, [01:06:10] dude, I’ve made my own instruments. Yeah, I’ve put this into this [01:06:15] guy’s mouth. What if something goes wrong? Yeah, but you’re not thinking that, is it? The fact that [01:06:20] you’ve been through these much harder things that makes dentistry look a bit more like child’s [01:06:25] play?
Mike Gray: I mean, that’s a good point in that I get stressed, I definitely get stressed.
Payman Langroudi: And what stresses. [01:06:30]
Mike Gray: You? Um, I the biggest thing is, is when [01:06:35] I mess up or I don’t do as well as I feel I should have. And that’s not necessarily healthy. And I think [01:06:40] a lot of us are unhealthy in that way as sort of self-criticism and beating ourselves up. Um, but that’s [01:06:45] probably the biggest thing when, when I know I can’t blame it on anything or anyone but [01:06:50] myself, that’s when I’m like, oof, I’m gonna have to take five minutes. And I used to struggle. It [01:06:55] used to play on a bit, but now it’s like, all right, I’ll have a sulk. I’ll sit in those emotions and I will [01:07:00] get past it. But it’s a good point, and I think a lot of it comes [01:07:05] to calculated risk. So you’re going back to the mountain bikes. Um, it’s like, [01:07:10] oh, you know, aren’t you scared of crashing? You are scared of falling off your bike or that side of things. And, [01:07:15] and it’s no, you’re doing it day in, day out. And it’s, you’ve built your skill up to a level [01:07:20] where it’s a calculated risk. And so it’s, it’s the same as, you know, what [01:07:25] was it like when you drove a car for the first time? It’s scary as hell. Like you don’t shit your pants every time [01:07:30] you go in a car. Now you respect it, but it’s that side. And so I suppose it’s that sort of perspective. [01:07:35] It’s like, you know, and for example, the downhill race, you fly all the way to, uh, [01:07:40] you know, uh, you know, Canada or anywhere across the world, you’ve got to, you [01:07:45] sat on the start line, you’ve got a TV camera in your face, you’ve got one run three minutes to get it right and [01:07:50] putting your life on the line. Um, that’s the sort of pressure, you know, or you’re [01:07:55] on stage or that side of it, um, or playing for somebody in your living room, [01:08:00] you know. Uh, and that’s that sort of pressure.
Payman Langroudi: And so it seems a little bit easier than those things. [01:08:05] Yeah.
Mike Gray: But then it’s down under. I still respect it in a [01:08:10] healthy way. And I, and I think a lot of us don’t realise how hard it is and how stressful it is. It’s, [01:08:15] it’s just insane. Yeah. It’s and it sounds really bad because, um, [01:08:20] my wife’s American, I met her in, um, through the music, so, [01:08:25] you know, good thing out of the music. I was in Nashville, I was doing some songwriting there.
Payman Langroudi: Oh, was she like a groupie?
Mike Gray: Uh, no, not at all. Not [01:08:30] at all. Just unimpressed. Um, I met her at a little dive bar in Nashville, [01:08:35] and I managed to convince her that Newport was better than Nashville.
Payman Langroudi: Where everything is.
Mike Gray: Now. But, [01:08:40] um. So, uh. Yeah. So, uh, it’s. [01:08:45] Oh, where was I going with that? I got, got caught up [01:08:50] in, in my wife being mad at me, and I’ve lost my train of thought.
Payman Langroudi: Dentistry is difficult.
Mike Gray: Oh, yeah, that [01:08:55] was it. And so this year we opened up. Uh. Up last year, now 25, we opened up an Airbnb in [01:09:00] Nashville. Um, okay. And, but that’s a project, you know, I give you some cash for it and that [01:09:05] sort of thing. And so she’s, she’s now responsible. And, and she was getting stressed and secretly, [01:09:10] I enjoyed it a little bit until that stress started getting taken out on me because I didn’t [01:09:15] realise how much stress I coped with on a daily basis. Um, [01:09:20] and just took it as normal. And the vast majority of [01:09:25] people don’t, uh, on that side.
Payman Langroudi: And so when I stopped dentistry for [01:09:30] five years and then started again the first two [01:09:35] weeks, you, you suddenly realise, oh my God, is this what [01:09:40] I used to do? Yeah, yeah. And just turning up bitch.
Mike Gray: Oh [01:09:45] man.
Payman Langroudi: And to turn up then, then now, now on, on stage for [01:09:50] that many hours. Yeah. And the weird thing about it was I was, I was trying to do enlighten [01:09:55] at the same time. Yeah. The only time you’ve got is just like weird, like lunchtime [01:10:00] or. It depends how you run your book. Right? I used to run long, long appointments, [01:10:05] so I used to get like 15, 20 minutes here and there. Yeah. And if you want to do anything, at the end of the [01:10:10] day, you’re pretty much burnt out. Yeah. Especially in private. I found private, [01:10:15] you know, would burn your brain. Yeah. Nhs would burn your body almost. Yeah. It [01:10:20] was that hard. Yeah. Your soul. Yeah. Um, so you’re right. It [01:10:25] it is a lot of stress. And the empathy side is important [01:10:30] and tiring. Yeah.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: And I’ve said this before, my, my cousin who I saw last [01:10:35] night, he’s a, he’s an eye surgeon. Yeah. He says when, when the patient’s not either [01:10:40] heavily sedated or, or GA, he has a much more stressful [01:10:45] day than when he’s doing a GA list. Right. Because he goes but la inside people’s eyes. Yeah. [01:10:50] And that anxiety comes and you know, we’ve got that at a level continuously [01:10:55] all the time.
Mike Gray: And unfortunately, everyone hates you, even if they’re nice [01:11:00] about it. Oh well. Big change from my practice now though, which I’ll come on to. But have you heard of like, [01:11:05] you must have heard of compassion fatigue?
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: And your mental health [01:11:10] wise.
Mike Gray: Yeah. And so that’s, that’s a real thing in like the therapy world where everyone’s coming and [01:11:15] trauma dumping on you. And if you’re not careful, you’ll soak it up like a sponge. So like therapists [01:11:20] and that they get up and they have different ways to combat it. Like something might just be stand up, shake your arms and [01:11:25] legs or run your hands under some sort of running water. They check in with their own therapists [01:11:30] every couple of weeks. And in dentistry, we get that every day. It’s like even [01:11:35] the the there’s plenty of people that outright be like, I hate you. I’m [01:11:40] like, oof, okay. And then, but there’s other people that are really polite about it, [01:11:45] but all their body language is telling you, I’m scared of you, I hate you. Um, and [01:11:50] you take so much.
Payman Langroudi: So funny that we take that personally. I mean, I don’t. [01:11:55]
Mike Gray: Like the massive difference now.
Payman Langroudi: Just the words themselves.
Mike Gray: So I purely do, like I said, [01:12:00] aesthetic and surgical dentistry, it’s all elective side of things. Yeah. Everyone [01:12:05] wants to be there. So nobody moans about the injection. Nobody moans about paying, nobody moans [01:12:10] about that. It’s it’s a completely different approach. And I didn’t realise that big wave [01:12:15] that was lifted. And when I started seeing these patients versus my [01:12:20] average day, and I’m doing way more complex and difficult stuff, but that burden is way lighter. [01:12:25]
Payman Langroudi: You’re right on.
Mike Gray: That.
Payman Langroudi: Side. The other thing is, uh, my, my, [01:12:30] um, two kids had ortho. Yeah, one normal ortho [01:12:35] and the other Dental monitoring ortho. Yeah. And Dental monitoring ortho [01:12:40] only visited five times or something. Yeah, yeah. And as a dentist, you [01:12:45] think, oh, that’s like the number of hours that she spent with my daughters. Not many hours. And we paid all [01:12:50] this money, but from the from the other side of it. Hell. Great man. Like going to the dentist. [01:12:55] Yeah. Is not pleasant. How much we think we make our waiting rooms nice. [01:13:00] And yeah, it’s not a pleasant going anywhere. It’s not pleasant to somebody.
Mike Gray: That enjoys that there. The scary patients.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah, [01:13:05] yeah. Like going to the hairdresser isn’t pleasant. Like spending.
Mike Gray: Time. Like people [01:13:10] hate the dentist. Oh my my, this is my bubble, my personal space. And you’re in.
Payman Langroudi: It.
Mike Gray: You know, you can tell [01:13:15] I don’t like the hairdresser. Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: I mean, it’s it’s pleasant going to a restaurant or going to a doing [01:13:20] some sports or going to a show or it’s, it’s not pleasant going to any form of therapist, [01:13:25] right? It’s like, you know, but we fool ourselves because we’re having sometimes meaningful relationships [01:13:30] with the patients. We fool ourselves into thinking they’re having as much fun as we are. Yeah.
Mike Gray: And [01:13:35] that’s, and that’s why I think I love, you know, education. I think that’s so important. [01:13:40] You know, we were talking about before. So for example, the course I run poise protocol. Um, what’s it called. [01:13:45] Poise protocol poise poise. Yeah. So path of insertion and structural enhancement. It’s basically [01:13:50] that goes in my head the minute I approach anything indirect. It doesn’t matter what it is [01:13:55] because I’m asking myself, cool. So is there a path of insertion for the ceramic? [01:14:00] Yes or no? Do I need to create one? And structural enhancement. You know, is there enough strength [01:14:05] in the material I’m using and the tooth that I’m putting on? And when you think about it like that, you’re [01:14:10] always going to do the right thing for the tooth. And what the crazy thing, which it blows my mind, [01:14:15] which I feel everyone should know from the aesthetic side, is you [01:14:20] can provide ceramic veneers so, so minimally invasive [01:14:25] in that way. And it’s, I think I’ve gone full [01:14:30] circle in like everyone’s done composite, everyone jumps on composite and composite is [01:14:35] great. It is fantastic. It has its place.
Payman Langroudi: It’s fantastic. But you wouldn’t have it in your [01:14:40] own mouth, isn’t it? I mean, I’ve got it. My front teeth, my teeth.
Mike Gray: Have had a hammering, you know, again [01:14:45] relating to lifestyle.
Payman Langroudi: Um, but but tell me, explain it to me because so you’re saying a virtually [01:14:50] no prep. Yeah. So indirect porcelain veneer that you’re bringing [01:14:55] in in a, the path of insertion is not, not the normal path.
Mike Gray: So again. [01:15:00]
Payman Langroudi: Is that what you’re.
Mike Gray: Saying? When I started looking into that, because again, I was sick of comments like if anyone who does a lot [01:15:05] of composite, I don’t care what people are telling you with courses, the good educators will tell you the truth [01:15:10] about composite and that it’s fantastic, but you’re going to get chips, you’re going to get stains unforgiving. [01:15:15] Yeah, absolutely. And and it has its place. It’s perfect for anything that for me that it isn’t full [01:15:20] coverage, it’s composites. Great. Anything that’s full coverage. So, you [01:15:25] know, veneer ceramics, ceramics, way better. I, I had [01:15:30] one veneer fail in the last five years. I do not have veneer fractures or problems [01:15:35] or stains in my diary. It’s just not there. I am way less stressed with the ceramic [01:15:40] because I know I’m going to put that there. I have my protocols right and I’m not going to see him again. It’s [01:15:45] you know, it’s fantastic. And basically when I started looking into the whole prep list, because [01:15:50] I don’t, I like to try and be as minimally invasive as possible, which is different as an aesthetic dentist. I don’t [01:15:55] use cosmetic. That’s a dirty word in America. Um, so aesthetic dentist [01:16:00] side. And, um, when I approached it, I went to the lab a lucky [01:16:05] again in that a good relationship with my lab.
Mike Gray: And I got a really good lab technician, Anthony Bailey and Cardiff, [01:16:10] um, prime ceramics and we’re good buddies now because I’ve been back and forth for years and, [01:16:15] um, so I’m in there pretty much most weeks and he’s taught me all my ceramics. Like I do all my ceramic, [01:16:20] I do all the CAD side. He’s been my mentor through all of that. And when I first approached [01:16:25] him about ceramic, he’s like, um, felspathic. That’s the cool thing. That’s like [01:16:30] the sort of the, the creme de la creme sort of, of that side. And to [01:16:35] find someone to do feldspathic, um, well is difficult. Um, [01:16:40] you need a really talented clinician. And then when you look at the flexural strength, it’s like 70 [01:16:45] megapascals. It’s less than flowable composite. Um, and obviously you put it on a solid [01:16:50] base. You get that strength. So he said to me, call Feldspathic is really weak and it’s really hard for [01:16:55] someone to do it. And in the dentistry side of things, we’re kind of told, oh, stars need to align [01:17:00] to do prep less because it’s just not for everyone. And so [01:17:05] immediately I was like, well, I don’t want to dedicate my time and effort learning [01:17:10] about a material that was invented in the 70s that’s difficult to do [01:17:15] and not very strong.
Mike Gray: So I’m like, okay, well, how are we going to get the benefits of that out [01:17:20] of modern materials? And so you look at like the lithium disilicate urimax is like your sort of your trade [01:17:25] name and things like that. And, um, you can place, [01:17:30] uh, lithium disilicate 0.3 mils thick, which [01:17:35] is nothing. So if you’re not prepping, you’re not exactly adding massive bulk. When you look at margins, [01:17:40] okay, well, we need a margin. In my head, it was like, okay, I have to prep a margin. [01:17:45] Otherwise there’s going to be a big ledge. Oh yeah. And you’re going to have bacteria in the you look [01:17:50] at the papers. Um, you get more longevity with, with propolis [01:17:55] because you’ve left all that enamel there. Gingiva is healthy. And again, so you look at bop concepts [01:18:00] and that side of it, there’s no margins there and [01:18:05] everything’s completely healthy. It’s more about that sort of profile of what’s going on. You look at implants, you [01:18:10] know, a huge obviously it needs to be the right shape. But, you know, there’s no such thing as [01:18:15] a margin there. So you don’t actually need margins. And then with digitally you can act.
Payman Langroudi: So there’s an [01:18:20] actual ledge.
Mike Gray: Uh, so.
Payman Langroudi: A very thin one.
Mike Gray: No, no, no, no, there’s no ledge knowledge. You don’t prep a [01:18:25] margin at all.
Payman Langroudi: No. But so now you’ve got this veneer on there. How, how is it as long as you.
Mike Gray: Have [01:18:30] a nice smooth transition onto it. So not a square edge, then things are happy. And [01:18:35] again, digitally you can accurately place them. 0.3mm Subgingivally super [01:18:40] easy to do that with, with modern sort of digital scanners. And the beauty of it is [01:18:45] with modern scanners, you can scan a mouth. And when I say the stars need to align [01:18:50] path of insertion, point, path of insertion, you have to have a path of insertion for the ceramic to go [01:18:55] on. When you actually analyse it digitally, you can move it around and roughly [01:19:00] for a veneer you coming from the labial, but I like to come a bit of like 45 degrees to the incisal. [01:19:05] If you come to labial, gingiva starts getting in the way, but by immediately coming labial, you’ve been minimally [01:19:10] invasive. You have to remove less tooth structure. So you start fighting around with these scans, [01:19:15] um approaching from the labial. And the beautiful thing is they have [01:19:20] buttons that you can identify undercuts. See it’s not meant for [01:19:25] this. It’s meant for checking your prep. And have I got rid of it. You just put that on [01:19:30] on prep tooth, move it around a bit. It shows you exactly where the undercuts are.
Payman Langroudi: For that path of insertion. [01:19:35]
Mike Gray: That path of insertion. You change the view to path Preferences and you can fart around and it [01:19:40] shows you exactly where those paths of insertions are. So what I do then is I work out the best approach [01:19:45] for each tooth, the um as far as path of insertion. And [01:19:50] it highlights in blue depending on what sort of software you’re using. Um, but most [01:19:55] scanners will have an undercut button on there and you can create a preparation map and it, [01:20:00] it shows you exactly the bit of tooth you need to remove in order to create a path for insertion. [01:20:05] And what you will realise is it’s bugger all apps. So a full arch [01:20:10] of preps will take me five minutes in that you just get a little disk and you [01:20:15] go, yeah, yeah, according to your preparation map and a veneer is going to go on there. Um, [01:20:20] and, and other than structural enhancement with veneers, sharp line angles, [01:20:25] things like that, that you need to smooth off so you don’t have crack propagation. There’s nothing to do. [01:20:30] So a prep mouth looks untouched. I don’t numb them up. I do it as a point to [01:20:35] demonstrate to the patient, I’m not hacking your teeth to bits. And so it’s [01:20:40] incredibly minimally invasive. Like truly invasive. Because my argument against composite [01:20:45] is, you know, I think it’s false advertising when you say teeth are untouched [01:20:50] because this isn’t going to last forever. What happens when you take it off and they say, oh, I’ll be careful and [01:20:55] I’ll take that. Even polishing by nature is removing tooth structure. That’s the act of polishing. And [01:21:00] I see cases where they’ve had 2 or 3 lots of composite that I’m redoing. [01:21:05] And you take that composite off. That’s not a virgin tooth underneath. Someone’s been a bit slack or a bit rushed [01:21:10] or a bit lazy or just they’ve had so much. It is not an untouched tooth. And so you do that [01:21:15] 3 or 4 times, or you have ceramic where you’ve carefully according [01:21:20] digitally and super accurately recontoured this tooth and you’ve [01:21:25] got a veneer that’s going to last 15, 20 years and you’re not touching. And so it’s.
Payman Langroudi: How do you avoid the tooth [01:21:30] being bulky?
Mike Gray: It’s not 0.3 mil like.
Payman Langroudi: Across the whole thing.
Mike Gray: Yeah. You can have [01:21:35] 0.3 mil thickness and, and so that side of it, and obviously you can thicken it out way more [01:21:40] like the big thing for me. Yeah. The big thing for me on volume is lip line. [01:21:45] If somebody, as a general rule of thumb, if somebody’s got a high lip line, you want to keep the volume down because otherwise they look like [01:21:50] those sort of stuck on bits of teeth. Um, but yeah, you’re adding.
Payman Langroudi: Typically, are you doing [01:21:55] sort of a line bleach then that.
Mike Gray: Oh yeah, I’m a massive pro ortho before, like I [01:22:00] said, it’s uh, if someone’s, uh, the question I asked myself is, is this [01:22:05] patient going to die with their teeth by the time I finish with them? And if they are [01:22:10] older, I will give them the option of prepping versus not prepping. I still prefer not to prep. So even if somebody comes [01:22:15] to me in their 50s and they’re like, I want full mouth veneers, I’m like, cool, give me a good reason not [01:22:20] to do ortho because everyone’s life is easier. Uh, you know, my life as far as preps, [01:22:25] masking whatever is easier. But I say, look, best thing for you to do is to ortho first. But if they [01:22:30] say no, I’m like, fine. As long as it’s not crazy and I’m not hacking away too much to structure. I’ll be like, cool, I’ll [01:22:35] prep a younger patient. I don’t even give him a choice. I was like, no, you want veneers? It’s also first or nothing. Um, [01:22:40] and that side and again, coming back to the prep list, way easier to [01:22:45] do a full mouth than it is 1 or 2 teeth talking about that book. Because if you start back here, 0.3 [01:22:50] mil doesn’t look like you’ve added anything, um, onto the front, even if you start at the back. So works [01:22:55] a lot easier with, with, uh, sort of full teeth and things like that.
Payman Langroudi: So, and then [01:23:00] when you come to cement, um, each one of them is going in at a different angle. [01:23:05]
Mike Gray: No, you be pretty much going at that sort of 4545. [01:23:10]
Payman Langroudi: Generally.
Mike Gray: It’s your conventional veneer approach when you just wiggle it around a little bit [01:23:15] to, to keep it minimal, that’s all you’re doing. And you don’t want to go too [01:23:20] crazy with your approach because particularly on veneers, if you’re going too far from like, say, [01:23:25] laterally you, that’s when you have to start or I have to cement this one first and then that one. So [01:23:30] you want to keep it fairly, but again, it will blow your mind. I haven’t got my laptop [01:23:35] in my bag. I’ll show you after like how minimal it is that you’re actually to create [01:23:40] a path of insertion for every single tooth in the head. The vast majority, like you’ll have 4 or 5 teeth. Don’t touch. [01:23:45] Don’t even touch them. Um, and so that that world of prep is [01:23:50] just rather than being able to do it on 5% of people, you’re up to like 90% [01:23:55] of people. And the cool thing is, you know, I’d love to save enamel [01:24:00] everywhere in that the number of cases I see now where somebody’s prepped a full mouth, [01:24:05] um, conventional veneers, you’d think could I’ve done that a different way and that side. [01:24:10]
Payman Langroudi: And I think without, without prep you’ve got a much better bond, right.
Mike Gray: Oh yeah. No, I [01:24:15] mean, because the main success of a veneer is, I mean obviously you can look at occlusion and that not [01:24:20] to enamel. Yeah. It’s it’s that bond. And and you’ve left it all there. It’s there’s acres of it. [01:24:25] You couldn’t have a better starting point as to where you want to go. So yeah, [01:24:30] it’s awesome in that side and digital makes that all possible.
Payman Langroudi: Did you come up with this yourself? [01:24:35]
Mike Gray: Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Like there wasn’t another guy in Peru who I saw.
Mike Gray: I mean, there’s a lot of things that [01:24:40] I think I’ve been clever and invented, and I’m probably not the first person, but.
Payman Langroudi: But you just came up with this yourself. You just step by [01:24:45] step by step.
Mike Gray: Five years. Yeah. That that sort of way. Interesting. And it’s, it’s, it’s, I love [01:24:50] it. I absolutely love it.
Payman Langroudi: So is that what your course teaches this?
Mike Gray: Yeah, yeah. And it’s basically I don’t [01:24:55] teach the conventional prep side because you can get that everywhere else. But the whole workflow of, [01:25:00] you know, planning to smile design to, um, actually, [01:25:05] yeah, executing and cementing and, and sort of all that side. [01:25:10] Um, but then yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Where’d you run the course?
Mike Gray: So I run that a lodge, uh.
Payman Langroudi: Lodge.
Mike Gray: Itself. Yeah. Lodge [01:25:15] itself. I like to keep smaller numbers. Um, we’ve been three years sold out now, which is cool. [01:25:20] Um, I need to.
Payman Langroudi: Do it once a year.
Mike Gray: About twice a year, twice a year. So I need to [01:25:25] release some dates. Um, but again, going back to the core side, [01:25:30] I love to create a space where people can just come and speak to other [01:25:35] like minded people, because such a stressful profession as we talked about it. And so come [01:25:40] and let your hair down. If you want to learn, you can learn. But you know, I put people I got to stop because [01:25:45] I don’t make any money. I don’t that’s the business side of me that’s useless. But I put people up in [01:25:50] a five star hotel, nice food, getting some wine tasting or whisky tasting. And [01:25:55] I had an ice cream van and barbecue at the last one. Um.
Payman Langroudi: I think, I think, I [01:26:00] think education needs a shake up.
Mike Gray: Oh no. But.
Payman Langroudi: You know, in this sense, it’s awesome.
Mike Gray: And I [01:26:05] love what you were talking about earlier, where you’re effectively getting a sort of a really [01:26:10] cool space to get everyone together.
Payman Langroudi: So we’re doing this thing at Ministry of Sound. Yeah. Which [01:26:15] I think you’re going to be at. So that would be great. Yeah. Yeah, that’ll be great. Check your diary. Yeah, [01:26:20] it’s.
Mike Gray: I think I did, like I said, with the American wife, as long as it’s not you saying it’s June.
Payman Langroudi: June, June [01:26:25] 30th.
Mike Gray: June 13th? Yes, as long as it’s not July 4th, Independence Day, you’re there. I [01:26:30] should be there. I set, I’m set. Otherwise, I’m on a lake, eating hot dogs, drinking beer and watching fireworks.
Payman Langroudi: But it’s [01:26:35] so interesting. Like, you know, the guy who invented Invisalign was some sort of banker. [01:26:40] Yeah. And it’s sometimes you have to zoom out or not be in [01:26:45] it. Yeah. To come up with solutions that are, you know, like, in a [01:26:50] way, it’s so interesting. You haven’t been on any cosmetics courses or particularly hadn’t [01:26:55] been on any cosmetic courses by the time you started coming up with this solution. Yeah. Um, [01:27:00] and yet look at it from a different angle. And I’m quite surprised at what you’re saying [01:27:05] about the margin that the, the margin isn’t an issue. Yeah. And, but you’re right in that, in that sort of [01:27:10] vertebrate world, we. Yeah.
Mike Gray: No you don’t.
Payman Langroudi: No one’s worried.
Mike Gray: About. I can show you, you know three [01:27:15] five year post-doc with. And we can all we all know what healthy gingiva looks like. Yeah. Brand new. Uh, [01:27:20] and, uh, yeah, it’s it’s, uh, The biggest question I get [01:27:25] whenever I talk on it is, is like, what about the gum health? Yeah. And because [01:27:30] it just doesn’t make sense. And that’s where you kind of condition. But it’s. Yeah. No.
Payman Langroudi: What [01:27:35] are you bad at?
Mike Gray: Uh.
Payman Langroudi: Bad dentistry.
Mike Gray: Yeah. [01:27:40] Um, things that involve patience, as [01:27:45] in not physical patience. The the act of being patient. Yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Short. [01:27:50]
Mike Gray: So Endo, for example. I’m good at endo. I was been a while. Yeah. Um, [01:27:55] I opened my first tooth over the Christmas period, um, for a long time and I was, I was, I [01:28:00] was, I’m working like, where are these canals? How many are there? Okay. Right. It’s a molar. Uh, but [01:28:05] it came back. Oh yeah. No, we got out [01:28:10] of pain, so succeeded there. But um, things like endo, [01:28:15] endo and I did great until it [01:28:20] got fiddly And I just got too impatient and I would snap something [01:28:25] or ledge something. And that was it. Like orthodontics. I, I [01:28:30] want it done now. I want it done now. And this is something I struggle with [01:28:35] on the surgical side because you have to wait for everything to mature. And I don’t. So like, you [01:28:40] know, I get a case I’m really excited to finish, but I’m going to do this bone graft now and then I’m going to wait four months and [01:28:45] then I’m going to sort of vertically graft the tissue and wait another four months. And then I’m going to condition [01:28:50] it to develop the Pontic site. And so 12, 18 months later I might get to the end. [01:28:55] And, and I struggle with that because I just want it now. And so yeah, anything [01:29:00] that sort of involves patience is my mind goes because I just want it.
Payman Langroudi: What [01:29:05] about Lifewise? What’s the like.
Mike Gray: Failure?
Payman Langroudi: I’d say.
Mike Gray: It’s failure. [01:29:10] Um, in that.
Payman Langroudi: Punish yourself mentally.
Mike Gray: No, it’s I’m just I [01:29:15] think I should imagine there’s a lot of dentists like this is. And you’re a high achiever, [01:29:20] right, to get into dental school. So you’ve done well in school. You’ve done well in university and [01:29:25] on that side. And so dealing with failure isn’t [01:29:30] something you’re used to. And this is where I suffered in the music. Uh, [01:29:35] the setbacks and things there. It’s I expected, oh, you work hard, you do this [01:29:40] and you pass. Um, and so that door opens and you move on [01:29:45] and somebody goes, nah, I don’t like that. Closes the door. I [01:29:50] couldn’t deal with that. It’s like I’m a failure. I’m no good. I’m not. And whereas you look at [01:29:55] people that deal with failure, which is most of life and most of business, it’s handling that rejection. [01:30:00] Uh, and, and you do because it’s something like, is it the Mormons? Like there’s a real, uh, [01:30:05] high percentage of the sort of the entrepreneurs, um, because they spend [01:30:10] first two years of their adulthood get sent on like pilgrimage and, and door [01:30:15] to door rejection, everyone slamming the door in their face. And so somebody [01:30:20] else closing a door. It means nothing to them.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: Somebody closes a door on me, I fall apart. [01:30:25]
Payman Langroudi: I saw this thing on probably on TikTok or something. It was like, if you if your kid [01:30:30] is top of his class and good at sports and all that, he hasn’t come across resilience [01:30:35] against rejection and failure, you know? And [01:30:40] I thought about my daughter, like she, she goes to ballet. She goes to ballet every week, every week. [01:30:45] She’s not the top of her class at ballet. She’s not here, but she keeps on going. Yeah. And I [01:30:50] was thinking, man, you know, if you give that much time to something, at least give it to something that you’re going to be like really [01:30:55] into or whatever. And then when I saw this, I thought, at least she’s building that muscle, [01:31:00] right? That muscle of resilience muscle, you know, which is a really important thing [01:31:05] in adulthood. Right? Definitely.
Mike Gray: Because unfortunately, that is life. Yeah. You know, [01:31:10] and.
Payman Langroudi: You get knocked back in life.
Mike Gray: Right? Yeah. So much. And, and that side. And that’s where [01:31:15] I wish I’m getting better. Um, but I’m so I’m building [01:31:20] that resilience a bit late.
Payman Langroudi: I’m quite interested in this question here of on in any endeavour, whether [01:31:25] it’s one of your ones that even or even, you know, photography or whatever in any [01:31:30] endeavour. Yeah. How much should you rely on resilience and just keep going and [01:31:35] keep going and keep going. And how do you know when’s the time to pivot? You [01:31:40] know, and, and I guess there’s no clear answer to that question. Yeah, [01:31:45] but but for instance, with me, the notion of giving up on something just doesn’t [01:31:50] cross my mind. So I tend to hold on to things a bit too long. Yeah, yeah. [01:31:55] Like sometimes my, my business partner, he’s great. He’s unemotional about he’s just like, let’s kill that product. [01:32:00] Yeah. And I just, I, I’m just so attached to it.
Mike Gray: But that’s, and that’s where I’d make a terrible CEO. [01:32:05] Um, I think I see myself as that I’m the type of person that [01:32:10] a CEO would love to get on board because they’re just fanatical and whatever. And [01:32:15] they work hard. Um, but that’s the whole point of, you know, them [01:32:20] trying to make it successful. You want lots of people around it. You can’t do all that yourself joking.
Payman Langroudi: You’re bad at [01:32:25] delegating or trusting other people.
Mike Gray: Terrible. Again.
Payman Langroudi: Control freak.
Mike Gray: Yes. [01:32:30] It’s less a control freak. And it’s again, without sounding too arrogant, I’m good at a lot of things. And so [01:32:35] to do a good job, often it’s, you know, you want a job, you probably do it yourself. And [01:32:40] so a lot of the time, I do a lot of things myself because of the quality or level that [01:32:45] I want it done. However you just.
Payman Langroudi: Limiting. Yeah.
Mike Gray: You can’t, you hit a [01:32:50] ceiling very quickly.
Payman Langroudi: One thing I’ve learned here is that if you’re giving a job to someone, [01:32:55] by the way, I’m not the best delegator. My best partner is excellent at it. I’m really not that great. But [01:33:00] if you give a job to someone, something. Let’s take it like, I don’t know, I was running the social media of [01:33:05] enlightened myself. Yeah. In the first whenever five years of social media. Yeah. [01:33:10] Right. Then it got to a point where I’d give it to someone. There’s going to be a dip. Yeah, there’s going to be a [01:33:15] period of time where that person’s doing it worse than what you were doing it. Yeah. Yeah. [01:33:20] And you’ve got to be like, allow that dip to happen. Bearing [01:33:25] in mind once you’ve done it a few times, that at one point that person’s going to be doing it much better than you. Yeah. Because [01:33:30] that person’s 100% focussed on that thing. Yeah. But some perfectionist types, [01:33:35] they can’t face that dip. Yeah. Yeah. And I remember like seeing some of our output [01:33:40] at that moment thinking, oh, you know, that’s not my brand. Yeah. Yeah. But [01:33:45] and I think through laziness, I didn’t address it. Right. But then this person ended up being much better than [01:33:50] me at that. Yeah. Yeah. I went on some course, you know, like completely focussed on that. Yeah. Yeah.
Mike Gray: And it’s, [01:33:55] I think my wife’s good for that one in that I will fret over like stupid things. And she [01:34:00] used to, she did jewellery design for about ten years. And in that world everyone’s stealing everyone else’s [01:34:05] ideas and this sort of thing. And I’m like, I’m trying to come up with these inventions. And like, I worry that this [01:34:10] leaked or something like that, I’m like, oh, it’s going to get copied. And she’s like, shut up.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. You’re [01:34:15] fine.
Mike Gray: Um, on that side. So, um.
Payman Langroudi: Chuck, are you going to do your own practice? [01:34:20]
Mike Gray: Should really potentially purely because I [01:34:25] would love to have that control of how things are. But then again, there’s [01:34:30] so many things that I love to spend my time doing now, which I know I would have to sacrifice. [01:34:35] That’s true. And, um, so for example, again, going back, I suppose I say I’m [01:34:40] bad at delegating, but then I think with my education, like obviously now I’m taking it seriously. [01:34:45] Um, I’ve been smarter about that in that, for example, [01:34:50] I gatecrashed, I forget what university it was and they had like a sort of a paper reading [01:34:55] day, um, a literary review and um, the person leading [01:35:00] it at the start said, you know, why do we make you do this? Um, and [01:35:05] it was because even though you can read summaries of these papers [01:35:10] and all that, and it’s an abstract put for you. You. If unless you read it [01:35:15] the paper yourself, you won’t generate your response. And it might be different [01:35:20] to what somebody else has done. And I think that’s a valid point. But for me, I’m [01:35:25] just going to ask somebody that I trust that’s read the paper, and then I don’t have to spend my time [01:35:30] reading a paper from 1985. Uh, I can spend.
Payman Langroudi: It these days. Ai, right?
Mike Gray: Well, [01:35:35] yeah, there’s that side that summarises. Great. Um, but it’s, I [01:35:40] can then put my time into learning CAD. I can, you know, learn 3d printing. I can [01:35:45] on that side. And so I’m still working just as hard as somebody else. And, but I’m terrible [01:35:50] at quoting papers and that’s like absolutely useless. But then you just have.
Payman Langroudi: Does it stress you that someone’s [01:35:55] going to turn up on your course and bedazzle you with like, uh, [01:36:00] science from another.
Mike Gray: Absolutely. And I think.
Payman Langroudi: I tell you, you’re a charlatan. [01:36:05]
Mike Gray: That’s every lecturer’s nightmare, I think, and I’ve been fortunate [01:36:10] in that I certainly with my course, it’s a lot of. It’s been word of mouth [01:36:15] and everyone who wants to do it is really passionate and they just want to be there. [01:36:20] And so everyone’s been awesome. It’s been incredible. And I think I’m [01:36:25] sure I will get that if it keeps building and then somebody’s doing it because they feel they ought [01:36:30] to do it because their bodies did it or they need to keep up and, and, and, and that side and [01:36:35] the best approach I find is just to be honest and say, I don’t know, you [01:36:40] know, you could have a point.
Payman Langroudi: I so respect people who say, I don’t know.
Mike Gray: Yeah. And, and, and [01:36:45] it’s because as well, you’ve got to be careful. I learned this, [01:36:50] um, uh, I lectured in UPenn last year. Um, and, [01:36:55] uh.
Payman Langroudi: How’d that come about?
Mike Gray: Uh, Celine. Uh, [01:37:00] Celine. Yeah. Yeah. So she’s.
Payman Langroudi: She’s there.
Mike Gray: Now. She’s there now. And so I know [01:37:05] her. And then, um. Marcus Blatz and that side. And, uh, I sort [01:37:10] of you can find a paper to support anything. Um, now, so whatever you’re trying [01:37:15] to say, you can just Google, you know, ChatGPT, whatever, or the various other resources [01:37:20] to, um, to, to support what you want to say. And so everyone does that. And, and she’s like, don’t [01:37:25] do that in front of Marcus. And so I’m like last minute taking down all these references [01:37:30] in there and, and it’s much better. It’s much better to even find a paper that argues against [01:37:35] what you’re trying to say, uh, and just be authentic in that side. Um, and [01:37:40] yeah, it’s, I, I respect that too. And I really respect lecturers [01:37:45] who talk about their mistakes. I’m trying to be brave enough to incorporate more of that [01:37:50] into what I’m doing.
Payman Langroudi: It makes for a much better experience for them.
Mike Gray: Because [01:37:55] that’s how I learned the hard way. Um, and so there’s so much value in [01:38:00] that side of.
Payman Langroudi: Things about papers. Yeah. Is that when you’re at To near the [01:38:05] forefront of something you realise much of the literature is [01:38:10] is, is whether you want to call it incorrect or whether you want [01:38:15] to call it out of date or whatever it is.
Mike Gray: You’re never going to be at the cutting edge. [01:38:20] I mean, you will, but it’s yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Like, like I’m waiting.
Mike Gray: For 12 [01:38:25] years.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. I draw an insight. I draw an insight here from from 140,000 [01:38:30] treatments. Yeah. Let’s say I’ve got data on 140,000 [01:38:35] treatments. Yeah. I draw an insight from that. Yeah. Yeah. And then someone will quote me a paper [01:38:40] with 42 patients. Um, and it’s a, it’s a world renowned, you know, name. [01:38:45] Yeah. On 42 patients decided the opposite of my insight that [01:38:50] I’ve brought from 140 000 cases. Yeah. Yeah. You know, like, and [01:38:55] I’m hundred percent sure about this insight. Yeah. If you Google it. Yeah. Hardly [01:39:00] any paper says that that’s true. Yeah. And so it’s almost like, you know, [01:39:05] when you when you understand something or when you’re involved with something, you realise how [01:39:10] like, let’s say, have you ever been involved in a news story where there’s a [01:39:15] journalist involved? Yeah. Where there’s a journalist involved. I mean, news story sounds a bit dramatic, a [01:39:20] PR story where there’s a journalist involved and you’re part of it and you’re close to the situation, [01:39:25] and you read the article and it’s just like, the details are all incorrect. Yeah. You know, and the conclusion [01:39:30] is incorrect. Yeah. So sometimes when you, when you know about something, but [01:39:35] then in our, in our world, where’s the evidence? It’s like a very good question you should [01:39:40] be asking. Yeah.
Mike Gray: And it’s just that balance, isn’t it. And I think that’s part of developing yourself [01:39:45] as a clinician or anything in the world. It’s just using your brain to pick out what’s sensible, [01:39:50] isn’t it on that side? But yeah, because I guess you look at me on paper, you tear [01:39:55] me apart like I shouldn’t be doing any of the treatments that I do. Like, you know, right now I love my soft tissue [01:40:00] work, so I’m doing everything around implants like vertical grafting, rebuilding, papilla, all [01:40:05] that. Oh, really? And and, you know, full mouth rehab, all [01:40:10] that. Technically, I always think, like, what happens if I end up before the GDC and [01:40:15] there’s a panel expert. Yeah. And it would be traditional, say prosthodontics trained [01:40:20] and they’ll be sort of critiquing how I do it. [01:40:25] And technically, you know, there’d be far more by the book. And so it’s, yeah, [01:40:30] it’s a weird one. But like, like you said, it’s applying that common sense. And [01:40:35] for you, you, you, you, you’ve got all that wealth of data and things [01:40:40] to support what it is you’re thinking. So, you know, it’s legit. And again, coming back to that whole margin side, [01:40:45] I worried at first. I’m like, oh, if I don’t drill a margin, but then I’m like, well, we’re putting all [01:40:50] these composites on and they’re definitely thicker than 0.3mm.
Payman Langroudi: Which is not very much, is it? [01:40:55]
Mike Gray: Yeah. And everything’s fine. And so actually, I’ve got [01:41:00] everything in front of me. It’s telling me. Know what you’re thinking of doing. Isn’t that crazy? [01:41:05] Um. And so yeah, you’re fine on that side.
Payman Langroudi: What about Instagram? [01:41:10] Do you find it easy to know?
Mike Gray: It’s hard.
Payman Langroudi: You find it hard.
Mike Gray: It’s a double edged sword, isn’t it? I think [01:41:15] double edged blade in that you you kind of need to do it. I [01:41:20] think in the modern world, I think one of the best things have come out of it is sort of networking and [01:41:25] meeting people. And also the University of Instagram, you see lots of stupid stuff. But again, [01:41:30] that’s down to you to take apart properly. But then there’s so much incredible things everyone wants to [01:41:35] show off. So they’re showing you all these amazing things and it’s like, oh wow, do they do that? How can I do this? How can I tweak that? How [01:41:40] can I apply that? And you can work it out, break it down and, and apply it to where you want to go. So it’s, [01:41:45] it’s awesome in that respect. Um, but then it’s more work. It’s a lot [01:41:50] of work to do it properly. I’ve been terrible these last few months of doing it because I’m focusing, I’ve got other projects [01:41:55] top secret, um, which at some point, uh, when when the pattern [01:42:00] clears, you’ll know about it. But, um, so I, you know, putting time into other [01:42:05] things and that side and the social media side suffered. And because you, you have [01:42:10] to commit yourself or like you said, get someone to [01:42:15] take that over for you. And that again, is probably me. And my [01:42:20] thought process is wrong on this thinking, like, if somebody does it, [01:42:25] they’re not going to get the right angles. They’re not going to try and say, because a lot of my posts are more for dentists, not patients, um, [01:42:30] pretty much all of them. And so that educational side and, and that bit, I feel it [01:42:35] would be difficult for someone to get right unless it’s me, but of course there would be ways around it. I just need to invest [01:42:40] the time and, you know, and plan it. And I’m sure I could. Um, but it’s, uh, [01:42:45] yeah, it’s, it’s a great thing and not a great thing on the same.
Payman Langroudi: Let’s finish with [01:42:50] some quick fire questions. What comes to mind when I say what’s the best lecture you’ve been to?
Mike Gray: Ah, so [01:42:55] my, um, can I have a favourite lecturer? So you know doctor Alice Roberts, [01:43:00] she, she does all that sort of coast to coast thing. She’s an anthropologist. Um, so all [01:43:05] this sort of discovery channel, things like, you know, they’re trying to work out Henry the Eighth.
Payman Langroudi: Or.
Mike Gray: That sort of thing. [01:43:10] Ah, she taught us in Bristol for anatomy and I fancied her. So [01:43:15] I was front row every lesson for, [01:43:20] for, for anatomy. So definitely. Uh, yeah. Doctor Alice Roberts, favourite lecturer.
Payman Langroudi: Nice. [01:43:25] If there was no like constraints at all time or money or anything, is [01:43:30] there a course you’d jump into tomorrow? Like what? What comes to mind?
Mike Gray: I was, I was signed up [01:43:35] to do, um, and it was hard and soft [01:43:40] tissue, a week of hard and soft tissue augmentation. And I’ve just spent too much money. [01:43:45] Uh, and it was, it’s like an eight grand course literally for a week. Um, and [01:43:50] so yeah, I, I want to get that done. Yeah. Tick that off a. It’d be nice to go to [01:43:55] Italy for the week. Both incredible. And I don’t do sort of block grafting. So that’s. [01:44:00] I need to tick that off and get that done. Because the type of implant work [01:44:05] I do, it’s all the sort of the difficult anterior stuff that people don’t want to do. That’s most of my cosmetic [01:44:10] now. I do a lot of the rehab stuff and that’s where. But a lot of it is, you know, [01:44:15] generally working between canines, often trauma or bad dentistry or that side of it. And so [01:44:20] that’s where I want to tick that block grafting side of things. Um, and yeah, [01:44:25] so.
Payman Langroudi: And what comes to mind if, if I say, um, [01:44:30] dentally, what, what, what if you had to give someone advice about, [01:44:35] do you think you’re qualified to give advice on, on this, like career wise, some, some younger [01:44:40] dentist wants to know what, which direction to go or not necessarily. I don’t want you to say ortho [01:44:45] or endo. Yeah, but, but which mindset to have because the thing I’ve been most impressed with you is [01:44:50] the mindset of like, anything’s possible kind of mindset that you’ve got going on as [01:44:55] long as you obsess into it. Yeah. But it’s also you’ve also got [01:45:00] a real like pragmatic edge to that. Yeah. You know, because, you know, someone can dive [01:45:05] into something and not be pragmatic. Yeah. What would you say? What advice would you give to a young dentist? [01:45:10]
Mike Gray: For me, just a broad foundation I think is fantastic. [01:45:15] Um, it’s difficult again, because and this [01:45:20] sort of ties in with stay in your lane, like, and, uh, because it’s [01:45:25] I’m terrible for this. I used to be even worse when I just graduated. Like, oh, such and such gone [01:45:30] off. And they’ve already done a post-grad training and they’re doing this. Oh, they’ve bought a practice and [01:45:35] you just, you look at yourself and be like, I’m useless. Like, what have I done? And [01:45:40] stay in your lane? And like I said, for me, my dentistry was terrible up until 5 or 6 years ago. [01:45:45] Um, and not terrible. I was decent for not knowing anything, but it wasn’t until I [01:45:50] put in started putting in that effort. Um, and so [01:45:55] it’s, yeah, stay in your lane. Just worry about yourself. Um, and again, social media [01:46:00] is terrible for that, isn’t it, with people portraying what they want to portray and not necessarily reality. [01:46:05] And then, um, it’s that broad foundation. I think [01:46:10] it can be very tempting because you think, oh, everyone’s doing this, I need to do this and I need [01:46:15] to specialise. Um, that you can get sort of [01:46:20] coaxed along into finding your niche too early. Whereas [01:46:25] for me, I had a huge base from surgical to restorative. One of the [01:46:30] profs I was with in the restorative process was endo. So I did a year of microscope endo. [01:46:35] Don’t do any of that now. Use it every day in my case assessment and [01:46:40] things. And so that foundation being so broad means I can, [01:46:45] you know, approach a lot with a, in a sensible way. Um, and.
Payman Langroudi: Interesting. [01:46:50]
Mike Gray: Even things outside of dentistry. You look at the, the mechanics on [01:46:55] the motorbikes and like, you know, metal fabrication or woodwork implants [01:47:00] are a self-tapping screw. I’ve done that a million times in metal and wood and all that side of it. So all [01:47:05] the principles stay the same and you can start then tearing things apart. Because when I’m looking at [01:47:10] implants now and I look at how we, we talk a bolt, which is something it’s crazy how precise we [01:47:15] try to be with implants. We’re so imprecise when we. The simplest thing of screwing [01:47:20] a, a bolt in and we talk it. Because you speak to someone [01:47:25] in a machine shop, which I do regularly when my bikes are falling apart. And that. And it’s like, okay, so talk [01:47:30] well, with the torque wrench, the bolt needs to be in motion when you’re talking. Otherwise, [01:47:35] the minute you stop, you’ve got coefficient of friction involved in that. You should lubricate the torque. What temperature [01:47:40] are things at? And we don’t look at any of that. We just kind of nip it up and it’s done.
Mike Gray: And it’s [01:47:45] so inaccurate and so straight away. Then I’m thinking, okay, how can I do things? So when I do my [01:47:50] implants, I call it a shakedown. When you build a motorbike, you take it out for a ride [01:47:55] and then you get it back and you check all the nuts and bolts and tighten up whatever’s come loose. So [01:48:00] whenever I fit an implant, I get them back two weeks, two months later, after they’ve been chewing on it and [01:48:05] check the torque on that bolt and again, checking the torque, you think, oh, you just nip it up. No, you have to back [01:48:10] it out first so that the bolt is turning without the coefficient of friction [01:48:15] having to overcome that. So you can actually get an accurate torque reading every [01:48:20] time. It will nip up a little bit. And whether that’s because of a temperature change or that side of it. So [01:48:25] when I say my implants out for a shakedown, always nips up a little bit afterwards, and there would be science [01:48:30] behind that. And somebody, somebody do a paper that won’t.
Payman Langroudi: Be verbal skills. Yeah. So because.
Mike Gray: It’s [01:48:35] that. So it’s that broad base.
Payman Langroudi: Debate says his design and tech GCSE [01:48:40] was much more useful is much more useful to him than chemistry [01:48:45] Biology. A level off for me. Agree?
Mike Gray: Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah [01:48:50] yeah.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: Absolutely. And and it’s it’s that sort of, you know, [01:48:55] that and I and putting into that side of things. So, uh, yeah, broad [01:49:00] based though it can be frustrating, but nothing is wasted in that. And [01:49:05] like I said, there’s so many treatments I don’t do now, but because I’ve had experience and I understand them, it [01:49:10] all helps with building that foundation of the bigger cases [01:49:15] I’m doing now.
Payman Langroudi: Let’s get to the final, final bit of the pod, which [01:49:20] starts off with fancy dinner party. Um, three guests.
Mike Gray: Are. [01:49:25]
Payman Langroudi: Dead or alive?
Mike Gray: No. So for me, it’s it’s, you know, call [01:49:30] it, uh, sort of soft or cuddly or friends and family. [01:49:35] It’s, it’s, uh, like I said, I had the sad thing [01:49:40] of one of my childhood besties passing away, uh, New Year’s. And [01:49:45] would I be more sad if I went for [01:49:50] dinner with somebody famous or somebody passes away? Or [01:49:55] I went for a dinner with my friends and family and it’s I’m going to have the best night with the people. I get on with the. [01:50:00] I can have the most fun joke and laugh. And so yeah, just nearest [01:50:05] and dearest, closest friends. That would be my dinner party.
Payman Langroudi: It’s beautiful. It’s beautiful. I don’t normally allow [01:50:10] that sort of answer, you know, but on this occasion I will think on this occasion I will because, [01:50:15] you know, I’m like, you know, come on surely, Gandhi. Yeah. If you could sit with him. [01:50:20] But but on this occasion I will.
Mike Gray: And again, maybe that’s me being blasé because [01:50:25] I’ve been fortunate to meet lots of incredible people. I’ve met world champions, multiple world champions [01:50:30] in sport I’ve met.
Payman Langroudi: It doesn’t interest.
Mike Gray: You. People at the highest level in music. In [01:50:35] surgery. I’ve been fortunate to meet some of the best surgeons.
Payman Langroudi: That was that bit you did about the peeing [01:50:40] in the toilet? Even even Oasis have to pee in this toilet.
Mike Gray: But [01:50:45] that’s the.
Payman Langroudi: Thing. Yeah, that’s a good point. That was from that was from Rockfield Studios.
Mike Gray: So again, [01:50:50] I was fortunate to to have a recording session, Rockfield Studios, which famously Bohemian Rhapsody [01:50:55] was was created on the piano there. And like I said, you’ve had Oasis in there and they [01:51:00] did the album. What’s the what’s the story? Morning glory. And yeah, famously, they [01:51:05] had a microphone in the hallway that picked up some of the birds. So whenever you go there, everyone always puts this microphone in the hallway [01:51:10] and, and records it. But at the end of that hallway, there’s just a, just a grotty little toilet. Um, [01:51:15] and, and it’s funny, I went there to, to use the toilet and [01:51:20] I stood there and looking at this toilet and I’m thinking of all these incredible people that have [01:51:25] had to take a pee in that toilet before me. And it’s like, so again, advice [01:51:30] to anyone out there and young people, all these incredible dentists and things that you’re looking up to, whether you’re looking [01:51:35] up to me or yourself or anyone like that, they’ve all got to pee like you and I. [01:51:40] Yeah. So, uh, yeah, it’s a beautiful story. It’s a beautiful analogy.
Payman Langroudi: Love that man. It’s [01:51:45] been a massive pleasure, dude, a massive pleasure. I really learned a lot from your outlook. Uh, [01:51:50] you know, you say that broad base, but then you dive deep. Yeah. You know, that combination [01:51:55] is facilitates that though.
Mike Gray: And I think that’s, that’s that important side and that [01:52:00] stops you getting trapped.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah.
Mike Gray: Uh, like we said in that, oh, I have to do it this [01:52:05] way because this is how I’m, how I’m told.
Payman Langroudi: So kid on the way, huh?
Mike Gray: Yeah. [01:52:10] Got a baby due end of April, so I’m sure life would change.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Go berserk. Go [01:52:15] berserk from now until the baby’s done. Yeah. Yeah. Like, [01:52:20] go travel with that one year old. Yeah. It’s amazing. Yeah. Number one, you don’t pay your ticket. Yeah. You [01:52:25] know, once you start paying four times a flight to Thailand, you realise. Oh my [01:52:30] God. Yeah. Yeah. Enjoy. Enjoy it as well.
Mike Gray: As the [01:52:35] business side.
Payman Langroudi: Stop and smell the roses, too. Yeah.
Mike Gray: Yeah. Absolutely.
Payman Langroudi: Yeah. Lovely to have you, man.
Mike Gray: Thank you. No [01:52:40] thank you ever so much. And like I said, absolute pleasure and privilege.
Payman Langroudi: To get a party together. Yeah. [01:52:45] In ministry. Yeah, absolutely.
Mike Gray: I’m looking forward to it. I’m going to be there.
Payman Langroudi: It’s going to be good.
Mike Gray: So, uh. Yeah. [01:52:50] Can’t wait.
Payman Langroudi: Sounds incredible. Thanks, man.
Mike Gray: No, thank you so much.
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